My bestfriend is asian and a girl. She always wanted to be a Pilot but her own dad disapproved of it. She went ahead and went to school for business but along the ways he realized that she needed to pursue the thing she loves. Flying. 3 years later - she just graduated with a bachelors in Aviation and completed her private pilot, commercial license and etc. I flew with here a couple of weeks ago and saw her passion and her happiness. I wish you the best Kelly! I know you already don’t care about what other people say but please dont be discourage by other people who say you cannot do it because you can! Truly glad I saw you on Graham Stephan’s channel. Keep being uniquely you!
Wow what a story! Yes it's a long path to even getting a basic private license but so rewarding. And I believe only 7% of pilots are women! I think only 1% of that are minorities. (Don't quote these stats, I just saw it on a documentary)
@@KellyStamps I didn't realize you were reaching out to other pilots... hullo 👩✈️ female pilot here :) When 9/11 happened I stopped my commercial pilot training and joined the Canadian Air Force reserves to become an aircraft technician. Many years later here I am in Vietnam as an Airline Transport Pilot. I'm sure you know it already Kelly but you'll get what you want eventually. Unfortunately I never took videos when working on the line...I only have 2 on my channel that were taken on a cargo aircraft--Airbus A300-B4 while working in Turkey.. I'm also a fan of Kpop so I think we'd have some things to talk about 😁 Anyway, I am part of the Stampede and wish you health and whatever your heart desires. Much luv 💜 P.S. I'm also an adult figure skater ⛸
@@KellyStamps you are really paving the way for a whole lot of women (including minorities) who dream of becoming pilots. 💪 Wishing you the best of luck on getting your license (keep up the good work!) but please don't leave UA-cam. 🙏😊
I'm grateful to see a black woman make as much money as you do, who listens to Kpop, and makes a living on your terms. It's super inspiring and makes me feel like I can do it too.
Many of my dreams crashed horribly and sad part is I told people!!! Now I don’t tell people ! I try my best to keep everything about my life super private !
I'm 27. From my experience, turning 25 is basically realizing you're still young-but-won't-be-young-forever-young. On the plus side, because of that, you also realize that people who tell you how to live your life are just members of the static noise known as le bolshet.
I'm so confused because... If someone told me they were a pilot or are training to be a pilot I'd be like.... that's freaking amazing, what!??? Tell me more??? Like it's so much more interesting than hearing someone say they work in an office. I don't know, I live in a town where everyone does care work or insurance so when I meet someone that's doing something out of the box or especially creative I'm immediately more drawn to them. Keep doing what you love Kelly!
100% agree! As a fellow Gemini i had a sneaking suspicion that she was one! The characters, moving, traveling and frequent changes of mind! 😂 she says she doesn't always relate to people but we can sure relate to her 💜
Kelly has really helped me in my personal growth. She’s made me realise being alone is okay, it doesn’t have to be bad. She’s let me realise life is short to follow what everyone wants you to do. Finding her channel was one of the best things that’s happened to me, as a black girl who is viewed as an “Oreo” and also loves kpop🥺 Stampede University graduate of ‘21
Thank you! It’s kind of crazy how one of the few channels with this size that makes is so-called Oreos and non typical creators feel comfortable. Well there’s also D’Angelo Wallace but I don’t think he’s an Oreo. He’s just funny LOL
@@MazeTheAlchemist TRUTH! Sometimes people feel bad about themself if they see somebody else doing something that they don’t believe they can do which is crazy. I would use that as inspiration not hateration.
I'm an air sign as well and the best way to explain myself is "I'm not shy, I just don't like you and I dont care to explain myself" thats kind of my vibe. 🤣
tbh this is how i want to live my life. i WANT to be lost and just do whatever i feel like whenever i wanna do it, even if that implies starting a new random hobby at 5AM on a thursday morning lol
It truly is amazing how she manages to make a 16 minute video feel like a 5 minute video. I have the attention span of a walrus, and I can barely even sit through a 60 minute tiktok video, but not with her videos. Truly a natural treasure
You have every right to celebrate your birthday. You are twenty five no children, served in the military & you are making money. That's what I am talking about! Live your life ! Take full control over your life Kelly. I am very proud of you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
I'm 48 and still feel lost. Get used to this feeling because it will be with you most of your life. HAPPY 25th BIRTHDAY BEAUTIFUL MANILLA ENVELOPE. I LOVE your outfit. I was depressed on my 30th birthday, but everyone after that, I was not bothered by the number anymore. I LOVE being older.
Four things I’ve learned in today’s lesson 1. Do the things I want to do that I’m passionate about, despite being afraid of what people think. 2. Actually ask for help when I need it. 3. Be authentically myself, and try to figure out what that means. 4. For my 27th birthday to go to Texas Roadhouse and eat exactly 27 dinner rolls, no more, no less.
I used to feel the same pressure when I was about to turn 25. I’m 27 now and I still feel lost. But I have accepted that you’re never gonna be 100% satisfied ever no matter what you do.
I honestly don’t know what I want to do in the future. As in job wise, I’d like to become a nail tech and bartender just for fun but I don’t see myself sticking to just one job. I honestly just want to work so I can provide for myself.
This is me. I have hobbies and things that I like and even really love but as far as JOB job stuff I hate everything lol But I of course for a fact dont want to be a bum. I just want to provide a good living for myself. Ugh, adulting is irritating 🙄
Hullo. I look forward to hibernating in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. Maybe I'll stay there and find a mountain husband and have a pet moose. Maybe I'll just let my bougie mountain lady fantasy remain *a fantasy.* Maybe it's maybelline... Btw If you want to look snatched you should buy this jumpsuit. This is not sponsored showmeyourmumu.com/collections/denim-jumpsuits-overalls/products/acacia-jumpsuit-freshwater
am 30 and am lost but am glad i dont self sabotage and seek validation anymore. i do everything that i feared doing before. i treat life as an adventure because we are not here forever but for a good time
Actually I'm about to turn 40 in 2 months believe me . I can say only 3 years back I started to know my true self my weaknesses and where to grow. About to turn 40 still feels like I'm not sure about everything but so much progress I made in the last 3 yerars . So being 30 it's ok to still be a bit lost. Let's celebrate the small progress.
"The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else's highlight reel.” - Steven Furtick. When people pretend that they have their life together, I've noticed it tends to make many people feel depressed. It confirms to them that they *really* don't have their life together, compared to others. The best thing we can do is to be more authentic and raw about our uncertainty, like Kelly is ⚡️
If you you’re reading this - in case anyone hasn’t told you yet today - you have the potential to be great, successful, and happy! Keep on going! I believe in you 🙌🏻
Life is ever-changing, I'm 54 and still learning and changing. Life would be oh so dull if one knew everything or had no desire to learn new things. Wish you the happiest birthday ever! Enjoy yourself, your flight lessons, and enjoy your blessings!
I don’t know what it is about going through major existential and purpose related crisises when you’re 25-35 but at 27 I am definitely there and just trying to enjoy being in the inbetween.
@@-toriizaka46 oh no! The goal post for success is getting younger and younger! 🥺 I am sorry bb, but rest assured that even at 9 years your senior I too am just winging it!
So glad to read something like this! It's good knowing we're not alone, even though I always feel like everyone else around me and in the whole world knows what they're doing :(
Yeeees, I'm also 27, been in this inbetween for years! and only now I'm starting to feel like I'm actually getting a bit closer to knowing what I want from life. It's hard!
@@polina-kova94 oh my gosh seriously! And its like peoole will keep telling you “By 25 you’ll figure it out” Then you turn 25 and its “By 30 you’ll figure it out.” I’m like ??? So are ya’ll just lying now or? Anyways I think by 50 I’ll feel like Ive got the hang of things 🙃👍🏾
I'm 26 and I feel lost a lot of the time. My dad passed away last year and it knocked me off my feet. I realized I was being complacent in my life - playing it safe and not realizing how short it really is. He had a horrible disability and despite that he lived an absolutely full life and gave us everything we needed to life a great life - this I only realized after the fact. I let my anxiety get in the way of so much and I often feel like everyone else has got it figured out. My dad was always telling me to go for things and speakup for myself. I've started doing that a lot more this year. This video brings me a lot of comfort, I was having a bad day today feeling like I haven't done enough. 💛
Our 20s are the years of exploration. If we're really going to be honest, nobody has it all figured out. We're just winging it! Happy 25, Kelly! Keep being you, always! ❤️❤️❤️
Even family will be an enemy. Don't share everything is right!! I am 30 and now learning the benefit of being private. It's helping! It's not too late to learn!
You really are a role model for so many people now. I recently started a channel partially because of your videos and I'm so thankful to have UA-camrs like you out there who aren't afraid to show the real you and what it really takes to create a channel. I'm mostly just making videos for fun, but it's nice to know that it can turn into something bigger if I keep at it.
I love how you mentioned taking a gander at smaller channels and not judging by the views beccaauuussseee it truly ✨highlights ✨that you don't care what anyone else thinks & you don't let others think for you. This world is set up in a way where people only value things that other people value and people only start supporting things when they see it's popular to do so, so thanks for c o n t i n u i n g to be more of what the internet needs 🌻
I’m 28 now and definitely relate to everything you touched on >.< especially the part about moving in silence and not telling everyone your goals/dreams until you are half way there. Cuz people will be quick to crush your dreams because they were to scared to go after their own.
I love the calmness and confidence from Kelly on this video. I'm about to turn 26 on July and I've been scared that I have not yet achieved this or that or that my list of friends just grows shorter and I keep feeling lonelier and don't know where I belong. But I still have my dreams that I never give up on. And I moved out of my parents house and about to buy a car :)
Hey Kelly! First of all you are absoltely fabulous! And a Happy Birthday. I am part of the Stampede and I am 73 years old! If I had had a daughter I would want her to be exactly like you. Pilot!!!! You are perfectly suited to that profession. I hope when you get there, I can be on that flight. So, a bit of wisdom from an elder in the village. You are precisely the type of person that will attract a lot of jealousy and resentment: Young, intelligent, accomplish, educated, rich, motivated, sassy, down-to-earth, a great sense of humor, kind.......I can go on you know. Use that energy from the haters to let you know you must be doing something right. Let it motivate you to succeed in your goals even more. Take advice from those who love you and cherish you. They will also be the ones who will not let you fail, fall or jump off that cliff...without a parachute that is. You are destined for great things. I know.
I turned 25 in March and felt like I was going through a major existential crisis because I thought everyone else around me had it figured out, thank you for helping me feel less alone lol
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my father last summer also due to cancer :'( . His birthday was yesterday and today I happened to run into your channel :). You're very wise, and I aspire to have the independent attitude that you've acquired, very inspiring!
My 20's were the best years of my life in many ways! Cherish them! Some day you will look back and see those years from the perspective of an older adult. You are making your years count in big ways. You might not feel like you know what you are doing sometimes, but you are doing YOU, and that is the most important thing. I loved this video, BTW. Good one! Happy Birthday, Kelly!
I'm so glad that UA-cam existed I wouldn't have known a young girl can be so inspiring, and courageous. If I saw you on tv I would tend to think you are just acting. But am glad to know that you are real. God bless you Kelly.
Happy Birthday Kelly! Your channel has been a getaway for me during this difficult time. I definitely have high-key introvert energy, so I relate to a lot of the life lessons you talk about in your videos. Hope you have a good 25th!
"I'm so deep in I'm not going back." That is exactly the attitude that got me through law school and I have been practicing over 20 years now. You will succeed, Kelly, and we will enjoy being along for the ride.
One key to being an adult is knowing that no one has everything figured out. We figure things out along the way that's how it's always been. Experience will always be best teacher. The people before us just wrote their achievements down with some lies and "embellished stories"and called it history. They didn't know either. It's easier to figure out who you are while navigating this third dimension experience we call life. Happy Birthday Ms. Stamps keep seeing those goals and achieving them.
I'm turning 30 next july and i'm still not figured it out what to do with my life, i have no dream job, no porpoise and i don't dream of labor, and i'm a introvert with no social skills and an isolationist on top of all that, and the older i get the harder it turns to figure it out, especially when everyone around you is doing great with their respective lives 😅
Please don’t be so hard on your self . Please know that talking to a counselor/ therapist/ life coaches maybe if you decide to go that way should have no stigma . Please don’t wait until you’re old and have regrets that you are running out of good health & time . Even admitting to all those things is a huge step . Please don’t think you’re alone in feeling that way . There’s nothing wrong with being insecure about what you want to do however reading this I feel that you are depressed about it. If you find yourself being overly anxious or depressed treat yourself like someone you love . Pretend you’re encouraging a best friend or your child. If You would nurture someone else then please know you can’t anyone in life until you love yourself . That’s hard but I have faith for you.?’
I come from a lineage of tall and slender women, so I've bene lucky so far. I said I'd stop with the dinner rolls on Sunday when I turn 25 because it might hit all at once LOL
Don't listen to anyone and continue accomplishing your goals!! Your uniqueness is what has gotten you to where you are today!!! I'll fly Kelly Stamps Airlines!
Great video. Happy birthday, Kelly! Take to the skys and fly, girl, if that’s your passion. My father was a pívot, and he loved it, and we had a good life. I just read a great quote: “Blowing out someone else’s candle won’t make yours shine brighter”. I love that. People, please don’t blow out someone else’s candle. You never know whose dreams you might be destroying. And, please, don’t let anyone blow out your candle. Keep your dreams alive. They’re yours, and your life is yours, not someone else’s. You’re the one who is going to live it, so live it your way. I wish someone had told me this when I was young. There are so many ways people will try to kill your dreams by saying hurtful things, like how you’re not good enough. Just don’t listen to them. Trust yourself and believe in yourself and go for it!
It’s really true; I only decided to give my channel a second chance after coming across yours and seeing that people with this/our? personality type really can make content that others would be interested in. Thank you!
I’m 21 , but I relate to a lot of the points you made in this video . When I go on social media my peers seem to have everything all figured out and I have a bad habit of comparing my progress to others . I have a great job with benefits , but some days I still feel lost 😩🥺... I’m glad I’m not alone
My bestfriend is asian and a girl. She always wanted to be a Pilot but her own dad disapproved of it. She went ahead and went to school for business but along the ways he realized that she needed to pursue the thing she loves. Flying. 3 years later - she just graduated with a bachelors in Aviation and completed her private pilot, commercial license and etc. I flew with here a couple of weeks ago and saw her passion and her happiness. I wish you the best Kelly! I know you already don’t care about what other people say but please dont be discourage by other people who say you cannot do it because you can! Truly glad I saw you on Graham Stephan’s channel. Keep being uniquely you!
Wow what a story! Yes it's a long path to even getting a basic private license but so rewarding. And I believe only 7% of pilots are women! I think only 1% of that are minorities. (Don't quote these stats, I just saw it on a documentary)
pilotinstitute.com/women-aviation-statistics/ I was close
We are rooting for you Kelly and other future pilots. We need more diversity and inclusion in all fields😅💯
@@KellyStamps I didn't realize you were reaching out to other pilots... hullo 👩✈️ female pilot here :)
When 9/11 happened I stopped my commercial pilot training and joined the Canadian Air Force reserves to become an aircraft technician. Many years later here I am in Vietnam as an Airline Transport Pilot.
I'm sure you know it already Kelly but you'll get what you want eventually. Unfortunately I never took videos when working on the line...I only have 2 on my channel that were taken on a cargo aircraft--Airbus A300-B4 while working in Turkey..
I'm also a fan of Kpop so I think we'd have some things to talk about 😁
Anyway, I am part of the Stampede and wish you health and whatever your heart desires. Much luv 💜
P.S. I'm also an adult figure skater ⛸
@@KellyStamps you are really paving the way for a whole lot of women (including minorities) who dream of becoming pilots. 💪 Wishing you the best of luck on getting your license (keep up the good work!) but please don't leave UA-cam. 🙏😊
I'm grateful to see a black woman make as much money as you do, who listens to Kpop, and makes a living on your terms.
It's super inspiring and makes me feel like I can do it too.
Agree! So inspiring!
@@imfabia Right on. Let's rise with her, yes?
whats her job? Or just youtube? Trying to figure out how to make a lot of money myself …
"I'd rather be friends with people who admit that they don't know what they're doing"
This🙌🏾
That part!!
One of the best quotes in this video ❗
Yessss!
100%
Fond of honesty, are you? 🌟
“don’t dull yourself because others hate themselves” 👏
👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
Yes!! I sincerely learned that you can’t save everyone and don’t let those who harbor negative energy affect you!
Imagine you’re on a Delta flight & you hear “hello everyone this is your pilot Kelly Stamps” 🤩
I would scream in excitement! She would be the best!
My excitement would let a cheer
Lol
there would be an entire round of applause during the entire flight
mic drop
I 100% agree with not telling people your dreams and aspirations. So many of my dreams have been crushed by other people’s shame.
Many of my dreams crashed horribly and sad part is I told people!!! Now I don’t tell people ! I try my best to keep everything about my life super private !
My family told me that I won't be moving out at the end of my degree. I am going to live everyday trying to move towards that goal - without them.
*That's so true. Don't tell people what you're doing until you actually do it.*
Or when it's done
Yup. Their bad thoughts fck u up..spiritual rule
I have tried this 1000 times and this rule is always true.
Yeas
Exactly!!
The “I don’t dream of labor” thing really aligns with my dream of being a stay at home dog momma
I wish to be a stay at home millionaire who tends for senior animals lol. I'll make it happen by downsizing, saving and investing.
@@KellyStamps YESS 👏🏻 love this idea
I'm 27. From my experience, turning 25 is basically realizing you're still young-but-won't-be-young-forever-young. On the plus side, because of that, you also realize that people who tell you how to live your life are just members of the static noise known as le bolshet.
Lmfao Le Bolshet
Lmfaoooo le bolshet
I call it ze bolshet but yes lol :)
Agree! 27 here as well
Lolll! I’m 25 and will be 26 in a week. I was like is that still young. Lol
I'm so confused because... If someone told me they were a pilot or are training to be a pilot I'd be like.... that's freaking amazing, what!??? Tell me more??? Like it's so much more interesting than hearing someone say they work in an office. I don't know, I live in a town where everyone does care work or insurance so when I meet someone that's doing something out of the box or especially creative I'm immediately more drawn to them. Keep doing what you love Kelly!
same, like when people say they are an artist or something I’m always so fascinated
A gemini - everything makes sense.
Waiittt she's a gemini..she gives me so much capri vibes...
100% agree! As a fellow Gemini i had a sneaking suspicion that she was one! The characters, moving, traveling and frequent changes of mind! 😂 she says she doesn't always relate to people but we can sure relate to her 💜
I was just about to say! 😂
I knew she had to be an air sign. She’s so witty.
We be movin!!
Kelly has really helped me in my personal growth. She’s made me realise being alone is okay, it doesn’t have to be bad. She’s let me realise life is short to follow what everyone wants you to do. Finding her channel was one of the best things that’s happened to me, as a black girl who is viewed as an “Oreo” and also loves kpop🥺
Stampede University graduate of ‘21
Thank you! It’s kind of crazy how one of the few channels with this size that makes is so-called Oreos and non typical creators feel comfortable. Well there’s also D’Angelo Wallace but I don’t think he’s an Oreo. He’s just funny LOL
Just because that guy doesn’t see himself accomplishing something doesn’t mean you can’t achieve your goals. He could’ve kept that to himself.
Yeah, he was supposed to mind his damn business or tried to be supportive💯
Insecure men will do that 🤷🏻♀️
Ha Ha Ha! Intimidated and jealous that he wasn't necessary! Kelly, you dodged a bullet!!
@@MazeTheAlchemist TRUTH! Sometimes people feel bad about themself if they see somebody else doing something that they don’t believe they can do which is crazy. I would use that as inspiration not hateration.
@@JulianSteve Exactly!
25... im 35 and I have learned so much from you about being yourself and embracing your inner happy weirdo
I always look at Kelly's face and think that she looks familiar. I finally realized that she looks like Eartha Kitt
AHHHHHHH
Why, thank you
omg wait i see it!
Yes.
Grrrrrrr, Marrrrcus! 😂
I'm an air sign as well and the best way to explain myself is "I'm not shy, I just don't like you and I dont care to explain myself" thats kind of my vibe. 🤣
tbh this is how i want to live my life. i WANT to be lost and just do whatever i feel like whenever i wanna do it, even if that implies starting a new random hobby at 5AM on a thursday morning lol
Can confirm- took up golf for a month and I’m not good at it, but it gives me a purpose to be somewhere in the a.m. (until I lose interest)
Then the bills hit u
It truly is amazing how she manages to make a 16 minute video feel like a 5 minute video. I have the attention span of a walrus, and I can barely even sit through a 60 minute tiktok video, but not with her videos. Truly a natural treasure
She is beauty...she is grace...she still has the 18 year old's face. Happy 25!
Thank you!
I really like Kelly. She’s relatable and I feel a bit more grounded after watching her videos
Thank you!
You have every right to celebrate your birthday. You are twenty five no children, served in the military & you are making money. That's what I am talking about! Live your life ! Take full control over your life Kelly. I am very proud of you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
THANKS FOR THE BIRTHDAY WISHES
YES
I'm 48 and still feel lost. Get used to this feeling because it will be with you most of your life.
HAPPY 25th BIRTHDAY BEAUTIFUL MANILLA ENVELOPE. I LOVE your outfit. I was depressed on my 30th birthday, but everyone after that, I was not bothered by the number anymore. I LOVE being older.
🙌 Yes 🙌
Thank you I needed this ! I turn 25 next week , so let’s just normalize " uncertainty ", it’s okay
not freaking out over lizards is the true growth!
I'm sayin'!
I'm been desensitized to roaches but lizards are gonna be a challenge especially when they look back
ROACHES ARE 10 times worse than lizards LOL
I'm not there yet. Geckos are the enemy
@@KellyStamps Oh god! I totally agree😖😣
Honestly, Kelly Stamps has boosted my confidence as an unbothered introvert
Four things I’ve learned in today’s lesson
1. Do the things I want to do that I’m passionate about, despite being afraid of what people think.
2. Actually ask for help when I need it.
3. Be authentically myself, and try to figure out what that means.
4. For my 27th birthday to go to Texas Roadhouse and eat exactly 27 dinner rolls, no more, no less.
😂👏👏👏
"No more, no less@ 😂🤣
Correct
I turn 25 later this year & im here for all of this 👏 also better help is the bestt
Same... Turning 25 in July!! Happy birthday in advance!🌈✨🎉
It’s all good Elena 🥰😘😘😘😘
Happy birthday in advance! 25 is such a good year 👍
Advanced happy birthday 🥳
I'm 26, I can agree 25 is a great milestone! 😁
I used to feel the same pressure when I was about to turn 25. I’m 27 now and I still feel lost. But I have accepted that you’re never gonna be 100% satisfied ever no matter what you do.
Same!
I honestly don’t know what I want to do in the future. As in job wise, I’d like to become a nail tech and bartender just for fun but I don’t see myself sticking to just one job. I honestly just want to work so I can provide for myself.
👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼 hope you become successful and achieve whatever you want !!❤️
This is me. I have hobbies and things that I like and even really love but as far as JOB job stuff I hate everything lol But I of course for a fact dont want to be a bum. I just want to provide a good living for myself. Ugh, adulting is irritating 🙄
Hullo. I look forward to hibernating in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. Maybe I'll stay there and find a mountain husband and have a pet moose. Maybe I'll just let my bougie mountain lady fantasy remain *a fantasy.* Maybe it's maybelline...
Btw If you want to look snatched you should buy this jumpsuit. This is not sponsored showmeyourmumu.com/collections/denim-jumpsuits-overalls/products/acacia-jumpsuit-freshwater
Come onnnn Mountain Husband that rides a horse down the mountain!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Lmaoo I love you so much Kelly! You are such a free spirit and inspiring to so many.
Don't know why you're my crush these days but oh well
Happy Birfday Kelly Kell 🤎
@@bykimmish1088 I shall bring you a potato
I unfollow people like every month, something about getting my period makes me want to purge all the things! lol
I do the same thing LOL
Lol lissssaaas 😂😂😂 hopefully you will give our channel a chance and check us out and tell us what you think doll 😍🥰
Hahaha! This comment is so funny and relatable
am 30 and am lost but am glad i dont self sabotage and seek validation anymore. i do everything that i feared doing before. i treat life as an adventure because we are not here forever but for a good time
Actually I'm about to turn 40 in 2 months believe me . I can say only 3 years back I started to know my true self my weaknesses and where to grow. About to turn 40 still feels like I'm not sure about everything but so much progress I made in the last 3 yerars . So being 30 it's ok to still be a bit lost. Let's celebrate the small progress.
@@Getz_T thank you so much for your words of encouragement it makes me have hope
@@Getz_T that makes me feel sooo much better.
"The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else's highlight reel.”
- Steven Furtick.
When people pretend that they have their life together, I've noticed it tends to make many people feel depressed. It confirms to them that they *really* don't have their life together, compared to others. The best thing we can do is to be more authentic and raw about our uncertainty, like Kelly is ⚡️
I loveeee him!
If you you’re reading this - in case anyone hasn’t told you yet today - you have the potential to be great, successful, and happy! Keep on going! I believe in you 🙌🏻
Yes. You create your own HAPPINESS!
Thank you!💓
Thank you! I don't really hear this from my own family and friend unfortunately.
@@Mikirono23 Stay away from Family and Toxic people. Get NEW friends.
Life is ever-changing, I'm 54 and still learning and changing. Life would be oh so dull if one knew everything or had no desire to learn new things. Wish you the happiest birthday ever! Enjoy yourself, your flight lessons, and enjoy your blessings!
she's an icon, she's a legend, and she IS the moment. Now come on now, Ms. Envelope
THANKS
being unbothered is so difficult for me but the energy you radiate is just so immaculate ✨✨ aspiring to be like you
I don’t know what it is about going through major existential and purpose related crisises when you’re 25-35 but at 27 I am definitely there and just trying to enjoy being in the inbetween.
try 18 😭
@@-toriizaka46 oh no! The goal post for success is getting younger and younger! 🥺 I am sorry bb, but rest assured that even at 9 years your senior I too am just winging it!
So glad to read something like this! It's good knowing we're not alone, even though I always feel like everyone else around me and in the whole world knows what they're doing :(
Yeeees, I'm also 27, been in this inbetween for years! and only now I'm starting to feel like I'm actually getting a bit closer to knowing what I want from life. It's hard!
@@polina-kova94 oh my gosh seriously! And its like peoole will keep telling you “By 25 you’ll figure it out” Then you turn 25 and its “By 30 you’ll figure it out.” I’m like ??? So are ya’ll just lying now or? Anyways I think by 50 I’ll feel like Ive got the hang of things 🙃👍🏾
happy birthday queen n fellow gemini twin👯♀️💐 hope you’re having the best time ✨✨
Late reply, but THANK YOU FELLOW CHAOTIC GEMINI QUEEN
My UA-cam timeline lately has really been saying “for you” lol
I'm decades older & don't know what I'm doing! Happy birthday Kelly!
I had a mental breakdown at 25 lol. Taking a whole year off Instagram helped wonders
@@Lina-cheese6788 Yes totally! Feels so good to take a break from it all 👏🏼
I’ve been off Instagram and social media for 3 years it’s been so amazing. UA-cam and tik tok has been my only escape.
I’m mostly off Instagram, but I still have the page and I am only subscribed to those who do not make me feel bad about myself or jealous.
@@alexandraaikonika same here!
Omg Yes! I did that for two years. Just coming back as of now! Don’t regret it not one bit!
"Don't dull yourself because others hate themselves", a word!
It's like she reminds me, "it's okay to not knowing everything.."
I'm 26 and I feel lost a lot of the time. My dad passed away last year and it knocked me off my feet. I realized I was being complacent in my life - playing it safe and not realizing how short it really is. He had a horrible disability and despite that he lived an absolutely full life and gave us everything we needed to life a great life - this I only realized after the fact. I let my anxiety get in the way of so much and I often feel like everyone else has got it figured out. My dad was always telling me to go for things and speakup for myself. I've started doing that a lot more this year. This video brings me a lot of comfort, I was having a bad day today feeling like I haven't done enough. 💛
I envy how some people have some many photos of their childhood
Saaammee!!
I’m grateful that my parents have a good amount of photos too! They always had film cameras
Start taking pics so that when you’re older you’ll have pics to look back on!
Our 20s are the years of exploration. If we're really going to be honest, nobody has it all figured out. We're just winging it!
Happy 25, Kelly! Keep being you, always! ❤️❤️❤️
Even family will be an enemy. Don't share everything is right!! I am 30 and now learning the benefit of being private. It's helping! It's not too late to learn!
Omg thank you for this!!! I can totally relate ! The moment I started being private , better things started to happen ! ❤️
When Kelly said : "My time on this earth is precious, and I will not waste it on anything that does not serve me". I pressed pause and wrote it down.
No one:
Kelly: posts two long UA-cam videos in a row
Love it.
You really are a role model for so many people now. I recently started a channel partially because of your videos and I'm so thankful to have UA-camrs like you out there who aren't afraid to show the real you and what it really takes to create a channel. I'm mostly just making videos for fun, but it's nice to know that it can turn into something bigger if I keep at it.
thank you :3
"It's very hard trying to figure stuff out when everybody looks like they have it figured out."
That was so well said. 🙌🏿🙌🏿
yup! nobody *really* has everything figured out..so no pressure
I just turned 26 yesterday and everything in this video resonated with me so much. sending all my love from the UK!
I love how you mentioned taking a gander at smaller channels and not judging by the views beccaauuussseee it truly ✨highlights ✨that you don't care what anyone else thinks & you don't let others think for you. This world is set up in a way where people only value things that other people value and people only start supporting things when they see it's popular to do so, so thanks for c o n t i n u i n g to be more of what the internet needs 🌻
So true!
I’m 28 now and definitely relate to everything you touched on >.< especially the part about moving in silence and not telling everyone your goals/dreams until you are half way there. Cuz people will be quick to crush your dreams because they were to scared to go after their own.
As a Stampede member, I look forward to being flown around by Miss Stamps and not dying in the process, thank you
LOL
I love the calmness and confidence from Kelly on this video. I'm about to turn 26 on July and I've been scared that I have not yet achieved this or that or that my list of friends just grows shorter and I keep feeling lonelier and don't know where I belong. But I still have my dreams that I never give up on. And I moved out of my parents house and about to buy a car :)
I'm seriously addicted to Kelly's videos and I'm avoiding people, someone send helppppp
Lol I know what you mean
My video are a surrogate for social interaction 😂
Love bubbles.
Hey Kelly! First of all you are absoltely fabulous! And a Happy Birthday. I am part of the Stampede and I am 73 years old! If I had had a daughter I would want her to be exactly like you. Pilot!!!! You are perfectly suited to that profession. I hope when you get there, I can be on that flight. So, a bit of wisdom from an elder in the village. You are precisely the type of person that will attract a lot of jealousy and resentment: Young, intelligent, accomplish, educated, rich, motivated, sassy, down-to-earth, a great sense of humor, kind.......I can go on you know. Use that energy from the haters to let you know you must be doing something right. Let it motivate you to succeed in your goals even more. Take advice from those who love you and cherish you. They will also be the ones who will not let you fail, fall or jump off that cliff...without a parachute that is. You are destined for great things. I know.
I turned 25 in March and felt like I was going through a major existential crisis because I thought everyone else around me had it figured out, thank you for helping me feel less alone lol
Same girl same
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my father last summer also due to cancer :'( . His birthday was yesterday and today I happened to run into your channel :). You're very wise, and I aspire to have the independent attitude that you've acquired, very inspiring!
It's the timeline of your history on earth for me.
My 20's were the best years of my life in many ways! Cherish them! Some day you will look back and see those years from the perspective of an older adult. You are making your years count in big ways. You might not feel like you know what you are doing sometimes, but you are doing YOU, and that is the most important thing. I loved this video, BTW. Good one! Happy Birthday, Kelly!
"I know that my time on this Earth is precious, and I will not waste it on anything that does not serve me!" YES KELLY!!! SAY IT LOUDER!!!
I’m 51 and adore your content 😚😚😚😚😚 You are so authentic and wonderfully truthful. 😚😚😚😚
Not running away from creepy crawlies is honestly such a flex tho, some people just see bugs and are like 🧍🏾♀️
I'm working towards going from 🏃🏿♀️ to 🧍🏿♀️
@@KellyStamps you can do that sis i'm gonna keep 🏃🏿♀️
Imma smack em!😭🤜🦂
i’m also turning 25 soon! and i’m one of many who started a UA-cam channel thanks to you ✨ happy birthday!
The titles are always on point and the dry sense of humour is what keeps me coming back ❤️
To be young, gifted and black 💕
25 is just the beginning! I’ll be 30 next Sunday and i wish i knew these things back then! you’re on the right track Kelly ✨
I'm so glad that UA-cam existed I wouldn't have known a young girl can be so inspiring, and courageous.
If I saw you on tv I would tend to think you are just acting. But am glad to know that you are real.
God bless you Kelly.
Aw thank you
Some people just projects their own insecurities they’re scared themselves of change so they just tell you that you can do that.
This🙌🏾
Exactly.
Happy Birthday Kelly! Your channel has been a getaway for me during this difficult time. I definitely have high-key introvert energy, so I relate to a lot of the life lessons you talk about in your videos. Hope you have a good 25th!
I turn 25 this year as well! It's okay, we're just wise with our quarter century age
I love these kind of videos, they make me feel less alone and help me enjoy life more because I know that other people don't have it all figured out.
Well here is to your 25th. May you enjoy that day to the fullest!
I was 25 yrs old once waaaaay back in 1995. Ha. Have a great birthday Kelly!!!
3:58
As the music reaches it's climax
"I love Texas RoadhouuuuuUUUUUUUUUUUUU"
I cackled.
She's the whole package ✨📦💚
"I'm so deep in I'm not going back." That is exactly the attitude that got me through law school and I have been practicing over 20 years now. You will succeed, Kelly, and we will enjoy being along for the ride.
The way you use your words, humor is everything and as always, you have great content.
Thank you!! :)
One key to being an adult is knowing that no one has everything figured out. We figure things out along the way that's how it's always been. Experience will always be best teacher. The people before us just wrote their achievements down with some lies and "embellished stories"and called it history. They didn't know either. It's easier to figure out who you are while navigating this third dimension experience we call life.
Happy Birthday Ms. Stamps keep seeing those goals and achieving them.
"You cant be open with all of your dreams and aspirations" -
Love it!!
I'm turning 30 next july and i'm still not figured it out what to do with my life, i have no dream job, no porpoise and i don't dream of labor, and i'm a introvert with no social skills and an isolationist on top of all that, and the older i get the harder it turns to figure it out, especially when everyone around you is doing great with their respective lives 😅
So you think...people fake it when behind the scenes they are just as confused, lost and depressed. We are on the journey together..
I'm also turning 30 in July! In advance to us 💃
Couldn't have said it better!
Please don’t be so hard on your self . Please know that talking to a counselor/ therapist/ life coaches maybe if you decide to go that way should have no stigma . Please don’t wait until you’re old and have regrets that you are running out of good health & time . Even admitting to all those things is a huge step . Please don’t think you’re alone in feeling that way . There’s nothing wrong with being insecure about what you want to do however reading this I feel that you are depressed about it. If you find yourself being overly anxious or depressed treat yourself like someone you love . Pretend you’re encouraging a best friend or your child. If You would nurture someone else then please know you can’t anyone in life until you love yourself . That’s hard but I have faith for you.?’
Yes the older I get more hard it is to figure out what I want to do next ! I don’t have dream job too but I m trying to survive !
Okay but HOW does she eat that many rolls without GROWING any rolls?!?! America explain👏👏 :,)
I come from a lineage of tall and slender women, so I've bene lucky so far. I said I'd stop with the dinner rolls on Sunday when I turn 25 because it might hit all at once LOL
@@KellyStamps Lol lucky butt, God bless you and your good genes👌hopefully they never turn on you
Happy 25th Birthday Kelly!! May all your dreams continue to come true!! 🙏🏼❤️👏🏼🥳🎉
The plant comment is probably my favorite! I'm still trying to figure out how to keep them alive myself and I'm 31, so....
My life was a mess until I got to 32, probably still is a bit. You're doing great!
I know that feeling! Going to 26 and last year I was like "omg, a quarter of a century"
These throwback pictures are pure gold!
Don't listen to anyone and continue accomplishing your goals!! Your uniqueness is what has gotten you to where you are today!!! I'll fly Kelly Stamps Airlines!
Happy Birthday! yeeeeeee
It’s great you learned to be kind to yourself. That was really hard for me and took years but is definitely worth it.
Great video. Happy birthday, Kelly! Take to the skys and fly, girl, if that’s your passion. My father was a pívot, and he loved it, and we had a good life. I just read a great quote: “Blowing out someone else’s candle won’t make yours shine brighter”. I love that. People, please don’t blow out someone else’s candle. You never know whose dreams you might be destroying. And, please, don’t let anyone blow out your candle. Keep your dreams alive. They’re yours, and your life is yours, not someone else’s. You’re the one who is going to live it, so live it your way. I wish someone had told me this when I was young. There are so many ways people will try to kill your dreams by saying hurtful things, like how you’re not good enough. Just don’t listen to them. Trust yourself and believe in yourself and go for it!
Why would anyone want to dissuade someone from being a pilot? It sounds amazing 😂
That jumpsuit is wearing you! 😍 👍🏻. Wishing you much success on your journey to become an official pilot! 🙏🏻. Oh, and Gemini’s ♊️ rule!! ❤️💕
"it's very hard trying to figure stuff out when it looks like everyone else has it figured out" PREACH!!
It’s really true; I only decided to give my channel a second chance after coming across yours and seeing that people with this/our? personality type really can make content that others would be interested in. Thank you!
I’m 21 , but I relate to a lot of the points you made in this video . When I go on social media my peers seem to have everything all figured out and I have a bad habit of comparing my progress to others . I have a great job with benefits , but some days I still feel lost 😩🥺... I’m glad I’m not alone
I'm proud of you, girl. Big 25💪💃👏👏❣
"I know how to be selfish in my 20s"
Yep!
Happy birthday to my favourite UA-camr, Kelly! God bless you, may you become a pilot super soon! ❤️