From “GET OUT & NEVER Come Back” to “PLEASE Come Home?” In 5 Months! - Stephen's Story
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- Опубліковано 3 лип 2024
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Does this sound familiar?
Your partner told you that the "marriage is OVER!" and so you look to coaches, such as Josh Hudson, talk to therapists to help you via EMDR or something else, you read books, search for everything under the sun to get help FAST!
You work with these "experts" who are the supposed "BEST" with MASSIVE audiences, SNAZZY marketing, SNAZZY promises and headlines telling you they have the "secret key".
But, not only does it NOT help you with your relationship, but it also does not help you develop marriage mastery! Your partner certainly doesn't see you as the pinnacle of man...
So, if nothing's working, then what on earth can you do?!
Watch this video and find out EXACTLY what Stephen did, with my program, that turned his entire marriage around in ONLY FIVE MONTHS!
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00:00 - Will The Program Work for My "Unique" Situation?
INITIAL SITUATION & HOW THINGS ARE NOW
01:11 - She Told Me "We're Done, We Need to Get a DIVORCE!"
06:31 - It Started to Affect Our Kids, So She Made Me MOVE OUT
12:59 - Things Are So PEACEFUL Now She Asked Me to Move Back Home!
16:22 - Is Your Definition of Reconciliation WRONG? (Perfect Product vs. Perfect Process)
EXPERIENCE IN THE PROGRAM
21:34 - I Tried Everything, Therapy, Books, etc. Nothing Worked UNTIL the Program! (Internal Shifts)
32:42 - The Program Makes You THE Doctor for ALL Relationship Problems (Process of Success)
39:51 - Relationships Revival Taught Me How to Break Negative Cycles & Create Replicable Success!
52:46 - Why I Chose Relationships Revival Over the "Competition"
58:48 - I Loved That the Program's Culture Is Built For A+ Players
1:12:00 - The Program Turns the Art of Relationships Into a "Science"
LEARNING LESSONS
1:18:25 - Overcoming My Victim Mindsets Changed EVERYTHING
1:24:39 - My Tetheredness Destroyed Safety for EVERYONE (Hunting vs. Farming)
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Hey guys, hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts?
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Big thank you to Jason for sharing all of this.
We are always here to help.
When stephen said: “look at the trajectory of your growth and just focus on that and not to worry about anything else”. Mentally that’s where I’m at and hearing that from him at the end of the interview made me feel so confident. 🙌
Thank you guys
Exactly! Focus on perfecting your PROCESS and the rest takes care of itself :)
37 minutes hit home so hard. That’s me, things get great and then out of nowhere she crashed today. It was right after we had a good moment a few days back. But the thing is I am not giving up, I am seeing where I went wrong and lacking…I slipped up in the goal instead of just loving and enjoying life. Bettering me.
So tonight I had this gut feeling I just let go of something. And all of the sudden my relationship with my daughter skyrocketed out of this world. I felt free and we just laughed and connected like never before. The feeling stayed…my mind has stayed in that state and I don’t know what exactly clicked.
Very important interview, thank you Geoffrey and Stephen
Another inspiring video thank you for sharing Stephens story . I start the program next week .😁
Really looking forward to the in depth video on un-tethering. I'm not sure how you knew, but this one is still biting me in the ass all of the time. (Probably just a coincidence. Lol) Could we possibly go a bit more in depth on TBU's and how to Identify these and avoid them? They always seem to disguise themselves as something that is so important in the moment, until I look back and realize that it screwed me over again when it is too late. Being okay with things happening in the moment and remaining un-teathered to the outcome sounds like the correct mindset to address this, though it is easier said than done.
New video before my *hopefully* last interview call w/ jason tomorrow. Let's f'kin gooooo
Glad you enjoyed the video, Bradley! BTW - Jason has some good notes regarding your application process. :)
@@GeoffreySetiawan That's huge. I have a business trip in Dallas this upcoming weekend, would be awesome to start delving into the material before then! Let's hope for the best!
@bradleyslama4932 jason is the shit, Ive only spoken with him 3 times but I will ride for that dude
@@botsbass842 ong bro started hitting me with fax as soon as we talked.
Thank you Geoffrey. and Stephen. I am in Houston as well.
Dude! That's how I found you Geoffrey! I was looking into JH and LF, and found a review on Reddit and saw some people mention your name. No idea who you were at the time. So i just like any other guy here, I did a research on UA-cam and absolutely fell in love with your content. It made me feel better about investing with you.
Glad you're enjoying the content here! Sounds like you're in the program based on the last statement? Is that right?
@@GeoffreySetiawan I will be this week!
Best interview yet!!! The first 20 min is exactly my situation, except it's been 4 years of the same mental health struggles with my kids! How can i get in touch with Stephan? Please?!?
Geoffrey, I need this program so I can learn to learn and be a better man, husband, and father; I need to learn to reconnect with my kids (alienated from) while being untethered (among everything else I want to learn) . I've been emailing you and your staff for over a year now... I can't wait to get into your program.
Only if u prepare to go thru hell before reach heaven, u will prevai if u really want to join and do the system as Jeff created.
Otherwise, u can forget it.
Join Jeff program is not showering you with wishful thinking, instead, u really will have to be willing to go thru hell in a correct way and follow Jeff's advice 100% only then u will prevail.
Im saying this because i have been watching any single Jeff's videos, and i have to admit, its a hell before rainbow.
I appreciate it. I went into this interview fully knowing I was in many ways early in this program and still had a lot to learn and change inside, but I can 100% say it's had a massive life changing effect on me. I'm finally fixing really deep-seated issues in myself, in ways that everything else I had tried had not. Inwardly I had learned a lot of wrong lessons about who I was and what I could do. I have more peace with myself, in what has been the hardest part of my life, than I thought I could. I kept trying to do it on my own, for way too long. Geoffrey says you can't outthink your situation with the same thoughts and paradigms that got you into that situation. That was really true of me. I had beliefs holding me back that were so deep, that even knowing I was a mess, I couldn't even see what the real issues were. Or where my repeated ineffective attempts to fix them were off, and or how to really fix it. This has been a god send, life changing program.
Keep working hard and I hope you get in. Recognize that you can change, and that doing so requires recognizing how much you don't know, and how much what you think you know may be wrong.
@@StephenStroup Thank you for replying to my post. If there is a way to speak privately, I would like to. I pray for you and your family, especially your son. My child just went through 2 years in hospitals, many facilities, and has now been out for 8 months and doing much better, but still a long way to go. Like you, that is all i will say here for now, and i may edit/delete some of this soon, i would hate for them to find me talking about their struggles. It was/is very severe, and came about during the separation.
I can see this program will help me with myself so one day my kids, and my ex, will reconnect sincerely with me; you have given me hope and inspiration.
Geoffrey how can you know whether u are giving ur partner space from discussing a difficult topic or you are just being allergic to the resistance that would come from bringing up those topics
At 54:00 or thereabouts, he talks about Josh Hudson and the somewhat far reaches he makes. Letters and such. I know, I've watched his videos too.
But then "who's this Geoffrey guy"??
Stephen talks about just kinda what I've found out too. Geoffrey takes a different approach.
Fellas, take Geoffrey's Masterclass. Out of anything you may have heard, his approach makes the most sense.
Thanks for all your helpful advice. Can you comment on how to cope with the lack of physical intimacy during rough times with our partners? You mentioned that it takes months before our partners recognize and accept our internal changes. How do you help yourself physically?
I went on a meditation retreat for 1 year without ejaculating once. Lol.
It is such a powerful position to learn to not NEED sex, but to still WANT it.
NEEDING it is a major weakness that makes men do dumb stuff in their life & relationship.
There are many ways to satisfy your feminine needs besides ejaculation.
This is the enlightened way to live.
P.S. My wife and I have sex 3-5 times per week. I LOVE sex. But I do not NEED it.
#awesome #healing #information
Hey brother how can I join your program?
So technically they were separated for 14 months? 9 before the program and 5 in the program. Sounds about right
I'm 2 weeks into the program. When I was trying to decide if I wanted to make the jump, I saw that guy's Reddit posts. Anyone that says you don't need a program and just read some books is un-coachable and has an enormous amount of ego.
Proof is that he still spends so much of his time on Reddit talking crap about his partner, etc... :)
Funny how much victim mindsets he is displaying despite the fact that he claims he can get rid of all of them on his own!
Disagree. You don’t need it but it is a very helpful tool to use. My wife has actually opened up after six months of me integrating G’s and another coach’s pointers into my life.
I’ll be honest, G’s videos make more sense once you master the correct “why” aka internal shifts. People who watch this and don’t get to a certain point first will not find that these videos click.
I think most men don’t understand the emotional component in relationships. Most men aren’t taught that.
So iv been following your vids, my partner monkey branched, she said iv fixed everything but it’s too late… I’ll keep my changes and suppose I’ll just move on when I’m ready 🤷🏼♂️ I’m not ready yet by any means, but she moved out took the kids and it’s a crap situation, but theirs only so much you can do I suppose but I’m not over her yet
Are we sure our definition of changes and your definition are the same?
Let me ask you this...
Imagine a college student who has been getting F's on exams who still wants to graduate.
Would getting C's and D's be good enough?
Or, would they need to get A's consistently before they can GUARANTEE they receive their diploma?
Maybe your partner is also looking for MASSIVE and PERMANENT changes so she too can surrender her ONE and ONLY life...
@@GeoffreySetiawan theirs only so much you can do I’m human, my changes are 100x better than I was iv beat my old self hands down iv fixed all the issues we never argued in 12 years, I can’t keep clinging onto hope I’m done now, if she wanted to marry me back then and not now even though I’m better than I was it’s bollocks, I can’t put my self through the hope but your programme isn’t about getting your ex back it’s about becoming the best version of your self being untethered and moving on if needs be, she admits theirs nothing else to change but she is sorry, theirs nothing more I can do, I’m the most emotionally safe bloke you will ever meet 😂 helped her move out joked with her never even argued when I saw the sex txts I asked how she was feeling 😂 it’s just the way I am I could never be nasty to her that wouldn’t get me anywhere
@@GeoffreySetiawanas I said iv fixed everything she agrees don’t know how else to explain it 😂 I can’t just become a multimillionaire, I can do all the other low level stuff housework etc , never argued in 12 years helped her move out joked with her if that’s not bullet proof I don’t know what is 😂, I know why we split it was because I was in a rut I didn’t get out enough or do enough and I did but 4 month later she sees my changes she knows their real but your programme isn5 about getting your ex back it’s being untethered becoming the best you and moving on if needs be right ? We can only do what we can do 😂
@@rscholey85yeah, uhhh... you don't get it. I wish you did bro
@@botsbass842 good luck with yours fella, I don’t know how else to explain it really you make changes the best you can be you become untethered you become bullet proof you spin things into a positive you give them good feelings instead of letting your emotions get to you, your safe to talk to they feel like they can talk to you, just do you live your life and if she reaches out cracking if not so be it … no matter what she says I spin it even when she said that I didn’t argue I listened I said I understand I’ll just keep my improvements and carry on the doors open, you might have a special cape on that gives you godly powers but us mortals just try to follow the advice, untethered be the best you can be and be willing to move on
Jeff looks so sleepy in this video
Yes, running 48+ hours without sleep in this video. Houston was hit with a Tornado & we lost power for 1.5 weeks. Further, we had 3 sudden deaths in both Sam's and my family, and had to fly to Asia 3 hours after this interview.
Yet, we still delivered - we are anti-fragile. :)
These challenges allowed my wife to see how much of a leader I can be, and gives her more reasons to feel safe.
Beautiful way to be.
Good moments create safety.
Bad moments create even more safety.
All because I learned to BE a leader as a my lowest default led by my frameworks and internal shifts.
WIN.
@@GeoffreySetiawan 😳
I meant no disrespect
Howdy Houston... glad you are good. We in Austin were quite safe.
Check your email 🙂
Hey thanks for nothing Geoffrey I filled out my application and you never even responded to me
As we mentioned numerous times, we currently only have room to take in less than 10% of people who apply, and we do get many stellar applications.
Questions to ask yourself - why do you feel like others owe you a response/acceptance?
I mean, if you were us, would you accept enrollments from these types of comments when you have 9 others who submit great applications?
Would you risk disrupting the wonderful community of clients we have now by enrolling people who make these types of comments?
And is this how you would apply/communicate to your dream university/job?
Do you think this response/attitude is going to help us feel like we "missed out" or made a mistake for not accepting your application?
Do you think it is these types of behaviors that caused your relationship to break down?
Do you think these types of behavior is going to help your partner feel like she "missed out" or made a mistake for leaving?