That also applies to starting a new school year, too. I've always stayed in the same school district, but, as a fellow INTP, I can re-confirm that this was exactly what I attempted to do before the start of each new school year. The plan never lasted more than a few days for me. 😅
Same! When i changed schools, i thought i would portray myself as a friendly person And i got an eccentric outcast image...even though i was a popular introvert in my previous school
The INFJ is so true, at first you think you’ll be lonely and then the next second you’re suddenly surrounded by people that you’ll stick with until school’s over
Me too! I absolutely lost it. I did the kind of laugh that's the screeching, wheezing, "Are you okay", that lasts for 20 seconds and then goes on for another 10 seconds kind of laugh 😂 (On a family member's account)
Here: not to pee, means that not to urinate, which needs a process of absorbing water from your colon. And, not urinating may mean the colon is digesting waste by DIGESTING it, if it is not bringing water to your pp - INFP 4w5
No because when I was in grade school to pee or not to pee is one of my repeated questions in my mind because I'm too shy to talk while the teacher is doing lecture 😭😭 I also had thesame experience as the skit, except it was a story telling. I'm telling you, it ended up exactly thesame as what Frank portrayed 💀 I asked the girl in front of me of what he thinks about the title and all I got was a disgusted face and cricket sounds. I wanna die 😭😭
ISTP won’t talk to anyone the whole year. and ENTP will flatter around all social groups but will secretly like to hang out with the misfits the most, but will also be somewhat accepted by the popular kids.
Holy shit the INTP one was so accurate. I switched schools in high school and told myself I was gonna be a whole new more social version of myself. My plan lasted a week at most 🤣
INFJ here, yep that’s accurate. Every school I went to I wanted to fit in somewhere I would try to entry every group and fail. Every time ended with the misfits, and they are some great people.
When I never really tried it was to awkward i just got pulled in by the misfits and pretty much all of them graduated so im spending this year awkward as hell
As an INFP who has had the Hamlet "To be or not to be" monologue memorized for several years and loves reciting it and acting it out by myself out of the blue whenever I think about it, this was quite funny.
OmG. I memorized it for my Senior year HS English class, and still remember every word of it 28 years later. But I can’t remember a phone number someone told me 5 mins ago. Seems like there’s a lot of us out there, yet it’s supposed to be a rare type.
As an INTJ, this actually pretty much summarises my friendships at school: the misfits who are not cool or popular enough to hang out with other groups, but at least we’re not eating in the bathroom by ourselves 😂
As an INFJ, I wasn't feeling called out until they started talking about clicks and then realized they fit in with the misfits! My entire high school friend group was those misfits lmao.
As an ENFP I like to think of myself as “the king of the outcasts” because of how I love to bring so many people who aren’t in established groups together and form a strong bond with them
Fr i know the names of every person in my grade I keep up with the gossip and I bully all the students who are older then me. I remember when I was in 2nd grade I was making fun of my family friend who was in 7th grade. I think she is still personally offended to this day👍🤭💀💀💀💀
2:40 is Entp not Entj man….and here i am (an Entp) checking all the timestamps to correct your mistake 😀. No issues, no issues i mean you should have rechecked it, i could have saved some time. But no issues 🙂
Yeah You are my fire The one desire Believe when I say I want it that way But we are two worlds apart Can't reach to your heart When you say That I want it that way Tell me why Ain't nothin' but a heartache Tell me why Ain't nothin' but a mistake Tell me why I never wanna hear you say I want it that way Am I your fire? Your one desire Yes, I know it's too late But I want it that way Tell me why Ain't nothin' but a heartache Tell me why Ain't nothin' but a mistake Tell me why I never wanna hear you say I want it that way Now I can see that we've fallen apart From the way that it used to be, yeah No matter the distance, I want you to know That deep down inside of me You are my fire The one desire You are (you are, you are, you are) Don't wanna hear you say Ain't nothin' but a heartache Ain't nothin' but a mistake (don't wanna hear you say) I never wanna hear you say (oh, yeah) I want it that way Tell me why Ain't nothin' but a heartache Tell me why Ain't nothin' but a mistake Tell me why I never wanna hear you say (don't wanna hear you say) I want it that way Tell me why Ain't nothin' but a heartache Ain't nothin' but a mistake Tell me why I never wanna hear you say (don't wanna hear you say) I want it that way 'Cause I want it that way...
INFP here. Joined the drama group, didn't at all believe in my skills and asked for a small, part with hardly any lines, knowing my memory for anything important is bad (I remember things that I'll never need perfectly though). Got two small parts nobody wanted to play, ended up being brilliant in both and being given the role of the main antagonist (the protagonist had to be physically attractive and I wasn't) and nailed it. So my advice to fellow INFPs, start with something small and stay humble. Being the new kid at school from my experience was wonderful, because at my old school I was bullied and at the new school it took the other kids weeks to notice my existence. Also when they noticed me, because I was not trying to be liked they thought I was really cool 😯
As an ISTJ, I didn’t have to deal with many school plays anyway but when I did those were exactly the roles I looked for, why bother memorising line after line when you can memorise like 5 lines and be done with it, minimising both work and the chance of making mistakes? (yes I know passion for playing theatre exists but I wasn’t that passionate about it)
INFP here too, and while I'm incredibly awkward and shy, I absolutely love acting! Many people can't understand why I'm unable to handle face to face interactions or public speaking, but somehow manage to get up on a stage for a play, but that's precisely what makes the beauty of theatre. You're acting. It's not YOU who are on stage, it's your character. 😊 I've been bullied throughout the entirety of my school years, and I remember that nobody but me cared about plays when we were studying them in class. As a result, I oftentimes got laughed at by my classmates because they were probably thinking I was being ridiculous with me raising my voice or making big moves, but every time the teachers got them to shut up because I cared about the play and did what needed to be done. I also joined a drama club one year and for two plays got a lead role! 😄 That was very impressive, but also very fun to do.
As an INTP, I felt that hit way harder than it should've: When I first went to high school, I had an idea to change myself, to be new me... I ended up cringing myself and doing weird shit which made me look like a nerd I always was... am :(
Same, I thought I could be all cool and stuff at my new school. I was barely around for half a lesson and everyone had already started making fun of me. It’s still a mystery to me what I did wrong.
As an INTP, when I started college I tried the whole “reinvent yourself because no one knows you” thing. Stepping outside my comfort zone as an experiment, I got involved in theatre, got relatively comfortable acting like someone else in front of a group (but never, you know, being myself). But eventually I just reverted to my old habits, especially once I discovered analytic philosophy, formal logic, and pure math.
I remember in 6th grade trying to make my personality as bland and boring as possible so people ignore me so i could do anything i want Eventually i started being known as the quiet art kid whose english skills are stupid high
as an ENFP, I rickrolled the class and then then danced and became the class president with a whole majority. others wrote their scripts for days, mine was instantaneous and yes. EXACT REPRESENTATION
yeah... as an ENFP I ran for grade representative and actually almost went toe to toe with the popular kid... prolly because I break danced on my election speech.
@@EmiMakesIt I stopped asking who I am today because I spend so much time trying to figure it out just to change. I’m almost 50/50 in every mbti category but an INFJ. But the one thing that stays constant no matter how much in the middle I am of everything and no matter how much I change… …95% judging 😎
No waaay! I was a lost ISFP who'd just started at a new high school in the 10th grade. I met this very confident girl who asked what class I had next and found out we were headed to the same one. She led me the whole way there making small talk with other students along the way only to tell me she was also new and had just moved from Chicago. Who knows, maybe she was an ENTJ all along haha.
I feel like infj has two modes : float around with everyone and not have a group like a chameleon learning about people, and THEN the second one that you pointed out of getting in your head about being different and burning out from pretending to be chill, and wanting to be understood... eventually ending up with the misfits. For me that was the library kids lol. And now that I'm out of school altogether my connections from back then are all one on one for the most part
Yess this is very accurate! I feel like I have good friends, but every one of them has someone as a "best friend" from our group, and when we have to work in pairs, it's so awkward every time, I always just stand there and wish I could just dissappear. My only problem is, most of the time only I am the misfit, so I can't befriend other loners:')
Ah, the library kids. I was among them. The library was a quiet refuge filled with fantastical stories that could take me away from the stresses of school and people.
ikr!!!! I mean I've never had a problem making friends. like you can throw me anywhere and I'd still make a lot of friends. it's just I never (except in elementary school) had someone I can call a (best friend)
@@DanahSul yepp, it's such an awful feeling for me that there is no person (outside family) that would pick me over everyone else. I'm always a 2nd or 3rd choice... I know I should be grateful for even having friends, but sometimes I feel like I'm just there in case the person's best friend cannot be there.
as an intp im surprised how accurate this was, i actually talk to myself a LOT and i cant help it when the rare times someone interacts with me at school, i keep like repeating what just happened until i fully be able to move on
As a fellow INTP, same. And definitely relate to the talking to myself part, which I sometimes get carried away with and don't realize that I'm doing that until people get creeped out by it. XD
Thank you, now I'm talking with myself about a situation that happened like 8 years ago in a calculus exam that involves me thinking loudly in that exam.
I really got into a group of misfits: The shy INFP girl who always danced in secret The ENFP kid who always danced in class and wouldn't sit still The ENTP girl who literally on the first day of class questioned the book and won the argument against the teacher. And I was the INTJ girl who liked math and computers. We talked about everything from feminism to communism in the Soviet Union, math and computers (me explaining and them listening). The funny thing is, I've always unintentionally hurt the INFP by speaking my mind without caring or realizing the impact of my words. Overall, we get along really well.
Ah, yes, the perfect things to have conversations about. Feminism and communism in the Soviet Union.... I'm not judging, though, as I've had a conversation that went from talking about umbrellas to talking about anti-LGBT in political parties in Australia... To be fair, I am autistic, and it was a conversation with my mum... Conversations with me will go wherever my mind drifts off to, typically.
I’m an INFJ and that was so me, wishing I fit in somewhere and ending up hanging out with other misfits. I also loved the addition of Napoleon Dynamite 🤣🤣🤣
and why i am as an infj somehow had absolutely different experience? i was the only one to not fit in every time . i guess i ve been just too traumatized and sad of a kid to not screw everything up methodically
ISFP. My first day in high school I was a new kid and the only reason I ended up with any friends on day 1 was because I had a class with an extrovert who was also a new kid. It's always what I'm hoping for when I enter a new environment lol I love extroverts who adopt introverts.
INFJ classical musician here. School was sheer hell, as bringing my cello to school twice a week (for school orchestra and my cello lesson) was an obvious object of derision.I only had one friend, who was also not a popular girl , who was a very good flute player.I'd go round her house after school, to do homework together, and her family were lovely, and thrilled that thier , lonely, bullied daughter had finally found a friend, and was not being bullied any more. Bullies know not go anywhere near INFJ's, as they can come across as weird psycho's when seriously annoyed.
"Bullies know not to go anywhere near INFJ's as they can come across as weird psycho's when annoyed" seriously feeling called out right now 😳 (fellow INFJ)
@@Matt-wv3iy But it's TRUE. It takes a hell of a lot of really bad bullying and endless serious nastiness, to get an INFJ furious, but when we have finally had enough, we get really weird. We do that special stare only we have, and follow up with a devastating word like "Sad" or "Pathetic". My favourite was "So?"
@@Matt-wv3iy Oh and forgot to say that, if we know you, we know exactly what to say to really hurt you, I mean REALLY hurt you. It's rare to see us angry as we feel angry is so bad, and we rarely do it, but when we do, you are going to be in a while world of psychological and emotional hurt, to your very core!!!! Then we'll blank you forever!
I don't know why this made me laugh.... I'm an ISTP, however the friends I have I only have because of autism and the fact I share classes with them (I'm still in school)... The friends I know better are the ones I see for at least 16 hours every week.
As an INFP, I remember having an anxiety atack few days before going to school. On the first day, My bus reached after school was started, I had to sit at the first seat, I stuttered while giving my introduction, When the class was silent I accidentally dropped my bottle. Even though I knew most of my classmates, By knew I mean, I have seen them around and maybe greeted em too. and I was so stressed cause I had to sit alone and there were so many people and they were so fudging loud, and how tf do they all became friends at the first day of school. I only dared to talk with my old classmates if I needed smtg and ate lunch alone while they all had fun in groups. few days later, I sat with one of my old classmates, I was comfortable with and she found me interesting and shat,"Dammmn I never thought your personality was like this, We have talked a lot of times before but I never saw your this side" Yeah so We lowkey became partner in crimes but she was the only one who do it cause I am a 🐱. Weeks later, She found a new friend and started hanging out with her more, Pretty understandable you can't hang out with the same person your whole life, Just because I don't socialize doesn't mean other people don't do that either. There was this girl who always sat alone during lunch like me, I wanted to have a conversation with her but I can't, Coincidentally few days later, We had to sit together due to new seat arrangements, And I sat with her, being the introvert I am, I hopped that she will sat something so that We could have a conversation. Nearly the day was about to end so being a responsible citizen I am, I tried to make a conversation with let's just say, Asteria for ex, "So asteria was it?" "Hmm... Yeahhh.. " ".... you were in 8th grade right" "Yeah I was, surprised that you have even seen me" "Oh well I sat alone too" "Ohh... " "anyways since we are gonna sit together for a while and I don't want for things to be awkward between us, Let's try to know each other a bit, Being said that, What are your interests? " "Nothing intresting really, I like to read books" "same, I like to read books, I write as well! " "Really! what are your favorite books then!" So We talked about them for a while "Oh that's cool is there anything else you are interested in? " "I like to listen to music if that counts" "Same! I love listening to music! what's your favorite genre! " ".... Uhhh.... I llike.......pop.. " ".... Sure, Do you listen to kpop btw?" "Tbh that's the only thing I listen too, I just said pop because I don't know if you are okay with it or not" "cmon girl, Do you really think I am a tagt type of person, Offense taken" "I am so sorry I didn't mean it like that, You are a really nice person-" *laughs* "istg you are so innocent, I was just kidding only... Anyways what's your favorite group? " "uh Stray kids" "STRAY KIDS? ONG THEY ARE MY FAVS TOO along with TXT, Damn this is literally the first time I met someone who like some other group than BTS and/or blackpink" "same" And then we talked about kpop for a while nd that day, I made a new friend on my own.... But yk it's so sad that she is always sick and have to stay at home most or the days, I really miss spending time with her, She was absent for like nearly four weeks because of her health, I hope She gets better, She is genuinely my only friend, I share everything with. I feel so bad for her, I wish I could take her place instead, She deserves to have a well health, Why do universe always do wrong with the most best people. Okay Anyways I feel like I shouldn't have wrote this comment as it is too long and personal, I lowkey hope none of you find this at all
@Reality Is A Dream That's fine. Everyone is different. And I think that Love Who has a better INTJ in his videos than Frank James. Maybe go watch his.
As an INFJ I can say with 100%, this is true. When I entered my new school in 7th grade I was worried I would not fit in. Too many clichés and too many people trying to be "the popular kid". Then came 8th grade. I found my people. A short crackhead that likes mayo, an alethic awkward jock, an athletic socially awkward jock, and me. (add the newest member in high school who will soon be the next president, I'm calling it)
Okay, hold on a second. I always test as an INFJ BUT I also make friends… everywhere! My kids even told me…” wow mom, you have a lot of friends “… “you make friends wherever you go”… I’m so confused now! I relate to both! I also love solitude and I do try to “read peoples souls”… as my sister would say very agitatedly. It’s not because I’m nosy, I just am trying to figure out and understand what’s happening around me… which includes the people that are around me…??? I don’t know anymore. I’m going to “rock the 90’s” concert tonight, and tomorrow an all day hiking in the wilderness by myself ( I do this a lot). What am I? I remember telling a classmate in college if she quit I would too because I believe in her, and so if she quit she would be ruining my life as well! Lol! I was serious too! She didn’t believe in herself so I took the risk. She graduated highest honors in the class! I was honestly terrified because I would have quit. I’m crazy.
@@wallflower931 I've also been adopted by ESFJ as a kid. She was that friendly, cute and sweet one and I was that smart and you know, dominant one (INTJ). 🙂 without her I'd probably spent my whole childhood at home reading books and watching documentaries.
ISTP. This is my motto in life “Hate everything and everyone, then succeed in life and make lots of money” So far I’ve got the first half accomplished.
In this video, I related to both INTP and ISTP. INTP is pretty much me every time I went to a new school - as in, to middle school, then high school and then university because I've never actually changed schools like this. I was optimistic every time, imagining finally making some friends, and then each school disappointed me more than the last one. Meanwhile, ISTP said what I wished I could say once I understood that my social status wouldn't get any better in that school. I would just do the best I could at schoolwork and wait for graduation so I could change schools again. And so the cycle continued.
My ENTP son actually went off on a tirade at the principal at one of his schools, in front of some parents. He got suspended, but the principal got fired not long afterwards, because she really was as terrible as he said.
As an INTP, I can relate... When I go to a new school, or to any place where no one knows about my existence, I try to act differently so people can at least look my way, but no, no one does at the end 🥲
I can relate too but i am an entp i usually hide myself so if i ended up changing school i am gonna ask all of my questions without trying to make the other person feel bad
Cannot describe how much joy it brought me that INTJ was at the misfit table. Totally see that group turning into the main group for a tv show or book series, and it's glorious.
As an ENFP, this isn't far off from something I actually did once. During post-prom one year, there was karaoke. No one opted to go for it, so I decided to sing the alphabet song in the most overly-grand Elvis-like style I could do. I should never be allowed to do something like that again, but somebody had to do something.
"To pee or not to pee that is digestion" Don't know if I heard this correctly, but thank you for making me laugh FJ :) 16 Personalities as homeschoolers? I thought that could be cool, though i don't know how many homeschoolers are in your audience. However, I would love it and watch it immediately!
I'm an INTJ, 25 year homeschooling veteran of 3 kids K-12 who just retired this summer. I've posted the same thing before. I taught homeschooler workshops that overview the different homeschooling approaches and their subcategories along with popular curricula/practices for each: Classical, Traditional Textbooks, Unschooling, Living Books, and Unit Study. I also teach how people mix approaches. I've often thought about which personality types fit into each. So yeah, it would be awesome if he did one, but he'd have to have homeschooled for a quite while and been immersed in a philosophically diverse homeschool community. I was in Maricopa County, Phoenix, AZ, one of the largest homeschool and transplant communities in the country in 1997-2018 (10,000 legally registered homeschoolers at its peak when I was there) and saw a lot of different kinds of homeschoolers. I know what you mean about how funny it would be.
It might take him some research to find the homeschool style of 16 homeschooling parents, but as I observed our co-op this week, I realized that we really have a fascinating variety of personalities.
As an ENTP... Sadly, i can confirm that this is true. Half of my teachers hate me, because I always argue, but the other half love me for the same reason. Hell, I had a big argument with my teacher today (because classes start early and I am always really sleepy, and I just decided to take a nap, but, it is somehow really wrong lol). Needless to say, my parents were called to school. good luck to me I guess (Okay, who am I trying to fool, for all their screams, I will just sit with a deadpan smile, and then point out the smallest inconsistency in their statement to see the reaction)
I have a feeling that all ENTP's are living the same life at this point. The exact same thing happened to me a few days ago, thank god my mum's also an ENTP, so the principals door was basically kicked out by foot.
I never took a nap in class, however I was the reason my math teacher quit. In my defence, I merely tried to debate with her, since she refused to help a student for no reason. (How to say you're an ENTP without explicitly saying it) I think I may be a INTP though.
As an entp, i dont get it why some people trying to manipulate me or point out illogical inconsistencies of me for no reason , (while i am expert of that, and doing the same things fall them into a loop probably all the time lol, i guess we have this ti te moderate honesty equation in the head)
As an ENTP myself... I actively either completely ignored the classes I disliked or tried to cause as much chaos as possible while getting away with it for amusement... I once got my sociology teacher to curse at me while my mom was at the door watching everything, his face when he noticed was priceless lmao I'd do something similar to my chemistry teacher, but the max I did was manipulate her so she kept her social/political beliefs to herself and taught me chemistry which is a subject I like
I think moving around as a kid because my father was in the Air Force turned me into an INTJ because of realizing all of the social hierarchies in school are the same. Interesting all of the misfits in this school look alike. 🤔
You nailed it on this one! And my family and friends are literally those misfits at the end! As an ENFP I have always intentionally sought out the misfits bc the they are so much more interesting than the “popular” people. Love all your work FJ! Thank you!
as an INFP nurse I relate heavy to the inability to speak coherently on things I'm well versed in. having to explain anything to a patient or doctor instantly scrambles my brain thank u
When I started highschool, I immediatly found another bookworm, and we stayed together for the rest of the year, and then the next year we were in only one same class! I also joined another group of weirdos, but I still was really good friends with my og friend. I am also, an INFJ
I am an ENFJ who moved 4 times during childhood. It was rough to say the least and was a wounded introvert until I left public school and found out who I really was.
As an INFP our lunch table we had all 4 years of high school was the misfits. Had a little bit of everyone. That was the only good part of high school I enjoyed and the rest I hated it
ISTP here, I did not have a good time changing schools to say the least. Let’s just say being in a school with so many extroverted loud kids was not great for me. I just threw myself into physical activities like dance, painting, sports and participated in a lot of events, any hands-on stuff really, and that brought me a lot of happiness. Doing things makes so much more sense than people and emotions, it might sound stereotypical ISTP but that really was and honestly still is the case for me.
The writings on the white board is a hilarious touch 😂 'never eat glass" 😂 "buy deodorant, please" now this is something I used to say to my class as a previous class president for five years in a row. Do I miss school? No. Not a bit.
The INTP is very accurate and relatable except for the fact that I never talk to myself out loud. I have the opposite problem where I imagine saying something so vividly I don't realize that I never actually said it. Sometimes I can't remember if I actually had a conversation or if I just imagined it. INFP was also pretty accurate to my high school experience, but I don't think I ever actually tried out for anything. I just imagined trying out and humiliated my self in my mind.
As an ENTJ, I am HORRIFIED how accurate that was because a week ago, there was a new student (I’ve only been here for three months) and I literally “took them under my wing” and now everyone likes them XD they have no idea I’ve only gone for three months…
As an infj sophomore in high school this is so true. This video tops the cake for making me feel understood🥲 thank you. I have always sat with the “cool” kids and was always quiet and felt like they just didn’t get me at all. They never understood me, and their personalities just felt so fake. I recently started sitting with the “misfits”… which honestly who even comes up with these cliques because the “misfits” personalities such as the band kids, will always be infinitely cooler than the “cool” kids. Cool kids just aren’t interesting until you break down their wall or “shell” that they put up and try and get them to open up about how they truly are and encourage them to live in that truth.
Edit: as I was saying, these new people that I’m sitting with at lunch seem to accept each other for who they are and seem to love each other genuinely. Although some of them are a little messy and gross when it comes to food and I don’t want them getting food all over my work, they are just awesome:)
Something that I find weird is that even though I'm an infp and feel awkward around people, once I get on stage, I feel a lot more confident for some reason 😅.
Me too, though I'm not an INFP. I'm scared of getting on the stage. But when I do get on the stage, it's like I've conquered my fear, and feel that anything that I do from then, I can't do anything about them. So, this sense of confidence builds up. I guess it can be said: I am more afraid of getting onto the stage rather than being on it.
bro infp is *too* relatable, i remember i just read my chinese notes and when it was the oral, at number 6 or 7, i legit forgot what to say even when i *try* to remember, i ended up getting a high score anyways so good job me, you spent a whole week preparing for such a simple quiz and ended up messing up the easiest characters on the oral, and you also end up getting called a cheater because your the only one who answered quickly in the whole class, amazing.
I am an INFJ and When i moved to New school i was extremely quiet, Everyone was trying to talk to me and i was just smiling and nodding my head to whatever they were saying, I observed the whole class and after a month or few weeks later i started talking a bit to one or two students Btw, Is it only me or is there any other INFJ who is actually really quite but sometimes they speak a lot with the people they are quite comfortable with and then they get overwhelmed
An INTJ sharing some deep truth about life feels so relatable. Oh yes that's because I'm that INTJ who gets philosophical at any time of the day. Misfit, outsider, weirdo... I'm used to it 🙂
@@ShinobiPhoenix-YT0 exactly! I love to observe but from nice distance. But tbh as I get older people seem too predictable to me so it's not that exciting anymore 😁
Dudes tell me about it, like literally my dad's job requires to move tons And i literally feel like i don't belong anywhere i go Also I'm that physics nerd straight a student
@@notyourlife-w5b yeah it will always be like that. We are always out of place but I found "home" within myself and that helped a lot. Do what you love, it will bring you happiness 🙂
Ok this one really got me laughing. I knew I was already weird enough not to actually get caught talking to myself at school... but damn, at work and at home I have to talk myself through everything. And honestly, the table of weirdos... very reminiscent of my high school years 😅 the loners all finding a spot together 👌
INTJ here. Occasionally I was lucky enough to find the table of weirdos, but lots of the time I just ended up being a loner. That was fine because school was very overwhelming for me anyway (I have sensory sensitivities) and I needed a break from the constant forced socializing. I could just read a book, do my homework, or entertain myself on my phone.
As an ISTP who has gone to five different schools (and counting), I can assure you that my grades have improved over every change, and my social life has slowly died
I’m infp, and this actually happened to me, multiple times. The teacher questioning me basic maths in front of everyone, and I failed. I felt like everyone was watching me and I was on the verge of crying. Or when I had to recite a famous poem in elementary school, and I was the only one who couldn’t speak a word in front of all the parents in there and the teacher saying that I had trained a lot and it was just a moment of panic. Or when I was 13 years old and I had to talk with my parent’s friends who don’t speak my language ( I’m italian) so I had to speak english. I used to speak english at the time but when they asked me my age I felt anxious and instead of saying “thirteen” I said “Thirty” and they laughed at me. And generally it happens everytime I have an interrogation at school. I hope there are not too many grammatical errors
Try to remember people aren't necessarily laughing at YOU but at the situation. English-speaking people realize "30" and "13" sound so similar, but the slight pronunciation difference means many years different... I "freeze" too when everyone suddenly is looking at me to speak. Try to remember no one is perfect. In time you can learn to laugh at yourself and your flaws. Just do the best you can, little by little, and don't give up.
I suck at oral presentations and talking to people. Even if I studied and practiced before, I know I'll mess up somewhere. Luckily I'd say I'm decent in writing because the poem I wrote about my love for pizza was a hit for my french lesson that one time :D I can't have eye contact for too long either so I always look away after 3 milliseconds. Bruh idk how to stop acting weird 😅
Real-life school change: Oh my god, we have a new kid!!!!! -Why did you move? -Where are you from? -Do you want to be friends? -You have funny hair -Is it true that red-haired people have no soul? -Are your freckles real or do you paint them? -INTP's internal monologue: The word "experimental" in the name of this school is very misleading. Is this a research facility for idiocracy? E.T go home...
Omg I'm Intp and for really when I went to high school i was like "ok, new start, new me" and I put all of my energy and effort to be happy and nice to everyone.... Yeah everyone hated me for the rest of high school for that and I just became my outsider self again so... That worked
When I changed school, I started to act more social, positive and funny, and bcs of that I had no close friends till I started to be myself, at that moment I wasnt talking to everyone, but the few people that I talked turned into one of my closest friends
OMG, how come this is so spot on ahaha. You're a genius, Frank! Fellow INFJ here, I wondered why in every school I'm usually hanging out with the "misfits". But I wouldn't have it any other way :D Ahahaha, I hated school interaction deep down but I was good at pretending I enjoyed it. I think all the teachers and kids thought I love school, LOL. Currently still doing university, but thank goodness I'm doing a fully online program, so much more manageable for my nerves.
INFJ here. This one really got under my skin w/bad memories. I went to 7 different schools/districts by the time I graduated high school. Being the new girl all the time meant I formed no lasting relationships. Got bullied so f*n bad. You couldn’t pay me enough to go back and relive those years. Hurts me to this day because it started a pattern of packing up & leaving people in my dust. It’s second nature now. I never really learned HOW to make new friends.
Your content lately has been gold! I'm an INFJ and at the end "I" literally created that clique with my 3 kids and my husband (INFPx2, ISFJ, and an INTJ). We can't stop laughing! Also they go to Rosemount HS. 🤣
Being an INFJ starting at a new school I was adopted by some extroverts that their dads are my dad’s friend buuut as the time goes by I am now chilling with the misfits bc they seem more relatable than the popular ones so I just have a small group of friends for 4 years now
As an INFJ i relate to a whole deeper level. I always felt like I could never fit in truly into a group and even though I've been at this school for three years already and have made a couple of close friends I still feel like I have no one to talk to because they have their other friend groups and I just can't make myself fit in to their group fully. 😭
hey there, pls. don't feel alone... you'll make real friends soon. Just don't give up and be positive and patient. Keep on trying to socialize coz eventually you'll find your "own people" who'll accept you for who you are. ☺️ - fellow INFJ
that was me.. I always have 2 groups at once when I was school and college it.. but.. to be honest.. even though I feel like they loved me but no one really could understand me 😭😭 but it's okay cz sometimes I just don't understand myself 😭 so.. yeahh..🤷🏻♀️
As an ENFJ, the first day on my freshman year, I’ve made a lot of new friends lmfao and some of the people reciprocated my energy I gave onto them, it was hella fun.
Oh my gosh, the Napolean Dynamite scene was hysterical! And I loved that chick with the "I do what I want" t-shirt, smiling and then laughing at the other kid who auditioned! Yeah, the INFJ always seems to end up with the misfits. Who am I kidding? We kind of are the misfits. 🤣🤣🙌💜
yeah, honestly at this point i've been gravitating _more_ towards the misfits because I know I'll always end up there anyway. Or maybe _we_ attract the misfits? O.o
I was a good ENTP. No teachers were fired as far as I know. As long as I got straight A’s I was basically allowed to do whatever I wanted. No school for me on Thursdays! 😎👍🏼
So accurate! I remember as an INTP first starting high school at a new school, I would be so determined to reinvent a new "me", which I did succeed in doing to some extent... only to realise that I am not really a new "me" at the core, but only an improved me and for the better. The INTJ, INTP, INFJ, and INFP (IN types), in addition to the ISFJ, ISTJ, and INFJ and as well as the ESFP and ENFP being the misfits is so accurate. It is not only introverts who are misfits and find it hard to fit in. Some extroverts also find it hard to fit in too in the social setting when there are already all the cliques at a school, owing to their 'big personality' which most cannot handle. Personally, the IN personalities as well as the ExFPs are the most interesting ones because of how different they tend to be from everyone else. The IP types are also very interesting too.
DUDE I so needed this! I’m moving to a new school soon, but it’s also in another country. So while I do understand the language, I’m positively terrified on how life will be there. Especially since it seems I’m one of the only new students!
The last INFJ was SO SO relatable! I just changed schools 2 weeks ago and I was like "I can never fit in anywhere!" I mean, this is EXACTLY what I experienced!!
ISFP here. I've been in my new class for 4 months now. Still wainting for someone to take me under their wings... I Still feel stressed everyday and have no friends, just read a book alone at breaks, yeah
Always look forward to your videos Frank !! They put a smile on my face. What would you think about doing some comedy sketches with two compatible personality types like ENTJ and INTP for example ?? Keep up the good work 🤗
INTP is accurate, I decided to be the popular kid in college, that lasted only for the first semester found my nerd flock in 3rd semester, we're best friends now
Was about to have a panic attack being back in school but being with my misfits also makes me happy; Brings back memories. Well down, good sir! I do saw, well-done! -Audition Chef #2
Omg i was just waiting for the infj to come along and then there it was, with like 100% accuracy, always stuck with the misfits clique!! Never disappoints!😭
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🌮What does STEM stand for in your life? (if not Spicy Tacos Every Monday)🌮
Apple Valley? Rosemount? Are you a resident of the Minneapolis area, by chance?
I feel like one of the types would be extremely nervous but I don’t know which one it would be.
Ayyyy! I'm a big fan hi FJ!
Students Testing Everyone’s Minds. -ENTP
🤣
INFP is so relatable. Being an expert and still messing things up isn't even embarrassing anymore. It's just a habit and life-style.
Hahaha!
@@whitneylivingston4171 translation is spot-on!
Agree ✋
At this point it’s just like “stop watching me and I’ll do great, I promise!”
My people!
As an INTP, I can confirm that changing your personality each time you transfer schools is customary.
That also applies to starting a new school year, too. I've always stayed in the same school district, but, as a fellow INTP, I can re-confirm that this was exactly what I attempted to do before the start of each new school year. The plan never lasted more than a few days for me. 😅
@@phatcat3705same! This year I had a group of 6 friends for 2 months, after those months I would have 1 friend at a time
INTP but I’ve never done this. That whole new year, new me is a bunch of bs
People think im cool and intimidating at my new school. I dont know how it happened
Same!
When i changed schools, i thought i would portray myself as a friendly person
And i got an eccentric outcast image...even though i was a popular introvert in my previous school
im loving how all the characters from the Frank James Cinematic Universe are beginning to interact with each other more & more
Yesss 😂
Can’t wait for Introverts: Timmy War
@@Paragon13 16 Personalities as Timmy
@@azulablue6988 ESTJ would never be Timmy
Nice pfp
The INFJ is so true, at first you think you’ll be lonely and then the next second you’re suddenly surrounded by people that you’ll stick with until school’s over
it was the opposite to me. so much for that friendship to only be bullied throughout all time and then just be left out and lonely in the end.
"To pee or not to pee, that is digestion." That got me off guard.😂😂😂😂😂 Love this 🤍
Me too! I absolutely lost it. I did the kind of laugh that's the screeching, wheezing, "Are you okay", that lasts for 20 seconds and then goes on for another 10 seconds kind of laugh 😂
(On a family member's account)
LOL
Here: not to pee, means that not to urinate, which needs a process of absorbing water from your colon. And, not urinating may mean the colon is digesting waste by DIGESTING it, if it is not bringing water to your pp - INFP 4w5
As an intj i have been laughing and replaying for the past 7 minutes😭
No because when I was in grade school to pee or not to pee is one of my repeated questions in my mind because I'm too shy to talk while the teacher is doing lecture 😭😭
I also had thesame experience as the skit, except it was a story telling. I'm telling you, it ended up exactly thesame as what Frank portrayed 💀 I asked the girl in front of me of what he thinks about the title and all I got was a disgusted face and cricket sounds. I wanna die 😭😭
INFJ, INTJ, ISTJ, ISFJ, INFP, INTP, ENFP and ESFP being the new “clique” just sounds like a group where I could be
-INTJ
sign me up -infj
What about ISTP?
ISTP won’t talk to anyone the whole year. and ENTP will flatter around all social groups but will secretly like to hang out with the misfits the most, but will also be somewhat accepted by the popular kids.
Me an ISFP would like to sign up for the group
Huh. Interesting. That's pretty much me and my 5 siblings. No wonder we get along so well. 🤔 - INFP
Holy shit the INTP one was so accurate. I switched schools in high school and told myself I was gonna be a whole new more social version of myself. My plan lasted a week at most 🤣
Ifkr i felt called out so hard.
Yeah same with me
It was good while it lasted... Let's go back to the misfits
Hey I going to nee school on Monday, way to extinguish my hope
Same bro 😂😂
INFJ here, yep that’s accurate. Every school I went to I wanted to fit in somewhere I would try to entry every group and fail. Every time ended with the misfits, and they are some great people.
relatable lol
relateable
Yess! My first friend was a misfit and now my whole new class is a misfit to the school we're in. I love it!
I always just end up with whoever will talk to me cuz it’s hard being the new person when no one really cares
When I never really tried it was to awkward i just got pulled in by the misfits and pretty much all of them graduated so im spending this year awkward as hell
As an INFP who has had the Hamlet "To be or not to be" monologue memorized for several years and loves reciting it and acting it out by myself out of the blue whenever I think about it, this was quite funny.
I believe MBTI types Hamlet as an INFP. With a line like "To be or not to be", he certainly sounds like one.
a couple years back, i had watched kung fu panda so many times, that i memorised and could recite the entire movie from beginning to end.
~ INTP
WTF… is that a common thing?? Bc I’m doing it all the time too (also the first soliloquy too😅👌🏻👍🏻)
INFP who memorized half of Romeo & Juliet when I was 14 here 👋🏻 Many years later I still randomly say it out loud to myself for no particular reason 🙃
OmG. I memorized it for my Senior year HS English class, and still remember every word of it 28 years later. But I can’t remember a phone number someone told me 5 mins ago. Seems like there’s a lot of us out there, yet it’s supposed to be a rare type.
As an INTJ, this actually pretty much summarises my friendships at school: the misfits who are not cool or popular enough to hang out with other groups, but at least we’re not eating in the bathroom by ourselves 😂
Honestly, it’d be cool to just make an online association, or ‘society’ of IN#J individuals, that’d be awesome
Nah, but my appearance do be wierd sometimes
As an INFJ, I wasn't feeling called out until they started talking about clicks and then realized they fit in with the misfits! My entire high school friend group was those misfits lmao.
Story of my INFP life is usually finding an INFJ to start forming an alliance of misfits.
YES! I’m trying to make friends as a highschool freshman and man, the misfits are where it’s at
Totally relatable. I met my good friend in high school in the library hiding out during lunch (like me)
Saaaaame!
as an infj, i never made any friends and i’ve been in the new school system for 4 years! hahahahaha :D came as a 7th grader and now in 11th grade
As an ENFP I like to think of myself as “the king of the outcasts” because of how I love to bring so many people who aren’t in established groups together and form a strong bond with them
So me
Yesssss
Lmao yes, we are the kings of the introverts, bringing all introverts together to form a nation
Literally how I *carved* my friend group in HighSchool
Fr i know the names of every person in my grade I keep up with the gossip and I bully all the students who are older then me. I remember when I was in 2nd grade I was making fun of my family friend who was in 7th grade. I think she is still personally offended to this day👍🤭💀💀💀💀
Timestamps:
0:00 infj
0:15 intp
0:38 isfj
0:56 enfj & esfj
1:23 istp
1:30 enfp
2:04 isfp & entj
2:31 istj
2:40 entp
2:23 estj
3:07 esfp
3:32 intj
3:51 infp
4:27 estp
4:47 infj and a ton of others
2:40 is Entp not Entj man….and here i am (an Entp) checking all the timestamps to correct your mistake 😀. No issues, no issues i mean you should have rechecked it, i could have saved some time. But no issues 🙂
the way I started mine first yet yours gets all the views /nm I just find that funny
@@PersonManGuyMale i’m not being a jerk. I was just stressed out about a situation, i’m sorry if i was rude
Thanks a lot mate appreciate it
Yeah
You are my fire
The one desire
Believe when I say
I want it that way
But we are two worlds apart
Can't reach to your heart
When you say
That I want it that way
Tell me why
Ain't nothin' but a heartache
Tell me why
Ain't nothin' but a mistake
Tell me why
I never wanna hear you say
I want it that way
Am I your fire?
Your one desire
Yes, I know it's too late
But I want it that way
Tell me why
Ain't nothin' but a heartache
Tell me why
Ain't nothin' but a mistake
Tell me why
I never wanna hear you say
I want it that way
Now I can see that we've fallen apart
From the way that it used to be, yeah
No matter the distance, I want you to know
That deep down inside of me
You are my fire
The one desire
You are (you are, you are, you are)
Don't wanna hear you say
Ain't nothin' but a heartache
Ain't nothin' but a mistake (don't wanna hear you say)
I never wanna hear you say (oh, yeah)
I want it that way
Tell me why
Ain't nothin' but a heartache
Tell me why
Ain't nothin' but a mistake
Tell me why
I never wanna hear you say (don't wanna hear you say)
I want it that way
Tell me why
Ain't nothin' but a heartache
Ain't nothin' but a mistake
Tell me why
I never wanna hear you say (don't wanna hear you say)
I want it that way
'Cause I want it that way...
INFP here. Joined the drama group, didn't at all believe in my skills and asked for a small, part with hardly any lines, knowing my memory for anything important is bad (I remember things that I'll never need perfectly though). Got two small parts nobody wanted to play, ended up being brilliant in both and being given the role of the main antagonist (the protagonist had to be physically attractive and I wasn't) and nailed it.
So my advice to fellow INFPs, start with something small and stay humble.
Being the new kid at school from my experience was wonderful, because at my old school I was bullied and at the new school it took the other kids weeks to notice my existence. Also when they noticed me, because I was not trying to be liked they thought I was really cool 😯
As an ISTJ, I didn’t have to deal with many school plays anyway but when I did those were exactly the roles I looked for, why bother memorising line after line when you can memorise like 5 lines and be done with it, minimising both work and the chance of making mistakes? (yes I know passion for playing theatre exists but I wasn’t that passionate about it)
This is so good to read. Been through similar experiences.
INFP here too, and while I'm incredibly awkward and shy, I absolutely love acting! Many people can't understand why I'm unable to handle face to face interactions or public speaking, but somehow manage to get up on a stage for a play, but that's precisely what makes the beauty of theatre. You're acting. It's not YOU who are on stage, it's your character. 😊
I've been bullied throughout the entirety of my school years, and I remember that nobody but me cared about plays when we were studying them in class. As a result, I oftentimes got laughed at by my classmates because they were probably thinking I was being ridiculous with me raising my voice or making big moves, but every time the teachers got them to shut up because I cared about the play and did what needed to be done.
I also joined a drama club one year and for two plays got a lead role! 😄 That was very impressive, but also very fun to do.
As an INTP, I felt that hit way harder than it should've:
When I first went to high school, I had an idea to change myself, to be new me...
I ended up cringing myself and doing weird shit which made me look like a nerd I always was... am :(
Same, I thought I could be all cool and stuff at my new school. I was barely around for half a lesson and everyone had already started making fun of me. It’s still a mystery to me what I did wrong.
@@PythonPlusPlus 💛
Being a nerd is not a bad thing.
Nerds are truly the best.
(I’m sorry if it came out in an offensive way, I just genuinely believe in that)
I agree. Own being a nerd. I'm a nerd and own it. It made it easier to find my tribe.
i'm an INFJ and i almost do the same thing🤗
As an INTP, when I started college I tried the whole “reinvent yourself because no one knows you” thing. Stepping outside my comfort zone as an experiment, I got involved in theatre, got relatively comfortable acting like someone else in front of a group (but never, you know, being myself). But eventually I just reverted to my old habits, especially once I discovered analytic philosophy, formal logic, and pure math.
I remember in 6th grade trying to make my personality as bland and boring as possible so people ignore me so i could do anything i want
Eventually i started being known as the quiet art kid whose english skills are stupid high
wow, such wonderful thongs to discover ^^
@@conniejash LOOOOOL
Same 🥲
as an ENFP, I rickrolled the class and then then danced and became the class president with a whole majority. others wrote their scripts for days, mine was instantaneous and yes.
EXACT REPRESENTATION
Enfp's are the best🤣
Truly cultured. Rickroll is still the best prank. And even better, the song is actually very good.
@@supersoup4672 Fr
yeah... as an ENFP I ran for grade representative and actually almost went toe to toe with the popular kid... prolly because I break danced on my election speech.
Ha, that’s awesome and totally agree!
This was pure gold!
As an INFJ can definitely say that I fit right in with the misfits and ended up having my own people that wanted to hang out with me
INTP:tries to reinvent himself
Me an INFJ: accidentally does that Everytime I meet new people
Yes
Yes
INTJ here, same 🙂
The accuracy tho... who am I today? Nobody knows 🤷🏼♀️
@@EmiMakesIt I stopped asking who I am today because I spend so much time trying to figure it out just to change. I’m almost 50/50 in every mbti category but an INFJ. But the one thing that stays constant no matter how much in the middle I am of everything and no matter how much I change…
…95% judging 😎
No waaay! I was a lost ISFP who'd just started at a new high school in the 10th grade. I met this very confident girl who asked what class I had next and found out we were headed to the same one. She led me the whole way there making small talk with other students along the way only to tell me she was also new and had just moved from Chicago. Who knows, maybe she was an ENTJ all along haha.
I feel like infj has two modes : float around with everyone and not have a group like a chameleon learning about people, and THEN the second one that you pointed out of getting in your head about being different and burning out from pretending to be chill, and wanting to be understood... eventually ending up with the misfits. For me that was the library kids lol. And now that I'm out of school altogether my connections from back then are all one on one for the most part
Yess this is very accurate! I feel like I have good friends, but every one of them has someone as a "best friend" from our group, and when we have to work in pairs, it's so awkward every time, I always just stand there and wish I could just dissappear. My only problem is, most of the time only I am the misfit, so I can't befriend other loners:')
Ah, the library kids. I was among them. The library was a quiet refuge filled with fantastical stories that could take me away from the stresses of school and people.
@@aubriethegreat8175 Now I wish we had a library at school, would love to just chill in there during breaks
ikr!!!! I mean I've never had a problem making friends. like you can throw me anywhere and I'd still make a lot of friends. it's just I never (except in elementary school) had someone I can call a (best friend)
@@DanahSul yepp, it's such an awful feeling for me that there is no person (outside family) that would pick me over everyone else. I'm always a 2nd or 3rd choice... I know I should be grateful for even having friends, but sometimes I feel like I'm just there in case the person's best friend cannot be there.
as an intp im surprised how accurate this was, i actually talk to myself a LOT and i cant help it when the rare times someone interacts with me at school, i keep like repeating what just happened until i fully be able to move on
As a fellow INTP, same. And definitely relate to the talking to myself part, which I sometimes get carried away with and don't realize that I'm doing that until people get creeped out by it. XD
With the masks it got even worse cuz I could mouth everything without getting looks and now it’s a habit
Thank you, now I'm talking with myself about a situation that happened like 8 years ago in a calculus exam that involves me thinking loudly in that exam.
Even if you aren’t an Istp, it was the most relatable thing, probably describing my entire life. Great video, as always 👍🏻
yes it is literally my goal to just graduate and get away from people asap
I'm intp and yep I related
@@catboytartaglia Danganronpa!!
yes, I'm an INTJ and that's why I took advanced classes, lol
good morning fellow istp, i see we all have the same beliefs. to escape school.
I really got into a group of misfits:
The shy INFP girl who always danced in secret
The ENFP kid who always danced in class and wouldn't sit still
The ENTP girl who literally on the first day of class questioned the book and won the argument against the teacher.
And I was the INTJ girl who liked math and computers.
We talked about everything from feminism to communism in the Soviet Union, math and computers (me explaining and them listening). The funny thing is, I've always unintentionally hurt the INFP by speaking my mind without caring or realizing the impact of my words. Overall, we get along really well.
Ah, yes, the perfect things to have conversations about. Feminism and communism in the Soviet Union.... I'm not judging, though, as I've had a conversation that went from talking about umbrellas to talking about anti-LGBT in political parties in Australia... To be fair, I am autistic, and it was a conversation with my mum... Conversations with me will go wherever my mind drifts off to, typically.
I’m an INFJ and that was so me, wishing I fit in somewhere and ending up hanging out with other misfits. I also loved the addition of Napoleon Dynamite 🤣🤣🤣
Yeah be INFJ naturally goes around and collects all misfit kids since day one of elementary 😂
Same
Me
@@harerutoast I remember someone's story of the INFJ clan at their school who would stare down bullies together like a cult
and why i am as an infj somehow had absolutely different experience? i was the only one to not fit in every time . i guess i ve been just too traumatized and sad of a kid to not screw everything up methodically
5:20 "And that is when I realized... I had found my people." This just makes so much sense, considering it's about INFJ and INTP 😂😂
ISFP. My first day in high school I was a new kid and the only reason I ended up with any friends on day 1 was because I had a class with an extrovert who was also a new kid. It's always what I'm hoping for when I enter a new environment lol I love extroverts who adopt introverts.
Exactly!
lol same thing happened to me as well. But then i had to change the class so again I became the loner
I can relate, being adopted by an extrovert is a heartfelt feeling -ISFP
Entp who adopted many infj and infp
Same with us ENFP, the amount of INXXs
INFJ classical musician here. School was sheer hell, as bringing my cello to school twice a week (for school orchestra and my cello lesson) was an obvious object of derision.I only had one friend, who was also not a popular girl , who was a very good flute player.I'd go round her house after school, to do homework together, and her family were lovely, and thrilled that thier , lonely, bullied daughter had finally found a friend, and was not being bullied any more. Bullies know not go anywhere near INFJ's, as they can come across as weird psycho's when seriously annoyed.
"Bullies know not to go anywhere near INFJ's as they can come across as weird psycho's when annoyed" seriously feeling called out right now 😳 (fellow INFJ)
@@Matt-wv3iy But it's TRUE. It takes a hell of a lot of really bad bullying and endless serious nastiness, to get an INFJ furious, but when we have finally had enough, we get really weird. We do that special stare only we have, and follow up with a devastating word like "Sad" or "Pathetic". My favourite was "So?"
@@Matt-wv3iy Oh and forgot to say that, if we know you, we know exactly what to say to really hurt you, I mean REALLY hurt you. It's rare to see us angry as we feel angry is so bad, and we rarely do it, but when we do, you are going to be in a while world of psychological and emotional hurt, to your very core!!!! Then we'll blank you forever!
@@Matt-wv3iy true!!
@@heathermcdougall8023 relatable
ISTP and friendship: "You seem... tolerable. I accept your presence."
I don't know why this made me laugh.... I'm an ISTP, however the friends I have I only have because of autism and the fact I share classes with them (I'm still in school)... The friends I know better are the ones I see for at least 16 hours every week.
As an INFP, I remember having an anxiety atack few days before going to school. On the first day, My bus reached after school was started, I had to sit at the first seat, I stuttered while giving my introduction, When the class was silent I accidentally dropped my bottle. Even though I knew most of my classmates, By knew I mean, I have seen them around and maybe greeted em too. and I was so stressed cause I had to sit alone and there were so many people and they were so fudging loud, and how tf do they all became friends at the first day of school. I only dared to talk with my old classmates if I needed smtg and ate lunch alone while they all had fun in groups. few days later, I sat with one of my old classmates, I was comfortable with and she found me interesting and shat,"Dammmn I never thought your personality was like this, We have talked a lot of times before but I never saw your this side" Yeah so We lowkey became partner in crimes but she was the only one who do it cause I am a 🐱.
Weeks later, She found a new friend and started hanging out with her more, Pretty understandable you can't hang out with the same person your whole life, Just because I don't socialize doesn't mean other people don't do that either. There was this girl who always sat alone during lunch like me, I wanted to have a conversation with her but I can't, Coincidentally few days later, We had to sit together due to new seat arrangements, And I sat with her, being the introvert I am, I hopped that she will sat something so that We could have a conversation. Nearly the day was about to end so being a responsible citizen I am, I tried to make a conversation with let's just say, Asteria for ex,
"So asteria was it?"
"Hmm... Yeahhh.. "
".... you were in 8th grade right"
"Yeah I was, surprised that you have even seen me"
"Oh well I sat alone too"
"Ohh... "
"anyways since we are gonna sit together for a while and I don't want for things to be awkward between us, Let's try to know each other a bit, Being said that, What are your interests? "
"Nothing intresting really, I like to read books"
"same, I like to read books, I write as well! "
"Really! what are your favorite books then!"
So We talked about them for a while
"Oh that's cool is there anything else you are interested in? "
"I like to listen to music if that counts"
"Same! I love listening to music! what's your favorite genre! "
".... Uhhh.... I llike.......pop.. "
".... Sure, Do you listen to kpop btw?"
"Tbh that's the only thing I listen too, I just said pop because I don't know if you are okay with it or not"
"cmon girl, Do you really think I am a tagt type of person, Offense taken"
"I am so sorry I didn't mean it like that, You are a really nice person-"
*laughs* "istg you are so innocent, I was just kidding only... Anyways what's your favorite group? "
"uh Stray kids"
"STRAY KIDS? ONG THEY ARE MY FAVS TOO along with TXT, Damn this is literally the first time I met someone who like some other group than BTS and/or blackpink"
"same"
And then we talked about kpop for a while
nd that day, I made a new friend on my own....
But yk it's so sad that she is always sick and have to stay at home most or the days, I really miss spending time with her, She was absent for like nearly four weeks because of her health, I hope She gets better, She is genuinely my only friend, I share everything with. I feel so bad for her, I wish I could take her place instead, She deserves to have a well health, Why do universe always do wrong with the most best people.
Okay Anyways I feel like I shouldn't have wrote this comment as it is too long and personal, I lowkey hope none of you find this at all
INTJ - nailed it again. I often watch to see if you can make me laugh with your knowledge and you rarely let me down Frank. :)
Same.
He literally speaks my thoughts everyday in his videos. I am amazed at how accurate he is.
I hope your zip is up man! 😂
Every time I wait for intj, I think to myself “let’s see how inaccurate it’ll be.”
@Reality Is A Dream That's fine. Everyone is different. And I think that Love Who has a better INTJ in his videos than Frank James. Maybe go watch his.
As an INTP I aprove.
When I was in middle school every day was "switch my personality day" and it was so much fun. And yes, I do talk to myself a lot.
"To pee or not to pee? That is digestion."
That's pretty good bit though.
As an INFJ I can say with 100%, this is true. When I entered my new school in 7th grade I was worried I would not fit in. Too many clichés and too many people trying to be "the popular kid". Then came 8th grade. I found my people. A short crackhead that likes mayo, an alethic awkward jock, an athletic socially awkward jock, and me. (add the newest member in high school who will soon be the next president, I'm calling it)
As an INFJ I am jealous of my ENFJ brother who can literally just walk up to someone new and immediately become best friends with them. 😅😂
Got you infj -enfj
I'm freaking jealous of my ESFJ best friend he's exactly the way you described your brother. - INFJ
In fact that's how we became friends 💀the extrovert literally adopted the introvert.....😂
Okay, hold on a second. I always test as an INFJ BUT I also make friends… everywhere! My kids even told me…” wow mom, you have a lot of friends “… “you make friends wherever you go”… I’m so confused now! I relate to both! I also love solitude and I do try to “read peoples souls”… as my sister would say very agitatedly. It’s not because I’m nosy, I just am trying to figure out and understand what’s happening around me… which includes the people that are around me…??? I don’t know anymore. I’m going to “rock the 90’s” concert tonight, and tomorrow an all day hiking in the wilderness by myself ( I do this a lot). What am I? I remember telling a classmate in college if she quit I would too because I believe in her, and so if she quit she would be ruining my life as well! Lol! I was serious too! She didn’t believe in herself so I took the risk. She graduated highest honors in the class! I was honestly terrified because I would have quit. I’m crazy.
@@wallflower931 I've also been adopted by ESFJ as a kid. She was that friendly, cute and sweet one and I was that smart and you know, dominant one (INTJ). 🙂 without her I'd probably spent my whole childhood at home reading books and watching documentaries.
I like how frank james is slowly turning this series to into a comedy sitcom. And i'd honestly watch it
ISTP. This is my motto in life “Hate everything and everyone, then succeed in life and make lots of money”
So far I’ve got the first half accomplished.
The same 🙄
(ISTP)
Same
I'm getting more hateful every day....also I tap my pencil absentmindedly all the time ....
Real 😂
Same! I’m an introvert and Aro-Ace so I just plan to live alone in a forest or somethin with an army of animals.
In this video, I related to both INTP and ISTP. INTP is pretty much me every time I went to a new school - as in, to middle school, then high school and then university because I've never actually changed schools like this. I was optimistic every time, imagining finally making some friends, and then each school disappointed me more than the last one. Meanwhile, ISTP said what I wished I could say once I understood that my social status wouldn't get any better in that school. I would just do the best I could at schoolwork and wait for graduation so I could change schools again. And so the cycle continued.
My ENTP son actually went off on a tirade at the principal at one of his schools, in front of some parents. He got suspended, but the principal got fired not long afterwards, because she really was as terrible as he said.
That sounds chaotic back there 🤣
As an INTP, I can relate...
When I go to a new school, or to any place where no one knows about my existence, I try to act differently so people can at least look my way, but no, no one does at the end 🥲
I can relate too but i am an entp i usually hide myself so if i ended up changing school i am gonna ask all of my questions without trying to make the other person feel bad
That INTP part hits hard in the feels, man... relatable yet just sad.
Cannot describe how much joy it brought me that INTJ was at the misfit table. Totally see that group turning into the main group for a tv show or book series, and it's glorious.
As an ISFJ who just tries to blend in and not stand out at all. This is so accurate 😭
Right?? It made us weird in the end 🥲
Fake it till you make it XD
When you try not to stand out by TALKING.
As an ENFP, this isn't far off from something I actually did once. During post-prom one year, there was karaoke. No one opted to go for it, so I decided to sing the alphabet song in the most overly-grand Elvis-like style I could do. I should never be allowed to do something like that again, but somebody had to do something.
this about sums up enfp
"To pee or not to pee that is digestion" Don't know if I heard this correctly, but thank you for making me laugh FJ :)
16 Personalities as homeschoolers? I thought that could be cool, though i don't know how many homeschoolers are in your audience. However, I would love it and watch it immediately!
I'm an INTJ, 25 year homeschooling veteran of 3 kids K-12 who just retired this summer. I've posted the same thing before. I taught homeschooler workshops that overview the different homeschooling approaches and their subcategories along with popular curricula/practices for each: Classical, Traditional Textbooks, Unschooling, Living Books, and Unit Study. I also teach how people mix approaches. I've often thought about which personality types fit into each.
So yeah, it would be awesome if he did one, but he'd have to have homeschooled for a quite while and been immersed in a philosophically diverse homeschool community. I was in Maricopa County, Phoenix, AZ, one of the largest homeschool and transplant communities in the country in 1997-2018 (10,000 legally registered homeschoolers at its peak when I was there) and saw a lot of different kinds of homeschoolers. I know what you mean about how funny it would be.
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It might take him some research to find the homeschool style of 16 homeschooling parents, but as I observed our co-op this week, I realized that we really have a fascinating variety of personalities.
Another homeschooler here!!
*waves hand excitedly * I was homeschooled!
As an ENTP... Sadly, i can confirm that this is true. Half of my teachers hate me, because I always argue, but the other half love me for the same reason.
Hell, I had a big argument with my teacher today (because classes start early and I am always really sleepy, and I just decided to take a nap, but, it is somehow really wrong lol). Needless to say, my parents were called to school. good luck to me I guess (Okay, who am I trying to fool, for all their screams, I will just sit with a deadpan smile, and then point out the smallest inconsistency in their statement to see the reaction)
Life doesn’t work like that i’m glad they did something about it
I have a feeling that all ENTP's are living the same life at this point. The exact same thing happened to me a few days ago, thank god my mum's also an ENTP, so the principals door was basically kicked out by foot.
I never took a nap in class, however I was the reason my math teacher quit.
In my defence, I merely tried to debate with her, since she refused to help a student for no reason.
(How to say you're an ENTP without explicitly saying it)
I think I may be a INTP though.
As an entp, i dont get it why some people trying to manipulate me or point out illogical inconsistencies of me for no reason , (while i am expert of that, and doing the same things fall them into a loop probably all the time lol, i guess we have this ti te moderate honesty equation in the head)
As an ENTP myself... I actively either completely ignored the classes I disliked or tried to cause as much chaos as possible while getting away with it for amusement...
I once got my sociology teacher to curse at me while my mom was at the door watching everything, his face when he noticed was priceless lmao
I'd do something similar to my chemistry teacher, but the max I did was manipulate her so she kept her social/political beliefs to herself and taught me chemistry which is a subject I like
I think moving around as a kid because my father was in the Air Force turned me into an INTJ because of realizing all of the social hierarchies in school are the same.
Interesting all of the misfits in this school look alike. 🤔
"I just wish i can fit somewhere"😭😭😭😭
-INFJ
in*
Yes.
I am an INTJ nad that hits hard.
You nailed it on this one! And my family and friends are literally those misfits at the end! As an ENFP I have always intentionally sought out the misfits bc the they are so much more interesting than the “popular” people. Love all your work FJ! Thank you!
THIS
Exactly the same and I'm ENFP too
as an INFP nurse I relate heavy to the inability to speak coherently on things I'm well versed in. having to explain anything to a patient or doctor instantly scrambles my brain thank u
Bro same idk why this happens..
When I started highschool, I immediatly found another bookworm, and we stayed together for the rest of the year, and then the next year we were in only one same class! I also joined another group of weirdos, but I still was really good friends with my og friend. I am also, an INFJ
i will be the guy
0:00 infj
0:15 intp
0:37 isfj
0:56 enfj and esfj
1:23 istp
1:30 enfp
1:58 isfp
2:25 entj
2:30 istj
2:40 entp
2:53 estj
3:07 esfp
3:12 istp again
3:33 intj
3:52 infp
4:28 estp
As an INFJ with a hint of INTJ, that's basically how I met my two childhood friends (one INTP and one INFP).
I’m an ESFP and I was totally jamming to the rhythmic beat FJ was playing as an ESFP.
He really acted as the ESFP well.
I am an ENFJ who moved 4 times during childhood. It was rough to say the least and was a wounded introvert until I left public school and found out who I really was.
As an INFP our lunch table we had all 4 years of high school was the misfits. Had a little bit of everyone. That was the only good part of high school I enjoyed and the rest I hated it
ISTP here, I did not have a good time changing schools to say the least. Let’s just say being in a school with so many extroverted loud kids was not great for me. I just threw myself into physical activities like dance, painting, sports and participated in a lot of events, any hands-on stuff really, and that brought me a lot of happiness. Doing things makes so much more sense than people and emotions, it might sound stereotypical ISTP but that really was and honestly still is the case for me.
It is stereotypical ISTP, and I know because I'm another stereotypical ISTP. I had the same experience though.
Same. It’s just easier to busy yourself with things rather than to socialize with people.
The writings on the white board is a hilarious touch 😂
'never eat glass" 😂
"buy deodorant, please" now this is something I used to say to my class as a previous class president for five years in a row.
Do I miss school? No. Not a bit.
Thanks!
This reminds me how short the time is until I have to go back to school 😭
I’m already two days in
@@febetoortelboom5962 same-
College ftw
Lol I am already almost a month in
I started college today 😂😂
The INTP is very accurate and relatable except for the fact that I never talk to myself out loud. I have the opposite problem where I imagine saying something so vividly I don't realize that I never actually said it. Sometimes I can't remember if I actually had a conversation or if I just imagined it.
INFP was also pretty accurate to my high school experience, but I don't think I ever actually tried out for anything. I just imagined trying out and humiliated my self in my mind.
Lol,humiliating my self inside my mind is my thing too~infp
I talk to myself constantly when I'm alone, I just wouldn't do it in public
Same
(precisely, down to every single detail)
Your videos getting better every time ✨
Thank you so much!!
As an ENTJ, I am HORRIFIED how accurate that was because a week ago, there was a new student (I’ve only been here for three months) and I literally “took them under my wing” and now everyone likes them XD they have no idea I’ve only gone for three months…
This was gold, and having the misfits at the end was perfect. Thanks for another amazing video 😁
As an infj sophomore in high school this is so true. This video tops the cake for making me feel understood🥲 thank you. I have always sat with the “cool” kids and was always quiet and felt like they just didn’t get me at all. They never understood me, and their personalities just felt so fake. I recently started sitting with the “misfits”… which honestly who even comes up with these cliques because the “misfits” personalities such as the band kids, will always be infinitely cooler than the “cool” kids. Cool kids just aren’t interesting until you break down their wall or “shell” that they put up and try and get them to open up about how they truly are and encourage them to live in that truth.
Edit: as I was saying, these new people that I’m sitting with at lunch seem to accept each other for who they are and seem to love each other genuinely. Although some of them are a little messy and gross when it comes to food and I don’t want them getting food all over my work, they are just awesome:)
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Something that I find weird is that even though I'm an infp and feel awkward around people, once I get on stage, I feel a lot more confident for some reason 😅.
Me too, though I'm not an INFP. I'm scared of getting on the stage. But when I do get on the stage, it's like I've conquered my fear, and feel that anything that I do from then, I can't do anything about them. So, this sense of confidence builds up. I guess it can be said: I am more afraid of getting onto the stage rather than being on it.
bro infp is *too* relatable, i remember i just read my chinese notes and when it was the oral, at number 6 or 7, i legit forgot what to say even when i *try* to remember, i ended up getting a high score anyways so good job me, you spent a whole week preparing for such a simple quiz and ended up messing up the easiest characters on the oral, and you also end up getting called a cheater because your the only one who answered quickly in the whole class, amazing.
I am an INFJ and When i moved to New school i was extremely quiet, Everyone was trying to talk to me and i was just smiling and nodding my head to whatever they were saying, I observed the whole class and after a month or few weeks later i started talking a bit to one or two students
Btw, Is it only me or is there any other INFJ who is actually really quite but sometimes they speak a lot with the people they are quite comfortable with and then they get overwhelmed
true that👊
No, you are not alone. I'm also like that.
It totally happens. You know who would actually relate to you. You just know or feel so.
An INTJ sharing some deep truth about life feels so relatable. Oh yes that's because I'm that INTJ who gets philosophical at any time of the day. Misfit, outsider, weirdo... I'm used to it 🙂
I think that's all of us at this point... Hating people, but loves STUDYING people and what makes them tick (psychology and philosophy).
@@ShinobiPhoenix-YT0 exactly! I love to observe but from nice distance. But tbh as I get older people seem too predictable to me so it's not that exciting anymore 😁
@@Jooney91 Predictable and disappointing...
Dudes tell me about it, like literally my dad's job requires to move tons
And i literally feel like i don't belong anywhere i go
Also I'm that physics nerd straight a student
@@notyourlife-w5b yeah it will always be like that. We are always out of place but I found "home" within myself and that helped a lot. Do what you love, it will bring you happiness 🙂
Ok this one really got me laughing. I knew I was already weird enough not to actually get caught talking to myself at school... but damn, at work and at home I have to talk myself through everything.
And honestly, the table of weirdos... very reminiscent of my high school years 😅 the loners all finding a spot together 👌
I also talk to myself
Sometimes you just need to talk to the smartest person in the room. Even if the room is empty aside from yourself.
As an INFJ I also talk to myself often 😂
as an INTP talking to myself is a must, so it's really awkward when I'm caught 💀
INTJ here. Occasionally I was lucky enough to find the table of weirdos, but lots of the time I just ended up being a loner. That was fine because school was very overwhelming for me anyway (I have sensory sensitivities) and I needed a break from the constant forced socializing. I could just read a book, do my homework, or entertain myself on my phone.
As an ISTP who has gone to five different schools (and counting), I can assure you that my grades have improved over every change, and my social life has slowly died
As an infp who literally just had an audition last week I can confirm this is true
I’m infp, and this actually happened to me, multiple times. The teacher questioning me basic maths in front of everyone, and I failed. I felt like everyone was watching me and I was on the verge of crying. Or when I had to recite a famous poem in elementary school, and I was the only one who couldn’t speak a word in front of all the parents in there and the teacher saying that I had trained a lot and it was just a moment of panic. Or when I was 13 years old and I had to talk with my parent’s friends who don’t speak my language ( I’m italian) so I had to speak english. I used to speak english at the time but when they asked me my age I felt anxious and instead of saying “thirteen” I said “Thirty” and they laughed at me. And generally it happens everytime I have an interrogation at school. I hope there are not too many grammatical errors
Try to remember people aren't necessarily laughing at YOU but at the situation. English-speaking people realize "30" and "13" sound so similar, but the slight pronunciation difference means many years different...
I "freeze" too when everyone suddenly is looking at me to speak. Try to remember no one is perfect. In time you can learn to laugh at yourself and your flaws. Just do the best you can, little by little, and don't give up.
when i was in eighth grade i cried my first day.
I suck at oral presentations and talking to people. Even if I studied and practiced before, I know I'll mess up somewhere. Luckily I'd say I'm decent in writing because the poem I wrote about my love for pizza was a hit for my french lesson that one time :D I can't have eye contact for too long either so I always look away after 3 milliseconds. Bruh idk how to stop acting weird 😅
Real-life school change:
Oh my god, we have a new kid!!!!!
-Why did you move?
-Where are you from?
-Do you want to be friends?
-You have funny hair
-Is it true that red-haired people have no soul?
-Are your freckles real or do you paint them?
-INTP's internal monologue:
The word "experimental" in the name of this school is very misleading. Is this a research facility for idiocracy? E.T go home...
Omg I'm Intp and for really when I went to high school i was like "ok, new start, new me" and I put all of my energy and effort to be happy and nice to everyone....
Yeah everyone hated me for the rest of high school for that and I just became my outsider self again so... That worked
When I changed school, I started to act more social, positive and funny, and bcs of that I had no close friends till I started to be myself, at that moment I wasnt talking to everyone, but the few people that I talked turned into one of my closest friends
OMG, how come this is so spot on ahaha. You're a genius, Frank! Fellow INFJ here, I wondered why in every school I'm usually hanging out with the "misfits". But I wouldn't have it any other way :D
Ahahaha, I hated school interaction deep down but I was good at pretending I enjoyed it. I think all the teachers and kids thought I love school, LOL. Currently still doing university, but thank goodness I'm doing a fully online program, so much more manageable for my nerves.
INFJ here. This one really got under my skin w/bad memories. I went to 7 different schools/districts by the time I graduated high school. Being the new girl all the time meant I formed no lasting relationships. Got bullied so f*n bad. You couldn’t pay me enough to go back and relive those years.
Hurts me to this day because it started a pattern of packing up & leaving people in my dust. It’s second nature now. I never really learned HOW to make new friends.
I love how ESFP immediately turned the class into a band group
2:00 Fun fact, bartenders actually can't drink on the job. I mean they can, but they won't be keeping the job for long.
Your content lately has been gold! I'm an INFJ and at the end "I" literally created that clique with my 3 kids and my husband (INFPx2, ISFJ, and an INTJ). We can't stop laughing! Also they go to Rosemount HS. 🤣
Being an INFJ starting at a new school I was adopted by some extroverts that their dads are my dad’s friend buuut as the time goes by I am now chilling with the misfits bc they seem more relatable than the popular ones so I just have a small group of friends for 4 years now
As an INFJ i relate to a whole deeper level. I always felt like I could never fit in truly into a group and even though I've been at this school for three years already and have made a couple of close friends I still feel like I have no one to talk to because they have their other friend groups and I just can't make myself fit in to their group fully. 😭
Same here😔
That’s literally me too
hey there, pls. don't feel alone... you'll make real friends soon. Just don't give up and be positive and patient. Keep on trying to socialize coz eventually you'll find your "own people" who'll accept you for who you are. ☺️ - fellow INFJ
that was me.. I always have 2 groups at once when I was school and college it.. but.. to be honest.. even though I feel like they loved me but no one really could understand me 😭😭
but it's okay cz sometimes I just don't understand myself 😭 so.. yeahh..🤷🏻♀️
Same when I try to be friends with my friends other friend group they would ignore me Or just stare at me like what you gotta a problem with me? 😭
As an ENFJ, the first day on my freshman year, I’ve made a lot of new friends lmfao and some of the people reciprocated my energy I gave onto them, it was hella fun.
Oh my gosh, the Napolean Dynamite scene was hysterical! And I loved that chick with the "I do what I want" t-shirt, smiling and then laughing at the other kid who auditioned! Yeah, the INFJ always seems to end up with the misfits. Who am I kidding? We kind of are the misfits. 🤣🤣🙌💜
Lol ...this t-shirt is made for me 😂😂
yeah, honestly at this point i've been gravitating _more_ towards the misfits because I know I'll always end up there anyway.
Or maybe _we_ attract the misfits? O.o
@@JokerCrowe 😂 I think it's a little of both.😆🙌
@@argyrous_p haha! Good for you!😂
My whole class did the dance for napoleon dynamite at the talent show
As a INTP and a ENTP this is the ABSOLUTE exact description for these personalities!
I was a good ENTP. No teachers were fired as far as I know. As long as I got straight A’s I was basically allowed to do whatever I wanted. No school for me on Thursdays! 😎👍🏼
I was always teacher's pet :D
@@MsWill813 ENTP also? :)
@@robmangeri777 Yes, I got good grades without studying and used school as an entertainment.
@@MsWill813 sounds about right👍🏼 nice to meet you
@@robmangeri777 You too :)
So accurate! I remember as an INTP first starting high school at a new school, I would be so determined to reinvent a new "me", which I did succeed in doing to some extent... only to realise that I am not really a new "me" at the core, but only an improved me and for the better.
The INTJ, INTP, INFJ, and INFP (IN types), in addition to the ISFJ, ISTJ, and INFJ and as well as the ESFP and ENFP being the misfits is so accurate. It is not only introverts who are misfits and find it hard to fit in. Some extroverts also find it hard to fit in too in the social setting when there are already all the cliques at a school, owing to their 'big personality' which most cannot handle.
Personally, the IN personalities as well as the ExFPs are the most interesting ones because of how different they tend to be from everyone else. The IP types are also very interesting too.
INTP, very true.
Like, here's my chance, I can be different this year and it goes the same.
Great vid!
DUDE I so needed this! I’m moving to a new school soon, but it’s also in another country. So while I do understand the language, I’m positively terrified on how life will be there. Especially since it seems I’m one of the only new students!
The last INFJ was SO SO relatable! I just changed schools 2 weeks ago and I was like "I can never fit in anywhere!" I mean, this is EXACTLY what I experienced!!
The INFJ making friends with the misfits at the end was a true masterpiece. I feel so recognized 😭
POV: you’re personality is part of the misfits but you aren’t even mad bc you know it’s true
ISFP here. I've been in my new class for 4 months now. Still wainting for someone to take me under their wings... I Still feel stressed everyday and have no friends, just read a book alone at breaks, yeah
Always look forward to your videos Frank !! They put a smile on my face. What would you think about doing some comedy sketches with two compatible personality types like ENTJ and INTP for example ??
Keep up the good work 🤗
INTJ + ENTP pls
I'm an INFP...
Me to me piano teacher at University after blanking out in front of her: You should have heard me in the practice room! It was amazing!
The misfit group is the best comfort zone ☺️ me ISTJ have INFP, INTJ and INTP friends, they’re the best
INTP is accurate, I decided to be the popular kid in college, that lasted only for the first semester
found my nerd flock in 3rd semester, we're best friends now
Was about to have a panic attack being back in school but being with my misfits also makes me happy; Brings back memories.
Well down, good sir!
I do saw, well-done!
-Audition Chef #2
Omg i was just waiting for the infj to come along and then there it was, with like 100% accuracy, always stuck with the misfits clique!! Never disappoints!😭