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What I found is that my stay at home wife, despite saying so repeatedly before marriage, didn’t want to be a homemaker beyond seasonal decorations. So I’ve lived 28 years with piles of clothes in the bedroom, garbage on the floor, etc (99% her doings). I couldn’t walk to my side of the bed without stepping over stuff. The rest of the house is pretty much a wreck too. I’ve tried to address this in every way imaginable to no avail. Man are I a sucker.

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Husbands don’t want to work on marriage because when they’re selfishly fulfilling their needs, betraying you and being unfaithful, they do not want to repent or have reckoning with Christ. The man is more verbal and having emotional physical affairs left and right, from being more intimate with siblings and isolating you, to hooking up with anyone they can sexually. The spectrum of unfaithfulness and unjustified abuse of spouse is astounding. The only thing I’ve learned in two years married is to give my spouse over to Christ and suffer as silently as I can. Nothing else has worked.

I’m desperate for help! I need a miracle! My marriage is in crisis. My husband wants a divorce but I don’t. I want to continue fighting for our marriage of almost 24 years. I want our family to stay together but I feel his heart has hardened. He’s drinking a lot and doesn’t speak to me unless absolutely necessary. He comes home late on purpose and barely spends time with our kids. Our family is in crisis 😭 I’ve sought out help from our church. I feel like we need an intervention but people just say they’re praying for us and that if he doesn’t want help there isn’t much else they can do for him. I don’t feel this is right. I think my husband is in desperate need for godly men to reach out before it’s too late.

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So I came across this as a single person, and I’m so convicted and encouraged because I’m struggling with hardness of heart in some of my close relationships and with God. I was crying out for some practical help and thank God He led me here. Love the tips and Scriptures. I am grateful for this video!

Please pray for my husband Adam and i. Been separated for a year and a half and now im thinking there is another woman involved with him. Love him so much please pray that he comes back to me and our daughter. In Jesus name Amen

My husband is drifting away from me, recently, because he's noticed I'm being suspicious of him , I monitor him and still can't trust him. ..yes he's correct. I cant seem to trust him because of his past, and the fact that he sometimes wouldn't touch me for weeks all in the name of stress.. it makes think he's having fun outside, that's why. What do I do in such a situation? I need ur Godly advice.

Pls help me pray for my husband who has become so proud, selfish, angressive with a hardened heart...i believe only God can change him to being humble, peaceful, selfless and softhearted...its taking a toil on my marriage and mental health..every one says i should live like he doesn't exist and care less about him. But i love him and want our marriage to work, for us and for the kids and to the glory of God..

Please pray for me and my husband he is in rehab coming off of meth and fentanyl, he has devastated me i lost my home, he has fooled around and my heart was so hard! But i see how i was judgmental, angry, bitter, and i was not a good wife either! So we both need a personal revival and i believe God can fix our marriage! Mahalo!

Please pray for my husband's salvation and full deliverance. For full restoration and reconciliation in my marriage. For my husband to return home to me and my children. My marriage is under demonic influences 😢😢😢

My husband and I saw thus video and yes we did enjoy it, but as human beings we are told to wear clothing.. Our question is how does being nude for a week without any clothing work. Yes, we are interested, and yet there is the but what if is a question. Okay my husband are interested in trying something new. According to your video and what you are saying just try being nude.

Amen, please pray for my marriage. Thank you

My husband filed for divorce after 25yrs of marriage, please pray he softens his heart to me. I love him dearly & he is a good man. Amen 🙏🏼.

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That’s a good question! It’s possible the speaker is poorly presenting a heart message. It can help to be sure to uncover the actual, rather than assumed, request. When it comes across as blaming, we often aren’t controlling the frustration we’re feeling due to unmet needs and expectations. If you can work around that, it might help you discern the meaning of what’s being shared- the way your spouse is defining the situation that’s troublesome. Sharing your own feelings about your spouse’s feelings plus his challenging presentation is a different issue, so it’s better to fully hear your spouse to his satisfaction first, before sharing how the way he shared made you feel. It’s a good idea to take turns and save your own issue for your turn. Maybe you could ask your spouse to use I statements instead of you statements. You could ask questions to help him uncover the impact on him of the situation. He may want to communicate something to you, let you into his heart and show you how it feels to be him, but struggle putting it into words, describing what’s going on inside him, or understanding how he’s interpreting what’s happening. How does what happened make him feel? What would he suggest to remedy it? How might you grow by learning something about him, his triggers, and the way he defines these situations or responses? Of course, you hope he would do the same for you! It is our experience that, in most situations like you described, that everybody’s talking and nobody’s listening - so somebody could improve communication by being the first to really listen and weed through a difficult presentation to catch a heart message. That’s hard to do when you don’t feel heard yourself. However, modeling what you need- doing to others what you’d like done to you, responding well just because it’s the right thing to do regardless of whether or not your spouse does likewise- is a great place to start turning it around. Note it isn’t Ok to be bullied or verbally/emotionally abused. Also it’s not a good idea to allow the conversation to escalate or close one or both of you and damage the relationship. See our video on boundaries for ideas on exiting a conversation that’s spiraling in a negative direction.

What if the speaker is projecting their emotions onto the listener and blaming the listener-and the listener can recognize this and listen and allow the speaker to speak. Is there anything other than prayer & listening that the listener can do to help their spouse process & recognize their own emotions?

Such a blessed word of God! Thanks for sharing a wonderful message. Glory to Jesus!😊

I definitely believe we ah e yo soften our hearts. I also believe in trying to be as selfless as possible. I have a counselor who told me I needed to be more selfish and i immediately felt that was not correct. I gotta be better and respectful and selfless and trust in God to help me through it.

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She want to close the car though she can just move her car and she can just drive it

I loved the delivery to this message. Beautifully done! Thanks guys!

My wife has filed for divorce and I’m devastated. Her heart is so hardened. Satan hardens hearts and those who have them cannot see it. Only God can soften a hardened heart. I’m praying for a miracle. Any prayers would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your wonderful message and I pray blessings for your ministry. God bless.

GOD soften my husbands Jason’s heart and save his soul, restore our marriage and family in JESUS mighty name Amen

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Please pray for complete restoration of my marriage and protection from spiritual warfare. That my husband would only have a sexual desire for me and that all perversion and desires for his mistress would be crucified.

How to forgive an abuse husband i forgive so many times now i feel cold and empty inside but i will continue to pray for his salvation

So is it ever appropriate for a spouse to think about his or her own needs, wants, or desires? It’s a pretty common problem whereby only one spouse puts in the effort. Most likely they are the ones watching your videos. The answer always seems to be “just live with it”.

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Amen to this.

My husband has moved out and has OW and hardened his heart as well. Please pray for his heart to soften and to come home changed through Christ and leave the OW

We are so glad to hear this has been helpful! Maybe the two of you could get help as a couple. Working on sharing and hearing hearts in a non-threatening can be a good next step.

You are a genius.. I used a lot of your points to humble myself and ask my husband to forgive me and he began to cry. He hugged me and held me. The 1st day of a new beginning

Can you please pray for my ex fiancé. She left me. And I still love her. I want her to come back so we can get married under God's holy temple. Please pray for Cheryl Ebright and I ( Anthony Espinoza). Please help with prayers.

Please pray for my husband Jeremy. He has bipolar disorder and is in a very dark place. He has become bitter and angry. He has been saying he wants to give up on life. He is a believer but he has quit going to church and reading the Bible. He says he can no longer hear Gods voice and is lost. He's making financial mistakes that are concerning me. We have a young son who needs his daddy to be okay again. Please pray for him. Thank you for your prayers ♡

You guys are very helpful in appreciating our spouses.

I see a reply here in my notifications but it doesn't show up under the comments. Maybe it was erased? My basic unresolved issue (and we've been married 27 years with this issue) is my wife does not do house cleaning even though she said she wanted to be a homemaker before marriage and she does not work outside the home. She also has some hoarding issues and suffers from chronic depression (which I didn't know before we got married) and I know that certainly contributes to the problem. Occasionally she will clean if we have family visitors which is not often. Frankly I'm embarrassed to have anyone over as it is such a mess. It is not a good situation as we have 4 kids (3 still in the house) and we certainly haven't raised them right in this regard. We will be starting marriage counseling next week but I tried to bring the church into it years ago which was a big waste of time. So when I see videos of unresolved issues I have to wonder what these people are thinking. I take accountability for letting this issue fester for decades but for the longest time I believed marriage was permanent and felt stuck with no leverage (and why should I need to exercise leverage in a marriage), especially after the church not helping. You guys look like you have the marriage I dreamed of having and to think about it crushes my soul. Just an FYI, I cook dinners, wash dishes, do my own laundry, wash all household towels and vacuum the floors. So I contribute to the care of the house

The content you share is good but, it is definitely not a one size fits all. If you have begged and pleaded with your spouse for years to get help and they refuse and they continue to be controlling, abusive and destructive I feel the marriage vows have been broken. There is a great difference between a difficult marriage and a destructive marriage. Sometimes the best thing you can do is leave and get to a safe place. Jesus does not want anyone to be abused.

I guess I should just get used to living in a house treated like a garbage dump. Thanks for the advice.

Label me cynical and jaded. I had a little chuckle over the statement "be happy with where we are and what we have right now" as I look around the house I provide for my family but treated like a garbage bin by my lovely wife with boxes of stuff filling up entire rooms and so much junk on the floor of the bedroom I can't even walk to my side of the bed. Basically 27 years of that [insert bad word here].

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Praying for you and your husband. Here’s a video we did that might be helpful. ua-cam.com/video/Z_MyPaO_gG0/v-deo.htmlsi=qAkVFpL6Naa8MwK3

Hi, Could I ask for a prayer. My husband John is still angry at me. Like the hardening of heart in your video. Pls. help me with our marriage restoration. Our deadline is scheduled Sept 2024. He requested a cool off. My heart is breaking.

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This is on my rewind playlist. Thank you for this. This is what I have been feeling. Sometimes it is quite hard to forgive. Although, I have forgiven yesterday. It is hurtful when someone neglects you and the other party just shuts down. Thanks for the point of view. Pls. pray for me and my husband John. For his heart to soften. I pray he comes back to the light.

We’re living in a world where gender lines are currently blurred, your video brings a refreshing and helpful perspective. Thank you!

Mine want talk to me want answer any of my text

Thank you that is exactly what has happened in my marriage he has moved out .and has another woman in his life.Thank you for your words. Please pray that God will soften his heart to love me again

I have a command voice mixed with inflection. LEADERSHIP 101.