in retrospect, i still should've known at least like 7 years earlier. i had no interest in even thinking about softball until i heard there were supposedly a lot of lesbians in it, which..... how was it not obvious then if i only considered it might be cool if there were a bunch of lesbians and people thought i was one of them? that was my little femme lesbian conscience telling me i'm gay as fuck, and i still missed it.
I used to have "girl crushes" but never crushes on boys. I'd be like "lol I just want to be their friend I mean yeah they're cute but just platonic" and also I thought I was waiting for the 'right guy'. Turns out I was just gay lol.
aw man i was a total tomboy growing up! well with 4 brothers that kinda does that to ya. i always wanted to hang out with them play video game, watch wrestling, play basketball, football, and kickball. i never like to wear dresses even today at the age of 23. i rather wear a skirt than a dress. i never liked to dress feminine in elementary, middle and high school.i start wearing my clothes a bit tighter and less baggy about a year ago. in high school i hung out with the lesbian and gay guys cause the show so much more love to me than the straight ones. then i had the worst crush on this girl that was younger then me in high school. even thou i didnt know what i wanted all i know is that i wanted her. then she told me one day "oh you are so straight" HOW!? i was ready to dumb my boyfriend for her in a heartbeat and still am but i still dont know who i am.
Oh man, the porn part is so true! I had to sit down and really think to myself "do you realize exactly what you're thinking of when you watch porn?" Not knowing I had a crush on my friends when I was little, always being curious about gay people. There's just so much!
I'm a girl who is sort of questioning at the moment but I just need to say that I think Amber is gorgeous!...Seriously, amazing cheekbones and beautiful hair...
I *refused* to wear the uniform skirts at my middle school in the spring. I got detention *at least* 4 times until the principal was just like "fuck it. wear whatever you want."
I never wore them either.🤣🤣🤣 Instead, I would try to dress my uniform up by wearing my uniform shirt open with a graphic tee underneath. I felt so badass, but my fave shirt was blue with a kitten.🤣🤣🤣
omg i love your channel. Your absolutely right ,i did the same thing . i used to play with dolls ,wear heels, make up, etc. thank you for doing what you do ;)
I've been so enchanted by Home Depot since childhood. Something about that store was so magical. There probably were gay fairies sprinkling rainbow glitter on my head.🤣🤣🤣
this girl i have been dating told me she likes girls to and told me to watch this., i think ur really cool and i give u props big time for this and your coming out story, you really tell it how it is and i really admire that so uhm yea thumbs up girl
So true, I always was the dad when I played house n I hated girly crap I luv me sum cars n action figures n video games, I find it funny that I waited til the 6th grade to come out as a rainbow lover, best years of my life
"Those barbies needed to die" LMAO I just came across ur vids and deffo feeling ur style. :D The super talents is sooo me lol, football (soccer), basketball, just sports in genereal and rapping has long been my thing. :)
I think you talk about gender identity, not sexual preferences. I love girls, but anyways I played with barbies all my childhood and most of my clothes are dresses or skirts, I don't wear any make up ot do my nails in french style or shit like that, anyways, it's always a pleasure seeing you my stemy princess😘
after 3 years i still love this video because i remeber when i was trying to figure out my sexuality and i ran into this video and saw you and thought to myself " yep im totally gay " 😂😂
I am an extremely feminine lesbian; but, whenever my friend and I play character games, I was and still am the male. When I was younger I would kiss her often and our characters would date.
Lmao I was always daddy too. And in the eighth grade Mulan was my favorite character too. She still is actually tbh. I can relate to this entire video, actually.
Have you ever spoken about Kiara's dating history and her experiences with her sexuality? I know this is your channel but I think it would be interesting hearing about what she has gone through in life as well. I've just been curious about who she's dated before you. Just a thought.
I first thought about me being a lesbian when I was forced to hold hands with one of my lesbian friends for a gym team building activity. For 22 minutes! Now I am a proud lesbian who still has a crush on that friend. It's awkward.
SumiTheUnicorn Yesh you still might be bi because there is a spectrum. You might be more attracted to men more than woman or woman more than men. Honestly though, just try to figure it out in ur own time and experiment because its natural. ☺
Oh goddamit. I have collections of Bionicles, Lego, Hot Wheels, about 20 characters/sets/cars each and I refuse to throw them away every time my mom asks me about them. I even gave the cars names :3 I really love Mulan. The "man" is me. But I can't be really a lesbian, since I can never decide between Tom Hiddleston and Tilda Swinton. I mean, eeek! they are so wonderful! Sincerely, girl.
i just wana say ive just actually subscribed a few days ago but been watching your videos and so just want to say i really do like ur and kiarra's vlogs =) you two are really awesome love ya guys =)
Yeah I know what u sayin. We had a fiiiiine babysitter. Then that byach just left. Homedepo is pretty nice... Literally only wore a skirt like 5 times. 1 funeral n 4 maskerades. Strangely hate to talk to girls... Hangin with only guys.
I really should've know I was bi YEARS ago. And I only really acknowledged my feelings last summer and I'm 16 now. I use to have all out crushes on my sister's friends, every birthday or Christmas I would ask for either a video game or RC vehicle, I hated wearing skirts or dresses with a passion. And people would always ask me if I was a tomboy ( I really didn't know what it met and whether it was good or bad so I would just tell them ya)
I agree about the part when you're talking about yourself, but in general not so much I mean I'm bi / pan sexual and growing up I loved Barbie. I had the black Barbie and I keep having her out on dates with the Teresa doll doing parties and getting married. but I was a hardcore girly girl.
You know youre gay when you love women 😂
Desi x As simple as that, totally agree!
I'm gay, yet I'm probably the straightest looking/acting person ever. I'm such a femme sometimes. xD
Gay update: I wouldn't even label myself femme or anywhere NEAR femme anymore omg
Nightingale Well, what happened? XD
Nightingale yeah, what happened?
Nightingale me too
Wow none of these apply to me bc I'm such a fem lesbian
+Minuscule Monster Me too. :)
lmfao sameeeee
yeah same
in retrospect, i still should've known at least like 7 years earlier. i had no interest in even thinking about softball until i heard there were supposedly a lot of lesbians in it, which..... how was it not obvious then if i only considered it might be cool if there were a bunch of lesbians and people thought i was one of them? that was my little femme lesbian conscience telling me i'm gay as fuck, and i still missed it.
You know you're gay when you dream about being a guy so your straight best friend might fall for you... That was a famous one when I was young...
I still dream of that NOW :/
"THOSE BARBIES HAD TO DIE" 😂
Analise Nichole me
I think its more tomboy than gay
I'm gay,
I'm definantly gay
you can be really girly and always have girls on your mind.. girly girls can be gay too
Eh unless you're a feminine lesbian like me
I totally loved Mulan!
same
"i don't know but i just felt i needed to see my babysitter when i was little" LMAO dead!
that doesnt mean your gay im lesbian and i cant relate to any of that. thats just how you know you are a tomboy not all lesbians are like that .
+Levi She's obviously just sharing her personal background and not expecting these specific experiences it to apply to everyone.
when you're not really butch so you're like lol what
Wow you really are literally everywhere
Phan Isnotonfire everywhere you are 👀
Right
lmfao when she said she knew she was gay when she always wanted to be daddy when they were playing house
I was crying 😂😂😂😂 "time for daddy to go to work 😉"
I used to have "girl crushes" but never crushes on boys. I'd be like "lol I just want to be their friend I mean yeah they're cute but just platonic" and also I thought I was waiting for the 'right guy'.
Turns out I was just gay lol.
Can we take a moment to appreciate the GLOW UP ambers UA-cam page has gone through ❤️😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I had a lot of these moments growing up. My mother used to have to beat me into a dress and for climbing up the fences
Lol then I definetly am gay, cause this description was me. Exactly. Loved it. You are one funny lady.
OMG Thank You! That is the ultimate compliment (i'm blushing)
you should do a video about your work style ! i've never seen it and it would be cool to see that side of you !
aw man i was a total tomboy growing up! well with 4 brothers that kinda does that to ya. i always wanted to hang out with them play video game, watch wrestling, play basketball, football, and kickball. i never like to wear dresses even today at the age of 23. i rather wear a skirt than a dress. i never liked to dress feminine in elementary, middle and high school.i start wearing my clothes a bit tighter and less
baggy about a year ago. in high school i hung out with the lesbian and gay guys cause the show so much more love to me than the straight ones. then i had the worst crush on this girl that was younger then me in high school. even thou i didnt know what i wanted all i know is that i wanted her. then she told me one day "oh you are so straight" HOW!? i was ready to dumb my boyfriend for her in a heartbeat and still am but i still dont know who i am.
Oh man, the porn part is so true! I had to sit down and really think to myself "do you realize exactly what you're thinking of when you watch porn?" Not knowing I had a crush on my friends when I was little, always being curious about gay people. There's just so much!
That first one yes, always playing house I always chose to be the husband/dad lol
To be fair, Mulan is the BEST Disney Princess. All the other girls got saved by princes, or saved their princes, or found love. Mulan SAVED CHINA :D
ahaha why was I always Daddy I'm crying!...It's so true tho this list is on point LOL
This is one of my favourite videos with you Amber :)
these reasons are wayyyy too related to me lmaooo
Wtf omggggg why is this is so me 😂😂😂😂 your style is so cute! Rapping & Mulan!!! This is true af
I love Mulan! She's my favourite, haha but I also like Pocahontas too!
i shoulda known when I was a kid and was playing house with my Barbies it was two moms,even though I had a ken doll.
LMAO that was the best story ever!!!
"You know you're gay when Mulan is your favorite Disney character, with her sword fighting ass."
damn "that's gay" i can't...you are too funny, love the video!
I knew I was gay when I always chose female characters in games and made excesses that it was for the stats (I'm a male)
I'm not gay but I prefer to wear jeans and button up shirts or blouses than dresses. I also don't like to wear high heels because they hurt like hell!
I'm a girl who is sort of questioning at the moment but I just need to say that I think Amber is gorgeous!...Seriously, amazing cheekbones and beautiful hair...
Lol you got me with the "come around rapping & shit" & the home depot lmfao so true xD
I *refused* to wear the uniform skirts at my middle school in the spring. I got detention *at least* 4 times until the principal was just like "fuck it. wear whatever you want."
I never wore them either.🤣🤣🤣 Instead, I would try to dress my uniform up by wearing my uniform shirt open with a graphic tee underneath. I felt so badass, but my fave shirt was blue with a kitten.🤣🤣🤣
She's so funny! Especially talking about her babysitter.
those babie tho hehe oh man ur stories always got me laughing ur the best story teller Amber!!!Amber f**king closet!!love the name..😂😂😂😍😍😍
LMFAOOOOOOOO OMGGGGG I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT THAT!! BUT HOLY SHIT I WAS ALWAYS THE DAD TOOOOO dshdsasusha i'm dying.
I should've known I was gay when I forced my dad to paint my Barbie jeep camoflauge
omg i love your channel. Your absolutely right ,i did the same thing . i used to play with dolls ,wear heels, make up, etc. thank you for doing what you do ;)
😂 so right about mulan! She has always been my favorite Disney "princess"
I love u so much cause u don't care what other people thinks about you
I've been so enchanted by Home Depot since childhood. Something about that store was so magical. There probably were gay fairies sprinkling rainbow glitter on my head.🤣🤣🤣
This was funny af and so true because I can relate to all of them except the Home Depot part lol.
Oh damn! She's soo right about everything.
Everything she said describes my life this makes me think a lot I always thought I was gay but never really knew for sure guess now I know im gay
this girl i have been dating told me she likes girls to and told me to watch this., i think ur really cool and i give u props big time for this and your coming out story, you really tell it how it is and i really admire that so uhm yea thumbs up girl
i was always the daddy too, when we played house! i love your videos:)
Make more videos about being gay and your coming out story. It's very interesting and I think a Lott of people are curious aswel :) love u Amber xx
So true, I always was the dad when I played house n I hated girly crap I luv me sum cars n action figures n video games, I find it funny that I waited til the 6th grade to come out as a rainbow lover, best years of my life
OMG she's got a YMCMB hat!! I love it!!
"Those barbies needed to die" LMAO I just came across ur vids and deffo feeling ur style. :D The super talents is sooo me lol, football (soccer), basketball, just sports in genereal and rapping has long been my thing. :)
I think you talk about gender identity, not sexual preferences. I love girls, but anyways I played with barbies all my childhood and most of my clothes are dresses or skirts, I don't wear any make up ot do my nails in french style or shit like that, anyways, it's always a pleasure seeing you my stemy princess😘
after 3 years i still love this video because i remeber when i was trying to figure out my sexuality and i ran into this video and saw you and thought to myself " yep im totally gay " 😂😂
Yasss gawd about the catholic school thing n the rapping thing
I am an extremely feminine lesbian; but, whenever my friend and I play character games, I was and still am the male. When I was younger I would kiss her often and our characters would date.
I dig it lol.. BTW Funny as video Amber.
u can be what ever u want in life so if u want to be gay u can and if somebody don't like it then they just don't and don't change for know body else
that white and blue cup!!! Real Madrid!! Spain!! yaaayyy
Ok I gotchu!
Thank You!
3:02-3:06 sooo true that is me if I ever when to the mall I would always hope if I whined enough we'd be driving right back home!!!😂😂👌
Thank You...I gotta make an attempt at swagg lol
Amber that Real Madrid hat!!!!💜💜💜💜
Lmao I was always daddy too. And in the eighth grade Mulan was my favorite character too. She still is actually tbh. I can relate to this entire video, actually.
"You know what I'm sayin'?" You are cool Amber! :)
Thank You! All I can b is honest!
Lmaooo " why was I always daddy ? " hahaha 😂😂👏👏
lol... I was in love with my babysitter too.. lol
she was FINE!
You're so damn beautiful
Have you ever spoken about Kiara's dating history and her experiences with her sexuality? I know this is your channel but I think it would be interesting hearing about what she has gone through in life as well. I've just been curious about who she's dated before you. Just a thought.
I first thought about me being a lesbian when I was forced to hold hands with one of my lesbian friends for a gym team building activity. For 22 minutes! Now I am a proud lesbian who still has a crush on that friend. It's awkward.
Oh my goodness i love you!
your so funny! "What kid wants to get baby sat" just rolling
i love snapbacks too frfr
OMG ARE U ON TV YET!? LMAO SWEAR U NEED UR OWN REALITY SHOW! KEEP IT UP! LOVE U GIRL
Absolutely love this video. Brilliant!
This is so true. I LOVE IT!
I agreed with 50% this just proves even more that I'm bi
Should have known I was gay when I made my Barbies kiss each other lmao
That porn bit had me dying
coming soon!
I agree with the Home Depot thing!
Love love love your videos Amber! Your so honest and real i love it :D Hello from Ireland
I relate to this HEAVILY. X-)
IvyPoison
Like I'm not gay nor I'm straight I mean I'm bi I guess but I like both genders but so far I've always been more comfortable with girls but Idk yet
SumiTheUnicorn Yesh you still might be bi because there is a spectrum. You might be more attracted to men more than woman or woman more than men. Honestly though, just try to figure it out in ur own time and experiment because its natural. ☺
The fighting one is me...also mulan is me
You're a riot and it's TRUTH
I love your closet and you tbh
Oh goddamit. I have collections of Bionicles, Lego, Hot Wheels, about 20 characters/sets/cars each and I refuse to throw them away every time my mom asks me about them. I even gave the cars names :3 I really love Mulan. The "man" is me. But I can't be really a lesbian, since I can never decide between Tom Hiddleston and Tilda Swinton. I mean, eeek! they are so wonderful!
Sincerely, girl.
i just wana say ive just actually subscribed a few days ago but been watching your videos and so just want to say i really do like ur and kiarra's vlogs =) you two are really awesome love ya guys =)
Yasssss!!😍Mulan my shit. Lmao i was bi but im just gay now like boys cute i dated alot but once i found my girl it all changed
I Feel Y'all
Yeah I know what u sayin. We had a fiiiiine babysitter. Then that byach just left. Homedepo is pretty nice... Literally only wore a skirt like 5 times. 1 funeral n 4 maskerades. Strangely hate to talk to girls... Hangin with only guys.
this is true....Mulan is my favorite princess.
I really should've know I was bi YEARS ago. And I only really acknowledged my feelings last summer and I'm 16 now. I use to have all out crushes on my sister's friends, every birthday or Christmas I would ask for either a video game or RC vehicle, I hated wearing skirts or dresses with a passion. And people would always ask me if I was a tomboy ( I really didn't know what it met and whether it was good or bad so I would just tell them ya)
That dolls always had no head when I get them😂
I agree about the part when you're talking about yourself, but in general not so much I mean I'm bi / pan sexual and growing up I loved Barbie. I had the black Barbie and I keep having her out on dates with the Teresa doll doing parties and getting married. but I was a hardcore girly girl.