ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thurs, Oct 3, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS 0:00:00 Start, Welcome 0:04:35 Raymond: black representation in media 0:05:51 Elon Musk daddy: Men never complained or cried 0:15:57 Don't tell your wife if you cheat? 0:27:11 Never complained. Women concerned about getting cheated on? 0:43:13 Never heard men gossip. No forgiveness from wife. 0:48:40 Don't cheat. But if you do, don't tell it. Don't do it again. 0:54:37 Men having leaders? The Fallen State: Louis Farrakhan 1:04:39 "Our community"? 1:06:08 Haitian doctor, two wives. What drove him? Same spirit in you! 1:10:29 Disagreement: False pretenses in marriage? Telling women? STD's? SORRY KIDS 1:23:09 JLP: Managing evil? Woman thought man cheated: life in prison. God's Discernment. 1:34:42 God's "anger" in the Bible. Abortion? Every thought in captivity. 1:36:57 Cheating? World says tell it. God: stop doing it. God not holding it against you. 1:40:41 Sharing God's wisdom? 1:43:16 Watch anger. 1:44:51 Elon Musk's daddy in South Africa. White people: Men, values 1:52:38 How to maintain Western Civilization? Overcome fear/anger, and see. 1:58:47 BQ: Why is your life one collision after another one? 2:03:42 JLP on BQ: You're consulting with thoughts: Another life within 2:06:55 Closing, announcements, last words BLOG rebuildingtheman.com/the-world-says-tell-it-god-says-stop-it-church-9-29-24/ PODCAST / Substack rebuildingtheman.substack.com/p/the-world-says-tell-it-god-says-stop -- Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday 11 AM PT (1CT/2ET) at BOND in Los Angeles rebuildingtheman.com/church/ SILENT PRAYER: silentprayer.video | READ rebuildingtheman.com/prayer/
I don't know about most women when it comes to the issue of privacy.. but I know my mother you could never confide in her in anything.. whatever you said would end up in the whole family.. man that was aggravating
@@luisgarcia373They need silent prayer. They bind to each emotion that arises because they don't understand they don't need to do that. It's not the only game to play.
My ex of many years ago cheated with his brother who passed away wife within a few months of his death and then he BRAGGED to me that he did it with her and her friend and for me I could never forget that seriously truthfully I was more offended that he would do that to his brother's wife after his brother passed away😢😢😢😢😢
It really destroyed the balance between a woman and a man. I want a man who wants to discuss what I like and get to know what I want out of life as well as he would tell me.
What you want is another female. Men don't talk about what they want in life. We are simple. Unless you are dealing with an emotionally weak man then you will get that but you will hate him for that.
Hahahahhaa this wins comment of the year😂😂😂 to be honest I thought he was an autistic hwhite man. He’s definitely an OG of church. I went back a few years and he’s there!
"...call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven." Mattew 23:9. And if Jesse said Dad for our earthly dad I'd know who he's referring too.
One more question. Using the same logic, should you tell the cops if you murder someone? If you tell them, your life is ruined, but if you don't, you get to live free.
It's likely true that "there's no coming back from that" (husb confessing to his wife wl be used as a weapon), BUT @45:30, what abt that situation (death from AIDS)? @52:30, Jesse, I strongly disagree w/you on this one. Then you cite a "best case scenario" (a husb who regrets it, & then never does it again). Weak ones who don't, will justify it, i.e., "I got away w/it once, no one got hurt...". Yes, STDs existed in your youth, but if the husb got medical treatment/Rx, & didn't tell the wife, then they keep passing it back & forth btwn them. Some STD infections cause infertility. C'mon, Jesse, get real.
If a man is cheating, its with a hotter or similar girl than the one he's with, if his judgement is so bad that he would bring back STDs, it then would justify a woman being worried about that, but otherwise, she should have enough respect for the man that even if he was cheating, she respects that he'd probably be doing it with someone of similar caliber to herself, ie. Clean Her confessing that worry, simply shines light on her lack of respect and trust for her man
This dude knows 48:15. You can't repair a relationship when after you tell a woman or she finds out you've cheated. It doesn't work. If you can't address your inner conflict quietly, just dump her.
It’s all individual based. My grandfather had another kid outside of his marriage with my grandmother and they are still together 40+ years later. And a husband and wife has ownership over one another’s bodies. According to the Bible. I wonder should a wife have an abortion without telling her husband?
I agree with the British chick. It's a lie by omission whether the other person admits to it or not. And who's to say if the one cheating confesses, that the other person wouldn't have discernment to deal with the truth in the right way? Jlp is assuming the one being cheated on wouldn't be able to handle the truth and retaliate in anger however if you overcome then yes you could handle the truth and deal with it in the right way. Lying bc you think the other person would have anger isn't a reason to withhold the truth bc then you're just judging that person and not trusting how the situation will play out. Love jlp but dont forget to think for yourselves either 💯
At the risk of being beyyyyta, I agree that a wife or husband should be able to refrain from running round dipping and diving haha, lust is indeed overwhelming tho so I understand why it happens
What about that one time a woman pretends to have a headache to avoid sex. This whole marriage has been a lie 😂. Or if they eat the last cookie and said the dog did it. Whole marriage a lie 😭😭😭
Jesse I hope you read this. You are dead wrong on this one. Living a lie is not a way to live. That’s a life of hell. If the marriage was meant to work, coming clean would only make the marriage stronger. If the marriage was doomed from the start, coming clean would simply serve as the catalyst to move on. I urge anyone in that situation to come clean. The truth will set you free. Her reaction is out of your control and not your problem. Jesse says go and forgive your parents. I would also say go and tell your wife you’ve been unfaithful. God will take care of them. You are no longer living a lie and can walk as a true man.
As far as the cheating thing goes, Jesse himself said you shouldn't try to make a relationship work. Why is he flip flopping now? Reminds me of when he said a woman shouldn't talk about her past. It's true that discussing both of these can destroy a relationship, but you shouldn't be trying to make a relationship work anyway. It's definitely not a good one when you're lying by omission.
@@luisgarcia373 an open relationship is mutual, there's no dishonesty there. Acknowledging this fact is not the same as endorsement. Better to be in an honest open relationship than lie to the partner that trusts you.
i think telling her is ok because of the STD and disease thing. as the man said, his grandma caught AIDs cause her husband didn't confess. i agree with the anger part but the instance to not tell your wife (even if you risk her health) can't be right. best to smoke on that point a bit more Jesse! :)
ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thurs, Oct 3, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. rebuildingtheman.com/events/
TIMESTAMPS
0:00:00 Start, Welcome
0:04:35 Raymond: black representation in media
0:05:51 Elon Musk daddy: Men never complained or cried
0:15:57 Don't tell your wife if you cheat?
0:27:11 Never complained. Women concerned about getting cheated on?
0:43:13 Never heard men gossip. No forgiveness from wife.
0:48:40 Don't cheat. But if you do, don't tell it. Don't do it again.
0:54:37 Men having leaders? The Fallen State: Louis Farrakhan
1:04:39 "Our community"?
1:06:08 Haitian doctor, two wives. What drove him? Same spirit in you!
1:10:29 Disagreement: False pretenses in marriage? Telling women? STD's? SORRY KIDS
1:23:09 JLP: Managing evil? Woman thought man cheated: life in prison. God's Discernment.
1:34:42 God's "anger" in the Bible. Abortion? Every thought in captivity.
1:36:57 Cheating? World says tell it. God: stop doing it. God not holding it against you.
1:40:41 Sharing God's wisdom?
1:43:16 Watch anger.
1:44:51 Elon Musk's daddy in South Africa. White people: Men, values
1:52:38 How to maintain Western Civilization? Overcome fear/anger, and see.
1:58:47 BQ: Why is your life one collision after another one?
2:03:42 JLP on BQ: You're consulting with thoughts: Another life within
2:06:55 Closing, announcements, last words
BLOG rebuildingtheman.com/the-world-says-tell-it-god-says-stop-it-church-9-29-24/
PODCAST / Substack rebuildingtheman.substack.com/p/the-world-says-tell-it-god-says-stop
--
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday 11 AM PT (1CT/2ET) at BOND in Los Angeles rebuildingtheman.com/church/
SILENT PRAYER: silentprayer.video | READ rebuildingtheman.com/prayer/
The father hated Elon Musk.
My father never cried when his father died. Red flag. My dad hated his father like he hates me too.
This is wisdom, 💯. I have not heard anything like this, EVER !! Ty Lord for leading me here because my mind wanted me to pass bye.
I don't know about most women when it comes to the issue of privacy.. but I know my mother you could never confide in her in anything.. whatever you said would end up in the whole family.. man that was aggravating
Your mum is a woman, remember that.
The point is never tell women your issues. They are very emotional.
@@luisgarcia373They need silent prayer.
They bind to each emotion that arises because they don't understand they don't need to do that. It's not the only game to play.
Amazing service today, thank you Jesse
Wow Jesse you said a great mouth full of loved it loved it God bless you❤❤❤❤❤
Absolutely agree get rid of our anger
Thank you Jesse, you are wise. 💓💓💓
1.15 that lady is my favourite. Loves the word pertaining more than anything. Love it!
Amazing Church today.
Hey Brother Jesse. I'm from Phenix City Alabama. I Love Your Channel. Great to see you on here.
Great live stream service today
I'm a trucker from AZ and I'm in LA for the weekend ,i wanted to see Jesse so bad today. I woke up at 10 am and missed it tho.. mann
You still could've walked in
Next time lol
Beta! 😂
...great fellowship thanks Bond!
TY JLP I learned a whole heck of ah things today Blatt!
My ex of many years ago cheated with his brother who passed away wife within a few months of his death and then he BRAGGED to me that he did it with her and her friend and for me I could never forget that seriously truthfully I was more offended that he would do that to his brother's wife after his brother passed away😢😢😢😢😢
Had a great time thanks for the messages. My silly body wasn’t there but I was there in spirit. Peace ✌🏼
One thing Jesse is absolutely spot on about are women.
Jesse,Strong Name!
Just Happens To Be The Same Name i Was Given.
Ppl who cheat are living in darkness and should step into the light. The light reveals all things.
It really destroyed the balance between a woman and a man. I want a man who wants to discuss what I like and get to know what I want out of life as well as he would tell me.
We naturally don't talk about our problems like fathers don't tell their kids their problem.
It's the media that destroyed the actual order
You want a bayda?
What you want is another female. Men don't talk about what they want in life. We are simple. Unless you are dealing with an emotionally weak man then you will get that but you will hate him for that.
Aboot aboot aboot
Hola! Si senior, mama mia 😂
Lmao idk why that irritates me so much
@@waitingforthekingShe pronounces every other word correctly then tosses that in there so it sticks out
Raymond you’re black ?!?! What da!?
I was having a tough day. Heard Raymonds voice, immediately knew i was where I needed to be. Church baby!
@@straightdownthebarrelhope your days better today 👍🏻
Black and slow, yet one of the wisest in the room.
@@michaelsinanan88
Very wise
Hahahahhaa this wins comment of the year😂😂😂 to be honest I thought he was an autistic hwhite man. He’s definitely an OG of church. I went back a few years and he’s there!
I totally agree if my ex hadn't told me we would have been better off I could not forgive him after he told me
When your woman speaks for you so demonstratively in public, you are officially neutered.
Or the man who doesn't speak up is a beta
"...call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven." Mattew 23:9. And if Jesse said Dad for our earthly dad I'd know who he's referring too.
God will not put you in a logistical/emotional/financial nightmare, thoughts got you in that mess!
Stop listening! Life takes care of itself!
She said “ I don’t own anybody not even my husband”… The fact that people think this way, what da
One more question. Using the same logic, should you tell the cops if you murder someone? If you tell them, your life is ruined, but if you don't, you get to live free.
👍👍💯🇺🇸
"'you don't need no man"' "'you only need a man if you are lost... when a man says you need him give him a middle finger"" lmao... deadass
Raymond is black!?
@@suraya1224I imagined he looked like Peter griffin
Haha, not at all.
Imagine he look like Idris Alba 😂
@@theportroyal7626
😂😂😂
It's likely true that "there's no coming back from that" (husb confessing to his wife wl be used as a weapon), BUT @45:30, what abt that situation (death from AIDS)? @52:30, Jesse, I strongly disagree w/you on this one. Then you cite a "best case scenario" (a husb who regrets it, & then never does it again). Weak ones who don't, will justify it, i.e., "I got away w/it once, no one got hurt...". Yes, STDs existed in your youth, but if the husb got medical treatment/Rx, & didn't tell the wife, then they keep passing it back & forth btwn them. Some STD infections cause infertility. C'mon, Jesse, get real.
If a man is cheating, its with a hotter or similar girl than the one he's with, if his judgement is so bad that he would bring back STDs, it then would justify a woman being worried about that, but otherwise, she should have enough respect for the man that even if he was cheating, she respects that he'd probably be doing it with someone of similar caliber to herself, ie. Clean
Her confessing that worry, simply shines light on her lack of respect and trust for her man
This dude knows 48:15. You can't repair a relationship when after you tell a woman or she finds out you've cheated. It doesn't work. If you can't address your inner conflict quietly, just dump her.
It’s all individual based. My grandfather had another kid outside of his marriage with my grandmother and they are still together 40+ years later.
And a husband and wife has ownership over one another’s bodies. According to the Bible. I wonder should a wife have an abortion without telling her husband?
I agree with the British chick. It's a lie by omission whether the other person admits to it or not. And who's to say if the one cheating confesses, that the other person wouldn't have discernment to deal with the truth in the right way? Jlp is assuming the one being cheated on wouldn't be able to handle the truth and retaliate in anger however if you overcome then yes you could handle the truth and deal with it in the right way. Lying bc you think the other person would have anger isn't a reason to withhold the truth bc then you're just judging that person and not trusting how the situation will play out.
Love jlp but dont forget to think for yourselves either 💯
At the risk of being beyyyyta, I agree that a wife or husband should be able to refrain from running round dipping and diving haha, lust is indeed overwhelming tho so I understand why it happens
Everyone agreed you shouldn't cheat. It was what if he had done already
Yeah you weren't listening
Women are made for it but men are
@@steve17bf2multiple wives isn’t cheating
She is so stuck in her EMOTIONS 😅😂
Man : "He was here sleeping with prostitutes"
Jesse : "Nice"
😂
Please Jesse, let people finish talking. Stop cutting people off. It's very rude !!
Women are emotional 😭
Moses had 3 wives it’s all over the Bible. That’s biblical marriage
The Bible says be angry and sin not
Jesse doesn’t know Elons dad married his step daughter. elons sister is his new mother in law
What about that one time a woman pretends to have a headache to avoid sex. This whole marriage has been a lie 😂. Or if they eat the last cookie and said the dog did it. Whole marriage a lie 😭😭😭
does Jesse ever open his Bible and preach the word of God?
That’s the word FROM God, not the word OF God
I thought the woman with the speech impediment moved away
Jesse I hope you read this. You are dead wrong on this one. Living a lie is not a way to live. That’s a life of hell. If the marriage was meant to work, coming clean would only make the marriage stronger. If the marriage was doomed from the start, coming clean would simply serve as the catalyst to move on. I urge anyone in that situation to come clean. The truth will set you free. Her reaction is out of your control and not your problem. Jesse says go and forgive your parents. I would also say go and tell your wife you’ve been unfaithful. God will take care of them. You are no longer living a lie and can walk as a true man.
45:46
Indians pulling wagons in Europe? Must be talking about the Roma.
Jesse if we not married why won’t men just be straight up and she I’m not going to be faithful unless we married
You're playing around with boys, who look like men
But if women stopped believing our crap and they they have this magical thing between their legs, the manipulation wouldn’t work.
No God doesn’t hold a grudge, plus God of the Bible condones multiple wives, he’s just against sleeping with another man’s wife, adultery.
Once a partner cheats the relationship is over. Never mind speaking, if you cheat and keep that to yourself you're a p.o.s.
Beta! 😂 You sound like an angry woman who has been cheated on many times. 😂
You cheat on JESUS everyday
As far as the cheating thing goes, Jesse himself said you shouldn't try to make a relationship work. Why is he flip flopping now? Reminds me of when he said a woman shouldn't talk about her past. It's true that discussing both of these can destroy a relationship, but you shouldn't be trying to make a relationship work anyway. It's definitely not a good one when you're lying by omission.
Lying by omission 😆 you can't lie if you say nothing
Cheating is dishonest, which is evil. If there is a mutual agreement for an open relationship then fine, but that ain't the same as cheating.
@@EnglishRoots-x8nCheating is dishonest but having an "open" relationship is fine. 😂 Talk about morals
@@luisgarcia373 an open relationship is mutual, there's no dishonesty there. Acknowledging this fact is not the same as endorsement. Better to be in an honest open relationship than lie to the partner that trusts you.
@@EnglishRoots-x8nDo you get my point?
i think telling her is ok because of the STD and disease thing.
as the man said, his grandma caught AIDs cause her husband didn't confess.
i agree with the anger part but the instance to not tell your wife (even if you risk her health) can't be right.
best to smoke on that point a bit more Jesse! :)
No
@@RasKalevthesouljourneryes
Men def gossip on these corny podcasts
45:56