Are MODERN WOMEN a WASTE OF TIME?

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  • Опубліковано 21 січ 2024
  • Some men say that modern women are a waste of time. Why do they think that (and more importantly) is it true?

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  • @theunbreakable1587
    @theunbreakable1587 6 місяців тому +10

    Yes 100% they are a total waste of my time, that is why idgaf about women and I waste no energy on them.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому +1

      Wow, that is a strong opinion. I can understand it though.

  • @MarkW321
    @MarkW321 6 місяців тому +5

    Men we have the power! No ring, no proposal, no wedding, no kids. The family court system needs to be reformed. Do you want to lose half or more of everything? Think about it, long and hard. Marriage is not worth the mental, emotional and financial risk. Spread the message, tell every man you know. Stay safe!

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому +1

      A future without kids means no future at all. This problem needs to be solved one way or another.

  • @MarkW321
    @MarkW321 6 місяців тому +5

    After 60 years of feminism, I don't need a man, birth control, no fault divorce, dating apps, hypergamy, and social media there isn’t much hope. The women have to take some accountability and fix this mess. They are the ones that changed not men. Women can push to reform the divorce industry. Women can stop thinking they are a "10" and actually date on their level.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому +1

      Does that mean men have to wait for the women to make the changes? I think we'll be waiting a while.

    • @MarkW321
      @MarkW321 6 місяців тому

      You are right women create problems and men are problem solvers. I hope someone finds a solution. I can't see what it would be. The whole dating and marriage system has been turned on its head. Women have no accountability. @@neilcarpenter1972

    • @fuzzfuzz4234
      @fuzzfuzz4234 Місяць тому

      Im waiting for the human race to go extinct.

  • @bjung8858
    @bjung8858 6 місяців тому +4

    Men have options. They can go overseas and find women that fit their needs. Let the Western women fall to the wayside.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому +1

      Well, I did go to China to find my wife...so I can't really argue.

    • @bjung8858
      @bjung8858 6 місяців тому

      @@neilcarpenter1972 And, I can assume that if you have children, they will be well taken care of, when you get old, she'll probably be around to take care of the "old man".

  • @user-jz6to8md3c
    @user-jz6to8md3c 6 місяців тому +5

    Its hard to find a good woman now.

    • @aaad3552
      @aaad3552 5 місяців тому

      Na its hard to find a good woman for you.

    • @user-jz6to8md3c
      @user-jz6to8md3c 5 місяців тому

      For many men its hard there is not many great women out there ingeneral, now for your next smart ass comment@@aaad3552

  • @Lolololol-io9bk
    @Lolololol-io9bk 6 місяців тому +4

    Why can't women work toward fixing this exactly?
    Feminism showed us what lengths women can do and change in order to create a socioeconomic environment that they desire (albeit it was with the help of some men)
    This isn't a question of "if they can", because they do, it's a question of "if they want to", and the answer is not, not while it involves sacrifices on their part...
    And as such, we can conclude that while women are only part of the problem, they are a BIG part of it... and not only is this statement fair and logical, it is necessary to address if we are serious about making changes.
    Another point, you correctly address that, for the first time in history, women hold more power than men do... And as such, for the first time on history, it is women who are able to make changes, not men... As power is defined as the ability to make change.
    Women won't make changes because it is more advantageous to them to keep things this way than to revert to any sort of old arrangement, as they are more willing to share the top men than to settle with mediocre man all for themselves.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому +1

      You make some excellent points. Plenty to think about here.

  • @fastingman4726
    @fastingman4726 6 місяців тому +2

    Bro, you just synthesized hundreds of hours of manosphere content with complete objectivity. And you gave us a solution: get better. Bravo!🙌🏻
    I hope this video goes viral.

  • @AtTheZenith
    @AtTheZenith 6 місяців тому +2

    thank you man, you’re doing the work of god, this really verbalizes what is currently happening, i’ve tried to improve my character as a masculine being and when i do so i find video games and the likes unsatisfactor, vice versa with work and the likes satisfying.
    the reason women find “high value men” attractive is because they either have masculine jobs, have so much real world experience that creates mystery, which to human nature is interesting, or have high status, there’s nothing high status about being an office worker, but there is something high status about being physically fit, or wearing nice clothes, or being a medical field expert, reality is that woemn want men with standards, you gotta have standards for yourself just like your expectations for the mother of your children, that means your standards for yourself should match her expectations, and her standards for herself should match your expectations, once you find your standard it’s only a matter of time until you find her.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the comment, man. A lot of wisdom in what you wrote there.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the comment, man. A lot of wisdom in what you wrote there.

  • @bernardinelermite1133
    @bernardinelermite1133 5 місяців тому +1

    Very interesting point there ! I had never thought of the change of work nature (more urban and office like) as being a determining parameter... But it makes sense ! Women roles in society have evolved way more rapidly than men's roles, and men have lost a great deal of their privileges on the way. But men should stop putting the fault on women for a minute and just try to imagine what they would do if they were a woman : would they sincerely be happy at the perspective of being a servant their whole life ? Or having to ask and justify every penny they spend ? Have no other horizon than the laundry and the kitchen ? No other dream than making their husband happy in bed, and bearing and breastfeeding an endless number of babies ? Seriously ?... I'm very grateful I was born in the XXth century : I could study, I could travel, and I could become a scientist. I love men and I was loved by them (even if not many). Yes I am a gen-x European lady and not an American zoomer. But I do think that the young ladies today still hope to find love just as their male counterparts. Men should not give up, because the most important quality that makes a man desirable in a woman's eyes is courage. In the old time, men ran after wild game, cut wood, worked the land and fought. Nowadays, this has to be replaced by modern stuff in which men can still show their courage : dare approaching ladies (yes), dare talk their mind in front of people and say no to injustice, not be afraid or discouraged by rejection, improve their self-confidence and assertiveness, and VERY important : learn new interesting stuff that they like (music, languages, archery, climbing, cooking, boating, whatever makes them feel good and therefore become attractive), etc. These are some examples of what I imagine "being a man" nowadays means. A man who enjoys life will always be more attractive. But staying there complaining about women is probably the less attractive thing ever.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for your in-depth comment. Lots of inciteful advice and keen observations there. I think men in particular are struggling to know what defines a man these days, whereas modern women seem to know exactly what they are and how they should be, even if that contradicts the ideas of previous generations. Men complaining is a terrible thing, for sure.

    • @bernardinelermite1133
      @bernardinelermite1133 5 місяців тому

      @@neilcarpenter1972 Courage, you guys ! There are still plenty of women who are desperately looking for a nice partner to love and be loved by him : a guy who will be at their side, and with whom they will enjoy being alive. 💜🍀

  • @Colzline
    @Colzline 6 місяців тому +3

    Interesting, but I'm gonna just come out and say that your 2nd outcome is far more likely then the 1st option because as long as disassociation is a readily available option, it's so much easier to just give in and blame the other party or fall into a depression of a defeatist mentality. Modern society is geared around disassociation and when people look for answers when the veil is lifted for a brief second, the media will force feed them false information or half truths pushing a narrative that suits their end goals and our governments are all in on it too. Like here in the USA, CNN and Fox News both opposite sides of the same coin yet they're both doing the exact samething. I know this all sounds like conspiracy theory but ever since I graduated HS in the late 2000's, I've watched as things continue to progressively get worse and worse, even in ways I wouldn't have expected either. Regardless, my opinion is that unless we can return to more baser functions of human existence instead of all this technological advancement that our brains did not evolve to deal with in a healthy way, we're slowly moving to a dystopian future like what we see with video games or movies.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому +1

      I think you're right. I just hope (or wish) we could turn things around and reset the world back to more natural and happier state.

    • @Colzline
      @Colzline 6 місяців тому

      Nah, that ain't happening unless you move to a lesser developed country but even then they have plenty of problems that would make a 1st worlder cringe in their sleep. But on a positive side, while they are hard to find, you can still find pockets where people choose to live a more simple lifestyle, like say here in the USA we have Amish communities who swear off most technologies except for the most essential.

  • @DaveE99
    @DaveE99 6 місяців тому +1

    Honestly, I wouldn’t say upgraded, more autonomous yes for sure but upgraded, no, we still have human nature that dosent change just context and also if you look at increasing rates of insecure attatchments and understanding too how the avoidant can’t see a problem with themself and the anxious creates its own self created resentment Then you got to trauma stats and then the fact that women date across and above. And if they are with a man, and he is less, she is less satisfied which is why things like polarity work and bdsm exist as they artificially trigger a women’s hypergamous instinct. So basically more autonomous dosent mean more healed or emotionally regulated. As we have to look at this change also in context of rising lonliness and mental health problems. Plus when they say single ladies are happier, moment to moment happiness is both not the same as life satisfaction and meaning in life. I have never seen an article published that they brag that they have more of those. Plus happiness is not a single construct, reducing negative happiness is an independent construct from increasing positive happiness. You can be high negative and high positive and all sorts of combos. I get sense women by default by being single mainly decrease higher negative which they would have due to higher rates of neurotisism on big 5 personality test. Increasing the positive, if they aren’t lonely and truly connected, perhaps, but if not they are not getting their needs met and are as bad off as the men. It’s just they tend to be a bit better at maintaining friendships, and yet those aren’t that great either.

    • @robertproebstle6534
      @robertproebstle6534 6 місяців тому +1

      I disagree. Women are a waste of time for most men more than ever before and nearly impossible to be LT with. They want 6 figures, 6' ft and 6 pack abs. What are you getting in return? Typically aggrevation, a self-center woman whom still thinks she's better than you. Divorcing you at a rate of 90% per couple. Plus few to no children which you would than pay her child support and may rarely see if she moves away or gets involved on another relationship. Read the book, By the numbers, ROI on chasing modern women". There are many good references out there.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому

      I haven't read that book. I'm guessing ROI would be Return On Investment? I agree that chasing them is bad idea but I still think they are too important not to invest in. It would be interesting to survey women to find out if 6 figures, 6ft and 6 pack (666 being the number of the beast) is what they really want. I know a number of women and none of them think like that, so either they're not being honest, aren't typical or maybe they are representive and men have been lied to and fooled into thinking they all want the 666.

  • @user-hf4tz4hu3w
    @user-hf4tz4hu3w 14 днів тому

    Muslims have a beautiful approach in the past. It is not about money, no matter how wealthy a woman is. She wants a man with character, and respecting him is a religious duty for her, even if he is financially less than hers. Rather, he is responsible for her and for spending on her, even if she does not need it. Why do they do that? Why does she want it? Women getting married? Well, because she realizes that this is normal and is what is best for her religiously, psychologically, physically, etc. What is happening in the world now, and in the West in particular, is a distorted perception, which creates distorted decisions that produce results.. guess what?

  • @nordicexile7378
    @nordicexile7378 6 місяців тому +1

    I would welcome your second alternative: moving to a process of creating Brave New World babies (grown in artificial wombs) would mean that we can finally get rid of gender roles altogether. Robots will cook and clean for us, "bull$#!+ jobs" will be eliminated, and we can have families on our own, no partner required. I'm too old to live to see it, but I hope it's an option for my grandchildren.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  6 місяців тому +1

      That could well be the future and maybe it could be a good thing. It's just hard to imagine it working out well. Maybe both scenarios will play out and there will be a choice. Hope so.

  • @Lazylinepainter.
    @Lazylinepainter. 5 місяців тому

    So its a bad thing I dont have to break my back in a mine everyday? The way you talk about relationships as if there should be a power differential is depressing.If you want a maid hire one,a partner should be good company,interesting conversion and someone you fancy.

    • @neilcarpenter1972
      @neilcarpenter1972  5 місяців тому

      I could be wrong but I'm not sure that kind of idealistic equality can actually exist between humans. I know how depressing that sounds.