Do Japanese men like less smart women?
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
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Please don't ever feel you need to apologize for speaking your mother tongue. Languages are beautiful. Japanese is beautiful, and it was enjoyable to see how your tone, inflection, mannerisms, etc., changed when you switched to it. It made me ponder studying languages again.
In fact,there are many men who prefer less intelligent women due to their own insecurities, but it’s an international thing,not only Japanese. So, dear ladies, just focus on mentally strong and confident men who aren’t afraid of being with smart women and that’s it)
Asian boss! Santi, the look on your face is priceless! 😂
I like you. You’re smart💜
Asian Boss go out and ask people’s opinion out on the street. They do not say their own personal opinion on the matters, they just report what people believe and why. Many men that gave their opinion did say that they like girls that are naïve, and young looking and kawaii immature. Not all men but some. To the point that some women even act that way even though their real personality is not like that.
Ah...ah... Santi-san got lost in his Japanese mind space again. 😅 帰ってください、サンティさん。
The topic itself is interesting but it's not limited to just Japan. I notice a lot of these types of interviews being directed towards East Asians but not so much towards people of other countries -- so maybe I can understand even a bit of why you seem frustrated.
I think the "cute and dumb" girl is more of a fantasy. Especially in anime, a lot of the dumb, weak, yet cute characters are very popular among men, but most Japanese women don't act that way at all. It's like what you see in American cartoons, there were so many damsel in distresses but most American women are not damsel in distresses. Men who say they want submissive uneducated women -- literally, they are everywhere.
The problem is intelligent women are also hypergamous, and so eventually cause problems by expecting men to always be "better" than them in every way which means coming home to her is like another full time job. It's just lower stress to go with the girl who isn't as overtly smart or clever. Japanese men figured this out early on and it became a part of the culture it seems. Likewise, I think Japanese women just learned to hide their intelligence to make men feel more comfortable.
You're a smart guy with critical thinking skills, Santi
This is depend on each own taste . Some wants less smart girlfriend for easy command.
サンティさん、ごもっともです。私もあのチャンネルに関してはいつもイラツイています笑。あのチャンネルはK系列ではないですかね？インタビュワーには日本人を雇っているようですが。
彼らの作戦として３割ぐらいはバラエティ的な動画をあげて、７割はディスり系で巧妙にバランスを取って世論誘導しています笑。それもわかり易すぎて馬鹿だな〜としか思えませんが、若い層は騙されるのでしょうね、、、。
特に〇〇婦の動画ではあの有名な嘘つき婆さんを登場させて感動的なビデオに仕上げていました。こちらからの反論も同時にあげてくれればバランスが保たれていると思いますが、そんなことはしないでしょう。メチャクチャですよ本当に。
私が（おそらくサンティさんも）なぜイラつくのかと言うと、これらは日本人に対する差別だからです。相手を批判するならば絶対的な証拠や論理がなければなりません。当たり前のことです。それ無しにディスるのは差別です。
私は日本の先人達を父や母のように尊敬しています。だから日本の歴史や旗などをディスることは自分が差別される以上にムカつきます。これは日本以外のどこの国民も当たり前に持っている感情だと思うのです。
これからも楽しく観させていただきます。応援しております🙂
英語を学ぶ若者ですが、英語を学ぶ本質がわかってきました。自分は生粋のナショナリストですが、日本の間違った情報が多すぎる！それも感情的、正義感につけ込んだ！英語で情報を発信しないとどんどん誤解されるんですね🥺
Hi! If I not mistaken you, also, switch to Japonese, in a past video about a subject involving another nippon youtuber. I think it was Nobita. What is this about, is cultural? In todays video you're japonese talking felt like you suddenly disconnected from your foreign viewers for some minutes to talk to a japonese that entered the room, while camera was still rolling. I understand it, because I have to do that sometimes at work. Now I know how it looks and feels like 😊
I know it's all preference but doesn't this sound too similar on the opposite sex?
With Japanese women most of them wanting a boyish young looking guy instead of someone manly and experienced.
I know it's only a preference, and not everyone one of them has it, but still it's a common preference. The _"Pretty Boy"_ look is too superficial in my opinion. But again it could be countered with the Traditional Japanese girl's outlook.
People should like what they like, if no one gets hurt, then it's okay.
And I quote _"if no one gets hurt"_ I meant physically hurt, because hurt feelings don't count.
And yes yes, not all of us are left in the dark.
At least I know Asian Boss = Full of Shit.
One of my female friends is working in Tokyo, and she graduated from 東京大学 however she never mentioned that , in the meantime she only says she graduated from a university in Tokyo...
@TT I don’t think it is about being modest here. I heard a few things in terms of the attitude towards female who obtain the diploma from top schools especially like 東京大学.
@@zhangheather508 I often heard SOME women don’t want to date with men who graduate from university of Tokyo since they are too smart. Women also say similar things, but they are minorities. Please do not generalize.
really awesome videos👏 😇 you catches every points... m enjoying and watching more...
Glad you like them!
Santi English please it’s time till people could understand japanese
Also, this seems to be the video the asker was referring to if anyone wants more context: ua-cam.com/video/wTdKoigdjwQ/v-deo.html
I haven't watched the video yet but the title makes me boil. Let's take a look ...
I enjoyed this video ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
WHAT are you saying !?
Santi can you please tell me if Japanese prefer that foreigners bow or shake hands for greeting?
definitely bow👍
@@japaneseman but if a foreigner forgets and shakes hands.. is the Japanese offended?