90% of the time 'watch and wait' works out, but the alternatives may be preferable even so. I'm glad the vid pointed out the treatments for complications of miscarriage are similar to abortion and thus many jurisdictions have made such care near impossible.
Pls more of these topics. It's very rare to find this kind of education for women. It's very discreet as the public avoids talking about it in the open
As someone who identifies as a father, husband, and son, I also feel like this is very important education for me and others with those identities. While it is difficult for me to understand experiences from perspectives I could never share, that they have been so taboo for generations made it impossible.
I had a miscarriage, and I didn’t even know I was pregnant at the time. It was the most physical pain I’d ever been in, and I’ve got tattoos, broken bones, had teeth pulled, been in motorcycle accidents, and at this point have given actual birth (to a perfect daughter). The miscarriage was hands down the worst. Afterwards, what got me through it psychologically was Ali Wong’s stand up about her own miscarriage. It helped me understand how common miscarriage is, and that it doesn’t have to be a big deal unless you need/want it to be.
Yes, and it can happen to anyone. My mom got pregnant almost instantly when she tried for each baby and had some abortions, but she miscarried between her first and second child.
@@dumhomie8656 your intentions probably werent bad but saying their miscarriage was a blessing is so insensitive. their physical and psychological pain was not a blessing. + the world is not overpopulated, the world's birth rates are rapidly falling, we are more likely going to face an underpopulation problem.
@@candicelau5233 yeah but sometimes abortion is needed what if a teen gets pregnant or if there are serios risks for both the baby and the mother but also its bad if you dont absolutely need to
I never knew miscarriages were that common and honestly, that is scary. I’m sorry to all those who have miscarried and as well, I hope good luck to you.
I've had two miscarriages. My first I just found out I was pregnant, but miscarried the next day. My second I made it to twelve weeks with twins! But then their hearts just stopped beating...I was devastated. My options were to wait to naturally have labor or get a D and C. I opted for the D and C. I didn't want to labor (very bloody) and have them keep sitting inside me. It's been a year now and I still deeply miss my babies🩷. I was blessed to have another baby since the twins though! Please keep talking about these things! So many don't know, or have different assumptions about pregnancy.
I think this video is somewhat terrible as it spends more time trying to convince the viewer about the importance of abortion rights, that many nations outside of the “all important US of A” have access too. This video spends zero time referring to the utterly heartbreaking notion of loosing a human life. A human life that you start thinking about, make plans for. Spending the time making a space for this life within your household then to loose it. It is devastating beyond belief. Especially when you have explain to a toddler that the future brother or sister they imagined would never come to be, the result of that is too heartbreaking to even reference. This is not an educational video but rather political propaganda. This video makes zero sense unless you live in current day USA and even then it’s not even remotely tackling the issue
3 out of my 7 pregnancies ended in miscarriages on or before 7 weeks. I'm greatful for my 4 healthy children but still miss my angel babies. It's a loss I had to bear alone since miscarriages are taboo and my husband never bonds with our children till after they are born.
I'll never understand how, in some states, such as Arkansas and Alabama, it is _illegal_ to have a miscarriage, and you can be arrested and charged with murder or manslaughter for it! I'm not sure how a natural bodily function is at all comparable to murder, but apparently, it is so objectionable to some people that it's treated with the same level of contempt as the worst intentional act a person can commit.
The cruelty is the point. It’s all about broadcasting to anyone with a uterus that they are little more than breeding stock, and that if they can’t fulfill that function, then they have no place in society.
@@JBramson Try looking up "states in which miscarriage is illegal" to start your search for those statutes. Unfortunately, I can't post links on UA-cam because the algorithm automatically hides most of them under the assumption that they're all spam.
Wait that's a thing? I know abortions are becoming murky legal topics but miscarriages are beyond a person's control. How can you prove guilt in something like that??
Thank you for creating this video! I just had a miscarriage at 6 weeks this past April. It was my first time being pregnant. Nobody tells you how painful it is both physically and emotionally. Sending love to all those that have suffered a loss no matter how early or late in their pregnancy 😢
I've been avoiding watching these types of videos because i had a miscarriage last year and i thought it was my fault. Also i thought i was going to get punished for not getting checked out. But i didnt even realize what happened until months later. Sending so much Love to anyone else who may be going through this ❤️
Thank you for this video. Unfortunately it seems most people don't know how common miscarriages are until they experience one. We didn't and it devastated us
I’m sorry for your loss. I hope your medical providers helped you by explaining it. I’ll bet many women you know have also had miscarriages. Good luck.
I hate that this topic is so taboo. So many women suffer from miscarriages and are forced to suffer in silence from the physical and emotional trauma it causes.
Likely because there are those who just want abortions like it's a normal thing, which causes push back that causes the treatment for miscarriages to be difficult to access as the medication is the same for abortions and miscarriage treatment, like what the video said.
I had miscarriage (or actually cryptic pregnancy) and it was not only devastating experience but it was that bad that they had to do surgery. When I went to therapy, therapist told me how common miscarriages are but women doesn’t talk about them… And I now really get why. It changed me and one day I hope I’ll become mother. ❤
1/4 pregnancies end in miscarriage. It hurts. Even when years pass, the pain is there. "I held you for every second of your life, and I'll miss you for every moment of mine." Sending love to anyone who has been in these painful shoes.
More like 1/2. As the video showed, of every 3 fertilized eggs, 1 ends up in live birth, 1 fails to implant, and the rest are aborted or, much more commonly, miscarried.
I have miscarried my first pregnancy 1 week ago without any warning symptons and this video make me feel better. Thank you so much and hopefully more and more women will know about this video.
My mom had a miscarriage a few years before I was born. She was roughly 10 weeks along when it happened. I always feel bad for her about it, but grateful for the people who helped her through it so that I and my younger siblings could be with her today.
I'm in the middle of a miscarriage currently. Wondering why my doctor did not offer any options other than the surgical route. Perhaps that is because mine is a fairly late one that happened at the end of the first trimester. I will have to ask him tomorrow. Wishing courage and strength to anyone else who had gone or will go through this.
at that point the only option is surgical. Medication is used under 12 weeks. I wish they included, that having had a late missed miscarriage i was told by many in my family i didn't need the abortion and to wait it out. But the pregnancy was just too far progressed for it to be done safely.
Thank you everyone for your replies and well wishes. I got my answers today, as well as a DnC procedure. In my hospital they only offer medication option if the fetus is under 10 weeks of age. I was well beyond that at almost 13 weeks. The wait and see approach is an option but as I was already two weeks past the time when my baby passed and nothing much was changing, while I myself was rather uncomfortable, they thought the surgical route was best. Usually they strongly recommend it if three weeks have elapsed and there was no spontaneous clearance of the uterus as chances of infection and other complications go up while the fetus may be retained for a very long time yet. Be well, mamas.
@@ekaterinadzyubak197 I wish you a safe and quick recovery, and if it is your wish to have a child in the future I wish you all the best of luck with that too.
Thank you for making and sharing this. As women, we should not be ashamed about this subject. Miscarriages can happen to anyone and I send my prayers of light and healing to those going through such terrible times.
How lucky to have a loving mother. My mother is a narcissist and has abused me my whole life. I'm now 56 and she's 74 and a year ago she attacked me in front of my young daughter. I haven't spoken to her since March 22, 2023. I do not need her around me or my family
Information from a medical website: An embryo’s heart doesn’t start beating until about 22 days after fertilization. That’s a week after a missed period. As the video says, it’s very common that if the egg doesn’t implant properly, you usually aren’t even aware of that loss of a potential pregnancy (miscarriage).
"Missed period." That's assuming one has a regular menstrual cycle. Many period-havers (especially the younger end of the spectrum) don't have regular cycles. Just noting this.
@@alibobali4032 It's true that a lot of women don't have regular periods, and this can actually lead to women giving birth without prior knowledge of pregnancy. It's a very fascinating subject, and part of why invisible pregnancies can occur to women.
I miscarried my first pregnancy. I was devastated since I totally didn't expect it to happen. Nobody talks about their miscarriages until you have one, then I realized a lot more women than I thought had been through the same thing. The process was very painful and emotionally hard. I am now pregnant with a totally healthy pregnancy and currently 27 weeks. It's one of those things that societies don't speak on but is apart of many people's journeys to a healthy baby.
I'm sorry you had to go through that and congratulations wishing you a beautiful and healthy baby ❤ It's been 3 days since my miscarriage, it's was the most painful thing I had ever gone through physically. They don't tell you how much and pain and struggle you go through with a miscarriage and how dangerous it can be.
Thank you so much for doing this particular episode Ted-Ed! I had a cousin who suffered a miscarriage a couple of years ago and she texted me about it. She started blaming herself for it but I reassured her and told her that it wasn’t her fault. I told her the major reasons why a pregnancy might result in a miscarriage (from your video) and she felt better. Women’s health is commonly a taboo topic to discuss in my family but I bring it up since Dobbs overturned Roe. Thank you once again! Do more women’s health episodes so we can break the myth of women’s health not being important
I honestly didn’t know at all that miscarriage was so common until I had one. (9 weeks) It bothered me, but it made it more bearable later on after I got over the shock of it and could grieve for a while. I have my daughter and son (both after the one miscarriage) and am extremely, eternally grateful. But to this day I still think about the lost pregnancy (13 years later).
And if it’s a second trimester miscarriage, even more medical intervention may be necessary (as in my case). I wish more people knew all more about this topic in general.
I once had a miscarriage, while not knowing i was pregnant. The physical toll it took was alot more than i ever expected, idk why. I never wanted kids, and when i felt my body actively terminating the pregnancy, and the fall out of it, the cramps, the blood, the chunks of tissue that passes it alarming and if i hadnt seen the tissue chunks as i went to the bathroom, i still wouldnt have known i was pregnant. I thought i was sick, had the flu or something, high fever, chills, sweating profusely, the whole 9. Ultimately, i was glad for it, but ill pass on the experience again, thanks.
Thank you for sharing this! I had two pregnancy losses this year and I still struggle with blaming myself and all doctors could tell me at the time was that sometimes it happens… I wish so much for more research and information on miscarriages so it doesn’t feel like a such a taboo to talk about , so more women can stop blaming themselves!
This was incredibly hard to watch, and incredibly important to post. Thank you for this. For anyone still in pain from their miscarriages, no matter how long ago, you are not alone.
I personally have lost three of my siblings to miscarriages. I'm the fourth conceived child of my parents. Still to this day, it is a really painful experience for anyone to go through
I didn’t know that miscarriage can fatal. The whole process is bad enough but not having healthcare access is inhumane. All the more reason to vote in the upcoming election.
I live on the other side of the world, but I pray that trump doesn’t win. My country often follow USA:s footsteps and if trump wins…our country can be screwed as well. Everyone who votes against trump do the world a service.
Look up Savita Halipanivar. She died because she was suffering a complicated miscarriage, and the hospital refused to assist in completing the processes due to restrictive abortion laws.
Yeah, the two most fatal outcomes is either the body isn't able to pass the fetus fully and what remains forms a deadly infection, or the body does just will not stop heavily bleeding and eventually you die from blood loss.
@@rosieg6989 that’s awful, i can’t imagine going through that / knowing someone who died of that, and i shudder to imagine how many more will have to if a certain someone gets a promotion in november
This is not just for women only. Men should also learn about this as this is a part of human body. The comments are testament to the failed education system that exists everywhere.
The point is that women carry babies, so miscarriages naturally affect us first. It's a shame that medical professionals are supporting delusions to be politically correct. PhD recipients...
@@ITO_junji_Fan-zi9ss Over 40 million non-women have the ability to become pregnant, which includes trans men, some non-binary people, and some intersex people.
Idk y i started crying, it feels so sad to hear all of this things abt women, i wish men and countries that dont support or understand this would actually get the pain we suffer during pregnancy and menstruation ❤
My doc said that I should wait it out to complete the miscarriage, I'm in the 3rd world though. I wish all my sisters the best possible outcome, stay strong ladies
Thank you for this important information, something we don't talk about enough and could help so many women and people around them if we learn how to support and show love at difficult moments. Also, to address the fact that we need better regulations and laws worldwide for women's healthcare.
Hello TedEd! I'm a nursing student from the Philippines and just wanna thank your platform for spreading awareness about reproductive health and pregnancy. I have delivered a baby boy December last year as part of our DR rotations and it warms my heart bringing an angel into this world and also assisting parents in making their pregnancy memorable. No mother should experience the pain of losing a child, and even though others might think having miscarriage is a taboo, I personally encourage pregnant mothers to fully express your concerns to your health provider and seek support if needed. Since miscarriage occurs during the first trimester of pregnancy (the most critical period btw), antenatal care or check-ups is a must. Ask questions, be receptive of them. Remember, pregnancy isn't just about the mother and child alone and tackling the issue of miscarriage doesn't have to be scary.
It's great video. Unfortunately most of these videos are in english and may not reach to mass developing and 3rd world countries where knowledge about this things is scarce. May I request to make the videos available in other languages.. i can help with with Hindi, odia, bengali languages. I hope more can take the step and reach more people out there.
God, thank you for healing from miscarriages and the emotions from it before getting pregnant again. I do pray for women who have had this happen and I know the emotional impact that happens to dads and moms. Thank you for healing and helping them with emotions of loss In Jesus name. Amen 🙏
My mom always had miscarriages she only had 3 babys who made it my older brother me and my little brother she always wanted just one more kid I remember in December of 2022 she got pregnant she looked was very happy sadly she got a miss carriage in 2023 she got pregnant again she tried her best to not do anything that would harm the baby but once again she got a miscarriage 😢 After that it was once again December she got pregnant and honestly she prayed and prayed not to miscarried everything went good until her first appointment she found out that her baby had a fatal heart disease they told her she can keep the baby but mostly won’t survive or just end the pregnancy she decided to end the pregnancy when she came back I was so excited to see what happened but she told me the news and I bawled my eyes out she final just gave up trying for one more kid she named that one baby who had the fatal heart disease Angel she believed it was a boy I pray and pray that my mom gets the baby she needs 🙏❤
Before my little brother was born, my mom had a miscarriage, making him a rainbow baby. But, I had always wondered why my sister had left me... And this video kinda gave me the reassurance that no doctor could have. Thank you Ted Ed. Thank you.
I broke down with my mom reassuring her that in no way it was her fault. We were at one of our favorite restaurants I could tell something was off so I wanted to treat her. A mothers strength is as apparent in vulnerability and shes now happier then ever with her first daughter. She told me one day we will meet my brother and finally meet him for now he watches over us.
Thank you, TED-Ed, for bringing knowledge about a topic that some many people have strong negative opinions without even knowing the basics about. May these information save women's lives.
Thankyou Ted -Ed for the wonderful insightful knowledge of the dark and unsaid pain of the women's life mostly caused by the taboo's of society and no understanding of other psychological aspects of the women's pain, thankyou
Our mother had a miscarriage between my older sister and myself. She told me once (I don’t remember under what circumstances). My older sister didn’t know until years later.
My mother had 8 miscarriages before I was born. I was a miracle fertility drug baby. It's one of the main reasons I refuse to get pregnant. I don't think I'm that mentally strong.
Rest in peace to the beautiful women and children who can't be here today because of the complications of pregnancy and restrictions of abortion, may you be loved entirely.
This needs to be talked about much much more!!! Women’s health are often completely mystified or dismissed and then media fills in the blanks with total nonsense. More understanding and awareness is needed!!!
I wish the video had gone into more detail about later term miscarriages. Thats where i would like to understand more....what has to go wrong for that to happen after the fetus is more developed.
I had a miscarriage of twins ...and that was these year on march but i think i will be blessed to carry another one day...though its painfull but we accept the fact
An interesting thing can happen in an ectopic pregnancy (a type of miscarriage that occurs when the fetus attempts to set up shop outside of the uterus) known as a lithopedion. Sometimes, the fetus is too large for the body to reabsorb, so the body calcifies it, turning it to stone. This process is similar to how a grain of sand becomes a pearl inside of an oyster. These pregnancies can go undetected for years. One case in Chile wasn’t detected for 50 years.
@@manuelka15 Both physically, from the bleeding and pain, and mentally, from the sadness of losing your own child before even getting to see her/him. I feel so bad for all the mothers suffering a miscarriage.
@@modkip25 miscarriage is losing a child but in the womb. Even if it is losing a child or a miscarriage, we should respect the fact that mothers will mourn in the same way
My mom lost my would be younger sibling... We assume it's because there were a lot of miomas in her womb, and she was nearly 40. I know many people who wait about three months before announcing the pregnancy. They wait until it's "guaranteed."
I appreciate content like this so much. To see an educational channel talk about something labeled, "taboo" is comforting. The current political climate makes it even harder to educate others on these topics and as a women I really appreciate a video like this. At those looking to criminalize miscarriages, you don't understand science, health, or even empathy.
Well, humans, and especially politicians, can be incredibly shortsighted when it comes to achieving their goals. It’s unfortunate for everyone that miscarriages fall under the same umbrella as their similar cousins, which are far more serious crimes, but the fact is that they haven’t yet developed the necessary surveillance or monitoring capabilities to properly categorise such occurrences. And now, people are going to waste time on this.
I had 2 miscarriages between my 2 children. Possibly more because my husband and I tried to get pregnant for 4 years. One miscarriage was incomplete. The doctor gave me the option of medication or D&C, I chose D&C because I just wanted it to be over with. But a D&C is quite uncomfortable. My husband and I have 2 theories why I had miscarriages. My OBGYN sent what was vacuumed out of me to the pathology lab. The only useful information we got was that the fetus had type A blood. I have type O. Both my kids have type O. Maybe my body saw the type A blood as foreign. Second theory, both my pregnancies had some pretty bad complications, preeclampsia. One towards the end and after, the other only after. Maybe my body had some way of trying to save me by preventing pregnancy.
For your blood hypothesis that is very possible, and because of which it is very much not your fault, you couldn't control what blood type your fetus would have.
thats really bad i have 0 rh- blood type and i have to use blood thinners until the end of my life because of my heart problems and my dad has hemophilia.i guess we have genetic disorder.
I had a miscarriage last month (independence day/2024) and it was our first child together. It was devastating and so much pain had caused us both. My partner always blames himself for not taking care of me while I was pregnant. I told him that he did his best and I love him, our baby loves him too and I know that. Maybe this time we realized that it is not the time for us to have one. Baby, our angel, baby Jade, daddy and I will always love you. I love you
My best friend was pregnant with twins. It was a T2T Transfusion pregnancy. Ome had severe chromosomal defects, and the other(the healthier one) had heart defects. She miscarried around 6 months. I told her that they'd have to induce her andnahe guve birth to them even tho they were still born. She had no idea of that. But since then she's had a health baby boy.
My husband and I found out we were going to have a baby back in 2018. At around 10 weeks the baby didn’t have a heartbeat and found out I had a missed miscarriage. I had to have a D&C which the Dr. recommend.
I suffered a miscarriage in 2013. I was 41 years old, and it was my first pregnancy. At 41 years old it is not the best scenario to get pregnant, because already a woman's body is starting the perimenopausal stage. Hormones and egg production are declining, which can lead to improper implantation of the embryo in the uterus. Menopause can take more than ten years to completion; at that time, I was already into perimenopause. Now, at age 52 and three years into menopause, NOW I understand why the pregnancy didn't happen! Female hormones are very complex and we, who have female bodies, need to learn and understand all of these biological cycles. EDUCATION is the key to understanding.
My mother had a miscarriage to my to-be-younger-sister. I just learned about it many years later when I was old enough to understand and after we have my younger brother (suppose to be his older sister). I can still remember her sadness when she brought it up coz she's been praying to have a baby girl. I thank God she was alright after that and was able to conceive my brother and she is okay today. Things can not really turn out the way we hope to. I send my regards to all women who experienced it and may you overcome this saddening and painful experience.
I genuinely didn't know miscarriages needed medical treatment. TV and other media has led me to believe you bleed, lose the pregnancy, and that's it.
there you go
That is how it works usually
That's what happened to me, but everyone goes through it differently 😢
It is usually only that simple if it is very early in the pregnancy, anything later than a couple months and usually you’ll need some form of help.
90% of the time 'watch and wait' works out, but the alternatives may be preferable even so.
I'm glad the vid pointed out the treatments for complications of miscarriage are similar to abortion and thus many jurisdictions have made such care near impossible.
Pls more of these topics. It's very rare to find this kind of education for women. It's very discreet as the public avoids talking about it in the open
As someone who identifies as a father, husband, and son, I also feel like this is very important education for me and others with those identities. While it is difficult for me to understand experiences from perspectives I could never share, that they have been so taboo for generations made it impossible.
I asked this question in a classroom once and got in trouble for asking
Agreed.
Agreed
Which makes it easier to pass laws that limit reproductive rights
I had a miscarriage, and I didn’t even know I was pregnant at the time. It was the most physical pain I’d ever been in, and I’ve got tattoos, broken bones, had teeth pulled, been in motorcycle accidents, and at this point have given actual birth (to a perfect daughter). The miscarriage was hands down the worst. Afterwards, what got me through it psychologically was Ali Wong’s stand up about her own miscarriage. It helped me understand how common miscarriage is, and that it doesn’t have to be a big deal unless you need/want it to be.
I’m glad you got your rainbow baby ♥️
@@dumhomie8656 since you seem so worried about how overpopulated the world is, how about you go tie a noose for your neck to help the world! 💗
Yes, and it can happen to anyone. My mom got pregnant almost instantly when she tried for each baby and had some abortions, but she miscarried between her first and second child.
@@dumhomie8656 your intentions probably werent bad but saying their miscarriage was a blessing is so insensitive. their physical and psychological pain was not a blessing. + the world is not overpopulated, the world's birth rates are rapidly falling, we are more likely going to face an underpopulation problem.
@@candicelau5233 yeah but sometimes abortion is needed what if a teen gets pregnant or if there are serios risks for both the baby and the mother but also its bad if you dont absolutely need to
I never knew miscarriages were that common and honestly, that is scary.
I’m sorry to all those who have miscarried and as well, I hope good luck to you.
Thank you.
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I've had two miscarriages. My first I just found out I was pregnant, but miscarried the next day. My second I made it to twelve weeks with twins! But then their hearts just stopped beating...I was devastated. My options were to wait to naturally have labor or get a D and C. I opted for the D and C. I didn't want to labor (very bloody) and have them keep sitting inside me. It's been a year now and I still deeply miss my babies🩷. I was blessed to have another baby since the twins though! Please keep talking about these things! So many don't know, or have different assumptions about pregnancy.
Im so sorry for your losses💔 RIP, God be with your babies and you✝️🙏🤍 Praying for strength and peace for you❤
Thank you for talking about such a serious issue for women, that society don't even talk or think of much 😊
@Based_Gigachad_001 Lame troll.
@Based_Gigachad_001 Exactly why should anyone care about your mother's and sister's health.
I care about the health and safety of everyone; I don't care what anyone thinks or says. To me, all life is precious.
I think this video is somewhat terrible as it spends more time trying to convince the viewer about the importance of abortion rights, that many nations outside of the “all important US of A” have access too. This video spends zero time referring to the utterly heartbreaking notion of loosing a human life. A human life that you start thinking about, make plans for. Spending the time making a space for this life within your household then to loose it. It is devastating beyond belief. Especially when you have explain to a toddler that the future brother or sister they imagined would never come to be, the result of that is too heartbreaking to even reference. This is not an educational video but rather political propaganda. This video makes zero sense unless you live in current day USA and even then it’s not even remotely tackling the issue
Thank you
3 out of my 7 pregnancies ended in miscarriages on or before 7 weeks. I'm greatful for my 4 healthy children but still miss my angel babies. It's a loss I had to bear alone since miscarriages are taboo and my husband never bonds with our children till after they are born.
Men can hardly bond with their pregnant love ones and the little one in the tummy before the delivery
Ma'am, with all due respect...please file for divorce.
Im so sorry for your losses💔 RIP, God be with your babies and you✝️🙏🤍 also, your husband needs to do better.
That’s what I’m currently going through. 6 pregnancies and only 2 sweet babies. Just lost my 4th last week.
I'll never understand how, in some states, such as Arkansas and Alabama, it is _illegal_ to have a miscarriage, and you can be arrested and charged with murder or manslaughter for it! I'm not sure how a natural bodily function is at all comparable to murder, but apparently, it is so objectionable to some people that it's treated with the same level of contempt as the worst intentional act a person can commit.
The cruelty is the point. It’s all about broadcasting to anyone with a uterus that they are little more than breeding stock, and that if they can’t fulfill that function, then they have no place in society.
because the USA is run by crazies.
What statutes cover that?
@@JBramson Try looking up "states in which miscarriage is illegal" to start your search for those statutes. Unfortunately, I can't post links on UA-cam because the algorithm automatically hides most of them under the assumption that they're all spam.
Wait that's a thing? I know abortions are becoming murky legal topics but miscarriages are beyond a person's control. How can you prove guilt in something like that??
May everyone who is expecting or trying to conceive be successful, and my best wishes to everyone who has already been through miscarriage ❤
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@@dumhomie8656 weirdo
Thank you for creating this video! I just had a miscarriage at 6 weeks this past April. It was my first time being pregnant. Nobody tells you how painful it is both physically and emotionally. Sending love to all those that have suffered a loss no matter how early or late in their pregnancy 😢
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I’m currently going through a miscarriage at 6 weeks. My first pregnancy as well 💔❤️🩹
@@inspirequeens sending love and healing to you during this difficult time❤️
I went through a miscarriage at 6weeks yesterday am still crying feels like i have lost a full grown baby .😢😢❤😢😢
I've been avoiding watching these types of videos because i had a miscarriage last year and i thought it was my fault. Also i thought i was going to get punished for not getting checked out. But i didnt even realize what happened until months later. Sending so much Love to anyone else who may be going through this ❤️
Im so sorry for your loss💔 RIP, God be with your baby and you✝️🙏🤍 it's not your fault, Praying for strength and peace for you❤
@@julesoxana thank you so much for this message ❤️
Thank you for this video. Unfortunately it seems most people don't know how common miscarriages are until they experience one. We didn't and it devastated us
I’m sorry for your loss. I hope your medical providers helped you by explaining it.
I’ll bet many women you know have also had miscarriages. Good luck.
I hate that this topic is so taboo. So many women suffer from miscarriages and are forced to suffer in silence from the physical and emotional trauma it causes.
Likely because there are those who just want abortions like it's a normal thing, which causes push back that causes the treatment for miscarriages to be difficult to access as the medication is the same for abortions and miscarriage treatment, like what the video said.
Maybe because there isn't much known about the topic
I had miscarriage (or actually cryptic pregnancy) and it was not only devastating experience but it was that bad that they had to do surgery. When I went to therapy, therapist told me how common miscarriages are but women doesn’t talk about them… And I now really get why. It changed me and one day I hope I’ll become mother. ❤
1/4 pregnancies end in miscarriage. It hurts. Even when years pass, the pain is there. "I held you for every second of your life, and I'll miss you for every moment of mine." Sending love to anyone who has been in these painful shoes.
More like 1/2. As the video showed, of every 3 fertilized eggs, 1 ends up in live birth, 1 fails to implant, and the rest are aborted or, much more commonly, miscarried.
25% very low.
@@farzad228 Out of pregnancies advanced enough to be recognized.
That is a topic to talk about. I am also surprised to know that they were this common but this is the first step towards this major social topic.
Woah, I can't believe I'm early for Ted Ed and not 13 years late.😲
I didn't notice the time until you said it that's great I got too used
Same😅
I'm 11 days late
I have miscarried my first pregnancy 1 week ago without any warning symptons and this video make me feel better.
Thank you so much and hopefully more and more women will know about this video.
My mom had a miscarriage a few years before I was born. She was roughly 10 weeks along when it happened. I always feel bad for her about it, but grateful for the people who helped her through it so that I and my younger siblings could be with her today.
I'm in the middle of a miscarriage currently. Wondering why my doctor did not offer any options other than the surgical route. Perhaps that is because mine is a fairly late one that happened at the end of the first trimester. I will have to ask him tomorrow. Wishing courage and strength to anyone else who had gone or will go through this.
me too, thought it was crazy this video just came out! I see you mama
at that point the only option is surgical. Medication is used under 12 weeks. I wish they included, that having had a late missed miscarriage i was told by many in my family i didn't need the abortion and to wait it out. But the pregnancy was just too far progressed for it to be done safely.
I hope you’re doing well and get better soon
Thank you everyone for your replies and well wishes. I got my answers today, as well as a DnC procedure. In my hospital they only offer medication option if the fetus is under 10 weeks of age. I was well beyond that at almost 13 weeks. The wait and see approach is an option but as I was already two weeks past the time when my baby passed and nothing much was changing, while I myself was rather uncomfortable, they thought the surgical route was best. Usually they strongly recommend it if three weeks have elapsed and there was no spontaneous clearance of the uterus as chances of infection and other complications go up while the fetus may be retained for a very long time yet. Be well, mamas.
@@ekaterinadzyubak197 I wish you a safe and quick recovery, and if it is your wish to have a child in the future I wish you all the best of luck with that too.
My heart goes out to all the mothers who have experienced a pregnancy loss. I can't even imagine the pain
Had a miscarriage last year,it hurt alot but what made it worse was the father didn't give a damn.
Same here for me. Had one years ago bf I got married and the father didn’t care
Girls they don't deserve you & ur baby at all
Thank you for making and sharing this. As women, we should not be ashamed about this subject. Miscarriages can happen to anyone and I send my prayers of light and healing to those going through such terrible times.
i love my mom
I love my mom too
I love my mom as well
Same!💜 My mom's my rock and one of my biggest supporters AND my bff
How lucky to have a loving mother. My mother is a narcissist and has abused me my whole life. I'm now 56 and she's 74 and a year ago she attacked me in front of my young daughter. I haven't spoken to her since March 22, 2023. I do not need her around me or my family
@@vickiefinney6073 UA-cam is not a therapy center.
Information from a medical website:
An embryo’s heart doesn’t start beating until about 22 days after fertilization. That’s a week after a missed period.
As the video says, it’s very common that if the egg doesn’t implant properly, you usually aren’t even aware of that loss of a potential pregnancy (miscarriage).
"Missed period." That's assuming one has a regular menstrual cycle. Many period-havers (especially the younger end of the spectrum) don't have regular cycles.
Just noting this.
@@alibobali4032 Thanks for adding that - I forgot & you are absolutely correct!
@@alibobali4032 It's true that a lot of women don't have regular periods, and this can actually lead to women giving birth without prior knowledge of pregnancy. It's a very fascinating subject, and part of why invisible pregnancies can occur to women.
I miscarried my first pregnancy. I was devastated since I totally didn't expect it to happen. Nobody talks about their miscarriages until you have one, then I realized a lot more women than I thought had been through the same thing. The process was very painful and emotionally hard. I am now pregnant with a totally healthy pregnancy and currently 27 weeks. It's one of those things that societies don't speak on but is apart of many people's journeys to a healthy baby.
I'm sorry you had to go through that and congratulations wishing you a beautiful and healthy baby ❤
It's been 3 days since my miscarriage, it's was the most painful thing I had ever gone through physically. They don't tell you how much and pain and struggle you go through with a miscarriage and how dangerous it can be.
Thank you so much for doing this particular episode Ted-Ed! I had a cousin who suffered a miscarriage a couple of years ago and she texted me about it. She started blaming herself for it but I reassured her and told her that it wasn’t her fault. I told her the major reasons why a pregnancy might result in a miscarriage (from your video) and she felt better. Women’s health is commonly a taboo topic to discuss in my family but I bring it up since Dobbs overturned Roe. Thank you once again! Do more women’s health episodes so we can break the myth of women’s health not being important
I honestly didn’t know at all that miscarriage was so common until I had one. (9 weeks) It bothered me, but it made it more bearable later on after I got over the shock of it and could grieve for a while.
I have my daughter and son (both after the one miscarriage) and am extremely, eternally grateful. But to this day I still think about the lost pregnancy (13 years later).
And if it’s a second trimester miscarriage, even more medical intervention may be necessary (as in my case). I wish more people knew all more about this topic in general.
I'm having a miscarriage right now, it's my first at 6 weeks and I'm devastated.
I once had a miscarriage, while not knowing i was pregnant. The physical toll it took was alot more than i ever expected, idk why. I never wanted kids, and when i felt my body actively terminating the pregnancy, and the fall out of it, the cramps, the blood, the chunks of tissue that passes it alarming and if i hadnt seen the tissue chunks as i went to the bathroom, i still wouldnt have known i was pregnant. I thought i was sick, had the flu or something, high fever, chills, sweating profusely, the whole 9. Ultimately, i was glad for it, but ill pass on the experience again, thanks.
Thank you for making this very important video. Hopefully this education will reach all who need to see it.
Thank you for sharing this! I had two pregnancy losses this year and I still struggle with blaming myself and all doctors could tell me at the time was that sometimes it happens… I wish so much for more research and information on miscarriages so it doesn’t feel like a such a taboo to talk about , so more women can stop blaming themselves!
I wanna cry, ive never been pregnant, ive never lost a child but wow this is so sad. I knew it was sad but now i actually know it is
This was incredibly hard to watch, and incredibly important to post. Thank you for this. For anyone still in pain from their miscarriages, no matter how long ago, you are not alone.
I personally have lost three of my siblings to miscarriages. I'm the fourth conceived child of my parents. Still to this day, it is a really painful experience for anyone to go through
I didn’t know that miscarriage can fatal. The whole process is bad enough but not having healthcare access is inhumane.
All the more reason to vote in the upcoming election.
I live on the other side of the world, but I pray that trump doesn’t win. My country often follow USA:s footsteps and if trump wins…our country can be screwed as well. Everyone who votes against trump do the world a service.
Look up Savita Halipanivar. She died because she was suffering a complicated miscarriage, and the hospital refused to assist in completing the processes due to restrictive abortion laws.
Yeah, the two most fatal outcomes is either the body isn't able to pass the fetus fully and what remains forms a deadly infection, or the body does just will not stop heavily bleeding and eventually you die from blood loss.
@@rosieg6989 that’s awful, i can’t imagine going through that / knowing someone who died of that, and i shudder to imagine how many more will have to if a certain someone gets a promotion in november
This is not just for women only. Men should also learn about this as this is a part of human body. The comments are testament to the failed education system that exists everywhere.
Funny, not single word of "women" mentioned in this video, odd 🤔
@@ITO_junji_Fan-zi9ssApparently “not all people that can get pregnant are women”.
@@AdanSolas 🤡
The point is that women carry babies, so miscarriages naturally affect us first. It's a shame that medical professionals are supporting delusions to be politically correct. PhD recipients...
@@ITO_junji_Fan-zi9ss Over 40 million non-women have the ability to become pregnant, which includes trans men, some non-binary people, and some intersex people.
Idk y i started crying, it feels so sad to hear all of this things abt women, i wish men and countries that dont support or understand this would actually get the pain we suffer during pregnancy and menstruation ❤
My doc said that I should wait it out to complete the miscarriage, I'm in the 3rd world though. I wish all my sisters the best possible outcome, stay strong ladies
Thank you for this topic! I have experienced it - and it was terrible, because of lack of support from the doctors' side
Keep your heads up, it was never your fault
THANK YOU FOR THIS , WE NEED THIS ❤
3:30 "Several weeks of pain and bleeding." On my gosh. That's sounds horrible to go through.
My little brother died in a miscarriage in 2021. He was a 16-week-old baby boy. I hope you have a good life in heaven, akhi.
Thank you for this important information, something we don't talk about enough and could help so many women and people around them if we learn how to support and show love at difficult moments. Also, to address the fact that we need better regulations and laws worldwide for women's healthcare.
This was so moving and respectful - thank you❤️
Please cover more topics like this... ones that no one talks about
We need to talk about women’s reproductive health more! Thank you for sharing this useful information ❤
Thanks for the education ❤
May Allah helps every mother 🤲 and be a healthy one
Hello TedEd! I'm a nursing student from the Philippines and just wanna thank your platform for spreading awareness about reproductive health and pregnancy. I have delivered a baby boy December last year as part of our DR rotations and it warms my heart bringing an angel into this world and also assisting parents in making their pregnancy memorable. No mother should experience the pain of losing a child, and even though others might think having miscarriage is a taboo, I personally encourage pregnant mothers to fully express your concerns to your health provider and seek support if needed. Since miscarriage occurs during the first trimester of pregnancy (the most critical period btw), antenatal care or check-ups is a must. Ask questions, be receptive of them. Remember, pregnancy isn't just about the mother and child alone and tackling the issue of miscarriage doesn't have to be scary.
This topic was really moving for me, I'm at a loss for words
It's great video. Unfortunately most of these videos are in english and may not reach to mass developing and 3rd world countries where knowledge about this things is scarce.
May I request to make the videos available in other languages.. i can help with with Hindi, odia, bengali languages.
I hope more can take the step and reach more people out there.
Yet again, thank you Ted-Ed for tackling such important issues that are stigmatisated
Going through a miscarriage may be physically and emotionally painful. Sending love to all those who have had. ❤ May God bless you multifold. 🤍
God, thank you for healing from miscarriages and the emotions from it before getting pregnant again. I do pray for women who have had this happen and I know the emotional impact that happens to dads and moms. Thank you for healing and helping them with emotions of loss In Jesus name. Amen 🙏
Tysmfs. It makes a multitude of difference to understand it wasn't something that could have been helped. Had my🌈 baby 3 years later❣️
I did not know this before its so informative. Thanks for the information shared.
My mom always had miscarriages she only had 3 babys who made it my older brother me and my little brother she always wanted just one more kid I remember in December of 2022 she got pregnant she looked was very happy sadly she got a miss carriage in 2023 she got pregnant again she tried her best to not do anything that would harm the baby but once again she got a miscarriage 😢 After that it was once again December she got pregnant and honestly she prayed and prayed not to miscarried everything went good until her first appointment she found out that her baby had a fatal heart disease they told her she can keep the baby but mostly won’t survive or just end the pregnancy she decided to end the pregnancy when she came back I was so excited to see what happened but she told me the news and I bawled my eyes out she final just gave up trying for one more kid she named that one baby who had the fatal heart disease Angel she believed it was a boy I pray and pray that my mom gets the baby she needs 🙏❤
Before my little brother was born, my mom had a miscarriage, making him a rainbow baby. But, I had always wondered why my sister had left me... And this video kinda gave me the reassurance that no doctor could have. Thank you Ted Ed. Thank you.
This is why we need to stop the war on people who can conceive ❤
I broke down with my mom reassuring her that in no way it was her fault. We were at one of our favorite restaurants I could tell something was off so I wanted to treat her. A mothers strength is as apparent in vulnerability and shes now happier then ever with her first daughter. She told me one day we will meet my brother and finally meet him for now he watches over us.
Thank you for your video it’s very important that people are informed and educated about this topic ❤
Thank you TED-ED for touching on such a complex, sensitive topic! Please do more videos on topics that are subjects of controversy.
Thank you, TED-Ed, for bringing knowledge about a topic that some many people have strong negative opinions without even knowing the basics about.
May these information save women's lives.
Bro ive seen this in media so much, and i didnt even know what tf this was, thanks for letting me know 👍
Thankyou Ted -Ed for the wonderful insightful knowledge of the dark and unsaid pain of the women's life mostly caused by the taboo's of society and no understanding of other psychological aspects of the women's pain, thankyou
I clicked the video because the topic is really interesting and informative..... but the narrator's voice is so soothing I fell asleep lmao 😂
Our mother had a miscarriage between my older sister and myself. She told me once (I don’t remember under what circumstances). My older sister didn’t know until years later.
Thank you for making a video describing in detail a topic we are largely forbidden from discussing.
Thank you for this ❤
They're lying to you. Wake up! They're advocating for the murder of unborn babies
My mother had 8 miscarriages before I was born. I was a miracle fertility drug baby. It's one of the main reasons I refuse to get pregnant. I don't think I'm that mentally strong.
Rest in peace to the beautiful women and children who can't be here today because of the complications of pregnancy and restrictions of abortion, may you be loved entirely.
This needs to be talked about much much more!!! Women’s health are often completely mystified or dismissed and then media fills in the blanks with total nonsense. More understanding and awareness is needed!!!
I wish the video had gone into more detail about later term miscarriages. Thats where i would like to understand more....what has to go wrong for that to happen after the fetus is more developed.
Loss of a child after the first trimester isn’t often called a miscarriage in medical terms. I think that’s why
I had a miscarriage of twins ...and that was these year on march but i think i will be blessed to carry another one day...though its painfull but we accept the fact
An interesting thing can happen in an ectopic pregnancy (a type of miscarriage that occurs when the fetus attempts to set up shop outside of the uterus) known as a lithopedion. Sometimes, the fetus is too large for the body to reabsorb, so the body calcifies it, turning it to stone. This process is similar to how a grain of sand becomes a pearl inside of an oyster. These pregnancies can go undetected for years. One case in Chile wasn’t detected for 50 years.
Thank you for making this video
Thank you for this information.
I send my love to all the women who have suffered a miscarriage, I can only imagine how painful it must be to lose a child.❤
like, physically painfull!
@@manuelka15 Both physically, from the bleeding and pain, and mentally, from the sadness of losing your own child before even getting to see her/him. I feel so bad for all the mothers suffering a miscarriage.
Losing a child is so much worse, you cannot compare it to a miscarriage.
@@modkip25 miscarriage is losing a child but in the womb. Even if it is losing a child or a miscarriage, we should respect the fact that mothers will mourn in the same way
@@coolkatherine478 No. Miscarriage is losing a foetus. It's not losing a child that you have raised. Don't be so cruel, you cannot compare the two.
I had a miscarriage in 2012. I had no clue how common it is.
My mom lost my would be younger sibling... We assume it's because there were a lot of miomas in her womb, and she was nearly 40.
I know many people who wait about three months before announcing the pregnancy. They wait until it's "guaranteed."
I appreciate content like this so much. To see an educational channel talk about something labeled, "taboo" is comforting. The current political climate makes it even harder to educate others on these topics and as a women I really appreciate a video like this. At those looking to criminalize miscarriages, you don't understand science, health, or even empathy.
Well, humans, and especially politicians, can be incredibly shortsighted when it comes to achieving their goals. It’s unfortunate for everyone that miscarriages fall under the same umbrella as their similar cousins, which are far more serious crimes, but the fact is that they haven’t yet developed the necessary surveillance or monitoring capabilities to properly categorise such occurrences. And now, people are going to waste time on this.
Thank you for helping us be seen❤
I had 2 miscarriages between my 2 children. Possibly more because my husband and I tried to get pregnant for 4 years. One miscarriage was incomplete. The doctor gave me the option of medication or D&C, I chose D&C because I just wanted it to be over with. But a D&C is quite uncomfortable.
My husband and I have 2 theories why I had miscarriages. My OBGYN sent what was vacuumed out of me to the pathology lab. The only useful information we got was that the fetus had type A blood. I have type O. Both my kids have type O. Maybe my body saw the type A blood as foreign.
Second theory, both my pregnancies had some pretty bad complications, preeclampsia. One towards the end and after, the other only after. Maybe my body had some way of trying to save me by preventing pregnancy.
For your blood hypothesis that is very possible, and because of which it is very much not your fault, you couldn't control what blood type your fetus would have.
thats really bad i have 0 rh- blood type and i have to use blood thinners until the end of my life because of my heart problems and my dad has hemophilia.i guess we have genetic disorder.
I appreciate learning more about this. Nothing is really out there
I had a miscarriage last month (independence day/2024) and it was our first child together. It was devastating and so much pain had caused us both. My partner always blames himself for not taking care of me while I was pregnant. I told him that he did his best and I love him, our baby loves him too and I know that. Maybe this time we realized that it is not the time for us to have one. Baby, our angel, baby Jade, daddy and I will always love you. I love you
Can you talk about stillbirth? I feel like there needs to be more awareness because around 33% of stillbirth is still not known.
It is such a silence Horror that the community has a blind spot on.
Likely because there are those who don't want women to have an abortion just because they want to.
Wow....thank you for the information
Thank you for triggering one of my biggest fears and giving me knowledge in the same time. :'-)
I was surprised to see this video on Ted-ed, appreciate whoever made it
My best friend was pregnant with twins. It was a T2T Transfusion pregnancy. Ome had severe chromosomal defects, and the other(the healthier one) had heart defects. She miscarried around 6 months. I told her that they'd have to induce her andnahe guve birth to them even tho they were still born. She had no idea of that. But since then she's had a health baby boy.
My mother would have died without access to appropriate miscarriage treatments. Thank you for this video.
This video is so important, thank you
My husband and I found out we were going to have a baby back in 2018. At around 10 weeks the baby didn’t have a heartbeat and found out I had a missed miscarriage. I had to have a D&C which the Dr. recommend.
I suffered a miscarriage in 2013. I was 41 years old, and it was my first pregnancy. At 41 years old it is not the best scenario to get pregnant, because already a woman's body is starting the perimenopausal stage. Hormones and egg production are declining, which can lead to improper implantation of the embryo in the uterus. Menopause can take more than ten years to completion; at that time, I was already into perimenopause. Now, at age 52 and three years into menopause, NOW I understand why the pregnancy didn't happen! Female hormones are very complex and we, who have female bodies, need to learn and understand all of these biological cycles. EDUCATION is the key to understanding.
My heart goes out to all the mothers who've miscarried, yes, you're still a mother.
People always underestimate how complicated pregnancy is and how difficult it is to have a health pregnancy
My mother had a miscarriage to my to-be-younger-sister. I just learned about it many years later when I was old enough to understand and after we have my younger brother (suppose to be his older sister). I can still remember her sadness when she brought it up coz she's been praying to have a baby girl. I thank God she was alright after that and was able to conceive my brother and she is okay today. Things can not really turn out the way we hope to. I send my regards to all women who experienced it and may you overcome this saddening and painful experience.