OUR COMING OUT STORY | how we met | how we fell in love | AND painting t-shirts

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  • Опубліковано 3 гру 2024

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  • @Whimsy_the_bus
    @Whimsy_the_bus  9 днів тому +43

    By the way, we post every two weeks on sunday❤

    • @barnaliadhikary9421
      @barnaliadhikary9421 5 днів тому

      Absolutely love your contents...😊😊😊keep it up...👭🌈

  • @sam2458
    @sam2458 8 днів тому +278

    i had to pause this every two minutes to stare at my girlfriend with my jaw dropped because this story is so dramatic and wild. i cannot believe you two survived this absolute tv show 10 season slowburn. im still shocked. so incredbly happy you two are together and living the wonderful life you two deserve

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  8 днів тому +22

      Honestly can’t believe it worked out in the end. It was so crazy living it !!

    • @kylereese4822
      @kylereese4822 6 днів тому +2

      @@Whimsy_the_bus WOAH... That Tea..... oh.... It looks like something the Witch would make in the hilarious cartoon Disney movie Sword In The Stone

    • @lauracraig8110
      @lauracraig8110 2 дні тому

      It's so CUTE! Guys... this story just had me smiling the whole time.

  • @elisaduarte3604
    @elisaduarte3604 3 дні тому +21

    Omg why you guys story is like a 20 chapter slow burn fanfic 😭💘

  • @tessal.9349
    @tessal.9349 9 днів тому +176

    That one quote from Over the Garden Wall feels apt “it’s okay to be scared. Being scared means you’re about to do something really really brave” ✨lesbian hope✨

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  9 днів тому +7

      @@tessal.9349 I should’ve put that on my shirt! I love that quote. Thank you for sharing.

  • @penneboard6818
    @penneboard6818 7 днів тому +91

    you had me from the start then said “dan and phil” and i was LOCKED IN

  • @kitkat-tat
    @kitkat-tat 9 днів тому +137

    this is perhaps the best childhood friends to lovers story i've ever heard, thank you for sharing with us! also the shirts look amazing 🐸🍂✨

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  9 днів тому +5

      So glad you liked it!! This comment made us smile ❤️ thank you!!

  • @evan50748
    @evan50748 7 днів тому +48

    U Two are so cute, and it wasn’t nearly as long as 20 years but your love story is quite literally the lesbian equivalent of me and my partner. It’s a long story but at one point in our friendship they asked me if I’d be the best man at their wedding if they ever got married, I was head over heels for him at the time and this broke me but now it’s funny because now I can tell the story at our wedding of how I leaped out of the friend zone.

  • @crush3095
    @crush3095 6 днів тому +27

    exactly the same, bffs, obsessed with eachother. in adulthood you realize, that admiration.. was love. Once an adult, I had a friendship with a coworker, lasted 7 years after they left the job. we would hike together, ran marathons together, I began to feel physical attraction. but I knew he was straight, I asked. blocked his number, never spoke to him again. but came away knowing myself better

  • @Gabrielecgomes1
    @Gabrielecgomes1 3 дні тому +11

    This story had so many twists and turns that listening to it was anxiety inducing😅
    I'm so glad the two of you are happy together, finally❤

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  3 дні тому +1

      Sorry we made you anxious :-) imagine how we felt living it lol

  • @orxnge-juice
    @orxnge-juice 3 дні тому +6

    I’ve recently come to the realisation that I’m definitely not straight, not sure what I am right now but it’s really comforting to see how well it worked out for you guys!

  • @felfar197
    @felfar197 6 днів тому +23

    SUCH A FREAKING SWEET lesbian drama :)

  • @waynekaulbach9599
    @waynekaulbach9599 9 днів тому +38

    That was so beautiful as are you both!! I love you both sooooo much. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Happy 9th week wedding anniversary today. Love Dad/Wayne. Your story is magically inspiring. Xo xo

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  9 днів тому +2

      We’re so happy you enjoyed it! Thank you for the kind words.❤

  • @marlena1105
    @marlena1105 6 днів тому +12

    I don’t normally comment but as a demisexual lesbian who’s struggled with internalized homophobia this really touched me. I also love over the garden wall so this was so fun to watch! Glad UA-cam recommended this to me. Your love story gives me hope for myself ✨

  • @nataliakaitlyn7014
    @nataliakaitlyn7014 9 днів тому +28

    What a rollercoaster!!!

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  9 днів тому +3

      It certainly was. We didn’t even mention everything that happened or this video would’ve been 8 hours long

  • @dannyalexander1882
    @dannyalexander1882 4 дні тому +4

    I don't comment on youtube, but as a dad of three daughters, I can only hope for this kind of true love for them. We wish you all the best!

  • @skylightimages
    @skylightimages 7 днів тому +26

    What a beautiful story. ❤️ you two are made for each other.

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  7 днів тому +1

      We are so happy you enjoyed it! I think so too👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

  • @naomi-art-stuff
    @naomi-art-stuff 7 днів тому +41

    QUEER MOVIES LIKE THISSSSS

  • @queermemories5267
    @queermemories5267 5 днів тому +9

    Ok, I immediately saw the thumbnail photo,
    the video caught me.
    I mean, on one side there is the photo of both together
    as children,
    and on the other side, there is the photo of both getting married.
    .
    I said to myself: "ok, this is quite unusual, very peculiar."
    Now I am looking at the story in more detail.
    Thanks for posting it!..
    Regards 😊

  • @dafnifez
    @dafnifez 6 днів тому +11

    You two are one of the most cute, charming, and meant-for-each-other lesbian couple I've seen on UA-cam! I truly believe that your channel's gonna blow up someday soon and I'll be here for it.
    Also, your love story is so inspiring and informative, thanks for sharing it. Wish you a long life together and all the best achieving your dreams together!
    PS: Love the painted T-shirts and how crafty you both are. You should consider starting an online business selling such stuff. It could do really well.

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  6 днів тому +1

      You’re the sweetest! We will definitely consider that business idea. Thank you so much for this comment.❤️

  • @MercuryXZ
    @MercuryXZ 5 днів тому +7

    just finished watching this video and i've teared up one too many times listening to your story. i'm so happy it worked out in the end for you. i found a lot of similarities with my story, but it unfortunately didn't end as well as yours. my first love was my bestfriend.. we would kiss at parties, share beds together and get way too close a lot of times. when i finally got the courage to confess my love for her, she rejected me, and got in a relationship with another girl right away.. she would still do things with me, cheating on her girlfriend, i let her use me because i was very much blinded by love. she broke up with her girlfriend just a few months later and immediately started dating a guy i'd never even seen before.. thats around the time i dropped out of highschool because of my depression, and our "friendship" fell apart. i never got any closure as to if she actually liked me or if she was just playing with me because she knew i loved her. but that's okay because i got my happy ending. im 24 now and engaged to my soulmate. she's helped boost my self confidence and grow my self-esteem. i finally know what it feels like to love and be loved. also, dan and phil was part of my gay awakening too 😭 GO LESBIANS 🗣️

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  5 днів тому +2

      I’m so happy you have your soulmate now.🏳️‍🌈❤️👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩What is it about Dan and Phil and lesbians? There are so many of us!

    • @MercuryXZ
      @MercuryXZ 5 днів тому

      @@Whimsy_the_bus dan and phil, the founding fathers of our generation of lesbians 🌈🤭 my fiancee also grew up watching them!! 😂 💅

  • @13thAMG
    @13thAMG 2 дні тому +2

    Anybody else here notice how seamlessly these two ladies finish each other's sentences without even taking a breath and without even a micro pause?
    There are straight couples who don't get to experience that kind of being in sync. Even their hand gestures and general movements are in sync. Almost like twins.
    And what a beautiful heart-warming story. Wow.
    I've never seen this channel before now but I wish both these girls well. A hard earned love but clearly one destined to last. Wooohoo! You go girls! ❤❤

  • @thefalloff22
    @thefalloff22 2 дні тому +2

    i’ve been in love with my childhood best friend of 7 years, came to that realization almost 4 years ago, then confessed a year later because she had been openly bisexual for a while at that point. got rejected, but we’re still best friends. it wasn’t super awkward but she definitely distanced herself from me in ways. went through the worst heartache of my life over it, i go through periods of being completely over it now and then falling back into the yearning. it still hurts. she had a boyfriend over the summer this year, she completely ignored me for the 3 months that they were together, and had actually hidden from me that they were even dating until 2 weeks before she broke up with him. our other friends knew the whole time, it was just me that was kept in the dark. that hurt a lot. still does. she said she realized she wasn’t a relationship person after him. i’ve completely respected her rejection and feelings, and restrained every thought and emotion i’ve ever wanted to share with her since she said we were better as friends, but i also can’t forget back when we had just met at 13 years old and constantly saying we were soulmates. if we weren’t, our friendship surely would have ended, wouldn’t it? what if i’m 30 and still writing about her? i’m 20 now, and teenage me still hopes someday things will be different, but life is too short to be sad and wish things could change. and so i continue to appreciate still having her in my life, constantly being there for her, and showing her as much love as i am allowed. you give me one girl and i will take her to my heart :)

  • @cheezleweasel661
    @cheezleweasel661 5 днів тому +5

    my partner and i moved in together as friends through uni (both had a secret crush on each other at the time) then truly two weeks after we started dating we survived a natural disaster together and were completely 0 to 100 with our commitment to each other. things were rocky in the aftermath of the natural disaster but honestly it's such a relief to know that we survived all that and the stress didn't break us up so really there's not much that could happen that could drive us apart while we still want to be together :]c it was so lovely to hear your story of bumping apart and back together again then finally when the time was right coming together for real... all the best for the two of you and tbh LOVE the shirts

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  5 днів тому

      That is a crazy and amazing and beautiful story!❤️

  • @elodyluna
    @elodyluna 6 днів тому +7

    WE NEED A SERIES OF THIS STORY. such a good video ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @laurelcunningham2215
    @laurelcunningham2215 4 дні тому +3

    It has been a real pleasure to hear y'all's origin story! I have since been binging the rest of your content and I love it!! Thank you for making videos

  • @bilong92
    @bilong92 4 дні тому +3

    just coming back to say I'm glad this is getting decent views!! I showed my girlfriend the beginning of this the other day (not expecting her to be into it because she has never sat down for a 30 minute youtube video in her 30 years of life) and then today she's like "what happened to those lesbians?" so we watched the last like 27 minutes together and we both agree this is adorable and funny (that first kiss story is insane) and I could go for a whole series of you two telling stories. Here's to lesbian hope!

  • @nocucumbers5308
    @nocucumbers5308 4 дні тому +3

    I would read a book about this 😭 wow this story is intense but i’m glad you guys ended up together ❤️❤️

  • @luciem3114
    @luciem3114 6 днів тому +7

    What a brave & beautiful share. Its sad to hear that you were ashamed of your feelings Chloe & for Natalie feeling
    homophobic.
    I think love is complex no matter who one loves + add in your mix is brain & heart aching.
    Im so happy youve both realized your love for one another. You are such an inspirational love story & the way you are together is inspiring to many others. 💞💝💯💕

  • @GinnyEvergreen
    @GinnyEvergreen 5 днів тому +4

    Awww this is too cute! So much better then 'my boyfriend and I met on Bumble' 😂, although it doesn't matter because I am now definitely dating my best friend too!🥰

  • @tamiespe4164
    @tamiespe4164 3 дні тому +2

    You two are adorable!! What a sweet sweet story!! 🌈🌈

  • @AlyshTube
    @AlyshTube 4 дні тому +2

    this was truly wiiiild. so happy for you both💌

  • @cheekynandosss581
    @cheekynandosss581 8 днів тому +39

    you both thought you were lesbian predators toward each other 😭

  • @la_vem_mudanca
    @la_vem_mudanca 6 днів тому +3

    Que lindas!!! Adorei a história de vocês!!! Tão emocionante, tão encantadoras!!! Os desenhos ficaram top!!! Vocês são pura inspiração!!! Obrigada pelo maravilhoso vídeo!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @PhoenixFeathers
    @PhoenixFeathers 4 дні тому +3

    I love how pop culture is so entwined with your story! 😂

  • @salahnettekoven9734
    @salahnettekoven9734 3 дні тому +2

    This makes me feel a lot better, it’s okay not to know how you feel sometimes.

  • @jodietonita
    @jodietonita 7 днів тому +9

    this is so generous. you two are the best.

  • @franzi8678
    @franzi8678 3 дні тому +1

    This like made my day. What an amazing story. Beats any fanfiction. I love friends to lovers so I wanna thank you for telling your story. Will definitely follow you lovely people.

  • @freshwatchesalotofyt
    @freshwatchesalotofyt 17 годин тому

    UA-cam recommended this to me and I’m so glad it did because I don’t know y’all, but now I love y’all. This is so cute! ❤

  • @Its_Me1330
    @Its_Me1330 5 днів тому +3

    this is the first time i’ve ever seen your channel and i love it. i usually don’t watch long videos, but this was so intriguing! you guys are so cute.

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  5 днів тому

      I’m so happy you enjoyed our channel! We have a lot more videos coming!

    • @Its_Me1330
      @Its_Me1330 5 днів тому

      @@Whimsy_the_bus yay! excited to see 🫶

  • @naomi-art-stuff
    @naomi-art-stuff 7 днів тому +12

    I would’ve loved to hear the dramatic climax of the story be told by Chloe!! bc I’m usually the one in her shoes baha and I feel like she was valid asf 😭😭🫶🫶

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  7 днів тому +4

      @@naomi-art-stuff I have loads of diary entries from that time so I can paint better word picture in another video. Honestly this video could have been 18 hours long because of all of my feelings

    • @naomi-art-stuff
      @naomi-art-stuff 7 днів тому

      @ and I relate so so much and would love to see vids like that haha! I’m an autistic pisces and a hopeless romantic so definitely feel u

  • @marsha831
    @marsha831 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you both for all the joy - wonderful!

  •  2 дні тому +1

    I love your story! 😍

  • @moonberryluv
    @moonberryluv 5 днів тому +3

    Haha as soon as you said March break i was like, they gotta be from Canada!
    Great video! Subscribed :)

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  5 днів тому +1

      Thank you❤️ yes Canadian girlies 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

  • @gabrielleagsunod7697
    @gabrielleagsunod7697 4 дні тому +1

    I have a major assignment due tonight and I’ve only discovered yall but I really sat through the whole video with the biggest grin on my face LIVE LAUGH LESBIANS 💪💪

  • @skylightimages
    @skylightimages День тому +1

    Love you two, so dang wonderful!

  • @FlyingWonderGirl
    @FlyingWonderGirl 5 днів тому +2

    It took a while, but you got there ❤ happy for you both!

  • @KaylySavage
    @KaylySavage 2 дні тому +1

    Charming story - thank you for sharing!

  • @Greenygal3
    @Greenygal3 5 днів тому +3

    This is so remiscent of my relationship with my fiancé, thank you for sharing your story

  • @Melissa-iw8xo
    @Melissa-iw8xo 5 днів тому +2

    So cute...in the best way possible.

  • @sorola
    @sorola 2 дні тому

    ‘Am glad you both finished the paintings.

  • @jaidenjn
    @jaidenjn 5 днів тому +2

    yeah I'm gonna need this to be a movie asap

  • @h18ww200nin
    @h18ww200nin 7 днів тому +6

    I hope Dan and Phil watch this ❤

  • @dcfan7838
    @dcfan7838 12 годин тому

    I feel like I just watched a slow-burn fan fic. Bloody hell! I'm glad you two are married and happy together because that sounded like a shitstorm. You two were the definition of the lesbian situationship for like 10+ years. Great video and again im so happy you guys got together in the end!

  • @bilong92
    @bilong92 7 днів тому +4

    this is such a compelling story, thank you for sharing it, I went to Dal until 2018 and when you said king's I was like "of course" haha

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  7 днів тому

      Thank you! We did a lot at Dal too! Maybe we saw each other around 😊

    • @bilong92
      @bilong92 7 днів тому

      @@Whimsy_the_bus Maybe!! I was in grad school by then and didn't leave the social work building haha but I did take a couple classes at king's too back in like 2012.

  • @08Nameless15
    @08Nameless15 4 дні тому

    What an exciting story! And well presented in the video! ❤ You two look gorgeous, and I loved watching you paint the t-shirts, too. All the best for the future! And thanks for the lesbian hope! 😊 Greetings from Germany

  • @carlyformosa4471
    @carlyformosa4471 7 днів тому +3

    This is so beautiful 😭❤

  • @ashiasimone98
    @ashiasimone98 7 днів тому +9

    I’m not finished with the video yet, but I had to say me and my gf also knew each other since we were like 6 but didn’t become friends until we were like 15 and I had developed a crush on her and she rejected me so hard cuz she thought it was weird to like your friends. Then one day she realizes she loves me but I’m such a wounded puppy at that point I take a while to decide if I want to be with her. In the end we decided to be together but like why did I have to go through that rejection phase lmaoo.

  • @eeeeesha
    @eeeeesha 7 днів тому +2

    This was a very interesting story. I hope one day i might find a love like yours ❤

  • @mischapotter
    @mischapotter 3 дні тому

    Stayed up late watching this, you guys are so relatable and funny!! Are you guys living in vancouver? I’m in north van and think that it’s so cool that you’re nearby!

  • @Niko-ys1il
    @Niko-ys1il 7 днів тому +12

    This is the kinda love I want

    • @Niko-ys1il
      @Niko-ys1il 7 днів тому +1

      This is also called algorithm blessing

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  7 днів тому +1

      Thank you thank you ❤️ we are so happy you enjoyed it

  • @rosee1709
    @rosee1709 5 днів тому +1

    I love your story 💞

  • @camscima
    @camscima 3 дні тому

    WOW This story needs to be a book or movie

  • @DicedToads
    @DicedToads 3 дні тому

    This is so cute, I sent it to my partner when I was only three minutes in :D

  • @rouschkavanderplank2396
    @rouschkavanderplank2396 8 днів тому +2

    What a lovely video!

  • @peachnecctar1658
    @peachnecctar1658 6 днів тому +1

    adorable story and adorable shirts

  • @margpeach
    @margpeach 7 днів тому +7

    Gives me hope that someday I can find a wife

  • @haydeecastillo4621
    @haydeecastillo4621 4 дні тому

    It’s a cool story 😊

  • @ellawilson3508
    @ellawilson3508 4 дні тому

    I never comment but I just came across this video at the perfect time, thank you guys for making me laugh this was hilarious, from Scotland :)

  • @PhoenixFeathers
    @PhoenixFeathers День тому

    “In the bed we shared together” 😂 12:52

  • @okmentalhammer
    @okmentalhammer 5 днів тому +1

    Omfg thank god this is on yt this needed to be told

  • @mattmaggoux9859
    @mattmaggoux9859 5 днів тому +1

    Woww your life is literally a movie

  • @S20v2
    @S20v2 3 дні тому

    Over the garden wall mentioned !!???

  • @mercuryinleo6658
    @mercuryinleo6658 6 днів тому +2

    Please excuse my language… but this is the cutest mf shit I’ve ever god damn seen. I was squeaking and awing the whole time 😭

  • @adi-ee8zj
    @adi-ee8zj 5 днів тому +1

    "its really sad when a lesbian is homophobic" SO TRUE YALL SO TRUE

  • @chicken_haver2111
    @chicken_haver2111 8 днів тому +4

    hey so what do you do when you watch this and relate a little too much :)

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  8 днів тому +1

      Lol. Depends on what you related to. Be honest and kind to your honest

  • @RandomProductions106
    @RandomProductions106 4 дні тому

    If only everyone is lucky to find a love like yours

  • @nicolademosthenous1345
    @nicolademosthenous1345 6 днів тому

    what a beautiful story

  • @MarkKent-o2t
    @MarkKent-o2t 3 дні тому

    both very amazing couple.mark

  • @MariarsClara
    @MariarsClara 7 днів тому +4

    I identify with a bunch of things that Natalie said about the process of accepting herself and internalized homophobia, if it's not asking much I would like a video about your experience with queer self-acceptance, how did you know you were a lesbian instead of bi even if you have dated men. You guys love is beautiful, full of tenderness, synergy and sparkles. Love from brazil 🥰

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  7 днів тому +2

      I have a video that I made when I first realized I was a lesbian. It’s a little slow by my standards now, but I think I talk a little about everything. You should be able to find it on this channel. It was before Chloe and I got together, so I had more to learn about myself.

    • @MariarsClara
      @MariarsClara 6 днів тому

      @@Whimsy_the_bus Oh sorry, I hadn't checked. Thank u!!!!

  • @graceraven3423
    @graceraven3423 3 дні тому

    You should have added a little bit of red to that mix that you were trying to make brown

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  3 дні тому +1

      Yeah it was a bad idea anyway🫣🤪

    • @graceraven3423
      @graceraven3423 2 дні тому

      ​@@Whimsy_the_bus😂 btw, I found your channel from this video. I want to say congratulations on 26,000 views! The quality of these videos is evident, and your editing is really cute. You two are a blast and are very funny, and I know if you keep up posting at some point you will Garner a larger audience. I will be sticking around and I'm excited for your next upload❤🎉😊

  • @Shreyy3435
    @Shreyy3435 7 днів тому

    love d vdoooo

  • @Soccernat358
    @Soccernat358 6 днів тому

    you guys, wow, woweeeee :)

  • @alancarrick1541
    @alancarrick1541 5 днів тому +3

    This is my first video and OMG, this is the queer version of Ross and Rachel. will they, wont they! So happy you did as you are an amazing couple! 🥰

  • @stephanyjablonofsky9749
    @stephanyjablonofsky9749 5 днів тому +1

    Do i know them? no! Am i invest in their life? YES

  • @maximous9993
    @maximous9993 4 дні тому

    The timeline was so looooong to get to a relationship. I would not be able to tolerate it and I would go away, very far away.

  • @u_MonaReads
    @u_MonaReads 7 днів тому

    You guys looks so young I can't believe you're married!

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  7 днів тому +4

      We’re 25, some people thinks that’s too young for marriage. But you know, we’re in love ❤️👰‍♀️👰‍♀️

  • @jeanethtinaja
    @jeanethtinaja 5 днів тому

    Can you share the playlist with us?

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  5 днів тому

      It popped up on the screen really quickly. It’s not a crazy long playlist because I made it at work lol

  • @nikamichalides8263
    @nikamichalides8263 6 днів тому

    This reminds me of minsung so damn much its crazy

  • @elizabethsmentalstate6011
    @elizabethsmentalstate6011 3 дні тому

    this shit was gay af and I loved it

  • @pfftxoxo1502
    @pfftxoxo1502 2 дні тому

    Me when

  • @RedWhirlWind
    @RedWhirlWind 4 дні тому

    Hey I just found you two but if you live in calgary it would be fun to do a meet up. I've been trying to find some queer friends but no luck since I've moved here. Or if you know of cool queer spaces let me know. Thanks for the story and have fun in the bus!

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  4 дні тому

      We’re in Vancouver! And we are also terrible at finding queer spaces. I’ve heard bouldering is the place to go

  • @naomi-art-stuff
    @naomi-art-stuff 7 днів тому +4

    ok here’s my story bc I haven’t journaled it yet so lemme do it now. it’s a damn good thing I didn’t see this video like a year or 8 years ago…… bc my dumbass has/had a huge crush on my best friend (I’ll call her baz) since I was 15 and now I’m 23…. dam idk where to even start bc I’m high as shit but basically y’all remind me so much of me and this girl. Keep in mind I just got over her. Finally. it all started when I was with my first queer partner at 15, we broke up partially bc I liked this girl Baz .. she showed me hamilton we were both little autistic bi girls.. it was intimate !! and a great time for me. So innocent and I remember telling my friends I like her and them being excited for me and we were all at the same sleepover that night lol. Then me and Baz had a sleepover at mine that was probably gay as shit OH yea so she’s middle eastern and I asked her to write and talk to me in Farsi and I was literally on the floor like heavenstruck baha I’m such a hopeless romantic and a sucker for movie moments too so when we had a sleepover at hers and we watched sherlock we made a fort to watch movies and when we were falling asleep we were just looking into each others eyes baha I did that a lot w girls back in the day bc it’s just so cute. Now I’m single as a mf but anyway then we dated for a month knowing I was going to move to New Zealand by the 2 month mark :( then I left and we barely talked n she felt betrayed n our friend group fell apart lol and I started my new life and got a girlfriend. I fell in love w this new girl immediately and I thought we were soulmates mind you. I was just also polyamorous and never get over anyone so Baz was still in my mind but I got adhd so I lowkey forgot her and focused on my gf. Then I visited America 2 years later and me and Baz were still allegedly best friends. We only ever hung out alone so we just kept doing that and having sleepovers for multiple days and kinda fighting like a married couple but I’m sensitive so I felt weird abt it. at the same time were basically acting like we’re dating imo and we got drunk or high a few times and flirted and she I think liked the attention but not necessarily me. I tried to tell her I felt like she was flirting w me last night but I got embarrassed and didn’t want to accidentally confess my feelings bc I was still with my gf. so I basically did what Chloe did and told her you weren’t like flirting w me last night right…. and she was like oh no ! Not me not at all basically and I was like :| ok bye then got in me car baha. the next year I visited she was flirty as well I’m pretty sure. this whole time I’m dramatic lesbian yearning for her and listening to all these sad songs abt her it’s tragic. then me and my gf of 3.5 years who I live with break up bc she cheats on me.. LIKE. anyway so I’m deathly heartbroken to this day but I needed someone basically. and I was like Alexa play fresh out the slammer by Taylor swift idk. but this was 2021 so I FLEE THE COUNTRY TO SEE HER 6 months post breakup so the worst is over but I’m by no means healed. I go to America after me and Baz have been flirting over text and planning basically dates imo and she says “yea me and my partner-“ and I’m like surely she means a girl.. and a polyamorous one.. then it’s a cishet man whos monogamous as shite. I’m baffled bc I barely thought this girl would ever date a man let alone one that’s not lgbt. We go out on the town and hold hands while walking the streets of a downtown and it’s gay and christmasy as shit. Anyway she’s telling me her relationship problems and I’m telling her they should break up bc they only been tgt a couple months it’s not worth it. then that night she’s like let’s watch movies and cuddle in my bed !! we haven’t cuddled since our relationship.. the next morning she tells me she felt bad for cuddling with me??? implying it wasn’t platonic?? So I was like ok. Yearning activate. then she starts getting flaky and never asks to hang out. She leaves her bf and I visit her and she cries to me, then we cuddle again and she says the next morning she feels bad bc she doesn’t want to lead me on or anything.. idek what to say like what. ok lemme shut it down YEARNING OVER wtf is this. then she’s like I’m just monogamous idk we’re not compatible which is true. We’re not. I’m a softie and she’s a hardie idk I could never get a good read on her and ppl like that scare me. I felt like she was masking a lot. then we’re in our platonic bestie era in 2023. And she tells me she’s found a friends with benefits :) a girl who’s polyamorous in fact. and I’m like haha wow. Cool. ok y’all have fun. at this point I’m comfortable with me liking her and her never liking me back. I start to think abt everything that’s happened and realise maybe this isn’t all my fault. Maybe she did just like the fact that I like her. But I’ve never even confessed bruh. at any moment she could claim to be oblivious the whole time and that just makes her innocent and me crazy and a predator bff. Bahahah. So I go back to New Zealand and try to start a new single life. I text her a confession saying I never stopped liking you after we broke up in 2016. I felt like you were flirting back with me so I just kinda fanned the flame until now. And she replies I KNEW ITTTTTT omg. amd I’m like 😃😃😀😐 cool glad this is fun for you. that pretty much confirms to me that she doesn’t like me back so I move on. I go back to America and don’t talk to anyone lol then she comes over for my birthday sleepover we all get high and start watching some weird A24 movie she put on and she keeps spoiling it bc her and the other girls have seen it. Me and my sister are like tweaking bahaha she then Baz later kept talking abt ethel Cain who she looooovesbc she’s a cannibal . This freaked out my sister a ton bahaha and it gave us both the ick so I couldn’t be friends with her anymore I just needed to move on fr. So I did again I’m back in new zealand and I go thru many mental health crises and crushes and healing and it’s definitely a good year (2024) now we’re here. My sister is pregnant so I’m back in America and I don’t tell Baz. Then a month goes by and I tell her bc I miss her ok !! And I’m single and desperate. I enjoy yearning even if it’s just for the plot Alexa play coffee by chappell roan. We get boba and talk abt our current situationships and then we talk abt us and our past and how we’ve changed over the years and I bring up something that I held resentment towards her abt (that would usually trigger her and make her act annoyed with me) but she handled it well and the convo flows and she brings up how I like her. I was flustered asf but happy to talk abt it bc it was so refreshing to just have an honest conversation with her. Then we rly honestly went through the years and described our dynamic and all the resentment and I basically told her this comment but in a nicer way so she won’t think I villanized her but I lowkey did and by the end of the convo I told her yea I know u didn’t mean to lead me on but I felt like you liked the fact that I liked you. I thought those were the signals u were giving. she apologized and was shocked that all this was happening all these years. It felt like a weight off my chest so that was good and now everything is out in the open for once and we’re actually starting fresh and are fully platonic. I told her I’m not too comfy with physical affection yet but she wants to which is a strange change from her old self but she said how about u just initiate whatever affection ur comfy with and I was like yay. Communication is great. I’m glad she’s finally communicating basically lol. I know I’m a problem sometimes but I do feel like she was my only friend I didn’t communicate with.. bc I liked her so I feared messing that up. Tragic. And now I fear without the pressure to like me back what if she starts liking me. I’ve thought abt telling her if you ever like me tell me immediately bc I can’t second guess. I’m so sick of yearning for her but if she ever likes me I’m downnn god I’m pathetic

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  7 днів тому +4

      Wow, that was so real and so fun to read. You should write a book. I’d watch this tv show. All I’m saying is wait a couple years she might come around. - Chloe

    • @naomi-art-stuff
      @naomi-art-stuff 7 днів тому +2

      @ STOPPP bc I knew you’d say that 😭 at this point Idek if I want her to. I think I’d be too hurt and not trust it bc I have a big fear of the rug being pulled from under me. I also just think she’s not soft enough for me. also she doesn’t exactly understand my perspective. She apologized and feels bad but if she started telling the story from my side and laughing like in this video I would be a little bit like damn it was dramatic yes but it was seriously painful for me aswell like I feel so bad for little me. I can’t betray her like that and just take my ex back if she suddenly has feelings for me tbh. But I’m also a sucker for romance soooo

    • @naomi-art-stuff
      @naomi-art-stuff 7 днів тому +2

      @ and tysm!! I would also watch this show and I rly want to make a show like this someday. so many girlies relate to liking your best friend

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  6 днів тому +1

      @@naomi-art-stuff you should listen to “I’d have to think about” by Leith Ross. Your story is really giving that song.-Natalie

  • @GinnyEvergreen
    @GinnyEvergreen 5 днів тому

    woaw woaw woaw woaw woaw woaw please tell me that was a joke about over the garden wall being 10 YEAR OLD?? HOW

    • @Whimsy_the_bus
      @Whimsy_the_bus  5 днів тому +1

      I know! They just had their anniversary

    • @GinnyEvergreen
      @GinnyEvergreen 5 днів тому

      @@Whimsy_the_bus That's crazyyy! Time flies!

  • @Natalie-uq2gl
    @Natalie-uq2gl 9 днів тому

    CUTE😂