INTIMACY AS AN INTERABLED COUPLE | HOW DO WE MAKE IT WORK?

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  • @TheClements
    @TheClements  3 роки тому +1207

    Our goal with this video was to create a useful resource, specifically for interabled couples on what healthy intimacy looks like in a way that honours God. Intimacy within marriage is a private thing, but we don't believe it should be a taboo thing so in this video we discuss this topic! We hope it serves.

    • @monicacoats8635
      @monicacoats8635 3 роки тому +29

      Well done you guys. I love watching your videos. I think a lot of people could and are learning from watching you both. People get so caught up in the world but don't take the time to learn about each other as a couple. Especially about having God as the head of your life.

    • @tijuanakimble3132
      @tijuanakimble3132 3 роки тому +19

      I love u guys so much

    • @DNDmode.
      @DNDmode. 3 роки тому +14

      You two do it very well. God bless you for your insightfulness.

    • @vonnieb7411
      @vonnieb7411 3 роки тому +14

      This is a beautiful for anyone considering marriage, beautifully done guys

    • @mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919
      @mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919 3 роки тому +10

      My husband and I were platonic great friends for a few years and we would have never thought of marriage resulting from it!

  • @nekalynch8101
    @nekalynch8101 3 роки тому +1954

    So refreshing to see a couple that value their relationship with God and one another. Keeping God first is key. Proud of you both. 💘

  • @malaikalakika4930
    @malaikalakika4930 3 роки тому +1517

    I can see why she loves him, he seems kind, caring, and intelligent. She also seems kind, caring, and intelligent. When God is in the mix, then the chemistry gets even deeper. Physical isn’t end all be all

  • @aaroncoles2433
    @aaroncoles2433 3 роки тому +1790

    Imma go head and say it...Winston had dat chair ready! He probably was Like “WIFE! Sit HERE!” 😂 I’m loving my brother’s confidence. I love how you all have honored God in the marriage. God Bless y’all

  • @sandranel-hawkins5938
    @sandranel-hawkins5938 3 роки тому +801

    You tube trying to educate all of us with what's really out there in the world and how we should respect one another's differences. I ❤it!!!

  • @Breezy11harvard
    @Breezy11harvard 3 роки тому +349

    I LOVE how you guys adhere to Christian/biblical standards! Especially, as it relates to intimacy.

  • @barbarawilliams5130
    @barbarawilliams5130 3 роки тому +543

    A true gentleman and a true lady. We all can learn some lessons from you both. Thank you!!

  • @tidiohaidara8925
    @tidiohaidara8925 2 роки тому +38

    This video gives me hope that true love still exists in this world today. Great story!

  • @nancyg7521
    @nancyg7521 2 роки тому +32

    His Father-in Law described him as a gem they could easily have missed . This couple is led by The Holy Spirit. So good to watch and follow as they navigate life together . With God all things are possible.

  • @JanetJJ.
    @JanetJJ. 3 роки тому +825

    I’m 25 and I made a promise at 15 to wait until marriage
    I’ll be 26 this year and I admire u and you’re relationship it’s hard to find people
    Who value the same thing considering how this generation is

    • @LifeOfAnOvercomer
      @LifeOfAnOvercomer 3 роки тому +64

      I am 24 l also made a decision to wait. Not dating currently hoping to meet someone who really loves God and me. Someone l am compatible with

    • @kimkartrashianstopmakingst9060
      @kimkartrashianstopmakingst9060 3 роки тому +35

      Refreshing to see this. Much respect to you. I’m 39 and waited a while as well. Especially through high school. Happy to see people still wait 💜

    • @kernishap1091
      @kernishap1091 3 роки тому +47

      I am 23, I didn't make a vow to wait until marriage, but I made a vow to myself that I would save myself for someone who truly cares for me. I'm happy practicising abstinence because I have a very spiritual view of the act and no one so far has matched that energy. I feel that it is a beautiful promise to wait until marriage.

    • @mamoje8882
      @mamoje8882 3 роки тому +14

      I'm 26 and I've decided to wait tell marriage at the beginning it was for the religion ,but now I'm convinced to wait after watching the cases in the judges shows.

    • @digitallocations1423
      @digitallocations1423 3 роки тому +12

      @@mamoje8882
      That and all the depressed people I've known who loved to sleep around.

  • @lioness7366
    @lioness7366 3 роки тому +53

    He's really handsome and she's very beautiful!

  • @nickeshawalters6235
    @nickeshawalters6235 3 роки тому +67

    So refreshing to hear another Christian couple honour God in their lives and marriage together. God bless you both

  • @Kun_103
    @Kun_103 3 роки тому +2440

    I’m trying to figure out why UA-cam recommended this. Needless to say, my black ass clicked on it 🤣

  • @TheJavacia
    @TheJavacia 3 роки тому +472

    I've never seen anything like this and since I met my fiance I've been looking out for any couple who can somewhat relate to our situation. When I met my fiance he was paralyzed on one side. He can't use his left side at all so he uses his right side for everything. A lot of people don't get our relationship but it works for us. It was a struggle at first but after six years together I think we're getting the hang of it.

    • @tarepeters3311
      @tarepeters3311 3 роки тому +15

      Wish you strength, lots of love and God's grace in Jesus name

    • @faithjepkorir3493
      @faithjepkorir3493 3 роки тому +6

      Happiness is the ultimate goal....Go girl🤗

    • @petercatherine68
      @petercatherine68 3 роки тому +8

      May the Lord equip you for the work God has called you to do in that mountain

    • @earthreign
      @earthreign 3 роки тому +9

      I would've told anyone that had something negative to say that "My husband is alright" regardless of how you all feel about him.
      Love & Cherish your husband always dear, forget the naysayers.

    • @kmcpropertyservices4756
      @kmcpropertyservices4756 3 роки тому +7

      Congrats guys we all need be educated on the diversities of people & how having God in your life can help us to love & be married to persons with a disability. They have needs and attractions too.

  • @ChidinmaChikeJames
    @ChidinmaChikeJames 3 роки тому +47

    I love that you honour God in your relationship. This is rare.

  • @cel554
    @cel554 3 роки тому +178

    the saying is the older the violin the sweeter the tune and it's true it's like a fine wine it gets sweeter with age

    • @TheClements
      @TheClements  3 роки тому +25

      Oooh, we like that saying 🙌🏾😅

    • @beautyaddict08
      @beautyaddict08 3 роки тому

      I like this saying... a lot!!

  • @elaibesummers906
    @elaibesummers906 3 роки тому +111

    Communication is key in any relationship. Unfortunately not everyone is comfortable communicating. I agree friendship first and when you both have God in your life, is a further great foundation for a great relationship. Yes a man with a touch love language, in a relationship for me, is so powerful.

  • @thatgirlPAIGE94
    @thatgirlPAIGE94 3 роки тому +434

    So refreshing to see a couple who abstained until marriage 🤎🤎

    • @nancybreaux9684
      @nancybreaux9684 3 роки тому +4

      Facts.

    • @PorshaLaVieBelle
      @PorshaLaVieBelle 3 роки тому

      Agreed‼️

    • @m.cdeborde8483
      @m.cdeborde8483 3 роки тому

      Totally!

    • @debrajames3865
      @debrajames3865 3 роки тому +7

      Women be wise, it is important to establish a real connection with a man prior to marriage!. I am talking about intimacy and understanding.

    • @limareigns7951
      @limareigns7951 3 роки тому +4

      @NaturallyPaige it's so true though not easy but it takes God. I and my fiance are now almost 2yrs in a relationship without sex before marriage and we are getting married next year

  • @fali_bee
    @fali_bee 3 роки тому +281

    You can tell God is the center of your relationship, thanks for sharing.

  • @litbien8099
    @litbien8099 3 роки тому +307

    It is good to know a christian couple who wait before marriage. It right , respectful and honor👍

    • @melizzamelizza
      @melizzamelizza 3 роки тому +10

      Yes cause those marriages never end in divorce. Pfft ha. Impress me with being a virgin before marriage.

    • @normakay9244
      @normakay9244 3 роки тому +5

      Ohhh please get off that high horse @Lit Bien

    • @vibes8924
      @vibes8924 3 роки тому +4

      @@melizzamelizza sex and marriage is one thing. Putting GOD in between ur relationship is the KEY to life.

    • @kristlejones2065
      @kristlejones2065 3 роки тому +3

      @@melizzamelizza lol why does his comment make you angry? Weird

    • @kay22100
      @kay22100 3 роки тому +2

      @@kristlejones2065 Right LOL

  • @arethawilson4077
    @arethawilson4077 3 роки тому +71

    This is very refreshing. You both honoring God before marriage was the key for a very happy and blessed marriage. God Bless you Both 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @chinenyemary8644
    @chinenyemary8644 3 роки тому +136

    When you love and obey God, even in little things like sex, God will definitely bless your marriage 💑

    • @davidsithole4614
      @davidsithole4614 3 роки тому +2

      Amen 🙏

    • @blossombellatigress8746
      @blossombellatigress8746 3 роки тому +11

      Sex isn't a little thing.

    • @alonalove3118
      @alonalove3118 3 роки тому +5

      Just because u wait until marriage to have sex DOES NOT MEAN UR MARRIAGE WILL BE A BLESSING...U MIGHT END UP WITH A MAN THAT CAN'T PERFORM like my friend..yup she is a Christian and so is he and that is the cross she carries

    • @tsamontlemotsie2720
      @tsamontlemotsie2720 3 роки тому +1

      Sex a little thing ??? Really???

    • @alonalove3118
      @alonalove3118 3 роки тому

      @@ematique4392 as for me i am going to test drive the penis before and during

  • @r.hewlin8328
    @r.hewlin8328 3 роки тому +390

    I love Winston's energy throughout this lol. Like "yeah whatever y'all think I can't do.....yes I can." Lmao.
    Thank y'all for making videos though. I'm still on my Christian journey and it's refreshing to see people (especially black) so confidently rooted in their beliefs and so recognizably genuine as something to aspire to whenever I lack or feel I fall short.

    • @calisahardy4845
      @calisahardy4845 3 роки тому +13

      Yes. The amount of black Christian voices aren't as large and present on UA-cam.

    • @sw-ri7bl
      @sw-ri7bl 3 роки тому +4

      Well damn... You fine! Lol 🤣

    • @earthreign
      @earthreign 3 роки тому +5

      Kevin Samuel's says the same thing, and yes it is always great to see black love displayed.

    • @r.hewlin8328
      @r.hewlin8328 3 роки тому +1

      @@sw-ri7bl thank you? were you talking to me?

    • @motherhoodisamother8874
      @motherhoodisamother8874 3 роки тому

      Well if she isn't I am you're a very handsome man

  • @TheSkm201
    @TheSkm201 3 роки тому +182

    I came on UA-cam to look for a wig review and this video was suggested to me. I said this looks interesting! You 2 are a beautiful couple and thanks for sharing a piece of your life with the world! All the best to you!

    • @TheClements
      @TheClements  3 роки тому +7

      Thank you for watching! 🙏🏼

    • @ikennaanuforo9467
      @ikennaanuforo9467 3 роки тому +11

      So interesting. Hope you finally got a choice wig.

    • @greenmoon8432
      @greenmoon8432 3 роки тому +6

      same here! Now I'm on video #3

    • @tbaby9937
      @tbaby9937 3 роки тому +1

      Me to 😂😂😂

    • @zeeqq105
      @zeeqq105 19 днів тому

      @@ikennaanuforo9467 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @colleenmaletzky4186
    @colleenmaletzky4186 3 роки тому +121

    First of all you're union is blessed First of all you're there's love within you
    First of all you're glow Gods love
    First of all you're loved
    First of all you're amazing
    First of all I love you guys
    First of all 🙏🏼🇳🇦😘🥰❤

  • @nancyimbleau1795
    @nancyimbleau1795 3 роки тому +37

    It isnt important to be intimate before marriage friendship is the best foundation before intimacy get to know a person before that takes place and besides that when intimacy take place it should be a Special moment between you both.

    • @tthomas3427
      @tthomas3427 3 роки тому +7

      Being Intimate doesn't necessarily mean having Sex

  • @RM-ue6sw
    @RM-ue6sw 3 роки тому +41

    I almost cried. This is so beautiful 😍😍😍🥺

  • @sisterchannel4465
    @sisterchannel4465 3 роки тому +175

    When she said we had to wait before marriage 😭😭😭 I’m like that’s right sis I’ll wait hella long too 😩😩😩😩

  • @victoriadunnett4745
    @victoriadunnett4745 3 роки тому +12

    Yes!! Friendship first! It gets you through the difficult times especially with health and mobility probs. You two are great, love your spark but also your honesty.

  • @inathintsodo4551
    @inathintsodo4551 3 роки тому +100

    I just discovered your UA-cam channel and i have ceberal palsy and your UA-cam channel inspires me ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @TheClements
      @TheClements  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much for watching, so blessed to hear that 🤍

  • @yanmck-sam5472
    @yanmck-sam5472 3 роки тому +31

    Thank you for sharing Mr & Mrs Clements! You guys are blessed and highly favored to have each other.

  • @lennaesmith8643
    @lennaesmith8643 3 роки тому +24

    Praise the lord for you guys, you have advised many of us who would otherwise would not ask the question due to privacy. But as humans we are curious. Stay blessed and thank you educating us. You are both blessed a loving married couple who actually communicate. God is good all the time🙏🏾❤️

  • @nonilovechild5524
    @nonilovechild5524 3 роки тому +286

    I missed s good man who had braces when I was younger because I was superficial. Joe looked for me for over 20 years. My daughter saw his ad looking for us. He was married now with a good job in Massachusetts and I'll been single for 20 years. Oh well, maybe I'll get another chance to look beyond appearances to a man's heart.

    • @deonnadyson
      @deonnadyson 3 роки тому +3

      I was just messing around with a guy that had braces... but I had reservations...

    • @sbusisiwelinshaba7841
      @sbusisiwelinshaba7841 3 роки тому +18

      That's so sad. You will get another chance.

    • @cinnamonrollonapancake
      @cinnamonrollonapancake 3 роки тому +42

      You’re not the only one who’s made this mistake. You live and learn. Biggest thing is that you’ve learned! God bless you! 🙌🏽💞

    • @jessicamcdaniels2337
      @jessicamcdaniels2337 3 роки тому +50

      Don't feel bad girl. I'm 25 and I met my current boyfriend at 22. He's 6 years older than me. My aunts judged him because they thought he was "too short." Mind you im a tall girl (5,5) and he's 3 inches taller than me. They also didn't like the fact that he dropped out of college when he was younger. If it was up to them I would've broken up with him but I didn't because he's my best friend. Fast forward to now, and we're still together. He's back in school and working an honest job in sales. Meanwhile I'm finishing my masters degree. There's someone out there for everybody and I know there's still someone out there for you 😊

    • @nikolbrown8962
      @nikolbrown8962 3 роки тому +52

      @@jessicamcdaniels2337 girl 5’5 is not tall lmao

  • @inactivemirgannerdz
    @inactivemirgannerdz 3 роки тому +37

    I was recommended this and could immediately recognized you have osteogenesis imperfecta like myself. It's refreshing to see more of us openly discussing having relationships with able bodied partners. I personally don't subscribe to organized religion BUT you two are so charming together and seem to have a strong connection. I'm subbing!

  • @Ash2beauty
    @Ash2beauty 3 роки тому +158

    Winston at the edge of his seat had me weak! 😂 May God bless your union abundantly 🙏🏾❤️

    • @KAIZORIANEMPIRE
      @KAIZORIANEMPIRE 3 роки тому +1

      Divorce rate is 50% lol definitely good luck haha

    • @thatgirlvee2
      @thatgirlvee2 3 роки тому +9

      @@KAIZORIANEMPIRE lol are you okay?

    • @KAIZORIANEMPIRE
      @KAIZORIANEMPIRE 3 роки тому

      @@thatgirlvee2 yes why so ?

    • @Bubblegumswitch
      @Bubblegumswitch 3 роки тому

      🙋🏾‍♀️ sis, same here! Love his sense of humor! 🥰😂

  • @faithhealingandself-care8972
    @faithhealingandself-care8972 3 роки тому +31

    Great to see more videos with you two. I am a christian, married and a therapist with years of experience counseling couples before, during, and after marriage. All of your comments are on point and thanks for sharing. You make a beautiful and complete couple. The best point made the need and benefits of being friends first. Intimacy created by God is amazing.

    • @TheClements
      @TheClements  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much Anglea ❤️

    • @lindakafui8526
      @lindakafui8526 2 роки тому

      @@TheClements pls the clements come for me to be ur house help to help sis Mayfair with the house.am Linda from Ghana

  • @georgennajones9246
    @georgennajones9246 3 роки тому +21

    Same here!😆 I love the way they talked about these issues and honored God in their relationship both before entering their marriage and now.👍🏾👏🏾

  • @aeriolachusi7800
    @aeriolachusi7800 3 роки тому +11

    im single and you all give me hope and encouragement that there are still Christian men still out there and there is somebody for everyone. maybe I need to relocate to London. love you guys

  • @lbelle4717
    @lbelle4717 3 роки тому +155

    Winston bagged himself a hottie 👌🏾💕 all the best guys 🤲🏽🙏🏽

  • @Charyl
    @Charyl 3 роки тому +6

    Excellent.... my husband and I are 27 years married. The communication between us is the glue. Yes, even in intimacy. Peace and blessings.

  • @nubuke
    @nubuke 3 роки тому +108

    That must have so beautiful, the premarital counselling even before getting engaged

    • @TheClements
      @TheClements  3 роки тому +14

      Was honestly so useful 🙌🏾

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 роки тому +6

      It’s recommended. I did counselling for dating. It’s actually good. Helps you learn how to communicate

    • @nubuke
      @nubuke 3 роки тому +3

      @@BriaBarrows we love to see it

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 роки тому +2

      @@nubuke 😘♥️

  • @YaLittleFriend
    @YaLittleFriend 3 роки тому +19

    Their spirits were really made for each once u watch them. It’s really something!

  • @joterry123
    @joterry123 Рік тому +8

    I love the way you look at eachother , there’s such love in your eyes , you are lucky to have eachother xxx ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @averildaniels7479
    @averildaniels7479 3 роки тому +38

    You are so cute together. I love the fact that you really talk to each other.

  • @CourtHouseNews100
    @CourtHouseNews100 3 роки тому +113

    OMG I just came across your guises channel and I am absolutely in love! I am also in an interabled marriage. I ham cerebral palsy and I am a mother of three. I was recently on a show called born different with our family and it was a short documentary about our lives. I can so relate to every single thing you are saying on this video. You guys are a lovely couple and super super inspiring. I admire how you put God first in everything. I would love love to collaborate with you on our family channel if you would ever feel into it it would be such a humbling experience💚💚💚

    • @TheBeautifulKayla
      @TheBeautifulKayla 2 роки тому +1

      I seen your episode. Glad you’re doing well!

    • @faithmeade2457
      @faithmeade2457 Рік тому

      Hi Valerie, I have CP too and had 2 kids. I never had problems with sex, I use crutches not a chair. I'm glad the video brought me to you. I would love to meet more like us.

  • @sandraogechi3013
    @sandraogechi3013 3 роки тому +6

    This is so beautiful to watch, good to know there are people who actually wait ❤️❤️❤️ couple who put God first

  • @callmejazzok
    @callmejazzok 3 роки тому +8

    I am crying but not for sadness for beauty omg 😊❤️😂why am I crying you two are such an amazing couple

  • @sydney2236
    @sydney2236 3 роки тому +4

    yalls bond and connection 🥺 it was obvious from literally the first little intro. i love it. blessings to yall 💗

  • @Danis_diaries
    @Danis_diaries 3 роки тому +34

    I love your relationship and I love how God is at the centre 🥺❤️

  • @Earthomo
    @Earthomo 3 роки тому +10

    Gorgeous couple. He’s so handsome and she’s beautiful 💕. How blessed you both are to have found love in one another. It is a blessing most don’t find on this journey of life.

  • @msn27-18
    @msn27-18 3 роки тому +19

    This is advice for everyone about intimacy! Something that most people don’t understand.

  • @consuelacovington8169
    @consuelacovington8169 3 роки тому +5

    Such positivity, it's refreshing to hear that you were friends first. I wish you both nothing but happiness. Thanks for sharing your journey.

  • @yellatrot
    @yellatrot 3 роки тому +10

    When Winston sat at the edge...juicy talk got people watching on high alert ....had me 🤣😂

  • @evabonnet2369
    @evabonnet2369 2 роки тому +4

    I came across this couple recently in my feed and absolutely fell in love. Their love is so refreshing. Welcome to Atlanta Clements! May God continue to bless your family ❤

  • @TheWoolfordFamilyLove
    @TheWoolfordFamilyLove 3 роки тому +86

    May God continue to bless your marriage. Keep the love you have for each other always what a breath of fresh air 🥰🥰

  • @DNDmode.
    @DNDmode. 3 роки тому +114

    I love yalls transparency even though its weird so many ppl wanna know about your personal intimate life 🤦🏽‍♀️ I am here for whatever yall decide you wanna talk about 🥰

    • @TheClements
      @TheClements  3 роки тому +7

      Thank you 🥰

    • @lakeshiaball1609
      @lakeshiaball1609 3 роки тому +7

      Yes very weird people just nosey and need to get their minds right and out the gutter frfr

    • @lovelylife1896
      @lovelylife1896 3 роки тому +5

      Wouldn't necessarily say weird bc sex is natural however anyone can simply Google it as well so whether or not this particular couple talk about it ,its sites that helps educate others on the "How" and plus it's common sense so whatever or however long as their pleased thats all that matters

    • @MYFBAMB
      @MYFBAMB 3 роки тому +50

      @@lakeshiaball1609 Says the person who clicked on this video alongside the people she claims is nosey. People get curious and there's nothing wrong with that. Maybe this video could help someone who is interested in a disabled person.

    • @tijuanakimble3132
      @tijuanakimble3132 3 роки тому +4

      @@lakeshiaball1609 I doesn't think their noisey.in my point veiw y, start dis type of social media entertainment.if u can't be honest n open with veiwers..im quite sure they knew these types of questions would be asked.I mean it's common sense, it's right before your face, so there's no reason to be close mined and opted out on those particular questions, my opinion husband not shame of anything.Hes ready to show example clips f u asked.Dats y I love watching him he's real and he's a real man of God. He has accepted the way he was born, the man has became, the road he know he has to travel. But on the other end wifey it's not ready to be open about their sex life. This is social media so there's no way wifey didn't see this coming. 💜💜💜💜

  • @Kiki-jx6by
    @Kiki-jx6by 2 роки тому +3

    It’s like they are an old couple in young bodies…… and I meant that as a compliment because it’s rare for me to run across young people so intelligent, full of wisdom, love of God, patient, loving and kind. Poised with dignity. How can one not have up most respect for this family and love them. Winston is charming. Mayfair is beautiful in every way spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically.

  • @justsmilemay9125
    @justsmilemay9125 3 роки тому +27

    I love and respect you both so much! Thank you for sharing something so personal to both of you. ❤️❤️🙏🏾 Don’t feel pressured to answer any questions just because a lot of people are asking a specific question. God bless you both ❤️❤️

  • @mariamjackson2994
    @mariamjackson2994 3 роки тому +5

    I choose this lady for my role model. Watching this video, I was triggered to go back to shower my husband with love. Some blind spots became more visible. God bless you both! New subie!!!

    • @pathunter4988
      @pathunter4988 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing. May your marriage be blessed. To God be the glory

  • @nicholinewilliams7875
    @nicholinewilliams7875 3 роки тому +22

    This video is very refreshing. I'm happy that you guys are talking about intimacy in the most appropriate way possible. You'll attract the audience that is most fitting for you.. keep being you guys! I am inspired ❤

  • @buhlemadlala3912
    @buhlemadlala3912 3 роки тому +30

    The beauty of God and beauty of love...God bless u guys

  • @dellaree6956
    @dellaree6956 3 роки тому +6

    You two are truly a blessing!! I love the dynamic between the two of you.

  • @barbarawilliams5130
    @barbarawilliams5130 3 роки тому +31

    If there's any couple that belongs together it's these two. You can hear and see the respect for each other and you can see JESUS in both of them. Love it!!❤❤❤

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 2 роки тому +2

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @audreymalker3446
    @audreymalker3446 3 роки тому +27

    You two are the most beautiful couple I know I really Admire the both of you . God is in control just keep God first nothing would go wrong what man put together let no man put us Assunder 🙏you are truly blessed thank you so much for sharing

  • @lonnieac3
    @lonnieac3 3 роки тому +56

    God is awesome!! He put two beautiful souls together ❣wishing u both a happy & prosperous life together 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗❣

  • @michelegreen4430
    @michelegreen4430 3 роки тому +5

    Love this thanks for sharing; and yes I love that he tells the truth (don’t stop him) from young lady stay with ya momma/home til he put a ring on it; to having boundaries. Your relationship is beautiful

  • @natashaholliday
    @natashaholliday 2 роки тому +8

    I accidentally came across this video and so glad I did. This video illustrates that love requires so much more than physicality. May GOD continue to bless your matrimony and may you both continue to inspire ALL couples!

    • @queensun6059
      @queensun6059 Рік тому

      👸yes! so rare. the men & many women make sex the cake instead of the icing. got dumped bc i'm👰 abstinent until marriage. wonderful couple!

  • @shenequa9293
    @shenequa9293 3 роки тому +1

    UA-cam literally recommending all their videos because it is worth ittttttt

  • @faridaabdulaziz5414
    @faridaabdulaziz5414 3 роки тому +10

    God bless this woman she's so kind and humble

  • @sophiamuzvidzwa3109
    @sophiamuzvidzwa3109 3 роки тому +50

    May God bless your marriage ,I'm so happy that I found this channel in bed playing all your vids .

  • @tiffanynieto5418
    @tiffanynieto5418 3 роки тому +90

    I lost it when he got on the edge 🤣💀 like yup that was us

  • @nikkibelton2109
    @nikkibelton2109 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful story!💚 I been married once and we didn't wait for anything and it didn't last,so next time I will definitely pray first and honor God with my wait🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @sharonn390
    @sharonn390 3 роки тому +7

    Shaaa!... Love you guys big time. Your Hunger and Intentionality to put GOD first in your relationship has bore and is bearing such beautiful Fruits.
    And the colour scheme and aesthetic of the video is lovely.

    • @TheClements
      @TheClements  3 роки тому +1

      We love you sis! Thank you 🤍

  • @AllThingsTashy
    @AllThingsTashy 3 роки тому +18

    Idk how I got here but I’m staying ❤️

  • @annabellebrown9164
    @annabellebrown9164 3 роки тому +5

    I love the fact that you are so relaxed and very happy when ever you are with Winston . I think your husband seems to be a kind of nice guy and deserves your kind of person.

  • @AlbertinaBernice
    @AlbertinaBernice 3 роки тому +25

    This was so awesome! This makes me look forward to marriage! A good Godly marriage!! Thank you for this!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @Candie4JC
    @Candie4JC 3 роки тому +11

    This was SUCH a refreshing video! God bless your marriage Union!

  • @elephanthappiness4502
    @elephanthappiness4502 3 роки тому +24

    You two are so inspirational on so many levels. Thank you for your candour and sharing your special moments with us.

  • @zona_davani
    @zona_davani 3 роки тому +6

    You’re so beautiful to watch. I don’t know man, just seeing you so loved up and on fire for the Lord. I love to see it. ❤️

  • @Football-is-fun-bad20
    @Football-is-fun-bad20 2 роки тому +2

    This just popped up on my recommendations and I thought why not I'll watch a little bit but ended up watching the whole thing.
    You guys are a beautifully well suited couple you can see you really value each other and genuinely love each other. And I think these topics should be normalised and it's great that your doing that. This type of video could give a young disabled person alot of hope for the future I would imagine trust is a huge factor for the disabled person in the relationship when talking about intamacy and the relationship in general actually.
    Great video ❤️
    New subscriber 😁

  • @charminnorwood5327
    @charminnorwood5327 3 роки тому +52

    Winston u have a such a beautiful wife....Inside and out😍❤

  • @sherrillmcgowan594
    @sherrillmcgowan594 Рік тому +2

    Hi, I'm so grateful to subscribing to you alls channel! I'm lost for words because of the love, respect, and honesty that's in the mist of you two and for sure God is most definitely the center of you all lives! What a beautiful marriage and family, WOW!!!

  • @friederikewruhs5792
    @friederikewruhs5792 3 роки тому +9

    I am neither a christian or in an interabled relationship but your advice on intimacy and on how to allow yourself to LEARN and giving yourself time to get to know each other is just pure gold. You both are so inspiring and absolutely cute. Communication is the key and we do not need to be a pro right now. Good things take time and you really need to allow yourself to take the time and effort as you said. Intimacy does not always and only is about sex, but also all those little things and as you said about making an effort to find out what your partner wnts, needs and mostly feels good with.

    • @sadietawakali8986
      @sadietawakali8986 2 роки тому

      i believe once you get to know a person ,intimacy doesnt really bother you,the love shown and given is beyond

  • @chinyereobasi4263
    @chinyereobasi4263 3 роки тому +3

    God is the center of your relationship, am learning alot from you guys every day. May God continue to bless you guys

  • @lasonyawalker7248
    @lasonyawalker7248 3 роки тому +5

    Blessings to you both - thank you for being candid. It’s very encouraging to know that being young Christians in the Lord, u can wait until marriage-🙌🏽 I’m happy for u both❤️ continued blessings.

  • @shortyp1000
    @shortyp1000 3 роки тому +10

    Yall are such cute newlyweds. 💜 Thank you for sharing even though you don't have to. I'm annoyed that people are so insistent.

  • @nedraquinones9406
    @nedraquinones9406 3 роки тому +43

    I've been practicing abstinence for 8 and a half years. I find it difficult to find someone when they hear this.

    • @chrisisslick
      @chrisisslick 3 роки тому

      Because most men don't wanna do that honestly, and then some may agree to try to wait you out and then move around if you don't budge. There's a small amount that will agree with you though. Good luck.

    • @heavenisherhome5525
      @heavenisherhome5525 3 роки тому +3

      That's really great, kudos to you. They are just making room for the right one

    • @TheWrightBrand
      @TheWrightBrand 3 роки тому

      Especially if you've already had sex but decided to stop, it's hard for anyone to feel, "but why wait with me and not the other dude or dudes". It's sad, but real.

    • @nicholevarnell6518
      @nicholevarnell6518 3 роки тому +7

      👊🏽Kudos to you sis! I too abstained for about 8 years.. 🗝 don't look for him ge will find you..And the RIGHT one will honor and respect your decision.

    • @shawnhawkins8691
      @shawnhawkins8691 3 роки тому +3

      It's been 6 years for myself and bc I don't have a significant other I don't think about it

  • @mythoughts1763
    @mythoughts1763 3 роки тому +157

    I APPRECIATE YALL HONESTY AND CLASS IN THIS VERY PERSONEL SUBJECT, BUT I HATE THAT I REALLY WANTED TO KNOW DETAILS!!!! I AM SO ASHAMED OF MYSELF, LOL. BLESSINGS

    • @taytayshaniqua.8686
      @taytayshaniqua.8686 3 роки тому +17

      Search disabled porn, it’s better than watching this because you get to see all the deets😂

    • @JessicaRiveraJessicaMitchell
      @JessicaRiveraJessicaMitchell 3 роки тому +69

      @@taytayshaniqua.8686 Your search history deeply concerns me lol

    • @markbeer7422
      @markbeer7422 3 роки тому +3

      @@taytayshaniqua.8686 chilllleeee

    • @taytayshaniqua.8686
      @taytayshaniqua.8686 3 роки тому +1

      @@JessicaRiveraJessicaMitchell shush

    • @milaniwilson4807
      @milaniwilson4807 3 роки тому

      @@JessicaRiveraJessicaMitchell lmbo @ ya'll convo.

  • @anishajohnson2596
    @anishajohnson2596 3 роки тому +5

    You guys seem so mature. I applaud you both for sharing your story. Love your accidents as well! I find this channel very interesting when I have time to tune in. Stay blessed 🙌

  • @doreatherharvey9016
    @doreatherharvey9016 Рік тому +1

    I love your communications skills and how much you guys love and appreciate each other, this is so refreshing. Thank you for your honesty.

  • @mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919
    @mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919 3 роки тому +5

    Amen, my husband and I also waited until we were married before becoming romantically intimate. God gets all the glory!! Amen

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 роки тому +11

    I was looking for something to watch and bumm! I saw this video. I love everything about this video

  • @MimisFabulous
    @MimisFabulous 3 роки тому +3

    I was going on UA-cam to look for a braces for my foot and my eyes pop up on the video of pregnancy and I was curious to know the story. When I am listening to your story I put more faith in God and see how great is our God. You were meant to each other it was in the plan of God. You will overcome all the obstacles coming on your way because God is the center of your relationship. I love you Guys. May God bless you and always be the center of your life.🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shirleyfretty487
    @shirleyfretty487 3 роки тому +11

    I really enjoyed your video. The love and respect you have for one another is total love. Great explanation on everything!!!!!!

    • @TheClements
      @TheClements  3 роки тому +1

      We appreciate you watching 🙏🏼

  • @victorywin1594
    @victorywin1594 3 роки тому +3

    Hello beautiful couple, Facebook brought me here. I really love your relationship/marriage. Congratulations to your new arrival blessings and all that God has for you both😍.

  • @meldenyse1970
    @meldenyse1970 Рік тому

    Building a relationship with each other’s bodies- I love that

  • @rhinzymaranyane6961
    @rhinzymaranyane6961 3 роки тому +9

    God bless y'all in abundance. I really love How you two actually connect, for me I see God's love and greatness. Communication is key and without it there's just chaos. Thank you May & Win

  • @billpeart4809
    @billpeart4809 2 роки тому +2

    I’m happy for him she seems like a cool down to earth lovely Christian woman more power to you guys

  • @dominiquejenkins5495
    @dominiquejenkins5495 3 роки тому +73

    I thought it was going to be cringe ... I don't know these ppl but they feel like my sis and bro and I don't wanna know that they get it on lol lol.. this was very decent like they always are

  • @jemimajanvier4706
    @jemimajanvier4706 3 роки тому +1

    Can I just say, you guys make such a gorgeous couple. That is actually the reason why I clicked.