3:22 Is it me, or does this part sound like a mix between the Natural Human Female strategy for passing her genes onto the next generation and the Sigma-Male Grindset you see in MEMES?
When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. Their sociopathy isn't a consequence of trauma, Dev, it's a consequence of no trauma at all. You already said so in your "The Language of Trauma" video.
Men behave baldly too, Dev. But women are a protected class. Bad behavior is praised and rewarded in women and punished in men. Social media is full of it.
To be fair FDS isn't most women just like r/incels isn't most men Twitter wokescolds hate FDS for being TERFs. Even r/againsthatesubreddit has a few threads about them
Women like this are far worse at objectification. Finding women's bodies attractive isn't even "objectification." A person's body is literally a part of them. However, treating him like just an ATM is absolutely objectifying.
Those terms in of themselves aren't really an issue, as they are useful. However, anyone who thinks they are high value and demands people to treat them like it, they are actually low value, since it is arrogant and entitled.
Gotta agree with Sargon 101% when he said “I bet older people who got married and have a family feel like the people in Vietnam who got the last helicopter out.”
Also you can't call her the F word, cause it's bOdY sHaMiNg, but she's allowed to make fun of a guy for being born with a small one and even call it a "red flag".
Man: _finds mentally stable woman who had a father figure growing up and wants children same as he does_ Womyn with pronouns on social media and other woke bs: “why are all good men✨gone✨??”
How is that hypocritical? You're comparing "American Women" to "American Women" as if all of them are the same person. While a lot of the ideas in FDS are toxic (mainly being extremely self-centered) they do have some good ideas like supporting traditional gender roles and being anti-hookup culture.
@@popers1328 A lot of women say they want a traditional man, but do they fulfil their own traditional role? Will they cook and clean? A lot of women say they are against hookup culture, but you need to look at their actions not their words. Are they done riding the carousel when they are 30 and need to look for beta bucks, or do they reject it when they are still young? Do they reject it because they are tired of Chad mistreating them, or because they understand it is a moral wrong and damaging to their mental health, pair bonding, and chance at a long term relationship?
The sexual revolution is the ground zero for all of this. The devaluing of sex and relationships wasa slippery slope, just like we were warned of. We threw off traditions and morals without ever thinking about why they were there in the first place.
Maybe if people were just a tad less sociopathic and stopped being immoral (they had the will to have their wants and vices achieved morally), then MAAAAYBE we could just throw traditions into the bin. After all everyone wants to live differently compared to the standard.
I'm lucky to be in a loving relationship now after suffering emotional abuse from an ex but I also got the option of being gay since I'm bisexual but I feel bad for the straight guys who don't have many options. It's tough out there keep working on yourself because you do have value and someone worthy will enter your life with whom you'll see value in but they'll see and appreciate your value a relationship requires 100%/100% from both sides.
@@cynicalgothbrit2352 This, I can understand the pain some men and women feel over their past trauma but to become toxic and bitter helps no one, not even them.
@@MirandaSinistra For sure and I'd give this advice to women as well I convinced a female friend of mine rather than start an onlyfans she should use her brain instead and try to create something because she's smart and talented. I don't personally have an issue with porn but I won't lie if your only ambition in life is to be a pornstar i find that a little sad. There's far more you can offer the world than just your body your ideas are far more valuable even if they may not be right the first time it may just take simply expressing them being criticised and some fine tuning to get something that's life changing for not only yourself but for others. Low self esteem is an epidemic most people don't recognise but it's constant throughout modernity.
What an absolutely vile person you have to be to think not being well endowed is tantamount to sexual assault for daring to try and have relations. That guy didn't know how huge of a bullet he dodged.
The harpy was already warning her friends so he is boned already. Though, considering the nature of this particular thot one can safely assume her friends are just as cancerous.
Her: "I was nearly assaulted" Also her "When I asked him to stop, he stopped and apologised" I'm so glad I'm married and don't have to deal with dumb women just so I can have a loving family.
"I was at a store and almost got ROBBED by the clerk! He asked me to pay for my groceries and I said no, so he cancelled the transaction. Wow, that was a close one."
Imagine being such a toxic and terrible woman that you need to join an effing DATING STRATEGY group when its SO EASY for women to get into relationships. Even walking train wrecks can get into relationships as long as they hide the crazy well enough.
It's not so easy any more. The easiest answer to the question "Where have all the good men gone?", would be "Far, *far* away from you". Men don't want to sleep with a time bomb and there are too many women like this and they tend hide their nature very well. So while not all women are like that, it's best to assume they are.
It is a bunch of 30 year old women who are jaded that they had poor decision making in their teens and early 20s when choosing sexual partners. Many of them are single mothers. I believe this is some sort of defense mechanism to subconsciously make themselves unattractive to men because they have been so screwed over in the past by losers.
And to add more frosting to the dateless cake, most of the groups "dating strategies" are directly contributing to the reasons why the women still remain as incredibly bitter singles. You can't claim to be lookin' for love, when you've already judged every prospective partner to be the scum of the earth.
@@nicholashodges201 I have zero perspective on this (I'm a woman and have been married for almost 9 years). I'd think that the red flags would pop up pretty quickly in a woman if you talk about the right topics. Edit: I also can't wrap my head around women lying from the beginning of a relationship to hide their flaws, since starting anything on a foundation of lies is doomed for failure. Maybe I just don't understand the dating scene at all since I've been out of it for a long time. And I get that it's not so easy anymore since MGTOW and men no longer being stepped on by these toxic women, but I still see it happen often in my family/friend circles.
I've noticed a lot of women go straight to "OMG like I was almost literally abducted/ raped/ attacked" when they encounter a person or situation that makes them uncomfortable. I guess it's just an attempt at getting attention.
Yeah idk if you saw his other video where the nerdy chick was getting hit on and she acted like the guy just punched the wall beside her head when really he was doing some of the most polite and soft core flirting I've ever seen.
I think it's a sign of narcissism and a complete unfamiliarity of men and the male point of view. Maybe these girls were raised by single moms or something.
@@TheGreenKnight500 no there just taught men are literally all animals in human skin. except the ones from a certain region of the world where they were desert cloths and actull DO encourage the attiutde in men the femacells swear all men actually think.
My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years, and it's painful to see what men have to go through now with the dating scene. I just hope that these idiot femcels are rare, for men's sake.
@@holographicfrog1503 nah it got a shitton worse after online dating took off. I had the joy of getting to date pre OLD and man you have no idea how much it sucks missing that last chopper out of the dating hellscape (was going to get married around 2013 but turned out I dodged a big ass bullet because that lady was a cheater)
Mansplaining, like many others, is a word that I immediately check out of a conversation and disregard the conveyer of that language intellectually, immediately upon hearing it.
Right, I tend to view that term as a red flag in and of itself, usually signifies to me the woman saying it might very well be a narcissistic feminazi demagogue trying to tell men how to be a man but is really telling them how to be a doormat for women
Dating is such a hopeless prospect for me. 23 and I've never had one. I'm just doing my best to improve myself. Finish my education, keep dieting and exercising, making friends, and so on
These folks don't want real relationships, they want a literal fairytale where Fabio McChad Horsedonginus sweeps them away and they never have to do anything to earn it. Even then, if a guy they saw as an upgrade came along, they'd still try to hop on that wagon. When you base your relationship exclusively on shallow shit like wealth and appearance, there is no reason to settle for 'good enough' because you aren't attached to the person, but what they provide to you in the moment. You don't want a relationship, you just want a sugar daddy, AND you're picky about every aspect of their personality & physical attributes to boot. Entitlement, unrealistic expectations, deflecting all blame onto the opposite sex... Peak incel behaviour right there.
Most of these examples loop on one pattern. These people constantly rely on shaming language used to overwhelm and subjugate you into giving them more of the same pandering that these social predators have already been conditioned to expect and demand. No gratitude, no integrity, no respect, just SHAME FLINGING and nagging. Over and over again. This is the price that humanity pays for spoiling generations with simping. The only way to win is not to play. Define your own purpose.
Isn't that just the way women show their love? Men love women for what they are and women love men for what they do for them? 🤔 When I was little I remember asking mom why she loved dad, basically she gave me a list of the things he did around the house and she also explained the ways in which he took care of me/my sister.
"Women who study philosophy are fine." No they are not, they constantly look into things in order to fix you and identify your problems, I have seen it happen 😅
Any philosophy you learn in college is worthless. I learned a lot of Christia! philosophy and I know people have their opinions on that but at least we talk about useful stuff like ethics, moral culpability, meaning of life as opposed to stuff like privilege and wether or not we’re just brains in a jar.
Depends. It's alright to study, it is one of my favourite subjects, but they need to realise they need to be realistic & practical like Jordan Peterson how he approach it when almost alot of women don't do.
One thing I've found striking in this who mess is that if a guy misrepresents himself for sex that's rape, but if a woman gets married through deception & lies it's not immediate grounds for annulment & fraud charges...
Also leads to a massive reductio. A transwoman who misrepresents herself to a man would also be r@pe. If you don't tell your partner you're trans, that's r@pe. They shoot themselves in the foot.
That's just a facet of human nature and there isn't much we can do about it. People will inherently see women as victims who can do no wrong, and it takes serious effort to break out of that mindset.
@@godsamongmen8003 we're talking about two separate things. You're talking about a double of human nature, I'm talking about a completely deliberate alteration to the legal & social aspects of courtship that were implemented in the last 45 years. They can be undone just as easily as they were done
@@nicholashodges201 I'm not so sure the changes can be undone that easily. To me, the warping of the dating scene is just the logical end of instant communication -- women used to only have access to local men around them. Asking them to give up the infinite choice they get online would be a bit like asking a fat kid to give up his candy.
God, I usually think the "MGTOW" stuff is going a little too far, but seeing women professing this ideology makes me have much more sympathy for them. MGTOW is 100% right, at least about women like this.
It’s in many ways good this video exists. Because most people will deny this ever happens or deflect. If these issues where talked about with the same seriousness than maybe we wouldn’t have these extremes occurring
You think that because that's what the mainstream media & the far-to-extreme ends of BOTH wings tell everyone. MGTOW happened because *all* of the social contract around dating & mating have been tossed out & replaced with the idea that men have zero rights in relationships, which is enshrined in law. It happened because *every* male exclusive space has been either shut down or made coed while female exclusive spaces (except for restrooms & changing areas...) are *also* protected from that at the same time.
"If I had kept kissing him I'm really worried he'd have kept going and put me through an awful experience." The amount of problems in this sentence would need a PHD and a few million in funding to unpack
I feel like there's a kernel in each of those 6 platitudes that's incredibly based. Sift through the obvious "Yass queen" gender pandering that likely serves to solidify their following and get down to core messages like, "Be your best self and don't let other people's opinions of you dictate your actions." "Ruthlessly evaluate your partner as someone who adds value to your relationship." My personally favorite is the one that so blatantly demonstrates just how far back the pendulum is swinging is #5, Make Him Invest For Sex. Go back to the days where sex outside of safe, well-established relationships with reliable partners is frowned upon? That sounds like a great plan. Can't have children you can't support if you don't just give it away to everyone. It's the, "leftists discover the nuclear family," trope that Sargon went on about a couple of weeks ago. You work so hard to abandon established ideals and create your own system only to eventually come to the realization that what you deconstructed was naturally constructed that way for a reason.
It is plainly obvious that any successful philosophy is based on truth. The truth doesn’t change. FDS is somewhat based? It has to be. You can’t start a movement based on everyone being a furry tractor 🐻 you can, but it’s plainly ridiculous. Truth is still out there.
Agreed. A lot of those core principles I agree with. The problem is that they aren’t willing to hold up their end of the bargain and be a traditional woman
I don't really think so. Their criteria for being a "High Value Woman" is basic adulthood. Like "If you can cover your own rent, you're a girl boss that don't need no man, so you deserve a top 1% man, and he still needs to worship you and don't be afraid to divorce him." (That 6',6",6figures things is met by 1.2% of the male population.) It's like men going "I don't live with my mom, so now I deserve a girl that's 120 lbs with triple D breasts" And when they talk about "added value" and "getting an investment before sex" that doesn't sound like they want a relationship. That sounds like they'd like to get paid to have sex they wanna have anyway. Like, these women aren't virgins. They're not being chaste until a worthy man makes them his wife. They're going "Make him buy a 200$ dinner before you sleep with him after the first date, so you don't feel used."
It's a sign we've become extremely decedent. Once the next major depression comes (and it could be here soon), these women are either going to be wiped out or turn into the concubines of the few remaining wealthy men left.
@@TheGreenKnight500 " or turn into the concubines of the few remaining wealthy men left" Yes, that's what they want. A Matriarchy is in essence, a society of tribal harems.
oh they would there the kind of people who had no pride or sense of shame to begin with theyd be the FIRST people selling themselves in the streets to save there own skin.
"Almost had consensual sex with a guy that I would have then regretted" = "Almost assaulted" As someone who's been actually assaulted, this person should consider becoming unalive of her own volition.
@@orppranator5230 The problem is that just being lonely doesn't stop her from making a false accusation. For someone like that, we need a more, uh, "final" solution.
@@orppranator5230 No because they drag society down with them while making people who genuinely suffered those events in their own lives be less believed as time goes on. I agree with this OP and if thats too real for you, then throw them in a cell, lose the key and feed them once a day, im fine with that too.
When women play mind games in the relationship, it is applauded, no matter how wrong it is no matter who does it. At least incels try to be honest about their motivations.
On the internet its applauded, in real life people hate woman like that. Do you know women who everyone dislikes, because they pull shit like this? I do.
I wonder why a lot of these "high value women" have depressed wine addicted lives? The business woman life isn't for everyone. This path has led everyone to be more depressed
The best kind of people defend humans rights. The worst kind of people defend men rights. Am i the only one seeing the contradiction here ? Or i must just accept men are not classified as humans beings anymore ?
Don’t go near anyone who tries to quantitively value the worth of another human to themselves, man or woman. It’s why most of them are childless, because they’re emotionless weirdos
@@lordbizzle2424 It's actually a good thing if they don't breed. I actually sigh in relief when I hear that terrible people end up with each other instead of decent people, and don't spread their misery to another generation.
A few reasons exist for that. On my end, monster girls, alien women or Love dolls even if one of the reasons didn't exist. I will say it, giving any one the benefit of the doubt, Feminism. Not all men and women should vote, unless they sacrifice something. AKA going to war, paying taxes etc
as soon as she found out he wasn't a 10/10 it was assault. good thing for this guy tho, as women can also decide a day or even a decade later that something they consented to was actually an 'assault'.
It's really messed up. It really needs to be drilled into the heads of young women that an awkward intimate moment or sex that you regret later does not constitute assault. This is the result of being raised to believe that they don't have any agency and men are completely malicious animals.
I remember when the article in Huffington Post came out that stated the idea that if a woman regrets an encounter it's r@pe. It was painful, he'd stopped and asked if she was okay. She nodded and now suddenly it's r@pe. My comment was if that's the case then every woman that's ever existed has been and that it belittles the women who have faced real r@pe. I wasn't alone. The majority of responses from women were negative on the idea she was pushing. I'm sad that now men think most of us believe what she was putting forward. Edit: She quoted me in a follow up article about how women pushed back against the idea. I got it taken down and I've been anonymous ever since.
"I wonder why men are checking out of the dating market? Just can't figure it out. Must be porn, anime, and video games. We should ban them!" - Tradcuck Right
Pick-up artists get laid, which is their goal. It's not a noble goal. I won't applaud them for it. But they are accomplishing what they set out to do. Do these women find loving husbands?
I feel badly for the Gen Z's lads who will come after me. I've always been a skinny, pale nerd who didn't have much luck with ladies, but I knew that the relationships I did manage cultivate were genuine exchanges of self. The transactional nature of modern relationships is bloody depressing. They're chasing things, thinking things will make them happy. Like, they're not chasing happiness itself. They're after material gain. It's so cheap. If you're a Gen Z lad, and you're reading this, I am so sorry for you, man.
Don't worry bro. Us Gen Z'ers will realize this and STOP REPRODUCING all together. This is our way in taking revenge towards the unnurturing humanity we have come to actualize. May we live long, and die out!
The fact someone is charging money for this tells you all you jeed to know. Get them mad, get them addicted to that rage and then charge them 8$ a month to get the next fix. Impressive and amusing.
This isn't modern women necessarily; Twitter, Reddit draw the some kind of people from all sides that you might imagine. Normies may not be like this but I would say most media in all forms does push women towards promiscuity and thinking of men as tools to be exploited to get what they want.
@@kriegjaeger women conform to the group. If you acknowledge what the female group is, you acknowledge how the individual woman will behave. If you would like to prove me wrong, please provide evidence of a large public group of women who oppose this nonsense.
@DragonSlayer Marr I get what you are saying but I don't acknowledge statistically irrelevant data. Let's say one woman in 10,000 is worth speaking to, in that case it's not worth the rent seeking behavior required to "win" that competition. Juice and squeeze, simple as.
A couple that had been happily married for 60 years was asked what the secret to their success together was. They said that back in their day, when something was broken, they'd fix it instead of throwing it away.
This. My parents have been together since the beginning, they had their disagreements but they knew to bridge those gaps instead of parting ways I’m proud to have blood relatives that remained together through it all, unlike some which truthfully I find depressing
Did I miss anything? I know some of these are better than others. 1. False accusations must be prosecuted and need to be punished harshly. 2. No fault divorce has to go. 3. Prenuptial agreements need additional legal support. 4. If a paternal candidate claims a child is not his then two things should happen. The child should not be considered his until a DNA paternity test has been performed, and the man cannot deny access to his DNA. 5. Child support should not be collected by the state but instead should go directly to the mother (or father on those rare cases). 6. The state should not be benefiting from child support. 7. The family court should not be immune to civil liability suits. 8. Women who engaged in consensual sex must get permission from the father to get an abortion. 9. Equal custody should be the standard. 10. If neither partner in separation wants a family court involved then the family court has no legal standing to interpose itself. 11. Child support must be a percentage of income and never a set number. 12. Missed child support payments should never involve jail time. Instead the court should order an offender's wages garnished. 13. Children should require both parents approval to get puberty blockers or a sex change.
Honestly, a lot of this advice could have come from Sargon of Akkad. 1) Work on self improvement. 2 & 6) Gender roles are good. 3 & 5) Don't be promiscuous. 4 ) Be pragmatic.
This would be like taking the worst of incel posts, but if you added in a massive helping of arrogance. The worst of incels are angry, but they still generally hate on themselves too. These women though are angry, but still think they are too good for every man they come across.
The funny thing about it is that the difference between this female shit and the incel shit is that at least the incels have some sense of self awareness which they'll probably come out of that mindset eventually. There's no chance for these women.
That’s just the difference between men and women. Men know that their value is attained through their own efforts, women know that their value, at its core at least, is given to them by being born.
Worse. You'd have to add entitlement, as well. Incels are like the men the are starving homeless person just desperate for scraps and angry at being spat on, kicked, and ridiculed by everyone who walks by, while these women are like the homeless person that not only rejects scraps handed to her from a local restaurant that had extras and felt sympathy for her, but angrily throws them back in the good Samaritans face while claiming she deserves food from a Michelin star restaurant and anything else is beneath her. I have sympathy for incels, but not for these awful women.
@@orppranator5230 For what it's worth, in my opinion part of a woman's value is directly tied to her vagina one way or another. Some examples; How many other men have been inside of it? What race and/or religion were those men? Is it visually appealing? Does it smell good and taste good? Is it pierced? Is it groomed properly? Is it prone to infection? Does it have an illness associated with it or passed to me through it? Does she post or sell pictures of it on the internet? Is it ALWAYS loose? Pro tip for guys that don't know, just because a vagina is loose during intercourse that doesn't mean it's blown out. It *usually* means she is very excited and really into it. However it isn't supposed to be like that ALL THE TIME. Pay attention and learn to differentiate between "blown TF out" and "turned on". There are more examples I'm sure but that should be enough to give everyone an idea of what I meant when I said their value is at least in part tied directly to their vaginas.
@@orppranator5230 Ironically, your talk of value sounds EXACTLY like these toxic women. Maybe, y'know, only sociopaths and incels think about human beings in that way.
Nah this one is real. R/FemaleDatingSratPros is the fake one. That one is funny because it’s everyone acting like real FDS members as a goof. The real FDS is just sad and or horrifying
Why would FDS set their own standards for a 'high value woman' instead of those reflected by reality? For any FDS reading this, here is the real 'high value woman' starter pack: 1. Has a good relationship with her father. 2. Understands relationships are built upon mutual selflessness.
@@lidiagizaw3828 we live in a time where men more resemble women and women more resemble men. I don't mean this figuratively I mean this on a chemical level. Women make more selfish decisions and have more sexual partners than the average man, while men have become more docile and willing to put up with it. Look up "mouse paradise" theory which explains this biologically.
When I met my current girlfriend, we were both in a detox center, and probably at one of the lowest parts of our lives. But we hit it off. After we had already been cuddling and kissing for a few hours, I simply asked "Are you my girl now?" to which she blushed, smiled, and said "of course". Our first time being intimate was a few days after leaving detox, and it as totally mutual; we agreed that we were more compatible partners than either of us had ever had. Three years later, we've been living together for over 2 years, and plan on staying together for the rest of our lives. My point is that sometimes you don't need a strategy. You just need to wait for the right person. When you meet them, you'll know.
I absolutely agree with the “don’t date a guy who majored in philosophy” bit. When I was in student govt in college as a senior, one of the guys who got elected at the same time I did was a senior philosophy major, and my god was he one of the most obnoxious asshats I ever met; dude was basically a walking over-educated white hippie stereotype and every time he opened his mouth, I about cringed to death because it would be so dumb. As an example, we were debating at one point about whether to give money to support a Walk A Mile In Her Shoes fundraiser the fraternities were putting on, and this guy insinuated with a straight face that the event was transphobic because it excluded trans men. I’m sure I wasn’t the only one cringing… Guy also ended up dating one of the leaders of the progressive faction of the body who was an equally obnoxious black girl who made way too many issues about race. When I saw them announce they were dating, I thought to myself, “good for you, you two sluts deserve each other.”
Wouldn't including trans men be MORE transphobic?! If it's a women exclusive event, including trans men means you still see them as women. All those years studying philosophy and he still fails at basic logic.
Fun fact, incel is one of youtube's trigger words. I didn't click on this video the first time it came up, but I remembered it and wanted to watch later, so I searched for it. Using fairly specific language, too, not just 'incel' or 'female incel' but including SFO's name and such. But incel is one of those words where the corporate media desperately wants to control the narrative, so searching for it gets you nothing but piles of very 'authoritative' propaganda and suppresses everything else.
I love that she didn't consider the dude wasn't erect yet and her friends "knew" he was a virgin as if that's something you don't hold close to your chest due to that exact sort of thing happening.
fds can be summed in one sentence, "traditional values for thee but not for me". These women want a 1950s husband while being 2022 wives, it makes absolutely no sense and im sure all of those women will die alone.
The most traditional of traditional values is "your desire shall be unto your husband, and he shall rule over you." That was cemented about 2,000 years ago with "Wives, obey your husbands, as you would obey The Lord." Women aren't "traditional" in the same way communists aren't "liberal" in the Lockean sense; they're gynocentrists.
"Men aren't capable of genuine love." Not sure about that, it's mostly guys who off themselves after marriage dissolution. Sounds like one half had their heart/meaning torn out, and the other one, not so often.
That actually just sounds to me like projection. The person who said it probably isn't capable of genuine love and therefore can't conceive of anybody else feeling it.
Holy moly. I used to be into the 'manosphere' , where crap like this was not unknown, a phase of anger broken men had to go through on the path to sorting their shit out. But you are supposed to get over it. It's a pendulum swing equal and opposite to the problems you have had, not a lifestyle.
The main difference is that the manospere generally acknowledges the phase where dudes are far too salty after understanding the facts about womens' nature. There is generally a treatment for men who become like these women, because men are expected to be better. Women? These female subreddits are *approvingly* filled with the kinds of topics that male forums of the same variety would make every effort to break their own members out of. Even male pickup artists aren't this bad in comparison.
@@lidiagizaw3828 The manosphere is a reaction to feminism, and women aren't staying away from guys since stats show the majority of men are single while a minority of women are single.
I think that fia from elden ring struck a cord with alot of people because the idea of someone whod just hold you in thier arms without passing judgement is one of the most appealing things in human existence.
And this is why I'm cripplingly paranoid (this is not women's fault it's just me, but things like this certainly contribute to my reluctance to engage in the dating scene)
It's absolutely your fault, but also insightful. This isn't even a new concept. People like this have existed for over 25 years. Try watching Sex in the City without puking.
@@shoopoop21 Aye, no point in me blaming an entire half of the world for my hang-ups or else I'm not better than these people be they man or woman. But I'm working on getting this fixed which is more than can be said for these sad people
@@satireisnotdead5804 _But I'm working on getting this fixed_ Because you're _broken_ right? There is something wrong with you, and it will be fixed when you trust wahmen. What a load of bullshit. It's not paranoia if the danger is real. Is the danger not real?
@@misanthropicservitorofmars2116 Keep on truckin' me lad, self-awareness is half the battle (and if you've got that then you've already got a leg up on quite a lot of people in the world)
Previous generations had the luxury of ignorance when dating. Now you can see your worst paranoid fear about dating in 2 clicks. Train wrecks on legs have always existed friend, just respect yourself and others and you'll be fine. The other side of the information age is its much easier to know who to avoid or not take on a second date.
Reddit and TikTok have presented men with a window into how modern women truly think and why your average male is withdrawing from the dating scene or at least goes into it with a greater sense of caution.
I've been out of the dating pool for a while, but I have friends who are in it. The way they describe their dates sound like job interviews. "What qualities do you bring to the table?" etc. The idea of pursuing a relationship because of a genuine spark of affection seems lost.
Switch the genders and these would be incel posts. Actually they're most then incel posts because at least incels didn't think they were chads and didn't turn down any woman who weren't to their standards.
Even most mens incel groups would consider this comically evil. No fucking men group is pretending the other party is taking part in one of the most heinous crimes imaginable, simply because they don't meet standards. Most of these incel men have completely lost any sense of standard at all, and are just desperate for romantic attention. That is not what I am seeing here. This is very, very cynical, and not about needing human connection. It's about a want for more status, more money, and more dick to getting off on. These people deserve to die, alone.
They are female "alphas". This is the reason birthrates are declining. There is this clash between people who expect the other person to serve them in relationships. Add this to a completely cynical view of the opposite sex each assuming the other is "incapable of love". I've heard these same things from men directed towards women. We have a serious problem with people like this hating the opposite sex and expecting everything while not having to give anything in return.
Yeah, I left the “Red pilled” group and MGTOW because after digging deep enough and stoping my willing ignorance I began to see how many of the people there were bitter men whom were everything they claimed to despise then if found FDS and couldn’t help but find it funny how similar they are .
I think is just most men don't have any relationships in the first place. That and those people who do get relationships in wealthy countries, have to work to support the high cost of living for themself and their partner, without even considering the possibility of having children. This is one of those things that are a socioeconomic. I don't think "alpha" women and men don't want children out of a hatred for the other sex, I think is just children are expensive and big commitment even ordinary people are too vain to take on.
@@simonkorica9467This is all intentional, social-engineering on a global scale to drastically reduce population and cause collapse. The dating environment is thousands of lightyears away from being something thatd happen naturally or organically. This was pushed very heavily via predictive programming and brainwashing through media.
"It is the love you have for each other." Thank you Dev. It is so rare anyone ever talks about love anymore. The modern world just feels so cold on that front.
love is dead and lust is king now pretty sure a bunch of old dusty holy books mentioned this alot normally in soceitys right before they evaporated at the seems.
@@wilmagregg3131 Even lust is a hollowed out skinsuit, because if you fail to think it through and plan for it, your screwing buddy or whatever could just throw you under the bus for any reason. It's ridiculous how even the hedonist needs to put on his thinking cap and act like a baby Machiavelli just to get his rocks off.
@@wilmagregg3131 Yes "The love of many shall wax cold" Mathew 24:12 refers to the end of the world. Hopefully we can turn things around before it is too late.
Honestly I think love is the wrong term as well. You have to have grit, and determination to stick beside someone even when they are at their worst. Even if you no longer love your significant other you are supposed to stick by them.
The irony of "be your own women without revolving your life around men", when the entire site is made in order to help women date men and look for men and talk about men.
If you've ever seen PUA content, they were far more tame on average and almost always talked about what they were doing wrong. FDS is literally talking about what males need to do as a female strategy.
I found PUA forums very helpful, lifechangingly so in fact, but this was 2 decades ago before that stupid "The Game" book, back then it was just guys sharing experiences and helping other guys, it was a pretty healthy male space, I remember reading a post called 20 things NOT to do when trying to seduce women and I was like "omfg thats me lol". Most male spaces today are either taken over by incels or feminists.
Lucky bf u got there, but this could be a serious issue for me with an asian gf... I'm afraid she'll stumble upon these feminist sites and conform due to pressure from woke friends, you know the fear tactics that the left use where you're suddenly an evil person if you speak badly about a person that just happens to be black. Girl's a sweet angel but she falls easily for group think because she doesn't want to offend anybody or any culture.
I'm extremely disillusioned with the whole dating scene due to these sort of things. I'm only going to be 22 this coming July but I don't feel a lot of hope relationship wise. Rn I'm focusing on my art and writing, trying to take each day at a time
I don't even care anymore. If I meet someone that's good, If I don't that's fine too. I'm planning for my future; getting enough money, owning a nice little home, being there for my family. That's what matters to me right now.
7:45 Coffee dates are honestly one of the best 1st dates. Besides what you mentioned about being low effort with a way out, it's also a very public, providing a safe environment for both parties, it's relaxed and easy-going, so everybody should be comfortable, and it can easily lead to more afterwards if the two decide they'd like to. It's a date in an easy environment that can go wherever it needs to.
Movies is another “first date” I don’t get. “Let’s get to know each other by staring at a wall for hours, not making eye contact, and not communicating or learning about each other.” Whether or not you enjoyed the night is mostly dependant on whether or not the movie was good. Even if you make a move with your hand/arm, you still don’t know really anything thing about them. But maybe that’s just a teen thing. Coffee is more casual. I’d like to try a picnic. It’s still public, but more intimate since you’re not right beside other people. It also requires both of you to invest something of yourselves into it (making food). Although the latter could be a turn-off and might add pressure, so maybe something you do after a few dates, once you’ve gotten to know them more. Or a co-operative activity. Just ideas that are more personal or require you to engage with each other.
@@mrshmuga9 movie allows you to hold her hand, maybe make a move, without the discomfort of conversation. Yes it’s a teenage thing but they are also socially less experienced so it’s a great way to move forward. Try and think of the positives, not the negatives 👀
Usually, these types of videos make me feel depressed and hopeless, but this time around, I feel just fine. I'm not really sure why. I guess it has something to do with my fear and paranoia of malicious women. Seeing these types women be so open about their complete lack of morality really showed me how small and pathetic they really are. I'm lucky I've known a good number of women who are nothing like this. If I showed this to my mother, most of my aunts, either of my grandmothers (were they still alive), or even my ex girlfriend, the whole thing would be completely alien to them. If anything, this video made me feel a bit better. It shows me that a lot the same types of paranoia guys have about women also exist in a mirrored forms in women towards guys. "Men are incapable of love, they're slaves to their dicks" sounds a lot like "women don't love you, they just want money and resources; women are complete slaves to their hormones".
alot of these videos make me blackpilled and depressed. I am a gen z person and seeing the state of gen z makes me depressed knowning my chances of finding a women who is not woke is very low. Its impossible to reason with people in my generation. They are like zombies.
Honestly im someone who pretty much believes will be alone forever. Even if i glowed up and changed myself i do not think i would be able to change my personality. But seeing stuff likes this makes me happy that i will always be alone, or at least HOPE to be alone.
@@jurassicarkjordanisgreat1778 Hello gen-z-er. There's a reason you'll hear "life for men starts at 30" -- don't worry too much. In your age range, women are still pretty much idiots. (Source: I am a woman and was flat out retarded until 25-26) -- Focus on you. Don't worry about dating as much. Don't be too down.
Kids… get off the fucking internet. Palindrome says it for real. There are tons of people who are nothing like these reddit crazies. In fact most Aren’t. But if you swim in the sewer you will get covered in shit. Another thing. Some confuse black pills with depression or simple anxiety about their life stage. You aren’t becoming the wealthy man you dreamed about at 15. You think it’s hopeless. That’s not society. That’s just your head. I’m older than you in a much worse station situation I I’m fucking fine and dandy. Your perspective is flawed. Life Is only as hard as you make it. Trust me, black pills don’t attract anything good. They are called emo chicks. 🔪
> complaining about men who study philosophy > Ignores that men created the damn field > Thinks it’s about men wanting to dominate Wow, it’s almost like Philosophy evolved as a means of understanding the world around us and men often debated over their different understanding
proof? philosophy is all about thinking. aka bullshit. what had philosophy actually provided with us? think about it. it is hypocritical as this is a philosophy. society is a philosophy. what field if there is no field to field it? and yeah it obviously about power, but theyre hypocrites, they dont realize that theyre men too. men are women too. all of philosophy had provided is that we hate life.
Honestly, the fact that this is an acceptable part of modern culture is why men are scared shitless of taking initiative these days. One wrong move, one inadequate trait, and you can be charged with assault and have your reputation and life ruined.
6:00 Dev idk if you'll understand the "boiling grits" joke as a Canadian, but as a southerner I both laughed and was kinda shocked that was even put there, because it comes from the advice you get as a southern woman if a man abuses you: throw hot grits on him. Yes I've gotten that advice myself lmao Imagine advocating for not only assaulting but scalding and potentially disfiguring a dude and calling it dating advice.
yeah i dont know why that was there honestly returning fire on your aboser should be common sense not dating adivce cause by doing that your kinda impying physical abos is part of dating which is YIKES.
I'm starting to feel like any kind of movement eventually becomes a toxic husk of what it used to be, LGBT/female/African American etc... Especially when controlled by the most bitter of individuals who preys on the bitterness/fears of others
All those sorts of movements you listed had bitter revenge-driven origins. They were never good to begin with. A few good people along the way took some of those ideas and tamed them a bit, but the movements themselves were always evil at their core.
Feminism was always toxic, entitled and abusive. ALWAYS. Yes, even the first wave. They wanted the privilege to influence the future of their country, but without the responsibility of protecting it, while the suffragettes were terrorists that bullied and shamed 14 year old boys into going to war.
@@user-cs4su3ng9l Nah, I saw the shittiest Christians rise to the top of the holy hierarchy. Decent people get nowhere, the Christofascist rises to the top.
That first story is the equivalent of a man leaving a woman behind because he found out she has a small cup size. Even after she’s feminine, cooks, cleans, is good with children, and is kind. Basically everything you can ask for. Let me tell you something ladies, so long as they’re boobs, I’m happy. Do I have my preference? Yes. But what I mentioned above significantly trumps cup size for my attraction in a woman.
This has convinced me that I need to stop trying to date and focus on myself. Something I've been trying to convince myself to do for a while now. Find someone who wants to be with me for ME. Both men and women in todays dating world are deplorable, and have made it almost impossible to find someone who is actually worthy of anyone's time.
That first one about "being assulted" even though she was the one taking lead was both hilarious and sad. It's totally only going to get worse from this point in the video! Post-Watch Edit: Yeah, this is dumb and depressing. xD This is why people should just become friends first, partners later. I'm something of a relationship helper for some of my friends, and I've seen relationshops fall apart, both slowly and quickly. And for every single one that fell apart there was always the bit where one or both of them admit that "it just didn't click, but I like them anyways, but it would be awkward trying to say that!" The most important things in a relationship are knowing how much the other person actually resonates with you, and how much you mean to them, two things that can only be learned by spending time with them. Basically, the way I see it, if someone is gonna be there for you as a friend, then you better believe that they're gonna be there for you as a boyfriend/girlfriend.
FDS is why I cannot trust any woman, my own experiences with women have left me almost completely disgusted by them in general. I'm in the process of becoming a proper Monk & Hermit as the pursuit of knowledge and peace in oneself is fulfilling, unlike the pursuit of women. I wish you luck Dev & hope to be proven wrong and foolish.
I've been feeling very down throughout my youth for not being able to get a date when all my friends did. I feel like I've narrowly avoided those forums and the hook up apps. I'm still the same shy girl I was, but I'm trying to focus on self-development now, and grow past it. The scary thing is, everyone on the internet says, the older the woman gets the harder it is to date. But I can't really go from zero into negatives, so I've nothing to lose.
There's something wrong with you, women don't not find dates in this day and age, all you need to do us BE THERE! Have a minimal online presence and they come rolling in, us men would love to be even a llw value woman sometimes, you're either ugly as hell, fat, or too picky or all three, there's no other way you're in this situation.
@@CountArtha I’m “old” (31) and not exactly poor. But I am not a 10/10 in the looks department. That and I’m honestly not interested in wasting time dating.
@Hilbert When I was 20 I had an all-or-nothing mentality where I had to find a wife or not date at all. Passed up my chances with three girls (at least) in college who wanted me pretty bad but I didn't think they were "wife material." 20-year-old me was clueless.
@Hilbert Don't trust them, then. Wear a condom. Get them to send you a salacious text message when sex is imminent so you have documentation of willing, enthusiastic consent if she tries to bear false witness against you. You don't _need_ to trust them if it's just a casual thing; only if it's a committed relationship. False accusation of rape and pregnancy traps were the main thing holding me back from having a sex life in college, but nobody told me there was a way to protect yourself.
It's almost as if there are women out there who fit perfectly into the model presented by MGTOW. Imagine the shock!!! And, considering the message has never been "every woman will", but "any woman might", I don't think anymore needs to be said.
Man I live in a time where I just feel like I can't relate to people anymore. I am an 18 year old dude and I just don't get to relate to people much and when I do it's amazing. I feel like I wanna just be loved and love someone just because me and then spend time together and value it. This subreddit is the reason I am afraid of dating because what if I end up with that? I don't want that shit I love people but like this crap about spending money on dates. These people don't know what men think these people don't know what men want but these people judge us as if they know who we are? They don't men just want to have someone they can depend on someone who can depend on them not this fucking mask of a relationship.
if you want a little hope, this isn't representative of women, but rather of those women specifically who are so bad at this that they think farthuffing on Reddit will actually work
9:00 Ventress is not targeted because "women can't be too powerful", but because there can only be 2 Sith at a time, a master and an apprentice. So when assassins trained by the Sith become too powerful with the dark side of the force, thus being closer to a true Sith, or aren't useful anymore, they must be killed. The same thing happens to Savage Oppress, and to Starkiller in the Star Wars game.
Dooku and Vader faced this as well. They actually thought that Palpatine was fine with men being too powerful but he was too fragile for strong wahmen. Villains treating their pawns as disposable is pretty common.
I’m not a Star Wars guy but doesn’t this 2 sith stuff mean that there is only ever two sith? One boss and another guy hiding his power level to prevent execution? How can they become strong if they limit themselves to just two?
Their version of a “high value woman” is an extremely low value person. And anyone who thinks this is right leaning at all needs to re evaluate. This is not left or right it’s despicable.
Funny thing, they actually had some solid advice there for a sec! Getting a man to show true interest before giving away sex is actually a pretty smart move if you wish to find a long term partner.
CS Lewis once said, and I'm paraphrasing, "True love is not some fleeting feeling of affection, but the earnest desire for one's ultimate good." Based on this, I doubt that these women love themselves even.
His isn’t materialism, it’s hedonism. Materialism is wanting nice things and valuing good like a house, cars, games, etc. Hedonism is about pursuing pleasure among all else. A bit of materialism is good as you need stuff like a house to provide for your family, pursuing pleasure above reason is always bad. They don’t want men, they want pleasure machines.
@@marcar9marcar972 It is materialism when you look at a potential partner in terms of how much value they will provide for you instead of looking at them as a companion, as a friend, as a rock. Hedonism plays a roll, but it's the literal "looking at partners as if they were objects to be owned or banks to withdraw from" that is deeply materialistic in a part of human life that should be deeply spiritual (or emotional, if you don't like the term).
What isn't a thought about ROI? How much happier will this relationship make me? Another problem is how many people are actually capable of spiritual experience?
Let me tell you something EVERY. SINGLE. WOMAN on these subreddits and apart of this community *LOVE* Brutal Male Domination. To the point its just uncomfortable. They don't want anything they say, they want to be "put in their place" My advice, RUN AWAY
Honestly, they could really use some dominant men to put them in the place. They must have all had absentee fathers or fathers who spoiled them rotten. Humility is what they need.
@@TheGreenKnight500 the issue is again they dont want a relationship they want a hedonistic experince which means they still have zero qualms just saying you Rword them and ruin your life at any moment.
I think many women don’t mind being submissive with the right guy. The majority even. But we see the worst on Reddit, who want a hyper male experience. Extra dominance. It’s not a bad thing but their expectations don’t match reality.
The weird thing is how the absolutely terrible advice is interspersed with brief moments of brilliance. "If you want a relationship and not just a fuck buddy, do not give sex before establishing commitment." "If your life revolves around your trying to get a partner, you need to take a step back and work on yourself." "Discard your victim narrative." Juxtapose that with "never split a bill even if you both have careers" and "men have no value except what they can offer you."
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3:22 Is it me, or does this part sound like a mix between the Natural Human Female strategy for passing her genes onto the next generation and the Sigma-Male Grindset you see in MEMES?
This forum proves Mg _ Tow points
When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. Their sociopathy isn't a consequence of trauma, Dev, it's a consequence of no trauma at all. You already said so in your "The Language of Trauma" video.
Men behave baldly too, Dev. But women are a protected class. Bad behavior is praised and rewarded in women and punished in men. Social media is full of it.
Women control access to sx men controll access to relationship
Women: "Objectification is abhorrent. I am not your property."
Also Women: "High Value Female" "Low Value Male"
It wouldn't be a female standard if it wasn't a double standard. 🤷🏻♂️
To be fair FDS isn't most women just like r/incels isn't most men
Twitter wokescolds hate FDS for being TERFs. Even r/againsthatesubreddit has a few threads about them
Doesn't even sound they're dating people
Women like this are far worse at objectification. Finding women's bodies attractive isn't even "objectification." A person's body is literally a part of them. However, treating him like just an ATM is absolutely objectifying.
Those terms in of themselves aren't really an issue, as they are useful. However, anyone who thinks they are high value and demands people to treat them like it, they are actually low value, since it is arrogant and entitled.
Gotta agree with Sargon 101% when he said “I bet older people who got married and have a family feel like the people in Vietnam who got the last helicopter out.”
so creating more helicopters is a good thing
@beelllp if you can live this option with peace then why not
Can you explain? Im vietnamese and I dont understand.
@@coreytran7415 at the end of the Vietnam war or the American war, American soldiers and personnel were being evacuated out of Vietnam by helicopter.
Nah! More like had a chute, and bailed just in time!
Woman: insults, humiliates, shames men
Man: *leaves the dating market*
Woman: "why can't I find a good man"
Man: permanently gets with some nice lady who treats him well
Woman: "Why can't I find a good man?"
Also you can't call her the F word, cause it's bOdY sHaMiNg, but she's allowed to make fun of a guy for being born with a small one and even call it a "red flag".
Man: _finds mentally stable woman who had a father figure growing up and wants children same as he does_
Womyn with pronouns on social media and other woke bs: “why are all good men✨gone✨??”
Haha I love you guys
The man: decides to have a bromance with his bro
These Reddit creatures: "where have all the good men gone?"
American Woman: "Dismantle gender norms!"
Also American Woman: "A man's job is to..."
You expect them to have logic?
@@zendao7967 No, but at least we can laugh at them.
@@zendao7967 insane troll logic ?
yeah, this one often applies...
How is that hypocritical? You're comparing "American Women" to "American Women" as if all of them are the same person. While a lot of the ideas in FDS are toxic (mainly being extremely self-centered) they do have some good ideas like supporting traditional gender roles and being anti-hookup culture.
@@popers1328 A lot of women say they want a traditional man, but do they fulfil their own traditional role? Will they cook and clean?
A lot of women say they are against hookup culture, but you need to look at their actions not their words. Are they done riding the carousel when they are 30 and need to look for beta bucks, or do they reject it when they are still young?
Do they reject it because they are tired of Chad mistreating them, or because they understand it is a moral wrong and damaging to their mental health, pair bonding, and chance at a long term relationship?
The sexual revolution is the ground zero for all of this. The devaluing of sex and relationships wasa slippery slope, just like we were warned of. We threw off traditions and morals without ever thinking about why they were there in the first place.
"Traditions are the solutions to problems that have long since been forgotten."
-Somebody
*_“Le së×üal Revolution and it's consequences have been a disaster for the human Ra¢e”_*
Well, maybe guys should just be allowed to buy from le world's oldest profession and not waste time dating.
Who tf is "we"? This shit happened long before any of us had a say in it.
Maybe if people were just a tad less sociopathic and stopped being immoral (they had the will to have their wants and vices achieved morally), then MAAAAYBE we could just throw traditions into the bin. After all everyone wants to live differently compared to the standard.
It's reddit. 50% bitter legbeard fanfics, 20% genderblob fanfic, 20% incel trolls, 10% actual bewildered people.
“You’ll never find a more wretched hive of villainy and scum…aside from Twitter.”
In my opinion, reddit is 10x worse than twitter.
>legbeard
holy shit
LEGBEARD
God I'm using this from now on.
Wait Reddit's not just for porn? Huh
These women deserve to be alone forever, God willing no man ever gets tricked by them.
I'm lucky to be in a loving relationship now after suffering emotional abuse from an ex but I also got the option of being gay since I'm bisexual but I feel bad for the straight guys who don't have many options. It's tough out there keep working on yourself because you do have value and someone worthy will enter your life with whom you'll see value in but they'll see and appreciate your value a relationship requires 100%/100% from both sides.
@@cynicalgothbrit2352 This, I can understand the pain some men and women feel over their past trauma but to become toxic and bitter helps no one, not even them.
@@MirandaSinistra For sure and I'd give this advice to women as well I convinced a female friend of mine rather than start an onlyfans she should use her brain instead and try to create something because she's smart and talented. I don't personally have an issue with porn but I won't lie if your only ambition in life is to be a pornstar i find that a little sad. There's far more you can offer the world than just your body your ideas are far more valuable even if they may not be right the first time it may just take simply expressing them being criticised and some fine tuning to get something that's life changing for not only yourself but for others.
Low self esteem is an epidemic most people don't recognise but it's constant throughout modernity.
they will. The thirst is real.
These are most women.
What an absolutely vile person you have to be to think not being well endowed is tantamount to sexual assault for daring to try and have relations. That guy didn't know how huge of a bullet he dodged.
He didn't though his reputation could be ruined already
The harpy was already warning her friends so he is boned already. Though, considering the nature of this particular thot one can safely assume her friends are just as cancerous.
He dodged a tactical nuke.
@@realtalunkarku the wanton use of "assault" by these people makes me wary
And to think, that could have been his first time. I'd hate for my first time to have gone like that.
Her: "I was nearly assaulted"
Also her "When I asked him to stop, he stopped and apologised"
I'm so glad I'm married and don't have to deal with dumb women just so I can have a loving family.
ewww pedo pfp
@@1heKingLook closer, it also has a woodchipper
"I was at a store and almost got ROBBED by the clerk! He asked me to pay for my groceries and I said no, so he cancelled the transaction. Wow, that was a close one."
Bruh, people literally call being hit on ONCE harrassment these days
@@1heKing his pfp is literally implying that he throws pedos in woodchippers
Her: "Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends"
Me: "Female Derangement Syndrome....?"
Wouldnt that be LDS since its women coming after women?
@@ALovelyBunchOfDragonballzI did a bit too much LDS back in the 60's and now I have three wives...
Imagine being such a toxic and terrible woman that you need to join an effing DATING STRATEGY group when its SO EASY for women to get into relationships. Even walking train wrecks can get into relationships as long as they hide the crazy well enough.
It's not so easy any more.
The easiest answer to the question "Where have all the good men gone?", would be "Far, *far* away from you".
Men don't want to sleep with a time bomb and there are too many women like this and they tend hide their nature very well. So while not all women are like that, it's best to assume they are.
It is a bunch of 30 year old women who are jaded that they had poor decision making in their teens and early 20s when choosing sexual partners. Many of them are single mothers. I believe this is some sort of defense mechanism to subconsciously make themselves unattractive to men because they have been so screwed over in the past by losers.
@@nicholashodges201 gotta vet your women. don't be afraid to spin plates and keep your dating pool at arms length.
And to add more frosting to the dateless cake, most of the groups "dating strategies" are directly contributing to the reasons why the women still remain as incredibly bitter singles.
You can't claim to be lookin' for love, when you've already judged every prospective partner to be the scum of the earth.
@@nicholashodges201 I have zero perspective on this (I'm a woman and have been married for almost 9 years). I'd think that the red flags would pop up pretty quickly in a woman if you talk about the right topics. Edit: I also can't wrap my head around women lying from the beginning of a relationship to hide their flaws, since starting anything on a foundation of lies is doomed for failure. Maybe I just don't understand the dating scene at all since I've been out of it for a long time.
And I get that it's not so easy anymore since MGTOW and men no longer being stepped on by these toxic women, but I still see it happen often in my family/friend circles.
I've noticed a lot of women go straight to "OMG like I was almost literally abducted/ raped/ attacked" when they encounter a person or situation that makes them uncomfortable. I guess it's just an attempt at getting attention.
It does great harm to the reputation of the abused as well. Eventually, we end up with a Boy Who Cried Wolf scenario.
Yeah idk if you saw his other video where the nerdy chick was getting hit on and she acted like the guy just punched the wall beside her head when really he was doing some of the most polite and soft core flirting I've ever seen.
I think it's a sign of narcissism and a complete unfamiliarity of men and the male point of view. Maybe these girls were raised by single moms or something.
They're so sheltered that they likely legitimately think that's what assault is.
@@TheGreenKnight500 no there just taught men are literally all animals in human skin.
except the ones from a certain region of the world where they were desert cloths and actull DO encourage the attiutde in men the femacells swear all men actually think.
Congratulations, ladies, you're proving MGTOWs right.
My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years, and it's painful to see what men have to go through now with the dating scene. I just hope that these idiot femcels are rare, for men's sake.
@@aposematicayu Now? No it's always been this way (at least since the 80's). It's just more public now.
@@aposematicayu Considering they can operate openly on reddit, what do you think?
@@holographicfrog1503 nah it got a shitton worse after online dating took off. I had the joy of getting to date pre OLD and man you have no idea how much it sucks missing that last chopper out of the dating hellscape (was going to get married around 2013 but turned out I dodged a big ass bullet because that lady was a cheater)
Nah they just do not want to marry Christian women who try.
Mansplaining, like many others, is a word that I immediately check out of a conversation and disregard the conveyer of that language intellectually, immediately upon hearing it.
Right, I tend to view that term as a red flag in and of itself, usually signifies to me the woman saying it might very well be a narcissistic feminazi demagogue trying to tell men how to be a man but is really telling them how to be a doormat for women
Its an ideological signifier, and the best part is they basically shout it out so its easy to avoid.
there oughta be an update for the English dictionary. cause thats not the only dumb woke word that was added or changed in the last 20 years
The moment someone uses that wimpshit word, I just consider them un-people
Mansplaining = this guy does not agree with me and I don't like it.
Imagine leaving the perfect dude because a part of his body is a few inches smaller than you wanted it to be
And ruining his life, by telling everyone about it. This guy will lose any trust in women.
And, possibly, he wasn’t even fully up to his max size yet at that point.
It's the only thing they actually think about
@@orppranator5230 expecting women to actually know how men's bodies work is futile
@@orppranator5230bro didn’t reach his final form in time
Dating is such a hopeless prospect for me. 23 and I've never had one. I'm just doing my best to improve myself. Finish my education, keep dieting and exercising, making friends, and so on
Life for men really does begin at 30. Build up your skills and resources in the meantime, focusing on yourself is a good idea
Finding happiness in yourself is more attractive then anything, good luck brother
Keep up the diet, working out, and finishing your education, and you'll get a date in no time
Keep improving yourself what your doing will be more important in the long haul. You got this king
I wish you all the best!👍
"This is why males on Reddit are single!" ~single female on Reddit
These folks don't want real relationships, they want a literal fairytale where Fabio McChad Horsedonginus sweeps them away and they never have to do anything to earn it. Even then, if a guy they saw as an upgrade came along, they'd still try to hop on that wagon. When you base your relationship exclusively on shallow shit like wealth and appearance, there is no reason to settle for 'good enough' because you aren't attached to the person, but what they provide to you in the moment. You don't want a relationship, you just want a sugar daddy, AND you're picky about every aspect of their personality & physical attributes to boot.
Entitlement, unrealistic expectations, deflecting all blame onto the opposite sex... Peak incel behaviour right there.
Technically women who are only materialistically attracted to men are called gold diggers, these are just narcissistic feminazis
Most of these examples loop on one pattern. These people constantly rely on shaming language used to overwhelm and subjugate you into giving them more of the same pandering that these social predators have already been conditioned to expect and demand. No gratitude, no integrity, no respect, just SHAME FLINGING and nagging. Over and over again. This is the price that humanity pays for spoiling generations with simping. The only way to win is not to play. Define your own purpose.
Isn't that just the way women show their love? Men love women for what they are and women love men for what they do for them? 🤔 When I was little I remember asking mom why she loved dad, basically she gave me a list of the things he did around the house and she also explained the ways in which he took care of me/my sister.
Fully agree, starter
In the words of Bo Burnham
"Prince Charming would never settle for you"
19:06 _"I cheated on you... apologize to me."_
Can we talk about *Toxic Femininity* yet?
No because it's _clearly_ the patriarchy's fault! Dincha know men are all evil, sweaty???
"Women who study philosophy are fine."
No they are not, they constantly look into things in order to fix you and identify your problems, I have seen it happen 😅
Any philosophy you learn in college is worthless. I learned a lot of Christia! philosophy and I know people have their opinions on that but at least we talk about useful stuff like ethics, moral culpability, meaning of life as opposed to stuff like privilege and wether or not we’re just brains in a jar.
Depends. It's alright to study, it is one of my favourite subjects, but they need to realise they need to be realistic & practical like Jordan Peterson how he approach it when almost alot of women don't do.
One thing I've found striking in this who mess is that if a guy misrepresents himself for sex that's rape, but if a woman gets married through deception & lies it's not immediate grounds for annulment & fraud charges...
Bro, our governments force men to pay for kids that aren't his...
Also leads to a massive reductio.
A transwoman who misrepresents herself to a man would also be r@pe.
If you don't tell your partner you're trans, that's r@pe.
They shoot themselves in the foot.
That's just a facet of human nature and there isn't much we can do about it. People will inherently see women as victims who can do no wrong, and it takes serious effort to break out of that mindset.
@@godsamongmen8003 we're talking about two separate things. You're talking about a double of human nature, I'm talking about a completely deliberate alteration to the legal & social aspects of courtship that were implemented in the last 45 years.
They can be undone just as easily as they were done
@@nicholashodges201 I'm not so sure the changes can be undone that easily. To me, the warping of the dating scene is just the logical end of instant communication -- women used to only have access to local men around them. Asking them to give up the infinite choice they get online would be a bit like asking a fat kid to give up his candy.
"It's like a weird combination of ¡nceldom and sociopathy"
It's called feminism, Dev.
He's Canadian, he doesn't fully understand this as common knowledge at first go.
What wave of feminisim are we at now? I think I've lost count and It has become an oversaturated mess of female supremacy.
@@ICEknightnine the "waves" are purely academic at this point. It's always been sexual Marxism.
Shh don't tell him he's too wholesome to know ;)
nah just regular womanly behaviour.
God, I usually think the "MGTOW" stuff is going a little too far, but seeing women professing this ideology makes me have much more sympathy for them. MGTOW is 100% right, at least about women like this.
It’s in many ways good this video exists. Because most people will deny this ever happens or deflect. If these issues where talked about with the same seriousness than maybe we wouldn’t have these extremes occurring
Full monk seems like the only acceptable action anymore.
Mgtow is just correct
You think that because that's what the mainstream media & the far-to-extreme ends of BOTH wings tell everyone.
MGTOW happened because *all* of the social contract around dating & mating have been tossed out & replaced with the idea that men have zero rights in relationships, which is enshrined in law.
It happened because *every* male exclusive space has been either shut down or made coed while female exclusive spaces (except for restrooms & changing areas...) are *also* protected from that at the same time.
This confirms blackpill
"If I had kept kissing him I'm really worried he'd have kept going and put me through an awful experience." The amount of problems in this sentence would need a PHD and a few million in funding to unpack
I feel like there's a kernel in each of those 6 platitudes that's incredibly based. Sift through the obvious "Yass queen" gender pandering that likely serves to solidify their following and get down to core messages like, "Be your best self and don't let other people's opinions of you dictate your actions." "Ruthlessly evaluate your partner as someone who adds value to your relationship." My personally favorite is the one that so blatantly demonstrates just how far back the pendulum is swinging is #5, Make Him Invest For Sex. Go back to the days where sex outside of safe, well-established relationships with reliable partners is frowned upon? That sounds like a great plan. Can't have children you can't support if you don't just give it away to everyone. It's the, "leftists discover the nuclear family," trope that Sargon went on about a couple of weeks ago. You work so hard to abandon established ideals and create your own system only to eventually come to the realization that what you deconstructed was naturally constructed that way for a reason.
It is plainly obvious that any successful philosophy is based on truth. The truth doesn’t change. FDS is somewhat based? It has to be. You can’t start a movement based on everyone being a furry tractor 🐻 you can, but it’s plainly ridiculous. Truth is still out there.
Agreed. A lot of those core principles I agree with. The problem is that they aren’t willing to hold up their end of the bargain and be a traditional woman
They want to reintroduce monogamy, and act like they invented it.
I don't really think so.
Their criteria for being a "High Value Woman" is basic adulthood. Like "If you can cover your own rent, you're a girl boss that don't need no man, so you deserve a top 1% man, and he still needs to worship you and don't be afraid to divorce him." (That 6',6",6figures things is met by 1.2% of the male population.) It's like men going "I don't live with my mom, so now I deserve a girl that's 120 lbs with triple D breasts"
And when they talk about "added value" and "getting an investment before sex" that doesn't sound like they want a relationship. That sounds like they'd like to get paid to have sex they wanna have anyway. Like, these women aren't virgins. They're not being chaste until a worthy man makes them his wife. They're going "Make him buy a 200$ dinner before you sleep with him after the first date, so you don't feel used."
“Not dating a financially challenged man” damn these girls wouldn’t survive in the Great Depression
It's a sign we've become extremely decedent. Once the next major depression comes (and it could be here soon), these women are either going to be wiped out or turn into the concubines of the few remaining wealthy men left.
@@TheGreenKnight500 " or turn into the concubines of the few remaining wealthy men left"
Yes, that's what they want. A Matriarchy is in essence, a society of tribal harems.
oh they would there the kind of people who had no pride or sense of shame to begin with theyd be the FIRST people selling themselves in the streets to save there own skin.
…or the Recession.
*Im not economically viable*
"Almost had consensual sex with a guy that I would have then regretted" = "Almost assaulted"
As someone who's been actually assaulted, this person should consider becoming unalive of her own volition.
Oh come on, don’t wish death upon someone.
Just hope that they stay as lonely as they are making themselves out to be.
@@orppranator5230 Fair enough, I suppose. A life of loneliness would be the least she deserves.
@@orppranator5230 The problem is that just being lonely doesn't stop her from making a false accusation. For someone like that, we need a more, uh, "final" solution.
@@orppranator5230 f that
men stopping being resentful is why this thing has taken roots
@@orppranator5230 No because they drag society down with them while making people who genuinely suffered those events in their own lives be less believed as time goes on. I agree with this OP and if thats too real for you, then throw them in a cell, lose the key and feed them once a day, im fine with that too.
When women play mind games in the relationship, it is applauded, no matter how wrong it is no matter who does it. At least incels try to be honest about their motivations.
Women are a protected class.
I want to recruit incels for my plans
@@supergobgoblin424 if it's a gay orgy, I'm in
On the internet its applauded, in real life people hate woman like that. Do you know women who everyone dislikes, because they pull shit like this? I do.
@@supergobgoblin424 r9k
I wonder why a lot of these "high value women" have depressed wine addicted lives? The business woman life isn't for everyone. This path has led everyone to be more depressed
"men's rights movement is growing and it's terrifying"
YES! BASED! GIGACHAD!
SUPRELIT.
It's terrifying, because it only grows from yet another living horror story of dating.
The best kind of people defend humans rights.
The worst kind of people defend men rights.
Am i the only one seeing the contradiction here ? Or i must just accept men are not classified as humans beings anymore ?
Honestly I think the people of /r/FemaleDatingStrategy and pickup artists deserve each other.
Don’t go near anyone who tries to quantitively value the worth of another human to themselves, man or woman. It’s why most of them are childless, because they’re emotionless weirdos
PUAs/Dating coaches are nothing but a response to modern feminism. Without modern feminism PUAs/dating coaches would cease to exist.
Fact of the matter is, those who don't grasp non-transactional reciprocity are doomed to be miserable in interpersonal interactions.
@@lordbizzle2424 It's actually a good thing if they don't breed. I actually sigh in relief when I hear that terrible people end up with each other instead of decent people, and don't spread their misery to another generation.
@@MogofWar non-transactional reciprocity is an overt oxymoron. Reciprocity literally means transactional.
...and people still wonder why men are having hard times finding a meaningful relationship or nervous/anxious wanting to go approach a woman.
Or giving up
A few reasons exist for that.
On my end, monster girls, alien women or Love dolls even if one of the reasons didn't exist.
I will say it, giving any one the benefit of the doubt, Feminism. Not all men and women should vote, unless they sacrifice something. AKA going to war, paying taxes etc
Because of some random obscure female incel page on Reddit?
I gave up a while ago.
@@realtalunkarku 🙏 Thank you Jesus for me being bisexual. Completely stopped with women.
as soon as she found out he wasn't a 10/10 it was assault. good thing for this guy tho, as women can also decide a day or even a decade later that something they consented to was actually an 'assault'.
It's really messed up. It really needs to be drilled into the heads of young women that an awkward intimate moment or sex that you regret later does not constitute assault. This is the result of being raised to believe that they don't have any agency and men are completely malicious animals.
And that is exactly why young men are staying virgins longer and longer
I remember when the article in Huffington Post came out that stated the idea that if a woman regrets an encounter it's r@pe. It was painful, he'd stopped and asked if she was okay. She nodded and now suddenly it's r@pe. My comment was if that's the case then every woman that's ever existed has been and that it belittles the women who have faced real r@pe. I wasn't alone. The majority of responses from women were negative on the idea she was pushing. I'm sad that now men think most of us believe what she was putting forward.
Edit: She quoted me in a follow up article about how women pushed back against the idea. I got it taken down and I've been anonymous ever since.
Funny thing was she never explained how she thought it was assault. I wonder if she just thought this would have been the logical conclusion.
"I wonder why men are checking out of the dating market? Just can't figure it out. Must be porn, anime, and video games. We should ban them!" - Tradcuck Right
Pick-up artists: "We strive to be the cringiest people on earth!"
Femcels: "Hold my beer"
"wine cooler"
*hold my Truly
Pick-up artists get laid, which is their goal.
It's not a noble goal. I won't applaud them for it. But they are accomplishing what they set out to do.
Do these women find loving husbands?
I feel badly for the Gen Z's lads who will come after me.
I've always been a skinny, pale nerd who didn't have much luck with ladies, but I knew that the relationships I did manage cultivate were genuine exchanges of self.
The transactional nature of modern relationships is bloody depressing. They're chasing things, thinking things will make them happy. Like, they're not chasing happiness itself. They're after material gain.
It's so cheap. If you're a Gen Z lad, and you're reading this, I am so sorry for you, man.
A son of 2004, already given up on dating here. It is not worth it in any capacity
live life bro ,life ain't about women and dating (same age btw)@@farengarsecret-fire9597
Don't worry bro. Us Gen Z'ers will realize this and STOP REPRODUCING all together. This is our way in taking revenge towards the unnurturing humanity we have come to actualize. May we live long, and die out!
@@sorrychangedmyusername3594 KEKW. Careful with that edge, son.
The fact someone is charging money for this tells you all you jeed to know. Get them mad, get them addicted to that rage and then charge them 8$ a month to get the next fix. Impressive and amusing.
She's basically the female Jack Murphy.
People think MGTOW is wrong until they actually look at modern women with an honest lense.
This isn't modern women necessarily; Twitter, Reddit draw the some kind of people from all sides that you might imagine. Normies may not be like this but I would say most media in all forms does push women towards promiscuity and thinking of men as tools to be exploited to get what they want.
@@kriegjaeger women conform to the group. If you acknowledge what the female group is, you acknowledge how the individual woman will behave. If you would like to prove me wrong, please provide evidence of a large public group of women who oppose this nonsense.
@DragonSlayer Marr I get what you are saying but I don't acknowledge statistically irrelevant data. Let's say one woman in 10,000 is worth speaking to, in that case it's not worth the rent seeking behavior required to "win" that competition. Juice and squeeze, simple as.
@@3rdwaveredpill144 "the female group"
So Women are basically either The Borg, or some kind of Eusocial insect?
@@torondin I think the term you are looking for is agents of communism.
A couple that had been happily married for 60 years was asked what the secret to their success together was. They said that back in their day, when something was broken, they'd fix it instead of throwing it away.
This.
My parents have been together since the beginning, they had their disagreements but they knew to bridge those gaps instead of parting ways
I’m proud to have blood relatives that remained together through it all, unlike some which truthfully I find depressing
Did I miss anything? I know some of these are better than others.
1. False accusations must be prosecuted and need to be punished harshly.
2. No fault divorce has to go.
3. Prenuptial agreements need additional legal support.
4. If a paternal candidate claims a child is not his then two things should happen. The child should not be considered his until a DNA paternity test has been performed, and the man cannot deny access to his DNA.
5. Child support should not be collected by the state but instead should go directly to the mother (or father on those rare cases).
6. The state should not be benefiting from child support.
7. The family court should not be immune to civil liability suits.
8. Women who engaged in consensual sex must get permission from the father to get an abortion.
9. Equal custody should be the standard.
10. If neither partner in separation wants a family court involved then the family court has no legal standing to interpose itself.
11. Child support must be a percentage of income and never a set number.
12. Missed child support payments should never involve jail time. Instead the court should order an offender's wages garnished.
13. Children should require both parents approval to get puberty blockers or a sex change.
The more power women have over the dating market, the more miserable everyone gets, including women.
The more power women have, the less I want anything to do with them.
Honestly, a lot of this advice could have come from Sargon of Akkad.
1) Work on self improvement.
2 & 6) Gender roles are good.
3 & 5) Don't be promiscuous.
4 ) Be pragmatic.
This would be like taking the worst of incel posts, but if you added in a massive helping of arrogance. The worst of incels are angry, but they still generally hate on themselves too. These women though are angry, but still think they are too good for every man they come across.
The funny thing about it is that the difference between this female shit and the incel shit is that at least the incels have some sense of self awareness which they'll probably come out of that mindset eventually. There's no chance for these women.
That’s just the difference between men and women. Men know that their value is attained through their own efforts, women know that their value, at its core at least, is given to them by being born.
Worse. You'd have to add entitlement, as well. Incels are like the men the are starving homeless person just desperate for scraps and angry at being spat on, kicked, and ridiculed by everyone who walks by, while these women are like the homeless person that not only rejects scraps handed to her from a local restaurant that had extras and felt sympathy for her, but angrily throws them back in the good Samaritans face while claiming she deserves food from a Michelin star restaurant and anything else is beneath her. I have sympathy for incels, but not for these awful women.
@@orppranator5230 For what it's worth, in my opinion part of a woman's value is directly tied to her vagina one way or another. Some examples; How many other men have been inside of it? What race and/or religion were those men? Is it visually appealing? Does it smell good and taste good? Is it pierced? Is it groomed properly? Is it prone to infection? Does it have an illness associated with it or passed to me through it? Does she post or sell pictures of it on the internet? Is it ALWAYS loose? Pro tip for guys that don't know, just because a vagina is loose during intercourse that doesn't mean it's blown out. It *usually* means she is very excited and really into it. However it isn't supposed to be like that ALL THE TIME. Pay attention and learn to differentiate between "blown TF out" and "turned on". There are more examples I'm sure but that should be enough to give everyone an idea of what I meant when I said their value is at least in part tied directly to their vaginas.
@@orppranator5230 Ironically, your talk of value sounds EXACTLY like these toxic women. Maybe, y'know, only sociopaths and incels think about human beings in that way.
Dude this feels like a long-form 4chan trolling campaign. And if so, good job lads
But if it isn't from 4chan, then shame on them.
It’s pure absurdity. Good pickup.
Nah this one is real. R/FemaleDatingSratPros is the fake one. That one is funny because it’s everyone acting like real FDS members as a goof. The real FDS is just sad and or horrifying
This has all the traits of a 4Chan psyop that was taken seriously, but I assure you, it's not.
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Why would FDS set their own standards for a 'high value woman' instead of those reflected by reality?
For any FDS reading this, here is the real 'high value woman' starter pack:
1. Has a good relationship with her father.
2. Understands relationships are built upon mutual selflessness.
"dad I've been revaluating my thoughts on incest"
@@thanatosdriver1938 Lot's daughters started out as femcels in Sodom but then became true high value women in the end.
damn my father died 🤨
most men are the ones who are selfish so fix urselves and stop cheating on ur wives
@@lidiagizaw3828 we live in a time where men more resemble women and women more resemble men. I don't mean this figuratively I mean this on a chemical level. Women make more selfish decisions and have more sexual partners than the average man, while men have become more docile and willing to put up with it. Look up "mouse paradise" theory which explains this biologically.
Can we just call this entire thing a collective case of "Fatherless Behavior?"
No. And I don't see why that's anywhere on the radar
Yes. Yes, we can.
retard they have fathers that's why they know what a solid dude look like
Say it for the people in the back. Fatherless, formula fed, C section born, avoidant attachment maladaptive behavior
Yo don't knock on the formula fed. I've been married for 4 years and am getting my Master's. My mom wasn't able to. It wasn't her fault.
When I met my current girlfriend, we were both in a detox center, and probably at one of the lowest parts of our lives. But we hit it off. After we had already been cuddling and kissing for a few hours, I simply asked "Are you my girl now?" to which she blushed, smiled, and said "of course". Our first time being intimate was a few days after leaving detox, and it as totally mutual; we agreed that we were more compatible partners than either of us had ever had. Three years later, we've been living together for over 2 years, and plan on staying together for the rest of our lives.
My point is that sometimes you don't need a strategy. You just need to wait for the right person. When you meet them, you'll know.
did u at least get away from the drug or alchol?
@@bellphorusnknight Yes. I smoke weed here and there, but other than that, I've been mostly clean for a few years.
"Never date a guy who studied philosophy."
Okay, hold on guys, she might have a point here lmao
Studying philosophy is fine but I never want to come across a philosophy major lmao
Hey now, they probably make a sick espresso
Yeah, don't be with someone who has made a formal study of critical thinking. They might call you out on your BS. 🙄
Eh I do it in my spare time
@@_BirdOfGoodOmen savage lol
_Female Incel Strategy?_ Damn, Square Enix is pumping out those HD-2D games fast.
JRPG villains are getting weird
@@randomduck8679 Counting down until one actually appears in a JRPG starting… NOW
XD
@@Ramsey276one the villains of Yakuza: Like A Dragon are a puritanical PTA group that want to censor everything.
@@bluecoin3771 well, that was quick!
XD
I absolutely agree with the “don’t date a guy who majored in philosophy” bit. When I was in student govt in college as a senior, one of the guys who got elected at the same time I did was a senior philosophy major, and my god was he one of the most obnoxious asshats I ever met; dude was basically a walking over-educated white hippie stereotype and every time he opened his mouth, I about cringed to death because it would be so dumb. As an example, we were debating at one point about whether to give money to support a Walk A Mile In Her Shoes fundraiser the fraternities were putting on, and this guy insinuated with a straight face that the event was transphobic because it excluded trans men. I’m sure I wasn’t the only one cringing…
Guy also ended up dating one of the leaders of the progressive faction of the body who was an equally obnoxious black girl who made way too many issues about race. When I saw them announce they were dating, I thought to myself, “good for you, you two sluts deserve each other.”
That's not just philosophy.
That's college educated in general.
Wouldn't including trans men be MORE transphobic?!
If it's a women exclusive event, including trans men means you still see them as women.
All those years studying philosophy and he still fails at basic logic.
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Keep an eye out in the papers for when he's charged with sexual assault.
unfortunately can relate
Fun fact, incel is one of youtube's trigger words. I didn't click on this video the first time it came up, but I remembered it and wanted to watch later, so I searched for it. Using fairly specific language, too, not just 'incel' or 'female incel' but including SFO's name and such. But incel is one of those words where the corporate media desperately wants to control the narrative, so searching for it gets you nothing but piles of very 'authoritative' propaganda and suppresses everything else.
I love that she didn't consider the dude wasn't erect yet and her friends "knew" he was a virgin as if that's something you don't hold close to your chest due to that exact sort of thing happening.
It’s almost like women have no understanding of mens minds and anatomy.
Exactly what i thought at first like okay you touched a nervous virgin not fuckin givgachad
fds can be summed in one sentence, "traditional values for thee but not for me". These women want a 1950s husband while being 2022 wives, it makes absolutely no sense and im sure all of those women will die alone.
To be Honest after seing how they treat men, they deserve to die alone.
The most traditional of traditional values is "your desire shall be unto your husband, and he shall rule over you." That was cemented about 2,000 years ago with "Wives, obey your husbands, as you would obey The Lord." Women aren't "traditional" in the same way communists aren't "liberal" in the Lockean sense; they're gynocentrists.
Sounds to me like these "women" are deluding themselves by thinking they're Hi Value women when they are, in fact, High Maintenance women.
Exactly.
"Anyone who has to assert that they are powerful, isn't." -- Margaret Thatcher, aka 'The Iron Lady'
26:20 on this one matches pretty close
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Also some LOL juice after this sour pill we swallowed
XD
These women ain't "high maintenance" they noise hair still puts some men's beards to shame
"Men aren't capable of genuine love." Not sure about that, it's mostly guys who off themselves after marriage dissolution. Sounds like one half had their heart/meaning torn out, and the other one, not so often.
That actually just sounds to me like projection. The person who said it probably isn't capable of genuine love and therefore can't conceive of anybody else feeling it.
@@godsamongmen8003 It probably was. I just hope it's not that common, and we're seeing a loud majority.
That's because men usually lose everything in a marriage.
u know why she divorces u coz she's tired of being ur slave and babysitter
Holy moly. I used to be into the 'manosphere' , where crap like this was not unknown, a phase of anger broken men had to go through on the path to sorting their shit out.
But you are supposed to get over it. It's a pendulum swing equal and opposite to the problems you have had, not a lifestyle.
The main difference is that the manospere generally acknowledges the phase where dudes are far too salty after understanding the facts about womens' nature. There is generally a treatment for men who become like these women, because men are expected to be better. Women? These female subreddits are *approvingly* filled with the kinds of topics that male forums of the same variety would make every effort to break their own members out of.
Even male pickup artists aren't this bad in comparison.
please the manosphere is another reason why women prefer to stay far away from guys.it exposed exactly how u think
🙄😒
@@lidiagizaw3828 The manosphere is a reaction to feminism, and women aren't staying away from guys since stats show the majority of men are single while a minority of women are single.
I think that fia from elden ring struck a cord with alot of people because the idea of someone whod just hold you in thier arms without passing judgement is one of the most appealing things in human existence.
"Be a high value woman" lists low value woman traits
And this is why I'm cripplingly paranoid (this is not women's fault it's just me, but things like this certainly contribute to my reluctance to engage in the dating scene)
It's absolutely your fault, but also insightful. This isn't even a new concept. People like this have existed for over 25 years. Try watching Sex in the City without puking.
@@shoopoop21 Aye, no point in me blaming an entire half of the world for my hang-ups or else I'm not better than these people be they man or woman. But I'm working on getting this fixed which is more than can be said for these sad people
@@satireisnotdead5804 _But I'm working on getting this fixed_
Because you're _broken_ right? There is something wrong with you, and it will be fixed when you trust wahmen. What a load of bullshit. It's not paranoia if the danger is real. Is the danger not real?
@@misanthropicservitorofmars2116 Keep on truckin' me lad, self-awareness is half the battle (and if you've got that then you've already got a leg up on quite a lot of people in the world)
Previous generations had the luxury of ignorance when dating. Now you can see your worst paranoid fear about dating in 2 clicks.
Train wrecks on legs have always existed friend, just respect yourself and others and you'll be fine.
The other side of the information age is its much easier to know who to avoid or not take on a second date.
Reddit and TikTok have presented men with a window into how modern women truly think and why your average male is withdrawing from the dating scene or at least goes into it with a greater sense of caution.
bro ur cringe. this is just society and humanity as a whole. women were using stonetablets before forums.
@@isaiahsimmons5776 Women did not have the pregnancy pills or condoms or abortions back in the day.
@@விஷ்ணு_கார்த்திக் how do u know. stone and water can do anything.
rare reddit w
You're online too much. The "Average Male" is able to tell which girls are vapid and low quality on a first impression.
I wouldn’t say this is trad/right or feminist/left. This is just concentrated narcissism and sociopathy.
I've been out of the dating pool for a while, but I have friends who are in it. The way they describe their dates sound like job interviews. "What qualities do you bring to the table?" etc. The idea of pursuing a relationship because of a genuine spark of affection seems lost.
Switch the genders and these would be incel posts. Actually they're most then incel posts because at least incels didn't think they were chads and didn't turn down any woman who weren't to their standards.
Even most mens incel groups would consider this comically evil. No fucking men group is pretending the other party is taking part in one of the most heinous crimes imaginable, simply because they don't meet standards. Most of these incel men have completely lost any sense of standard at all, and are just desperate for romantic attention. That is not what I am seeing here. This is very, very cynical, and not about needing human connection. It's about a want for more status, more money, and more dick to getting off on. These people deserve to die, alone.
No they definitely turn down and insult those who don’t meet their standards. They’re about the same level I think.
And they'd be on the news, strung together in sentences with words like "terrorism" and "hatred"
@Sekiro the One-Armed Wolf they're not an incel if they turn people down.
@@nunceccemortiferiscultu7826 >that username
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They are female "alphas". This is the reason birthrates are declining. There is this clash between people who expect the other person to serve them in relationships. Add this to a completely cynical view of the opposite sex each assuming the other is "incapable of love". I've heard these same things from men directed towards women. We have a serious problem with people like this hating the opposite sex and expecting everything while not having to give anything in return.
Yeah, I left the “Red pilled” group and MGTOW because after digging deep enough and stoping my willing ignorance I began to see how many of the people there were bitter men whom were everything they claimed to despise then if found FDS and couldn’t help but find it funny how similar they are .
I think is just most men don't have any relationships in the first place. That and those people who do get relationships in wealthy countries, have to work to support the high cost of living for themself and their partner, without even considering the possibility of having children. This is one of those things that are a socioeconomic.
I don't think "alpha" women and men don't want children out of a hatred for the other sex, I think is just children are expensive and big commitment even ordinary people are too vain to take on.
@@simonkorica9467This is all intentional, social-engineering on a global scale to drastically reduce population and cause collapse. The dating environment is thousands of lightyears away from being something thatd happen naturally or organically. This was pushed very heavily via predictive programming and brainwashing through media.
"It is the love you have for each other." Thank you Dev. It is so rare anyone ever talks about love anymore. The modern world just feels so cold on that front.
love is dead and lust is king now pretty sure a bunch of old dusty holy books mentioned this alot normally in soceitys right before they evaporated at the seems.
@@wilmagregg3131 Even lust is a hollowed out skinsuit, because if you fail to think it through and plan for it, your screwing buddy or whatever could just throw you under the bus for any reason. It's ridiculous how even the hedonist needs to put on his thinking cap and act like a baby Machiavelli just to get his rocks off.
Love...
The tinder swindler succeeded based on love of money and trips..🤦♂️🤷♂️
@@wilmagregg3131 Yes "The love of many shall wax cold" Mathew 24:12 refers to the end of the world. Hopefully we can turn things around before it is too late.
Honestly I think love is the wrong term as well. You have to have grit, and determination to stick beside someone even when they are at their worst. Even if you no longer love your significant other you are supposed to stick by them.
0:35 I grab his 'you know what' and it's tiny!!
Gonna stand up for my fellow niggas here and say its probably because he was flaccid fr fr
Or maybe only semi-erect. In that case her reaction would still be justified ig
THIS lmao
I wonder if women like this think men are just hard 24/7 because they've been told by dumb people we're "horny all the time"
Growers, not show-ers lol
The irony of "be your own women without revolving your life around men", when the entire site is made in order to help women date men and look for men and talk about men.
You cant make up the cognitive dissonance 😂😂😂
The first woman - she chose well.
Saved that good dude a lot of headache so he can find someone better.
The more I see this shit, the more Im happy and appreciate my gf who sees toxic women for who they are.
Thought the same thing
Yep same, I got something good
It's a good check for a relationship. No good man or woman looks at toxic masculinity or femininity and doesn't cringe a little.
God you lucky son of a bitch. I wonder what it must be like dating a normal sane woman.
@@derpherp1810 i'll tell you one thing, the women who are wife material are not found in online dating
If you've ever seen PUA content, they were far more tame on average and almost always talked about what they were doing wrong. FDS is literally talking about what males need to do as a female strategy.
it perfectly displays the power of mindsets when people think they are perfect it stops them from looking at what they need todo to achieve a goal.
I found PUA forums very helpful, lifechangingly so in fact, but this was 2 decades ago before that stupid "The Game" book, back then it was just guys sharing experiences and helping other guys, it was a pretty healthy male space, I remember reading a post called 20 things NOT to do when trying to seduce women and I was like "omfg thats me lol".
Most male spaces today are either taken over by incels or feminists.
I'm not sure what Potantially Unwanted Applications have to do with this
“Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.”
*Me, with my boyfriend, laughing at how insane these people are*
“Are you sure about that?”
Lucky bf u got there, but this could be a serious issue for me with an asian gf... I'm afraid she'll stumble upon these feminist sites and conform due to pressure from woke friends, you know the fear tactics that the left use where you're suddenly an evil person if you speak badly about a person that just happens to be black. Girl's a sweet angel but she falls easily for group think because she doesn't want to offend anybody or any culture.
@@whitehavencpu6813 ew yellow fever
@@BurgertubeFounder She's Burmese tho... hella traditional.
I'm extremely disillusioned with the whole dating scene due to these sort of things. I'm only going to be 22 this coming July but I don't feel a lot of hope relationship wise. Rn I'm focusing on my art and writing, trying to take each day at a time
Same 😂
I don't even care anymore. If I meet someone that's good, If I don't that's fine too. I'm planning for my future; getting enough money, owning a nice little home, being there for my family. That's what matters to me right now.
Most women who are like this aren't in the dating pool. And they're fat.
7:45
Coffee dates are honestly one of the best 1st dates. Besides what you mentioned about being low effort with a way out, it's also a very public, providing a safe environment for both parties, it's relaxed and easy-going, so everybody should be comfortable, and it can easily lead to more afterwards if the two decide they'd like to. It's a date in an easy environment that can go wherever it needs to.
Too bad I don't like Coffee.
Agreed. I always think it's incredibly entitled for women to expect a $200 dinner date and like it's a test to see if the man is a simp.
Movies is another “first date” I don’t get. “Let’s get to know each other by staring at a wall for hours, not making eye contact, and not communicating or learning about each other.” Whether or not you enjoyed the night is mostly dependant on whether or not the movie was good. Even if you make a move with your hand/arm, you still don’t know really anything thing about them. But maybe that’s just a teen thing.
Coffee is more casual. I’d like to try a picnic. It’s still public, but more intimate since you’re not right beside other people. It also requires both of you to invest something of yourselves into it (making food). Although the latter could be a turn-off and might add pressure, so maybe something you do after a few dates, once you’ve gotten to know them more. Or a co-operative activity. Just ideas that are more personal or require you to engage with each other.
@@mrshmuga9 movie allows you to hold her hand, maybe make a move, without the discomfort of conversation. Yes it’s a teenage thing but they are also socially less experienced so it’s a great way to move forward. Try and think of the positives, not the negatives 👀
@@userequaltoNull them drink tea. And be shunned. Psychos don’t drink coffee. Just like beer or spirits. Don’t drink wine at a pub if you’re a man.
Usually, these types of videos make me feel depressed and hopeless, but this time around, I feel just fine. I'm not really sure why.
I guess it has something to do with my fear and paranoia of malicious women. Seeing these types women be so open about their complete lack of morality really showed me how small and pathetic they really are. I'm lucky I've known a good number of women who are nothing like this. If I showed this to my mother, most of my aunts, either of my grandmothers (were they still alive), or even my ex girlfriend, the whole thing would be completely alien to them.
If anything, this video made me feel a bit better. It shows me that a lot the same types of paranoia guys have about women also exist in a mirrored forms in women towards guys. "Men are incapable of love, they're slaves to their dicks" sounds a lot like "women don't love you, they just want money and resources; women are complete slaves to their hormones".
alot of these videos make me blackpilled and depressed. I am a gen z person and seeing the state of gen z makes me depressed knowning my chances of finding a women who is not woke is very low. Its impossible to reason with people in my generation. They are like zombies.
@@jurassicarkjordanisgreat1778 Yeah, fellow gen z here. I’m not even going to try dating until im in my late 20s or 30s. Its all so beyond fucked
Honestly im someone who pretty much believes will be alone forever. Even if i glowed up and changed myself i do not think i would be able to change my personality. But seeing stuff likes this makes me happy that i will always be alone, or at least HOPE to be alone.
@@jurassicarkjordanisgreat1778 Hello gen-z-er. There's a reason you'll hear "life for men starts at 30" -- don't worry too much. In your age range, women are still pretty much idiots. (Source: I am a woman and was flat out retarded until 25-26) -- Focus on you. Don't worry about dating as much. Don't be too down.
Kids… get off the fucking internet. Palindrome says it for real. There are tons of people who are nothing like these reddit crazies. In fact most Aren’t. But if you swim in the sewer you will get covered in shit.
Another thing. Some confuse black pills with depression or simple anxiety about their life stage. You aren’t becoming the wealthy man you dreamed about at 15. You think it’s hopeless. That’s not society. That’s just your head. I’m older than you in a much worse station situation I I’m fucking fine and dandy. Your perspective is flawed. Life Is only as hard as you make it. Trust me, black pills don’t attract anything good. They are called emo chicks. 🔪
"discarding victim narratives"
"I WAS ALMOST ASSAULTED!@##$!@"
> complaining about men who study philosophy
> Ignores that men created the damn field
> Thinks it’s about men wanting to dominate
Wow, it’s almost like Philosophy evolved as a means of understanding the world around us and men often debated over their different understanding
proof? philosophy is all about thinking. aka bullshit. what had philosophy actually provided with us? think about it. it is hypocritical as this is a philosophy. society is a philosophy. what field if there is no field to field it? and yeah it obviously about power, but theyre hypocrites, they dont realize that theyre men too. men are women too. all of philosophy had provided is that we hate life.
Well that’s strange, can’t see the reply it’s telling me is there
Honestly, the fact that this is an acceptable part of modern culture is why men are scared shitless of taking initiative these days. One wrong move, one inadequate trait, and you can be charged with assault and have your reputation and life ruined.
6:00 Dev idk if you'll understand the "boiling grits" joke as a Canadian, but as a southerner I both laughed and was kinda shocked that was even put there, because it comes from the advice you get as a southern woman if a man abuses you: throw hot grits on him. Yes I've gotten that advice myself lmao
Imagine advocating for not only assaulting but scalding and potentially disfiguring a dude and calling it dating advice.
yeah i dont know why that was there honestly returning fire on your aboser should be common sense not dating adivce cause by doing that your kinda impying physical abos is part of dating which is YIKES.
I'm starting to feel like any kind of movement eventually becomes a toxic husk of what it used to be, LGBT/female/African American etc... Especially when controlled by the most bitter of individuals who preys on the bitterness/fears of others
Try non Marxist movements
All those sorts of movements you listed had bitter revenge-driven origins. They were never good to begin with. A few good people along the way took some of those ideas and tamed them a bit, but the movements themselves were always evil at their core.
Its like its human nature or something.
Feminism was always toxic, entitled and abusive. ALWAYS. Yes, even the first wave. They wanted the privilege to influence the future of their country, but without the responsibility of protecting it, while the suffragettes were terrorists that bullied and shamed 14 year old boys into going to war.
@@user-cs4su3ng9l Nah, I saw the shittiest Christians rise to the top of the holy hierarchy. Decent people get nowhere, the Christofascist rises to the top.
Oh god this should be glorious.
That first story is the equivalent of a man leaving a woman behind because he found out she has a small cup size. Even after she’s feminine, cooks, cleans, is good with children, and is kind. Basically everything you can ask for.
Let me tell you something ladies, so long as they’re boobs, I’m happy. Do I have my preference? Yes. But what I mentioned above significantly trumps cup size for my attraction in a woman.
That first girl proves the point that when he’s hot, it’s flirting, but when he’s unattractive then it’s harassment.
This has convinced me that I need to stop trying to date and focus on myself. Something I've been trying to convince myself to do for a while now. Find someone who wants to be with me for ME. Both men and women in todays dating world are deplorable, and have made it almost impossible to find someone who is actually worthy of anyone's time.
Smart choice
That first one about "being assulted" even though she was the one taking lead was both hilarious and sad.
It's totally only going to get worse from this point in the video!
Post-Watch Edit:
Yeah, this is dumb and depressing. xD
This is why people should just become friends first, partners later. I'm something of a relationship helper for some of my friends, and I've seen relationshops fall apart, both slowly and quickly. And for every single one that fell apart there was always the bit where one or both of them admit that "it just didn't click, but I like them anyways, but it would be awkward trying to say that!"
The most important things in a relationship are knowing how much the other person actually resonates with you, and how much you mean to them, two things that can only be learned by spending time with them. Basically, the way I see it, if someone is gonna be there for you as a friend, then you better believe that they're gonna be there for you as a boyfriend/girlfriend.
@@lostalone9320 updated!
man, if only women didn't unreasonably hate dating guys they're already friends with.
"I was almost assaulted"
"I groped his 🥕"
The female cries out in pain as it gropes you.
@@3eve0n I notice that the women (And men) who do worry way too much about how others perceive them.
Fully agree, starter
On the day this was edited; Jada Smith signalled her 'not-good-enough' husband to slap a man live on TV.
Now THAT is timing
FDS is why I cannot trust any woman, my own experiences with women have left me almost completely disgusted by them in general. I'm in the process of becoming a proper Monk & Hermit as the pursuit of knowledge and peace in oneself is fulfilling, unlike the pursuit of women. I wish you luck Dev & hope to be proven wrong and foolish.
I've been feeling very down throughout my youth for not being able to get a date when all my friends did. I feel like I've narrowly avoided those forums and the hook up apps. I'm still the same shy girl I was, but I'm trying to focus on self-development now, and grow past it. The scary thing is, everyone on the internet says, the older the woman gets the harder it is to date. But I can't really go from zero into negatives, so I've nothing to lose.
Just take care of your health and you should be fine.
Most of these people just overstate the importance of age. Be healthy, take care of yourself and you'll be fine.
There's something wrong with you, women don't not find dates in this day and age, all you need to do us BE THERE! Have a minimal online presence and they come rolling in, us men would love to be even a llw value woman sometimes, you're either ugly as hell, fat, or too picky or all three, there's no other way you're in this situation.
@@tigerstripey4885Jesus dude, chill.
I’m not even a minute in and the MGTOW sigma male grind set already seems like the only option to have a happy life.
When you're young and poor, MGTOW or casual dating is the way to go.
How is MGTOW any different from this FDS bullshit? They're sides of the same coin
@@CountArtha I’m “old” (31) and not exactly poor. But I am not a 10/10 in the looks department. That and I’m honestly not interested in wasting time dating.
@Hilbert When I was 20 I had an all-or-nothing mentality where I had to find a wife or not date at all. Passed up my chances with three girls (at least) in college who wanted me pretty bad but I didn't think they were "wife material." 20-year-old me was clueless.
@Hilbert Don't trust them, then. Wear a condom. Get them to send you a salacious text message when sex is imminent so you have documentation of willing, enthusiastic consent if she tries to bear false witness against you. You don't _need_ to trust them if it's just a casual thing; only if it's a committed relationship. False accusation of rape and pregnancy traps were the main thing holding me back from having a sex life in college, but nobody told me there was a way to protect yourself.
I feel like if these women were alive in the antebellum south they would’ve proudly owned slaves.
That sounds cool lol I would
It's almost as if there are women out there who fit perfectly into the model presented by MGTOW. Imagine the shock!!! And, considering the message has never been "every woman will", but "any woman might", I don't think anymore needs to be said.
To quote a woman who was married until 'death do us part': "You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality."
Man I live in a time where I just feel like I can't relate to people anymore. I am an 18 year old dude and I just don't get to relate to people much and when I do it's amazing. I feel like I wanna just be loved and love someone just because me and then spend time together and value it. This subreddit is the reason I am afraid of dating because what if I end up with that? I don't want that shit I love people but like this crap about spending money on dates. These people don't know what men think these people don't know what men want but these people judge us as if they know who we are? They don't men just want to have someone they can depend on someone who can depend on them not this fucking mask of a relationship.
if you want a little hope, this isn't representative of women, but rather of those women specifically who are so bad at this that they think farthuffing on Reddit will actually work
What is farthuffing?
@@OcrimBob huffing farts
of women where?
Stop white knighting. All women fall within this characteristic whether they are honest about it or not.
The duality of man right above
9:00 Ventress is not targeted because "women can't be too powerful", but because there can only be 2 Sith at a time, a master and an apprentice. So when assassins trained by the Sith become too powerful with the dark side of the force, thus being closer to a true Sith, or aren't useful anymore, they must be killed.
The same thing happens to Savage Oppress, and to Starkiller in the Star Wars game.
it is funny because Ventress is a good female character that can be admired and understood but they turn her into a victim character
That story was an "and everyone clapped" anyway.
Dooku and Vader faced this as well. They actually thought that Palpatine was fine with men being too powerful but he was too fragile for strong wahmen. Villains treating their pawns as disposable is pretty common.
I guess we can chalk her perspective up to solipsism
I’m not a Star Wars guy but doesn’t this 2 sith stuff mean that there is only ever two sith? One boss and another guy hiding his power level to prevent execution?
How can they become strong if they limit themselves to just two?
Their version of a “high value woman” is an extremely low value person.
And anyone who thinks this is right leaning at all needs to re evaluate. This is not left or right it’s despicable.
If you're far enough left everything is right leaning
"This is not left or right it’s despicable."
I gotta use that sometime.
stfu french. that spectrum fake and anybody who believes in it is asian.
It is despicable, but it is also hard left.
well if u think about it is very conservative because it follows a hierarchy. it like society but more blatant i guess. liberals mad tho.
Funny thing, they actually had some solid advice there for a sec!
Getting a man to show true interest before giving away sex is actually a pretty smart move if you wish to find a long term partner.
CS Lewis once said, and I'm paraphrasing, "True love is not some fleeting feeling of affection, but the earnest desire for one's ultimate good." Based on this, I doubt that these women love themselves even.
It's truly terrifying how materialism is destroying every facet of the human experience. Not even once, man...
His isn’t materialism, it’s hedonism. Materialism is wanting nice things and valuing good like a house, cars, games, etc. Hedonism is about pursuing pleasure among all else. A bit of materialism is good as you need stuff like a house to provide for your family, pursuing pleasure above reason is always bad. They don’t want men, they want pleasure machines.
@@marcar9marcar972 It is materialism when you look at a potential partner in terms of how much value they will provide for you instead of looking at them as a companion, as a friend, as a rock. Hedonism plays a roll, but it's the literal "looking at partners as if they were objects to be owned or banks to withdraw from" that is deeply materialistic in a part of human life that should be deeply spiritual (or emotional, if you don't like the term).
What isn't a thought about ROI? How much happier will this relationship make me?
Another problem is how many people are actually capable of spiritual experience?
This sounds like traditional gender rolls with extra steps and shameless hypergamy out in the open.
Let me tell you something
EVERY. SINGLE. WOMAN on these subreddits and apart of this community
*LOVE*
Brutal Male Domination. To the point its just uncomfortable. They don't want anything they say, they want to be "put in their place"
My advice, RUN AWAY
Honestly, they could really use some dominant men to put them in the place. They must have all had absentee fathers or fathers who spoiled them rotten. Humility is what they need.
TRUE!!! Most of these feminists have a BSDM thing going on and like to be dominated.
They want a parent that will take care of them that they can also fuck.
@@TheGreenKnight500 the issue is again they dont want a relationship they want a hedonistic experince which means they still have zero qualms just saying you Rword them and ruin your life at any moment.
I think many women don’t mind being submissive with the right guy. The majority even. But we see the worst on Reddit, who want a hyper male experience. Extra dominance. It’s not a bad thing but their expectations don’t match reality.
The weird thing is how the absolutely terrible advice is interspersed with brief moments of brilliance. "If you want a relationship and not just a fuck buddy, do not give sex before establishing commitment." "If your life revolves around your trying to get a partner, you need to take a step back and work on yourself." "Discard your victim narrative."
Juxtapose that with "never split a bill even if you both have careers" and "men have no value except what they can offer you."