What percentage of men are able to go deep enough to talk about how they’re feeling about things? I have a great guy yet. He is unable to process things on a feelings level. I will share things that I’m feeling and ask him how he’s feeling and try to get him to feel in his body, and he goes back to his head and talks from his head and circumstances rather than his feelings. I’m undecided as to whether to stay with him or see if I can meet somebody else that is more open and available with their feelings to our relationship can grow. The relationship with the current guy is unable to grow due to him communicating from his head in circumstances.
If you love him and be in him then help him learn how to become more in touch with his feelings. I imagine it’s a longer term process that will take patience, compassion and understanding of the process of him becoming more in tune with his feelings. Love is patient. I hope everything goes beautifully for the two of you.
You don't need him to be a girl with estrogen and emotions any more than he wants you to be a man with testosterone. What you need is to see if he is influenced by your feelings. He may describe a peach as tastes good while you can vocalize a plethora of reasons. Him enjoying you as the one with feelings is what's important.
I would say their ability to display virtuous behavior toward you (honestly, kindness, patience, faithfulness, etc.)is better than their ability to share deep feelings. One of the most telling signs is how your body reacts to them. Your body will know before your mind knows… Listen to how your body responds and reacts during your interactions. For example, if your body wants to retreat, withhold or withdraw there is a big problem.
Excellent. I appreciate you sharing this framework so clearly.
Thank you ❤
Thank you!
What percentage of men are able to go deep enough to talk about how they’re feeling about things? I have a great guy yet. He is unable to process things on a feelings level. I will share things that I’m feeling and ask him how he’s feeling and try to get him to feel in his body, and he goes back to his head and talks from his head and circumstances rather than his feelings. I’m undecided as to whether to stay with him or see if I can meet somebody else that is more open and available with their feelings to our relationship can grow. The relationship with the current guy is unable to grow due to him communicating from his head in circumstances.
If you love him and be in him then help him learn how to become more in touch with his feelings. I imagine it’s a longer term process that will take patience, compassion and understanding of the process of him becoming more in tune with his feelings. Love is patient. I hope everything goes beautifully for the two of you.
Is he willing to go in for counseling?
You don't need him to be a girl with estrogen and emotions any more than he wants you to be a man with testosterone. What you need is to see if he is influenced by your feelings. He may describe a peach as tastes good while you can vocalize a plethora of reasons. Him enjoying you as the one with feelings is what's important.
Yes, I have also such a partner 😢
I would say their ability to display virtuous behavior toward you (honestly, kindness, patience, faithfulness, etc.)is better than their ability to share deep feelings. One of the most telling signs is how your body reacts to them. Your body will know before your mind knows… Listen to how your body responds and reacts during your interactions. For example, if your body wants to retreat, withhold or withdraw there is a big problem.
Thank you!