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LIFE LESSONS IN THE MALDIVES AND WHY IVE BEEN UNHAPPY SO LONG | VICTORIA
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We've been waiting to have a little sunshine and some down time for such a long time now and we were lucky enough to return to one of our favourite resorts in the Maldives - The Conrad Maldives Rangali! Join us for a couple of work moments, lots of downtime and even more fashion. I'm thrilled that this vlog is partly sponsored by Tommy Hilfiger in honour of their newest Summer collection - the perfect looks for our couples Holiday. As always you can find all of the links to everything we wore below in order of appearance! x
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Thank you so much for the support you always give to me - love you all so much ❤
It sounds mad to say but I hope one day Alex and Vic go on holiday and we don't see any of it. Just a holiday for them with no vlog or content at all.
Exactly 😊
My partner is a tv cameraman and you rarely see us holidaying because he won’t pick up a camera and I can’t be bothered 😂
They have to pay their bills
And I doubt they would advertise it if they did
Yep I want them to go to Bali - live on the beach no power just ocean beach and life stops . Xx
@@juliahunt456 agreed. There's a lifestyle to fund. Very few moves without financial gain. I often look at things like the Coach endorsements and recognize this is off (luxury) brand.
A philosopher once said that if you are depressed then you are living in the past, if you are anxious then you are living in the future, and if you are at peace then you are living in the present
Thank you so much for opening up and talking about how you’ve been feeling. It’s so clear how hard you’ve worked over the years. I’ve recently turned 38, but turning 38 years and 10 days old was something I thought about for a long time. My dad passed away when I was 9. He was 38 years and 10 days old. It’s made me realise how short life is, how much we have to embrace it as much as possible xx
Sending you so much love, thank you for sharing here and it sounds like you're someone he would be intensely proud of xx
Victoria, I lived life in the fast lane all over the USA and Europe for 22 years and have no regrets. I always said, Live like you are dying! As the expression goes "Take the trip, Buy the Shoes, Eat the Cake" I am 69 now and my last 9 years have been consumed my health problems. Varied and many, non stop. I was a swim suit model, a beauty contestant, and a flight attendant for 15-20 years. It goes fast. Enjoy your exquisite beauty, youth, success, and your loving marriage!! You work so hard. You deserve all the best life has to offer Victoria. Sending lots of love ! Jannieo from Maine, USA
Don’t wait until you’re older. “Older” is not guaranteed us. My daughter died at 33. You are in a fortunate position to be the master of your own time, as well as having some financial security. While I absolutely adore your posts, and so appreciate your content and professionalism no job/career is worth harming your marriage and your physical and mental health. I’m 66 years old and spent the better part of 25 years caring for a sick child, aging mother and mother-in-law. My health suffered, I developed severe anxiety, and our marriage was a roller coaster. All while working a more than full-time job as the Director of Corporate Advertising at a major company. We are both now older and retired from our careers. We’ve lost our only child. But thank heaven still have each other. If you can do it now, do it. You will never regret it. Love your Momma in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. 😘 P.S. No filming or posting from Copenhagen. 😀 That’s your next challenge, to truly get away and disconnect.
It is such an valuable point that "nothing is promised". My grandfather was 60 when he died. My grandmother barely had a retirement with him before he passed. It's so important to enjoy life now (and to take breaks and time with family), not just in the future.
I’m so sorry lovely ❤️❤️
As someone who is a silent viewer and never comments, I just want to say I can’t wait for the day Vic hits 1 million subscribers. She is so deserving of it with her hard working, elegant ambition and unmovable sense of self. I am in my early 20s and only hope to find the confidence and humbled success that you so perfectly role model, and that is exemplified even more about the chat in this video about living life to the fullest right now.
Oh Lorna this is so kind of you thank you for being here xxx
I’m glad you’re taking time to examine your life and make changes. Very few people do this 🥰
Oh sweetheart, I wanted to reach out and hug you when you were getting upset, it brought tears to my eyes too. I'm 59 this year and I don't know where life has gone, I've had some lovely times but keep thinking "when this happens" or "when that happens" but I have to make it happen before it's too late. Someone said the other day "You have two lives, and your real life starts when you realise you only have one". I've lost friends too young and when that happens you determine to live for the moment, then life's routine takes over again. Don't let it, make this a change that becomes the norm. Live for now and relish your days without them passing by in a mad rush xx
Absolutely beautiful comment, thankyou so much Helen x
I love this “You have two lives, but your real life starts when you realise you only have one” … words to live by!!! ❤
Hi Vic. You are so right. You have to live for the now. I retired last year at 59 with lots of plans to do all the things we had dreamed about and saved for. 6 weeks ago I was diagnosed with cancer and I don't know when I will be able to do any of that stuff. Please live your life with balance and take holidays and do stuff that doesn't require an Instagram post ❤❤
Sending you so much love Jacqueline, thinking of you and sending you positive vibes whenever you need them xx
Definitely agree with the people saying you guys need to do more trips together & not share it with us, just do something special for you guys. Tomorrow is not promised to any of us!!! One of my beautiful friends who I went right through school with lost her husband 5 years ago at age 42, he was fit & healthy, he was earning great money in his job & yet he had a brain aneurysm with absolutely no warning!!! Don’t take each other for granted & make a conscious decision put your relationship ahead of everything else 💕
I think the reason why the girls’ advice hit so hard this time was because you were READY for it. You were ready to hear it, understand it, and act on it. I’ve noticed that with myself as I’ve gotten older. Certain things just hit so hard now whereas before, when I was younger, I just wasn’t ready or prepared enough or experienced enough to take advice in and really digest it (let alone act on it).
Your vulnerability and honesty in this vlog is is astoundingly gorgeous, Vic. Lately, I've found myself living for the future that may never come, yet have not had the courage to admit to that fact the way you have. Thank you for inspiring me to reflect on this, for considering the bigger picture. My oldest child is going to university in the fall, and my youngest may be doing the same thing one year from now. Time is finite. I guess it's time to carpe diem!
Thank you for talking about this Vic. 💚 I’m 38 and my mum has terminal ovarian cancer, and it’s made me hyper aware that every day counts and that you have to live your life for yourself, not for anyone else.
I don’t relate much to many influencers, but as a fellow child-free female business owner in their 30s, your content absolutely resonates with me and I love your honesty - so thank you for making me feel a bit more like I’m not the only one who feels the way I do. 💚
Sending you and your Mum so much love babe, thinking of you xxx
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Victoria, I hardly ever comment but I'm glad you've had a realization and you're making some changes. It's true, many people leave us too soon and we don't know when our time will come. My approach and way of "honoring" them is by living life to the fullest and enjoying it every single day because you never know what might happen. Life is too short to be spent worrying about stupid shit and doing things you don't like. I ask myself "if I die tomorrow, would I die happy"? And the answer is yes.
I see you both working incredibly hard! I see you have a really strong work ethic and you're not just in it for the likes and the glamour. But you also deserve a break! Maybe something that could further help are clearer boundaries and separation between when you're working and when you're not. Since you work and live together, maybe choosing certain days/times of day as off or places as off limits etc. Could help create more down time - I know life as an entrepreneur is non-stop which is why it's so important to create those moments of rest. Wishing you all the best with it!
Victoria I love what you had to say about living life for today. Never had truer words been spoken! It is so true. I won’t bore you with my trials and tribulations, just know that all anyone really has guaranteed is today. Live life every day exactly as you wish, happiness comes in the small moments along the way while you’re doing that😘
Thank you for taking us along and appreciate the honesty! I hope there is a second holiday planned that is truly offline ;) Something really powerful about turning off and directing *all* intention and energy to just you and your partner. No shoots. No work. No vlogging. And most importantly - you deserve it!!
They probably do take trips without vlogging. And probably fairly often, long weekends for instance. Why wouldn’t they. It makes sense…
Hi Victoria! I'm facing depression and your testimony helped me more than any conversation people have with me to motivate me. U inspire me a lot! thanks for motivating me
I really started tearing up when you did. I think society pushes us to be working all the time and make as much money as we can that we forget to take time for ourselves. Like yes money is important but you will be never get that time back with your friends and family so truly cherish that time with them!
I love the extra Alex content - he's so sweet and smart and funny. Love the two of you together.
You are the sweetest person. I'm a hospice nurse and I see people in their 20's, 30's, 40's and so on dying every day. Please live for now and make the most of every second. You so deserve to! Lots of love to you and Alex xx
Thank you for talking about this, Vic, it is so important! I think our generation struggles with this so much because we feel like we have to compensate for something. I was crying along with you talking about your grandparents, so enormously poignant. I think about it with my folks as well - my mother has dementia and I know my dad didn't see things panning out this way for their lives after he retired. It's a shocking life lesson at any time, but even more so when it's "too late" so to speak. I am so happy that you're not waiting until then. Grab life by the balls, babe! xx
Glad you have had an awakening about your life. Also be aware that if you didn't post on You Tube for a week or two, we are not all going to unsubscribe. This is YOUR life and we all want you to live it. x
Victoria you made me tear up. My brother in law was a work aholic to the point where he would take holidays then go into work. He was diagnosed with prostrate cancer and passed away soon after. I will never forget one of the last things he said which was "The one thing that I regret is working so hard and not spending time and making memories with my family" Please take the time to just Be...none of us know what's around the corner. Look after you and your husband ❤🌻🌻🌻
Oh gosh I am so sorry to hear that lovely, this really hits home doesn't it xx
Victoria, this was so beautiful. Also, something to consider is that when you turn something down, it opens that opportunity up for someone else. What a blessing that is, knowing that the job could be helping someone else at the same time as not doing it helps you to relax. Just something that popped into my head. Hope you had an amazing vacation!!! 💜
Dearest Victoria I am 60 ! Please don’t put anything on hold to await that time for things that bring you joy ~ that bring you both joy. Being 60 , as I am, is not horrid ~ but the time left is certainly less unlike when you are in your 30’s. Do things that plug you in regularly so you get less drained. Not the other way round. Make your days count ~ but that count in your meaning of count. It’s great to have goals and fabulous aims … but we actually only truly have the ‘meantime’ and it’s the meantime that we need joy in order to deal with all the other stuff. Marinate in more mango time my lovely xxx This is all said in love to you both xxx
I am 65 and totally concur with your comments. I know its cliche but time really goes by soooo fast.
Totally agree, I’m 56. I have watched both my brother and sister-in-law die of cancer. They were both in their early 60’s. They were both looking forward to selling their lake house and traveling.😢 Do things now and live. ❤
I concur, also being 65, there is no time to waste ☺️
I’m 65 and totally agree with your comments. Enjoy your all of your life and always keep it in balance.
@@debfletcher2607 I like that Vintage Vixens!
I’m proud of you vic, for opening up and getting vulnerable, going on a full on vacation and letting yourself enjoy life. I completely get it. Working so hard because you love what you do often gets tangled in the concept of fulfillment. But you are you. You are not your job as much as it might feel like it. ❤❤❤
Just remember that you’re not letting ANYONE down if you don’t film for a couple of weeks. It’s okay to not vlog your holidays sometimes and just take time for you and Alex. I felt so sad when you spoke about your Nan as the same thing happened to my grandparents . Everyone is entitled to their own privacy and time off from their job, whatever it is.
I vote that should Victoria try and vlog her next holiday we should all mute the video and turn our backs in protest🤷🏻♀️🤣🤣. Seriously though we will be here when you get back.🥂
Hi Victoria. Life is so short and we do not have any guarantee of tomorrow. My sister died at 38 unexpectedly from undiagnosed and untreated leukemia. She always lived life to the fullest. She loved deeply and did everything she loved without fear. I am happy to know she packed so much life experience into such a short time. Start enjoying yourself now! Thank you for your lovely videos.
Sending you the biggest cuddle Michelle, I'm so sorry you had to go through such a huge loss. Your sister sounds like the sort of person I would have loved to have known and would have inspired me to do more with my life! xx
We can never get the past back. I think the pandemic has really opened up so many people’s eyes on what their quality of life is, what they want and don’t want, and there’s a huge culture shift happening. I’ve always tried to put myself first, but I now have the opportunity, due to remote work, to start making a lifelong dream come true for myself. To live part time near the ocean, to travel, to spend my time as intentionally as possible. I have no regrets about how I’ve spent the past. But I’m taking more control over my future and really putting my wants, needs, and dreams above all else.
I love the epiphany you came to. I remember years ago now posting on a comment on one of your blogs, saying that I hoped you could find a balance to enjoy everything you work so hard for, and to enjoy it now, not later.
What a gorgeous vacation destination! So glad you and Alex “made” the time to vacation or as you all call it, have a holiday and reconnect. You all look so relaxed and enjoying every moment together. Work life balance is so important not only physically but mentally. Thanks for taking us along on this amazing “holiday.”
This is the second time within days where I have watched or read someone say “live for today” forget the negative things that have happened today and stop worrying about what will happen tomorrow. Taking it as a big sign. I need to be present.
Same! Need to not let the little things overturn all the good! xx
I’m thrilled to see you two on holiday. I’m thankful Suzie and Josie were able to help you shift your mindset. To be honest I’ve been concerned about you for a while. I’ve been with you for a long time so I have seen the stress of the last couple years build up. I’m so pleased you’ll be taking more time off. I know you love fashion week but I feel your choice to do less shows will not only be easier on you the content will be easier to keep up with and enjoy. I’m sure we all just want you happy and healthy love. Cheers
Oh sweet girl, you’ve really hit me in the feels. I hope you now start living your life to the fullest, just as you deserve ❤
I only ever watch the shorts but casually watched this vlog and enjoyed it so mcuh! Thank you for being such a sweet and kind soul. I have been feeling a little blue lately and watching your shorts gives my day a pop of color!
Best wishes ❤️
Thank you for being vulnerable and open to your true feelings. My mom has cancer and I took time off to look after her. Life is short and goes by fast and I know you are grateful for everything life has given you, but realising that you need to appreciate the people closest to you, this is precious. By the way Alex’s feet are pretty enough for modelling 🥰
I love your Maldives vlogs so much. A lot of people are commenting some really beautiful, profound things but I just wanted to say that every time you go there I’m inspired to someday get there myself
Maldives looks so dreamy and calm. So glad you and Alex are taking time for yourselves. Both of you work so hard, you deserve this. Enjoy every moment!💚😊
Victoria…..I’m so happy for you and Alex…..learning to enjoy your life. You are both the hardest workers in the industry but it’s all for naut if you’re not enjoying the now. Joy IS the reason for working so hard. As your other stories …..my parents were literally three weeks away from “being able to start enjoying life”, when my mother suddenly died at 66. So she missed out on so much and my dad never did do any of the travelling that they’d been waiting to do and has literally been depressed for the past 14 years….exactly like your grandparents. My dad is now 84 and terminally ill. Don’t delay joy. ENJOY your life now snd always. It’s THE reason for working so hard. You can afford it, at such a young age…..you deserve two long vacations a year already. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️
Thank you for opening your heart and story to us.
Oh babe, gosh this really hit hard. I am so so sorry your family had to go through that, life can be so unfair xx
Only half way through but I am crying. Glad to hear you talk this way and hope you continue to enjoy some holiday time with Alex separate to work. Like you said live for today tomorrow may never come. You don’t want to look back and regret anything. You work so hard so you can enjoy time off. Don’t wait till your too old to enjoy it. Relatable as always sending love and hugs x
The Maldives is so beautiful.
Your jobs are so pressurised and you always have to be on it, that always comes with a cost. What I can share is it is for you to set your priorities. I had a similar pressurised job and your real life should never be compromised over the job. It took me a longtime to realise this. Alex is your anchor, you get one life love, laugh and live x
Aw Viva, I hear you and feel you....when you lose someone you just never recover but you do tent to view things from completely different perspective and it's so sad we have to expierence to see and understand this. Life is so short and yet so fast and so much pressures but we got to enjoy somehow and yes yes for doing your thing take time off as much as you can, work is always going to be there. Sometimes we r grabbing too much and what for?!!! Health wellbeing and family always comes first. Also can I just say, I have watched your videos for a while now and it's so nice to see you engaging with your vulnerable side, it's real and can relatable. Thanks for sharing. Be kind to yourself and enjoy. Big hugs and love x x x
Being self employed can be a double edged sword. You have the freedom to choose which jobs to accept but also never know when the next opportunity will surface, so I rarely said no unless scheduling was impossible. I also had a really hard time turning down work to take time off... and subsequently rarely if ever took time off. However, I believe work/life balance is truly key to happiness on all levels... physical health, mental health, family relationships, friendships, etc.
Being truly present and making the most of your holiday (with tiny bits of work) looks like it was the perfect balance for you! So proud it clicked for you and hope this will help in making the burnouts less often! I think it’s great you picking favorites over quantity for future fashion weeks. I would much rather watch you not be constantly in a rush and truly enjoy the whole process more! Balance is sometimes very difficult. I think living for today, being really present and appreciating everything fully but still working for the future makes the most sense for me. I have definitely found a little balance goes a very long way! So happy you have found your perfect holiday! 💗💗💗
You guys are my absolute fav. I'm 37 and suddenly lost my dad in a cycling accident last year. As horrendous as it has been it has really opened my eyes that we are not on this planet forever so I'm now making every effort possible to live in the present and make special memories with my husband, family and friends. Sending love xx
Gosh Heather I am so so sorry for your loss, thank you for taking a moment to share - so appreciate you xx
@VictoriaMagrath thank you Victoria. I really appreciate the reply. On a positive note you have given us major honeymoon inspo when we get planning it.
I'm so happy you have a little joy to look forward to! Any questions let me know - always happy to chat xx
Thank you for being so vulnerable. I am not sure how many of us realize the stress involved in your work. Yes, it looks so glamorous. But, reality is usually very different than the camera portrays. Our mental health is so important. Life is so short. Enjoy the fruits of your labors!
I feel the same way❤ I heard of people working so hard and retiring and then not fulfilling their dreams. Every day is a gift and I realized a couple years ago that I love for today. I love to travel and I am 35 and have a toddler and newborn and yearning to travel next year. I’ll be traveling again once my baby is 1 yrs old, but I’m passionate about living my dreams now and having my kids be a part of that dream.
I'm so glad you two finally are enjoying some time off. I'm 60 and my mother passed when I was 21 she was 59. I try to travel 2 or 3 times a year when the budget allows it, clean my head and enjoy. Life is difficult so taking a break it's a must! The place is magical really, I hope one day I'll see it for myself. Love the outfits and the hair and you two are the cutest🥰🥰
OH VICTORIA!!! Im just been praying and hoping that this realization has and will come!!!! YOU AND ALEX, come first!! Life is so short. I know that is said so much. At 57 I can tell You it's true. My children are grown. They are the age of You and Alex. I am soooo happy that You are Happy!! ❤❤ Your Amazing ❤
Love you the most because you are so real. Being vulnerable takes a lot of courage and I commend you for sharing through these hard times and others stories that are tough too. Definitely relatable. ❤️ so glad you and Alex are having these self actualizing moments and shifting the trajectory together. Enjoying these moments and creating these special memories makes it all worth it. You had me in tears 😢 xo
What a truly genuine vlog. It was such an eye opener to the work demands of a couple who are both brand ambassadors, shoot, edit & create their own content and narrative.
Thank you for sharing the epiphany you had on finding joy and fulfilment in what you do and spending quality time with those you love. Don’t wait. For some it might be taking holidays, others it might be a picnic with family & friends, a planned date night, motorbike rides…..you can choose your own adventure. Go outside & experience life. A beautiful message. ❤
Loved this video. The older you get, the faster life goes by at an alarming speed. Enjoy the present!
I got so emotional with you. It is something I always say to myself. Im so scared of the future and possible sickness and death that I dont even get to enjoy my day to day life. And I have to start to remind myself to enjoy every single day. ❤
And why do we alaways WAIT. Wait for the weekend, wait for a holiday, wait for a stupid package to make us more happy. Its so stupid. Everyday is Life. Impactful important time. ❤
Victoria and Alex thanks for sharing your beautiful holiday with me. So happy for you both! Getting away as a couple is so important. It's wonderful to see how much you value each other. Really like the Tommy Hilfiger pieces. Thanks for sharing your joy❤
This was a teary-eyed video for me. I love that you surround yourself with the best girls who lift you up and God bless them for that timely reminder to you. I’m happy you both took this trip to spend time together. You and Alex look so happy and I truly see the joy radiating between you two. Keep it up and when you feel that burnout coming, take a quick breather, even if it’s a mini staycation locally.
also thank you for the reminder to live fully everyday.
I've never seen anything so beautifully done as the bed with palm fronds and flower petals. That was amazing.... ! Really a blissful destination, enjoy and well deserved! xo
the difference is that it came from you -- you saying what you want. Being old and having worked hard for a long time (and having heard the same things) there are many benefits that people who don't work hard don't understand, like getting to write your own ticket, better work relationships, money for downturns, etc. So I support & adnire you & your husband both working hard and all that you've created.
I work in Hospice. Believe me, we don't know if we will have later. People pass young, very young everyday. I think you may not realize that you are still working. I recommend you unplug sometimes and live life like you would if social media didn't exist.
Thankyou ❤️❤️
Just beautiful ❤. Your true friends/friendship, the realisation, your words.
Good advice from your friends ❤️ You deserve to take time off Victoria and don’t ever feel guilty about that! Love seeing you two so happy 🥰
Lovely seeing you both together. Remember your other half will always be the most VALUABLE thing you’ll ever have ........ spend time together and that’s the secret ♥️
Enjoy every moment of your life , enjoy those holidays , live for now x
I’m 51 , have an amazing life no children , happily married and had great holidays x.
Diagnosed last year with Myeloma life has changed , holidays limited but still very positive and living my best life x
Love your vlogs and continue doing what you do but what is right for you x
Sending you love and joy Sharon - thinking of you xx
Victoria most of us has got this moment at some point in lives that we realise what is the most important thing and why we are not enjoying life now but instead we are constantly waiting for better times to come or to do more and keep “ happiness “ for later unfortunately nobody knows how much time we have left and it’s so beautiful what you said, maybe someone will listen your story and think 🤔 about their life ❤
You’re so lovely person and you seem really happy xxx
Thank you babe, really appreciate you being so kind xx
Please enjoy it now don’t wait I’m an older lady 52 and I’m too tired at times still juggling it all although my kids have grown up I now still have a full time job and a very frail dad to look after so I often wonder when does it get easier. I’ve concluded it doesn’t there will always be something so please take time now as you don’t know what’s around the corner and seeing Alex in that lovely blue shirt wow so enjoy each other now - much love xxxxx
Best video you have ever made. Love how real both of you are and humble. Enjoy more holidays girl you both have worked so hard for it ❤ Gorgeous people 💕 xx
The change in you in so obvious to see. You look happy, relaxed and content. Thank you for being so honest with how you've been feeling, and it shows to everyone how hard you and your team work all year round. Defo need to continue taking time for yourself and your loved ones.
enjoy x
As a dual career couple, since probably age 30... we've stayed on a strict schedule of taking off at least a week (if travel, would try to schedule in both weekends as well to make it 10 days with air) EVERY quarter... so 3 months apart. Your mind, body, spirit needs that break... usually took a couple days before felt free (read, play games/cards, explore area, hike, ski, swim, eat out, show/tour/movie/music, wee bit of shopping.)
The way Alex looks at Victoria with utter love is what we all want 🥰
your long chat.. thank you for sharing. def helps put things into perspective and see how I can enjoy life more this year
I know you’ve been told loads of stories, but I just wanted to say that my Mum died when she was 62 and never got to enjoy her retirement. We got some money from selling her house which I’d give away to have her back in a heartbeat, but seeing as she did not get to enjoy the rest of her life, I’m using the money to make sure I enjoy mine as tomorrow is never promised. Sending lots of love and glad you had an amazing time ❤ xxxx
Gosh Leanne I'm so sorry for your loss, I bet your Mum would love to know that you're making that choice xx
@@VictoriaMagrath thank you ❤️ and yes I think she’s proud 😊 x
Had to watch this in bits whilst on holiday in Kefalonia. Thank you for doing a long one. Loved it so much. The clothes and the hotel look amazing.
Please enjoy your life now!!! My dad died at 56, my brother at 64 and it has made me so scared that I am not getting the most out of life. I am 60 now and I wish I had enjoyed my life more!!! Please enjoy life, embrace all the things that being young brings juxxxx
Sending so much love to you Julia xx
Great video as always. Definitely take time for yourself. Work can be fun but quality time is so priceless. You can look at it from a really bleak perspective....my brother at 55 found out he was riddled with cancer at xmas, he died January 16th. He told me to live life as we never know when it's game over. Live now with your loved ones. Sounds corny but hold eachother close. Very emotional but totally relatable vlog xx
The chairs are perfect, as is the rest of the dining room, and every other renovated space in your lovely home. Congratulations ❤
Thank you for speaking the truth what alot of us actually feel. I had a lovely upbringing but we are brought up to work for our future, when we are old! We need to work yes but live and have fun while you are young & healthy. I'm 48 & trying to do this more. Kind regards from Leeds UK 💕.
♥️ retaking your power, it’s a beautiful thing to get to watch. Life is for you and yours, no one else x
Love this xx
As I continually say to my Dad, just cause you’ve got a phone it doesn’t mean that you are available all the time. Been taking my own advice the last 6 weeks…. The power of ‘No’ is incredible.
It’s SO true. Both of my grandparents died at 67 from Cancer and they have never been able to see me graduate, get my dream job or anything but I am always the last person to ‘live life’ and maybe I really need too. I need to be more free x
You had me close to tears when you said about don't wait for tomorrow enjoy today because your right I feel like iv been wasting my days I do it always tomorrow il do it next week then you wake up and your 49 broken up body and mind I think no more so I'm taking a page out of your book love you x
I’m so glad I started following you so long ago. You are the most real honest normal person I follow. ❤❤
Glad you realized how precious life and time is....a lot of people don't. Time goes by so quickly, one minute your 20 something and in a flash your 60 and wondering where the time went?? My mom passed away at the very young age of 28 and my dad at 58. His mom and dad passed in their 50's. My mothers parents both passed in their early 70"s, they adopted my mom at late age so they passed when I was 4 or 5. So I never knew them and I wasn't born when my fathers parents died. Anyway I always said Im going to enjoy life as much as I can, and I did, I went to every concert, partied reasonably and travelled. I turned 60 last year and found a job that I love, work only about 30hrs a week, have every other Friday off and last week we bought a hot tub! I am doing my best to be happy~ I tell my step kids all the time, go to the concerts, travel and have fun because as you said nothing is guaranteed. Now, remember this, every time you start working to hard, go back to this video at 35:38 and WATCH AND LISTEN and get back on track! 🙂
19:54 Wow Victoria &Alex how absolutely beautiful this is what life is all about. Enjoy, make memories and live your life to the fullest. Sending you both all the best❤❤
So happy you've decided to put your life now as a priority. I live a completely different life to you but I decided during covid that I would go back to work full time for a bit to enjoy the time now with my daughter as life goes by too fast
Hi Victoria,wow Maldives looked amazing and so happy you both enjoyed your trip away . Thankyou for taking us all with you , and sharing on how you feel about life and what life is like for each person xx❤
Appreciate that you vlogged and transported us with you to the Maldives 🥰🥰🥰
Loved this raw honest chat. One of my fave moments watching you. We have lost 4 close family members quite suddenly in the last few years and I’m trying to move into this mindset as well. Live for today ❤️
SOOOOOOO thrilled you’re allowing yourselves quality time to reconnect. Am absolutely delighted to see it. Good for you . 👌☺️👏
Oh Victoria when you started to cry so did I. After the sudden death of our son at 9 and 1/2 years of age, my husband and I and his brother decided we were going to live life to the fullest. I found part time work so I could be there more for my son and we planned trips etc. Life is so precious so yes enjoy it to its fullest while you can. Im so glad Josie and Susie were able to talk to you about working so hard. That's what true friends do. Thank you for sharing your holiday with us. 🇨🇦❤
Oh Debbie my goodness what a heartbreaking loss to go through, I am so so sorry but I bet your son would be so proud of you living life that way xx
@@VictoriaMagrath thank you for your lovely words. ❤️
You are a professional and a lovely sensitive woman, you are so right, most of us are guilty of not living our lives and enjoying the moment.
As a home care nurse taking care of old people, I truly think that traveling is not the ultimate goal to be happy in life. It is good to travel and be inspired of what is nice to see and to relax. But being away to forget about everything is both good and bad because it makes daily living seemingly boring/daunting... what I have learned from visiting hundreds of houses of old people is that nothing beats living in what you/one would consider paradise. At 45, I now invest in making my home private, calming and ready for retirement. When I do take vacations, I dont really take so much memorabilias/nor pictures...I soak it in. The memorabilias will some day end up in thrift stores and the phone or social media could only hold so much pictures. My memory of vacations will fade, but the feeling that I lived in that moment will remain..the best part of making the home the paradise you always want to go to is that it will make that living moment part of the daily life...
Just gorgeous, adore this so much xx
Looks like you’ve had a fantastic time and I’m glad you both got to chill and relax
Such a special vlog 💕 you work so bloody hard, you definitely need and deserve all the breaks! Totally with you on living in the moment xx
Wonderful holiday and beautiful outfits to match!! Thanks for sharing and Blessings! 😍
Thank you for this openly candid vlog. Such a reminder to be present and not but off for tomorrow (which isn't promised). You and Alex both work hard, you both deserve to play harder from time to time ❤
This video really has resonated with me so so much. I appreciate your honesty about overworking and not making the time to live for today. So easy to get wrapped up in work/everyday life and not take a moment for yourself. I just took my mom on a girls vacation last week, just the two of us.. because I've been feeling so much lately like time is just passing us by so quickly. I'm 35 and starting to realize that time is flying by! Thank for reminding me that its so important to have these times, especially with those who are alive and well! Making memories and spending time with those who matter is just so important as we get older. Hoping you continue to set the time aside for yourself and all those who you love. Xo
This video couldn't have come at a more appropriate time for me (and for a lot of people!). Everything you said about living life for today is something that is one of the "simplest" ideas but the absolute hardest to fulfill. Thank you for the reminder!!!
Victoria your inspirational to many on soooo many levels.
I’ve loved this💫😎🌴 opportunity to take myself on a mental vacation seeing your 🩵beautiful content.
I’m a young 63 and living for the now is absolutely the truth to life. I’m going to show this to my partner in hope it will trigger some clarity for him too about what you so eloquently expressed
🦋☺️your an earth angel 😇✨
Bless you, Victoria!! Yes!! LIVE YOUR LIFE OUT LOUD AND PROUD TO THE FULLEST!! Life is too short for anything else!! Thanks for sharing your heart!! ❤
Sending you all the love! Both of you! I teared up with you as you spoke so passionately about living in the moment and it’s so so so important! You are amazing and you absolutely deserve to enjoy and truly LIVE your beautiful life for you and do WHATEVER recharges your batteries! Xoxo. ❤
Wow I have just got round to watching your video, finally a day off work. Firstly what a beautiful place. Most importantly what a beautiful video of you both and the beautiful message that you talked about. I was in tears watching your message but so so true. If everyone could just take that little message regardless of your lifestyle it is so important. Thank you and continue to be you. ❤
You’re a wonderfully sweet and honest person , I hope you live a life that makes you happy ❤
Good for you, Victoria! You and Alex work very hard. Play hard on the journey, too. Brilliant!