REACTING TO TEEN BRIDE WEDDING DRESSES
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- Опубліковано 26 лип 2024
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Say Yes To The Dress is always a treat, I mean, watching people fight over a dress for their big day with their family and friends can sometimes be stressful but always works out at the end! And things can get even crazier if you're a teenager, which these brides are! From 17 year olds to 19 year olds, Teen Brides are definitely a thing, and while it's certainly an issue that needs to be addressed, we can also see a bit more into how and why these brides get into marriages so young through clips like these!
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Lol the idea of hating a v neck that literally shows no cleavage, yet feeling okay with your daughter getting married at the age of 17 is truly beyond me 🤦🏻♀️
It's the Christian way.
@@theprousteffect9717I don't think it is
@@theprousteffect9717please tell me you’re being ironic
It’s a certain type of broken-brained person to support their child being literally groomed by an grown man…
@@paulmysterious9625He isn't being ironic. That is how a LOT of Christians actually think. Their choices are not entirely based on personal preference, but if it is, it still takes a backseat to modesty. Her relying on her dad's approval is a very conservative Christian thing to do, and its very apparent the daughter views him as the head of authority. Its so gross.
The second bride almost seems proud to be marrying so young while the first bride just happens to be young but was marrying someone she knows and loves.
There are some rare couples who can pull it off. I think it helps that they have mature and supportive families as well. The first bride seems to have this rare good combination, the second one is trying to emerge out from under a highly controlling family structure. IMAO controlling families are not mature, functional families. Their behaviour regularly devolves into unnecessary drama behind closed doors. Such a strong need to control less powerful members indicates immaturity on the part of "the head of the family", i.e. Dad, and curtails the children's opportunities for growth.
I give her marriage 2 years - and that's not a bad thing. I feel a bit sorry for the boy but he'll get over it too. I just pray that they don't make a baby in the meantime. I'll bet anything that marriage is her only escape from her family's or father's over involvement and controlling of her life.
@@user-sr1kc6jj2b-p1q they will totally make a baby, I really doubt they support contraception
While all these things are true, it’s still pretty cringy. They’re too young. But cool, whatever, nice the first one has supportive family and the second got away from the stuff she was raised with.
@@hopegold883I usually agree about 18/19 year olds marrying, since they typically only know their partners for a year-ish before tying the knot, but Isabelle (the first girl) has known Rio for 6 years, so at least they know eachother well and would have a strong foundation for their relationship. Still not ideal, but better than usual.
Having grown up in a similar culture to the 2nd bride, I can confirm that it was almost a badge of honor to get engaged during your junior or senior year of high school. I got engaged during the summer between junior and senior year and it was absolutely seen as a major "win." Thankfully we decided the whole thing was dumb, called it off, and have remained best friends ever since! I wish it could play out that way for everyone in that situation. I’m now one of only 2 unmarried women in my family, and even though we’re in our early 30s we’re absolutely considered spinsters by some 😆
The difference in maturity between the two girls is crazy
To be fair, the first girl looked and acted like she was in her 20s
I mean, it's not really a fair comparison. The first girl has a really supportive family, and the second is being controlled and brainwashed, and probably can't make a decision on her own 🤦♀️
what everyone said .... and when you're teen, a year makes a huge difference... at 18 you're on your way to become an adult, there's a reason it's age of maturity in most of the world, at 17 you're still a child...
@@shinstantramen5169 or even 30s...
For real, the 17 year old sounds 15 especially because of her overt amount of reliance on her father to make decisions- which is obviously because of how controlling and brainwashed she is. Like, she didn't even look happy in her yes dress, she just agreed because it's the only one which her dad will agree with.
reminder to luke that it's actually ok to be judgy about religious fundamentalists who inflict purity culture on their kids ❤
yes!! It’s good and correct to call out the CULTure that allows adult men to groom and marry the children they meet in church
Yes I can’t believe child marriage is being normalized on tv. It’s a shame that we haven’t outlawed it.
@@hulapineappleUnfortunately I think some states are enforcing it
@@RogueVideoRaven very red states
@@Nopenopenope6969but I thought they're the ones protecting kids from all of the LGBTQ grooming 🙄
I was engaged at 17 (not hugely uncommon in the faith in which I grew up- also the Southern US, also with the courtship mentality) and thankfully we did not go through with it! There was no messy breakup- we just didn’t feel right about it at the time. We’ve remained best friends ever since, and a few years back I helped him write his wedding vows when he married his incredible husband! We were both fortunate that things played out the way they did.
I am glad things went out the right way for both of you❤
lovely story, i think this goes to show that few people actually know themselves and what they want from life at the young age of 17 or 18
@@millminn absolutely!
That really is a nice story
@@froufroudeluxe I’m just grateful that things turned out alright. So many young people don’t have that same positive outcome, especially in families who are more devout in their practices. We were both extremely lucky that we had supportive friends and families who recognized and respected our agency in the matter. I hope the young ladies in the video are thriving!
There is a huge contrast between those two brides and it shows. Bride 1 found her fiancé and chose to marry him. Her entourage did have their critiques, but if you have watched this show for years like I have, they were standard issue concerns. "We want you to look like a bride, and we want you to look timeless" are very valid concerns that any mother or grandmother would have. At the end of the appointment, the bride chose a lovely lace dress that was fun, flirty, and fit for the wedding of her dreams.
The other bride was raised in an ultra conservative, Duggar like setting where she has been encouraged to court a man her father approves and she has to dress modestly on her big day. Any single one of the dresses they pulled would have been perfectly fine wedding gowns for most churches -- the father (who gives me the ick) could not handle the fact that his little baby girl is about to become a bride. Rather ironic that the culture you promote says 18 years old is a fine agr to get married, only for you to actively detest that, but I digress. I just feel awful for that bride because this should be a magical day for her, and all she could think about is, "What will daddy think?" It was so awkward and honestly heartbreaking to watch because all she has known is that her father is the only one that can make important choices for her, and her opinion does not matter when it absolutely should.
I wish them both the best of happiness, but I hope that 2nd bride, and anyone else in her situation, is able to make their own decisions and choose what THEY want to wear on THEIR wedding day.
Thankfully the second bride didn’t end up getting married. She cancelled the wedding and left the groom 8 months later. The she got married some time later when she felt more prepared and has kids of her own now. She’s still in contact with her family though and defends her dad from SYTTD’s rough editing but acknowledges the purity culture she was raised in.
That Duggar Culture is seeped with abus3 of all types
The way the father looked -- or rather sort of leered -- at her was so concerning.
Agreed 👍
@@RogueVideoRavenOh thank goodness. I’m glad she set her boundaries and did it all on her time.
Trying Not To Seem Judgemental While Totally Judging Your Unfortunate Life Choices Luke is a mood and I'm here for it.
It’s my fav mood 😂
*"Stop letting men make choices"* 😌👋
Like, any choices? This may take things a little far 😂
For the second bride, she didn't end up marrying the guy. She's been married to another guy for a few years. She made a few tiktoks about it. Said her dad isn't as strict, the show edited it that way.
What's her tiktok? I very much remember that episode of Say Yes to the Dress and hoping she didn't get married.
Im genuinely concerned for the second girl… she looked so young (and was obviously) and she was severely controlled by her dad in everything
Thankfully she didn’t go through with the wedding. She and her fiancé broke up and she married someone else. She acknowledges the purity culture she grew up in but keeps in contact with her family and defends her dad from SYTTD’s rough editing
@@RogueVideoRaven really?? where was this info?
Yeah, I don't like the idea of parents "choosing" their kid's spouse, and him wanting her to get married at 17 is kinda yikes imo.
"If she has braces, she's too young for you, bro" is S U C H A V I B E
The dad basically chose a prom dress and was excited to see her looking like a prom queen. Because that's the age she was. Like no shit.
The ironic part of the 17 year old girl, waiting for marriage and getting married that young is that her parents are divorced so clearly whatever they didn’t didn’t work out for them lol
I feel like if the dad considers her old enough to be married, he should also consider her old enough to pick out a dress on her own
😭😭 can’t believe Isabelle is 18. Sis looks like she’s in her late 20s
I said the same thing! I immediately thought "no way, she's definitely 27, 28"
Her makeup ages her 20 years i stg
@whatthefridge1o1 I'm 30 and I thought she was older than me lmao
@@jessicaparker2011 I'm 30 and she looks older than me like danm😮
Make up, some styles of make up can age a teen 10 years she also wears a darker lipstick which can age a person sometimes and she has a lot going on around her eyes.
The second bride's dress is very much in the style of a confirmation dress... Which you would put on a twelve-year-old. The only difference between that dress and a standard confirmation dress is that if it were a confirmation dress, it would have straps. I think the father is far from ready to view his daughter as an adult woman. 😅
I mean, she’s not an adult woman, so that would be a valid feeling if he weren’t rubber stamping her getting married fresh out of high school.
I 100% got reminded of picking a dress for a quinceañera or cotillion.
Thankfully she sold the dress… after she decided she didn’t want to get married at 17. She got married to a different guy later on
That young girl looked totally freaked out
In that case, why "encourage" her to court a "man of his choosing"? Zero sympathy
geez, i'm 27 and can't imagine getting married, let alone being a 17 year old teenager... at least the first girl seems to have known her man for a while
I'm glad I'm not thenonly one
courting is really just not the right way to do things
I love how the show emphasized the word conservative and all that uncomfortable tension that brought with it.
While I love the dress the first bride picked I wished the family, or families in general, could acknowledge that while they may not like the dress, the dress should be one that the bride loves, regardless of anyone else’s opinion. I may think a dress is hideous but if my friend felt beautiful in it and thought it was “the dress” than who am I to say anything about HER dress.
The thing is, part of the reason the entourage is there is to critique the dresses and help the bride to be make a decision. I agree with you and I'd go shopping alone if I were getting married, but many people WANT the critique 🤷♀️
@@theprousteffect9717That’s a good point. I didn’t even think of that. I guess to me it seems so personal that for someone to criticize it, it could come across as discouraging and hurtful.
definitely depends on the person, but I like knowing others' critiques when I try on clothing, maybe because I tend to be indecisive. I feel like it only becomes a problem if you're putting others opinions above your own--it should be one factor in your decision, not the only one.
I went with one of my sisters. She was just happy to be there and let me make my own decision. That's how I like it. 😂
The TV show aspect makes the critiques more dramatic. Producers usually advise the entourage to have stronger opinions so it makes good TV.
16:20 I love the thought of someone praying and god actually answering, just to say 'sounds like a you problem'
Luke went from critiquing teenage marriage to fiercely defending the first bride real fast haha
as someone who is 17 right now i can barely take care of myself much less a marriage
Thinking about who I was in love with at 18 and what it would’ve been to marry them is horrifying
“Not giving these young people the tools they need…” is such polite shade (not wrong in the slightest either) but I love the phrasing throughout the video and the LOOK at 15:11 is peak ‘not my business but GIRL’ 😂😂
Luke's commentary was brilliant. I wanted Lori and Monte to sneak the second girl out of the back to get away from her dad!
I don’t know why these Fundies that marry off their Virgin daughters as young as possible don’t just do a First Communion Dress and Wedding Dress in one and knock out 2 birds with one stone. (Did that sound too judgmental? Lol)
Do fundies do First Communion? I thought that was only Catholic/Anglican
@@Nesi-Rose No most don't, some depending on the church/ sect might do a purity ring ceremony when the kids are early teens but it seems like those are not as popular as they were in the early 00s
Hoooooboy… this is… something! Thought Luke was going to get a hernia from holding everything in he wanted to say lmao.
The second bride doesn’t even know her own mind. She’s certainly not mature enough to be in a relationship, let alone a marriage.
*First bride: 18-year-old British white gal with a supportive family and marrying her boyfriend that she met at a concert
*Second bride: 17-year-old white American gal from a fundamentalist Christian family with a controlling father and being married to a guy her dad picked for her [According to the comments, she decided to not go thru with that marriage and called it off. Good for her on that.]
This is what the Puritans brought to the USA. I can see why the UK doesn't miss them.
God do I hate puritanical culture so much
As someone who is very self conscious and was extremely awkward during my first kiss (I kept apologizing and saying I had no idea what I was doing), I would absolutely not want my wedding day to be the first day I kissed my partner.
The term “courting” sets my teeth on edge.
What's wild to me about the second bride and her father picking that 3rd dress is I think it's the lowest cut with how they put it on her (cause they hiked that first dress up), and as you mentioned, still fitted around the top. I don't think they actually got the more conservative dress. They just got the dress that distracted them the most with sparkly things so they didn't focus on the rest of it.
he liked it the most because it looked the most childish
Thankfully she didn’t keep the wedding dress. She sold it… after deciding not to go through with the wedding
To me it looked the most like a homecoming dress which put the dad back in his she's still a child comfort zone
Honestly, if you have to get married at 18, doing it like the first girl seems more logical. The amount of change you go through from 12 to 18 is insane. Obviously they'll keep growing and changing but if they'd managed to stick together and compromise and grow alongside each other through their crazy puberty years, they might actually be okay. I mean, it works out for "just friends" like that; people who are still besties with their childhood best friends usually have them for life. Couldn't be me, idk how that works out, but it does for some people. Best of luck to them!
And for the second girl,,,, girl, run. Steal $100 out of your dad's wallet, pack a bag and get on the next train.
No father should be this invested in his daughter's body and what she wears its genuinely hard to watch and honestly disgusting like are you marrying her yourself? ☠☠ like, if my father started commenting on my hips I would block his number and move away tbh
See as a Christian......I never liked courting. I grew up around it and didn't like the idea of pretty much "just get married" I saw so many divorces....sooo yeah no thanks, let's give the kids time to learn themselves and try things out and not pressure them to marry. Don't pound it into their heads either. I'm still trying to grow out of that mindset at 22 years old....
I don’t know why you’d need to waste your time, causally dating someone, in order to learn yourself.
@@kikialeaki1850I think you learn a lot about yourself when you date someone even after the break up you continue to learn and grow. After you've dated around you have a better understanding of what you want in a partner and sometimes you wouldn't have known that until you went through it. just my opinion
@@carolinatorres7575 my point is just that you can learn just as much about yourself and what you’d want in a relationship by spending time alone and properly observing and listening to the people around you. Without having to involve someone you’re not serious about. Even if you are casually dating people, I don’t see why you should go into it unprepared. You should definitely be figuring out the complexes within yourself before entering into a romantic relationship.
@@kikialeaki1850you can be more serious than causal dating but still not be at courtship level
I honestly thought she was 14 maybe 15. Luckily she didn't end up getting married, and married someone else later down the line. What I've told my daughter is get an education, get a career, travel the world and find out who YOU are before attaching someone else's life to you.
I had a family member get married at 20 this year and she’s already divorced… but my brother got married at 21 and has been married 10 years 🤷🏻♀️
I mean this really showed the variety of teen weddings, for the first girl it seemed like a genuine decision her and her boyfriend (who seemed to be the same age as her) made for themselves, the second one seemed like a decision made by the father in order to continue with "traditional" values which definitely raises a few red flags for me.
Not sure if you've already done it but "Big Fat Gypsy Weddings" (UK) has some very eccentric and expressive fashion. All Traveller girls seem lovely and kind, aside from the cultural commentary, I'd kill for your reaction of the looks.
Thats a uh, unfortunate name
seconding this!
Plz!
Im 21 and we’re at that age where people are starting to get married and have kids and I’m in shock every time. Like I’m just trying to finish college wdym marriage and splitting assets 😭
im 28 and had a friend married at 21. i was a bridesmaid and everything, it was so surreal 🫨 you do you, dont feel pressured to live by society’s standards 🫶
21???? I’m 26 and none of my friends are married yet lol
I got married at 31 and never got my dad involved in it. He is and has been my harshest critic everrr. All he had to do is to show up at the weddig and lead me down the isle and have fun after the wedding ceremony, and that is exactly what he did, thank God. Hats off to all women who invite several people to their dress shopping appointments, I simply did not have the patience to deal with anyone other than my sister and my mum 😅
There’s something that was so hard to watch for me about the way the second bride’s father was policing his daughter’s body and clothing and seems like whole life. It honestly made me nauseous
Not Dad talking about dating v. courting as a divorced, on his second marriage man 🙃
We don't get married young lol. UK couples actually get married older on average than US couples, according to Statista! It's definitely getting older and older for both countries and the average in 2020/21 was over 30. Teen marriages are definitely outliers in both places, but I would have thought that there are younger Americans bringing the average down due to conservative Christianity in the US and how couples get married super young because they can't sleep together otherwise.
I think we may have that perception here because of another TLC show (My Big Fat G*psy Wedding) 😂
@@erinrafferty5659 I LOVE THAT SHOW!
Nice job being personally offended and looking up statistics to prove your point👌👌
@@weather.of.the.past. lmao it took 2 seconds to Google! not sure why you thought I was annoyed, just thought I'd back up my point, and it's interesting to look into. Not a big deal really
@@erinrafferty5659 haha that's true! The travelling community is another outlier I guess, we definitely don't show ourselves positively in that show 😅
I agree with you about giving young people the tools to make the best decisions for themselves and my face matched your face when she said they haven't kiss yet. I cannot imagine getting married with someone you haven't even kiss yet, talk about being set up to fail. In a desperate attempt to maintain the "purity" of his daughter he is sending her into the world naive and unprepared. "Do exactly what I tell you to do, demostrate your obedience to me!" That was his dad ONLY prerequisite to give away his teenage daughter
I got married at 19 - eloped. I can't imagine doing all of the wedding extremes at that age. Marriage was totally different for us I guess but all the family input would've made me... Unhinged.
uuuuggggh i watched that episode with the 17-year old bride. It's just crazy how much you can tell that this is not truly her choice, at least not entirely. The marriage, the dress, the GUY that dad had to approve! I agree, to each their own, but that saying only works if you actually made your own decision.
I'm pretty sure the 17yo didn't end up getting married then. She got married when she was older to a different person.
God I hope it's true
This is why I love your videos.
When it comes to Celebrities you don't hold back, you hold to them to a high standard, as you should! But for these videos you root for the brides such makes happy! Love it soo much
I dress pretty modestly myself, but I would never ever impose that on someone else! There's such a thing as bodily autonomy. Plus, I'd be a huge hypocrite because I showed a lot of skin in high school and early college. All that matters is what makes that person feel good (of course there are some dress etiquette rules that are important like job interviews, someone else's wedding, funerals)
The way the dad looked at that second bride… SO CREEPY
stop letting men make choices SO TRUE KING
Luke honestly trying to understand the logic in the opinions on a dress expressed by an ideologically deluded man 😂
I’m going to be almost 25 when I get married and I still feel like that’s pretty young. Sounds insane to get married at 17/18 thinking how much I’ve matured since I was that age 😅
I know, I'm about to get married now at 28, we've been together for 7 years, have been living together for almost 4. All this to say that we are SURE we wanna marry and spend the rest of our lives together.
Idk how you can have that kind of sureness at 17/18, when you're not even an adult yet, you're still growing! Ya can't even drink in america for Christ's sake, how can you get married!?
Someone make me a GIF of Luke's "l don't like it" death stare
“I’m not saying she looks 43…”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀
I’ll be judgy for you Luke; her dad is a controlling overly religious freak 😂😭😭😭😭😭😭
Daughter has to stick to dads religious rules, Daughters mum is his ex and he has a new wife. Ok…
I have met men like that before. They'll stare directly at the sun for one hour before they ever admit their massive cognitive dissonance.
That father's culture that he partakes in says that its normal for women to get married at such a young age. And yet, here is his daughter who is shopping for wedding dresses as a young 17 year old, and for some reason that doesn't sit right with him?
Pick a lane: your daughter gets married at 18 (in the full episode, she will get married after graduation) OR your daughter waits and you don't have to watch your baby girl get married because she will be a grown-up adult woman in her 20s. You cannot have both.
@@morgan3918 He just doesn't want to a) let go of control of her and b) doesn't want to believe that she will have sex. He has made it as hard as possible for her to grow up, so by choosing marriage she is forcing him to let it happen in the least drama-inducing way. That's why he is so uncomfortable with it. He's been cornered into approving it.
People don't like to admit that marriage is a woman's rite of passage into adulthood if other avenues have been denied, but it most certainly is! After this, she is her husband's "property" and the husband is young and inexperienced enough that he will not be able to control her as much as her father did.
She didn't get married to the guy, and is now married to someone else
yikes, that second bride is terrifyingly young, she jsut seems so under the control of her family and Dad, like even her opinions on if she likes things or not are up to other people. The first bride is only a year older, but seems so much more like a young woman than the literal child in vid #2.
My neighbour is 23, got engaged at 17, and became a mom 22, (shes around my age) and i cringe everytime she says "come to mommy!". Don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with a cute mother-daughter moment, but for me, it feels strange. We grew up playing together with all the other kids. I am now in college, in a new city, all alone, worrying to pay my rent and learn a 100 pages per subject every week, I cannot fanthom to be a mom at this age. Later for sure, if i choose to have kids. I understand that she is not in the same circumstances as me but you do you i guess lol. I hope she is happy tho.
i got married at 30 and my sentiment was the exact opposite from the first bride lol i was like i just want to be a dress up princess
I am 30 and I don't think my dad sees me as a grown up woman still. But in him it translates as not noticing any cleavage as opposed to noticing the slightest hint of it. I think he sees me in a sexier outfit and translates it into his brain as me in a jumpsuit lmao 😭
Say everything you want to say Luke. WE WANT TO KNOW
Love Luke’s Say Yes to the Dress reaction videos so I was so happy to see this unexpected gem!
The second bride posted a video I saw a while ago. She either married and divorced, or ended up not marrying the man. I can't remember which. But she is a happy, independent woman now!! Thank God!!
You should check out my big fat Gypsy wedding dresses!!!! That a whole new experience!
15:12 the pause & eye roll made me cackle 😂
These are my favorite reaction videos, but with an added bonus of perfect marriage advice!!! I’m 66 and I couldn’t agree more with you!!
I couldn't ever imagine watching say yes to the dress without your commentary. You're fabulous, love you!
The teen brides episodes of SYTTD are really something!
I hate that last dress. The neckline is awkward as hell. I can't believe the shop didn't have a simple 50's style A-line with square neckline. I feel sure that's what the father was expecting. As so often happens when making too many compromises, the dress ends up looking dorky and she will hate looking back on it because it will remind her of what a bully her father was about it.
The first girl sounds so soft, I love listening to her speaking and it makes me wish I was her friend
I love these videos! Your commentary has me cracking up 😂
So glad you’re making the say yes to the dress videos again lmao
Legit the most educational beauty content on UA-cam. Thank joy so much for your channel Hung!
Very respectful and kind commentary ☺
10:12 Oh dear, I think we're seeing the real reason why an 18 year old _girl_ shouldn't be getting married: too easily swayed by everybody else's opinions!
I love your vlogs on Say Yes to the Dress! You are so hilarious and honest! Keep up the great work!
❤️🙏
☕️ According to The Internet, the second bride didn’t marry the guy she was wedding dress shopping for. She did marry someone else and they are still together with two children.
your rant at 16:14 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 i love it, i’m Christian and I 100% agree
I have recently "found" you.... I'm over 65... (female) and you crack me up. You are brilliant, knowledgeable and sweetly snarky. You are my "Better Help" for sure!
Thank you Luke, I love a say yes to the dress review.
YIKES! Oh sheesh that father makes me uncomfortable as hell, if she's marrying the boy just to get away I'd totally understand
I’m addicted to your SYTTD vids 😂
As a 17 year old this is crazy to me, I don't want to get married until I'm 30...
LOL, lower case v. The face you made you made when the bride said she is waiting till her wedding day for her first kiss is priceless.
The first couple are still together 🥰
The second bride reminds me of the ones on “Gypsy Wedding”. The marriages on that show would only last 2 months though…
First bride looks like she's 30. I like the shoes. It's her first wedding dress, always room for improvement. I do like the one that was chosen.
I was a teen bride. We only knew each other for about 3 months before we got engaged. He seemed responsible and kind, so we got hitched 3 months after that. It felt like plenty of time despite our parents freaking out. They begged us to wait; my mom even cancelled my wedding dress 2 weeks before the wedding date! We've been married for over 30 years, and we're still in love. I don't recommend this plan for anyone else; coulda been a disaster, but I have no regrets.
😂😂😂 I need more of this. you're hilarious.
Second “bride” and her while situation gave me the iiiick
As a 2024-2025 bride please keep the bridal videos coming! Need your advice on how to serve on the big day 🤍
Good Luck Dear! If you’re following Luke I’m sure you’ve got fabulous taste and great sense of style.
🔔💕🤍💕🔔
Good luck!!!!!!!
Here is my advice from someone who has watched too many of these damn shows and considers herself a know it all when it comes to bridal:
👰 Have a vision in mind. Are you wanting all lace and a garden wedding? Are you wanting something sexy for a beach/destination wedding? Or do you want a giant ballgown for that fairytale princess moment. Choose a style and start with that.
👰 Make sure you stay within your budget. I cannot recommend bridal consignment stores enough, since dresses from 5-10 years ago are still "trendy," but the wedding dress itself is really only ever worn once. What I especially love about modern brides today is that so many brides grab a gown off the rack or off the internet and wear that, or they opt for a colorful gown in black, pink, blue, etc.
👰 look for your style of dress on people who have the same body type on you. That way, you know what will and won't look good on you. But at the same time, you just have to try on a lot of dresses before you say "yes."
👰 Make sure your vision and dream come first before all else. I have some pretty wild visions for my wedding one day (including a jumpsuit), and my goal is to feel like ME on my big day. I hope you find the gown that makes you feel like Daniela -- the one that makes you tear up a bit, and the one that makes you feel like a million dollars.
I believe i read on this original clip the second bride ended up not going through with the wedding. Probably the best thing she did for herself. The father gave me some creepy weird vibes. Hoping the second girl is doing well and thriving
I personally think it's very nice idea to have a functional wedding, at the courthouse or whatever, more casual and with only the people that need to be there,, and then have a celebration where you can go all out, maybe have a second/mock ceremony. Have a functional wedding and then have a reason to dress up,, everyone happy
Getting married next year so I’m a fan of this content!! ❤
well that second one was depressing
Luke is such a mood 😂 love him so much!
I love your commentary about "that being a you problem". I 100% agree!
omgomg luke finally early! love these videos