Ma'am , बात संस्कारों और परवरिश की आ जाती है वरना जो सुन सकता है उसे सुनाना भी आता है , लेकिन मैम यदि झुकने से रिश्ते बनते हैं तो झुक जाना चाहिए लेकिन बार - बार हमें ही झुकना पड़े तो रुक जाना चाहिए ।
I have been struggling to get the meaning of "Setting your boundaries" specifically. Now i know that i don't have to shout, be rude, get angry or react. N i don't have to cross it. If i will cross i will be in trouble. Thanku soo much. I really need it.
Madam sari umar nikl jayegi patience rkhne me bt hmari zindagi sacrifice krte hue jhukte hue nikl jayegi koi na badalta h.. Hmara time is sb me hi fans jata h or bache b bde ho jate h fir pachtana hi rh jata h k aise logo ko ignore krke apne liye jeena chahiye tha
अधिकतर परिवार में ही होता है कि के काम आते है तब वह हमारी कदर करते हैं जब हम उनकी किसी काम के नहीं रहते वह हमारी कदर करना छोड़ देते हैं मतलब हर तरह से स्वार्थी
Your tips are wonderful.. I have been married in a very progressive family and live abroad, but still there are some members with whom its difficult to get aligned and we change as a person in front of them.. I try to learn from you on how to prevent difficult situations with such members. Thanks a lot for being there.. Rishton ko mazboot banane k lie chalo ek chhota sa usool apnate hain, har roz kuchh accha yaad rakhte hain aur bura bhool jate hain.. Amazing!!
Some ppl are not avoidable... like u said ki Hume room se bahar nikal jana chahiye agar koi zyada bol rha ho to .. But there are ppl who wait for us to get return so that they again start their bad behavior
Ma'am mai un logo me aati hu jo sbke sath khdi rhti hai unke bure wkt me apne begane sbke sath but jb mere bure wkt me vhi log tmasha dekhte hai mujhse jlte hai mere jkhm kuredte hai tb mai unlogo ko krara jbab deti hu aur sbkuch khtm kr deti hu rishta unke sath......kyunki purani khavt hai ki 100 ghatiya logon se acha ek vfadaar dog paal lo....vo jyada safe rhega.....10 bure dost se acha ek bhla insaan behtr hota hai....❤aapki sbhi vedio bahut hi positive and motivational hoti hai...
Madam ji aap jo gyaan de rahi hain ki har cheez avoid karo aapko nahi lagta ki ek time k baad wo cheezein pile up hoti jati hain aur yaha tak ki depression bhi de sakti hai.... kabhi psychology padha bhi hai??...... agar meri baat se sehmat ho doston toh like karo iss comment ko
*Very nicely explained, It is a simple yet powerful solution, I think many people underestimate the power of Sorry, Thank You, Please, etc due to their ego*
दो परिवार मे एक परिवार झुकता है और एक नही झुकता, शादी के कुछ साल बाद जो नही झुका वो आज बहुत आगे बड़ गए उनके पास सब कुछ है और जो रिश्ता निभाने के चक्कर में आज भी वही है और वैसे ही है उनकी जिन्दगी मे बहुत स्ट्रग्ल है अब पछताते रहो इस कलयुगी दुनिया में सब अपनी जिन्दगी के देखते है 🙏 इसलिए मैडम आप जो बोल रहे हो वो करे तो पछतावे की जिंदगी मिलेगी 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Some relationships are not worth ur time, effort and energy, they drain ur energy and make u mental pateint, stop being door mat to stupid people, when u feel u r being taken for granted just leave it, if someone cant compromise then y should u, pura life nikal jayegi kutte ki poonch kabhi seedha nhi hoti, toxic relationship se niklna better hai pura life ghut ghut k jeene se
patience jitna bhi rakh lo kuch log iska galat fayda uthate hai aur bhi jyada pareshan karte hai aur agar kuch kah do after 2 years to bhi kahte hai ki ham galat hai specially these in-laws are like that do anything for them but they will never stop criticise you and your parents they will remain same
Thanks for this most awaited video Ma'am. Aapne kaha clear krna chahiye pr itna easy nhi h. Wo clear bhi nhi krte aur kehte hain hume to koi problem nhi h aur fir wahi behavior rakhte hain. Agar aap koi baat jo ho gayi use bhula ke aage badhte hain to wo us baat ko pakad ke rakhte hain aur pareshan krte rehte hain.
Mam thanks aj muje es video ki bhut jarurat thi . App ke tips se meri life bhut easy ho jayegi.aj me bhut tention me thi .app ki video meje ase lag rahi h jese waheguru ji khud muje aa ke meri problem ke liye samjaya h .thanks so much mam
@@MonicaGupta Ma'am jis vjh se meri nanad badi wali ne mujhe block kr diya blki main ate time sbke per chuke ayi sbko pranam ki fir bhi isiliye main apse puchh rhi hu kyonki main to abhi kuchh ni janti rishto ka bt aap hi mujhe smjha skte ho
Nice example of 1.Sabji aur aanch. 2.Getting out of room for a while in garden or peaceful area when temper flies high.(I learned this trick in samarpan meditation) 3 . remember positive things happen and forget negative incidents...thanks.
Thanks maam. I know this video was totally considered about my comment. Teeth aur toung ka example bhuat acha hi.really patience is most important thing to countinue every kind of relation in our life. Really thanks.
Yes very true points ma’am you explain about these topic I agree and I am doing the same but one thing I realize people never change…..aap kitna hi acha karlo wo bura hi karte h hamare sath
Things are not so simple, there are some people who have been behaving with patience since 30 yrs thinking that things will improve one day but now they are repenting .
I am in joint and big family my papa have 5 brothers and each brother 2child and wife then 25members and 2 grandfather and mother . Total member-27 Each family make there own separate food, And all r jealous to each other . But I will show this video to my parents.🙍
Ristno ki grmaht feel krne ke liye patience , politeness, tolerance, love , affection , understanding bhut jaruri hai ........... Give up evils & grasp daily new habit , keep your watch on yourself not on others ............ Enjoy healthy relationship ........☝💥
Agar apki kahi hue baatein agar sb samjh jaye toh zindgi khubsoorat bhaut khubsoorat ho jayegi.rishte sambhalne ke liye pyar,patience aur respect ki bhaut jarurat padti ha
My mother in law used to comment my parents often adversely which used to hurt me a lot. I have resolved this issue by talking to them. I am trying very hard to maintain good relationship with my in-laws. Ur videos are very helpful to me madam as I have very less patience. I wonder how you can be so cool, pleasant and patient. I have two daughters and I will marry them only after they listen to ur all videos😊
Mam I want to know how to overcome depression due to parents favouritism? And thanku mam for this video and I hope that you will get to this question when you get time. Thanku for this video.
Came across your video while surfing on UA-cam. I will definitely try to implement whatever you said it. I watched few other English videos however your video on dealing with difficult family members made me to think positively and smile. Thank you for your guidance. New subscriber and pressed the bell icon too.
Sasural me Sasural wale hi criticise krte hai jb ki uun logo me agr shan't bhi rahe aur response bhi nhi diya to bhi tklif dete hai. ..hm rote hai. .hme bhi pida dukh hota hai aur wo bdnami krte hai. ..isme agr hubnd bhi shamil ho to akele hi sb shn krna pdta hai. ..kb tk patience rakhe. ..smzdari sirf bahu ke sath sath ghrke sare logo kobhi hona chahiye. .. 😢
Thanks mam... Mam har baar hum hi kyu... Kab tk.. Aur humlog agar har baat ko smbhalte hain aur jhukte hain samne wale har baar humari insult hi krte hain... Ye log kab smjhenge.. Acche log humesha use hote hain... 🙏😔
Sara kaam kerne pr log ye bole ki ki aap kuch kaam nhi kerte .kuch nhi aata aap ko to is situation pr kya kere.dever nalayak ho bilkul. Husband bhi aesa bole bhut baar baat kerne pr bhi wo bole yahi baat. Husband ghar walking baat me bhi aaker bole. Wife ko glt or ghar walo ko, cusion sister ke sath bhi
Mam.....abhi aapka video dekhne se pehle bahut gussa aa rha tha.....matlab itna ki kisi kaam me man nhi lag rha tha....lekin aapka video dekhne k baad me kafi relax feel krri hu.....mere ghar me mere dadaji h ....me unse bahut prem rakhti hu....but wo jis tarh k kaam krte h....me irritate hi jati hu....or boht gussa bhi aata h mujhe....but aapne jo points bole ki hamare sanskaar ese nhi h ....ye baat ekdm sach h.....mere mummy papa mujhe ese hi shant rehne ko kehte h....ki bado se is trah gussa nhi hote Overall me kafi shant ho gyi ....aap bahut acche se samjhate h
Logo Ko bolne k liye kabhi kabhi burai ki jarurat nhi hoti ...bahut sari achaaiya b ek wajah h Bura banane k liye...mam jaise app bolti h ki humare Sanskar un logo k trah nhi h jo Aisa Bolte h....meri maa ne mujhe Aisa hi sikhaya h...but mam samjhdar Insaan ki galtiya log bahut Kam maaf krte h..jabki bevakuf logo ki galtiya maaf ho jati h are use to akal hi nhi h...but JB hum bado se jyada samjhdari wala behave krte h to unko ye b raaas nhi Ata they always try to find ki tum galti karo....or wo insecure hoker b tumse galat behave kerte h....Sambhal Sambhal kr chalne walo ki maajaak banane k liye kuch nhi hota or thoker khane walo pe log atleast haste to h...or unhe Maja Ata h..kuch logo Ko aise log pasand ate h jo galti kare or unhe 4 bate bol sake...but jo galti na kare us se or b jyda pareshani ho.. jati h.....maine bahut log dekhe h jinki Umar bith jati h but Apne bacho k barbar b akal nhi hoti....daya ATI h aise logo pe jinhe ache or bure logo ki pahchaan nhi hoti
One who is constantly nagging and criticizing must be in lot of pain . instant of moving back we should address their pain that can be only possible when they react we don't go in pain.
Samne vala bakwas krte rahega to hum Kya sant banke bethe rhe? Not psblm mam.....me to kehti hu k kisi ko ye hq do hii mt k koi aapke bare m bakwas kre ya koi chilla k baat kre .....jaise hi koi bakwas krta hai usko vhi rok do fr chahe rude hi ku na hona pade ....fr dekhna vo kbhi aapse bakwas nhi krega .....try it ...
Good morning Mam मेरे विचार से इन रिश्तों को निभाना ही बेहतर है। परिवार में ऐसे ही लोग क्यों न हो, हमारे जीवन में उनकी बड़ी भूमिका होती है। कभी मुश्किल आए तो भी वही लोग साथ देते है, गैर नहीं। मान लीजिए ऐसे रिश्ते मुश्किल घड़ी में भी साथ नहीं देते तो भी उनके साथ रिश्ते तोड़ने नहीं चाहिए पर हाॅ उनसे दूरी बना के जरुर रखनी चाहिए। क्योंकि..............................अपने तो अपने होते हैं..............................
Har waqt aisa bhi nahi hota, kai baar nazdeek k rishte bhi mushkil mai kaam nahi aate, aisa ho chuka hai mere sath. Sach to ye hai ki kabhi bhi kuch bhi ho sakta hai, kabhi koi gair bhi sahara de deta hai, kabhi koi apna bhi sath khada nahi hota.
Respected mam ji me ab samasya ka samadhan kar pa rahi hoon sirf aur sirf apki wajah se, apke pyar aur apnepan aur samjhane ke dhang se, thanks love you mam. 😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘
Yes mam.. Babita ji se m sahmt hun.. Flexible hone k babjud dur tk koi ummid nzr nahi ati..ase logo se na duri bna skte h..na hi apna bana pate..smjh nahi ata ..kase unse deal kren
Mam humare ghar me hum 6 member h ,,,Mam inme se Kabi Koi Kisi kaam me help nahi karte ...Mam akele ghar ka Sara Kam karna hota h ..Kabi Kabi kaam Galt ho jata h to Meri sas datti h but m Bura nahi manati kyu ki galti ki vajah se daat padi but Mam jab galti nahi Hoti tab bi daat padti h or m bolti hu ki mujse ye galti nahi Hui to bolti h ki tu javab deti h
Ma'am , बात संस्कारों और परवरिश की आ जाती है वरना जो सुन सकता है उसे सुनाना भी आता है , लेकिन मैम यदि झुकने से रिश्ते बनते हैं तो झुक जाना चाहिए लेकिन बार - बार हमें ही झुकना पड़े तो रुक जाना चाहिए ।
बहुत खूब😊👍
@@MonicaGupta धन्यवाद मैम ।🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Aapki baat se sehmat hoon main jo log mere sath achha vevhaar nahi karte main unke sath utna hi achha karti hoon time Laga par sab theek ho jata h
Bahut sahi
@@soniya9155 kuch thik nahi hota kitna v acha kr lo thak vyi hu ab chup reh k apne dil ma dukhi hona he adat ban gyi ha
I have been struggling to get the meaning of "Setting your boundaries" specifically.
Now i know that i don't have to shout, be rude, get angry or react. N i don't have to cross it.
If i will cross i will be in trouble.
Thanku soo much. I really need it.
Madam sari umar nikl jayegi patience rkhne me bt hmari zindagi sacrifice krte hue jhukte hue nikl jayegi koi na badalta h.. Hmara time is sb me hi fans jata h or bache b bde ho jate h fir pachtana hi rh jata h k aise logo ko ignore krke apne liye jeena chahiye tha
Very true...
Continueously poke karagi then muh automatically khul jayagi... 1 2 3 4 days spare karnay se taken for granted ho jaya ga.
हाय
Right
Ignoring is the best solution
Or dil par nhi lena chahiye kuchh bhi.
Kb tk
very well said madam.
Hume sabak sikhana he padega nahi to puri zingagi aise he nikal jani.
अधिकतर परिवार में ही होता है कि के काम आते है तब वह हमारी कदर करते हैं जब हम उनकी किसी काम के नहीं रहते वह हमारी कदर करना छोड़ देते हैं मतलब हर तरह से स्वार्थी
Right
Your tips are wonderful.. I have been married in a very progressive family and live abroad, but still there are some members with whom its difficult to get aligned and we change as a person in front of them.. I try to learn from you on how to prevent difficult situations with such members. Thanks a lot for being there..
Rishton ko mazboot banane k lie chalo ek chhota sa usool apnate hain,
har roz kuchh accha yaad rakhte hain aur bura bhool jate hain..
Amazing!!
🙂🙂🙏👍🍫
Parivar achha mila hoga
Some ppl are not avoidable... like u said ki Hume room se bahar nikal jana chahiye agar koi zyada bol rha ho to .. But there are ppl who wait for us to get return so that they again start their bad behavior
तब एक प्यारी सी स्माईल दीजिए...
Ma'am mai un logo me aati hu jo sbke sath khdi rhti hai unke bure wkt me apne begane sbke sath but jb mere bure wkt me vhi log tmasha dekhte hai mujhse jlte hai mere jkhm kuredte hai tb mai unlogo ko krara jbab deti hu aur sbkuch khtm kr deti hu rishta unke sath......kyunki purani khavt hai ki 100 ghatiya logon se acha ek vfadaar dog paal lo....vo jyada safe rhega.....10 bure dost se acha ek bhla insaan behtr hota hai....❤aapki sbhi vedio bahut hi positive and motivational hoti hai...
Madam ji aap jo gyaan de rahi hain ki har cheez avoid karo aapko nahi lagta ki ek time k baad wo cheezein pile up hoti jati hain aur yaha tak ki depression bhi de sakti hai.... kabhi psychology padha bhi hai??...... agar meri baat se sehmat ho doston toh like karo iss comment ko
* एक सीमा के बाद झुकना गलत है । " बुरे के साथ अच्छा व्यवहार करना , अच्छे के साथ बुरा करने के समान है ।" -शेखसादी .
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*Very nicely explained, It is a simple yet powerful solution, I think many people underestimate the power of Sorry, Thank You, Please, etc due to their ego*
Yes, you are right
दो परिवार मे एक परिवार झुकता है और एक नही झुकता, शादी के कुछ साल बाद जो नही झुका वो आज बहुत आगे बड़ गए उनके पास सब कुछ है और जो रिश्ता निभाने के चक्कर में आज भी वही है और वैसे ही है उनकी जिन्दगी मे बहुत स्ट्रग्ल है अब पछताते रहो इस कलयुगी दुनिया में सब अपनी जिन्दगी के देखते है 🙏 इसलिए मैडम आप जो बोल रहे हो वो करे तो पछतावे की जिंदगी मिलेगी 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Some relationships are not worth ur time, effort and energy, they drain ur energy and make u mental pateint, stop being door mat to stupid people, when u feel u r being taken for granted just leave it, if someone cant compromise then y should u, pura life nikal jayegi kutte ki poonch kabhi seedha nhi hoti, toxic relationship se niklna better hai pura life ghut ghut k jeene se
patience jitna bhi rakh lo kuch log iska galat fayda uthate hai aur bhi jyada pareshan karte hai aur agar kuch kah do after 2 years to bhi kahte hai ki ham galat hai specially these in-laws are like that do anything for them but they will never stop criticise you and your parents they will remain same
sabse badi baat ye h ki..yadi sasural me apk husband apk sath h..to sab sahi....kisik himmat nhi ki koi apk kuch bigad le....
Hell is patience .. does not matter how much patience you hv people who don’t want to change never gonna change ..
Thanks for this most awaited video Ma'am.
Aapne kaha clear krna chahiye pr itna easy nhi h. Wo clear bhi nhi krte aur kehte hain hume to koi problem nhi h aur fir wahi behavior rakhte hain. Agar aap koi baat jo ho gayi use bhula ke aage badhte hain to wo us baat ko pakad ke rakhte hain aur pareshan krte rehte hain.
Watching this video (full) also requires patience...
BTW love your videos...🥰
Thanks Archana Verma 🙏🏻🙂
Mam thanks aj muje es video ki bhut jarurat thi . App ke tips se meri life bhut easy ho jayegi.aj me bhut tention me thi .app ki video meje ase lag rahi h jese waheguru ji khud muje aa ke meri problem ke liye samjaya h .thanks so much mam
Thanks Sonia आपका भी :)
@@MonicaGupta Ma'am jis vjh se meri nanad badi wali ne mujhe block kr diya blki main ate time sbke per chuke ayi sbko pranam ki fir bhi isiliye main apse puchh rhi hu kyonki main to abhi kuchh ni janti rishto ka bt aap hi mujhe smjha skte ho
@@EktaRaoNamilakonda ji apne bilkul thik kiya ab wo log yhi sochenge ki isne kuch bola kyo ni. Apko presan krne wale log khud presan ho jayenge...
आपसे ही उम्मीद है मेरी .घर के लोगों से कैसे निपटे.सहनशीलता रखनी चाहिए.अब समझ गई हूं मैं आपकी बात को.थैंक्यू मैम जी .😊💐💐💐
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I agree with you mam aap ki baatein dill ko chuh gyi Thank you nice 🥰
Nice example of 1.Sabji aur aanch. 2.Getting out of room for a while in garden or peaceful area when temper flies high.(I learned this trick in samarpan meditation) 3 . remember positive things happen and forget negative incidents...thanks.
Thanks maam. I know this video was totally considered about my comment. Teeth aur toung ka example bhuat acha hi.really patience is most important thing to countinue every kind of relation in our life. Really thanks.
:)
Your thoughts are very very positive. You give good argument. You are an angel in my life. Love you so much.
Gussa or fight nhi hoti kyunki ab main ghar hi nhi jati n milti hun sasuraal walon se.
Wow mam you are so good agar sab log aise hi ho jayen to koi problem nhn hogi. 😊life become so easy.
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Yes very true points ma’am you explain about these topic I agree and I am doing the same but one thing I realize people never change…..aap kitna hi acha karlo wo bura hi karte h hamare sath
Your advices really feel like talking to some family member😍
Things are not so simple, there are some people who have been behaving with patience since 30 yrs thinking that things will improve one day but now they are repenting .
:)
Thank you so much ma'am....😢 you explained very practically.... love you mam 💞.... you are like my mom❤
Thanks a lot
Kuch achcha yad rkhte h kuch bura bhul jate h bilkul sahi kaha aapne .Thanks a lot mam...
Thanks Rizwana sheikh 🙏🏻🙂
Thankyou so much, your videos help me a lot, please keep making videos. Lots of dua for you❤️
I am in joint and big family my papa have 5 brothers and each brother 2child and wife then 25members and 2 grandfather and mother .
Total member-27
Each family make there own separate food,
And all r jealous to each other .
But I will show this video to my parents.🙍
🙏👍
Ristno ki grmaht feel krne ke liye patience , politeness, tolerance, love , affection , understanding bhut jaruri hai ........... Give up evils & grasp daily new habit , keep your watch on yourself not on others ............ Enjoy healthy relationship ........☝💥
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दी आप भहुत ही अच्छे से समझते हो
मेने आप से बहुत सीखा हैं
थैंक्स दी 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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bhut acche video h apke sabhi aap humesha banaate rahe ji
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But mam !!!
My mother and younger sister always harash me...
Very impressive
The way of talking , your voice,your suggestions feeling relaxed thankyou
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हमारे लिये चुप रहेना बहेतर है, कौआ बनना है या कोयल उन पर निर्भर है.
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Nyc
Koyal chup nahi rehti .. wo kehti hai.. madhur vaani me hi ...
Good
Ager koyel ko bhi jayada debarge to vo bhi crow hi bn jayegi
Aapki *सरलता* hee aapka forte hai. App mein....*ek behen, ek dost, ek bhabhi, ek shubhchintak, ek mentor* dikhtaa hai
Agar apki kahi hue baatein agar sb samjh jaye toh zindgi khubsoorat bhaut khubsoorat ho jayegi.rishte sambhalne ke liye pyar,patience aur respect ki bhaut jarurat padti ha
Mam... My mother in law shouting on me too much... From 10years I kept quiet.. Now I also I am using their tonenow they kept quiet
My mother in law used to comment my parents often adversely which used to hurt me a lot. I have resolved this issue by talking to them. I am trying very hard to maintain good relationship with my in-laws. Ur videos are very helpful to me madam as I have very less patience. I wonder how you can be so cool, pleasant and patient. I have two daughters and I will marry them only after they listen to ur all videos😊
Me too
Do meditation for relaxation
Really I need this video......I will definitely try it.
Ye video m kab se chahti thi ..ab mili thanku
Thanks PRIYANKA SINGH 🙏🏻🙂
Bohut bohut accha laga kuch xsikhne ko mila Thanx.
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Yes its very truth but i have lack of patience but from today i will try☺️☺️
Thanks Sonali Dhaygude
चुकीच्या माणसात राहून दुःखी होण्यापेक्षा अनोळखी माणसात राहून आनंदी रहा
Life is too too short so enjoy yourself
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Mam I want to know how to overcome depression due to parents favouritism? And thanku mam for this video and I hope that you will get to this question when you get time. Thanku for this video.
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You gave solution to all of my problem 😊❤thank you so mch ❤
1 first point tolrate krna
2 positive things
3 humbleness
4 magic word used
5 silant in bad situation 😊😊
Thanks @ashukarishma84 🙏🏻🙂
Came across your video while surfing on UA-cam. I will definitely try to implement whatever you said it. I watched few other English videos however your video on dealing with difficult family members made me to think positively and smile. Thank you for your guidance. New subscriber and pressed the bell icon too.
Thanks JAYESH KADAM 🙏🏻🙂
@@MonicaGuptaMost welcome.🙏
Very nice mam , you have really explained beautifully . Good job , keep it up........👍
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Sasural me Sasural wale hi criticise krte hai jb ki uun logo me agr shan't bhi rahe aur response bhi nhi diya to bhi tklif dete hai. ..hm rote hai. .hme bhi pida dukh hota hai aur wo bdnami krte hai. ..isme agr hubnd bhi shamil ho to akele hi sb shn krna pdta hai. ..kb tk patience rakhe. ..smzdari sirf bahu ke sath sath ghrke sare logo kobhi hona chahiye. .. 😢
same situation. like me 🥺
बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद
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Jiska sanskar jesa hota he..uska acharan wesa hota he mam.
Many many thanks for this good vedio.
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Mem मुझे आपकी बातें बहुत ज़्यादा पसन्द आई।
Very good tips for relationships.
Nice line that Jivan me rishtey hote he but more important is Rishtey me Jivan he ke nahi.
Very true Ma'am.
Thank s ma'am
I will try to apply these things in my life
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Great job thanks 🙏
Mujhe apse bat kr k bhut achha lgta h pura tension khatm ho jata h
अधिक से अधिक सीमित रहने का प्रयास करना चाहिए।क्योंकि कुछ लोग कभी भी नहीं सुधरते हैं।
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you r so pisitive mam.. thanx for every solution. god bless u..
Thanks mam...
Mam har baar hum hi kyu... Kab tk.. Aur humlog agar har baat ko smbhalte hain aur jhukte hain samne wale har baar humari insult hi krte hain... Ye log kab smjhenge.. Acche log humesha use hote hain... 🙏😔
👏👏👏 nice .ek dum sai h.
True ajkl jo pista hai vhi bura hai jo clever hai selfish hai vo hi ache hain.. Humjese log hmesha batain sunte hain ghut te hain
sahi baat hai bilkul
Ekdam sahi...
Nice
Madam sahiba ji..very well nice videos for pupils(janta)...thanks to you..
From avas vikas colony agra
Luv u mam..apke liye mein change ho gayi☺🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏..God apko hamesha khush kare
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India's first and best parenting channel 🙏
Thanks Nisha Gawade 🙏🏻🙂
Sara kaam kerne pr log ye bole ki ki aap kuch kaam nhi kerte .kuch nhi aata aap ko to is situation pr kya kere.dever nalayak ho bilkul.
Husband bhi aesa bole bhut baar baat kerne pr bhi wo bole yahi baat.
Husband ghar walking baat me bhi aaker bole. Wife ko glt or ghar walo ko, cusion sister ke sath bhi
Mam you are too good...
Love you 😘
Amazing way of explanations 👍😍
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Thankyou mam. Mai apply karungi apki ye baate.
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Bhot acha example diya apne.
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Bahot acha video Maa mere liye bahot jaruri tha
Thanks Roshni Jaiswalyyrrr
good morning mam nice video apk. sbhi video m bahot kuch sikhne Ko milta h..... thankuuu mam
Thanks Roshni Mishra
Mam what to do if our parents are negative and always fight? Pls make video on this topic pls
same problem bro u cant do anything in this scenario except talk to both in alone
Didi namaste aapke is video se mujhe bahut Adhik Prerna Mili Mere Parivar Mein Yahi problem chal rahi hai
Thanks Ranu Mahajan 🙏🏻🙂
Mam.....abhi aapka video dekhne se pehle bahut gussa aa rha tha.....matlab itna ki kisi kaam me man nhi lag rha tha....lekin aapka video dekhne k baad me kafi relax feel krri hu.....mere ghar me mere dadaji h ....me unse bahut prem rakhti hu....but wo jis tarh k kaam krte h....me irritate hi jati hu....or boht gussa bhi aata h mujhe....but aapne jo points bole ki hamare sanskaar ese nhi h ....ye baat ekdm sach h.....mere mummy papa mujhe ese hi shant rehne ko kehte h....ki bado se is trah gussa nhi hote
Overall me kafi shant ho gyi ....aap bahut acche se samjhate h
Thank you for the lovely video. Beautifully explained. I always wait for your videos.
Thank you mam for these lines 😊👍
Most welcome 😊
Mam jo besarm log ko samjadari ki bhasa samaj nahi ati.. ye ese log hote hai jinhe hamari khusi bardast nahi hoti isliye paresan karate hai
Absolutely correct
Badappan to tab dikhaye na jB saamne waala dekhne ke kaabil ho
Meri sister meri marriage nhi hone de rahi khud ki karwa rahi hai.mujhe paresan karati h kya karu
Right
I am very inspired with the following video of your thank you
bahot hi sahi topic pakada muje bhi ase vichar aaya..... ku6 log ko kitana pyar do vo zaher uglana nahi chodte
Logo Ko bolne k liye kabhi kabhi burai ki jarurat nhi hoti ...bahut sari achaaiya b ek wajah h Bura banane k liye...mam jaise app bolti h ki humare Sanskar un logo k trah nhi h jo Aisa Bolte h....meri maa ne mujhe Aisa hi sikhaya h...but mam samjhdar Insaan ki galtiya log bahut Kam maaf krte h..jabki bevakuf logo ki galtiya maaf ho jati h are use to akal hi nhi h...but JB hum bado se jyada samjhdari wala behave krte h to unko ye b raaas nhi Ata they always try to find ki tum galti karo....or wo insecure hoker b tumse galat behave kerte h....Sambhal Sambhal kr chalne walo ki maajaak banane k liye kuch nhi hota or thoker khane walo pe log atleast haste to h...or unhe Maja Ata h..kuch logo Ko aise log pasand ate h jo galti kare or unhe 4 bate bol sake...but jo galti na kare us se or b jyda pareshani ho.. jati h.....maine bahut log dekhe h jinki Umar bith jati h but Apne bacho k barbar b akal nhi hoti....daya ATI h aise logo pe jinhe ache or bure logo ki pahchaan nhi hoti
mem mera beta 20 sal ka hai meri bat sunta nhi mai kya kru
Ek dum sahi kaha
Pooja Dobhal v right
Mere sath bhi yahi dikkat hai..
Pooja Dobhal right pooja
Thanks Didi for u'r good advice
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One who is constantly nagging and criticizing must be in lot of pain .
instant of moving back we should address their pain that can be only possible when they react we don't go in pain.
bahut hi badiya suggestions 🙏
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Tarif ke liye sabad kam h 👌👌
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It's good for our health only and person who tries to spread negativity will immediately face their own karma
I hope they do face it immediately
मँम, फैलाई हुई बदनामी अगर कभी पोलीस रेकाँर्ड बनें तो? होता है ऐसे। इसलिए खुदके झूठें बदनामी के खिलाफ आवाज वक्त पें ऊठाँना ही चाहीएँ। धन्यवाद।
Sahi baat hai
Kuch log kabhi sudhar nhi sakte
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Samne vala bakwas krte rahega to hum Kya sant banke bethe rhe? Not psblm mam.....me to kehti hu k kisi ko ye hq do hii mt k koi aapke bare m bakwas kre ya koi chilla k baat kre .....jaise hi koi bakwas krta hai usko vhi rok do fr chahe rude hi ku na hona pade ....fr dekhna vo kbhi aapse bakwas nhi krega .....try it ...
Very useful video madam. TQ. I also have such family member and this video will be helpful for me to deal with that person. TQ🙏🙏🙏
Apka all'videos mujhe bhoot jyada Atche Lakti Hain..... Thank you very much mam ❤️😘
आपका भी थैंक्स👍💐
Very good mam thanks for the suggestion
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Thank you ..
Good morning Mam
मेरे विचार से इन रिश्तों को निभाना ही बेहतर है। परिवार में ऐसे ही लोग क्यों न हो, हमारे जीवन में उनकी बड़ी भूमिका होती है। कभी मुश्किल आए तो भी वही लोग साथ देते है, गैर नहीं। मान लीजिए ऐसे रिश्ते मुश्किल घड़ी में भी साथ नहीं देते तो भी उनके साथ रिश्ते तोड़ने नहीं चाहिए पर हाॅ उनसे दूरी बना के जरुर रखनी चाहिए। क्योंकि..............................अपने तो अपने होते हैं..............................
धन्यवाद Ruby बहुत अच्छी बात लिखी :)
@@MonicaGuptaमैम आपसे ही तो इतनी अच्छी बातें सीखते है। आप को कोटि कोटि धन्यवाद ।
Ruby ji sahi kaha aapne hum sab acchi baatein monica mam se dikhate hai 👍👍
Har waqt aisa bhi nahi hota, kai baar nazdeek k rishte bhi mushkil mai kaam nahi aate, aisa ho chuka hai mere sath. Sach to ye hai ki kabhi bhi kuch bhi ho sakta hai, kabhi koi gair bhi sahara de deta hai, kabhi koi apna bhi sath khada nahi hota.
@@latasharma5041 मगर रिश्तों को हमे अपनी तरफ़ से बेहतर बनाना है.. अपने परिवार के साथ हमे संबंध किसी उम्मीद से नहीं निभाने चाहिए..
Mujhe apki video bahut aachi lagi thanku mem
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Respected mam yahi mere bhi problem he, par ab apki wajah se sikh pa rahi hoon .
🙏🙂👍 आपके साथ कोई प्रोब्लम आ ही नही सकती
Respected mam ji me ab samasya ka samadhan kar pa rahi hoon sirf aur sirf apki wajah se, apke pyar aur apnepan aur samjhane ke dhang se, thanks love you mam. 😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘
But mam insan kab tak adjust Kare kanhi to passions tute ga. But flexible logo ka fyada bhi bhut uthya jata h
Yes mam.. Babita ji se m sahmt hun.. Flexible hone k babjud dur tk koi ummid nzr nahi ati..ase logo se na duri bna skte h..na hi apna bana pate..smjh nahi ata ..kase unse deal kren
Madam Iam very inspire of you
Thank uh madam
Thanks Arif Abrar 🙏🏻🙂
Mam humare ghar me hum 6 member h ,,,Mam inme se Kabi Koi Kisi kaam me help nahi karte ...Mam akele ghar ka Sara Kam karna hota h ..Kabi Kabi kaam Galt ho jata h to Meri sas datti h but m Bura nahi manati kyu ki galti ki vajah se daat padi
but Mam jab galti nahi Hoti tab bi daat padti h or m bolti hu ki mujse ye galti nahi Hui to bolti h ki tu javab deti h
Umesh kumar aap apne mayke me btao ya husband ke samne bath kr रोओ
@@NandLal-iu6zp bhai tu to madam k Ghar Cargill Bana doge.
Mam ekdum true .aap bht achchi batayee. Thank you