TOUGH LESSONS ABOUT LOVE, MONEY AND MARRIAGE || Soila and Curtis with Friends

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  • @SoilaandCurtis
    @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +14

    For Land Inquiries Contact;
    Qhwetu Capital Limited
    +254 700 333332

  • @98Patrobas
    @98Patrobas Рік тому +71

    Unrelated, but it's kinda interesting that it's majorly women who are usually on your comment sections. It's disappointing that we don't have more single men (like myself) on here. I will definitely try and share your vids with some of my homies because your content is super educational and I love it.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +5

      Thanks a lot Patrobas. Yes, do share. That would be great to get more dudes engaged in the conversations. Though I have met a number of people who say they watch on TV, which doesn't give provision to comment. Some say they watch with their wives or girlfriend who will comment on their behalf. 😂

    • @reensmunene132
      @reensmunene132 Рік тому +2

      Good point

  • @christinekinyua8832
    @christinekinyua8832 Рік тому +6

    Sometimes l dont feel like building a home is an investment. Using a real Example, we bought a land somewhere in the outskirt of Nrb, Our budget for the house we wanted was around 13m which means we had to take a loan. We sat and thought so much about it. Investing 13m in a house that will not give me a coin. I did calculations of the rent l pay and saw if l lived in rental, That 13m would pay my rent for 260 months which is close to 22yrs. According to my maths l better use the money to buy more lands and keep on selling after every few years and put up some business that will keep on generating money. l will build a home when having a very good cash flow. My peace of mind

  • @injilipecarl
    @injilipecarl Рік тому +18

    There's this way Makena just effortlessly completes Ithan's sentences! And he taps her to finish what he says 😁 What a connection. It's been a great and enlightening conversation, thanks to you, Soila, and Curtis.

  • @Gideon_CK
    @Gideon_CK Рік тому +15

    That parachute landing clip after Curtis said what he wanted for the wedding has me out 😂😂🤣🤣😆😆

  • @stephaniewakesho1264
    @stephaniewakesho1264 Рік тому +6

    21 and learning so much from you guys to make wise decisions thank youuuuu ❤️❤️

  • @cynthiaakinyi2014
    @cynthiaakinyi2014 Рік тому +13

    I LOVE the question Soila asked about being obedient with the money that God gave you for something you asked. Wow, that really left me thinking. This episode is amazing 💯❤

  • @isitgodly3059
    @isitgodly3059 Рік тому +5

    This couple is so underated

  • @naomieogwoka1592
    @naomieogwoka1592 Рік тому +8

    I'm eagerly waiting 💯

  • @langatchepkoech717
    @langatchepkoech717 Рік тому +2

    The guy in the middle aletwe tena. He‘s got useful insights on finances & property. Thanks!

  • @Lizmwangi9150
    @Lizmwangi9150 Рік тому +2

    ❤❤❤
    Great Content!
    I pray that God elevates youuu....you don't know how many souls and marriages you are saving out here 😍
    These episodes are literally classes!

  • @GULFGISTyvonne
    @GULFGISTyvonne Рік тому +6

    I love this channel it's a class of lessons and joy 😂❤🎉🎉

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Yvonne. Really glad you are enjoying the content.

  • @philamakhubu28
    @philamakhubu28 Рік тому +1

    Money and God. I once asked God to give money to pay off my debts. God being faithful, gave me a dream about the kind of job he would give even right down to my position.{I know the details because I journalled it} So the time came and I had the position and the money and to be quiet honest the debts were the last thing on my mind because there just seemed to be greater needs at that point in my life even giving to others and more. When I realized this, the job was gone, but I now understand that clearly my debts only bother me when I don't have money but when I do they don't. Maybe Karembe can give me perspective where this is concerned.

  • @judymwendwa332
    @judymwendwa332 Рік тому +1

    Creativity|Wisdom|Rich content. I enjoyed the conversation. Good job guys!

  • @thegodlyprincess_kenya
    @thegodlyprincess_kenya Рік тому +1

    Watching this I am just feeling grateful to God for marriages that are working😊Also I love how Karimi is very expressive and open minded.

  • @christinenjeriwaithaka7293
    @christinenjeriwaithaka7293 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing great insights. Hongera to the Wamalwa’s for providing this wonderful platform of continuous learning. Baraka

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому

      Thank you Chrisdtine for tuning in. Remember to share with your friends.

  • @ivykirera287
    @ivykirera287 Рік тому

    I love this segment. Real solutions that are practical, especially at young Christian family level. Money does have an effect. How can two walk together unless they agree.
    Karebe has great wisdom. I like that he breaks the pressures of Having Money... Cheers to better family financial decisions.

  • @thegratitudeattitude67
    @thegratitudeattitude67 8 місяців тому

    It's a really good sign that the couples clothes are almost of the same colour scheme. Both couples are in sync.

  • @eunicemwangi4065
    @eunicemwangi4065 Рік тому

    Keep these open discussions coming, I love how open in your relationship you are to let us in , Asante.

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo 10 місяців тому

    Guys this is a very important topic especially with all the lay offs and business closures going on that are rendering mens jobs insecure, inadequste or non existent. This is creating a lot of stress amongst couples and suicide rates are increasing especially amongst men.

  • @keziamathuku1528
    @keziamathuku1528 Рік тому +2

    I have learnt alot ,thank you.Agnes i would like this Land conversation......let Him come again.

  • @Don_Pierre_K
    @Don_Pierre_K 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm with Ithan on tungsten ring. You can never go wrong!!!
    If I would go back in time, I would invest more in our honeymoon.
    Following Soila's thought on investment ideas as a family, is owning a home considered as an investment, or is it an asset?

  • @lydiahkimani9301
    @lydiahkimani9301 Рік тому

    Karebe is wise. Great content as usual, may God keep using you Soila and Curtis

  • @ItsAmazingGrace_
    @ItsAmazingGrace_ 5 місяців тому

    33:08 😂😂😂😂😂let me tell you something LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING

  • @hellenkariuki8544
    @hellenkariuki8544 Рік тому

    Really enjoyed this episode. God redirected me here especially on the Land matter. Soila talk to Karebe nicely iyo discount ya ladies /women icome through!

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 Рік тому +7

    Such an amazing conversation. Soila has given a real example. I have been in such a situation where I asked God for sth, He provided then I used that cash for sth different. I lost the "investment". Wow May God keep us hearing Him.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +1

      That thing is real. When you ask God for money to do a specific thing, when the money comes, do exactly what you asked for.

    • @judithokari8356
      @judithokari8356 Рік тому

      Wow have realized the same thing.

  • @annahr8282
    @annahr8282 Рік тому

    I love money convos ,this was particularly insightful,thank you!

  • @winniewainaina3143
    @winniewainaina3143 Рік тому +7

    Fantastic conversations but seems you now need mics to improve sound quality

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +1

      Hi Winnie. Thanks for pointing that out. We actually have a mic but had some technical issues that occurred during the recording. Sorry for the inconvenience on the listening experinece.

  • @malombomwarumba8143
    @malombomwarumba8143 Рік тому

    This was so enlightening.. Now for a proper round 2 with the Mr

  • @mercymungai9532
    @mercymungai9532 Рік тому +2

    hey guys l love the conversation you guys should bring ben and Wanjiru Njiru

  • @kennedywambua188
    @kennedywambua188 Рік тому

    This is just vibes. I think for me the best investment is that which matches my goals. So there is no one fit it all investment.

  • @joharimwatonoka3836
    @joharimwatonoka3836 Рік тому

    I have learned today we need to also invest in people, thank you.

  • @allysokech
    @allysokech Рік тому +1

    Wonderful episode, I've learnt alot on finances.Thanks Soila & Curtis for sharing this.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for coming on board Alice. Glad you enjoyed the content.

  • @michelleodhiambo2792
    @michelleodhiambo2792 Рік тому

    Thank you guys for this! Very very important information being given here. Wonderful questions and answers

  • @kendikiruja9890
    @kendikiruja9890 Рік тому

    Your wedding was amazing Soila
    I've watched it severally on MME

  • @kwambydee187
    @kwambydee187 Рік тому +2

    Am stuck at the rings😂😂😂🎉 because am almost newly getting married and I have considered all the contributions 😅😅

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому

      Hahahaha. 😂 Imagine, some things are not necessary. We are the ones who like to make them a big deal. But I would say, as long as you have agreed with your spouse, that's what matters.

  • @PatienceNgari
    @PatienceNgari Рік тому +2

    I joined recently...and I love it😊😊😍😍ya'll just fun...especially with the friends edition wuuuhh🎉

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +1

      Hi Patience. Thanks for coming through. Glads you are enjoying it here. Rmemeber to share and invite others too. 🙂

  • @salaneisoittara1343
    @salaneisoittara1343 Рік тому +2

    Off Topic Curtis uko na macho ya Rhemani😁😁, Ahh I need more of this money talk coz Wueeeh !!🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +1

      Hahahaha. Like father like son. More money conversations coming up. Stay Tuned.

  • @sheilandinda7095
    @sheilandinda7095 Рік тому

    Jimmy my uni classmate… glad to see u. Good insights there

  • @joymutiga3219
    @joymutiga3219 Рік тому

    I have been here since kitambo....and I am here to stay❤❤

  • @drmutindikakuti1012
    @drmutindikakuti1012 Рік тому +1

    I would first save for a BANGING GETAWAY HONEYMOON then plan the wedding.....this is where the marriage begins.....i think. i am likely to remember and frown over a crappy honeymoon than a wedding.

  • @paul_kariuki
    @paul_kariuki 10 місяців тому

    From one land seller to another, I am all for young Kenyans investing in land, own land before marriage, own land together after your wedding, own land in different areas.

  • @ministerChap009
    @ministerChap009 Рік тому

    Am watching Your wedding now on maisha magic East,it was lit🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @sarah0yagi274
    @sarah0yagi274 Рік тому +3

    For me what i compromised is the gown because i want it to be shipped from Dubai and imgn that week my mother was coming for USA she brought for me to cut the cost it was really expensive man ghai❤❤❤❤

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому

      Yep, shipping costs often drive the prices of things over the roof. It's really a compromise for most thing that people want for weddings.

  • @mukamissmallkitchen4971
    @mukamissmallkitchen4971 Рік тому +1

    Eye opening conversation!

  • @esthermulee5129
    @esthermulee5129 Рік тому +4

    A very eye opening conversation. I love it.

  • @amosbanda-gx8pe
    @amosbanda-gx8pe Рік тому

    Am a keen follower since, thanks alot

  • @kaddumarvian1257
    @kaddumarvian1257 Рік тому +2

    Hey thanks for the show.
    Very important topics to discuss.
    Am a viewer from Uganda. When you speak in swahili am off. Could you atleast put subtitles.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +1

      Hey Marvin. Sorry for the language barrier. We'll be keen to put subs on the next one.

  • @brianonganga2636
    @brianonganga2636 Рік тому +1

    This is great material. Keep it up.
    A question for you, isn't it better to have these questions during the pre-marital period as you sign pre-nuptial agreements for both parties? I believe signing pre-nuptial agreements will shed more light on the money habits of the couple before entering the marriage.

    • @kandisphere8828
      @kandisphere8828 Рік тому

      I am a born-again Christian, and I also think that prenups are necessary in marriage. People are willing to enter into a marriage contract as defined by the government under the general Marriage Act, but most people especially Christians, would have a problem with writing their own Marriage Act/own marriage terms and conditions.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +2

      This is a very critical observation. Pre-nuptials sometimes are tricky and can be misapplied wrongly if people have agendas. The lack of it can also bring issues if a spouse has wrong intentions. This is definitely a conversation worth having. We can structure it for the next one.

  • @candyvore10
    @candyvore10 Рік тому

    Haya sawa I have commented endelea na video

  • @cynthianyamasyo8800
    @cynthianyamasyo8800 Рік тому +1

    Soila I got my dream rings 8 year later am glad I waited I got twin rings 2 sets .
    I have 4wonderful huuuge rings

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому

      That's the way to go! Sometimes good things take time to come.

  • @mercylinenyairabu3289
    @mercylinenyairabu3289 Рік тому

    Makenas laughter &soila ❤❤❤❤ l love them so much

  • @gracembaye530
    @gracembaye530 Рік тому +1

    Good content pace setters

  • @imungukalevera8671
    @imungukalevera8671 Рік тому

    Wanjiku Karugo based at Village Market is a very well renowned lawyer for diaspora folks.

  • @bernicehadassah
    @bernicehadassah 11 місяців тому

    I've learnt alot from this video❤❤❤

  • @christinenjeriwaithaka7293
    @christinenjeriwaithaka7293 Рік тому +1

    “Kwani uliingia business bila nguo…?”Curtis amenimaliza 😂😂

  • @MarinaRembo
    @MarinaRembo Рік тому +1

    Love ❤🎉

  • @user-kk6ky6hi1w
    @user-kk6ky6hi1w Рік тому +1

    Me at 2 am listening to the oozing words of wisdom 😂😂😂

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому

      Hahahaha. Wisdom hits different at that time of the night.

  • @Ashusheme
    @Ashusheme Рік тому

    Amazing conversation 👌

  • @judithokari8356
    @judithokari8356 Рік тому

    Great conversation

  • @bramuelmwai7998
    @bramuelmwai7998 Рік тому

    Parachute jameeeni 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Stacykabirori2
    @Stacykabirori2 Рік тому +1

    You guys mwah

  • @africangirl189
    @africangirl189 Рік тому +1

    I don't even know why i watch such videos while i have zero plans of getting married 😂 it's the ( FOMO) in me i guess 😂

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому +1

      Hahaha. It's always good to have this kind of information. You never know when and where it will come in handy, either for you or for other people. 🙂

  • @LisaM007
    @LisaM007 Рік тому +2

  • @wanjikukariukiroyalty6515
    @wanjikukariukiroyalty6515 Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂😂 soila I am with you at suzuki alto sio gari 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @princevip5595
    @princevip5595 Рік тому

    Damn. This is eye-opening ❤. Love it

  • @Gloriakerry
    @Gloriakerry 9 місяців тому

    Nimesubscribe basiii anzeni cheii

  • @wa_wira
    @wa_wira Рік тому +2

    Having no money is horrible..
    You could love each other and be willing to work things out and all but poverty 😢poverty guys??sad story.
    From experience...i have seen what drastic financial changes(-ve) can do to partnership.can be costly if not handled right.

  • @carolynemuthoni4580
    @carolynemuthoni4580 Рік тому +1

    You need to pay hour self but also invest into the business

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому

      Yes, getting that balance is the tricky bit. But very important.

  • @drmutindikakuti1012
    @drmutindikakuti1012 Рік тому

    Huyo wa kuinvest kwa watu anilipie fees.....heheheeeeeeee!!!! jus kidding.

  • @gloriamutoni5137
    @gloriamutoni5137 Рік тому

    Since you're talking about money and God, next time you might want to talk about whether tithe should be paid from net or gross salary..for a very long time I used to pay from my net salary

  • @drmutindikakuti1012
    @drmutindikakuti1012 Рік тому

    I probably would be the spendthrift

  • @graceimbukwa7756
    @graceimbukwa7756 Рік тому

    Soila u looking good u very content with the way u look at least u didn't come for a fashion show🎉🎉

  • @anita54869
    @anita54869 Рік тому +1

    Soila hio nywele hapana, you had so much hair

    • @Nahurira_
      @Nahurira_ Рік тому +7

      The faster you realize that's her natural hair twists , the better you will know her hair is really long

    • @ivykirera287
      @ivykirera287 Рік тому +4

      I think her hair is beautiful. Doing twists with her own hair and she can hold it up in a bun that's impressive. Her hair is just fine. I love it❤❤

  • @wanjikufaith
    @wanjikufaith 8 місяців тому

    What’s your email?

  • @charitynjeri6876
    @charitynjeri6876 Рік тому +2

    Am earger to learn its always a learning experience with you ❤🤍

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  Рік тому

      Thank you Charity. We are glad to have you here.

  • @bryanmwendwa4730
    @bryanmwendwa4730 Рік тому +1