My best friend has the same situation ! My friend and this Japanese guy know each other more than 2 years! They met in person through a common group, went out together, he now moved to another state in U.S far away from her! He still keep contact with her, text almost everyday, sharing each other life experience, sending pictures , even went travel together! But in the end he said my friend is his best friend and they did “more than a friend thing”! My friend was kind of disappointed because she thought that he may want her to be his girlfriend! She told me how sad she was! I cheer her up by gave her advice “if a guy like you , he will let you know”. So just be careful that even if you and that online guy talking everyday , sharing each other life , pics etc! doesn’t mean he will be serious with you and like you that way ! Maybe he doesn’t be more than a friend because that guy didn’t want a long distance relationship! The answer is already in that guy !
Yes, if he likes your friend, he would ask Will you be my gf... other than that, it is considered as friend with benefits to Japanese people , tell me if I am wrong :)
@@rachaelchang7536 I think u’re right ! I also have a Japanese guy friend and he has multiple girlfriends he knew online and ask them if they wanna be his girlfriend, none of them he told me he serious with even with his Japanese girlfriend too, and the poor girl didn’t know he cheated on her when she fly from Japan to see him, I felt bad for her but I don’t wanna trouble so I just keep my mouth shut! I mentioned before in my comment! So that’s why I don’t trust Japanese guy after seeing those experience ! 🤔 Maybe I am wrong but not everyone are the same
I have a Japanese online friend too, he is no way interested in me in that way but I really like his friendship. We've been friends for almost a year too I'm glad we're only friends
I can confirm Japanese men are not shy if they like you more than a friend ! he wanted to know EVERYTHING about me and told me all about his family and personal life . He sends me lots of pics and we have made plans for me to visit him ,i am learning Japanese cos he said he's too lazy to learn English . He also said i am his goddess ! . we both show we care for each other . Japanese men NOT shy if they like you more than friend. He will include you in his future plans .Also when i wake up there is a message from him every morning .I am in UK . Hope this helps !
Mira, there’s this saying - “Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you’re supposed to be with them” If you feel that your connection is not clearly established. If you feel that he’s sending mixed signals. If you feel that you are compromising your values and standards. If you feel that he’s not interested. If you feel that ALL OF THE ABOVE MENTIONED are accurate AF! Be kind to yourself and leave the situation, because If he truly likes/adore you, there’s no buts and ifs. There’s no waiting game, no wasting of time and no disrespect. Especially, based on your story you’ve been communicating for a “year”, Santi is right. Remember, , time is the ultimate truth teller. If you haven’t read the air for such a long time, then you’re doing it wrong baby. In conclusion, I loved to see your persistence. However, If you are patient with him, surely you’ll be patient to wait for the right person at the right time. 🙏🏼🤍 Bless your heart.
I'm in the same boat. Lol. I met a Japanese guy on a language exchange app. We've called and text often for the past few months. He says he wants to meet in person one day.
Just in time, I met one Online, ah he joke on me immediately But I never assumes he likes me because he wants to practice English, at the same time I want to practice Japanese 😁
Thank you so much for your videos! These are so helpful for dating anyone, not just Japanese men. You are a wealth of knowledge and I appreciate the energy and charisma you bring. You are officially the big bro. LOL
It's kinda hard not to assume sometimes that a guy likes you if he says good words, you know. But you know always think objectively so won't end up like you were deceived because you have expected too much from the reality on what's going on between you. Perhaps, he likes you as a friend but then in your mind you are expecting more than that. So, just be careful. Expectations can lead to disappointment.
last time you talk to your friend is one month ago but you talk to your subscribers every day. thanks Santisan! I really like the thing you said at the end about being human being :) but don't envy anyone. so many girls interested in you. just go outside yourself and fall in love :)
Thank you for making and answering all the relationships questions, Santi. We all appreciate it 🙏 I have almost this kind of situation,too. I met a cute and nice Japanese man from a language exchange app for 3 month ago. He’s single , shy and 13years older than me. We line/ chat every day , sharing pictures what we are doing , talking some interest, personal life , almost everything. I know he’s looking for friendship, but it sucks when I’m starting to have a crush on him. 😥😫😭
I asked him straight if he likes me and he answered, Yes then I asked, "as a friend?" then he responded, "No as a woman". Does it means he really likes me? Also, one time he told me that when I will confess to him, he will accept. Though I don't have any assumptions on this and our communication is through Line only. He calls me when he's not busy most of the time video call. When I have an important matters to attend or special occasion like bday , he always remembers but still I consider him just friend for now without high expectations that he is seriously into me😊😇🤗
I love all the relationship questions but once you’re done answering those, I want to know about popular music in Japan. Besides my husband, almost all my Japanese friends have very... mainstream taste in music (pink, Pharrell Ect...) I was disappointed because I was hoping they would be into Japanese rock like x Japan and seikimatsu ... also I’m so glad you like Kevyn little. Please sing more on your videos!! Sean Paul 4 lyfe
I also met a Japanese man on an app. We've been chatting. And he just asked me if I have a favorite man, and I asked him "what do you mean?" and he said "Is there someone you like?" I'm confused of what it means. Why he asked that out of nowhere
Dear Santi San Thank you for your videos they really help a Lot. I have a problem two months back I went online and met this cute Japanese guy,it happens that Im two years older than him and different races.I really wasn’t interested at first he nagged me with video calls and messages until I agreed on a date.It was awesome he was a gentleman.He lives 2hrs away after a date he insisted to sleep over night because he was tired.I agreed because I trusted him.We cuddled and kissed but didn’t do it.Obviously he wanted it but I just couldn’t.Next morning he said his goodbyes and I was sad he was leaving.Ever since that day I hardly hear from him,no calls no nothing.I asked if he is ok he said he is busy.I don’t know know cos I caught feelings and I like him a lot.Is it because I didn’t give him what he wants?I gave him signs that Im into him but He never told me his feelings about me.I just dont know now. I hope to hear from you soon
Hi.. I'm always watching all your video. I'm in aichi toyota. I wana ask a favor. Can you make a video. How can I know if a Japanese men donot like and donot love me anymore ？what are the sign？
Santi what's your favourite protein. And your favourite workout like biceps, triceps, chest, leg, shuolder etc. Your recommended gym. Some gym culture like roles and regulations.
こんにちはSanti さん質問があります I met a Japanese men online we start as a friend we used to communicate normally but after around 4 months he starts ignore my messages and don't reply after days does he love me?
I want to know more about Chiba, Murakami and countryside places. Is it safe to travel alone for a girl, with a friend or you must have a friend from Japan that can go with you on the mentioned places?
OK!! I want to know what it is like to camp and sleep in a tent in Japan. Can I pitch a tent wherever I want (no private places, of course)? Is it possible in a park, mountains or forest? And is it possible to rent a tent somewhere in Tokyo? : D
gomenne~ for being gramma nazi, but there is mistake in the title :) "Dose he like me or not?" > Does Dose - a quantity of a medicine or drug taken or recommended to be taken at a particular time.
Hi Santi! Thanks for another cool video coverage. I had a question though... how much should we trust a Japanese man’s word when he is drunk? hahaha I’m sorry if this question is a bit silly but something happened lately and as much as intriguing it is, it kept me wondering a lot about what had happened.
Santi, if you say you envy us because we are human beings, are you somehow an alien? Anyway, I suspected you were an angel, from the begining. Now I wonder if your name Santi has anything to do with Santa.
Hi Santi san, can you make a research about how japanese women will react and take actions when their husbands cheating from the age 20 to elderly women? Recently ,I read some news it says when Japanese husband got a catch on cheating, most Japanese women forgive it, and some choose to take action by cheating on their husband . Are they true in Japaese society? Thank you and hope you have a nice day !
Santi is an extrovert but even him only talks to his best friends once in a month or week .... do Japanese people hate talking to each other ? Won’t they feel lonely ?
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My best friend has the same situation ! My friend and this Japanese guy know each other more than 2 years! They met in person through a common group, went out together, he now moved to another state in U.S far away from her! He still keep contact with her, text almost everyday, sharing each other life experience, sending pictures , even went travel together! But in the end he said my friend is his best friend and they did “more than a friend thing”! My friend was kind of disappointed because she thought that he may want her to be his girlfriend! She told me how sad she was! I cheer her up by gave her advice “if a guy like you , he will let you know”. So just be careful that even if you and that online guy talking everyday , sharing each other life , pics etc! doesn’t mean he will be serious with you and like you that way ! Maybe he doesn’t be more than a friend because that guy didn’t want a long distance relationship! The answer is already in that guy !
Yes, if he likes your friend, he would ask Will you be my gf... other than that, it is considered as friend with benefits to Japanese people , tell me if I am wrong :)
@@rachaelchang7536 I think u’re right ! I also have a Japanese guy friend and he has multiple girlfriends he knew online and ask them if they wanna be his girlfriend, none of them he told me he serious with even with his Japanese girlfriend too, and the poor girl didn’t know he cheated on her when she fly from Japan to see him, I felt bad for her but I don’t wanna trouble so I just keep my mouth shut! I mentioned before in my comment! So that’s why I don’t trust Japanese guy after seeing those experience ! 🤔 Maybe I am wrong but not everyone are the same
@@rachaelchang7536 Friends with benefits indeed! I heard from a friend that Japanese men are very horny.
I have a Japanese online friend too, he is no way interested in me in that way but I really like his friendship. We've been friends for almost a year too
I'm glad we're only friends
Here to hear Santi sing songs of Japanese men
🤣my bad. just fixed
I can confirm Japanese men are not shy if they like you more than a friend ! he wanted to know EVERYTHING about me and told me all about his family and personal life . He sends me lots of pics and we have made plans for me to visit him ,i am learning Japanese cos he said he's too lazy to learn English . He also said i am his goddess ! . we both show we care for each other . Japanese men NOT shy if they like you more than friend. He will include you in his future plans .Also when i wake up there is a message from him every morning .I am in UK . Hope this helps !
Mira, there’s this saying - “Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you’re supposed to be with them”
If you feel that your connection is not clearly established.
If you feel that he’s sending mixed signals.
If you feel that you are compromising your values and standards.
If you feel that he’s not interested.
If you feel that ALL OF THE ABOVE MENTIONED are accurate AF!
Be kind to yourself and leave the situation, because If he truly likes/adore you, there’s no buts and ifs. There’s no waiting game, no wasting of time and no disrespect. Especially, based on your story you’ve been communicating for a “year”, Santi is right. Remember, , time is the ultimate truth teller. If you haven’t read the air for such a long time, then you’re doing it wrong baby.
In conclusion, I loved to see your persistence. However, If you are patient with him, surely you’ll be patient to wait for the right person at the right time. 🙏🏼🤍 Bless your heart.
I'm in the same boat. Lol. I met a Japanese guy on a language exchange app. We've called and text often for the past few months. He says he wants to meet in person one day.
My Japanese guy , too 😭
Same. We contact everyday and he said he want to meet me in person
LOL.. never getting tired of hearing about dating/relationship topics.
Same
Same 😂
Just in time, I met one Online, ah he joke on me immediately
But I never assumes he likes me because he wants to practice English, at the same time I want to practice Japanese 😁
Thank you so much for your videos! These are so helpful for dating anyone, not just Japanese men. You are a wealth of knowledge and I appreciate the energy and charisma you bring. You are officially the big bro. LOL
It's kinda hard not to assume sometimes that a guy likes you if he says good words, you know. But you know always think objectively so won't end up like you were deceived because you have expected too much from the reality on what's going on between you. Perhaps, he likes you as a friend but then in your mind you are expecting more than that. So, just be careful. Expectations can lead to disappointment.
Amazing video I enjoyed this 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️
last time you talk to your friend is one month ago but you talk to your subscribers every day. thanks Santisan!
I really like the thing you said at the end about being human being :)
but don't envy anyone. so many girls interested in you. just go outside yourself and fall in love :)
Thank you for making and answering all the relationships questions, Santi.
We all appreciate it 🙏
I have almost this kind of situation,too.
I met a cute and nice Japanese man
from a language exchange app for 3 month ago. He’s single , shy and 13years older than me.
We line/ chat every day , sharing pictures what we are doing , talking some interest, personal life , almost everything.
I know he’s looking for friendship, but it sucks when I’m starting to have a crush on him. 😥😫😭
Same problem 😂I take with Japanese boy and I want to marry him , I plan to go Japan
What you, I just know him 1 month's
I asked him straight if he likes me and he answered, Yes then I asked, "as a friend?" then he responded, "No as a woman". Does it means he really likes me?
Also, one time he told me that when I will confess to him, he will accept. Though I don't have any assumptions on this and our communication is through Line only. He calls me when he's not busy most of the time video call. When I have an important matters to attend or special occasion like bday , he always remembers but still I consider him just friend for now without high expectations that he is seriously into me😊😇🤗
I love all the relationship questions but once you’re done answering those, I want to know about popular music in Japan. Besides my husband, almost all my Japanese friends have very... mainstream taste in music (pink, Pharrell Ect...) I was disappointed because I was hoping they would be into Japanese rock like x Japan and seikimatsu ... also I’m so glad you like Kevyn little. Please sing more on your videos!! Sean Paul 4 lyfe
Life is very short. Don't waste your time. Chance is low. Ask Him. Great advice!
So, Santi I want to ask you if................. 😂
I also met a Japanese man on an app. We've been chatting. And he just asked me if I have a favorite man, and I asked him "what do you mean?" and he said "Is there someone you like?"
I'm confused of what it means. Why he asked that out of nowhere
Dear Santi San
Thank you for your videos they really help a Lot.
I have a problem two months back I went online and met this cute Japanese guy,it happens that Im two years older than him and different races.I really wasn’t interested at first he nagged me with video calls and messages until I agreed on a date.It was awesome he was a gentleman.He lives 2hrs away after a date he insisted to sleep over night because he was tired.I agreed because I trusted him.We cuddled and kissed but didn’t do it.Obviously he wanted it but I just couldn’t.Next morning he said his goodbyes and I was sad he was leaving.Ever since that day I hardly hear from him,no calls no nothing.I asked if he is ok he said he is busy.I don’t know know cos I caught feelings and I like him a lot.Is it because I didn’t give him what he wants?I gave him signs that Im into him but He never told me his feelings about me.I just dont know now.
I hope to hear from you soon
Hi.. I'm always watching all your video. I'm in aichi toyota. I wana ask a favor. Can you make a video. How can I know if a Japanese men donot like and donot love me anymore ？what are the sign？
Santi what's your favourite protein. And your favourite workout like biceps, triceps, chest, leg, shuolder etc.
Your recommended gym.
Some gym culture like roles and regulations.
lol i will make a video for this Mark
こんにちはSanti さん質問があります
I met a Japanese men online we start as a friend we used to communicate normally but after around 4 months he starts ignore my messages and don't reply after days does he love me?
I want to know more about Chiba, Murakami and countryside places. Is it safe to travel alone for a girl, with a friend or you must have a friend from Japan that can go with you on the mentioned places?
OK!! I want to know what it is like to camp and sleep in a tent in Japan. Can I pitch a tent wherever I want (no private places, of course)? Is it possible in a park, mountains or forest? And is it possible to rent a tent somewhere in Tokyo? : D
Aniela ok! let me try
gomenne~ for being gramma nazi, but there is mistake in the title :)
"Dose he like me or not?" > Does
Dose - a quantity of a medicine or drug taken or recommended to be taken at a particular time.
I noticed that too. But I just thought Santi just pressed 🤔on the letter S first before the letter E inadvertently.
🤣arigato! please let me know if there are more (including suggestions）
Hi Santi! Thanks for another cool video coverage. I had a question though... how much should we trust a Japanese man’s word when he is drunk? hahaha I’m sorry if this question is a bit silly but something happened lately and as much as intriguing it is, it kept me wondering a lot about what had happened.
fara ok, let me think🤔
What's apps can you use to meet japanese men that's foreigner friendly (supports English)?
maybe I should start such service🤔
@@japaneseman definitely do it
Santi, if you say you envy us because we are human beings, are you somehow an alien? Anyway, I suspected you were an angel, from the begining. Now I wonder if your name Santi has anything to do with Santa.
Hi Santi san, can you make a research about how japanese women will react and take actions when their husbands cheating from the age 20 to elderly women? Recently ,I read some news it says when Japanese husband got a catch on cheating, most Japanese women forgive it, and some choose to take action by cheating on their husband . Are they true in Japaese society?
Thank you and hope you have a nice day !
you’ll know once he or she sends you a pair of underwear 😂
It’s the action that counts the most.
Santi is an extrovert but even him only talks to his best friends once in a month or week .... do Japanese people hate talking to each other ? Won’t they feel lonely ?
interesting🤔
😅😅😅
今日も、
何言ってるのか、わからないんだけど〜〜〜
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くっくさん
はい！ぜひ！
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