You hit the nail on the head when you said a lot of ESTPs are quite socially introverted. If I go to a party, I’m gonna party. You’re gonna see me having fun drinking, dancing, bullying the INFJs :)) but I’m perfectly ok to sit cooked up in the house for 2 weeks if I find a subject that grabs my attention. Like learning guitar or binge watching a tv series. Initially I thought I was an ISTP, before I learned about cognitive functions and when I was typing be letters.
I have a estp brother with a bad relationship his wife is very jealous even of us sisters even of their childrens I think she is a egocentric estj. He now live like a introvert he is always at home he is depressed got heart problems . How do you estp works? how do you change your mind?
@@annl.5512 If she is a ESTJ it will be challenging for him as that Te dom will give a depressed ESTP Ni inferior structure and efficiency which is a temporary relief for him since he will perceive it as building towards future goals which will help help him. It's still essential for him to do what he wants to do but people who don't understand how we process tries to tell us to stop doing what we want in order for them to get us to do what they want which doesn't work most of the time... instead tell him these exact words. (After you finish doing what you want or need to do today, try this for me. I'm curious about what you think about it please, thank you) ESTP's decide for themselves when to change their minds, however they can be influenced if it's not coming from a place of force yet firm enough to peak their interest. My ISTJ wife does this to and for me all the time and because she takes what I want to do into account, I will do whatever she wants in return... hope this helps
@@RRRsimracing yeah I know he is at fault too. I'm quite sure he cheated on her. I know my brother he is not the loyal one lol my sister is an enfj she is an idealist and she is stressed about this situation. I'm an intp I feel sorry but I know that we can't do anything bc he is the older brother and always act like one I don't think he will listen to me his younger sister. The main problem is we all live in different city and we see each other once two times in a year BUT my sister call me once two times at week my way to show affection is to find a solution to this problem. My sister think he doesn't care about us bc he never call her back but I know that in the past when we visit him he was always generous offer us food and material things and I think is his way to show affection. In the last few years she isolated him from his friends and from us he never call or share his days the last time I heard him he confessed to me he is depressed and I had no idea what to answer. So for the next times I see him I want be prepared for what to say to him. I think you are right I will try to speak primarily about his needs I dunno what to say but I will try. Thanks for the answer.
@@annl.5512 if he cheated then his wife has every right to act the way she's acting to be honest. Best thing to do is to sit back and be there for him. I know that's you're brother but the situation between them is not yours or your sisters fault or responsibility. : )
I must’ve missed this upload, Good stuff 😎 I hold that ESTPs are seriously misunderstood in the mbti community and are often only portrayed as the charismatic “Con-Man” stereotype which although has it’s relevance, only captures a very small aspect of behavior
As an ESTP, that knows a few ISTPs… I think you are spot on. I am decently expressive though and it has cost me at times. I am actively working on talking less and thinking before acting. This is a major problem of mine. I feel ISTPs don’t have this problem.
Thanks for mentioning that Ti is a judging function and Se a perceiving function - you are the first person I've heard so far differentiating the hero function between estp and istp like that..Love those glasses man, I'm jealous 😂
Such a good video!!! I wasn't sure whether I'm an ESTP or ISTP because I could relate to both but this made it super clear! Can you do "How to differentiate ESTP and ENTP"?
One thing that helped me was think about how often or how long can you let your body stay still. ESTPs will always be disappointed when they get together with a group or whatever and all they wanna do is sit down and talk about random things without doing anything else. ENTPs will actually love it because it's free food for Ne. Se needs a physical activity, even if it's just walking in different streets, checking out 3-4 bars in one night instead of sitting in one for hours and talking. Walking down the street and you see a new brand of e scooter, ESTP would definitely wanna jump on that and actually ride it for the sake of riding. ENTP would be like "Nice, it looks cool. Do you wanna ride it, I can record you trying it for the first time dude", ESTP would be the one who wants to ride it first.
@@choonblaze hmm, So does that mean that if I'm very restless and can't stand not acting for a long time, I'm more likely to be estp? I remember in high school classes, when I didn't talk to anyone and didn't nothing to do, I was extremely restless, I couldn't sit still for a minute in the same position.
@@silvanschneider1288 if it's a physical need like you need to do fun things, walk to interesting places etc. like even in high school me and my friends would go in a secret door to some stairs to check out the view and for the fun of doing something exciting. If you are restless because you need people to talk to, that's Fe and some Ne.
@@choonblaze wow, pretty accuracy, even being Estp, on tests of cognitive functions Fe and Ne weren't really as weak, but they weren't as strong as my Se (which was skyrocketingly more developed) Congratulations on your knowledge, I've been on vacation since December, and since I haven't done many adventurous activities, just at home talking to others I realize how distressed I'm getting. Lucky for me, I do bodybuilding every day. And it's my favorite sport (estp Stereotype thing)
@@silvanschneider1288 nice. My knowledge is expanding haha. That comment was 4 months ago and I know even more now. I thought I was ISTP or ESTP back then but turns out I'm an ESFP. And not because of some tests but learning the functions in depth plus confirming it with socionics. Se dom nevertheless. Yeah dude make sure your Se is always taken care of so you can use your Ti and Fe in a healthy way. ESTP has more in common with ENFJs so make sure to read that as well. Both use Se Fe Ni and Ti.
can you give me an assessment.... honestly i'm confused... do i belong to intp or istp... can you help me or give me a written test or interview me via zoom meeting...??? i hope you can help me...thank god bless you..
Oh! Like when I kept telling people, "I don't gamble." and then one day I said, "Or,, do I? Let's find out." and I went to a poker table and gambled for about a week and a half, maybe two, straight. Pretty much not even eating, sleeping, barely even going to the bathroom. Then, when I was done I went back to telling pople, "I don't gamble." and they'd be like "We saw you do it, like , still going strong two hours ago." and I would say, "Yes. Well, that was then and this is now. I didn't gamble. Then I did. Now, I don't." And, I never did it again. I just didn't do it in a more informed manner then I hadn't done it before. This was my favorite song during that time: ua-cam.com/video/7KQ9ruB5vu4/v-deo.htmlsi=IJOobDuCLclZ3-8E
You hit the nail on the head when you said a lot of ESTPs are quite socially introverted. If I go to a party, I’m gonna party. You’re gonna see me having fun drinking, dancing, bullying the INFJs :)) but I’m perfectly ok to sit cooked up in the house for 2 weeks if I find a subject that grabs my attention. Like learning guitar or binge watching a tv series. Initially I thought I was an ISTP, before I learned about cognitive functions and when I was typing be letters.
I feel you brother. I relate to a lot here as well. Salute
I have a estp brother with a bad relationship his wife is very jealous even of us sisters even of their childrens I think she is a egocentric estj. He now live like a introvert he is always at home he is depressed got heart problems . How do you estp works? how do you change your mind?
@@annl.5512 If she is a ESTJ it will be challenging for him as that Te dom will give a depressed ESTP Ni inferior structure and efficiency which is a temporary relief for him since he will perceive it as building towards future goals which will help help him. It's still essential for him to do what he wants to do but people who don't understand how we process tries to tell us to stop doing what we want in order for them to get us to do what they want which doesn't work most of the time... instead tell him these exact words. (After you finish doing what you want or need to do today, try this for me. I'm curious about what you think about it please, thank you)
ESTP's decide for themselves when to change their minds, however they can be influenced if it's not coming from a place of force yet firm enough to peak their interest. My ISTJ wife does this to and for me all the time and because she takes what I want to do into account, I will do whatever she wants in return... hope this helps
@@RRRsimracing yeah I know he is at fault too. I'm quite sure he cheated on her. I know my brother he is not the loyal one lol my sister is an enfj she is an idealist and she is stressed about this situation. I'm an intp I feel sorry but I know that we can't do anything bc he is the older brother and always act like one I don't think he will listen to me his younger sister. The main problem is we all live in different city and we see each other once two times in a year BUT my sister call me once two times at week my way to show affection is to find a solution to this problem. My sister think he doesn't care about us bc he never call her back but I know that in the past when we visit him he was always generous offer us food and material things and I think is his way to show affection. In the last few years she isolated him from his friends and from us he never call or share his days the last time I heard him he confessed to me he is depressed and I had no idea what to answer. So for the next times I see him I want be prepared for what to say to him. I think you are right I will try to speak primarily about his needs I dunno what to say but I will try.
Thanks for the answer.
@@annl.5512 if he cheated then his wife has every right to act the way she's acting to be honest. Best thing to do is to sit back and be there for him. I know that's you're brother but the situation between them is not yours or your sisters fault or responsibility. : )
I must’ve missed this upload, Good stuff 😎
I hold that ESTPs are seriously misunderstood in the mbti community and are often only portrayed as the charismatic “Con-Man” stereotype which although has it’s relevance, only captures a very small aspect of behavior
As an ESTP, that knows a few ISTPs… I think you are spot on. I am decently expressive though and it has cost me at times. I am actively working on talking less and thinking before acting. This is a major problem of mine. I feel ISTPs don’t have this problem.
Thanks for mentioning that Ti is a judging function and Se a perceiving function - you are the first person I've heard so far differentiating the hero function between estp and istp like that..Love those glasses man, I'm jealous 😂
You did very well. I wanted to make sure I finally knew what I was and you really helped me out. Thank you.
Very good job! (ISTP)
yeah im def an estp thanks4the help :)
Such a good video!!! I wasn't sure whether I'm an ESTP or ISTP because I could relate to both but this made it super clear!
Can you do "How to differentiate ESTP and ENTP"?
One thing that helped me was think about how often or how long can you let your body stay still. ESTPs will always be disappointed when they get together with a group or whatever and all they wanna do is sit down and talk about random things without doing anything else. ENTPs will actually love it because it's free food for Ne. Se needs a physical activity, even if it's just walking in different streets, checking out 3-4 bars in one night instead of sitting in one for hours and talking. Walking down the street and you see a new brand of e scooter, ESTP would definitely wanna jump on that and actually ride it for the sake of riding. ENTP would be like "Nice, it looks cool. Do you wanna ride it, I can record you trying it for the first time dude", ESTP would be the one who wants to ride it first.
@@choonblaze hmm, So does that mean that if I'm very restless and can't stand not acting for a long time, I'm more likely to be estp? I remember in high school classes, when I didn't talk to anyone and didn't nothing to do, I was extremely restless, I couldn't sit still for a minute in the same position.
@@silvanschneider1288 if it's a physical need like you need to do fun things, walk to interesting places etc. like even in high school me and my friends would go in a secret door to some stairs to check out the view and for the fun of doing something exciting.
If you are restless because you need people to talk to, that's Fe and some Ne.
@@choonblaze wow, pretty accuracy, even being Estp, on tests of cognitive functions Fe and Ne weren't really as weak, but they weren't as strong as my Se (which was skyrocketingly more developed)
Congratulations on your knowledge, I've been on vacation since December, and since I haven't done many adventurous activities, just at home talking to others I realize how distressed I'm getting. Lucky for me, I do bodybuilding every day. And it's my favorite sport (estp Stereotype thing)
@@silvanschneider1288 nice. My knowledge is expanding haha. That comment was 4 months ago and I know even more now. I thought I was ISTP or ESTP back then but turns out I'm an ESFP. And not because of some tests but learning the functions in depth plus confirming it with socionics. Se dom nevertheless.
Yeah dude make sure your Se is always taken care of so you can use your Ti and Fe in a healthy way. ESTP has more in common with ENFJs so make sure to read that as well. Both use Se Fe Ni and Ti.
😅😅😅😅 this was really very good 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it was peanut m&ms one time for me haven't looked back it just took seconds to hit the off switch
Great info...but what are you wearing, bro??? 😎🤣🤣🤣 Looks comfortable though. 👍
can you give me an assessment.... honestly i'm confused... do i belong to intp or istp... can you help me or give me a written test or interview me via zoom meeting...??? i hope you can help me...thank god bless you..
you are hilarious with Kurtis face as an icon. I'm done. Funniest thing on the f@*king planet bro. 🤔🤣🤦♂️
The mic is very bad
Oh! Like when I kept telling people, "I don't gamble." and then one day I said, "Or,, do I? Let's find out." and I went to a poker table and gambled for about a week and a half, maybe two, straight. Pretty much not even eating, sleeping, barely even going to the bathroom. Then, when I was done I went back to telling pople, "I don't gamble." and they'd be like "We saw you do it, like , still going strong two hours ago." and I would say, "Yes. Well, that was then and this is now. I didn't gamble. Then I did. Now, I don't." And, I never did it again. I just didn't do it in a more informed manner then I hadn't done it before. This was my favorite song during that time: ua-cam.com/video/7KQ9ruB5vu4/v-deo.htmlsi=IJOobDuCLclZ3-8E