Have We Gone Too Far?: The Male Gaze, Pick Me’s & People Pleasing ft. Adella Afadi

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 37

  • @lastnamebase
    @lastnamebase 3 місяці тому +33

    Such a lovely convo! It also reminded me of how often times Christian women want a guy who knows God but not per se a man of God because of the lack of roughness and the "cringe".

  • @ibimax-harry
    @ibimax-harry 3 місяці тому +39

    This was such a wholesome episode. The chat about the male gaze was great but the mutual encouragement at the end took everything to another level. I feel like I eavesdropped on a great conversation between two great women! Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @gl0hen
    @gl0hen 3 місяці тому +8

    I WAS SO HAPPY WHEN RENEE SNUCK INTO FRAME!!!!!!

  • @famat.6447
    @famat.6447 3 місяці тому +18

    Haaaaa love Adella so much ! Excited for this one 🥳🥳

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  3 місяці тому +2

      Haha we love her too! Hope you enjoyed❤

  • @Valenciaatmako
    @Valenciaatmako 3 місяці тому +26

    Look who walked in 😂❤

  • @Cairo21
    @Cairo21 3 місяці тому +3

    I get what Adella is talking about people hating on influencers once they get to a certain level and I have seen it happen to those influencers she named, its so vile.

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  3 місяці тому

      It can be so disillusioning 🫣

  • @rochellea7042
    @rochellea7042 3 місяці тому +1

    I enjoyed this episode soo much. I came across both of your accounts around the same time at the beginning of the pandemic in 2020. This collaboration was dueeeeee. Much luv

  • @apollosmartyn
    @apollosmartyn 3 місяці тому +1

    Great work hope to collaborate with you on UA-cam one day ❤❤❤Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @aakshi.
    @aakshi. 3 місяці тому +2

    YOOOOO THE TMS JUMPER ON RENEE!!! 😮😮😮😮😮❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  3 місяці тому +2

      GREAT SPOT 🥰🥰🥰🥰👀👀👀👀👀👀

    • @aakshi.
      @aakshi. 3 місяці тому

      @@tomysisters I SMELL MERCH👀👀👀👀👀👀🤩🤩🤩🤩

    • @samiardias
      @samiardias 2 місяці тому

      I noticed it too!!!

  • @jae-annedanae4512
    @jae-annedanae4512 3 місяці тому

    Yesss from Jamaica, living in the US now, I definitely followed her as Cornflakesnosugar 😂

  • @Rareisbeautiful
    @Rareisbeautiful 3 місяці тому

    So funny and loved the conversation ❤

  • @itumelenglelosa4627
    @itumelenglelosa4627 3 місяці тому +2

    My faves 🥰❤️

  • @mykeajohnson3060
    @mykeajohnson3060 3 місяці тому

    My favs! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ChiChiorWura
    @ChiChiorWura 3 місяці тому +1

    OMG It’s Adellaaa

  • @aliceshambamuto3100
    @aliceshambamuto3100 3 місяці тому +18

    Lovely conversation. When Adella was talking about the hate towards women who hv reached an 'untouchable', what came to my mind as a psychologist is a concept called relational aggression. I think it can helps us understand why we end up being that way. But thoroughly enjoyed listening to you young ladies ❤ Courtney love you mucho ❤❤❤

  • @Cryonic7740
    @Cryonic7740 3 місяці тому +6

    omg, my two favorite channels coming together!? This feels like when you used to watch Disney and your fav character from one show features in an episode in another show ❤❤
    edit to add how funny it is Courtney also said this!

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  3 місяці тому

      Great minds think ALIKE ❤❤

  • @dw1533
    @dw1533 2 місяці тому +2

    Adella inspires me, and your relationship with your husband inspires to look for something worthy and worthwhile. Hope I'll find it someday. Thank you for the grace God's given you to be you. Thank you for being you.

  • @ntamieborty
    @ntamieborty 3 місяці тому +6

    When I am rich, I am rich!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rochelle1199
    @rochelle1199 3 місяці тому +4

    Excited for this one!! Love Adella

    • @cosmiccrush22
      @cosmiccrush22 3 місяці тому +2

      Same she's a gem, they all are, I follow both ❤️

    • @rochelle1199
      @rochelle1199 3 місяці тому

      @@cosmiccrush22 me too xx

  • @WendyLiving
    @WendyLiving Місяць тому

    It was nice when Renee walked in 💕

  • @gloriakanani1026
    @gloriakanani1026 3 місяці тому +1

    Love Adel’s, she is so pretty and funny❤❤❤❤❤

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  3 місяці тому

      Isn't she just the best!!! ❤❤

  • @jenniferavila2703
    @jenniferavila2703 3 місяці тому

    I missed Renee. Idk, Adella. Obviously I’ve been under a rock. It’s very nice to meet her. I enjoyed everything about this. I’ve never really thought about the male gaze 🤔 thank you

  • @tanyciagrace9556
    @tanyciagrace9556 3 місяці тому

    Love the guest's openness! Courtney, hopefully the guest you've had on will help you to be vulnerable about yourself on this channel about how you perceive yourself, your thoughts on the male gaze and your celibacy journey. You've never shared. Great conversation today girlies!

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  3 місяці тому

      Hey sis! Thank you for your thoughts and glad you enjoyed the episode 🥰 we tend to allow the guest a bit more space to share their thoughts - esp because Courts already has so much content out on her own journey on the male gaze, desirability, and celibacy and in past TMS episodes. Good to know a reiteration may be needed ❤️

  • @Sincerelyprisca
    @Sincerelyprisca 3 місяці тому +8

    The collaboration I didn’t know I needed to see. Love me some Adelle 🫶🏾🙏🏾.