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…..and I had a brother. It was us two.

You described my situation exactly. Yes, I had to end the relationship. It was no choice. I have had some really good counseling. Many mothers through my faith. My mothers taught me many things. I love them.

Triple trouble narcissistic mother and brother and absent father. Cant believe how f...cking strong I am.

I love mine but she isnt controlling my life or her dads. And she acts like it.

Point 3 about having a brother… very very accurate especially when the oldest sibling is a daughter

I recently discovered that my mother was a narcissist after listening to your You-Tube videos. Mum really didn’t like me at all, my relationship with her was unhealthy. My Mum had ruined my life and messed up with me as a child, my father was probably one also, I also have a brother that’s younger than me and recently felt that he’d carried on the same dynamic as my Mum. I cannot tell you the amount of relationships she’d interfered with, my total childhood was dreadful. I didn’t have a confidant as a child, I was completely on my own, I tried so many times to tell my Father how I felt, he would tell me not to tell tails. I have a family of my own, our children have all grown up, but, life is still difficult for me , I’m trying to be a happy person, well most of the time, thank you for your advice, I wish I learned this as a younger person/child that I was.

Narcissistic mother. She’s disgusting. And yep, she coddles my brother & triangulates btw us. She’s the worst human i know

I am the oldest daughter of 4 kids (2 boys, 2 girls) with a narcissistic mother. I have always felt like a burden while in my household. My mom has always made it clear she never wanted daughters especially not one as "complicated" as me. My whole life has been me working so hard to get her approval no matter what it is (school, theatre, choir, dance, STEM, chess club, cheer team, etc). I try to do everything right by her by being the best and wrecking myself to be the best but to her I am nothing but an obstacle in the way of her happy life. I have always tried to push away the thoughts of my mother being a narcissist but today is the day where I am done denying it and done trying to convince myself that her love is unconditional when in fact i know it is not.

This type of mother will destroy a daughter's life.

Wow, as a GenX , I really could have heard this 40 years ago. My life would be completely different right now. My entire life was spent trying to be good enough to make her proud and love me just a little. I had 9 sibblings, 2 brothers 7 sisters. She definitely held the brothers in high regards but also 3 sisters who were downright evil bitches themselves. I was her least favorite and i always felt like she hated me, she did. I got no recognition from her until i moved 6 hrs away from all of them and maybe 4 or 5 years before she died. At that point she actually initiated phone calls and wanted to hear about my success and adventures. The best years of my life! So much so that 2 of those evil sisters had each called me on separate occasions just to tell me how much my mother was bragging about me. The older sister told me my mom said that i was her most joyful child, a far cry from her telling my ex husband, who she allowed to live in her home even though she threw me and my 2 young sons out while i was pregnant with my 3rd son that i was her meanest child. How hard can you get slapped in the face without being slapped in the face. And how do you not take things so personal when they're all so personal. Im 58 and ive never needed a therapist more than i do now. God help me understand before i die, im afraid ill be in pergutory or reincarnated indefinitely if i dont. Im tired of having this horrified confused look on my face, its so bad my eyebrows could knit a sweater.

Please explain to me why the courts are so incompetent on this issue! (including forensic evaluators). The courts seem to be incapable of recognizing the narcissists,...

One thing I know is that I won't choose the woman who is my birth mother to continue being my mother in the next life.

Yep yep yep

This is my come to channel. I've gleaned so much from this wonderful lady - definitely more than from the dozens of lawyers and experts on YT. She's hands on, practical and has a genuine desire to share and help. No sense of entitlement or making 'truth claims'. Take a bow Mam.

I've listened to dozens of attorneys and experts on YT. This is, in my opinion, by far the most practical and useful. No waffling, no entitlement, no legalology. Simple, hands-on, advice based on real life experience.

I have a narcissistic mother. Who saw me as a threat, because I was pretty. And the man she would get with wanted me. And that caused a lot of problems in our relationship. When I became a born-again Christian. I started praying for my mom. I will talk to God and tell God that, I am tired of these unhealthy relationships. That I want to have healthy relationships. Cuz I've had two toxic mothers. My biological and my adoptive.. if God loved us at our worst. Shouldn't we love people at their worst? In today's society we think we're better. No you're not. Sin is sin. A liar is no worse than a pedophile. People need to start reading their Bible. My biological mom and I have a better relationship today because of all the prayers. Prayer changes things, especially when you pray in a right way.

I think she was also psychopathic. She was sadistic.

I divorced my ex 2 years ago. She has a severe drinking and gambling problem. I divorced her she went in to a new relationship what a surprise he broke up with her for the same reasons I divorced her. Now I get a call oh hey the kids really miss you we should be friends for the kids. I fell for it guess what same cycle of abuse started all over. If you are Lucky enough to Get out of a Narcissistic relationship Do Not Go Back Nothing Changes

An old post but an ongoing issue. My narc mother died in 2009 just short of her 99th birthday. I get along well with my brothers (who were, yes, idolized by her), but the job she did on my sisters and me is ongoing. One dead of neglected health and alcoholism, the other and me almost estranged (birthday emails are about it). Yes, we just have to create our own lives and find "motherhood" elsewhere - I read books by nurturing female authors - poets Sara Teasdale, Maya Angelou, Marion Woodman - pick your own, and I fostered good friendships with healthy women. When a friendship with a woman started to go south (usually over a man) I didn't try to hang on to it. Learning to know yourself as you really are is the reward. I'm 83 and satisfied with my life now. Breaking it down into the 3 parts and then bringing in the contrast with mother's treatment of her sons is immensely helpful. And then there's the father, who "overlooked" his daughters in favor of his insatiable wife. I had to "sneak" a friendship with my aunt, which my mother tried to sabotage. Survived it all and emerged alive and well, once the weights were removed. Didn't kill me: I'm stronger - like the old adage "If it doesn't kill you it makes you stronger."

A few years ago, I had sepsis (among a few other things). As soon as I got to the ER, I was admitted and put on medications. They told me I wasn't going to make it, and to call my family. Not only did she not come to the hospital, she couldn't be bothered to pick up the phone and call. Here I am, literally on my death bed, but she won't even call. Was I surprised? Nope, not in the least. The family and friends who came to see me prayed real hard for me get better, and I did 😊 You have 50% chance of survival with sepsis, but I was so sick, they didn't think I'd pull through.

You are absolutely amazing! Thank you so much for the work that you are doing to support others! I couldn't find the link for the interrogatories. Did I miss it or was it removed?

Thank you 😊😊

This was helpful. It’s so insane what we are going through. The problem patient died (OD), but it turns out the widowed ex-step mother is worse. Just making up all sorts of lies and has even convinced the child to go along with it. The child is vulnerable and with a much younger emotional development than her age. I feel like it’s guilty until proven innocent. I did everything for this child. Took her to therapy just about her whole life, took on the court stress. Made sure she was in activities. Advocated for her constantly at her schools etc… and now she is lost… permanently. Judge threw out the allegations, law enforcement did and investigation and “disproved” it all. And we still wait for CPS. So far everyone has seen the truth. But the thought that the next investigator may get it all wrong or have some sort of bias is terrifying honestly.

I'm 34 and have just parted ways with my mum after attempting to put hands on me during a massive heated argument. I also have an older brother with Aspergers. He gets treated like royalty, my mum has put my brother on a pedestal and me the daughter under a microscope. That was the BIGGEST fight we ever had, it was good this happened, I'm finally away from her and everyone's abuse. It's made me stronger and I'm starting to know who I am now and being allowed to be yourself without judgement.

Thanks for this article: I was just falsely accused on Sept 24, 2024 of misdemeanor battery by a women who hit my clipboard with her phone when she was asked to stop videoing a political meeting and refused four requests to desist. She called the city police, they took mine and four witness statements saying I did not do anything wrong and she caused the situation. The city police did not take any action, but the woman demanded they forward her request to prosecute to the County Florida State Attorney, who DID file the misdemeanor battery charge. I am now calling other meeting attendees to get more witness statements. Not one said I was at fault, but she pushed her phone into my clipboard when I was trying to block her videoing. The Florida State Attorney's office for Lake County clearly is trying to intimidate me in a lawfare situation because I write a local fiscal watchdog blog.

This is spot on. I have so much documentation from kids text messages about verbal abuse to kids admissions to mom says this and that. I document everything. So far I have 3 years worth of crazy BS. Just sitting back waiting for her to try some crap. Then I will unload everything I have

I ' am so well away of her!

Thank you

So sorry for you. Hopefully he finds a new supply

Yep; you summarized my lifelong experience with mom; I am 75 years old and finally progressing with my healing. Mom is 96 years old; we talk (kindly) about once a week 😅

ur home is pretty

Theres so much gas lighting on social media by the young ppl. Its sad what has happened

Yeah, she says he and she and they. It’s all good - it’s 50/50 men and women narcs

I dont see any of the videos

Where are the series videos. There are no healing videos

Im 64 had a higher trait narcistic mother. I am still struggling

My mom tried to jes like me she hate me so much she turns my brother's against me

Said i was a drug addict alcoholic a thief & a liar - while i was taking college classes, passing background checks & getting hired as a preschool teacher....judge didnt care.

I am the oldest sibling of a narcissist mother. I have twin siblings, one boy, one girl. They don't get half of the abuse I received. Yes, they don't think she's the greatest person, but they don't even believe me when I tell them the horrible things shes done to me. They are her flying monkeys, and anything I do gets reported back to her. I've been beat, had things thrown at me, leaving holes in the walls, I have been told I'm fat and can't wear nice clothes bc it looks terrible on me, I've been told terrible things about my race. She is a monster... I wish even though my relationship with her didn't work out that I could have at least had my siblings around, but no, they've taken her side and think im a terrible person as well... I have since left home and am homeless now, the constant abuse has just become too much... Life is hard now but im so much happier now and won't ever be going back. I have good friends around me and they help me out as best they can. Fingers crossed I get housing soon. I've never had a home, the place i was raised was never safe enough to call "home", and can't wait to have my very own safe space for the first time in my life after 22 years

I can’t believe your channel doesn’t have millions subscribers 😮

Women who falsely accuse men are automatically believed. It can happen to any man at any time in the workplace. Even if the man is fortunate enough to be cleared of any wrongdoing (unlikely), his reputation is done. Nothing happens to the false accuser of course.

I NEED MORE OF THIS. THIS IS CLEAR AND CONCISE. LOVE THIS CONTENT. WE NEED MORE TALK ON THIS MATTER. MOTHER WOUNDS.

I’m that person . My mother is a Narc .

TO ALL DAUGHTERS IF YUOR MOM URS A NARCISSIST GO MOVE GO FAREST FROM HER RUN RUN RUN DONT LOOK BACK SHE A NARCISSIST SHE WILL NEVER CHANGE SHE WILL MAKE YUOR LIFE MISERABLE LOVE YOURSELF NARCISSISTIC MOMS AND PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS BE SELFISH SELF CENTERING THEY DO POTRAY THE NICEST SWEETEST THEY ARE NOT ABOUT YUOR I INTERESTS THEY ARE CERY HIPÓCRITE VERY FAKE MY MOM WAS VERY JEALOUS VERY EVIL SHE MADE MY LIFE HELL EMOTIONALLY I WAS VERY BROKEN GOD SAVE ME FROM KILLING MYSELF YES EVERTHING SHE DESCRIBES THA WAD MY MOM AND IHEAR SAME FROM OTHERS TOO BE HAPPY STAY AWAY FROM NARCISSISTIC PEOPLE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE

TO ALL DAUGHTERS IF YUOR MOM URS A NARCISSIST GO MOVE GO FAREST FROM HER RUN RUN RUN DONT LOOK BACK SHE A NARCISSIST SHE WILL NEVER CHANGE SHE WILL MAKE YUOR LIFE MISERABLE LOVE YOURSELF NARCISSISTIC MOMS AND PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS BE SELFISH SELF CENTERING THEY DO POTRAY THE NICEST SWEETEST THEY ARE NOT ABOUT YUOR I INTERESTS THEY ARE CERY HIPÓCRITE VERY FAKE MY MOM WAS VERY JEALOUS VERY EVIL SHE MADE MY LIFE HELL EMOTIONALLY I WAS VERY BROKEN GOD SAVE ME FROM KILLING MYSELF YES EVERTHING SHE DESCRIBES THA WAD MY MOM AND IHEAR SAME FROM OTHERS TOO BE HAPPY STAY AWAY FROM NARCISSISTIC PEOPLE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE

You can waste a lot of money paying consultation fees between 300.00 and 500.00 trying to find a lawyer willing to actually fight for you.

I've been seeing a therapist for 7 years now. She's helped me immensely! Came to realize that my mom has controlled me my entire life. She also did not protect me. Let me go over to her brothers home when I was 10, who she knew was a pervert/pedophile and he molested me! When I asked her why she let me, she told me that I wanted to! I was also a type 1 diabetic at age 8. She never checked my blood sugar, showed me what to eat or taught me how to handle being a diabetoc. I ate whatever and drank sugary drinks. Needless to say, my kidneys failed at age 29. All because of her neglect, I'm dealing with quite a lot of health issues now. Open heart surgery, was on dialysis for 14 years. On my 3rd kidney transplant, must go monthly to get injections in my eyes so I can see and have Pulmonary Hypertension. Growing up, if I made her mad or spoke out, she'd give me the silent treatment. My brother is her golden child. She helped him get his dream house, she wouldn't even co-sign to help me get a car! I no longer accept being mistreated. And I feel so much better!

They aren't false people know and my oldest knows so good luck my oldest remembers everything

Great video!

On point ❤❤ I'm so frazzled with my mother and my sister which have always been a team. I can't even articulate myself.