"top is the more dominant one, bottom is the more submissive one" can we not. doms are dominant, subs are submissive. top and bottom literally just indicate if you prefer giving or receiving, they've got nothing to do with dom/sub dynamics.
@Tala Habern no, they don't. if you're a bottom you're literally just a bottom. if you're also submissive you're a submissive bottom. there are lots of people who prefer being dominant while receiving or submissive when topping - great dynamics by the way! i just mean there are individual terms for all of that and using them like that just creates more confusion
@Tala Habern oh no no i didn't mean "they don't" as in "people don't use the term for this reason", i meant "they don't" as in "bottoms aren't inherently submissive". i absolutely agree, i just said that the reason people use these terms this way isn't even really valid anyway, since, as i said, these terms aren't interchangeable as being a top or a bottom doesn't necessarily mean you're submissive/dominant.
these straight people didn’t even get the popular ones.. they’re obviously not going to get less mainstream gay slang. there’s a lot of things wrong with this video but wow people find a problem with everything. just to see so much more educated than everyone else
@@christianjimenez5915 "fucking millennials"... like your generation are the only ppl allowed to define what gay slang is? You do realize, that most millennials are hitting 30 very soon tho. And FYI kiki is not a new word, it actually comes from Ballroom which is quite literally the epitome of gayness and the origin of most gay slang. So take several seats, miss thing, before you try to call out an entire generation.
Chris G. gay slang is literally just aave that gay ppl claim as their own. no, white gay its not ur slang its from ballrooms that were segregated and black lgbtq+ poc had to find their own place and own slang. thats what “gay slang” is.
@@ComradeHaz Imagine, you're gay but don't spend a lot of time on social media learning these slangs or don't/can't surround yourself with a lot of gay communities? I mean knowing and using these words don't make you more gay then the rest fam 😅
"top is dominant, bottom is submissive" HMMM NO. That's dom and sub. You can be a dom top, a dom bottom, a sub top or sub bottom. Are they even gay lmao
You know what really grinds my gears? When people cannot differentiate between top/bottom, dom/sub, masc/fem, sadist/masochist, etc. and confuse one dynamic with another (assuming they’ll be automatically connected)
Oh my God, I felt so old when they "knew" kiki for the Drake song, and the first song that came out to my mind, was "Let's have a kiki"... And I'm only 16
Absolutely loved this video! Laughed heaps when they were trying to guess what NPNC meant. Also was really nice to see all the coworkers being so accepting of the LGBTQ+ community, wish more coworkers were like you guys legit :)
I exited a ten year marriage last year, no longer pretend I'm straight, and have zero knowledge of much of this. Am binging on this type of content, and so much of it is presented in such a fun way, by people on that right kind of wavelength and giving off just a generally happy vibe :) I wish we had UA-cam when I was younger, things may have turned out so differently :)
“Slang word”: Kiki Straight girls: “KiKi, Do YoU LoVe Me” Meanwhile I was thinking of the song that’s like “let’s have a Kiki, I wanna have a Kiki. Lock the doors tight!” Dang I’m gay
I love the ending (done in real time or by edit) that the two girls are talking about Kiki and how much they love it and the two boys are talking about how much they loved bussy
I'm a gay dude and I had no idea what most of these meant. Maybe they're like "fem gay" terms? I do know however that a bottom does not necessarily mean submissive and top doesn't necessarily mean dominant. The whole term power bottom is a dominant bottom. AND I know plenty of sub tops.
I hated of when the straight girls started using these terms. DUUUUDE I wanted to tear my ears off when they started saying they'd quote "VANJIE" when they were going to leave. And how they said that they "liked Drag" but didn't know who Miss Vanjie was. (I'm not able to watch Drag bc my dads homophobic and I'd die if he found out and I still know who Vanjie is. They were just cringy af)
From my understanding it's usually like... black women/aave ---> white gay men --> influencers -> white teen girls/ >general usage > up until we get to awkward corporate advertisements trying to capitalize/seem relatable and Denny's is on twitter saying they're a 'simp for their 5.99 pancakes' or whatever the fuck
the power bottom one was so uncomfortable for the guys lol
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Lmaoo yes
THEY WERE *NOT* PREPARED FOR THAT
Bro tho, the entire time I was waiting for them to figure it out, as a power bottom myself
Top isn’t always the dominant one, it has nothing to do with being dominant or submissive but who gives and who receives.
Basically, the top is the one fricking and the bottom is the one getting fricked 🥵
@@its_huaa LMFAO yes😍✨
@@laurab1686 HAHA, I SPEAK AS A BOTTOM HERE LMAO
@@its_huaa how does a bottom speak tf?
@@fair7monster763 well, i'm single so my mouth isn't filled with dicks an cum all the time 😂😂😂
"omg it's like that drake song!" "all i can think of is NSYNC" they are 100% straight.
Ol, Don't I was singing the lets have a Kiki by RuPaul 😂😂
The only song I know about anything with a Kiki in it is by scissor sisters which is entitled, let's have a kiki.
Lance from NSYNC has a husband WDYM
But this was meee
LMFAO
"top is the more dominant one, bottom is the more submissive one" can we not. doms are dominant, subs are submissive. top and bottom literally just indicate if you prefer giving or receiving, they've got nothing to do with dom/sub dynamics.
@Tala Habern no, they don't. if you're a bottom you're literally just a bottom. if you're also submissive you're a submissive bottom. there are lots of people who prefer being dominant while receiving or submissive when topping - great dynamics by the way! i just mean there are individual terms for all of that and using them like that just creates more confusion
@Tala Habern oh no no i didn't mean "they don't" as in "people don't use the term for this reason", i meant "they don't" as in "bottoms aren't inherently submissive". i absolutely agree, i just said that the reason people use these terms this way isn't even really valid anyway, since, as i said, these terms aren't interchangeable as being a top or a bottom doesn't necessarily mean you're submissive/dominant.
@Tala Habern but yeah, you can't stop anyone from using whatever terms they want. also yes, please, open deep and honest conversations about sex 2020.
yeah they're just wrong
orthophosphoric took the words out of my mouth
A lot of these questions are just about Grindr and RPDR, gay slang goes beyond Grindr and RPDR lmao
so like.... cruising? or the beat?
these straight people didn’t even get the popular ones.. they’re obviously not going to get less mainstream gay slang. there’s a lot of things wrong with this video but wow people find a problem with everything. just to see so much more educated than everyone else
Yeah but then they can’t cater to the straights ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Exactly
YES SO TRUE
“Straight people guess gay slang”. Sis, this is not gay slang. This is Grindr slang. Different thing.
Kyng Leo Kiki, Kai Kai and Miss Vanjie are not Grindr slang at all lmao
Chris G. that’s more drag slang
Chris G. kiki and kai kai? what kind of gay says that... fucking millenials
@@christianjimenez5915 "fucking millennials"... like your generation are the only ppl allowed to define what gay slang is? You do realize, that most millennials are hitting 30 very soon tho. And FYI kiki is not a new word, it actually comes from Ballroom which is quite literally the epitome of gayness and the origin of most gay slang. So take several seats, miss thing, before you try to call out an entire generation.
Chris G. gay slang is literally just aave that gay ppl claim as their own. no, white gay its not ur slang its from ballrooms that were segregated and black lgbtq+ poc had to find their own place and own slang. thats what “gay slang” is.
Im a lesbian but after watching this, i guess im still straight
ong smh but im a non-binary lesbian. i think this is Australian gay slang haha.
its drag queens slang not gays or lesbian. They just like calling everything gay slang
To be fair, lesbians aren’t really included in lgbt culture tbh, so no wonder we don’t know half this shit
@@phylasvell aw
@@phylasvell Nah we just our own slang like all the other parts of the LGBTQ community.
"What's a pic?" Lmao this guy
Smh if this video could get any worse lmfao
@Junaid Iqbal not really, pic can sound like "pick", so pretty easily confusing if you're not constantly on dating apps.
Lmao yeh🤣that’s a cry day word for me
these were Grindr and RuPaul’s Drag Race/drag related terms so not necessarily gay terms but go off BuzzFeed
Actually ik alot of LGBT people who use these terms and they're not on Grindr or watch RuPaul so you're wrong
they rlly said miss vanjie and left----- bitch.....
NICE PFP
1:20 no no no no omg y’all are thinking too straight
B MC The cringe.....
Gay
That's too straight...even for straight people
dont do crack yep. That’s me
when you are gay but not knowing a single word of these
EXACTLY
you dont know what a power bottom is?? are you 14? lol I mean, no shame if you are, but that's a pretty common word in the gay community.
tpn slays uwu Same but bussy aswell
@@ComradeHaz Imagine, you're gay but don't spend a lot of time on social media learning these slangs or don't/can't surround yourself with a lot of gay communities? I mean knowing and using these words don't make you more gay then the rest fam 😅
@@syllenab7928 exactly being a gay guy just means you like other men 😂😂. The rest are extras 😂😂😂
If I hear another straight person say "YASSSSSSSSSS QUEEN" I'm going to tear my ears off my head.
I'm straight and I use it, I thought it was just a slang, not gay slang lol
Who cares, honestly.
if i hear anyone say "yasss queen" regardless of sexuality, you are getting slapped. no questions asked
AloneMystic you seem kinda hot...dm me.....
horseattack 69 omw. bend over
I’m gay and this is SO cringeworthy!
Nice pic
Half of it is grindr-speak
Sameeeee
Likewise. I cringed all the way through the video
Tyrell ikr
When kiki shows:
Me: A KIKI IS A PARTY
FOR CALMING ALL YOUR NERVES
WE'RE DISSING TEA AND SERVING
JUST DESSERTS ONE MAY DESERVE
Lucaix 0 OH THANK GOD IM NOT THE ONLY ONE AHAH
Lucaix 0 is it bad the only reason I knew that song was from watching glee 💀
LMAO SAME
SAME OMG
And though the sun is rising, few may choose to leave
"top is dominant, bottom is submissive" HMMM NO. That's dom and sub. You can be a dom top, a dom bottom, a sub top or sub bottom. Are they even gay lmao
@Junaid Iqbal I don't think you understand my comment, read again
@@joaorodrigues7993
Where I am from a bottom is highly expected to be submissive, if the contrary, results undesireable.
@@ernestgasp well its fun to see the differences between different places. From what i know, being a bottom isnt synonym with being a sub
"Not penetrating no communication"
OH HONEY
I thought the girls said they liked drag race but didn’t know who Miss Vanjie was 🙄😳
Amy Louise VANJIEEE
Miss... VaaNJIEEE
And they didn’t know Kiki and kai Kai
I meaaaaaaan there are so many seasons
Bob the Buster calm down tf
This should really be renamed "Straight people guess gay slang from grindr"
Let's Have a KIKI!! That's the only thing that came to my mind when I heard KIKI
Saame lol
let's have a kiki, I wanna have a kiki😂
Glee days
SAME 😂😂
@Ben tight
Lets have a kiki, MOTHER 😂 Loved the song on Glee!
You know what really grinds my gears?
When people cannot differentiate between top/bottom, dom/sub, masc/fem, sadist/masochist, etc. and confuse one dynamic with another (assuming they’ll be automatically connected)
frrr same
the girls said they liked drag race then they be like "maybe miss vanjie is like a secret message" lik tf lmao
Literally died; lovely to see they're appreciative of drag culture, though.
when the guys said yass queen with no enthusiasm...
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO
I died and not from laughter
@Moobloom thats completely irrelevant but ok i guess-
@Moobloom i just meant it was irrelivant to the comment :/
@@ban9693 yes
in austria "bussy“ is like a really fast kiss like a little "mwah" on the cheek. lmao
eva es heisst „peck“ auf Englisch
It's called pusa in Croatian (pronounced poosah)
Buss in Persian
"Bus'ka" in Belarus and "buziak" in Poland lol
The only reason I watch these as a gay person is to learn these slang, because I've never heard, seen, or even learned them..
Yep I have never in my life heard 90% of these either
Accurate depiction of me sitting on my couch
Me 2
I only know "yas queen","Miss Vanjie" and "power bottom"
Yes, same
Every LGBTQ+ person was disgusted when they said “kiki do you love me”😂
Yes
FR IM NOT EVEN PART OF THE LGTBQ+ but i was disgusted too
Yeah I was I cringed sooo hard
I didn't even know what kiki was but it still pained me
i cried a lil
Wasn’t “sksksksk” a gay thing before the, **ahem** ‘VSCO girls’ took it?
Call me Aly nah it was a Stan twitter thing lol but kind of same thing tho
Call me Aly i mean,, jasmine masters basically created it and gay twitter caught onto it way before the str8s did
Isn’t that just how you call cats? For them to get close to you?
That’s pspspspspspsps
That means VSCO girls are gay.
I’m so dumb, I was tryna work out what Final Thoughts meant 🤣
LMFAOOOO
Same lol
omfg!! this is meeee!!!!!
I was so worried to have my gay platinum card taken away🤣🤣
the miss vanjie one just got me shook on how straight they are my jaw dropped
XDD
Me, a closeted gay man: "I'll do really well in this game"
"Lets have a kiki... I wanna have i kiki lock the door..." The only thing i could think of when they shoved this term.
Oh my God, I felt so old when they "knew" kiki for the Drake song, and the first song that came out to my mind, was "Let's have a kiki"... And I'm only 16
Same😭😭
I think i know that from glee ups
MISS VAAANJIIIE !! these girls were talking about RuPaul's drag race but were so clueless when Miss Vangie came through
First thing I thought of when they said kiki: Glee season four
Exactly!
Yaaaass
the hets were cringy ngl
the heteros are always cringy
The gays were too
Veronica Miller omg gowon in your pfp
The gays are fucking cringe as well
@Joe Castiglione :(
Absolutely loved this video! Laughed heaps when they were trying to guess what NPNC meant. Also was really nice to see all the coworkers being so accepting of the LGBTQ+ community, wish more coworkers were like you guys legit :)
Person: why do you have to be on the top to give it
Me: that's where power bottom comes in.
i’m a straight woman..i clearly watch too much rupaul’s drag race though cause i knew most of these😅 (except those super explicit ones)
Lol which ones were explicit than?
My answer for power bottom was just "the counterart to service top".
"I challenge you to a Kai Kai"... cut the cameras... dead ass 💀
"miss vajine"
when i tell you i SCREAMEDDDDD BITHFCSLEHFLEJF WIGGGGG
When you're gay but don't know some of these...
Straight men: "We will lead from the front." Gays: "We will lead from the rear."
I love how the two guys at the end were just discussing bussys lmao
First off, LOVED THIS VIDEO! Second off, why does this channel not have more views/subscribers. Ya'll are so wholesome and amazing
I guess I'm a gay who needs to update on my slang.
Fun fact if you Google "What is a bussy"
The result says "Man hole of love"
I'm fucking dying lmao
omg i’m gay and i didn’t know some of these
the guy in the white shirt is so innocent yo😭😭😭😭
Plus cute, too!
Me, gay, having no clue what any of those were except for power bottom lmao
“Let’s call our meetings kiki’s” is NOT apart of the gay agenda 😂
I'm bisexual and even I didn't know a few of these lmao
Same
Im gay, and I legit know none of these. Except for bussy and powerbottom ofc
I knew absolutely none of them-
This should have been specifically called gay MEN. Kiki is also an old lesbian term thats for girls between femme and butch.
I laughed so hard when I saw the thumbnail “bussy”
Edit: LETS HAVE A KIKI
“Kiki”
Str8 people: do u love me??
Gay people: let’s have a Kiki
Okay, can we talk about how that chubby girl is the love of my life and I would absolutely die for her???
I feel like my gay badge needs to be taken away
I never thought flamboyant gay lingo guessing could be so boring
The girls: *mention rupauls drag race*
Also the girls: don’t know who miss vanjie is, don’t know kiki nor kai kai.... okay...
It’s so funny hearing the straight peoples tone go up a pitch each time they say the slang word😂 they’re so new to these words
I exited a ten year marriage last year, no longer pretend I'm straight, and have zero knowledge of much of this. Am binging on this type of content, and so much of it is presented in such a fun way, by people on that right kind of wavelength and giving off just a generally happy vibe :) I wish we had UA-cam when I was younger, things may have turned out so differently :)
good luck in your new life!
❤️
I’m recently out too and watching tons of content like this!
“Slang word”: Kiki
Straight girls: “KiKi, Do YoU LoVe Me”
Meanwhile I was thinking of the song that’s like “let’s have a Kiki, I wanna have a Kiki. Lock the doors tight!”
Dang I’m gay
I knew most of these except for NPNC and that's because I'm not on Grindr.
As soon as I heard power bottom I already knew it meant a dom bottom.....wait
how tf are you gonna mention rupauls drag race and not know ms vanjie 👀
the fact that i'm extremely gay yet i literally have never heard any of the slang except for bussy and yass
TEACH THE CHILDREN YES
The guy with the long hair was so cute, awkward and cringey 🤣
Girl: I love that clear communication.
All gay guys watching: YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW COMPLICATED IT IS
1:20 no no no no. Too much straightness
Thanks to wattpad fanfics I knew almost everything
When they sang Kiki do you love me and in here singing let’s have a kiki
“What’s a pic?”
her makeup looks like those manchester girl memes
as someone from manchester i can confirm this
WHEN THE TWO GUYS JUST SAID “YASS QUEEN” OMG THYE SOUNDED SO DEAD 😂
How do you say you’ve watched Ru Paul’s Drag Race then not know Miss Vanjie??
Tbh if you watch Drag Race you should have known mosttt of these because they’re alll mentioned on Drag Race like gurl how did they NOT know?!
I don’t even watch Ru Paul’s drag race and I knew most of these 🤔 well to be fair most of my friends are gay
@@Mayflower-xo8ew girl u should watch RDR
I love the ending (done in real time or by edit) that the two girls are talking about Kiki and how much they love it and the two boys are talking about how much they loved bussy
Miss VAAAAAAANJIE
4:30 "a lot of coming to people."
MOOD.
When they started singing In My Feelings......... the heterosexuality really popped out
My name is Kai and it felt special when they kept saying my name lmao
I’m gay and I knew some of these, but WTF does Green mean like wtf.
-cut to Kurt and Rachel’s party in season 5-
A Kiki is a party. For calming all your nerves.
lol I had to
Okay speaking of catfisching and gay slang where is "getting allisoned"
Or Mossied
Zeta: *ripples* drag race
2:48 production value 👌🏼
That guy on the right was so lost and innocent. I’m dying 😂
I wish this video included more gay diversity as white gay males are only a part of the spectrum ((:
????
Bussy is an emotion, a movement and of course a hole.
I'm a gay dude and I had no idea what most of these meant. Maybe they're like "fem gay" terms?
I do know however that a bottom does not necessarily mean submissive and top doesn't necessarily mean dominant. The whole term power bottom is a dominant bottom. AND I know plenty of sub tops.
When it said "Miss Vanjie", I got so excited
That cute guy in the white shirt tho 😍
"when I leave somewhere I'ma start saying mrs vanjieeeeee"
please don't
The hets are really annoying here
I hated of when the straight girls started using these terms. DUUUUDE I wanted to tear my ears off when they started saying they'd quote "VANJIE" when they were going to leave. And how they said that they "liked Drag" but didn't know who Miss Vanjie was. (I'm not able to watch Drag bc my dads homophobic and I'd die if he found out and I still know who Vanjie is. They were just cringy af)
@nice try167 Agreed.
The way he said "the straight people" fucking killed me!
"gay male culture" I never cringed this much, literally half of these terms are actually black trans lady slang... ew
‘Ew’?
P H Ø B I A yes ew
From my understanding it's usually like... black women/aave ---> white gay men --> influencers -> white teen girls/ >general usage > up until we get to awkward corporate advertisements trying to capitalize/seem relatable and Denny's is on twitter saying they're a 'simp for their 5.99 pancakes' or whatever the fuck
Sorry, I just found out about the existence of the 'yaas meal' at Burger King and I'm right ? But at what cost
@@ish-tahr2100 why
I could only think "Kiki wanna Kaikai, but none of these queens are my type"
missss vAAnjiEEE
the asian guy was totally into it lmao
Not every LGBTQA person talks like this,people really need to stop watching ru Paul and Kim Kardashian,what is so hard in talking normally??
Nobody's forcing you to speak in any way differently, so why are you forcing them to change ??