he did so many bad things he killed several ppl and nobody who does the shit JD did deserve to live like imagine the poor family members of some of those victims that had to see ppl simping and feeling more bsd for him than the victims
Yeah it is... Reddit will confirm that for anyone with doubts. And this video of course. When I stumbled upon that rabbit hole on Reddit.... I was utterly speechless. There are some truly sick and twisted people who walk amongst us.
@@lillymurray8408 Many people are being ignored and pushed aside, but all of us have a choice of what to do next with it. He chose to become a monster.
She wouldn't feel sorry for him if she was the one watching their family member's body parts being carried out of his apartment. Wonder how much she would have been grinning then.
The guy who wrote the comic that My Friend Dahmer is based on said it best. It's okay to be sympathetic to Dahmer's childhood, upbringing, his struggles with his sexuality. Many people have gone through similar struggles. But the moment he killed, there is no room for sympathy left. Feel sad for the person that he could have been, but don't mourn the monster that he truly was. I really hope that the families of the victims never come across these videos, I can't imagine how bad that would hurt to see people sympathizing with a murderer that took away their loved ones.
This!!! That’s why I feel bad for him. I feel bad for him because he tried to tell his family he was sick and was ignored and abandoned and pulled aside. I feel bad because he almost didn’t have a fighting chance. Everyone knew something was wrong and they all ignored it instead of helping their child.. Also. His mother was taking 48 pills daily while he was in the womb… don’t you dare tell me that doesn’t fuck with a developing brain. Especially the frontal cortex. Just like we see with injuries to the brain. Prescription Drugs can do just as much damage if not worse.. especially to a growing brain inside of the womb! Before he was a sadistic evil killer he was a innocent child. And that’s who I feel bad for. I will never feel bad for him, what he did was unforgivable and so disgusting. He ruined lives. But again, before he ever did any of that, he was a innocent child. His mother made decisions for him that I believe altered his life before he was ever even able to choose on his own.
I think this is the best way to put it. Thank you. I did sympathize for him, but not that died or was put into prison. It mainly thatvit couldve been avoided. But I also acknowledge that its not his fault he had those compulsions, but it was his fault that he chose to do the things he did. And he was of sound mind, (not clinically insane) so he was aware of what he was doing and that it was wrong. So to me, I think he got what he deserved based on his choices. I just think it was unfair for him to be born with mental issues like that to put him there in the first place. Idk how anyone can talk to someone else about how they fantasize about fucking organs. I feel for the Jeffrey before he killed someone.
Yes! It's saddening that his family treated him horribly, which affected him. He may had a bad phase in his life, but it doesn't excuse his crimes. People that Layze was covering, did the opposite.
He drilled holes into his young victims heads and (while they were still alive) poured boiling water and acid etc into the holes trying to turn them into zombies (literally. So they could “serve” him without question etc). He kept many of their bodies in large barrels filled with acid in his bedroom as they slowly melted. If a lot of these women knew the details they’d probably have a different idea about him.
or if they were in that position or a family member. theyd finally realize its not all a game or a joke. this is real and disgusting. i hope they feel the pain the victims and their familys feel/felt
I can’t explain just how much I hate TikTok. And the foolish people on it. This stuff happened 3 decades ago. And people are acting like it’s brand new. And being ridiculous about it.
The girl who said she was about to cry when they finally killed Jeffrey after he ruined the lives of countless innocent people... what the actual fuck. Would she feel better if they let him go to put even more lives at risk??? You really did a great job of highlighting just how ridiculous these people sound!
I think its ridiculous because i only felt bad for dahmer when his childhood moments were shown...where shit was going downhill and shaped him up as to who he was. Even then when jeff was killed i was cheery...I couldn't feel bad for him anymore as an adult...that man was beyond sick but there are millions of ppl who go through worse n come out ok...his childhood nor looks were no excuse to the odious crimes he committed
@@Codduct Exactly! If you're going to feel bad for him, feel bad about his childhood, not the fact that he was killed after everything he did. Every single one of those crimes were decisions he made on his own, over and over and over again. I just know this news was a huge relief to the world because it was the only way anyone could sleep at night knowing he was no longer a danger to society. That and the victims were given a fraction of the justice they deserved.
@@sucks2bthemthis is why I dont like Murphy's work like american horror story or the asssasination of versace (except Pose) portraying the killer as someone attractive and sympathetic on a extreme that it make me umcomfortable special on Dahmer and how the families of the victima were ignores because they did not feel it was respectful
Ok. That doesn’t mean there isn’t a correlation between the two just because YOU didn’t grow up to be alone and crying out for help. There’s literal data to back up that people with those kinds of up bringing eventually turn into violent abusers and MURDERERS. Not all. But ALOT have…
@@lillymurray8408 ok but would you feel sorry for the murderer if they r*ped tortured killed desecrated their bodies and ate someone in your family who was a child ? if yes please seek help
he was not a psychopath. stop spreading stigma about ppl with antisocial personality disorder. to be a fckn killer or even to be an asshole is a choice and the disorder doesn’t automatically make you an awful person.
What he killed someone’s why are u not gaf at all birch that’s the only thing that needs to be said he f killed people like what the f else needs to be said wake up
The victims families are enraged with the series , it apparently focuses on JD in a sympathetic light. Our world is so upside down, and these girls who cried for him … need to be looked into, like you said.
I think it's more about warning signs in my opinion. And the fact that law enforcement didn't do their job back then just like they don't do their job now.
@@lillymurray8408 Except they didn't even contact their families and made Jeffery Dahmer the main character like he was fucking Dexter or some shit... They didn't care about the victims, they cared about money.
I feel bad for the victims that have to now sit here and listen to people feel sorry for that monster who took away people they loved, desecrated their bodies, AND ATE THEM.
If someone told me they felt sorry or that they liked Jeffrey Dahmer, I would simply end everything then and there, we are never talking again. Don't come crying to me when you end up in a similar situation.
Okay so I think they feel bad for him because they’re so used to not being invested in movies and shows due to average acting. But because Evan Peters portrayed Jeffrey amazingly well and had the audience so invested due to his incredible acting, that they fell in love with Evan Peters portraying a real life serial killer and mistook it for empathy for the killer. So, when Jeffrey died, due to being so invested and in love with how well Evan played the role, they’re confused and do not understand the effects that Evan had on them, hence why they think they’re messed up in the head for feeling bad for Jeffrey when he died. In summary, it’s due to immaturity (they aren’t mature enough to fully understand their emotions) and those who have fallen victim of feeling “bad” for Jeffrey, is only because Evan Peters is a very talented actor. Just my opinion studying a bit of psychology and theatre.
Very well said. I think it's also for a lot of them their first time hearing of this case so they're skewed as you said by the performance. By trying to show us what lead up to the killings in the way of understanding how this can happen, they probably unintentionally created sympathy for him for these people but most who watched documentaries about him first or lived at the time, see the evil that even he felt he was.
Absolutely agree with you. Watching the series and watching the documentaries and his interviews, reading his father's book, and reading the comic book on him made me realize how dark and twisted and depraved his inner world was. I think Evan Peters did a great job but that depravity cannot be fully portrayed or felt unless they see the WHOLE picture.
I actually think you got something here. The movies these young people have, and being raised on crap disney channel......the bar is low. So something they have an actual emotional response to....it must be confusing to them. Good call!
I haven’t finished watching the Netflix series myself, but it seems they made the Dahmer character too likeable. I’m guessing these people have only watched the series and little else about him. Most of what he did to his victims is too gruesome and sadistic to show on tv. Also don’t they realize all the animals he tortured when he was a child as well? I’d also like to add that feeling sorry for a serial killer doesn’t make you super empathic because that shows a lack of empathy for his victims. I think these people are actually pretty clueless about serial killers and their psychology.
These people are absolutely the worst of the worst! My 22 yr old daughter was murdered and seeing this B say this makes me want to unalive her myself. How dare she feel bad for a serial killer cannibal!! He is a monster but these people are worse 🤬
I only felt empathy for him as a kid since his parents were neglectful. But not for him as an adult since he made some truly heinous shit. Same thing for Albert Fish and Marcus Wesson.
It's so messed up that some people actually feel attracted to the SERIAL Killer and not the actor. As a dedicated Evan Peters stan, I will never EVER say I like Jeffrey, or feel bad for him, he deserved to go jail, he even admitted it himself. But next time, say you like the actor and not the person they played (especially if the person is a real life cannibal). The only people I feel bad for are Jeff's victims, the people who feel bad for him and Evan Peters. How about sympathize for the victims, the victim's families and Evan (he had to get therapy after that role) instead of the killer himself?
This feels so unreal, there is no way people feel sympathy for REAL LIFE serial killer and not feel bad for the victims and the families of the victims😟
@@Allyfynwtf are you talking about sure you can feel bad for his childhood but they saying they feel bad for his death like idc if it was a show or not its still a real life serial killer that did some fucked up shit
@@anniesolomon4876 something about you tells me that you like to make a lot of very wrong and unnecessary assumptions about people to make yourself feel superior to them. It's a common allistic trait.
The planet is doomed and my generation is a bunch of idiots. I had to explain to a person why they couldn't go as Dahmer for Halloween even tho "ppl go as killers in movies all the time"
@@Asmanidoesnotexist2 It's not like school teaches you about Dahmer though. In my opinion most those people probably don't even really know Dahmer is a real killer to begin with. They just watched the series and thought it was cool in a work of fiction. As compared to thinking of that really happening cause that's too scary. And it's not like they lived through that you know. older people remember him, the generation after that got told about him and warned. But the kids in these days wouldn't really hear much about him unless they actually look up serial killers.
I feel like that Netflix show manipulated these idiots. They really romantised him. That show never should have been made. We have enough already on dahmer and bundy...
There's a level to empathy 😭 like WTF???? He was a monster but yeeesss let a Netflix documentary make us feel so sorry for him 🥺🥺🥺. No 🚶🏾♀️ just NO. What's next? Feeling sorry for N*zis??
Right! Like "Hitler was just a misunderstood abused artist... I felt bad that he committed suicide" The more I look at what I said as a joke dead ass looks exactly like what people are saying about Dahmer. I think people forget that he said if he wasn't caught, he would have kept going, if he was still alive he would still be drugging, assaulting, and killing young men and boys. Konerak Sinthasomphone was 14, a literal child who had inappropriate photography taken of him, was drugged, had to live with a hole drilled in his head with acid poured into it until it slowly and painfully killed him while finally seeing the door to freedom slammed in his face. All the people who say that this show "Brought a voice to the victims" always fail to ignore that the show NEVER CONTACTED THE FAMILIES OF THE VICTIMS! How can this show bring a voice to the victims while also not talking to the people closest to said victims. The cognitive dissonance is absolutely astounding.
@@justsomeperson1213 THANK YOU. He showed NO REMORSE for what he did but we have to feel sorry for him? Never. He ab*sed men to make zombies out of them by using dr*gs and pouring hot water in their head it's disgusting 🤢🤢🤢🤢 and the fact that the families of the people he killed weren't contacted for their consent and they have to see some weirdos on TikTok feel sorry for the person who did all this to their love ones is just 🤮
it's not even empathy, it's just projection and probably narcissism. They think they can relate and help him without even knowing what was wrong with Dahmer. If they had next level empathy, they'd feel for his victims too.
They say IQ is down by 20 points. When she talking about the documentary does she mean the dramatisation? A documentary and a dramatisation are worlds apart? I remember the dramatisation but I don't think a documentary was made???
i feel bad that he got the easy way out. he didnt rot in jail and think about how awful of a person he was. how much trauma he caused to the families of his victims. he may have had a messed up past but that doesnt excuse his actions. you cant use your bad past as an excuse to murder, rape, and eat people 😭
He wouldn't have even thought about what he did in the way you would have wanted. He had no conscious so he wouldn't have felt remorse, he probably would have just reminisced on what he did in a sick way. His death was best for everyone, including himself.
Just started the series on Netflix. Watched My friend Dahmer movie a while ago. I’d like that girl to explain the 17 skeletons in his flat as well as the head in the fridge, hand, hearts & other bits in his freezer got into his flat if he was innocent.
I personally feel bad for what he went through as a kid but, at the same time it’s not a excuse for his future actions. I think what he did as an adult was sick and depraved.
Actually Dahmer didn’t have a bad childhood. He had two loving parents who stood by him even after he got caught for his crimes. His dad even wrote a book about it. Dahmer is one of these psychopaths that had a certain kind of charisma and charm. He could mislead people in thinking that he was just a lonely guy that couldn’t get a partner without killing him. If you see the real interviews with him it is easy to feel bad for him, he really looks vulnerable and acts like a total normal human being. But don’t kid yourself this man would have made many more victims if he wasn’t stopped. I haven’t seen the series so I cannot judge it but as these people feel sorry for him the actor must have been damn good.
Lol no he didn’t have a good childhood his mom left him alone for months and took his brother away his parents got divorced his mom took pills while she was pregnant and there’s much more you don’t know the whole side of this story
@@mariadonkova2759 Maybe but I saw that his parents and especially his father stood by him for the whole trial. I don’t say they approved of his deeds or thought he was innocent.
@@mariadonkova2759 I don't know anything about Dahmer's childhood, but this person is saying Dahmer didn't had a bad childhood and the things you listed, still don't make for a bad childhood, per se. There are plenty of people who come from a broken home and didn't had a bad childhood. Not even every foster kid was dragged from home to home. That's such a stereotyped assumption.
I felt bad initially when i saw what he went through in his childhood, i felt bad for his father as well, but imagine loosing ur loved one to something like that, it is so haunting.
These kind of people make me think THEY are psychopaths themselves, to feel sorry for a killer that KILLED innocent people is just downright disgusting
I think people are honestly taking things too deep. It's natural to sympathize with the main character in a series and kind of build a bond with them. I think all these people confuse this with feeling sorry for the *REAL Jeffrey Dahmer* . The real Jeffrey wasn't as cute as Evan Peter's, he was *cold and empty* , any of these "empaths" would have immediately shat their pants if they talked with the real Dahmer.
@@bluemountainw1789 No shit it's what I'm using to talk to you right now, smart thinking. Was what I said not obvious enough? Let me re-type it but more understandable, the real Jeffrey Dahmer was was ugly ass hell, you sure you looked at pictures of the REAL Jeffrey Dahmer and not of Evan Peters? Evan Peters was hot, but not the real Jeffrey Dahmer💀
Oh yes I “feel so sad and bad for Jeffery”” poor guy …..fuck no …he was a literal monster ..the worst most scary kind. I do not fear a lot in this world but he and anyone who feels bad for him are scary folks that is for sure. Thanks this was really spot on !
As to quote Sheldon Cooper from BBT: “The urge to bang my head against the wall again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again is strong.”
I do feel bad for what he went through as a child and how he struggled with his sexuality but honestly the moment he first killed someone there was no sympathy left. He drugged, r@p3d, tortured, and ate his victims with no hesitation and he enjoyed doing what he did. He drugged killed and tortured a literal kid! He deserved what happened to him. The pain he brought to his victims and their families was horrible. If the Series didn’t come out I bet you no one would feel bad that a serial killer, r@pist, and cannibal died. There is something wrong with you if you feel bad for this man or anyone else like him. He was a sick man with mental problems and that doesn’t excuse killing anyone though. If you should feel bad for anyone it should be all the people he killed and their families. It’s so sick that people actually support and feel bad for him. He viewed people as objects and didn’t regret what he was doing and would have continued killing people if he hadn’t got caught. He was sick and disgusting.
I'm a True Crime fan, I listen to it while I'm doing household chores or doing my lab reports and honey, when I tell you I have to stop doing whatever I've been doing for the last second because they are talking about the victims and I feel like I'm being disrespectful if I don't listen with my full attention. The victims deserve respect, fhe families of the victims deserve respect. You really have to be so unmature to listen to a True Crime podcast or watch a documentary and go "Poor JD 😭"
That's the thing. These people most likely watched the Netflix "documentary" which was just a TV series based on JD. That thing was not accurate whatsoever, and glorified Dahmer and empathised with HIM instead of his victims. And these people fell for it instead of using their brain cells and seeing beyond the director's agenda.
I think the only reason people were upset that he died after watching the movie because he was the only character that was focused on. Subconsciously Jeff was humanized. I noticed I also felt bad for Tony because we got to spend more time with his character than the rest. Its okay to feel bad for someone who has done terrible things. Especially so when that person has no control over the urges they were born with. However, he still chose to make that decision to do the things he did. So thats what makes him a monster undeserving of praise. Most feel bad for what Jeffrey could have been. Its like the villians that you understand why they are where they are and still feel bad that they died when you know if certain things were different he couldve been ok
I haven't seen it but that's exactly what i was assuming was done with the script. Humanise a monster & people relate, feel sorry for, understand etc. Write the script from the victims & their families point of view & the viewers see nothing but a cold blooded monster. It's how it's presented to the viewers. This is what the writers wanted, they wanted to humanise him, get people talking about it, get people debating it. The more people talking about it the more people are curious to go watch it & then talk about it with other people & the wheel keeps turning bringing in more money. Tons of people have made shows about him, the same story from the same point of views over & over again BUT this new 1 is different & very successful because of it.
I feel bad that his brain developed the way it did most likely to the 40 plus pills his mom was taking during her pregnancy. Fucked up his cortex definitely. He tried to tell his parents how he felt, someone could of helped him, everyone failed to see that he had serious illness. The fact that he murdered though is unforgivable and he knew what he was doing.
@@kai0tfoool I know right? It's why I look up a lot about red flags in kids that could lead to that outcome. I wanna work with kids and I hope to prevent something like that by covering all bases, from trauma responses in kids, to behaviour that's not normal for kids. Because that's where those things tend to start. Preventative care for stuff like that is so important. But a lot of people who see red flags often don't do anything aside from telling themselves that child is gonna be on the news someday, turning out to be evil. It's something my teachers gossiped about sometimes. They'd bet on what kid would land themselves in jail. And the worst part for me as an adult now, is to see that stuff actually on the news. As a kid back then I couldn't do anything. But as an adult now, I hope I can do something about it.
I watched the documentary with my brothers, we had no reaction when he died. I cried when all the victims died, he was a horrible horrible person. Feeling bad for him is insane
She is the perfect girlfriend. You can literally do anything to anyone and she’ll forgive you. If I ever commit a crime I would want a whole jury off Tik Toc chicks like her
I feel that people like this need to discern potential from actuality. Just because someone has potential to change doesn’t mean they will. As you said, plenty of us have had bad childhoods and haven’t further created victims ourselves especially not to Dahmer’s degree. The man himself even said it wasn’t due to a rough childhood or any of that bc he knows and he’s always known he was fucked up. These types of people feeling sorry for him are concerning bc either a) they’re going to unwittingly enable bad people and help create victims bc of the belief that they *will* change bc they *could* or b) they end up a victim themselves and still feel bad for their perpetrator and invalidate other victims. Both scenarios are so incredibly irresponsible and dangerous.
Exactly. A normal brain finds ways to get past it. A broken brain, be it pushed too far or broken from birth, is not looking for other ways to vent that aggression, fear and pain.
****Why do i feel sorry for jeffrey dahmer and why do i think that he was innocent - A resume**** He was a white, blonde blue eyed little angel, with a very calm and soft voice, and so handsome and cute. This is what they actually mean.
It’s ok to feel bad for his life as a child because NO child deserves the worse but it’s disgusting to feel bad that they killed him or the monster he became
You are one of the very few people in this comment section who has used logic, poor people are getting bashed when they're just very confused, it's just the character and actor they feel bad for. Simple TV emotion manipulation.
@@AllyfynSome people do feel bad for the actual killers. I've seen people doing this for killers without TV shows. And yeah, although some only feel bad for the character, it's still not okay to make a tiktok on it.
Yeah, they did overly glamorize him too much, I agree with that. another thing I liked to add, It doesn't matter if he had a bad childhood, or had a mental disorder, or had a personality disorder, because those things aren't what makes someone a killer. The guy was lonely, yes, but a lot of people are lonely and don't end up this way. Just because you have these disorders doesn't instantly make you a killer, and I've had challenges and never ended up doing what this man has done. The disorders or bad childhood might have been a motivator, but he was the one who made the choice.
These crazy people are exactly what the victims families were afraid of. People were afraid that people would wind up glamorizing him. Sadly and scarily there will always be people who will love serial killers.
You can feel sorry he turned out that way though. Not feel sorry for what he did and how it ended, but sorry he became the way he was. Wondering if there was a way to prevent something like that from happening.
“Documentary” it was a dramatized tv show that used an actor that everyone drools over for some reason while also re-traumatizing victims families. It’s just exploitative. I used to find an interest in true crime like that because I could never wrap my head around how someone can just take a life. But now it’s so over saturated more and more with the weirdos that somehow think the serial killers deserve any ounce of sympathy
I feel sorry for the helpless kid/young teen Jeff who was ignored, abandoned and not given the help he needed, but not the adult Jeff who was able to seek help by himself and instead DECIDED to become the monster that we all know of today.
i dont think they are faking it because jeffery did got fan letters /love letters in jail because he looked when social media wasnt a thing. People are doing same thing but now they just got a platform
all of those people don't understand how disrespectful to not only the victims but the victims friends and family ... the best thing to do if you ever feel like this is don't tell anyone because no one wants to know that..
I literally wrote an essay about how bad true crime skews up our perception of the horrible things these killers have done. And how harmful true crime content is for the victims and their families.
I think the issue is 1) most of these people are young and weren’t alive when this shit went down (I had just graduated high school) so they didn’t know the insanity it really was and the crazy people who put him on a pedestal for the wrong reasons back then and 2) Netflix took liberties and glorified Jeffrey’s side of things to make you feel sorry for him. I wouldn’t say I felt sorry for him per se after watching that series, but I wondered if he would have turned out differently had his upbringing been different, had his dad not been so odd and gotten him into taxidermy. I always have those what if thoughts, like what if Hitler would have gotten into art school like he so desperately wanted, we may not have have WWII and the Holocaust. Same principal…
i feel bad for him in the aspect that he never got the help he truly needed and that his childhood was lonely. i however do realize what he did was truly disgusting and needed to be punished. but feeling bad bc he got killed in prison is sickening. rip to all the victims and prayers to the victims families 🙏. his childhood is no excuse for murder and cannibalism.
When watching something that has to do with a serial killer(or any criminal)'s past that was awful, i feel bad for them, but then i remember they're a criminal and it dies down to feeling bad for people who go through that and not the criminal.
My aunt used to tell me stories about the horrid things Jeffrey Dahmer did and it fcking traumatized me to the point where even now I'm super uncomfortable even saying his name. And these sickos feel bad for him?? Tf??
To be honest I think from the series it is very easy to feel sorry for him because they portrayed him as this Joker-type figure, a loner who is misunderstood and is treated poorly because everybody leaves him..I think we all can somehow relate to that..Plus the actor is quite attractive and there were many moments in the series where Jeff appeared to be human and even funny..but it doesnt mean that this is the reality
I heard someone say the reason people felt bad for him when they finished the movie/series whatever is because it showed Jeffery’s his life, like what he went through, what his parents did, his home life, his school life, basically a look into his life and because people saw all the bad stuff that happened and the unstable way he grew up made people feel bad despite what he did (HORRIBLE SHIT, PERIOD.) and so how it translated was the fact that they saw his life story and then he got killed in jail (rightfully so, they should’ve pulled out the death sentence card and put him on NEXT ON THE LIST-) and they felt bad because of the fact that they saw what he went through and felt bad for what he went through and then got killed.
I was physically, verbally, and mentally abused as a child and bullied but I ain't crazy and nah the way she was like "I think he was austistic" I was like bitch how it that relevant. Yes serial killers usually grow up with a bad childhood but so do completely normal people who aren't crazy af.
I don't think these people truly understand how unbelievably sick this man was
And that’s likely why they feel sorry for him…..
@@lillymurray8408 agreed!
Welcome to Gen Z 😑 why was I born in 1999 let me go back a few years
@@Mary-sp9dp it isn't really just a gen z thing I know Ted Bundy has a fan club back in his day and today
@@Mary-sp9dp this isn’t a gen z thing. People were praising niggas like this back then too.
All these ppl crying for him would be terrified if this man knocked on their door.
Literally
Also, they wouldn't feel bad if it was someone they knew or cared about! Just bc it didn't effect them personally they feel bad
he did so many bad things he killed several ppl and nobody who does the shit JD did deserve to live like imagine the poor family members of some of those victims that had to see ppl simping and feeling more bsd for him than the victims
I mean they were females so I guess they get the privilege of not having to worry he would bother doing all those heinous things to them.
I don’t think they would, and that’s honestly disgusting.
Some times I wish these people could feel the pain his victims felt.
And ongoing pain of victims' families that is present till this day.
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Same.
Frrrr sameee
Yes, these morons wouldn't be fantasizing or feeling bad about the killer if they became the victims.
"Romanticizing serial killers" is a real issue.
Seriously. Like people who write to murders in prison.. wild.
Yeah it is... Reddit will confirm that for anyone with doubts. And this video of course. When I stumbled upon that rabbit hole on Reddit.... I was utterly speechless. There are some truly sick and twisted people who walk amongst us.
I'm weird but naw bro, I'm not THAT kinda weird
They take "weird" on a while another LEVEL!!!
Don't show the underdeveloped stage of mankind bro look at things scientifically he was sick, he had so many mental disorders
These people are effed up. THEY need help. I’m scared…
Real
The sarcasm. 😅❤
@@irstalina Whateva
@@YouHappySpotIg i meant the other girl
@@irstalina oh okie dookie
They probably watched the Netflix series and connected with Evan Peter’s performance, and are too stupid to realize that is NOT how REAL DAHMER was!!!
I think this is it. I feel bad for him, but not as a serial killer. I feel bad for him because he was ignored and pushed aside and lonely.
@@lillymurray8408 Many people are being ignored and pushed aside, but all of us have a choice of what to do next with it. He chose to become a monster.
@@lillymurray8408 exactly!
@@ayahgrig9218 yep 100%
So true
She wouldn't feel sorry for him if she was the one watching their family member's body parts being carried out of his apartment. Wonder how much she would have been grinning then.
She doesn't feel sorry for him
@eden_wowah no, they feel bad for the character.
@Beefcourt481 It makes sense, you're just not getting it. Think of it like maths.
@@Allyfyn What are you going on about? They feel bad for him. Just like people felt for Ted Bundy. It’s sick and twisted but it’s true.
@@Allyfyn The only problem is that Dahmer is not a fictional character.
The guy who wrote the comic that My Friend Dahmer is based on said it best. It's okay to be sympathetic to Dahmer's childhood, upbringing, his struggles with his sexuality. Many people have gone through similar struggles. But the moment he killed, there is no room for sympathy left. Feel sad for the person that he could have been, but don't mourn the monster that he truly was.
I really hope that the families of the victims never come across these videos, I can't imagine how bad that would hurt to see people sympathizing with a murderer that took away their loved ones.
This!!! That’s why I feel bad for him. I feel bad for him because he tried to tell his family he was sick and was ignored and abandoned and pulled aside. I feel bad because he almost didn’t have a fighting chance. Everyone knew something was wrong and they all ignored it instead of helping their child..
Also. His mother was taking 48 pills daily while he was in the womb… don’t you dare tell me that doesn’t fuck with a developing brain. Especially the frontal cortex. Just like we see with injuries to the brain. Prescription Drugs can do just as much damage if not worse.. especially to a growing brain inside of the womb!
Before he was a sadistic evil killer he was a innocent child. And that’s who I feel bad for. I will never feel bad for him, what he did was unforgivable and so disgusting. He ruined lives. But again, before he ever did any of that, he was a innocent child. His mother made decisions for him that I believe altered his life before he was ever even able to choose on his own.
I think this is the best way to put it. Thank you. I did sympathize for him, but not that died or was put into prison. It mainly thatvit couldve been avoided. But I also acknowledge that its not his fault he had those compulsions, but it was his fault that he chose to do the things he did. And he was of sound mind, (not clinically insane) so he was aware of what he was doing and that it was wrong. So to me, I think he got what he deserved based on his choices. I just think it was unfair for him to be born with mental issues like that to put him there in the first place. Idk how anyone can talk to someone else about how they fantasize about fucking organs. I feel for the Jeffrey before he killed someone.
Yes! It's saddening that his family treated him horribly, which affected him. He may had a bad phase in his life, but it doesn't excuse his crimes. People that Layze was covering, did the opposite.
Wasn't it a movie? (I watched it and damm everything was messed up there)
@@cheesedoosh yea like my dude just wanted some happiness but now i hate him
He drilled holes into his young victims heads and (while they were still alive) poured boiling water and acid etc into the holes trying to turn them into zombies (literally. So they could “serve” him without question etc). He kept many of their bodies in large barrels filled with acid in his bedroom as they slowly melted.
If a lot of these women knew the details they’d probably have a different idea about him.
Ikr it's really disgusting
I have watched the series and some details were there and it was disgusting. Idk what there tiktokias are smoking
@@Cat-hr9xp Maybe it's like a "not like other people" kind of thing? It's sick whatever it is.
or if they were in that position or a family member. theyd finally realize its not all a game or a joke. this is real and disgusting. i hope they feel the pain the victims and their familys feel/felt
Wait what tf
As someone who’s literally lost family to murderers, that shit is fucking MAD DISRESPECTFUL.
It is farther than disrespect even way worse R.I.P
im sorry for your loss. May your family rest in peace.
Sorry for your loss. Fly high to ur family member 🕊
weezer
@cedarrrrr im sorry for ur loss, i didnt read the comment
I can’t explain just how much I hate TikTok. And the foolish people on it. This stuff happened 3 decades ago. And people are acting like it’s brand new. And being ridiculous about it.
It's playing a big part in the decline of tick tock distorts reality but young people are too stupid to know any better
I honestly knew it would be TIkToK idiots…
I feel like people have always been like this, and now social media allows these freaks to voice their terrible opinions to the world.
And this is why i don't have TikTok
Right? They act like they "discover" something that exists like ages ago. And some just need to claim a certain trend or a thing.
The girl who said she was about to cry when they finally killed Jeffrey after he ruined the lives of countless innocent people... what the actual fuck. Would she feel better if they let him go to put even more lives at risk??? You really did a great job of highlighting just how ridiculous these people sound!
It's not Dahmer she felt bad for. It was the character played by Evan. The creators of that series know what they're doing
I think its ridiculous because i only felt bad for dahmer when his childhood moments were shown...where shit was going downhill and shaped him up as to who he was. Even then when jeff was killed i was cheery...I couldn't feel bad for him anymore as an adult...that man was beyond sick but there are millions of ppl who go through worse n come out ok...his childhood nor looks were no excuse to the odious crimes he committed
@@sucks2bthem Seems like nobody is giving enough attention to the victims unfortunately.
@@Codduct Exactly! If you're going to feel bad for him, feel bad about his childhood, not the fact that he was killed after everything he did. Every single one of those crimes were decisions he made on his own, over and over and over again. I just know this news was a huge relief to the world because it was the only way anyone could sleep at night knowing he was no longer a danger to society. That and the victims were given a fraction of the justice they deserved.
@@sucks2bthemthis is why I dont like Murphy's work like american horror story or the asssasination of versace (except Pose) portraying the killer as someone attractive and sympathetic on a extreme that it make me umcomfortable special on Dahmer and how the families of the victima were ignores because they did not feel it was respectful
Exactly...I had a shitty childhood, but I don't go around making people miserable as a result. How are people feeling sorry for him??? Wth..
Ok. That doesn’t mean there isn’t a correlation between the two just because YOU didn’t grow up to be alone and crying out for help. There’s literal data to back up that people with those kinds of up bringing eventually turn into violent abusers and MURDERERS. Not all. But ALOT have…
@@lillymurray8408 Who’s the girl in your pfp
@@lillymurray8408 which brings us to the point that they CHOSE that life. Why would you sympathise with someone who CHOSE to kill and rape????
@@lillymurray8408 ok but would you feel sorry for the murderer if they r*ped tortured killed desecrated their bodies and ate someone in your family who was a child ? if yes please seek help
@@ayahgrig9218it’s human compassion
0:06 all the reasons,not to feel sorry for him,man’s a psychopath
he was not a psychopath. stop spreading stigma about ppl with antisocial personality disorder. to be a fckn killer or even to be an asshole is a choice and the disorder doesn’t automatically make you an awful person.
i dont think these people realized how genuinely sick and scary this man was like ☠️
What he killed someone’s why are u not gaf at all birch that’s the only thing that needs to be said he f killed people like what the f else needs to be said wake up
The victims families are enraged with the series , it apparently focuses on JD in a sympathetic light. Our world is so upside down, and these girls who cried for him … need to be looked into, like you said.
It actually doesn’t. The writer wanted to focus on the victims…
@@lillymurray8408 I was just about to comments this 💯
I think it's more about warning signs in my opinion. And the fact that law enforcement didn't do their job back then just like they don't do their job now.
@@lillymurray8408 Except they didn't even contact their families and made Jeffery Dahmer the main character like he was fucking Dexter or some shit... They didn't care about the victims, they cared about money.
not even you clearly havent watched it
I feel bad for the victims that have to now sit here and listen to people feel sorry for that monster who took away people they loved, desecrated their bodies, AND ATE THEM.
AGREE!! HOW CAN PEOPLE FEEL BAD FOR JEFFERY ..
I agree he was so fucking sick
I feel so bad for the families of the victims
Like bro I had a fucked up childhood too, BUT YOU DONT SEE ME RAPING AND MURDERING AND EATING PEOPLE BC OF IT
If someone told me they felt sorry or that they liked Jeffrey Dahmer, I would simply end everything then and there, we are never talking again. Don't come crying to me when you end up in a similar situation.
These people think that they are in a booktok dark romance💀💀
What if he would have done this to one of their kids?? Feeling sorry for what happened to him is SICK
Okay so I think they feel bad for him because they’re so used to not being invested in movies and shows due to average acting. But because Evan Peters portrayed Jeffrey amazingly well and had the audience so invested due to his incredible acting, that they fell in love with Evan Peters portraying a real life serial killer and mistook it for empathy for the killer. So, when Jeffrey died, due to being so invested and in love with how well Evan played the role, they’re confused and do not understand the effects that Evan had on them, hence why they think they’re messed up in the head for feeling bad for Jeffrey when he died.
In summary, it’s due to immaturity (they aren’t mature enough to fully understand their emotions) and those who have fallen victim of feeling “bad” for Jeffrey, is only because Evan Peters is a very talented actor.
Just my opinion studying a bit of psychology and theatre.
Very well said. I think it's also for a lot of them their first time hearing of this case so they're skewed as you said by the performance. By trying to show us what lead up to the killings in the way of understanding how this can happen, they probably unintentionally created sympathy for him for these people but most who watched documentaries about him first or lived at the time, see the evil that even he felt he was.
Absolutely agree with you. Watching the series and watching the documentaries and his interviews, reading his father's book, and reading the comic book on him made me realize how dark and twisted and depraved his inner world was. I think Evan Peters did a great job but that depravity cannot be fully portrayed or felt unless they see the WHOLE picture.
They are gonna shit their pants when they watch AHS then 😂 Evan Peters is the GOAT
I actually think you got something here. The movies these young people have, and being raised on crap disney channel......the bar is low.
So something they have an actual emotional response to....it must be confusing to them.
Good call!
You forgot the fact that Evan Peters is hot!!! It had an impact
I haven’t finished watching the Netflix series myself, but it seems they made the Dahmer character too likeable. I’m guessing these people have only watched the series and little else about him. Most of what he did to his victims is too gruesome and sadistic to show on tv. Also don’t they realize all the animals he tortured when he was a child as well?
I’d also like to add that feeling sorry for a serial killer doesn’t make you super empathic because that shows a lack of empathy for his victims. I think these people are actually pretty clueless about serial killers and their psychology.
Lol what does that have to do will feeling sorry for his victims you can feel empathy towards anybody
I think it’s darker..I think they’re a little psychopathic
@@roojistanr5015😂🤦♀️
@@Pain_Ito why you laughing lol I’m serious
These people are absolutely the worst of the worst! My 22 yr old daughter was murdered and seeing this B say this makes me want to unalive her myself. How dare she feel bad for a serial killer cannibal!! He is a monster but these people are worse 🤬
dang, are you okay? I hope you and you're daughter are in a better place right now
i’m so sorry for your loss. don’t take their words to heart, and may your daughter fly high in heaven ❤
So sorry my dear
So sorry for your loss. Heartbreaking. Try to pay no attention to stupid ignorant people, they have no idea. Sending love ❤
Sorry for ur loss :(
Omg...im an empath and i feel zero empathy for this monster...this workd is going to shit....
I only felt empathy for him as a kid since his parents were neglectful. But not for him as an adult since he made some truly heinous shit. Same thing for Albert Fish and Marcus Wesson.
It's so messed up that some people actually feel attracted to the SERIAL Killer and not the actor. As a dedicated Evan Peters stan, I will never EVER say I like Jeffrey, or feel bad for him, he deserved to go jail, he even admitted it himself. But next time, say you like the actor and not the person they played (especially if the person is a real life cannibal). The only people I feel bad for are Jeff's victims, the people who feel bad for him and Evan Peters. How about sympathize for the victims, the victim's families and Evan (he had to get therapy after that role) instead of the killer himself?
The fact the actor got more therapy than Jeff himself 💀
This feels so unreal, there is no way people feel sympathy for REAL LIFE serial killer and not feel bad for the victims and the families of the victims😟
It's because they don't, silly. Sit a little and think about what exactly these people were saying, and talking about. Hopefully you'll get it.
@@Allyfynwtf are you talking about sure you can feel bad for his childhood but they saying they feel bad for his death like idc if it was a show or not its still a real life serial killer that did some fucked up shit
@@imnotlumi Read the comment you replied to and actually do what it says. Listen carefully and comprehend.
@@AllyfynSomething tells me that you secretly support the TikTok girls
@@anniesolomon4876 something about you tells me that you like to make a lot of very wrong and unnecessary assumptions about people to make yourself feel superior to them. It's a common allistic trait.
The planet is doomed and my generation is a bunch of idiots. I had to explain to a person why they couldn't go as Dahmer for Halloween even tho "ppl go as killers in movies all the time"
Haha
"In movies"...
in MOVIES. NOT IRL. dude these ppl can’t even tell the difference between fiction and reality.
@@Asmanidoesnotexist2 It's not like school teaches you about Dahmer though. In my opinion most those people probably don't even really know Dahmer is a real killer to begin with. They just watched the series and thought it was cool in a work of fiction. As compared to thinking of that really happening cause that's too scary. And it's not like they lived through that you know. older people remember him, the generation after that got told about him and warned. But the kids in these days wouldn't really hear much about him unless they actually look up serial killers.
@@junrobin9335ok. i highly doubt anyone thinks hes not a real person. even in the show they said and showed real audio of dahmer. cmon now.
The people feeling bad for him are probably more like him than they realize
Agreed
And that’s terrifying to think ab
The worst part is the relatives of victims of these killers see these things too
I feel like that Netflix show manipulated these idiots. They really romantised him. That show never should have been made. We have enough already on dahmer and bundy...
Fr they made Jeffery Dahmer seem like a victim
There's a level to empathy 😭 like WTF???? He was a monster but yeeesss let a Netflix documentary make us feel so sorry for him 🥺🥺🥺. No 🚶🏾♀️ just NO. What's next? Feeling sorry for N*zis??
Right! Like "Hitler was just a misunderstood abused artist... I felt bad that he committed suicide" The more I look at what I said as a joke dead ass looks exactly like what people are saying about Dahmer. I think people forget that he said if he wasn't caught, he would have kept going, if he was still alive he would still be drugging, assaulting, and killing young men and boys. Konerak Sinthasomphone was 14, a literal child who had inappropriate photography taken of him, was drugged, had to live with a hole drilled in his head with acid poured into it until it slowly and painfully killed him while finally seeing the door to freedom slammed in his face. All the people who say that this show "Brought a voice to the victims" always fail to ignore that the show NEVER CONTACTED THE FAMILIES OF THE VICTIMS! How can this show bring a voice to the victims while also not talking to the people closest to said victims. The cognitive dissonance is absolutely astounding.
@@justsomeperson1213 THANK YOU. He showed NO REMORSE for what he did but we have to feel sorry for him? Never. He ab*sed men to make zombies out of them by using dr*gs and pouring hot water in their head it's disgusting 🤢🤢🤢🤢 and the fact that the families of the people he killed weren't contacted for their consent and they have to see some weirdos on TikTok feel sorry for the person who did all this to their love ones is just 🤮
There’s people who already say that and see Hitler as someone cool. Why you censor the word though?
@@Ghøst-n3m6fyt sometimes deletes comments like this when it’s not censored
and human traffickers???...
I feel all of the people who "feel sorry" for JD should spend time talking to the victim's family and friends. Then we will see how they feel.
These next level empathy , omg feeling sorry for serial killers is the new faking disorders 🙄wtf is wrong with people
it's not even empathy, it's just projection and probably narcissism. They think they can relate and help him without even knowing what was wrong with Dahmer. If they had next level empathy, they'd feel for his victims too.
@@apriljk6557 well yes , I was being flippant about one of their ridiculous comments
Bet they are the same people that let the lonely quiet kid sit alone during lunch period
it’s called being human
it’s human compassion
They say IQ is down by 20 points. When she talking about the documentary does she mean the dramatisation? A documentary and a dramatisation are worlds apart?
I remember the dramatisation but I don't think a documentary was made???
9 months late, but there is a kind of docu-series on Netflix. Conversation with a Killer: Jeffrey Dahmer tapes. I'm not sure about any others though.
Some people are just sick in the head.. Feeling bad for a serial killer? That's down right disgusting..
Yes 🫢 wtf is wrong with people
i feel bad that he got the easy way out. he didnt rot in jail and think about how awful of a person he was. how much trauma he caused to the families of his victims. he may have had a messed up past but that doesnt excuse his actions. you cant use your bad past as an excuse to murder, rape, and eat people 😭
i feel like it would’ve happened eventually… no way he would stay in prison for that long without being harmed in some way
He wouldn't have even thought about what he did in the way you would have wanted. He had no conscious so he wouldn't have felt remorse, he probably would have just reminisced on what he did in a sick way. His death was best for everyone, including himself.
Just started the series on Netflix. Watched My friend Dahmer movie a while ago. I’d like that girl to explain the 17 skeletons in his flat as well as the head in the fridge, hand, hearts & other bits in his freezer got into his flat if he was innocent.
No one thinks he’s innocent…. You miss the point
If people watched him in real life after the drama they made, these people would realise they’re sexually attracted to the actor, not the real guy.
I swear, it's like their brains can't differentiate Jeffrey from Evan Peters.
Deadass, even Dahmer would tell this woman he’s messed up.
I personally feel bad for what he went through as a kid but, at the same time it’s not a excuse for his future actions. I think what he did as an adult was sick and depraved.
Actually Dahmer didn’t have a bad childhood. He had two loving parents who stood by him even after he got caught for his crimes. His dad even wrote a book about it. Dahmer is one of these psychopaths that had a certain kind of charisma and charm. He could mislead people in thinking that he was just a lonely guy that couldn’t get a partner without killing him. If you see the real interviews with him it is easy to feel bad for him, he really looks vulnerable and acts like a total normal human being. But don’t kid yourself this man would have made many more victims if he wasn’t stopped. I haven’t seen the series so I cannot judge it but as these people feel sorry for him the actor must have been damn good.
Lol no he didn’t have a good childhood his mom left him alone for months and took his brother away his parents got divorced his mom took pills while she was pregnant and there’s much more you don’t know the whole side of this story
@@mariadonkova2759 Maybe but I saw that his parents and especially his father stood by him for the whole trial. I don’t say they approved of his deeds or thought he was innocent.
@@mariadonkova2759 I don't know anything about Dahmer's childhood, but this person is saying Dahmer didn't had a bad childhood and the things you listed, still don't make for a bad childhood, per se. There are plenty of people who come from a broken home and didn't had a bad childhood. Not even every foster kid was dragged from home to home. That's such a stereotyped assumption.
@@lilitheden748 because they probably felt guilty
@@mariadonkova2759have u done any research on jefffrey at all?
If you can sympathize with a serial killer... you should also be in jail.
Yes, if that were actually the case
sympathizers must be kept in the asylum...🥴🥴🥴
@@isabelhonra8799If they sympathize with a murderer and rapist then yeah.
not necaserely they just need help of understanding of the monster of person that this man was
@@jjofthingzos66 not what?
I felt bad initially when i saw what he went through in his childhood, i felt bad for his father as well, but imagine loosing ur loved one to something like that, it is so haunting.
The only reason why they felt sorry for him was because a hot actor was playing him
These kind of people make me think THEY are psychopaths themselves, to feel sorry for a killer that KILLED innocent people is just downright disgusting
psychopaths lack empathy so i highly doubt it.
I think people are honestly taking things too deep. It's natural to sympathize with the main character in a series and kind of build a bond with them. I think all these people confuse this with feeling sorry for the *REAL Jeffrey Dahmer* . The real Jeffrey wasn't as cute as Evan Peter's, he was *cold and empty* , any of these "empaths" would have immediately shat their pants if they talked with the real Dahmer.
The real Jeffrey dahmer was actually hot
@@bluemountainw1789 I want to send pictures of the real Jeffrey Dahmer but I can't cuz it ain't an option on youtube
There’s this thing called the internet and you can find his pictures on there crazy right?
@@bluemountainw1789 No shit it's what I'm using to talk to you right now, smart thinking. Was what I said not obvious enough? Let me re-type it but more understandable, the real Jeffrey Dahmer was was ugly ass hell, you sure you looked at pictures of the REAL Jeffrey Dahmer and not of Evan Peters? Evan Peters was hot, but not the real Jeffrey Dahmer💀
@@bluemountainw1789 Also, fix your grammar.
As soon as someone hurts her sister or brother she will very quickly stop feeling any sorry or any kind of empathy for the person.
Oh yes I “feel so sad and bad for Jeffery”” poor guy …..fuck no …he was a literal monster ..the worst most scary kind. I do not fear a lot in this world but he and anyone who feels bad for him are scary folks that is for sure. Thanks this was really spot on !
You sound super uneducated you can feel empathy for a persons childhood without finding their actions
As to quote Sheldon Cooper from BBT: “The urge to bang my head against the wall again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again is strong.”
I do feel bad for what he went through as a child and how he struggled with his sexuality but honestly the moment he first killed someone there was no sympathy left. He drugged, r@p3d, tortured, and ate his victims with no hesitation and he enjoyed doing what he did. He drugged killed and tortured a literal kid! He deserved what happened to him. The pain he brought to his victims and their families was horrible. If the Series didn’t come out I bet you no one would feel bad that a serial killer, r@pist, and cannibal died. There is something wrong with you if you feel bad for this man or anyone else like him. He was a sick man with mental problems and that doesn’t excuse killing anyone though. If you should feel bad for anyone it should be all the people he killed and their families. It’s so sick that people actually support and feel bad for him. He viewed people as objects and didn’t regret what he was doing and would have continued killing people if he hadn’t got caught. He was sick and disgusting.
Yep but he’s in hell now fr fr
I'm a True Crime fan, I listen to it while I'm doing household chores or doing my lab reports and honey, when I tell you I have to stop doing whatever I've been doing for the last second because they are talking about the victims and I feel like I'm being disrespectful if I don't listen with my full attention.
The victims deserve respect, fhe families of the victims deserve respect.
You really have to be so unmature to listen to a True Crime podcast or watch a documentary and go "Poor JD 😭"
That's the thing. These people most likely watched the Netflix "documentary" which was just a TV series based on JD. That thing was not accurate whatsoever, and glorified Dahmer and empathised with HIM instead of his victims. And these people fell for it instead of using their brain cells and seeing beyond the director's agenda.
When my parents turn those on, I always have a quiet moment of remorse for them and sometimes pray if I’m not that shocked, if you get what I mean
Dude they are obsessed with Evan Peters I bet
I think the only reason people were upset that he died after watching the movie because he was the only character that was focused on. Subconsciously Jeff was humanized. I noticed I also felt bad for Tony because we got to spend more time with his character than the rest. Its okay to feel bad for someone who has done terrible things. Especially so when that person has no control over the urges they were born with. However, he still chose to make that decision to do the things he did. So thats what makes him a monster undeserving of praise. Most feel bad for what Jeffrey could have been. Its like the villians that you understand why they are where they are and still feel bad that they died when you know if certain things were different he couldve been ok
100000%%% 🙌
I haven't seen it but that's exactly what i was assuming was done with the script. Humanise a monster & people relate, feel sorry for, understand etc. Write the script from the victims & their families point of view & the viewers see nothing but a cold blooded monster. It's how it's presented to the viewers.
This is what the writers wanted, they wanted to humanise him, get people talking about it, get people debating it. The more people talking about it the more people are curious to go watch it & then talk about it with other people & the wheel keeps turning bringing in more money. Tons of people have made shows about him, the same story from the same point of views over & over again BUT this new 1 is different & very successful because of it.
I feel bad that his brain developed the way it did most likely to the 40 plus pills his mom was taking during her pregnancy. Fucked up his cortex definitely. He tried to tell his parents how he felt, someone could of helped him, everyone failed to see that he had serious illness. The fact that he murdered though is unforgivable and he knew what he was doing.
Tony part traumatized me i was not just in tears i even wanna scream n cry
@@kai0tfoool I know right? It's why I look up a lot about red flags in kids that could lead to that outcome. I wanna work with kids and I hope to prevent something like that by covering all bases, from trauma responses in kids, to behaviour that's not normal for kids. Because that's where those things tend to start. Preventative care for stuff like that is so important. But a lot of people who see red flags often don't do anything aside from telling themselves that child is gonna be on the news someday, turning out to be evil. It's something my teachers gossiped about sometimes. They'd bet on what kid would land themselves in jail. And the worst part for me as an adult now, is to see that stuff actually on the news. As a kid back then I couldn't do anything. But as an adult now, I hope I can do something about it.
This hurts my heart my cousin Jamie Doxtator was murdered at 14 by Jeff he was a sick and twisted human being he deserved all the bad that came to him
liar you liar but if that is true i am truly deeply sorry bro i hope you are better now
@@jjofthingzos66might be real, 14 year old james was in fact a victim
Not eveyone lies "bro"
I watched the documentary with my brothers, we had no reaction when he died. I cried when all the victims died, he was a horrible horrible person. Feeling bad for him is insane
She is the perfect girlfriend. You can literally do anything to anyone and she’ll forgive you. If I ever commit a crime I would want a whole jury off Tik Toc chicks like her
Bruh😂
Duuuude! Good thinking.
Facebook yandere group tier post 😂
Imagine going to jury duty and the entirety of the jury, judge and all, were tikokers like this
Those kids won’t even open the jury summons! 😂😂😂😂 They probably have no idea what that is!
I feel that people like this need to discern potential from actuality. Just because someone has potential to change doesn’t mean they will. As you said, plenty of us have had bad childhoods and haven’t further created victims ourselves especially not to Dahmer’s degree. The man himself even said it wasn’t due to a rough childhood or any of that bc he knows and he’s always known he was fucked up. These types of people feeling sorry for him are concerning bc either a) they’re going to unwittingly enable bad people and help create victims bc of the belief that they *will* change bc they *could* or b) they end up a victim themselves and still feel bad for their perpetrator and invalidate other victims. Both scenarios are so incredibly irresponsible and dangerous.
Exactly. A normal brain finds ways to get past it.
A broken brain, be it pushed too far or broken from birth, is not looking for other ways to vent that aggression, fear and pain.
You can feel sorry because your human
****Why do i feel sorry for jeffrey dahmer and why do i think that he was innocent - A resume****
He was a white, blonde blue eyed little angel, with a very calm and soft voice, and so handsome and cute.
This is what they actually mean.
And he specifically targetted non-white people who's stories were glossed over so it's extra easy to not empathise with them.
He does really come off different so maybe they don’t see him as the type of person to do stuff like that
@@Punkrockpenguin2 different in what
@@violetlunna i just mean compared to other serial killers i guess. He doesn't look as creepy or evil. I mean obviously he is though lol
@@Punkrockpenguin2dude have you seen him? He looks fucking terrifying.
It doesn’t matter if he had a bad childhood. It doesn’t justify his actions. Your trauma isn’t your fault but it is your responsibility
True
It’s ok to feel bad for his life as a child because NO child deserves the worse but it’s disgusting to feel bad that they killed him or the monster he became
Maybe its the way Jeffrey was portrayed in the series? Like maybe people sympathize with the actor? Maybe they glamorized this psychopath to much? 🤔😱
You are one of the very few people in this comment section who has used logic, poor people are getting bashed when they're just very confused, it's just the character and actor they feel bad for. Simple TV emotion manipulation.
@@AllyfynSome people do feel bad for the actual killers. I've seen people doing this for killers without TV shows. And yeah, although some only feel bad for the character, it's still not okay to make a tiktok on it.
Yeah, they did overly glamorize him too much, I agree with that. another thing I liked to add, It doesn't matter if he had a bad childhood, or had a mental disorder, or had a personality disorder, because those things aren't what makes someone a killer. The guy was lonely, yes, but a lot of people are lonely and don't end up this way. Just because you have these disorders doesn't instantly make you a killer, and I've had challenges and never ended up doing what this man has done. The disorders or bad childhood might have been a motivator, but he was the one who made the choice.
They fancy the actor
@@Allyfyn nah they're just tolol
These crazy people are exactly what the victims families were afraid of. People were afraid that people would wind up glamorizing him. Sadly and scarily there will always be people who will love serial killers.
Yes there is totally something wrong with those who feel sorry for Jeffery.
Good thing they don't :)
You can feel sorry he turned out that way though. Not feel sorry for what he did and how it ended, but sorry he became the way he was. Wondering if there was a way to prevent something like that from happening.
I feel sorry that he had to go through the childhood he did, but anything after that, no absolutely not.
Anyone who says that they feel bad for Jeffrey dahmer should be put on FBI watchlist.
"WTF is happening on tiktok right now." Sums up our lives every day for the past few years
“Documentary” it was a dramatized tv show that used an actor that everyone drools over for some reason while also re-traumatizing victims families. It’s just exploitative.
I used to find an interest in true crime like that because I could never wrap my head around how someone can just take a life. But now it’s so over saturated more and more with the weirdos that somehow think the serial killers deserve any ounce of sympathy
Its funny how JD himself know what he's doind was wrong and doesn't justify himself for what's he's done but some people just............
Lmao
Oh god. The broad doesn’t even know the difference between a documentary and an adaptation.
Imagine how the victims family's feel about this
I feel sorry for the helpless kid/young teen Jeff who was ignored, abandoned and not given the help he needed, but not the adult Jeff who was able to seek help by himself and instead DECIDED to become the monster that we all know of today.
they’re obviously faking it. people go so far for clout and watching those tiktoks made me angry
This is another level of mental illness
i dont think they are faking it because jeffery did got fan letters /love letters in jail because he looked when social media wasnt a thing. People are doing same thing but now they just got a platform
all of those people don't understand how disrespectful to not only the victims but the victims friends and family ... the best thing to do if you ever feel like this is don't tell anyone because no one wants to know that..
I literally wrote an essay about how bad true crime skews up our perception of the horrible things these killers have done. And how harmful true crime content is for the victims and their families.
Convert it to a video essay, start a channel
Also, he was gay. These ladies wouldn't have a chance at him, which is really what this is.
I had a friend in high school that was obsessed with Dahmer like he was some cute quirky guy…that should have been my flag to run.
I think the issue is 1) most of these people are young and weren’t alive when this shit went down (I had just graduated high school) so they didn’t know the insanity it really was and the crazy people who put him on a pedestal for the wrong reasons back then and 2) Netflix took liberties and glorified Jeffrey’s side of things to make you feel sorry for him. I wouldn’t say I felt sorry for him per se after watching that series, but I wondered if he would have turned out differently had his upbringing been different, had his dad not been so odd and gotten him into taxidermy. I always have those what if thoughts, like what if Hitler would have gotten into art school like he so desperately wanted, we may not have have WWII and the Holocaust. Same principal…
i feel bad for him in the aspect that he never got the help he truly needed and that his childhood was lonely. i however do realize what he did was truly disgusting and needed to be punished. but feeling bad bc he got killed in prison is sickening. rip to all the victims and prayers to the victims families 🙏. his childhood is no excuse for murder and cannibalism.
These people have no empathy. Otherwise they could think of the many victims and their families and feel sorry for them.
13:26 btw! its actually legal to eat ppl in the uk……if you have their consent
What
It's an outdated law and would not be practiced, meaning you wouldn't win in court
Thanks!
thank you!
there’s a website where you can see crime scene pictures and pictures of actual bodies cut up. these people need to see that fr
Lmfaaaoo this is the exact people who are lured and killed by serial killers...
These are girls that will be marry inmates that are doing a life sentence or on death row. SMH
When watching something that has to do with a serial killer(or any criminal)'s past that was awful, i feel bad for them, but then i remember they're a criminal and it dies down to feeling bad for people who go through that and not the criminal.
“Pls don’t Tell me They kill him pls don’t tell me he died.” Treating it like a damn movie smh…
I had a horrific childhood. Never thought of killing, r wording or eating ppl...
7:40 insert karma's a b**ch by Jojo Siwa (ik she's not the original song writer)
My aunt used to tell me stories about the horrid things Jeffrey Dahmer did and it fcking traumatized me to the point where even now I'm super uncomfortable even saying his name. And these sickos feel bad for him?? Tf??
"is it bad i feel bad for jeferry dhamer".......GIRL YES IT IS BAD
He is a certifiable sociopath, literally by THE DAM DEFINITION.
To be honest I think from the series it is very easy to feel sorry for him because they portrayed him as this Joker-type figure, a loner who is misunderstood and is treated poorly because everybody leaves him..I think we all can somehow relate to that..Plus the actor is quite attractive and there were many moments in the series where Jeff appeared to be human and even funny..but it doesnt mean that this is the reality
0:32 😂😂😂😂😂 he entered way too quickly
That girl who said “He dose look like he has autism which makes me sad because he has no help”. She actually needs to get help
I feel bad for child Jeffrey.
Adult, serial killer Jeffrey, is a monster... I understand how he got there, but it does not excuse him.
Hey, Layze…
Thanks for being the sound of logic in this world full of stupid.
agreed
I heard someone say the reason people felt bad for him when they finished the movie/series whatever is because it showed Jeffery’s his life, like what he went through, what his parents did, his home life, his school life, basically a look into his life and because people saw all the bad stuff that happened and the unstable way he grew up made people feel bad despite what he did (HORRIBLE SHIT, PERIOD.) and so how it translated was the fact that they saw his life story and then he got killed in jail (rightfully so, they should’ve pulled out the death sentence card and put him on NEXT ON THE LIST-) and they felt bad because of the fact that they saw what he went through and felt bad for what he went through and then got killed.
I was physically, verbally, and mentally abused as a child and bullied but I ain't crazy and nah the way she was like "I think he was austistic" I was like bitch how it that relevant. Yes serial killers usually grow up with a bad childhood but so do completely normal people who aren't crazy af.
What I feel bad for is society..
How do you not feel embarrassed feeling bad for a fucking killer, a person who took peoples lives? Ridiculous.
The woman at the beginning, dont they know he was gay? They’re talking like they fancy him.