Romance scam victims speak out

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  • Опубліковано 8 вер 2024

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  • @crfollower5719
    @crfollower5719 Місяць тому +71

    These brave ladies coming out will save others from the same

    • @mohlape
      @mohlape Місяць тому +2

      Not at all for long time these stories are on social media, these ladies also knew about this scams going around.

    • @kha6068
      @kha6068 Місяць тому

      Not all , some dont wanna hear a thing

    • @nomalungelongcete5875
      @nomalungelongcete5875 Місяць тому

      And their money is gone

  • @tshililoclaudinahmugovheli5793
    @tshililoclaudinahmugovheli5793 Місяць тому +23

    I am so sorry Mama, mourning the deaths of your sons and then having to be scammed its too much. May God comfort you

    • @zolamvelase9176
      @zolamvelase9176 Місяць тому

      The look for vulnerable women,its disgusting what this world has turned into

  • @vuvufuzzy2594
    @vuvufuzzy2594 Місяць тому +17

    As soon as it involves money; RUN! These people are heartless, they don't play.

  • @SpigadoMakoloi
    @SpigadoMakoloi Місяць тому +51

    Owamie thanks dear for bringing awareness.

    • @Soft_Khanyi
      @Soft_Khanyi Місяць тому +6

      Literally scrolling down to find this comment because the girl did the most in bringing light to these stories

    • @bettykhuboni8758
      @bettykhuboni8758 Місяць тому +2

      AMEN!!

  • @emilysimelane6376
    @emilysimelane6376 Місяць тому +51

    Our South African women do not want to listen. When you talk to them they'll tell you they want a comfortable life.

    • @thembikunene4531
      @thembikunene4531 Місяць тому

      So true and think foreigners men r better tgan South African men. Apart from scamming them millions, they r physically, emotionally and sexually abusing them.

    • @mikejoneswho6753
      @mikejoneswho6753 Місяць тому

      @emilysimelane6376 low self esteem. The weakest link. If they're not selling citizenship through bogus marriages, they're being scammed of their pensions. That older lady looks close to retirement, but she willingly gave over R1 million to a stranger. Insane!

    • @kram9076
      @kram9076 Місяць тому +15

      They had the money they just wanted love because society has this habit of making women feel bad for not being married or having g children. Because of the pressure you force yourself into finding someone who turns out to be wrong. Once the shame stops women will stop feeling the need to desperately look for a man when they don't want to.

    • @fruitypopwhickle6806
      @fruitypopwhickle6806 Місяць тому

      ​@@kram9076Amen.

    • @km4336
      @km4336 Місяць тому +1

      @@kram9076 💯

  • @BensonPeace
    @BensonPeace 26 днів тому +5

    "Kudos to you for your exceptional work in supporting #crackassetsupport! Your courage and determination in standing up against fraudsters are truly inspiring. Your tireless efforts to safeguard the public, especially vulnerable seniors, from these unscrupulous scammers are crucial. Your dedication to our security and well-being is truly deserving of recognition - a Nobel Peace Prize would be a well-deserved honor! Please keep up the fantastic work, and know that your efforts are making a real difference in the lives of many!"

  • @codesagecoder1639
    @codesagecoder1639 Місяць тому +31

    "A fool and their money are soon departed..."

    • @lumkamatsafa1327
      @lumkamatsafa1327 26 днів тому

      I hate how that saying always applies to me 😂

  • @fabulous1990
    @fabulous1990 Місяць тому +43

    Women, do not give no man your money, whether South African or not! Learn from this. A man must be a provider, not you!

    • @mthobisizondi2410
      @mthobisizondi2410 Місяць тому +5

      Also advice men, not to give anyone money
      In fact let’s say if you hear something better to ask people around about that thing, verify it
      Because it not only romance scam that is out there, people scam job seekers, people scam through house selling or property selling, car sales and etc
      Men and women please open your eyes and be aware of these things

  • @km4336
    @km4336 Місяць тому +8

    Imagine listening to a voice telling you the relationship is "approved"

  • @nolwazikhumalo2994
    @nolwazikhumalo2994 Місяць тому +11

    😢 Guys, in Nigeria being a yahoo boy(scammer) is the equivalent of a Dr or Engineer... It's something everyone aspires to do.

    • @yummydishes2279
      @yummydishes2279 Місяць тому +4

      Are they Nigerians?
      I'm still trying to figure out why you had to bring Nigeria into your comment

    • @WorkFromHomeAfrica
      @WorkFromHomeAfrica Місяць тому +2

      Where does Nigeria come in here?

    • @user-qj5xr8pu5x
      @user-qj5xr8pu5x Місяць тому +1

      @@yummydishes2279why are you catching?

    • @yummydishes2279
      @yummydishes2279 Місяць тому +2

      @@user-qj5xr8pu5x the obsession with Nigeria has to stop, it's becoming a disease for South Africans

    • @seuna.8438
      @seuna.8438 Місяць тому +2

      If blaming Nigerians for all your life's problems makes you sleep well at night, who are we to deprive you. Continue!

  • @sinazom9010
    @sinazom9010 Місяць тому +9

    Losing R1 400 000 to a man is crazy in fact losing R510 000 also is crazy too….

    • @leratommutle6139
      @leratommutle6139 Місяць тому +1

      There is one who lost R3mil, imagine!

    • @nomalungelongcete5875
      @nomalungelongcete5875 Місяць тому

      ​@@leratommutle6139
      Yhooooo 😳😳😳😳🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @makonentsoane7545
      @makonentsoane7545 21 день тому

      Eish even loosing 5k is still a lot😂😂

    • @nomalungelongcete5875
      @nomalungelongcete5875 21 день тому

      @@makonentsoane7545
      Even less than 5k the money is money no matter what 😥
      Working hard to be scammed? Yho people must be vigilant 😥😥😥

  • @MichaelVumile-jb3lb
    @MichaelVumile-jb3lb Місяць тому +18

    Money cant buy love.

  • @Bellabc-ki3pe
    @Bellabc-ki3pe Місяць тому +23

    The level of desperation is phenomenal 😂😂

    • @Rami_A
      @Rami_A Місяць тому +5

      The older you get the harder it gets to find a partner, I think it’s sad 😢.

    • @Queendollar83
      @Queendollar83 Місяць тому +10

      ​@@Rami_AIt's that thinking that gets you scammed. Age has nothing to do with it. You can still be young and not find a partner. There's no formula

    • @ayandasigxashe7198
      @ayandasigxashe7198 Місяць тому

      Absolutely 😢

    • @rukam3
      @rukam3 24 дні тому

      It’s disgusting that you found humor in their pain and loss. Pray the same does not happen to your family. Karma is a bitch. You’re probably one of the scammers!

    • @chasep402
      @chasep402 18 днів тому

      The thirst😂😂😂

  • @nonjabulomalaza3796
    @nonjabulomalaza3796 Місяць тому +7

    Well done Jabu. I’m so proud of you, both of you are very strong for being able to pick up and move forward❤❤❤
    Carry on raising awareness.

  • @fabulous1990
    @fabulous1990 Місяць тому +19

    Introducing to ancestors, what nonsense is this?😮

  • @Queendollar83
    @Queendollar83 Місяць тому +18

    The jubilation in the comment section is a shocker. It's not just foreign nationals. South African men have caught on and are doing the same all in the name of "I want a woman I can build with.' The local ones use the marriage card too quickly, suggests buying of cars while engenayo imali, the list goes on. So before y'all laugh your lungs out, see this as a teachable moment. LADIES PAY ATTENTION!!!

    • @fikzod
      @fikzod Місяць тому +1

      💯

    • @ndodamakayi5220
      @ndodamakayi5220 Місяць тому

      Let's face it. 80+ of these kind of scams are committed by foreign nationals. South African men would bomb ATMs, money heights and robbery. Not saying that there's a better crime but Romance crime is not for SA men.

  • @nomalangamanzini9242
    @nomalangamanzini9242 Місяць тому +9

    Black women of Mzansi pls vukani..kanti y singafundi ukuzibhekela.. foreigners r MONEY WISE, most of dem accumulate funds in their pockets by scamming n dey r also here to make money in so many ways .. dont b desparate for love, love yourselves more dun u will love a man ..
    Most of our South African fellow men dont date foreign ladies n dey often talk AGAINST South African women dating foreign men.. STOPANI BAFAZI dnt sell urself to any man ngemali yokondla izingane

  • @lebonthite
    @lebonthite Місяць тому +9

    The voice story kills me 😂.

  • @Bellabc-ki3pe
    @Bellabc-ki3pe Місяць тому +11

    A herd boy tired of looking after goats, sheep and cattle. Takes your money. 😂😅

  • @mikejoneswho6753
    @mikejoneswho6753 Місяць тому +17

    Are we supposed to feel sorry for them? These are adult women who chose to give foreign strangers money. "Visit his house, he visits you". 😂 My dear no one is feeding them any information, this happens when you flash your life on social media.
    Also, why is it always black women?
    Pathetic...

    • @AmuMabasa
      @AmuMabasa Місяць тому

      Nah this is Nationwide...Everybody will get it...ENCA did an interview with a Cyber investigator and he even said 99% of the time. It's always Nigerians. They then asked about a romance scam where a woman lost R21 Million. Even the investigator was like that case is still pending he can't speak on it, but it was an Old White Woman who fell for it...Cause who is black that has R21 Million like that? Unless you chowing Government Money...

    • @MichaelVumile-jb3lb
      @MichaelVumile-jb3lb Місяць тому +12

      They are brave to speak out , it help other people dont judge them.

    • @Rami_A
      @Rami_A Місяць тому

      Romance scammers operate globally , you’ll be shocked to know that they target white women more than black women.

    • @Rami_A
      @Rami_A Місяць тому

      @@MichaelVumile-jb3lbthat’s the problem with black society, always victim blaming.

    • @mikejoneswho6753
      @mikejoneswho6753 Місяць тому

      @MichaelVumile-jb3lb brave se voet. These are the same women who will call you, your son's and all South African men trash. All in defence of scammers.

  • @Wallstreetartistry-POD
    @Wallstreetartistry-POD Місяць тому +24

    Batho ba-Malema showing them flames, South African women are vulnerable to these scammers.

    • @teeletsetse445
      @teeletsetse445 Місяць тому +2

      Didn't Teko Modise fall for a similar scam? It's not just women.

    • @mogomotsi6595
      @mogomotsi6595 Місяць тому

      @@teeletsetse445 No he refused

    • @teeletsetse445
      @teeletsetse445 Місяць тому

      @@mogomotsi6595 I remember him telling that story. Very funny.
      Good that he refused.😂

  • @mashobane6177
    @mashobane6177 Місяць тому +15

    As a South African woman, I don't feel sorry for these women.

  • @musaamos1678
    @musaamos1678 Місяць тому +18

    The problem with South African women is that they're have unrealistic and expensive demand from us locals while they are willing to give unemployed and poor foreign men love and money, serve them better

    • @fruitypopwhickle6806
      @fruitypopwhickle6806 Місяць тому

      The majority of South African women are with South African men. Don't forget you guys abuse, rape, cheat and abandon your own children and spouses. 65% of children SA grow up fatherless. You're acting like a hero when South African men are just as terrible.

    • @sugabooify
      @sugabooify Місяць тому +1

      Give this man a bells

  • @duanemnisi3721
    @duanemnisi3721 Місяць тому +6

    Clearly there is limited thinking capacity involved here

  • @nkilengmapena8601
    @nkilengmapena8601 Місяць тому +2

    I am proud of you ladies you have save many of us 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @MlindoMkhize
    @MlindoMkhize Місяць тому +1

    We keep telling them about dating foreigners but they don't listen.

  • @Rami_A
    @Rami_A Місяць тому +10

    These scammers are not that bright , these women are gullible. They know their targets, they prey on these women.

    • @Accuface2000
      @Accuface2000 Місяць тому +1

      They are bright. These women got scammed because they are greedy, it's not just about desperation or gullibility.

    • @kellyalexander7347
      @kellyalexander7347 Місяць тому

      ​@@Accuface2000its all about desperation and gullible its crazy who meets men on line and hands over money

  • @festival4101
    @festival4101 Місяць тому +3

    Shame poor ladies don't understand the streets how they operate. Also these things of believing in miracles that don't exist will land one introble

  • @vanessababbage9409
    @vanessababbage9409 Місяць тому +1

    No sympathy for these ladies. As soon as a potential partner starts asking for money, for investments RUN. Why should a loan be taken out on behalf of someone else???? Ladies, use your common sense. Self love is so important so you do not fall in love with just anybody to avoid loneliness.

  • @AfrikaVibes
    @AfrikaVibes Місяць тому +12

    Lol listened to her interview at @kingdavid podcast. Bayalayeka laba with this foreigners. Then we are forced to believe that Chidima and her parents got citizenship without any criminality

  • @jackiebohale1101
    @jackiebohale1101 Місяць тому +2

    😢😢I'm so sorry to you both, keep your heads up ladies

  • @ThattRoger
    @ThattRoger Місяць тому +7

    I really feel bad for that older lady. You can see the pain and stress on her face. Yoh her whole pension and loans! 💔
    We must realise that these foreigners dont owe us anything. They have allegiance to their homeland, where their roots and families reside. They can't be traced, because they are illegal.

  • @rmbmajestic
    @rmbmajestic Місяць тому +1

    Please ladies be very careful, scamers are even in the parking lot in shopping centre, stalking, be careful and wise!!!!!!!

  • @Allycat_8702
    @Allycat_8702 29 днів тому

    Woman, u were willing to marry into a family with a voice coming from the dead😂😂😂😂

  • @Dizzy12346
    @Dizzy12346 Місяць тому +1

    Jabulile , I'm loving your confidence mama.

  • @mamotalemankoe3775
    @mamotalemankoe3775 Місяць тому +7

    Comment section full of hate.

  • @jameschikuwa8384
    @jameschikuwa8384 Місяць тому +1

    These love scams are worldwide and they do not only happen to black women as some people may think.I used to watch similar stories on 60minutes Australia on their UA-cam channel.

  • @sabeloshabangu1485
    @sabeloshabangu1485 Місяць тому +1

    Foreigners making headlines again this week

  • @boitumelomatlhodi2016
    @boitumelomatlhodi2016 Місяць тому +1

    I nearly got scam by the same method but fortunate enough i heard about those this here in our country they have warn us the police we are educated

    • @lesedijonas6195
      @lesedijonas6195 Місяць тому

      Which country are you referring to, if you're not a south african?

  • @MelinyanisoMapi
    @MelinyanisoMapi Місяць тому +2

    What language do their Ancestors speak..🤔🤔, and if its foreign, how did you understand hat they said, if its English, why is it English?

  • @ayandasigxashe7198
    @ayandasigxashe7198 Місяць тому

    What is a definition of a scam? If you handed your money no gun to your head , bank scammed...you handed the money to whoever🤔😡😡😡

  • @martinshabangu9854
    @martinshabangu9854 24 дні тому

    WTF 😭😭😭😭 why are people so desperate for relationships. Damn but I don’t blame these ladies. So sorry for them

  • @sanelen_
    @sanelen_ Місяць тому +5

    This is a scam I could never understand and I don't feel sorry for people who are scammed.

  • @chuxch7293
    @chuxch7293 Місяць тому +19

    😂😂😂😂la phapha😂😂😂😂le rata makwerekwere 😂😂😂😂

    • @christobelthipe8627
      @christobelthipe8627 Місяць тому

      😢

    • @pattido777
      @pattido777 Місяць тому

      Eish bathong....go rata dilo!

    • @paulinapatel
      @paulinapatel Місяць тому +6

      I think people must stay away from people who are not from home.look like they are problematic 🤔

  • @lindanimasuku8072
    @lindanimasuku8072 Місяць тому +8

    niyaleyeka.

  • @nomarussia5085
    @nomarussia5085 Місяць тому +1

    Waiting for approval of a relationship by an ancestor
    How desperate are you?

  • @mrmanq9517
    @mrmanq9517 Місяць тому +1

    They must go fetch that money themselves, we tell them, they dont listen
    Asizingeni...!😂

  • @MandzisiDlamini
    @MandzisiDlamini Місяць тому

    When woman do it, it's called "empowerment", but when men do it the call the calvary.

  • @sifisodube4686
    @sifisodube4686 Місяць тому +3

    Are sisters they love foreign man

  • @ProflowTV
    @ProflowTV 28 днів тому

    It’s none of our business how can you find love online how stupid is that uwoooohhhh 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nomondemapitiza2629
    @nomondemapitiza2629 Місяць тому +5

    This people use muthi and magic 😢

  • @Accuface2000
    @Accuface2000 Місяць тому

    Shame, they get scammed because they are so gullible, desperate and greedy. Sending money to a guy means you are not attractive or you are a gold digger looking for a rich man.

  • @enmn6001
    @enmn6001 21 день тому

    They meet the Ancestors on line. Very interesting ancestors 🤔🤔🤔 scary.. The problem with South Africans is the belief in superstitions and the prayerfull men. I so called man of God . They took advantage of two vulnerable women 😔😔

  • @siphombingo6545
    @siphombingo6545 Місяць тому

    What is wrong with this South African women you don’t trust South African men abayanilaya

  • @Itssophie277
    @Itssophie277 16 днів тому

    Why give a man money.?

  • @SAapproves
    @SAapproves Місяць тому +1

    I want these ladies very humbled! These foreign guys can do better mahn! 😩 I'm cheering them on🤝🏾

  • @doreenmogale5701
    @doreenmogale5701 Місяць тому

    Ladies when you are closer to getting your money mo love 😭😭😭😭 pleass

  • @MasekaMokgohloa
    @MasekaMokgohloa Місяць тому +6

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mamparas

  • @theexemplary5618
    @theexemplary5618 Місяць тому

    Iam sorry to those im about to offend.My view is these are both greedy women who were obsessed with riches and interested in ukhutwala .This is just ukhutwala gone wrong. How can you put money in a drawer and the next time that drawee is full and you don't think maybe its time to stop? Secondly how can you be introduced to ancestors of a man who hasn't harried you and in the absence of your own family. They all went there to seek money ritual and it all went left. These are people who could do nasty things and bad thing just for the almighty dollar. The simple theory could be they dated someone who told them that he could help them meet a powerful sangoma who can make them rich over night. The scammer might have claimed he got riches from this Sangoma. Logically I don't see how a boyfriend can convince you to invest that amount and you just buy the story..Little children will be at risk around these people

  • @kattybarume427
    @kattybarume427 Місяць тому +1

    Strong and independent woman, need no man , lol😂

  • @Vv-fl2rm
    @Vv-fl2rm Місяць тому +2

    Its always the single older sisters😂 desperation and salt 🧂

  • @marthaditlopo229
    @marthaditlopo229 Місяць тому +1

    It is sad

  • @mlabalabazwide5445
    @mlabalabazwide5445 Місяць тому

    The problem is the pressure that people put on woman telling woman you need to build a man and funny man don't want to be built by word of mouth they want money and the minute you don't give money the man is gone it's just a broken society nje that is why our sisters are scammed.
    Mina id ruther be unmarried if I have to give away my sweat sorry guys I'm hear to support a man not sponsoring a project

  • @bongagustavmtshali1104
    @bongagustavmtshali1104 Місяць тому

    There lies a problem, believing in your ancestors introduced by strangers.if they exist,why they don't appear themselves to you not via other people.i believe in God in His Word when He says cursed is the man who trust in other man

  • @mapsmaps805
    @mapsmaps805 Місяць тому

    She said at first it's frightening. So, it gets to a point where it's not frightening 🤣🤣🤣. This is 4th Industrial Revolution witchcraft

  • @kellyalexander7347
    @kellyalexander7347 Місяць тому

    Come on ladies please wake up stay off dating apps nothing good comes from it what happened to old fashion meeting men

  • @Shades11353
    @Shades11353 Місяць тому

    Evil hypnosis with rituals

  • @WorkFromHomeAfrica
    @WorkFromHomeAfrica Місяць тому

    Prayer room like Abdul-Fatai Balugun AKA TB Joshua.

  • @mrgiggsful
    @mrgiggsful Місяць тому

    the is a saying that goes like the a mind of a homeless man is equal to those of 3 women with PHDS AND DEGREES-UNKNOWN WRITER.

    • @Queendollar83
      @Queendollar83 Місяць тому +4

      Tjo! If that's how little you think of women, I feel sorry for your wife.

    • @nomagcisacawe3297
      @nomagcisacawe3297 Місяць тому +3

      ​@@Queendollar83rather feel sorry for his mother!

  • @moiponeinnocentiamolaudzi8128
    @moiponeinnocentiamolaudzi8128 Місяць тому

    Ancestors who speak English

  • @masandefuzile2261
    @masandefuzile2261 Місяць тому

    My Ugandan players❤

  • @unathimichaelmxaku8105
    @unathimichaelmxaku8105 Місяць тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣nibatywa amasimba

    • @nomarussia5085
      @nomarussia5085 Місяць тому

      Hehehe😂😂😂 abakwazi nozibamba.

  • @Itssophie277
    @Itssophie277 16 днів тому

    Ancestor speak English 😅😅😅

  • @bradleygreeff4375
    @bradleygreeff4375 Місяць тому

    Holy holy 😂

  • @nhlamuloshaunmashaba7817
    @nhlamuloshaunmashaba7817 Місяць тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kagimanye1757
    @kagimanye1757 Місяць тому

    🇳🇬

  • @nomfundomatshika
    @nomfundomatshika 27 днів тому

    @owamie❤❤❤

  • @peterrichard9769
    @peterrichard9769 Місяць тому

    Those guys are fake: krooks- sorry my lovely sisters.