Hwari is in danger of getting addicted [Mr. House Husband : EP.265-3] | KBS WORLD TV 220729

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  • Опубліковано 28 лип 2022
  • #MrHouseHusband #살림하는남자들 #做家务的男人们
    (SUB : KOR/ENG/CHN/MAL)
    Sat 00:35 | Re-run : Wed 19:40, Sat 07:30, 15:10 (Seoul, UTC+9)
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  • @syakirnazri8519
    @syakirnazri8519 Рік тому +280

    I love how hwari have a high self-control

  • @helenfuentes9539
    @helenfuentes9539 Рік тому +398

    The mom has the power in the family 😂

    • @theonly7515
      @theonly7515 Рік тому +28

      Course she does, he didn't really raise them much

    • @renek2913
      @renek2913 Рік тому +17

      Ofcos, the dad literally ditch the family for years and decided to pop back in to their lives just so he could appear on the show. Now he think he get to override the mom's decisions without even consulting her and making her seem like the bad person instead in the children's eyes by giving them whatever they wanted

  • @eonicbell614
    @eonicbell614 Рік тому +162

    I know it's hard, but he must learn how to be a husband on top of being a father. Communication and being transparent is important.

  • @pumpkin6228
    @pumpkin6228 Рік тому +924

    Seeing you guys getting mad at the reaction shows that you didn't watch other episodes of him 🤣 He's the most frustrating dad ever...

    • @kaysipettergreen3002
      @kaysipettergreen3002 Рік тому +12

      The fact that you’re not seeing what’s wrong is crazy to me😭

    • @Theoneandonlybish
      @Theoneandonlybish Рік тому +51

      @@kaysipettergreen3002 nothing wrong.with what the mom is doing the dad hasnt been tgere in theit life
      Suddznly pops up and makes these dumb changes without talking to his wife(main care taker/only caretaker)

    • @kaysipettergreen3002
      @kaysipettergreen3002 Рік тому +1

      @@Theoneandonlybish I didn’t say that it was

  • @ss-bn7pe
    @ss-bn7pe Рік тому +687

    I am on mom's side with this one even tho i am a teen myself with a phone. The internet is a messed up place especially for young boys like her son. I have seen how my brother changed right after he got a phone and made weird friends there so yeah Mom is not overreacting. She is being protective which most of the modern woke parents should adopt just for the sake of their children.

    • @leaderjoonie9885
      @leaderjoonie9885 Рік тому +9

      But like look at their age like although its messed up isnt most things and they are at the age when going out and doing things without their parents is thrived and knowing things of the world is a good thing for awareness and knowing how to deal with life situations and so on and anyway parents can monitor their kids devices these days not to cross towards bad side of mobile life and give curfews and all cuz i had that when i got my first phone at 15 yrs and then after a year my parents became more and more lenient

    • @domlee5461
      @domlee5461 Рік тому +3

      Personally I am on neither cause atleast when I got my first phone I had strict rules
      Some examples
      No using phone till hw and house chores are done (hw will be checked everyday and if exam days are noted no phone till after the exam)
      No social media till 16 years old (didn’t have a problem with that cause I wasn’t that aware of it)
      Grades report: A/B honors
      No downloading music with swear words/inappropriate words
      When I didn’t do that I’d get my phone taken away for up to a week which never happened so once I turned 16 my dad like allowed me the privacy and my family dislikes my dad for doing that saying I’m posting stuff so he told them “well you have her on social media so why don’t you send the supposed stuff to me?” And basically after I turned 16 my dad respected my privacy and I always made sure that I still stood by the rules and I’m 19 now graduated with an accounting certificate in high school so success?
      Also my phone was checked weekly to make sure I wasn’t doing anything (not like I was doing anything cuz all I do is read books so the phone was like for emergencies to me)

    • @leaderjoonie9885
      @leaderjoonie9885 Рік тому

      @@domlee5461 well 8 couldn't have social media and my first phone was a Nokia brick which is embarrassing and my parents checked all my texts and messages and I had to put it in a box after 9pm

  • @qwertyytrewq2963
    @qwertyytrewq2963 Рік тому +77

    My question in mind was how frustating the father could be to the point that they talked about him not taking part in parenting 😂😂

  • @originaldiary14
    @originaldiary14 Рік тому +110

    It would make everyone feel safer if they had a phone....

  • @FLOWERMLRC
    @FLOWERMLRC Рік тому +43

    at the end of the day it’s all about parents trusting their kids to not be sucked into the toxic side of social media, to not be doing things they aren’t suppose to be doing.

  • @thatscrazy6373
    @thatscrazy6373 Рік тому +50

    I get her concern but if she’s worried about them getting addicted then she can just restrict their access to the phones and whatnot, there’s plenty of parental control features and apps on them now a days.

  • @sujudiehardfan
    @sujudiehardfan Рік тому +82

    There are tons of apps out there that can help you monitor your kid's phone. Plus they can set a curfew for their kids when to use and when not to use. For me, phone is a big necessity nowadays. It not a luxury items anymore. I understand that kids can get addicted to it but with proper monitoring, it can be controlled.

  • @amirahdiyana7100
    @amirahdiyana7100 Рік тому +107

    i grew up when handphones were just starting. it's not that bad that one day these kids have an addiction. however, its good to note that not everything in tv is it in real life. they might have been talked it out off screen

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому +5

      Not bad to have an addiction??? Do you even know the meaning of the word..?? 🤔

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому

      @@skyward7903 you are young so you have the "right" to some addiction. .what I hate is seeing adults get obsessed with media....

  • @theresatran1694
    @theresatran1694 Рік тому +116

    their kids have multiple after school activities & academies that they attend everyday. what if they ever needed to call their parents for an emergency or if they we’re running late?? yeah they could ask a friend or an adult to borrow theirs but that’s such a burden and a hassle.. if she’s worried about them getting addicted to their phones she can set boundaries with them. tell them to turn off/hand their phone over after a certain hour. there’s a lot of ways they can handle the kids having phones while not getting addicted if they just think a bit harder and rationally instead of immediately getting angry and arguing about it.

    • @adampilget6158
      @adampilget6158 Рік тому +1

      Then can bought a small phone with no app😅

    • @sanghey7880
      @sanghey7880 Рік тому +6

      @@adampilget6158 theyre teenagers, all their friends definitely have new gen phones so itll be embarrassing.

  • @deboraoliveira4082
    @deboraoliveira4082 Рік тому +241

    the dad should've talked to his wife before bought the phones but like his wife and daughter are so harsh with him everytime he try to do the right thing. I think they should've handle this situation in a better way. It was a little disrespectful towards him. I mean, many parents gets anxious when they can't find their kids and a phone can really help (if you can afford one and also put some rules).

    • @kaziam4318
      @kaziam4318 Рік тому +28

      They are so demeaning to the dad it's actually sad. And of course all kids should have phones in 2022. They are needed for everything

    • @lalashielala
      @lalashielala Рік тому +63

      The dad just started to live with them after a lot of years. He wasn't even there when the kids were growing up and he lived like a bachelor all the time. He clearly doesn't know what goes around in the family so he should've talked to the mom before deciding to buy them phones because there must've been a reason why they don't have one until now, and that was proven in the later part of this clip...

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому +19

      @@kaziam4318 with his attitude and bahavior as a parent who was never home and all his does is being selfish, who would show respect!!!

    • @Ariadne4
      @Ariadne4 Рік тому +10

      @@kaziam4318 there are 2 ppl, mom and dad. Why didn't he talk with his wife first? Plus, no not all kids need to have a phone of their own. My father bought a phone for my brother and his grades dropped low from then on. The impact is very obvious, and the mom had all the rights to be frustrated here

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому

      @@skyward7903 you are young...when I was a kid we didn't have internet or phones but it was ok!! Nothing happened!! We travelled,studied, had families!! And there were bad people then too!! So the safety excuse is not big!! If someone attacks my kid even if it called me,I couldn't fly to help...
      But nowdays If a kid doesn't have a cell phone I guess he consider to be an alien..

  • @NancyKu6527
    @NancyKu6527 7 місяців тому +5

    I love the mum style..so thoughtful

  • @varunshankar9276
    @varunshankar9276 Рік тому +2

    Dude he wasn’t even thanked from his daughter

  • @erickgutierrez5700
    @erickgutierrez5700 Рік тому +108

    He's away for so long and this is how he knows to make up for the lost time. I understand why he's trying to do everything with money to make his presence felt in the house.
    I hope his wife does not always scold him when he's trying to be a Dad.

    • @lunan3108
      @lunan3108 Рік тому +22

      Using Money doesn’t really make you closer to your family. I love my dad but he thinks buying things to us rather than trying to talk and be involved will make us close. We can’t even talk if mom isn’t around.

    • @adampilget6158
      @adampilget6158 Рік тому

      We’re was he

    • @erickgutierrez5700
      @erickgutierrez5700 Рік тому +1

      @@adampilget6158 playing baseball professionally.

  • @yuni597
    @yuni597 Рік тому +11

    she is such a considerate sister with her age she want to have phone but she didnt cuz of her brother she is the eldest and responsibility falls on her its natural i can feel it me too i am the eldest among of sibling she think "she have computer so its okay i can do every thing no need for phone" even if she want
    me too want to do online shopping and buying lot of things but i didnt cuz my sibling are not mature and when i keep on buying things they will also want to buy unnecessary cuz they are immature and will say why cant they buy when my sister can i dont want to fall prey to this , so if i want to some thing from online i ask my parents to buy when they are mature we can do together and i really like her mentality

  • @originalMissV
    @originalMissV Рік тому +6

    Yes his action which are being portrayed in this series are most of the time frustrating but here he was just trying to make the kids happy with a gift. Furthermore there are still flip-phones and similar things available on the market so that the kids can be reached if necessary.

  • @diamondwilliams106
    @diamondwilliams106 Рік тому +201

    I get why he wanted to buy them a phone and I also get the moms point but I think she shouldn’t have took it from them knowing how happy he was to buy his kids a gift they wanted I mean she could’ve set rules for it but bluntly taking it like that was a little mean n Ik his pride was hurt

    • @simonedeguia6961
      @simonedeguia6961 Рік тому +2

      True

    • @subiraaisha9369
      @subiraaisha9369 Рік тому +20

      He was told never to buy phones for them if he asked for the reason ,he couldn't ended in that mess, he behaves more like a kid too dats y the wife has to stand out for her kids not to be like him

    • @diamondwilliams106
      @diamondwilliams106 Рік тому +8

      @@subiraaisha9369 they need a phone she was wrong period for taking it from them he’s a grown man she treated him like he was a child they need communication period

    • @subiraaisha9369
      @subiraaisha9369 Рік тому +7

      @@diamondwilliams106 he left them at a young age and she brought them up dat way ,only for him to come and think dat she will move at his pace

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому +4

      @@subiraaisha9369 why try to make a point to someone who cant see the reality...!! If I was the wife, I would never accepted him back! leave me behind without a word, not let me work, dont think of the family but himself!! He doesnt worth it!!

  • @afolabiogunbiyi4185
    @afolabiogunbiyi4185 Рік тому +103

    While this man is quite frustrating, I've noticed that Korean dad's are made to look like fools who can't do much without thier wife's consent. I've seen this in a lot of reality shows, ever celebrity husbands too.
    One was even given money that he earns as pocket money by his wife who handles all the finances, and looked genuinely nervous when she found out he had racked up a tab in a coffee shop that wasn't part of the budget she made for him.

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому +26

      Korean wives are too strong indeed!! But in patriarchical society where men consider the most powerful and women as second class citizens, they have to be strong!! If they let men have the finance probably money will be spent on drinks and games!! And living in korea is extremly expensive!! As for celebrities they dont have stable jobs or lots of money so many of them do shows for an income!!

    • @cconyap
      @cconyap Рік тому +1

      Well thats the cost of being frustrating.

    • @Theoneandonlybish
      @Theoneandonlybish Рік тому +8

      Well cuz the korean woman have more self control if you dont want a poor family thats why its likz that lmao

    • @renek2913
      @renek2913 Рік тому +6

      Well yea, cus their culture expect the women to be solely responsibile for matters in the family. If they somehow end up bankrupt due to inresponsible spending, who you think is gonna be blame for it from the son's parents. The wife ofcos even if its their son spending all the money cus it's her responsibility to make sure he doesn't overspend. I dont agree with their culture though cus both should be taking responsibilities equally. Its things like this that makes men pardonable for their actions.

    • @dathunderman4
      @dathunderman4 Рік тому +1

      @@renek2913 that’s not true at all. Are you Korean? If a family is in financial ruin in Korea they blame the dad because Korea has rather traditional parental roles (tho it’s starting to change a bit these days) and the dad is expected to be the breadwinner.
      The parts they blame the mother for is usually the child’s behavior. If a kid turns out to be bad they’ll usually blame the mother then for not properly raising her child, especially if it’s a son.

  • @sharronmussett2507
    @sharronmussett2507 Рік тому +11

    Let them have a phone but limit how much they can use it, if they don’t stick to that remove their phones, both children are busy with multiple after school activities etc so it’s handy to have a phone for safety etc. let them show you they can be mature and responsible with their phone usage. I do think it’s important for both parents to be on the same page and for one parent not to have complete control.

  • @renjunrhythm
    @renjunrhythm Рік тому +179

    they could've been a a little more respectful to the dad, he wanted to do something for them in a good way, but the way the mom and daughter handled it could've been better in my opinion.if i made mistakes correct me please!

    • @deanxzayn1408
      @deanxzayn1408 Рік тому +63

      I mean his wife already told him why she didn’t want to give them phones yet and still he went out and bought it. And mom is not in the wrong here for trying to raise kids without them getting addicted to their phones. You could literally see the difference in the little brother when he got a new phone he got instantly hooked

    • @adelahutessema2479
      @adelahutessema2479 Рік тому +3

      I feel the same way, since he is the father

    • @rozhin6055
      @rozhin6055 Рік тому +25

      He disrespected her by ignoring her wishes! She only reacted to his disrespect 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому +15

      @@adelahutessema2479 so what?? What father leaves his family for USA without speaking with his wife?
      What husband dont allow his wife to work and throw her contract? What daughter respect her father when he doesnt let her read for the most important exams and play video games?? etc...
      If you dont watch the show stop writing bullshit!

  • @fuzzsweety1071
    @fuzzsweety1071 Рік тому +6

    Im totally agree with her... hwari is old enough ....but lil bro still not...

  • @jasmineli6365
    @jasmineli6365 Рік тому +11

    Phone is fine, because teens need it to communicate with parents for emergencies, etc
    But perhaps not the latest phone, an old generation brick phone would suffice for that

  • @rkpragyajitsingh3074
    @rkpragyajitsingh3074 Рік тому +11

    You dont have to give them an expensive phone. Just give them a feature phone that allows calling
    I also had a feature phone till my high school. After i got into college my parents gave me an android phone.

  • @Ankit-uv3yp
    @Ankit-uv3yp Рік тому +7

    For Decisions like this the parents should be in the same page and discuss this together. The mother may think like the dad is trying to be on the good side of the kids. It's basic parenting.
    Give them basic phone just for calling if it's that Nessesary
    And i think people have not seen other episodes, she is basically raising 3 kids alone 😅

  • @deanxzayn1408
    @deanxzayn1408 Рік тому +15

    Wow I can’t believe the people in these in comments, i bet you all are just small kids who got angry when their parents didn’t get you your phones. She is right to be worried about her kids getting addicted and she has told her concerns to her husband. He could have gotten a keypad phone too

    • @mikimishisa
      @mikimishisa Рік тому +1

      I mean you also have to realize that their daughter is about to go to college soon is she never going to get a phone because she might get addicted? The best way to combat that is to give them it in small doses when they're younger. That way their more desensitized.

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому

      @@mikimishisa do you have kids?? Probably not...

    • @mikimishisa
      @mikimishisa Рік тому

      @@user-hl4vl8qd7h um yeah I do when they aren't in the house they have their phones on them in the house they get 1 hr of phone time during school days and weekends 2 hrs.

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому

      @@mikimishisa do you know what they do with their phones when they are out..?? Cause using phones is also scary nowdays as bad people can contract kids through applications, games...

    • @mikimishisa
      @mikimishisa Рік тому

      @@user-hl4vl8qd7h Yeah I do because guess what keeping track of what your kids are playing and doing and teaching them how to properly use electronics since children are using more and more tech in school nowadays.

  • @hollychen4806
    @hollychen4806 Рік тому +9

    The son has his parents wrapped around his little finger

    • @hollychen4806
      @hollychen4806 Рік тому +1

      Every time I watch the show he basically tells his parents what he wants and what they should do

  • @karmickoala101
    @karmickoala101 Рік тому +4

    Someone told me b4
    -Never bless your child with things they can't control and not make use to.

  • @riemaf13u5y2
    @riemaf13u5y2 Рік тому +56

    I really think she’s being unreasonable especially with how busy the kids are with their extracurricular activities they need the phones. I’m on dads side.

    • @lalashielala
      @lalashielala Рік тому +11

      It's easy to think that, but I have watched their previous clips and I'm on the mom's side. In their situation, the dad should've talked to the mom first before deciding to buy them phones.

    • @match20x
      @match20x Рік тому +6

      I agree with@@lalashielala . This dad is too much. He does what he does and doesnt take into consideration to consult with the wife...about ANYTHING like moving to the US on his own to continue his career.

    • @renek2913
      @renek2913 Рік тому

      I don't think she's being unreasonable. She was more pissed at her husband for doing things without consulting her. Her fear about her kid being addicted is warranted and see even the son is already busy on the phone. If he had told her first, he would have learn about the test result and that even his daughter knew herself that she would be addicted. They could then work out other ways to solve it. Like getting a pager instead if lack of communication is the issue. Also, was there a need to buy the latest handphone when he could have gotten them a Nokia with basic messaging? No offence but he doing things simply as he like all the time. He ditch the family for years without telling them and now he thinks he get to override his wife's decisions when he has never been a part of their family. He should be thankful his wife is even letting him see his kids. Also, he broke his promise. I don't see how anyone can take dad's side.

  • @melisgomez3991
    @melisgomez3991 Рік тому +6

    Hhhhhhhh pov: you had your first phone at 8 years old

  • @QueenB6742
    @QueenB6742 Рік тому +1

    that was cute at the end

  • @pizzapepperonipizza
    @pizzapepperonipizza Рік тому +2

    the moms a bit crazy lol

  • @maisaramj9699
    @maisaramj9699 7 місяців тому +1

    After discussing with his wife. He could have given them a phone that's only for call to their children if reaching them was the issue

  • @nora6304
    @nora6304 Рік тому +1

    I got my own phone 3 years ago when i was 16...my mom did not let me to have a phone before and i understood why...she just didnt wanted me to be addicted to it and give it to me when i was 16 as she thought that i woukd be old enough to try myself to not be addicted to the phone when im studying...and rn even when i have my phone after 16, im able to not get distracted by it especially when im studying. I'm happy that my mom had took precaution by not giving me my own phone from when i was little

  • @KKKJJ2308
    @KKKJJ2308 Рік тому

    Mom, you so serious ,you child is grow up,you believe and teach your child. I believe it. Fighting !!!

  • @FLOWERMLRC
    @FLOWERMLRC Рік тому +1

    look phones are addictive however, they are so important for emergencies, it’s not like there aren’t phones where access of social medias are restricted bcs there are tons of phones only for calling and texting.

  • @katakinsbyata512
    @katakinsbyata512 Рік тому +1

    Aue! While I can understand both parents perspectives, it was a mistake on the husband to buy phones without discussing and approval of his wife. However, it is also important to teach your children responsible use and healthy phone habits.

  • @user-in1yw9ty5t
    @user-in1yw9ty5t Рік тому +7

    dad causing trouble as always. 😂

  • @safiaahmed1314
    @safiaahmed1314 Рік тому +3

    They’re family is just so frustrating

  • @cocoaicci_
    @cocoaicci_ Рік тому +5

    More than anyone i think the girl needs a phone. She's a teenager and with all of this violence against young girls, stalking and kidnapping nowadays it's literally not safe for her to be without one.
    If something happens and she can't call the police because she has no phone, who's fault would that be?
    The mom is only thinking "omg they're gonna get addicted" instead of thinking about the girl's safety.
    Especially since in Korea they have cram school that doesn't finish until late at night like 11pm. A young girl walking home alone at night without a phone? Is the mom crazy? And the world now knows she doesn't have a phone because she's on a show. not safe at all.

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому +4

      But they say and want people to believe that korea is one of the safest countries or not?? 🤔

    • @Ariadne4
      @Ariadne4 Рік тому +5

      The mom was scared she might addicted because that is also harmful for the girl. Don't act like you care more than the mom. The mom definitely thinks ahead and cares for her daughter more than anyone else would. They could have a spare phone that they could give her when she's travelling alone. She doesn't need to have a phone of their own. After they reach a certain age, they can have phones of their own

    • @renek2913
      @renek2913 Рік тому +2

      As much as the girl's safety is important, so is preventing her kids from getting addicted to phones. Phone addiction is a real thing and so many adults have phone addiction, what more a kid. The mom didn't give her daughter a phone simply cus the daughter herself knew she would get addicted. Who knows maybe the mom also know her daughter's safety is also important and plans to consult other ways to solve it like getting her a pager or a basic phone but the guy straight up derailed everything by getting them a smartphone.

  • @imiman
    @imiman Рік тому +1

    Personally understand the mom and a good alternative would have been to get a flip phone or a Nokia. Not sure about South Korea, but they still sell those phones where I live. I think they’re a great starter phone and also solves the problem for the dad when he needs to call the son.

  • @soonjoyce5329
    @soonjoyce5329 Рік тому

    Very cute boy

  • @seaandsky259
    @seaandsky259 Рік тому +1

    I think they can just impose measures tho? Isn’t it better to teach them how to not be addicted rather than keep them protected forever

  • @wonusgirl_
    @wonusgirl_ Рік тому +12

    i understand where both sides are coming from, i know what the mum is talking abt cah as soon as i got a phone in high school i was a bit out of control but i can also understand the dad too, as in u can’t shield ur kids from how the world is forever, they need to evolve and how abt if the kid is in danger, they won’t have any device to communicate with

  • @cconyap
    @cconyap Рік тому +2

    She a typical asian mom but often they are right. It really destroys a person without discipline. I admitt i was sure its not going to happen to me but it did. I imagined what i could have done without computers and phones i could've been so productive right now i could've owned a house and lot and opened various businesses but my addiction kept me yo my bed and away from people. Yes it destroys relationships too.

  • @MysteryGirl571
    @MysteryGirl571 Рік тому

    Ooo, i wish i can give my dad the phone addiction test, cuz i think he's addicted alright

  • @gamer-wd2qr
    @gamer-wd2qr Рік тому

    I think The mom should take the phone every midnight.

  • @laffchatt5715
    @laffchatt5715 Рік тому +5

    I feel the mother cud discuss the matter privately discussing in front of the kids will definitely result into children not respecting their dad in future.. this video portrays like the mother is domenating. Wud request to be more respectful toward the dad

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому +1

      If you have watched previous videos, you would have known that this topic was discussed multiple times and mother told her opinion to the absund father!!!

  • @khurshidhuma5281
    @khurshidhuma5281 Рік тому +8

    That was a bit too much of a reaction I guess... They could've conveyed the same point in a better way... The lady is just got tempered ND I don't think the guy can do anything about it unfortunately

  • @ot7stan207
    @ot7stan207 Рік тому

    As a 31 year old I have spent way too much od my youth on social media. It’s toxic. But at the same time they need phones for safety and communication. The mom needs to realize there is a balance to be had. Just lock the settings on the phone or let them use it for a set amount of time a day.

  • @atiqfarhah5280
    @atiqfarhah5280 Рік тому

    My father said the same thing so i just think about what the best and just by nokia 😂

  • @myleneopena7534
    @myleneopena7534 Рік тому

    Cellphone now is really addicted, but us a parent there should be be a limitation.. They have a time for a study and enjoy the day and also to have a communication with other people.. But also we us a parent know how to handle our relationship to the kids.. Talking about what happened

  • @alisha8566
    @alisha8566 Рік тому

    i see 7 year old kids with phones already- but they never get off after that.

  • @taniatani2510
    @taniatani2510 Рік тому +1

    Well I have working parents. So when I was around 8 10 I used to have a handphone. As smart phone wasn't in the scene. It was for safety. But when I grew up like was in my pre teen smart phone was so popular. My dad wanted me to have one but my mom said no need. Nokia button phone is enough for her. I didn't get smart phone untill I finish my school.

  • @Hank0this
    @Hank0this Рік тому

    This was a sneaky Samsung advertisement like in the kdrama

  • @djolee7210
    @djolee7210 Рік тому

    omg com on...

  • @Zeusssify
    @Zeusssify Рік тому

    easy, just give them phone that can call and text only if its hard to communicate when they going places.

  • @daysibaleno8630
    @daysibaleno8630 Рік тому

    It is silly that these kids didn’t have a phone, now a day a phone is important for emergency calls, stay connected with friends, teachers , look for class work etc. The mother is limiting their growing and learning

  • @yathika3552
    @yathika3552 Рік тому +1

    If she wants her children to respect him they should have had this conversation in personal.....not like this in front of thier children...so weird
    I mean it's always I think, I did ,I will....
    She say she want him to be a part it dont look that way....May be its only me

  • @Spacekids__
    @Spacekids__ 7 місяців тому +1

    Wait she’s 18 but she didn’t have a phone till now?

  • @lioexa600
    @lioexa600 Рік тому

    Literally buy them a phone that isn't a smart phone!? Best of both worlds?? When I was preparing for my big national exams I downgraded to a brick phone so that I don't get distracted and can also contact my parents if necessary.

  • @rebelpeni8599
    @rebelpeni8599 Рік тому

    I can see why she gets frustrated with her husband after seeing previous episodes. 🤦‍♀

  • @porcupyne3361
    @porcupyne3361 Рік тому +6

    I felt this was rather ungrateful from the kids and the mom. Hwari, hwacheol learn to use your phone and set a limit. Have some self discipline and self control. Having a phone can have its benefits. If you get addicted, it’s entirely your fault. The dad did a thoughtful gesture for a change. I actually felt sorry that this gift was shot down by his wife and daughter.

  • @guinnevereschronicles2225
    @guinnevereschronicles2225 Рік тому

    I get both sides of the parents, but there is parental controls on phones.

  • @someone_yk5010
    @someone_yk5010 Рік тому +28

    Its weird they cant have phones like what

  • @crazyhen6456
    @crazyhen6456 Рік тому

    Just get a flip phone though

  • @ru1n_singzzzie13
    @ru1n_singzzzie13 Рік тому

    Personally i think the only time a child should ever have a phone is from High-School onwards (grade 7/8 onwards or age 13 onwards) Cos high school is the period as a teen when you start going out with friends with no adult supervision so phones are essential to have in case of emergencies. But i don't see any reason why anyone from grade 6 and below would need a phone. Plus if the mother is worried about stuff like the kids getting adficted to the phone, shes a parent, she can easily take the phone from them when they are back at home or restrict them to only being allowed to use it when out of the house.

  • @alanawinarta9887
    @alanawinarta9887 Рік тому

    What is this

  • @cconyap
    @cconyap Рік тому

    Kids in our country are so free. They can have have they want and use them without restriction. I jad a cousin and she had hers at a very young age so she is up until its very late. I am living with them and i sleep in her bedroom so i know. I confiscate her phone when its time for bed cause i dont trust shell stop when im asleep 😂

  • @GeorgeCKuntz
    @GeorgeCKuntz Рік тому +24

    Nobody seems to realise that the whole story is scripted (with some very good acting by the family members): But funny it is!!

    • @man_I_dont_know_what_to_put
      @man_I_dont_know_what_to_put Рік тому

      Wait reallyyyyyyy I thought it was just the narrator

    • @mnicolls835
      @mnicolls835 Рік тому

      I shouldn’t be surprised but I am.

    • @sukiikn
      @sukiikn Рік тому +5

      @@man_I_dont_know_what_to_put it’s partly scripted, the family probably gets a script with prompts and they would have to improvise the rest

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому +2

      I thought everybody knew!! Every single show is scripted at least on the basic! This family probably chose to show us this side cause is more interesting and disturding so higher rates for them to keep on the show!
      But his attitude and mindset is not far from korean patriarchical culture so we react to what we see!!

    • @renek2913
      @renek2913 Рік тому +2

      As much I want to say all shows are scripted but this guy did in fact ditch his family for years while the wife had to raise the kids alone by herself and he decided to come back to just so he could appear on the show

  • @tahthees_dairy2942
    @tahthees_dairy2942 Рік тому

    I feel bad for the dad sometimes

  • @shwetatagde3378
    @shwetatagde3378 Рік тому

    Omo
    Omo
    Omo
    Omo
    Omo

  • @user-pq6lf7wy6x
    @user-pq6lf7wy6x Рік тому

    He should of spoke to her first

  • @simplysiano891
    @simplysiano891 Рік тому

    They should switch wives with the horrible husband for a day

  • @leaderjoonie9885
    @leaderjoonie9885 Рік тому

    They

  • @lyna5184
    @lyna5184 Рік тому

    I don’t understand why the parents don’t have these discussions privately away from the kids, they’re both disrespecting each other and it’s showing the kids that they too can speak to the parents like that.
    I understand the dad was away and all but if they want to make things work they should try a bit harder

  • @TA-ud5lf
    @TA-ud5lf Рік тому

    can someone say how old both of the kids are?
    so basically i think getting a phone when your 11-14 is probably the worst time to get it just because I didn't have a phone then and I rlly got interested in things outside of social media but my sister who did get it then got addicted and it was boring when she was always on her phone
    ofc u need a phone if u go out and stuff but a simpler one if ur younger or give a phone and limit it

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому

      I think the boy is 14 and the girl 17...
      And you're right! Kids nowdays are all addicted to a screen and live their life through it!!

  • @cathkim9037
    @cathkim9037 Рік тому

    i do agree with the mom that phones might be bad for the kids due to addiction problem and exposed to the world so much might be bad. However, in this case prolly the mom should talk in private with the dad about this and not talk like that infront of the kids. why? this might lead the kids not respecting the father.

    • @renek2913
      @renek2913 Рік тому

      Lol u do know the kids already lost all respect for the father when he decided to ditch his family for years without even telling them until he came back recently just to film for this show right? He wants respect then jolly well earn it, literally so many episodes in and he still doing the same thing as before

  • @jar7562
    @jar7562 Рік тому +1

    Guys relax lol its just acting

  • @pushpagurung7739
    @pushpagurung7739 Рік тому +14

    Father is good person 👍👍👍

    • @lalashielala
      @lalashielala Рік тому

      Good person doesn't equarlte to a good father. But I know that he's trying to be so I give him that

    • @Ariadne4
      @Ariadne4 Рік тому

      Mother is also good person. Both care for their kids

  • @jakepark1346
    @jakepark1346 Рік тому

    well, it is true the kids are at the age of receiving their own phones well for the young boy probably not a good idea, because of his personality though the dad is partly at fault. Already is said that he wouldn't be actively parenting, would have been better to talk to the wife first as she was the main nurturer while the father had been away for a very very long time in the US. anyways its not that big of a deal, though the dad should really make reasonable excuses but then again this is a show with some scripts given to increase the view ratings as that is important for every show hopefully they dont stay on the show for that long because it'll feel fake at times .

  • @hafizulhakim7179
    @hafizulhakim7179 Рік тому

    why does she blame her dad bc of her own addiction

    • @renek2913
      @renek2913 Рік тому

      Ofcos she get to blame her dad when she doesn't even want a phone in the first place. Has he ever consulted his wife or daughter? No, just like how he ditch his family and live alone overseas without telling them. His wife and daughter have every right to be pissed

  • @patrolinaleaton3820
    @patrolinaleaton3820 Рік тому

    Why are hey still married ,kids star acting like the parents bad comunication

  • @sherahadgens
    @sherahadgens Рік тому +2

    If she wants to scold her husband, do not do it in front of the kids. This way the kids will lost respect towards their father eventually. I agree with the mother about this matter, it just that arguments should not be seen by their kids. (I'm sorry for my bad English but hope you all understand what I mean)

  • @aurrara
    @aurrara Рік тому +2

    I mean the dad was absent half of the kids life and the mom raised them by herself, so he really should've asked his wife before making any decision regarding their kids bcs obviously he don't know sh*t about them.

  • @okibye8600
    @okibye8600 Рік тому

    Tf its all bullshit , if u cant control yourself with gadgets now no test will help when u work n hv to use it ,i just dont get it.

  • @gabiduncan18
    @gabiduncan18 Рік тому +7

    I can't stand to see a woman/wife treat her man like a kid. A marriage is a partnership and she's talking to him like he's less than equal. And also the oldest girl is tripping talking about she took a test that said she'll be addicted like girl what?! Smdh

    • @lalashielala
      @lalashielala Рік тому +5

      Because the husband is a kid! Why treat the man as equal when he didn't become the kids' parents until just recently? He never even saw them learn to walk or speak. The mom raised them all by herself while the dad enjoyed living the life of a bachelor all those years in the US.

    • @shinmihee7932
      @shinmihee7932 Рік тому +1

      ​@@lalashielala He went there to work

    • @lalashielala
      @lalashielala Рік тому +5

      @@shinmihee7932 I know that. But he was retired for a long time already. He did not even stay at home for a while after retiring... he just immediately left them and went to the US and stayed for another 4 years. From what I remembered, he wasn't supposed to go home but covid happened. He wasn't living with them for 17 years. It wasn't even a year since he started living with them for good.

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h Рік тому

      @@shinmihee7932 so what?? As you wrote, he was the father and had to work to provide for his family!! But that means he will be respected only for that?? Are you a kind too??

    • @shinmihee7932
      @shinmihee7932 Рік тому

      @@user-hl4vl8qd7h I'm a kind what?

  • @KL-li8hu
    @KL-li8hu Рік тому +11

    The wife is so disrespectful towards her husband , i my sountry she is a divorce by now

    • @derekford7230
      @derekford7230 Рік тому +2

      the last one doesn't make sense and it's just a show

    • @gonzalespangs7140
      @gonzalespangs7140 Рік тому +3

      You should have seen how he is with them on the show

    • @lalashielala
      @lalashielala Рік тому +3

      Yeah if I were her, I would've divorced the husband a long time ago when he was living like a bachelor in the US and I take care of the kids while working all the time

    • @kpop1681
      @kpop1681 Рік тому +2

      @@lalashielala he went to US for work if you didn't know

    • @lalashielala
      @lalashielala Рік тому +3

      @@kpop1681 yeah but when he retired he went to US immediately for another 4 years. From what I remembered, he wasn't supposed to go home but covid happened so...

  • @kun7288
    @kun7288 Рік тому

    Just say thank you…what an ungrateful mom and daughter🙄

    • @renek2913
      @renek2913 Рік тому

      Why should the mom and daughter thank the dad when he has never bother consulting them before making decisions even when he decided to ditch his family alone for years until deciding to come back to their life. He should be the one grateful that his family is even willing to take him back into the household. Who does he think he is thinking he gets to insert his irrelevant option now

  • @ladisanindya
    @ladisanindya Рік тому

    I’m back after a while, and he hasn’t change yet 🥹