What Really Makes Marriage Work, 8 Years Later || Soila and Curtis

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  • Опубліковано 14 січ 2025

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  • @mathewrym
    @mathewrym 21 годину тому +6

    I actually love that you guys are involving the child and camera guy.💯😂😂

    • @victoria_aa
      @victoria_aa 5 годин тому

      I love it too 😂

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  2 години тому

      Hahaha. Veery soon they will be part of the conversation.

  • @naomiwanjiku589
    @naomiwanjiku589 12 годин тому +1

    Soo good! Enriching is the word. The car analogy definitely makes sense. I read somewhere once that marriage should be made up of two servants and not two masters.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  2 години тому

      Two servants, not two masters. I love it!

  • @shelnjogu5175
    @shelnjogu5175 15 годин тому +2

    Such a fantastic conversation! Really blessed by you

  • @Bresley88
    @Bresley88 18 годин тому +3

    This was such a good conversation to listen to and I loved the car analogy. Could the engine be the Holy spirit?

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  2 години тому

      Thanks for watching Bresley. It could. I think what would matter is how we explain his purpose in a marriage...

  • @sandrajeruto7706
    @sandrajeruto7706 20 годин тому +5

    Hey, with the analogy of a car this is my opinion:
    Manufacturer- God
    Engine - The union( you two coming together)

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  2 години тому

      Union can also work, because an engine has many components within it. So perhaps unity could be one of the components within the engine?

  • @Karen4realsfit
    @Karen4realsfit 36 хвилин тому

    Such a good conversation,❤❤

  • @phoebemwaniki8298
    @phoebemwaniki8298 18 хвилин тому

    So good

  • @lillogathua7428
    @lillogathua7428 19 хвилин тому

    Weeh I'm learning alot ...😮

  • @dorahmulinge3800
    @dorahmulinge3800 21 годину тому +2

    Your analogies are so on point

  • @wilfredbanholzer2393
    @wilfredbanholzer2393 22 години тому +3

    Watching❤

  • @drdebbiemorandy507
    @drdebbiemorandy507 12 годин тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️!

  • @wilfredbanholzer2393
    @wilfredbanholzer2393 22 години тому +2

    Being blessed❤❤❤

  • @valeriemwango6209
    @valeriemwango6209 14 годин тому +2

    I think communication is the life blood of any relationship. Cz there are many relationships that are working and successful but the two parties are not necessarily Christians. And like you said, God can’t work on your marriage unless you do; the work is on the owners; the manufacturer has already blessed the union and given the tools to make it work. If you stop using the tools, the car stops. So in my experience, and observation, communication is the life blood of a relationship.

    • @SoilaandCurtis
      @SoilaandCurtis  2 години тому

      Fantastic! Actually, reading your comment has just made me realize something, the engine has other components within it as well, that make the engine work. Would you say communication could be one of the components of the engine?

  • @ranzakinyanjui8946
    @ranzakinyanjui8946 16 годин тому +2

  • @shelnjogu5175
    @shelnjogu5175 15 годин тому +1

    I'd think of the Holy Spirit as the oil or fuel

  • @Mr_ely
    @Mr_ely 13 годин тому +2

    Engine = Oneness/unity = elimination of confusion (sense of direction) = proper functioning of other functionalities; and the chain continues.
    With zero maintenance e.g. oil change/lubrication, there would be friction that would lead to gears worn out = ultimate break-down.
    HE dwells in unity and is not an author of confusion.
    "where one or two are gather HE is within"