Never Had a Boyfriend at 24 | Vlogmas Day 3
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
- 24 and never had a boyfriend... Here's why.
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I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, but it doesn't bother me anymore, I do believe that one day I will find a man to love. Just chill and enjoy life, there are plenty of benefits of being single.
which ones?
@@quinnbat less stress, saving money at holiday's etc.
That's right! Do not worry about it. You have your entire life to do that.
M 25, il be forever single by choice
Az bizony baj!
It's really hard when you're tryina get into a relationship with social anxiety
Dating:Hard Mode.
Same lol
Yes!!
Especially when you have social anxiety and agoraphobia 😔. I joined a club to work on my people skills
Exactly!! 🥲
Well...I’m 25 and turning 26 in a couple of months and still never been in a relationship. Social anxiety throughout high school played a part though. It affected how I interact with others..you know.. I’m cautious in who I choose to deal with😔
I can relate so much. I’m a grown woman in my 20s. No matter what I do I never get asked out. I feel overlooked, ugly and inadequate. I wonder why I’m invisible to men. (I’m attractive, thick, in shape, and friendly btw). I was also homeschooled from middle school to high school. I even download dating apps. It doesn’t make any sense.
Omg. I felt that exact way! trust me, one day it'll change but it's all about inner growth first
@@AshleyFlorestv thank you.
@Ugly Inferior Disgusting Subhuman #5'6 manlet not a femcel, I get sex. I’m talking about an actual date such as being taken out to restaurants and movies, and talking and getting to know each other. Meeting families. I’ve never been seriously dated by a man.
@@Dadeadbishes555 if you get sex but no commitment are your girlfriend material the type you can show to their parents?
Do you feel like your too nice? That was with me, I felt like guys always wanted girls who play games and hard to get. I'm just myself from the start and trying to be nice. I feel Like a lot of guys don't find that interesting 😅 but who cares, i found the love of my life by being myself finally and not trying to act like some queen which is not natural to me 😂
All of the people I knew that were in relationships before 22 ended in disaster
SERIOUSLY.
pretty much..... boyfriend slash ex-husband is dead now too😀
@Bobs Slong eh he shot himself one winter night but i like to think I did *shurgs
@@demetriaduma6218 uh what
I'm 21 and have been single my whole life. Starting to want to change that but not sure if it will happen anytime soon.
Trust me, that's how I felt then one day it all changed.
What's ur snap
What's ur snapchat Leah Davis. I'm 22 and go to one of the hardest colleges in America never had a girlfriend
I’m 31 years old and I have never had someone pursue me at all. I have never been engaged or even had a man propose to me at all. And I have other women asking me if I want children. And I tell them no. Because I feel that men aren’t ready for someone like me. I have high standards yep. And I’m a pre nursing student. Never been married or in a relationship. So I’m use to being by myself for a longtime.
I hope things have changed since it’s been a year. Good luck with nursing school!! I wish you all the best with future relationship!
As a guy im shocked that there are apparently so many women who are struggling with relationships? Never been asked out? Very attractive women too. I thought it was only men struggling but damn everyone out here struggling. What is going on with our society. Are men just not approaching as much? I know I don't much.
lots of men only want you for your body and don't want to take the time to get to know you and don't want commitment
17 over here, never had a boyfriend (not even a relationship) i feel like i’m not ready yet, first I want to work on my studies and career for the future! the single life is amazing, but not when your friends have boyfriends 😭
dam u cute af. Have u had a boyfriend since then? Surely somebody has tried?
I'm 19 and haven't even been close to having a boyfriend or first kiss. I'm introverted but due to my upbringing, I am pretty confident about socialising. However, I really struggle to make friends, let alone friends that are guys. I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason. I know that the right guy will come when I'm ready for it, and I'm grateful that I haven't had to go through a breakup yet, because most people who get in relationships at a young age split up anyway. I have struggled with extremely low self esteem ever since I can remember, but recently I've realised how amazing I really am and began to be proud of myself. However, I just wish that I had a guy that I could love, now that I finally love myself. At the moment though, it just doesn't seem like it's going to happen, and also I still find it a little bit hard to deal with the pressure. It's so confusing because if I feel such a desire to have a boyfriend, does it mean that I'm not happy enough with myself yet? Sorry for the rant, I know this will get lost in the middle of the comment section anyway. If you do happen do read this comment, just know that you are absolutely incredible and deserve so much! :)
Yh I'm 22 and I relate to everything you just said especially the part about not being able to make female friends and especially guy friends.
I've been single for 28 years up until 4 months ago this year. I met my very first gf doing uber of all places lol. That only lasted 3 months though 😅. I don't want to point figures put there was lessons learned in this relationship and new relationship experiences I enjoyed and others I had to get use to for sure. But overall I truly believe I handled myself well...not perfect, still had faults of my own but for my first go around in proud of myself.
It’s ok. I’m 21 and single. Forever. And honestly it’s the best thing ever. Imagine bringing home a guy to your parents that’s cringy asf
You will suffer later in your life if you avoid it now. It's the worse thing ever, excepting health problems. But wait, this is a health problem.
I get approached for sex but nobody wants a relationship
Start with that. You can't impose a relationship in day one. As many old ladies do on dating sites. It will happen or not. Try and see it.
All My friends are married and having babies on the way. I’m only 20 😭😭😭and I never dated no one. When ever they call for a friends reunion, I just don’t want to show up. Cause I’m the only single one 🥲
How old are your friends? 😧😧
@@isabellalora6533 21-23yrs old I’m now 21 so 🥲
Go to friends reunions. They might know someone that is single and they can hook you up. Generally speaking, the more people you meet, the higher the chances of you finding a partner
@@aakaarjaiswal5392 thanks for the tip. I could use more help on finding a partner that doesn’t involve drinks and party tho. Cause my friends happens to grow liking them but I’m conservative. I don’t like showing up at bars and drinking parties , so what do you suggest?
@@moonstrike999armedrabbit4 it’s good that you don’t go to bars and clubs because those are only for hookups and short term relationships. Take classes like dancing, sports, cooking etc. it’s a good way to mingle with the opposite sex. Most importantly don’t go searching for a partner just because your friends have someone. Understand what it means to be single, you have the freedom to talk to whoever you want, go wherever you want, and you have the time to become something and reshape your future. This time is precious, use it wisely. Now get to work!
Thank your for making this video, it was really eye opening. I've watched a lot of videos with this topic but and nobody has adressed their issues/inner struggles and how that hinders them in the dating scene the way you have here. It's definitely amazing that you've been able to gain hindsight in what it was that wasn't working!
I just turned 19 and I’ve never been even close to a relationship I never even dated or talked to anyone. I don’t go out enough to meet new ppl and I never talk to anyone on social media and I don’t see that changing anytime soon so I’m pretty sure I’ll be entering my 20s single. It’s definitely hard to imagine being myself seen romantically but What really hurts about it is the craving for intimacy and closeness but never getting it. Me and my friends grew up together I watched all of them progress in their love lives but I never did I thought it was fine in middle school bc relationships were childish but I noticed they were getting more and more mature as the years went by and I was still alone. As dramatic as it sounds it feels like the universe is just denying me romantic relationships it feels like a curse at this point
I know exactly what you mean. If you go to college, try to make friends with the guys there. If you go to work or church also try to be friends with the guys there. You never know what can blossom from that. I get the part about wanting intimacy. Don’t do it with someone random. Try to wait until you get into a relationship or if you want to wait until marriage, do so. You’ll feel better knowing that the guy truly cares about you and even loves you. Be hopeful. I know it’s hard but try to be.
Me right here! I relate Ashley but I'm 19 but I'm turning 20.
I turned 20 in March and never dated, it sucks :(
I’m 23 and I still don’t have a boyfriend yet . 😓
Same here
I'm 20 & never dated too, I never even had my first kiss 💀🥺
@@naangokainge Same here
I'm 21 and didn't do relationships in high school too. I've been in 3 relationships but I'm still the same shy, awkward person. How you described your first situationship was exactly how all my relationships went. Not knowing how to talk to them. Lol. I swear relationships aren't for me.
It feels kinda good to know that someone else experienced this and is in a normal relationship.
Then be my gf 🤔
I am also Like that, before I felt like it's not for me because I didn't understand what am I supposed to do to make it work?? Turned out I just looked in the wrong places, I was not compatable with most of the guys and I really had to wait to meet someone that gets me and loves me for who I am (terribly awkward and a bit introverted 😂)
I’m 25 & i learned most guys can’t give women a real relationship because they don’t know how to do that.
Facts 💯
I'm a guy and realized the same thing about women
I’m in my mid-twenties and never had a significant other, so I’m ready to be attacked😂
Same, except I'm a guy.
I am 23 and I am single I pray when I am 24 to have a boyfriend
a lot of people don’t ever experience the “teenage love” or have been on dates and have partners etc… social media and movies got us thinking everyone else is doing it and we’re missing out. In reality, I’d say up to 50% of people haven’t done any of this stuff in their life. and the other 50% that have done it would tell you that it’s not as great as people think it is.
I'm 28 thinking of getting sperm donor 😢😢😢
You're not alone, Ashley. I'm a 40 year old guy (Born in 1984) and I never dated. I'm still single. I don't even have a girlfriend. I wish I did though. People are just too rude and ignorant anymore, especially here in the U.S.A.
This is how I feel! Like I’m grown af and lonely af 🤦🏾♀️. Great video btw lmao, I relate too much , awkwardness and all. 😂
Honestly LOL! & thank u!
@@AshleyFlorestv I've never had a boyfriend, I've just went out a couple of times with one. I was too secret about it I guess
your level of self awareness is refreshing.
i've never dated a woman capable of being this critical of herself, this is a quality men like. keep at it.
20 and single
not looking for a one though, so very happy being single :))
Yassss that’s the energy!
19 and this is something i really struggle with. i always feel that i will end up alone. and it’s hard to cope with. plus the fact that my best friend and i like each other but he has a different life and we decided we can’t be anything but friends.
I’m 23 and the two people I’m closest to both have boyfriends. And my mom keeps asking me why I don’t have a boyfriend yet cause I’m an adult, etc.. Like she never really allowed me to date anyone growing up. Like the fuck did you expect? Then she likes to add on, “you went away to college and didn’t meet anyone? Most people find their significant others in college!” And I’m like, yeah that wasn’t destiny then 😂
OMG!!! Let's be friends LOL. I'm currently 22 and my mum is the same, she expects me to get married by 23/24 even though growing up she was very strict about dating.
Yeah. Strict asian immigrant parents no talking a word to boys now they're mad
Exactly. Strict about dating in high school and later in 20s they wander why you do not find someone. Well, their recipe is a disaster.
I never related to a video so much in my LIFE THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO!
I was in a relationship from 20-24 that was true love but unfortunately she ended it last year, that heart break I experienced literally shredded my heart into a million pieces. It’s a year and a half later and I still think about it everyday, I’m scared to hop into something or date cause idk if I believe in love anymore or want it anymore. It’s been cool being in solitude this last year and a half and just working on my self I’ve grown exponentially and now see the blessing in the break up and completely fine being single now, if something comes it comes I’m not looking for anything no more, I don’t even know if I want anything anymore lol...Great video tho, very insightful!
I know heartbreak hurts terribly but hopefully things are better now. Hopefully things work out better next time.
What percentage of people never had a boyfriend or girlfriend by age 25 in 2022
Why is everyone so obsessed with girlfriends and boyfriends and having lots of friends and money and hypes and popular shit?
Love yourself, that's where you start. If you can't love, or be by, yourself; why would you expect others too?
Self-love creates happiness.
Happiness opens doors for new relationships
New relationships could lead to doors with job opportunities
Which can lead to traveling
And so on
Self-love, people. It's that easy.
Stop worrying about what society thinks.
People are capable of having more than one thought. It’s entirely possible to love yourself and to still want a boyfriend. Human beings are hard-wired to be gregarious. Loneliness can even register as pain. Self-love doesn’t fix magically right everything.
This UA-camr is not coming off as pitiful, artificial or clingy to me, just honest. Self-reflective. Sometimes people are doing a few things they don’t realize they’re doing to keep themselves single and she mentioned that.
Her self-reflection might help someone else. That’s what matters.
If you’re not perfect, why do you expect others to see your worth?
Yeah, that’s how you sound.
@@rosedalinevaletine6931 "lashing" out at me isn't gonna solve that problem you're having.
I'm sorry you find it offensive, but I said nothing wrong, nor offensive.
I'm sorry that you feel the way you feel, but it's not gonna last forever.
Things always get better, yes, "before they get worse", but then they get better again. That's double the better.
Perspective.
@@4mydearlady what I was talking about is that everything starts with self-love.
Yet most people strive towards things because it's expected of them, because it's the norm.
And they rarely stop to think if it's what they really need at that moment.
It's why 9/10 relationships fail. "So you try again."
No, you work on yourself. You analyze what went wrong and you work on your flaws, you grow, you become a better person.
But no, everyone's just jumping from one into the next relationship untill they're too tired to jump any further and settle down with whomever they land with. Lying to themselves that they're happy only to become secretive alcoholics or prescription drug users. Stuck in a marriage with a person they can't really stand with whom they've got children. And that's when they start to blame the partner for the life they have.
It's meaningless, stupid and defeats the point, and purpose, of love.
You learn from faillure, you don't use it as a defense mechanism.
@@kiyaleelevyrunaya9495 Are you okay? You came off as very…toxic. And I’m hoping you’re being like this because I’m a random person on the internet and not because you really are.
You do know all I’m trying to say here is people can want love and get into relationship while still doing the work. You never stop learning and healing.
And yes, I’m also still learning and doing necessary work on myself. I plan to never stop. Everyone need to always be working on themselves. But that has nothing to do with my comment.
Many people have self love and still crave love. They want to share their well established life with someone else, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Many people are also building their lives and don’t know where they want to go, they still want love, and that’s also okay. Whatever stage we are at in life doesn’t negate the very human need to connect with another, if that’s what we want. That was my point. A point you’re well aware of.
I've been single for a year and a half now because I'm too clingy and toxic af and high school relationships are dumb 🙄. I've been working on my self and I prefer being single 1000% but if the right person comes along then I'll love being in love lol
🥵I want someone
I can’t actually find a bf idk why
same it’s so hard to find one with the same qualities as mine 🥲
Omg same ! I had a big problem with putting my defense down and accepting the love and I’m really bad at giving love because I just have a trust issues. Listen to listen and not to respond is a good thing to follow in a relationship 👍
Social media is destroying you young people’s ability to interact personally. You don’t see it but we older people do.
18 turning 19 this month never even had my first kiss 🤦🏾♀️
girly I've been there. Dw you're not missing out on much.
I don't have any relationship experience. I never care on my own but lately I have been feeling sad about it. I used to be okay with my own view but I had a lot of awful interactions with others that have harmed my self esteem.
I have to deal with underemployment, abusive family members, unhygienic home, rapid weight loss, pets, childhood problems, low self esteem, work issues, debt, and poor self image.
I never felt beautiful or desirable. I went to a girls school. I was completely different. Different race, culture, background, age, and shy. I had no friends from my previous school. All my classmates who went to the same school are friends to this day. I had to let go of my friend since kindergarten because she never had time for me like I did her. I am trying to make money, find a less depressing environment to live in and make sure I dont lose more weight since I am only 95 pounds and get sleep. I just want a place to myself where i can eat, go to sleep in peace, and feel safe. I never felt safe, loved, or protected in my life.
Myra West posted on the same subject, the other day. The only reason it's an issue is because you imagine that it's expected, or "normal"?
If you're looking for a particular person, then hang in there, because settling for less will only result in disappointment.
I feel like im ready but guys just dont seem to be interested in me im almost 20
I've been single for thirty two years. I was shy, and didn't had the comfort of money to help weal in a partner to take care of. And I was scared S.T.Ds.
I'm about to be 34 and never been in a relationship I'll admit it can be hard but I got over it
it's hard out here
Anyone out there Don’t feel bad I’m 33 and still haven’t. I go between being hard on myself and not wanting to ever date or have a family. Ppl do hit on me at times but they just want to sleep with you not take me out on dates or actually get to know me so I just have anxiety around guys and it makes me not want to bother
I‘m 25 and I never had a boyfriend. I dated people and I had like a short not serious relationship with 17 but I never had something serious or real. Idk.
I haven't had a gf in many years, over the years, i lost the desire and interest in them. I know for a guy that's unusual to say.
@@bubba283 Yeah I don’t give a f anymore if I have one or not if it happens then it happens
@@mej6400 I understand, my bf isn't around much so I feel almost single.
Am 32 and totally single /celibate. I would be happy with this if I had other close people, but I don't, really 😶
Same here! I always had some situations with guys but never managed to make it work. I felt like i maybe missed a month when they were teaching it at school since everybody around me knew how to do it 🤦🏻♀️😂😂😂 now I'm engaged and so happy! But it happened when I was finally ok with being single, I was more relax and myself
Look a man in the eyes for 3 seconds, smile, and he will respond. I do not envy young people. Tinder is screwing up men and women relations.
Pretty much... I find it hard to believe these women struggle so much.. Below average looking women still get approached by a lot of guys on dating apps.. They should obviously be able to find someone who they find attractive who has the right personality for them willing to be in a relationship... My guess is they are want a top 5% looking guy to be fully into them and have the perfect personality etc..
I’m 22 oh god what is happening to me I’m too much focus on my studies, college, and finding jobs to work. I don’t look ugly or anything, but I am too introverted and shy to what I am I going to say I can’t say hey your cute or are you single because that is disrespectful. I’m scared if that girl already have a boyfriend. Also I don’t feel like a romantic type but I feel like I’m missing an opportunity to do it.
Lol 23 an no connection other than just friends never kissed anyone and now dont meet anyone 🙂🙃
i relate too hard :( but congrats on the new relationship!!
Been single for almost 28 years and it is killing me. Ugh
Hope you find someone one day
It is easier for you as a girl. Imagine a man with social anxiety not having what it takes for the moment to happen. It just ends there. I know it is hard for a girl too, but once you accepted it will happen and continue the relation.
I'm 29 and never been in a relationship.
Same here I’m been single 23 years now shit don’t be lasting guys don’t be serious or just no connection there. We must not give up on love tho just be more patient even if it frustrating
I’m 19 and I’ve dated multiple guys on tinder but never got into a serious relationship and I feel lonely
awwww find out why you feel lonely. explore that!! it could be a lot deeper than you think. maybe u gotta heal
Pfft at least guys took you out in dates girl 34 years old and never been taken out on a date even tho I’ve had experience with guys …goes to show how much these guys valued me smh
@@AshleyFlorestv I'm a guy who's dated multiple girls, but was never happy, I just don't know what to think, something doesn't feel right or feels missing.
I know that feeling so I saved my money and travelled overseas the problem solved !
No wonder you look familiar! I'm like why am I not subscribed to you? I swear I've seen you before. 🙂You're the amateur guru!
lmao welcome back!!
@@AshleyFlorestv I haven't had a gf in almost 20 years, I realized I'd rather hang out with guys, I just lost interest, I don't know , I just got more comfortable around other guys.
whats the point of being in a relationship anyways
this is a genuine question. been single for 23 years. once they show a hint of interest, i shut them off. im awkward and doesnt know how to act around ppl. i cant even imagine myself being in a relationship. i admit feeling lonely sometimes, but most of the time, im glad im not with anyone
@@kate-kk6wx I've been single about that long, I haven't had a gf in about 18 years, I've realized I have no interest in them is why. But I don't tell many that that's why I dont.
I've never used tinder, my boyfriend's sister used it and said it wasn't good at all.
37 years
Be glad that as a woman you're not expected to open your mouth first in front of a guy or escalate anything
That has nothing to do with being single. I ask guys out all the time and am successful. Doesn't mean I desire a relationship.
@@orangeblossom5362 yeah but that normally doesn't happen, that typically is always the guy's role, I was just speaking of my resentment of how one sided it is
@@nobodysperfect06 both my ex gfs who asked me out always asked me out through a mutual friend asking me if I liked them and I replied back through that mutual friend so ueah in my experience, girls will never approach you directly
Try 32 and still single. But thats my own fault.
I hope I get to experience a real relationship I’m only 20 n since middle school through high school I just either talked to people n had crushes but it never went anywhere , even now that’s how it is n I hate to say it but I gave up looking for love or letting it come to me . N I agree I use to kno how to act around guys but once I started having social anxiety really bad that started playing a part in my life
The problem is you want a top 5% looking guy to be charismatic, hilarious and fully into you.. it doesn't work like this in reality unless you're a very good looking woman... Lower your standards to a top 15% looking guy, and don't expect him to have the perfect personality, and you will be alright....
wow you are gorgeous, if it can happen to you it can happen to anyone.
Notif gang ❤
awe I remember that year u went on live nye :( it was fun tho lol
I just be feeling left out most of my friends be in relationships n then there’s me always single.
Just curious, what is your personality type by MBTI?
I forgot the abbreviations but it’s the logican! I did the test in this vid and say what it is :) ua-cam.com/video/B1tFwkv4OEE/v-deo.html
I bet you’re an infj
32 seems to be the age boys become men. But the reality is what she said about HS, nobody was good enough for her. No wonder guys have such a hard time approaching girls and women.
I can definitely relate!!!!
Girl you are so beautiful 🤩
So she lacked social skills and because of this she was not able to get in early on and build up experience.
She masked her short comings by convincing herself that she was to good for all the boys at her school.
Sad, given the timeframe set by female biology a young woman really needs to hit the ground running.
Great video thank you for sharing.
I'm 25 and never been in a relationship 😅😅. It's not funny because i feel lonely at times
Where you live ?
I am 30 know i am trying to get to know some one soon I hope that i can try and be friends first
Relationship 24 boyfriend happy family Jessica till
I'm a guy I had my first relationship at 10 years old and my second one at 16....both were intiated by light skin girls
I am 40 never had any of it
Just came across this as I’ve just come out of another situationship 😅
Love your stream
Nonsense from a hookup queen
This is like text book narcissist live in video. All these weasel words. Alter definitions. Entitlement. Solipsism. Spoiledness
There are some really sick mentality I'll undiagnosed people walking about our there
From Nm. Talked to a girl from cali for about 8 years. Finally went to see her at 25...... I was a virgin lol 🤣 It happens
clickbait
How?
@@AshleyFlorestv you are in relationship. And before that you went on dates. You don't have a problem.
@@artemsmirnov1134 first of all, I’m currently single LOL. And when I was referring to being single and going on dates, the two can co-exist? Going on dates doesn’t mean you’re not single??just because it didn’t relate to you it does not mean it was click bait. I talked about my experiences as a single woman up until 24. The title is perfectly fitting. If you misunderstood it, I’m sorry. But it’s not clickbait.
@@artemsmirnov1134 in most of these videos made by women, they either have multiple bodies or been on numerous dates. Just no title.
Yeah? cry me a river when you're in your 40's And still haven't found a man. Then you'll know how a lot of us men feel.
Yesss boo tear up romance superficiality lol
Sisssss 🤣😍🥰🤩