This message was EVERYTHING I needed! The prayer at the end was right on time! I thank God for you ladies and what you are doing. We all gotta keep pushing and keep pressing. With Love 💜
The display of this beautiful friendship on a platform where you all are bringing awareness and holding discussions on necessary topics is just what I needed. Shoot it’s what many of us need that tune in. It’s wisdom, the word, experience, grace and so much more that you provide with every topic discussed. Truly God sent! Thank you so much y’all! ❤
i’m from tik tok and i’m watching this crying so hard it’s been a week and i just been going through some many ups and downs i just can’t my head feel like it’s gon blow up istg my heart hurts …
I cried this entire episode, when I say y’all spoke to my life in this very moment. If you ever wondered whether you’re doing what God called you to do , you are. I mean I was barely holding on , and this was my present help even in the time of trouble. God bless you both 🧡
This one hit different.....in 2021 I felt like I was in my Job season. Literally lost EVERYTHING! My grandma passed and not to long after her my mom passed. Lost my apartment in the mist of everything that was going on. 2022 my daughter went to live with her dad due to difficult circumstances, then lost the love of my life and my vehicle in one night ( he got murdered in my car). Here we are 2024 and sometimes idk whether I'm coming or going......God kept people in my life to pray for me when I couldn't pray for myself. I'm holding on and still her so that my testimony will help someone else. Thank you fellow Aunties for this episode and may God continue to bless you ❤️🙌🏾🙏🏾
This was heavy. Having to grieve someone that is still here is extremely hard. It’s been about 4 years and I’m still grieving the end of a 20 year friendship. I am having a hard time accepting that it wasn’t what I thought it was all those years. Having milestones happen a she is not here to celebrate them with me. 🥺🥺
As a therapist--Thank you for this. This truly touched my soul. I will definitely be using this in my sessions. Come on black excellence! ;) May the Lord bless you and keep you sisters!
Grief has been tearing me up and I feel like no one understands. I realize that I am not only grieving a relationship that wasn't what I expected, but also a life that I feel like I'll never have. It's all so much.
This was good!!! We need that 45 min episode about grieving relationships because if I’m honest I won’t even pursue a person to avoid heartbreak At all cost I try to avoid heartbreak but I know that’s apart of life. It’s so scary because do I stay lonely and in a place of desperation or do I battle with heartbreak. Thank you for this episode, a much needed conversation.
I’ve listened to this episode before but I didn’t realize it until half way in. I know that God needed me to hear this again. Thank you, for your vulnerability!
I needed this because I’ve been going through a serious season of depression, processing an abusive relationship that ended a year ago, and feeling lost in my purpose, and grieving losing my mom, and moving to a whole new place that I’m just now getting to know people even though I’ve been here a year.. you ladies help me feel like I’m not alone in my emotions, my grief, my heart
I’ve been going through the grief of “what was supposed to be”, for months .. on top of finally getting towards acceptance of my daddy passing a couple yrs ago. And it was so close to taking over until a few weeks ago. I left the church and religion shortly after being baptized 15 yrs ago, but I’ve been working myself back over the last year and more so, here recently.. and WHEN I TELL YOU I NEEDED THIS AND NEEDED THAT PRAYER AT THE END BBBAAAABBBYYYYY, I MEAN IT WHOLEHEARTEDLY 😭 I was JUST saying that I needed someone to talk to me about grief, who understands, and here y’all are doing just that. I’m so beyond grateful that I found y’all a little while ago! Thank y’all for being here, doing what y’all do ❤️
Very relatable to my miscarriage. Accepting my family is complete. It wasn't how my plan went. I did everything I was supposed to. I hear this. I hear this for real. I cried last night and said I need to do these things to my husband. Thank you ❤
That was so good. That prayer was for me. Needed that n cried my way thru my entire workout. Thank you Lord for this answered prayer. Yes and Amen Jesus!! Bless the Aunties Lord!
I love y'all for this.. grief has been hitting me in waves and I thought I was crazy but I thank y'all for letting me know that it's all apart of the process ♥️
I needed this episode today. I’m so happy that I’m on Spring Break and in my house where I can feel the feels I need to feel without the outside world being involved.❤️🙏🏾
🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I was led to this particular episode for a reason. This was my 1st time watching after seeing many clips on IG. I thank you both and I'm locked in with yall now! 💜💜💜
Oh may God bless you guys. A mental battle is one that will make you feel like you’re fighting and competing against life. This episode was needed. Ephesians 3:20 will come to pass and Psalm 34:18 is still true till this day. “Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,” Ephesians 3:20 KJV “The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; And saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.” Psalm 34:18 KJV
hearing you talk about just making it by holding on to one piece reminded me of this post on ig that said 'you think you holding on by just a tiny thread, whole time you holding onto the the thread of his garment' and it gave me life and hope it gives you life too. your latest yt short about your mums bf passing brought me here cause i felt the same way too about my own grandma. yes she was sick but huh i never thought she'd leave, what you mean...the feelings around that news was very similar to yours so i just felt drawn here.
I know some people that let go, so let me just tell y’all… thank you. I am PROUD of y’all for holding on to that last bit of hope. The Lord sees you sis. ❤️ keep going 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Babyyyyy that prayer, Sham! That prayer got me arrested and shooketh. ❤ Yes Lord! God is gonna do it, in His timing for His glory 🙌🏾 this episode is very much needed and necessary. Thank you both for your vulnerability and encouragement as always. Can’t wait to see y’all may 3rd! ❤❤❤❤
Currently going prolly one of my biggest n worst heartbreaks ever. Going through grief of romantic relationships with a sober mind , the realization of self n everything as a whole as been soul crushing n sickening. Definitely holding on by the thinnest thread n through out my life I lost hope, my purpose, and even myself but thank youu for understanding and encouraging I cried throughout whole vid. I definitely broke down at the prayer part bc focusing more on God n our relationship. But the pain so unbearable I still feel like he not around so far away
I love how relatable this conversation is. It is so easy to feel like you are alone in these emotions and that no one can understand where you are coming from. Thank you both for your transparency and willingness to share your experiences!
The Aunties have become my therapists every week 🥺 This episode was very needed! Sham your prayer at the end was very beautiful and I touch and agree with you both 🫶🏽
Currently in this moment grieving A relationship and A quick snippet on TikTok brought me here . I felt like i needed A prayer for my strength before i knew A prayer was coming . So in thank you both for be openness . 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
🥲🥲 whewww aunties!!! I was in a dark place last week and I resonated with you auntie ShaM when you said you allowed yourself to just cry, that you knew there were deeper things you were crying about. I'm thankful for this new week and getting through that tough time. I pray I can continue to work through my emotions and be better equipped for when possibly another wave comes. 🙏🏾🩵
Thank you Lord for giving us these two beautiful ladies that’s allowing you to use them to speak to us. I feel I’m right in the middle of the grief process and this is helping me. The depression is real, and life is lifting but God is able and this too shall pass❤
My 28th Bday is tomorrow..you all do not understand how perfect timing this is for me. I needed this ❤️ May God cover you all as we continually go through our grieving trails 🙏
25:35 This was the wrong and the right day to listen to this podcast! Tomorrow April 5th marks 5 years since my husband passed away! I’ve been battling not only my depression but my 2 kids depression as well. The sorrow that comes in like a thief in the night makes me so angry!
I was having this conversation with a friend. I’ve been feeling disappointed lately and the conversation about grief is the best way to explain how I’m feeling.
Ladies!!! You all are talking to me. I still struggle with my mom's death. I often go through guilt and say if I would have prayed instead of panic, she would still be here. It hit home when Auntie talked abt planning for her to be at my wedding, blessing my first home, etc. I still have her number as well! Praying for God to continue to strengthen us as we grieve. Love you all and your transparency!
🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you Aunties for your transparency! As someone who went through loss 2 years ago this is VERY true and VERY real. Praying for those who listen, don’t give up y’all! 🫶🏾❤️💜
The way I needed this today 😮💨 thank yall for what you’re doing, not only for you but for all of us that need to hear these messages and might not be able to have these conversations. Yall are such a blessing ❤️
Amen! We will see His goodness in the land of the living. It may not be the goodness that we had planned, but the author of salvation writes better stories for us than we ever could. God, help me accept and rejoice in the story you are writing for me and my podcast aunties and sisters. ❤
I needed this. All of this! I have been feeling this and couldn’t put the feelings and emotions into words. This is it. I’ve been grieving and in a state of depression for a few years now. I appreciate this platform so much. I’m still holding on all hope is not lost.
Right off the title I could tell this conversation was going to hit home and that it would be DEEPPP, but I also knew that Aunty Nia and Sham would make me laugh regardless. Bless you two for all the things you share, including your laughter.❤
This episode is soo good, I am praying for you both. May all of your heart’s desires come to fruition and may God redeem the time and life you feel you have lost ♥️
This message was EVERYTHING I needed! The prayer at the end was right on time! I thank God for you ladies and what you are doing. We all gotta keep pushing and keep pressing. With Love 💜
Yesss! 😭 when you know you’ve done all you can and it still doesn’t work out 😔
The display of this beautiful friendship on a platform where you all are bringing awareness and holding discussions on necessary topics is just what I needed. Shoot it’s what many of us need that tune in. It’s wisdom, the word, experience, grace and so much more that you provide with every topic discussed. Truly God sent! Thank you so much y’all! ❤
yall aint no aunties, yall our sisters
i’m from tik tok and i’m watching this crying so hard it’s been a week and i just been going through some many ups and downs i just can’t my head feel like it’s gon blow up istg my heart hurts …
Yes, matching outfits :)
I cried this entire episode, when I say y’all spoke to my life in this very moment. If you ever wondered whether you’re doing what God called you to do , you are. I mean I was barely holding on , and this was my present help even in the time of trouble. God bless you both 🧡
This message met me when I needed it the most. Thank you for allowing God to use you! If this was for no one else, it was for me. God Bless you!
This one hit different.....in 2021 I felt like I was in my Job season. Literally lost EVERYTHING! My grandma passed and not to long after her my mom passed. Lost my apartment in the mist of everything that was going on. 2022 my daughter went to live with her dad due to difficult circumstances, then lost the love of my life and my vehicle in one night ( he got murdered in my car). Here we are 2024 and sometimes idk whether I'm coming or going......God kept people in my life to pray for me when I couldn't pray for myself. I'm holding on and still her so that my testimony will help someone else. Thank you fellow Aunties for this episode and may God continue to bless you ❤️🙌🏾🙏🏾
When Nia started talking about not expecting things to avoid disappointment 🫠🫠🫠
But this was good and necessary 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Literally 🙃. I’m right there with y’all! Let’s keep pushing 🙏🏽💪🏽💖
This was heavy. Having to grieve someone that is still here is extremely hard. It’s been about 4 years and I’m still grieving the end of a 20 year friendship. I am having a hard time accepting that it wasn’t what I thought it was all those years. Having milestones happen a she is not here to celebrate them with me. 🥺🥺
This is good ‼️ I'm praying God bless me with a friendship like this .
That prayer! AMEN! 🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I’m 49, and I love listening to my young aunties, this resonated with me…thank you for your vulnerability and transparency….🙏🏾
As a therapist--Thank you for this. This truly touched my soul. I will definitely be using this in my sessions. Come on black excellence! ;) May the Lord bless you and keep you sisters!
This was a POWERFUL episode. Blessings to you ladies for being so transparent.
"Things are heavy when you're aware"...My God. Exactly how I felt this morning...man 🥺😭
Grief has been tearing me up and I feel like no one understands. I realize that I am not only grieving a relationship that wasn't what I expected, but also a life that I feel like I'll never have. It's all so much.
This was good!!! We need that 45 min episode about grieving relationships because if I’m honest I won’t even pursue a person to avoid heartbreak At all cost I try to avoid heartbreak but I know that’s apart of life. It’s so scary because do I stay lonely and in a place of desperation or do I battle with heartbreak. Thank you for this episode, a much needed conversation.
I had to pause this podcast and go to the gym just to finish listening ,thanks for having this vulnerable conversation
This episode was so real. Battling for the sanity of mind in some seasons is a real fight.
🙏🏽 that prayer was beautiful, thank you both for sharing , God Bless Y’all ❤
I’ve listened to this episode before but I didn’t realize it until half way in. I know that God needed me to hear this again. Thank you, for your vulnerability!
Amen 🙏🏽 Thank you Queens!
This is TRULY a blessing and needed!
I needed this because I’ve been going through a serious season of depression, processing an abusive relationship that ended a year ago, and feeling lost in my purpose, and grieving losing my mom, and moving to a whole new place that I’m just now getting to know people even though I’ve been here a year.. you ladies help me feel like I’m not alone in my emotions, my grief, my heart
🙏🙏🙏 Thank you for this! May God cover you all as well, love you aunties
I’ve been going through the grief of “what was supposed to be”, for months .. on top of finally getting towards acceptance of my daddy passing a couple yrs ago. And it was so close to taking over until a few weeks ago.
I left the church and religion shortly after being baptized 15 yrs ago, but I’ve been working myself back over the last year and more so, here recently.. and WHEN I TELL YOU I NEEDED THIS AND NEEDED THAT PRAYER AT THE END BBBAAAABBBYYYYY, I MEAN IT WHOLEHEARTEDLY 😭 I was JUST saying that I needed someone to talk to me about grief, who understands, and here y’all are doing just that. I’m so beyond grateful that I found y’all a little while ago! Thank y’all for being here, doing what y’all do ❤️
🫶🏾🫶🏾
Very relatable to my miscarriage. Accepting my family is complete. It wasn't how my plan went. I did everything I was supposed to. I hear this. I hear this for real. I cried last night and said I need to do these things to my husband. Thank you ❤
A heavy episode, but was so heavily needed. Thank you ❤️
The way I cried through this episode 😩. Whew.. this was right on time 🙏🏽
That was so good. That prayer was for me. Needed that n cried my way thru my entire workout. Thank you Lord for this answered prayer. Yes and Amen Jesus!! Bless the Aunties Lord!
My sister sent this to me and now this is me 😭😭😭😭🥲🥲🥲 God is always on time ❣️❤️❣️
Glory to God and shoutout to your sister
I need deed needed this message and this prayer. Thank you ladies 🙏🏽
I love y'all for this.. grief has been hitting me in waves and I thought I was crazy but I thank y'all for letting me know that it's all apart of the process ♥️
I needed this episode today. I’m so happy that I’m on Spring Break and in my house where I can feel the feels I need to feel without the outside world being involved.❤️🙏🏾
🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I was led to this particular episode for a reason. This was my 1st time watching after seeing many clips on IG. I thank you both and I'm locked in with yall now! 💜💜💜
This resonates with me so deeply. 😢
Absolutely beautiful & necessary episode!
Great job queens!
Oh may God bless you guys. A mental battle is one that will make you feel like you’re fighting and competing against life. This episode was needed. Ephesians 3:20 will come to pass and Psalm 34:18 is still true till this day. “Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,”
Ephesians 3:20 KJV
“The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; And saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.”
Psalm 34:18 KJV
Thank you both so much for being so transparent in this conversation, you guys articulated the feelings I couldn’t express. God bless you both ❤
hearing you talk about just making it by holding on to one piece reminded me of this post on ig that said 'you think you holding on by just a tiny thread, whole time you holding onto the the thread of his garment' and it gave me life and hope it gives you life too.
your latest yt short about your mums bf passing brought me here cause i felt the same way too about my own grandma. yes she was sick but huh i never thought she'd leave, what you mean...the feelings around that news was very similar to yours so i just felt drawn here.
I usually see you ladies on the socials. But something told me to watch a whole episode. Very glad I did. Thank you for sharing so deeply. 💜
This was needed. So beautiful I needed it.
I know some people that let go, so let me just tell y’all… thank you. I am PROUD of y’all for holding on to that last bit of hope. The Lord sees you sis. ❤️ keep going 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Babyyyyy that prayer, Sham! That prayer got me arrested and shooketh. ❤ Yes Lord! God is gonna do it, in His timing for His glory 🙌🏾 this episode is very much needed and necessary. Thank you both for your vulnerability and encouragement as always. Can’t wait to see y’all may 3rd! ❤❤❤❤
My Heart went out to you in this! the Mind is the thing that we have to make sure we take care of
Currently going prolly one of my biggest n worst heartbreaks ever. Going through grief of romantic relationships with a sober mind , the realization of self n everything as a whole as been soul crushing n sickening. Definitely holding on by the thinnest thread n through out my life I lost hope, my purpose, and even myself but thank youu for understanding and encouraging I cried throughout whole vid. I definitely broke down at the prayer part bc focusing more on God n our relationship. But the pain so unbearable I still feel like he not around so far away
This was the BEST episode so far 💯 Thank you!
I love how relatable this conversation is. It is so easy to feel like you are alone in these emotions and that no one can understand where you are coming from. Thank you both for your transparency and willingness to share your experiences!
I hope there will be a part 2 because this was too good and so much more to expand on 😢❤
wow this was right on time !!! we waiting on the "grief of relationships" episode :)
Thank you beautiful ladies. This whole episode was for me. ❤
God knows I needed this so bad. Thank you
39:25 Amen 🙏🏽 😢
This was so real and so good! Definitely a timely message ❤thank you for sharing. God bless and be with yall
A good cry is good!
The Aunties have become my therapists every week 🥺 This episode was very needed! Sham your prayer at the end was very beautiful and I touch and agree with you both 🫶🏽
Currently in this moment grieving
A relationship and A quick snippet on TikTok brought me here . I felt like i needed A prayer for my strength before i knew A prayer was coming . So in thank you both for be openness . 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Thank you guys 🙏🏾🙏🏾
🥲🥲 whewww aunties!!! I was in a dark place last week and I resonated with you auntie ShaM when you said you allowed yourself to just cry, that you knew there were deeper things you were crying about. I'm thankful for this new week and getting through that tough time. I pray I can continue to work through my emotions and be better equipped for when possibly another wave comes. 🙏🏾🩵
Who are you two?? This entire video was a God sent message to me. Yes, me personally. Thank you for being so open and honest. Keep going. ❤
🙏🏾🙏🏾much needed. Love y’all!
I love you ladies so much
This episode blessed me completely, I thank God for you both & I pray God’s blessings be upon you individually and collectively ❤️🙏🏾
Baby the way i relate to this podcast God bless you both for your transparency❤
Thank you Lord for giving us these two beautiful ladies that’s allowing you to use them to speak to us. I feel I’m right in the middle of the grief process and this is helping me. The depression is real, and life is lifting but God is able and this too shall pass❤
This was so needed 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
My 28th Bday is tomorrow..you all do not understand how perfect timing this is for me. I needed this ❤️ May God cover you all as we continually go through our grieving trails 🙏
25:35 This was the wrong and the right day to listen to this podcast! Tomorrow April 5th marks 5 years since my husband passed away! I’ve been battling not only my depression but my 2 kids depression as well. The sorrow that comes in like a thief in the night makes me so angry!
I was having this conversation with a friend. I’ve been feeling disappointed lately and the conversation about grief is the best way to explain how I’m feeling.
Amen and thank you for this message. Your honesty and humanness is truly refreshing
God is all up through this! You two have been sharing experiences that most of us are going through. Nia and Shamarin, thank you for being vulnerable.
🙏🏾this blessed me fr
Ladies!!! You all are talking to me. I still struggle with my mom's death. I often go through guilt and say if I would have prayed instead of panic, she would still be here. It hit home when Auntie talked abt planning for her to be at my wedding, blessing my first home, etc. I still have her number as well! Praying for God to continue to strengthen us as we grieve. Love you all and your transparency!
🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you Aunties for your transparency! As someone who went through loss 2 years ago this is VERY true and VERY real. Praying for those who listen, don’t give up y’all! 🫶🏾❤️💜
The way I needed this today 😮💨 thank yall for what you’re doing, not only for you but for all of us that need to hear these messages and might not be able to have these conversations. Yall are such a blessing ❤️
This came at the perfect time. Thank you for letting GOD use you to even talk about this
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 y’all ate down with this one 😭😭😭
Omg I needed this. Thank yall so much for this episode. I’m new to your podcast! 🙏🏾
Amen! We will see His goodness in the land of the living. It may not be the goodness that we had planned, but the author of salvation writes better stories for us than we ever could. God, help me accept and rejoice in the story you are writing for me and my podcast aunties and sisters. ❤
Amen 🙏🏾, thanks for this podcast.
This was so needed. Thank y’all for answering the call and standing in obedience 🙏🏽💖 I love you ladies!
🥹I love these ladies, this is the exact platform we need🤍
32:20 because at the end of the day the day has got to end lol but I needed this. Thank you!
This was so good 🥹
Thank you Auntie's for the 🙏🙌😊🤍
Ya’ll be reading my journal and then some. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼🤍
This. WOW, this…thank you for the transparency. 🙏🏽❤️🩹
This was such a beautiful episode, thank you for letting God use you guys 🤎🙏🏼✨
I needed this. All of this! I have been feeling this and couldn’t put the feelings and emotions into words. This is it. I’ve been grieving and in a state of depression for a few years now. I appreciate this platform so much. I’m still holding on all hope is not lost.
🙏🏾🙏🏾this was so good
I love yal so much I had to come from fb just to say this really touched me! I align with all the things mentioned here and I needed it!
0:23 Happy Thankful Thursday! Replay gang in the building!!
Thank you for your vulnerability! A lot of what you said was me prior to therapy
🙏🙏🙏 Bless It!!!
Right off the title I could tell this conversation was going to hit home and that it would be DEEPPP, but I also knew that Aunty Nia and Sham would make me laugh regardless. Bless you two for all the things you share, including your laughter.❤
Love both of ya’ll when I found your channel when I left a long term relationship, love you even more now that your updates are sustaining me ❤️
Grief...smdh its definitely ripping me apart at 39yrs of age. Whew lord
This episode is soo good, I am praying for you both. May all of your heart’s desires come to fruition and may God redeem the time and life you feel you have lost ♥️