Dallas vlog | brunch, boundaries & burnout!!! 🤠 I'm tired

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  • @tiffanyferg
    @tiffanyferg 3 роки тому +1107

    I’m sorry so many strangers have crossed the line with you! You have every right to voice these complaints and establish boundaries, especially with your audience. Enjoy taking time off! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @somethingbettercoming
      @somethingbettercoming 3 роки тому +7

      It comes with the territory

    • @weber1494
      @weber1494 3 роки тому +12

      Hey Tiffany I love your internet analysis !
      Kelly Stamps I’m sorry to hear about your dad and also thankful you for opening up with your supporters about the things you deal with.
      honestly its very refreshing and relatable

    • @KB-pg1bi
      @KB-pg1bi 3 роки тому +4

      I felt everything that you said. All the best Kelly 😊

    • @mickdog7
      @mickdog7 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly

    • @alphamail8974
      @alphamail8974 Рік тому

      ​@@somethingbettercomingSo just never expect people to do better? You sound very complacent and a part of the problem.

  • @RaheemD
    @RaheemD 3 роки тому +273

    Wishing you all the best Kelly ❣️
    C'mon Stampede, asking for her phone number out the blue and getting confused when she says no? Is this who we are? Is this what we represent? Do better! 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @Crhobbit
    @Crhobbit 3 роки тому +369

    So many people in the “public eye” are afraid to speak their truth for fear of being cancelled. What kind of a life is it to live a lie just to please others? Your true supporters completely understand what you’re saying. 😉

    • @RobWill5864
      @RobWill5864 3 роки тому +28

      The only thing that needs to be cancelled is cancel culture.

    • @JulianSteve
      @JulianSteve 3 роки тому +17

      @@RobWill5864 To an extent yes and no. Some celebrities, influencers, and politicians need to be called out for their poor actions. On the other hand, there are some people who just cancel anyone for no reason. Kelly did not say anything wrong, but certain people are going to take her opinions wrongly…. And if they do, that’s their problem🤷🏾‍♂️
      I am happy she is saying her truth and protecting herself🙌🏾‼️

    • @rens0n
      @rens0n 3 роки тому +5

      For real, what's the point of living afraid of that ? Someone, somewhere is always gonna be mad and take something personal...u can't please everyone and u shouldn't even be trying

    • @tiathecreator8557
      @tiathecreator8557 3 роки тому +4

      TOTALLY AGREE! And I feel everything she’s saying. I’m also very stressed and overwhelmed with his things are going and that’s what’s keeping me stagnant

  • @Jessica-bo9kz
    @Jessica-bo9kz 3 роки тому +126

    It’s spiritual warfare out here. It’s gonna get real in the next few years but we need to keep our faith and prepare 🙏🏻 I admire you for sharing your thoughts and what’s been on your heart. I’m sure it’s not easy to not follow the crowd, especially being a social media figure. A lot of influencers are sadly following the grain, and others that see behind the curtain are silent because they’re scared of the backlash they would receive

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +43

      Yes you know exactly what I’m talking about! Spiritual warfare is the best way to describe it

    • @NomadicIslanders
      @NomadicIslanders 3 роки тому +6

      Agreed 100%. I feel it STRONGLY!

    • @ViewTifuLKat777
      @ViewTifuLKat777 3 роки тому +7

      agreed. living somewhat off the grid and doing your own thing seems to be the best thing right now. unfortunately things aren't seeming to pan out to living how we are usually used to.

    • @tiathecreator8557
      @tiathecreator8557 3 роки тому +9

      WHEW! You said the whole truth! I’m finding my tribe in these comments lol

    • @spiritualpoet4003
      @spiritualpoet4003 3 роки тому +3

      Amen,yes!

  • @INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED
    @INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED 3 роки тому +329

    The down side of being a well known UA-camr or person in general: random people stopping you in the middle of the night to ask how you blow up. That’s scary. Stay safe
    Edit: take that break Sis. Even if it’s for a month. You’ll come back reenergized. A month and a half break from posting content was amazing for my mental health.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +50

      Thanks for understanding and I agree!

  • @bernadettemary2135
    @bernadettemary2135 3 роки тому +85

    We love a woman who establishes boundaries. So sorry for all the bad experiences and pressures you’ve had with others

  • @Jacob-gg1ie
    @Jacob-gg1ie 3 роки тому +185

    Parasocial relationships are so strange, especially on UA-cam. People are given free content yet act like they're owed their due?? Any creators offering FREE content for entertainment/consumption do not actually owe anyone a single thing.
    (Also I want Trader Joe's chow mein now.)

    • @Ren-xc1cb
      @Ren-xc1cb 3 роки тому +8

      FACTS!!

    • @weber1494
      @weber1494 3 роки тому +4

      true! backseat passengers trying to tell the driver how to drive, chile
      kelly owes us nothing
      if she wanted to make a side coin doing meet and greets id definitely pay to meet her (on her terms).
      its the audacity for me

  • @annewhittemore3771
    @annewhittemore3771 3 роки тому +126

    Woah. I’m with you on the tingling, growing, “something bad is coming” feeling. It’s hard to know how much is intuition for REAL and how much is my anxiety catastrophizing the future. I feel it so badly, whatever it is. And I have two little boys and no idea what their future looks like. 😭

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +8

      I’m glad you understand!

    • @artistic_jae
      @artistic_jae 3 роки тому +5

      It’s that feeling like the end of the world is near.

    • @Catscratch241
      @Catscratch241 2 роки тому +4

      Intuition is always calm. Anxiety is far from it

    • @calistacisneros
      @calistacisneros 2 роки тому +1

      Once I heard the key difference between fear and real intuition is the feeling of fear, when it’s intuition you’ll simply feel like you know what to do and act accordingly but if you’re feeling frightful that’s fear 100%

  • @HINDZSIGHT
    @HINDZSIGHT 3 роки тому +409

    love this video , probably my favourite one yet.

    • @rubyforsey
      @rubyforsey 3 роки тому +2

      🍵

    • @weber1494
      @weber1494 3 роки тому +18

      I’m happy she’s showing other sides to herself; other than making constant happy videos all the time. I’ve never wanted perfection just authenticity

    • @EpicKate
      @EpicKate 3 роки тому +4

      @@weber1494 It's the most valuable thing. I love how you phrased that. I think most people feel that way but it's so hard to make those real connections.

    • @user-ow7bi3se2b
      @user-ow7bi3se2b 3 роки тому +6

      Hindz!! You're the reason I'm following Kelly after you mentioned you enjoyed her work :D adore you both.

    • @wordnodoubt2
      @wordnodoubt2 3 роки тому +1

      BARS. 👍🏾🤛🏾💯

  • @xDHalcyonn
    @xDHalcyonn 3 роки тому +129

    Kelly you're the second person I've heard say something about becoming self sustainable.. reminds me I need to start my own garden. These are strange times.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +28

      Strange times indeed! It’s time for everyone to buy land

    • @Trish....
      @Trish.... 3 роки тому +10

      @alyssa xo or share the costs, community gardens, beekeeping for areas w/o any (not to replace native bees), & live near like-minded ppl who look out for one another.

  • @StudioJibby
    @StudioJibby 3 роки тому +109

    Also I'm sorry you're experiencing all of these scary interactions with viewers. It's not ok that you can't just live your life and feel safe and comfortable walking down the street without your space being invaded. I hope you do find that self sustainable life you're looking for soon! Have fun with your time off in Idaho!!

  • @oa164
    @oa164 3 роки тому +15

    Watching someone taking care of themselves is so comforting to me. Welcome to the self care club everyone.

  • @justjoelee
    @justjoelee 3 роки тому +416

    the dreaded UA-cam studio app and youtube's passive aggressive "your audiences interest in this video is lower than usual 10/10" 💀💀💀

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +206

      When I don't expect a video to perform well it gets 10/10. The ones that took more thought or personal chatter get 1/10. I swear one day I'll upload a video titled "breathing air for ten minutes straight" and it'll go viral.

    • @lpsloveandgame6046
      @lpsloveandgame6046 3 роки тому +10

      @@KellyStamps I feel like you meant to switch the ratings there but I might be wrong-

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +20

      @@lpsloveandgame6046 correct let me fix that typo lol thank you

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee 3 роки тому +5

      @@KellyStamps I believe the previous ranking was correct, since it's ranked 10th lowest of the previous 10 videos.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +12

      Yes you are correct. I misread LOL. But you know what I’m talking about. 10 out of 10 seems fantastic but it means it’s rankings poorly in comparison to my last 10 videos.

  • @MsJaevin
    @MsJaevin 3 роки тому +42

    I had the absolute pleasure of meeting you and Michelle at Restoration Hardware! You are so kind, I wish I had the opportunity to talk to you more but I didn't want to intrude on your lunch. I am so sorry you have to deal with all of the scary interactions from complete strangers. I am so sorry about the passing of your Father. Take it easy. Take a break. Your soul is so bright, and the way you live your life is inspiring! Take care of yourself! I'm so glad you're enjoying Dallas

  • @Sophie-d5n7n
    @Sophie-d5n7n 3 роки тому +211

    "I feel like most of humanity has run off into the deep end lately and if you don't run off with them you're gonna get pushed. And I don't like getting pushed." Love that! ❤️

    • @Ren-xc1cb
      @Ren-xc1cb 3 роки тому +7

      Well said

    • @sf7562
      @sf7562 3 роки тому +5

      It struck me the wrong way. Does Kelly mean “falling off the deep end” as in recognising how messed up society is and making a push to change it from the ground up? If that’s “falling off the deep end”, then what’s the alternative? Staying as we are? The past 5 years have shown how we can’t do that.
      And honestly, people should get cancelled if they think things are great and should stay the same.
      Of course this might not be what Kelly means, but it’s the vibe I got. Would like to know if anyone interpreted it differently.

    • @sunnyspaces7
      @sunnyspaces7 3 роки тому +11

      @@sf7562 Your a great example of “ overly sensitive “ subscriber. Nit picking, analyzing , taking things personal, needing things broken down , offended and looking to find reasons to be offended. 😩🥴🤯🙄

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 3 роки тому +10

      Sad but so true! I often feel like people these days will viciously attack you for not taking their ultra-left, ultra-right, or otherwise just wacko perspective. It's like they want to tear society apart. It's scary

    • @kaseryn
      @kaseryn 3 роки тому +2

      @@helenatube Honestly. I so felt both what she said and didn't say on the subject, and actually thinking back i'm sure one of her first video's touching on the trend was what got me first interested. Maybe when we're all living in the razed barren and lawless societies envisioned in Mad Max people will see we actually had it pretty good for a while...

  • @thecowgirlmermaid
    @thecowgirlmermaid 3 роки тому +26

    It's crazy how you don't even have to explicitly say but we know / feel it with you. We're all fighting for our souls and yearning for clarity. Love your message and am amazed at how grounded and real you keep it

  • @denine685
    @denine685 3 роки тому +187

    "If you know you know" all facts Kelly. My alarm started ringing at the end of 2016 letting me know it's...about...to go, Down! Stay safe and discerned during these times. Best of luck to you.

    • @fulminisrecovery1264
      @fulminisrecovery1264 3 роки тому +6

      2016? Not 2019?

    • @denine685
      @denine685 3 роки тому +13

      @@fulminisrecovery1264 Yes, 2016 for me. By 2019 I could see it all clearly so I was ready when 2020 showed up.

    • @AdriannaAndFriends
      @AdriannaAndFriends 3 роки тому

      M

    • @nicolletelangdon2694
      @nicolletelangdon2694 3 роки тому +8

      Unfortunately for me it started in 2000. I've been screaming off the top of my lungs for people to wake up but, they refuse too. We have a two party system in a country with over 300 million in population but are considered a democracy. Yet Cuba who has a population of less than 20 million and one main party is considered a communist country? There are so many wicked things that are shinning right in front of our eyes now, in broad daylight but we are still refusing to see the truth. Our past generations failed us. If the world is in the state it is now, it is because past generations refused to wake up and take a stand.

  • @DirectionerColdplayr
    @DirectionerColdplayr 3 роки тому +8

    thank you for making this. people forget that the person behind their favorite video/song/film is still a perfect stranger. creatives can be vulnerable in their work, and therefore relate to others, but by no means does this replace a personal connection. I am so sorry that these unpleasant interactions happened to you! you owe us nothing, truly, (go girl, owe us nothing!) and you should be concerned for your mental health and well-being.

  • @StudioJibby
    @StudioJibby 3 роки тому +175

    *constant state of anxiety *not being able to please EVERYONE...dang Kelly it's liked you read right out of my journal today 😬

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +39

      I did steal your journal. Didn't you see me enter your home? Oh, well I left some tiramisu on the counter for your troubles!

    • @StudioJibby
      @StudioJibby 3 роки тому +19

      @@KellyStamps no lie!! I had tiramisu this morning for breakfast?!? That's wild!!

  • @RicardoJPosada
    @RicardoJPosada 3 роки тому +21

    Becoming self-sustaining on a plot of land sounds so refreshing right now. Best of luck Kelly!

  • @lils6696
    @lils6696 3 роки тому +84

    fun fact: did u know mr birkin named his iconic Kelly bag after our Grand Leader Miss Stamps after he met Her in a parisian café and immediately fell in luv w Her boujee yet frugal vibe

    • @Jane_1994
      @Jane_1994 3 роки тому

      💀👏👏👏

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +14

      HAHA wow! I love a history lesson 😂

  • @chioma2844
    @chioma2844 3 роки тому +33

    I’m glad that your speaking out on the discomfort you have and being honest with us. This helps us grow and learn.

    • @EpicKate
      @EpicKate 3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely. It helps us to listen to our own guts and act on it.

  • @logicandwisdom
    @logicandwisdom 3 роки тому +30

    Hey Kelley,
    I'm a mini homesteader but out in the desert. Find a home with alot of land, tucked away preferrably. Get solar and residential battery storage. Make sure your property has a well or is near a river. A well is preferable and install a good well water filter. Build a food pantry and start your garden.

  • @prinzezz210
    @prinzezz210 3 роки тому +34

    It was really nice to just sit here and listen to what you had to say. There’s this weird energy in the atmosphere and I’m glad you brought it up. You’re human and deserve time to reenergize physically and mentally. Take care Kelly and enjoy this time off! Hope you can clear your mind and brush some weight off your shoulders. 💖

  • @chantelserita585
    @chantelserita585 3 роки тому +60

    As a fellow former gymnast....I also know the feeling of constantly reaching for perfection. As you know...there's no such thing! Take the time you need: journal, reflect, practice hella self-care and take care of yourself. You deserve, Kelly!

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +15

      I’m glad someone gets it. I am constantly reaching for perfection and sometimes it’s OK to just take a step back and just enjoy the process. That’s what I’m trying to enjoy recreational skating without hiring five Russian coaches to send me to the Tokyo Olympics LOL.

    • @chantelserita585
      @chantelserita585 3 роки тому +1

      @@KellyStamps I def get it. Lmao!! Enjoy it just because…and nothing more. ✨🙌🏽

  • @LOVELYLONDONGURL
    @LOVELYLONDONGURL 3 роки тому +1

    I've been a subscriber for a while now and I love your videos. Something is definitely brewing in this world, it just doesn't feel the same as it did when I was growing up. It's a lot colder out there, but you'll have to be switched on to notice, but so many are willfully or not, ignoring the signs.
    Also, re boundaries, I find a lot of people are so entitled to receive from the fruits of other people's labour. Part of the issue with social media is the risk that people spend so much time invested in others' lives that they don't dedicate enough time to cultivate their own, and thus they want the people they follow online to give and give in order for them to feel fulfilled or accomplished.
    A massive component of this is low self-esteem, you can't have more vim for someone else than you have for yourself, and I feel too many people put people with a following online on a weird pedestal.

  • @apieceofcoffee
    @apieceofcoffee 3 роки тому +97

    "If you know, you know." Yep. I feel a spring has been winding tighter and tighter. It's very unsettling.
    I have no clue what to say about the boundary-less-ness that you've been experiencing with strangers. I feel it's a culmination of the past few years where the societal culture has shifted towards personal entitlement, emotional instability and lack of critical thinking (amplified by almost 2 years of isolation). It definitely isn't the first story of it and won't be the last unfortunately. Just keep up your protection, situational awareness and smart choices. Go take a break from all this. You have the ability and you should. Don't feel guilty or take for granted all the freedoms your hard work and success has brought you. :)

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +13

      Yes all true! I'll take a brief pause and continue to shine

    • @dirtnbloodnotherkids
      @dirtnbloodnotherkids 3 роки тому +11

      @@KellyStamps Kelly look into the Great reset/agenda 21. Your instincts are correct. There is a global shift towards the new world order. I don't want to scare you but this is 100% happening and you're on point to want to start preparing. God bless and protect you 🙏

    • @Trish....
      @Trish.... 3 роки тому +6

      @@dirtnbloodnotherkids yep - we're seeing the finality of a multi-generational, multi-national plan...

    • @dirtnbloodnotherkids
      @dirtnbloodnotherkids 3 роки тому +4

      @@Trish.... I pray the people wake up and their plan fails and their evil deeds exposed, in Jesus name 🙏

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 3 роки тому +3

      All the fake news, total immersion in social media, and major ecological and societal breakdown is getting to people's heads. Protect your sanity folks!

  • @miguelstancil5102
    @miguelstancil5102 3 роки тому +9

    Not sure I’ve ever commented on your channel, but Kelly, thank you for entertaining us. Thank you also, for your honesty. Now, go and take care of yourself. We will be just fine! We will see you again after you’ve rested. Peace and Love

  • @SharatiaBanks
    @SharatiaBanks 3 роки тому +73

    Brunch confession: I’m 31 and I’ve had my first mimosa a month ago

    • @dagogouranta5583
      @dagogouranta5583 3 роки тому +2

      It do be like that sometimes 😂, hope you liked it

    • @littleripper312
      @littleripper312 3 роки тому +1

      Same age and never had a mimosa. In love with mojitos though!

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +5

      I've never had a mimosa LOL. I drank tea!

    • @MARVINSBACKYARDGARAGE
      @MARVINSBACKYARDGARAGE 3 роки тому

      I'm 48 never had one😮😮😮😮😮

    • @RoselySS95
      @RoselySS95 3 роки тому

      I’m 26 and I had my first one a few months ago too! But I didn’t like it 😩😂 I realized that I def do not like the taste of champagne. I was so mad. I really wanted to like it but.. 🤷🏽‍♀️
      Margaritas are def my go-to though 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @chaichaijade
    @chaichaijade 3 роки тому +13

    Sorry for your loss.
    People forget that we're all human. Everyone goes through stuff; everyone has a right to take the time they need to chillax without having to give a reason or answer to others. You go Kelly Stamps! We'll still be here

  • @LULUandBELLA
    @LULUandBELLA 3 роки тому +56

    I feel like feeling burnt out or a lil down is the natural process of growth and evolution. You are super talented and I'm beyond sure you've barely scratched the surface Kelly😘😘😘😘

  • @Ash.d.cortes
    @Ash.d.cortes 3 роки тому +11

    I really felt this Kelly! Sometimes you just want to disappear away from everyone and spend some me time in peace and quiet, doing what you enjoy.
    You have every right to take that time for yourself, self care is important and I’m realizing this more and more each day myself.
    Hope you get some much needed you time!

  • @TheNinjapancake14
    @TheNinjapancake14 3 роки тому +19

    My sister and I are looking into buying our own land for regenerative farming and housing. My aunt has her own garden and I remember my cousin showing me how green the fresh lettuce was after a wash vs the store bought lettuce that still had a waxy look.
    Being self sufficient in that way is a great goal to have! You control what you consume and know where it comes from

  • @VIAGLO
    @VIAGLO 3 роки тому +41

    I can hear it in your voice that you’re feeling depleted. I do think you taking a mental health break to rebalance and grieve and come back better is something subscribers should understand. You shouldn’t have to feel like this and the people that are weirdos thinking that they truly know you is pretty scary I’m sorry you even had to deal with that energy. Get all the golfing you need Ms. Stamps! 😉

  • @m.j.333
    @m.j.333 3 роки тому +18

    When you mentioned homesteading I knew you were on the right path. Its so refreshing!

  • @zenabumblebee9738
    @zenabumblebee9738 3 роки тому +8

    I feel the shift too! I have such anxiety over it. My gut tells me we are in for a world of hurt. I bought a Berkey water filter, am hoarding food (including pet food), and bought a solar generator. God help us all

  • @chantelserita585
    @chantelserita585 3 роки тому +34

    I definitely feel the energy you are referring to. It also makes me want to be fully self-sustained. Not sure what's to come in this madness but it makes me anxious and driven to be solely dependent on myself. Thanks for affirming my thoughts!

  • @simpleschoolstv5287
    @simpleschoolstv5287 3 роки тому +10

    Wow this really gives insight into why some of our favorite creators take a break. UA-cam seems so much easier and better than a job, but you pay in other ways. I'm so sorry this is your experience. I hope you find comfort and peace again.

  • @FantaandDarwin
    @FantaandDarwin 3 роки тому +36

    There’s so much world to see and so many ways to live! vlogs let me live vicariously

    • @vliciouss
      @vliciouss 3 роки тому +2

      Same. There’s like 15 different states I want to live in, 40 different countries I’d move to. In the meantime I’ll watch Kelly Stamps

    • @lolabunny1157
      @lolabunny1157 3 роки тому +1

      @@vliciouss right!!!

  • @Fir3bird23
    @Fir3bird23 3 роки тому +17

    Definitely feeling the shift, trying not to freak out about it but I'm doing what I can to prepare. Glad to hear you have been thinking ahead too.

  • @drucilladeville
    @drucilladeville 3 роки тому +34

    When I say I have had that same ringing omg I always just say I have a need to prepare for the apocalypse like giving myself useful skills, being independent and understanding how the things I like work

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +17

      So many people in the comments also get the apocalypse-is-coming vibes

  • @hayley8459
    @hayley8459 3 роки тому +79

    I totally feel you on the notion that something is coming. My sister and I grew up in San Diego and are looking to buy a few hundred acres together in either montana, idaho, or wyoming and learn to "live off the land" in case something goes down. The media has turned different racial and socioeconomic groups against one another and I think this might all be part of some larger plan and we are all just pawns in it. Take the time you need to recenter yourself sis. youtube is not going anywhere soon

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +35

      Totally agree. You should watch my idaho video! I wouldn’t suggest settling there unless you know people because it is rather small, but I know several people who have started this plan in Montana and are loving it. I just don’t want to hear any of it anymore. It’s kind of impossible to not see politics and race videos when I upload to UA-cam but have to login on occasion. I do my reading when necessary on politics and race-based tragedies but it’s just actually bizarre to me how often people think about race. But sadly it’s always going to be like that.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +37

      I admit I was slightly apprehensive about going to Idaho the first time I went many years ago, I was assuming I would run into the KKK LOL. But most people aren’t thinking about my race or gender. I ran into a couple of other black people on my trip and we agreed that it’s actually good to go out to places where we aren’t seen. I feel like it’s my way of making the world a little less ignorant LOL. Think about it, at least 50 people ran into me and now they have a good impression of what others are like.

    • @Loleini91
      @Loleini91 3 роки тому +10

      @ Hayley It’s bizarre how often I see people constantly blaming the media for pitting groups ( based on race, socioeconomic status) against each other, as if we as humans have not already been doing this long before the strong presence of media. Things won’t change if we don’t take accountability for our part in the disruption that has been amongst humans for thousands of years. This isn’t just the media, this is also the average civilian turning on each other due to their own free will.

  • @goldenostrich7629
    @goldenostrich7629 3 роки тому +72

    I had a feeling that there was something deeper going on behind the illusion of panera's panorama drama. It won't be public knowledge until years later (like everything else) so yeah keep your focus on you. Hopefully our positivity today can create better tomorrow's

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +29

      I agree fully there’s something more to this Panera mac n cheese combo 😂

    • @goldenostrich7629
      @goldenostrich7629 3 роки тому +8

      @@KellyStamps you are so witty and beautiful! Sending you love from california 💛

    • @zerubablegrrrrrr
      @zerubablegrrrrrr 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly. Something is up. A lot of things.

    • @ED-ie3et
      @ED-ie3et 3 роки тому +5

      I agree. This panorama was planned. I honestly feel that

    • @pleasedontbiteme1117
      @pleasedontbiteme1117 3 роки тому

      What's the drama about?? I tried looking into it, but nothings coming up

  • @gabrieleelizabeth6521
    @gabrieleelizabeth6521 3 роки тому +14

    I’ve been experiencing the same sense of dread since November/December of 2019. It comes and goes but it never fully leaves. So I feel you
    Also, I’m really sorry so many people cross your boundaries like that. People seem to have a weird sense of ownership with creators, they forget that you’re just a person too. I also really relate to your perfectionism, and having time off always helps me get myself sorted out :)

  • @lils6696
    @lils6696 3 роки тому +16

    kelly ur experience w parasocial relationships is rlly eye opening as a viewer! if u wanna do a full length video on it i wud absolutely watch it's rlly interesting hearing an influencer's side of the story

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +10

      I agree, I think it would make a great long video topic but can easily be misconstrued as being salty or ungrateful lol. But so far most people appreciate my transparency!

    • @vinyasa748
      @vinyasa748 3 роки тому +2

      @@KellyStamps naw. They need to know that what they’re doing is disgusting

  • @heyitsjoanne
    @heyitsjoanne 3 роки тому +29

    Ugh, people who don't understand boundaries. And then if you try to call them out for their behavior, they act like you're the problem! It's amazing what a lack of self-awareness can do to people. I don't get bothered by creators not uploading for a while, especially not a week. I have so many other interests to fill my time, so that's why. Also, that's what notifications are for. But I guess the impatient people who can't even wait a week are just bored with their lives. Not that it's a bad thing, but at the same time, it's not the responsibility of creators to fix their boredom. Anyway, here's to a good break for you! I hope you hit the golf ball, lol.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +1

      I’m glad you’re in the normal bunch who gets it!!!

    • @heyitsjoanne
      @heyitsjoanne 3 роки тому

      @@KellyStamps Ha ha, thank you! ^_^

    • @virtualaustralia
      @virtualaustralia 3 роки тому +1

      You're absolutely right! As soon as you start to set boundaries with people that is normally toxic or abusive, they start to act like you're the worst person in the world 🤔🙄

    • @heyitsjoanne
      @heyitsjoanne 3 роки тому +1

      @@virtualaustralia Yep! That's how it usually goes.

  • @Ravynrca
    @Ravynrca 3 роки тому +61

    U were really meant for Texas! your the only person that can pull off saying HOWDY so effortlessly

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +3

      hahaha

    • @SuperSilverJay
      @SuperSilverJay 3 роки тому +3

      It depends on where you live in Texas. No one says howdy in the city. I've lived in Texas my entire life and wouldn't be caught dead saying howdy 🤣 and I live in the suburbs to put it into perspective.

    • @Ravynrca
      @Ravynrca 3 роки тому +3

      @@SuperSilverJay I know no one honestly says howdy 😭 it’s just the fact it goes with her and the cowboy theme of Texas , I get your perspective tho LOL

    • @SuperSilverJay
      @SuperSilverJay 3 роки тому +2

      @@Ravynrca understandable. Some people honestly think we have horses everywhere here 😂 so I like to give some perspective. But yes she really does fit well with the country lifestyle.

  • @Winis_World
    @Winis_World 3 роки тому +3

    I think this may be one of my favourite vids from you. I really appreciate your openness and honesty. It's a shame to hear that people aren't respecting boundaries. My condolences in regards to the passing of your Father. Honestly Kelly, I sincerely hope that you enjoy taking time off. Your mental health is far too precious. Protect yourself, and your energy. We will all still be here, whenever you return❤️

  • @holisticlifestyletherapist6918
    @holisticlifestyletherapist6918 3 роки тому +55

    THANK YOU for sharing this message! It is SO important we are prepared in every aspect. Not to live in fear but to feel at peace knowing WE are in control of our own spirit and lives!! 🌱✨🌱 sending higher vibes to everyone. Kelly I’m so down to be a helper in your land lol, sign me up. I’ll send my qualifications lol

  • @elimdd
    @elimdd 3 роки тому +1

    Your channel will not die out ... those people aren't your fans. They just wanna make you feel bad for your channel.

  • @SarahWarrender
    @SarahWarrender 3 роки тому +32

    I've heard Idaho is so beautiful. Sounds like a perfect place for a "I don't owe anyone anything" retreat!

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +7

      Yes you should see my other videos on Idaho!! I made at least one

    • @SarahWarrender
      @SarahWarrender 3 роки тому

      @@KellyStamps how did I miss those potatoes?!

  • @sweetpeahunnybee
    @sweetpeahunnybee 3 роки тому

    Taking a break is completely okay to do! Social media is designed to make us feel like we aren’t good enough so we go on it more to get more dopamine. I hope one day we can change the algorithms to be more beneficial to us instead of keeping us trapped in a neverending cycle. Videos like this are amazing because it shows that you are a human just like the rest of us and you aren’t always sunshine and rainbows 🌈 thanks for opening up and I hope your break gives you some peace 💗

  • @contentlyliving7205
    @contentlyliving7205 3 роки тому +17

    👏🏾Kelly 👏🏾take👏🏾your👏🏾break! All of us who are faithful stampede members will be waiting for you when you get back! 💕You need your rest! Mental health is EXTREMELY important! 😘 I really appreciated the honesty in this video! Wishing you the best

  • @mkdutremble1
    @mkdutremble1 3 роки тому +20

    I feel the sinister stuff going down and it’s leading us, somewhere.. seems like the uncooperative are being pushed out of society. Proud of you for your vision to take care of yourself and maintain true freedom and autonomy☺️

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +4

      I’m so glad that you understand along with many others!

  • @ClaireCraig
    @ClaireCraig 3 роки тому +80

    I sense bad things coming too... way too much extremism trying to force people on one crazy side or another, lol. My whole channel is dedicated to talking about cancel culture at this point. Just look after yourself, do what you gotta do, and try to stay sane even as it becomes more and more impossible hahaha

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +8

      Agreed!

    • @shenova
      @shenova 3 роки тому +7

      Same. Let’s make an ALL GIRL HOMESTEAD!!!! 😂

    • @EpicKate
      @EpicKate 3 роки тому +3

      Your channel looks so interesting! I added a video to my watch later. Mine is dedicated to making the world better by being authentic and listening to people from all kinds of walks of life to hear what they are passionate about.

  • @monniiiii
    @monniiiii 3 роки тому +3

    i love how your lifestyle is just so on the go😭 being able to just up and move where ever whenever. i appreciate you being so transparent with your feelings and emotions. hope you had blissful weekend in idaho!!✨

  • @imsoyancy
    @imsoyancy 3 роки тому +7

    Setting boundaries can be so uncomfortable but I hope it ultimately gives you some relief from dealing with people. Sending love ❤️

  • @askye971
    @askye971 3 роки тому

    That's how I feel about being touched. Men and woman both touch certain parts of my body, for whatever reason, and it irritates me. Or just because I am being nice and holding conversation with a person, does not mean that I want to interact with you every time we see each other in passing. I love that you are sharing your boundaries and encouraging people to stick to their boundaries. It can be overwhelming. Take your break, Professor Stamps. We will all be here.

  • @bridgestowisdom
    @bridgestowisdom 3 роки тому +8

    You are absolutely correct! It's not a conspiracy or crazy talk. Go with what your spirit is telling you.👍🏽

  • @javiermami
    @javiermami 3 роки тому +4

    I'm 31 and been feeling bad energies from the world since I was 18. Always knew something sinister was coming. Lately when I go out I feel overwhelmed by energy. Take it easy you don't owe anyone anything. 🥰🇺🇸

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_ 3 роки тому +12

    Ice skating isn’t something I watch often but when I do it’s always entertaining

  • @luxboho207
    @luxboho207 3 роки тому

    Hi Kelly, I have been saying exactly what you said for YEARS! No one believes me! I am in an apartment but I already grow a lot of my own food and I compost, but, like you, the next step is doing it on my own land. I'm so happy to hear someone else say what I've felt for years! :) Enjoy your time off!

  • @MikePitt
    @MikePitt 3 роки тому +20

    Take some time out for you, Kelly. Your mental health is so important. We will all still be here when you get back. Mx

  • @saintgreat
    @saintgreat 3 роки тому +1

    Manifest the people you want around you, approach you and the type of stampede you want on your sabbatical. When we ask, map, plan, dream success, its important that we include every detail. I've learned this from experience.

  • @chiaralilas
    @chiaralilas 3 роки тому +8

    it's honestly always so soothing to watch your videos. I admire how you aspire to a very simple lifestyle and how you just get to try whatever you want to because it makes you feel good. it really inspires me to do the same, to narrow down my time and energy to what matters the most -aka my well being-

  • @mandy6365734
    @mandy6365734 3 роки тому

    I live just north of Austin, TX and I am Jersey born & raised. And you said SHOPRITE ! Just gave me flashbacks. Glad you are taking time for yourself. Saying (NO Thank You Sir or Ma’am )is a necessity for good health. Take the time you need. Whenever you need it.

  • @Baldcafe
    @Baldcafe 3 роки тому +92

    This was a great video.

    • @LemonGreenism
      @LemonGreenism 3 роки тому +3

      Mr. Bald himself !!!! I love your empowering videos ❤️

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +4

      I’m glad you liked it!

  • @serinaelizabeth4126
    @serinaelizabeth4126 3 роки тому

    Just because someone is UA-cam “famous” it doesn’t disregard from the fact they still value their privacy let alone PERSONAL BUBBLE. I’m sorry to hear about so many interactions that have crossed boundaries! Let alone someone walking up from behind you and hugging you! I’m happy you’re voicing this publicly and that people get the message to respect one’s personal space, life, and mental. I commend you for sticking around and creating more videos. To the ones who say, “Where’s our video?” Uhhh.. shame on you! This is HER channel, her life, her experiences. She’s not obligated to please you nor does she owe you anything. Love you Kelly! Enjoy this needed time off. Real ones understand 🤍

  • @tamirajohnelle4700
    @tamirajohnelle4700 3 роки тому +53

    Some of these people forget you are a human being. They get mad because you won’t give them your number. I’m sure they wouldn’t give their number to a stranger either. Some of them are really ridiculous.
    People are out here making videos about you like you’re not even a human being just so they can get likes. It’s crazy to me the things people do to others, but they wouldn’t want it done to them. They are jealous because they want what you have, but they don’t realize when they’re jealous they can’t have what you have. Jealousy is a low vibration and no one can get what they want that way.

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +10

      Yeah I made the mistake of searching my name once on UA-cam when I was showing something to my neighbor and like 12 videos came up like why I’m subscribing or no longer watching k stamps 😂 I was like oh my goodness I swear I’m not Logan Paul or James Charles I don’t know what that is 👀

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +24

      I never said anything about it because in the end, anyone putting my name in videos is just drawing more viewers back to me, but it is very strange to me how my name has become “clout.” 😂 My channel blew up and January but it was bigger than other blowups because FIVE videos took off at the exact same time. It created this sort of celebrity effect but thankfully now it has died off. I used to respond to the first few videos because I thought people were genuinely trying to reach out to me, but now I realize it’s just a way for people to get views and it makes me feel not human. But I’m honored that I was able to create a trend just being myself. when people do that it just reminds me of people who cheat off each other in school. I was never interested in doing that.

    • @tamirajohnelle4700
      @tamirajohnelle4700 3 роки тому +7

      @@KellyStamps you haven’t done anything to anyone. Sometimes people are just jealous no matter what you do. All that matters is that you’re doing what makes you happy. This process is weeding out the people that don’t need to be around.
      I don’t think some people understand that you have to get paid to keep creating videos. Sometimes it can be challenging to figure out how to incorporate sponsorships into comedic like videos. A lot of us love seeing you grow and what you to get paid, so just do the best you know how. We’re cheering you on!☺️

    • @tamirajohnelle4700
      @tamirajohnelle4700 3 роки тому +7

      @@KellyStamps it’s a mixture of both. Some people really do want to reach out to you, while some others do it for views. I think more people are captivated by you though than the ones who are jealous. If they’re jealous that’s their own karma. I think most people enjoy your humor though. You are so freakin funny in a way that I’ve never seen. :)

    • @YSANROCHEOfficialYoutube
      @YSANROCHEOfficialYoutube 3 роки тому +2

      It seems jealousy dehumanises the object of jealousy. The more someone has or the more envied he is, the less others consider him a regular human being - and his/her hurt or painful emotions. Weird

  • @alessia_antonia
    @alessia_antonia 3 роки тому +2

    I admire your strength Kelly to stay true to yourself and your current feelings. Take your time and I am sure everybody will be happy to have you back when you are ready ❤️

  • @thejadacounts
    @thejadacounts 3 роки тому +16

    yes homesteading is a major goal!! and kelis is doing it so well but omg I feel the shift too

  • @twilight79010
    @twilight79010 3 роки тому +12

    Love this video and relate to it so much. I feel the same "sinister" energy you're referring to. I'm glad you're thinking of homesteading/being self-sufficient for the unknown future. I grew up in TX and it is a great place to learn about that, since there is a strong culture of living off the land. Thank you for talking about this so that more people in our generation can start making their own longterm plans!

  • @racheltruth3822
    @racheltruth3822 3 роки тому +7

    Homesteading has been on my mind for years but as of lately its been a persistent thought! I get it💖

  • @MariahSpeaks
    @MariahSpeaks 3 роки тому +10

    I resonate so much with this vlog, the talk about being self-sustainable, DUSTIES, and more 😁 And yes, when you focus on your peace, ppl always have something to say

  • @lanremadiba
    @lanremadiba 3 роки тому +26

    I thought I was the only one. Traveling been hectic. And being in the craziest city hasn’t been easy but we do this cause we’re dream Chasers. You inspire me Kelly. It’s an honor to be a part of the stampede . I GOT A STORY TO TELL too

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +3

      Yes!

    • @lanremadiba
      @lanremadiba 3 роки тому +1

      @@KellyStamps Keep going, girl! 👏🏾

    • @AaronYorkYT
      @AaronYorkYT 3 роки тому +4

      Let’s get a HELL YEAH for the fellow dream chasers!!

    • @cultivatingwellness4028
      @cultivatingwellness4028 3 роки тому

      @THE INFINITIVERSE OF SWAG Wishing you the best! If you need any help on content writing let me know

  • @OnyxxRose
    @OnyxxRose 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve gotta learn to say “sorry I don’t give my number out” idk why I find it hard to say that. I’ve been doing better with my boundaries for better or worse though thankfully. I appreciate this video Kelly 💗

  • @itsreallyrona
    @itsreallyrona 3 роки тому +30

    Keep saying no. One UA-camr said “No is a complete sentence!”
    No justification needed.
    You’re a Queen. So don’t give others more energy then they deserve.
    Enjoy Idaho. ❤️ sounds perfect!

  • @carolinec4978
    @carolinec4978 3 роки тому

    Sorry to hear about your dad, it’s a lot to deal with grief, moving and a bunch of crazies. I like how you talk about both your ups and downs. There’s too much gloss on social media, it’s not real, life is not like that. You have helped us Stampedes through difficult times with your authentic and motivating content. I’m sure I can speak for many in that we are here to ‘listen’ too so rant away! Enjoy a very well deserved break ☀️

  • @nompumelelondlovu2859
    @nompumelelondlovu2859 3 роки тому +7

    6:20 I agree with you. Everyone is a follower and if you decide to take your own path you are seen as crazy. I command you for being bold. Love you all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @Mariee.Destiny
    @Mariee.Destiny 2 роки тому

    Caught my self checking out your vlogs after having your videos around in some confusing times. The creativity is inspiring; the vulnerability is motivating. I’m so grateful to hear you love yourself more when people have thrown sand like insults at you (small but still cause a level of pain) as someone who wanted to do healing before putting myself out there; your content as it is ever evolving is the honesty our world has been deprived of for so long, much love.💓

  • @SusannahPerri
    @SusannahPerri 3 роки тому +10

    Thank you from the earth for wanting to be sustainably responsible, Kelly. Anyone who wants to cancel you for that would probably cancel Mother Theresa (if she was alive and had a channel). I will defend to the end your right to draw boundaries with whomever/whatever you wish! OMG, most people are respectful, but the ones who aren't pretty much are ruining society! I'm so glad there is an ice rink there for you!

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +5

      Thank you Susannah! And yes I love my ice rink. I ran into a couple of skating acquaintances who I haven't seen in years and it was definitely the highlight of my week.

  • @kristeljoy1695
    @kristeljoy1695 3 роки тому +1

    Kelly! Thank you so much for this video, which I deeply resonated with. The lesson of setting boundaries and needing a break from burnout is truly important, especially these days when there is so much uncertainty and chaos. Stay safe! Stay gorg!

  • @NeshaJay
    @NeshaJay 3 роки тому +9

    Oh gosh! Kelly, no need to apologize, you're doing nothing, but protecting yourself. Take a break, the real STAMPEDE students will be here when you decide to return! ❤

  • @Alibannany
    @Alibannany 3 роки тому

    I am so sorry to hear about your dad's passing Kelly, your content is a real comfort to me as I hand the transitions of my twenties, I hope that this video makes people more considerate of the fact that you are a human being with your own needs and life going on. Best of luck with the break!! I hope it will be healing for you.

  • @SweetCicely
    @SweetCicely 3 роки тому +3

    Yes girrrl! This is the time to be self stainable/independent. Buy land, have your own WATER WELL, grow fruits, vegetables, beans, seeds, & grains. That’s all you need besides an electrical grid or power generators.

  • @azmomconnection
    @azmomconnection 3 роки тому

    Girl, your content is golden without letting us know who lives where, what side of town, names of places you frequent, ranches you're learning from... Take care of yourself because you're a gem. Anyway, you wear your struggles and successes well, very balanced content.

  • @beckymcaulay6382
    @beckymcaulay6382 3 роки тому +10

    No matter what you post i'll be watching, when you take breaks I'll be here waiting! Kelly we all love you and everything you do.
    I also seen you posting on Instagram that your flying videos didn't get as much traction but I watched your helicopter video 3 times because of how happy you were in it, post whatever you want we will always be here! love you girl

  • @BucketListTravellers
    @BucketListTravellers 3 роки тому

    It's so important to take the time you need to look after yourself. Do what you need to do for you, we'll be here when you're ready.

  • @desmaralashay
    @desmaralashay 3 роки тому +16

    I’m feeling the vibes too Literally have the same goals of living sustainably. Currently working on manifesting my soulmate to move off grid with haha 👀😅

  • @Amaslimtins
    @Amaslimtins 3 роки тому +2

    i feel something bad is coming too and im glad im not the only one feeling this ;i was freaking out tbh

  • @urethanetramp
    @urethanetramp 3 роки тому +4

    i cant believe viewers would be so rude and intrusive in person.. Im really glad to see you speaking up about it, and i hope this makes a wave of more creators exposing what its like being approached by viewers, hoping more of them will learn to empathize with you..

  • @ritahfiona4632
    @ritahfiona4632 3 роки тому +1

    When choosing influences for the met gala next year.Kelly Stamps should be number one😍

  • @WhatchaGot2Say
    @WhatchaGot2Say 3 роки тому +96

    I’m late but welcome to Dallas FAM 🤓

    • @KellyStamps
      @KellyStamps  3 роки тому +15

      HOWDY

    • @goodgirlsguide
      @goodgirlsguide 3 роки тому +1

      @@KellyStamps please put Sheraseven in the Family... You are in the Level up capital. 😉

  •  3 роки тому +1

    you didn’t deserve those bad interactions you got . i’m so sorry that you had / have to deal with chaotic people .
    take as long as you need . trust . get still . sending you the biggest e-hug of all time . love you more than you know🤍

  • @jumokebabatope
    @jumokebabatope 3 роки тому +8

    I'm not your civil war nurse 😅🤣. I'm glad that you're thinking towards a more sustainable lifestyle/simple living. It's time we all know than "less is more" and that we don't need everything the society thinks we actually needs.
    Love you Kelly 💚

  • @hannahballoonn
    @hannahballoonn 3 роки тому

    Hi Kelly, I know you will probably never seen this but I wanted you to know that we are all here with you. My dad died recently and it's been a weird strange and heavy time. I cannot fathom how I would have coped if I had to present myself on social media, please enjoy your break. It's so easy to keep yourself busy and pretend that you're okay, but at the end of the day actually putting yourself back together after a loss is very very hard. Sending you, and everyone else who's grieving this year, lots of love x

  • @TrueCrimeQueen
    @TrueCrimeQueen 3 роки тому +4

    Love when Kelly goes out exploring! Love her transparency ❤️❤️❤️

  • @AbbiGrasso13
    @AbbiGrasso13 3 роки тому

    I feel it and I agree. Getting somewhere sustainable is my biggest goal right now.

  • @LULUandBELLA
    @LULUandBELLA 3 роки тому +14

    Refocusing and making changes to better in all aspects of life can be extremely rewarding
    not for Social expectance or outside influences but for SELF.

  • @fallynward5616
    @fallynward5616 3 роки тому

    Finally! A vlogger that acknowledges the craziness and the shift in the world. Instead of everyone acting like the coolade tastes just fine...😁