I am currently posting this from Paneras parking lot(yes i am stealing their wifi dont come for me 🤨),Connecticut has a huge power outage so i had to drive 40 minutes to post this.Merry Xmas and i hope u guys enjoy this video,stay safe 🤞🏻
Same honestly they terrify me and the fact that I was SA by a creep like that and he's my grandmother's husband (second one not my grandfather fortunately ) and I have a lot of trauma from that and unfortunately it was recent too and now i have a lot more fear of dudes especially old dudes more than I had before , I also had a creep looking at me very creepy on the bus stop and after that in the bus while I was going home from my other grandparents and I when I walk on the street not really wearing anything much revealing dudes and a lot of old ones won't stop looking at me it's honestly so scary I'm always scared of someone following me or smth bad happening to me because of them and the law in my country is literally awful and corrupt and its on the abusers side and if they get caught they don't even get 10 years it's literally less than that and a lot of women gets murdered here because they decided so set boundaries and cut off the creeps but they get murdered by the same creeps and nothing is done about it or getting SA-d publicly too by creeps (there was even a case where a weirdo decided to walk around a park basically naked with his thing outside around girls and even pregnant women like it's so creepy it wasn't in my town but there's a lot of these here too and I'm genuinely terrified to go outside alone when it's dark )
I grew up in a pedo state, so being harassed was an everyday thing. Especially when I was a young teen (12-15). One time I wore shorts (not even revealing) and I was walking with my bf and that entire day older guys would drive by honking and cat calling, I was 15 and it made me completely uncomfortable. I would get mistaken as my dad's girlfriend literally while I was with my dad, so he stopped wanting to go in public with me. Because of all the attention and creeps I would rarely leave my house, to this day, I still don't, unless I'm wearing really baggy clothes or with my husband, unfortunately, even then it doesn't stop them, sometimes they will hit on me literally in front of my husband. Like recently, when I went out with my inlaws to a bar for the first time, I thought I would be okay with them, instead a group of guys came onto me the whole night, it didn't matter that I told them I was married, or that I was with family, they cornered us at the door when we were leaving and had my inlaws not physically put themselves between the guys and me I can only imagine what they would have done. I was just trying to have a fun night and hang out with my family. Instead, I went home and cried my eyes out to my husband.
To anyone that needs to hear it. No you're not mature for your age, please stay away from people who say that to you. They are predators and you don't want to associated with them
Or maybe you *are* mature for your age--but you do NOT have to go older to find a mature partner! After how many creepy guys my dad's age hit on me throughout my entire teens and twenties (and once recently, ugh), I gave a younger guy a shot (27) and he's my best friend and partner now. Numbers are no guarantee of maturity in either direction. It's way more important to find someone who treats you right and respects and cherishes you than anything else. Find someone who feels like your EQUAL! They shouldn't be fetishizing your age (again, either direction!), they should be seeing you as a person, and being *extra respectful* if you are younger, only being convinced by seeing compatibility over time.
Completely agree, most people that say they're mature for their age 100% aren't, they say this to appeal to older people whether they do it purposefully or not its usually just to sound cool and older but it could be something just like that that can become so dangerous
When I had my first job at 14 I got so many grown men that came in to the store and made me feel uncomfortable, just them giving me weird smiles. But one time some like 80 year old man came in and followed me around, he even went so much as to grab me by the shoulders and tell me how pretty I am.
Oh god, I’m so sorry this happened to you.. I experienced something similar like this, for example grown-ass men staring at my legs, coming too close to me, hitting on me (I was 14 at the time, just like you) and stuff.. I hope this stops, cuz it‘s creepy and disgusting. Also it can affect your mental health, so I hope you feel better with this, cuz it‘s traumatizing.
Good ol WalMart. Ugh that dudes gross. He took those photos to use later and then talked to her like that...I can bet he leaves behind a LONG trail of abuse.
Ya it's really the worst. Im 30 and have the voice of a toddler and I was in line one day and this creep said I had the cutest little girl voice. Then followed up with "Have you ever thought about doing phone work?" Before I could fully process what he'd said the guy behind me was like wtf did you just say to her?! It was just creepy and 🤮
@@crystanick2697 OMG??? hon thats so ick. but like I get it I've always had a tiny voice like I absolutely hate mine but after getting hit on so much (as a minor) I've just been lowering my voice an octive or two. It's easyish for me just bc I used to do a lot of musical stuff (and some singing too) but just to break it down I just knida sound like I'm a bit tired then again having sleepy eyes doesn't help frfr, I'm very expressive though so it doesn't worry me that people think im bored of them. Also ID BE IN SHOCK TOO OH MY LORD IS THAT CREEPY.. stay safe and I hope that creep is in jail because like just imagine what he thinks or does in his own privacy. ICK. 🤮😷
@@crystanick2697 AINT NO WAY. omfg I hope your okay now that is actually terrible I’m so sorry that happened to you 😭😭 smhh I hope that hoe gets jailtime honestly.
I wish all those "Not All Men" people would understand that their statement is still as compatible with "Yes All Women." No one halfway sane has said "All Men." "Yes All Women" is women trying to tell everyone else that we *all* face this kind of harassment! It doesn't have to be all men. The point is for *good* guys to realize, "oh damn, some of us are habitual predators!" People like this do NOT care how any woman feels. They will keep pushing and harassing women until other men slap them down. Women are commodities to these sickos.
So many people say "All men" all the fucking time, I'd understand at some point why they would say "Not all men", because it's literally such a SMALL percentage of men that do this, but people still want to generalize. Yes, men do this. Yes, women do this too. People do care about how women feel until they start the "All men", that's where they draw the line.
“The majority of girls who get harassed are 20+” Oh you couldn’t be more wrong. The average age is younger than 18. In their early teenager years actually. So 12-15
At 12 I was nearly kidnapped, it’s been years and I still remember everything about it, the same man stalked me for nearly 6 months. My family moved out of state to get me away from him. Worst experience ever.
i'm a girl and when i was 14 out with my friend who was also 14 we were at the dollar store buying snacks and the cashier was a 60+ year old man who kept asking my friend if he could rub her shoulders for her and asking if she was single 😬 i felt horrible for her and she brushed it off like it was a common occurrence for her also on another time we were hanging out and eating frozen yogurt an old man walked up and asked if he could feed it to her absolutely disgusting
I've been harassed by guys before (luckily they were my age) but it was nothing compared to what happened to my sister. She told me when she was 14 she was in a field trip to go to the mall and a random middle aged guy comes up to her and starts asking her for sex, like he straight up told her what he wanted which I guess is better than trying to decieve her but still. She managed to get away from him luckily. But I'm wondering where were the teachers at? Like, not only was she a minor, she's autistic (I'm autistic too but she was in a special education program) and they just left her alone, we're lucky that dude wasn't trying to kidnap her or something.
I'm in my fifties and not good looking yet I get married men hitting on me and it's gross. I feel like they think I would be desperate cuz I'm not hot or young. It's truly upsetting. Like how dare my ugly old ass turn them down! True . Weird too.
@mvrchhh well, no..unfortunately it's always been a problem. Not trying to start an argument over that. Lol It just seems like they are a lot more comfortable being very open about being creeps again..and I'm not sure if it's worse than ever now, or if it just feels like it. But I hear all sorts of horror stories from my loved ones that rly make me sit back and ask why..why does this have to happen to people? It's so much pain and trauma and for what? Who does it serve in the end? Nobody gets anything good out of the interaction, but it still happens. I just will never understand.
Im a woman and I actually have been photographed by another woman when I was like 12-14. Yea. On the bus. I wasn't wearing anything special but she pulled out her camera and starting taking pictures of me with the flash on. Idk.
I remember being in a mall bathroom, and there was a mirror right next to the exit. Across from the exit there was a couch where a woman in her 50s was sitting in a red shirt and black pants. I remember getting a weird vibe from her, and I saw her watch me walk to the exit. She was clearly staring at my back area, tracking me as I walked. I wasn’t even wearing anything revealing (black baggy jumpsuit and red shirt) I knew she was watching me, but to this day I have no idea why.
I've been feeling this way for so long...I actually developed agoraphobia to a degree. I have a hard time leaving my house unless I really have to...I am VERY co-dependent on my husband due to past traumas with s.a. He met me as an exotic dancer and I got abused a lot in that field of work, unfortunately. And nobody cares about protecting sex workers..I wish the world wasn't so fuckin scary. I just make sure to take notice whenever anybody is uncomfortable in public and try to help them get away from the creeper. My husband had to do that recently to help a couple of teenage girls at the Wawa gas station...some old creepy guy was making disgusting comments at them, so my husband pretended like he needed directions and asked them how to get somewhere. They thanked him afterwards. I am just glad to see there are good people our there.
I don't get why none of those girls in this situations don't do anything. I'm sry there's no way to put this nicely and I bet it sounds so much more insensitive in writing but call the cops maybe? I'm not blaming them if something happens to them, but it almost seems like they don't want to give it a try to call the cops
@@edayavuz1667calling the cops is likely to make an aggressor angrier and more aggressive. There’s a saying that goes “men are afraid women will humiliate them, women are afraid men will k*ll them.” and it rings true in every interaction. Also, a lot of times cops can’t/won’t do anything because there’s not enough definitive proof of stalking/harassment. Cops unfortunately only tend to do something after a woman has been physically harmed, and even then women are ignored and told they’re overreacting, told they were asking for it.
@@Lara-rm3gs I don't know why you leave the house then. I'm sry it's hard to talk about smth like this through writing but maybe you should just stay home then? You have no safety measures whatsoever. No police, most women prob don't have a gun and even if it might be considered extensive self defense if you actually shoot. Are you rly trusting in your pepper spray? I mean sure calling the police won't be easy either but that's rly the one thing that could realistically help and the fact that it doesn't is not related to the aggressor it's literally the polices fault. Don't let yourself get cornered by the aggressor and police. Either protest for the police to change or honestly don't leave the house imo. I know it sounds harsh but that's just true and that's what it's come to
What do you mean nobody protects "sex" workers? Women shouldn't be exploiting themselves for money in the first place. But then again nobody deserves to be in such a position. As women WE have to do better with taking care of ourselves be it physically or mentally. This is a serious matter, instead of teaching yourself on how to do makeup, teach yourself how to fight, instead of wanting to be a princess with alot of privledge, be someone who's a warrior with alot of knowledge.
I was 12 in the 7th grade when another student who, keep in mind, was around the same age (12-13), decided it was a great day to touch an area he wasn’t supposed to from behind. I was so uncomfortable. I ended up having a panic attack in the bathroom and came to class and was zoned out. It wasn’t the first time I’d experienced something like that. I was 12. It’s not always the older men and women you need to be scared of, but even people your own age or younger.
Oh something similarly to this happened to me too! A few weeks ago a guy my age (17) kissed me without my consent, laid on top of me and grabbed my butt too at a party. Just like you said, sadly anyone can do this to you.. I hope you were able to heal and I’m so sorry you went through this :(
@@LuluPupu-eq3mu yeah :) I’ve talked to my friends, parents and a teacher. I even talked to the guy who did this to me (he said he couldn’t remember anything and couldn’t look me in the eyes) and I said I needed distance and now he ignores me! :) I feel a lot better now and thanks for asking!
I was underage. Like 9-10 years old, sat in a public bus, the bus was passing by red district where sex workers works. A man(old) came up second deck and sat with me. Our thighs touched each other. It’s obvious it’s s3xual harassment. It’s just he dosent move when there’s an empty space nearby. My mum asked me to leave but I was terrified as hecc. She was sitting behind, holding my baby brother, afraid too. He only left when I left. I never took that bus again unless I was older but shyt still gave me trauma.
I once had a middle-aged man approach me when I was on the bus on my way to work. He started out by boarding the lower section of the bus but once he saw me he deliberately came to the upper deck and sat straight across from me, then proceeded to egg me on with deeply personal questions about my love life even going as far to say to hit him up when I broke up with my ‘boyfriend’ (I told him I was 16 btw even though I was in my 20s - I can easily be mistaken as a high schooler). Needless to say I was shaken so much that I had to tell my manager about the interaction when I got in for the day because I was so afraid that he was going to follow me to work (I was wearing my work’s uniform on the bus and it was evident where I was going)
Me and my husband got in a argument, I jumped out the car at a red light, and took off, as I’m walking, some man in a truck was following me, as I was walking ignoring him, he turned his car around, and pulled trying to corner me in, I see my husband, I run right into the car. I couldn’t really talk, I’m never doing that again.
When I was in the early years of my marriage- maybe 27 or 28 years old- I was at this private club we belonged to with my husband and a male friend of ours. I’d gone up to the bar, which was only a few feet from our table, to get a drink. Now, I’ve never thought I was attractive, but the wife of my husband’s coworker thought I looked like Barbie, so take that as you want (sadly, I don’t look like Barbie at 50, I look like a 50 year old Barbie 😂) Anyway, while I’m waiting, this guy comes up to me. He’s in his late 50s/early 60s, short, beer gut, hair sticking out at all weird angles and looking like he hasn’t washed it in a year or more just like the rest of himself. He smiles at me to show me that Sponge Bob has more teeth than he does and what he had left were rotting out. He asked, “Is that your boyfriend over there?” Dear god, this literally filthy old man was hitting on me… Luckily I’m a smart ass. Since I was with my husband and our friend and they both had different hair colors, I looked over at our table and said, “Who… the blonde?!” in a tone that made it sound like “you SERIOUSLY think I’d be with him” before plainly replying “No…” I’m telling you, this guy’s face lit up like Christmas, like he actually thought he had a shot. Then I smiled sweetly at him and said, “He’s my husband…” You never saw anyone look so terrified as he backed away, apologizing profusely, nearly tripping over himself in the process. I’m sure he never did anything so stupid again and either stuck with women his own age in his own league or bathed first before he tried hitting on a woman again 😂
Im glad people are agreeing the age of consent in Hungary is very weird- im myself from Hungary and even if im 16 i dont get "horny and frisky (whatever that means)" towards old men as soon as i turned 14 like wtf thats just so hecking weird what is wrong with people these days? Sexualising young girls much? I dont wanna live in this kind of world bro ._.
In Germany the age of consent is also 14. Furthermore, I've heard that apparently over there you're allowed to shag animals as long as you don't physically hurt them in the act
Aww thanks Layze, love how you understand that plight of women today...I'm 44 and have a 20 year old daughter, and I worry about her every damn day for this exact reason!! I went thru a lot of these sick kind of situations growing up, seemed like there was always a creepy dude lurking around, just making me uncomfortable. No wonder I grew up to be a but case with anxiety lol but seriously Layze, I'm sure we all agree that just you noticing that this is a problem and calling it out- you're the best and much appreciated!! Your sense of humor ain't bad either😄merry xmas everyone,stay safe out there!!!❄🤶🎅🦌🌲🍻☃️🍾❤
Ugh :( my heart goes out to everyone who experienced/experiences this. Guys, gals, etc. I've been sadly experiencing this since I was 16, working in fast food. You'd be surprised how many guys come in for what oughta be a burger and ask for dates/phone numbers. Every day. Happens in phone customer service too!. And not to mention the THIRST of guys in online video games! 🤮😭 IK there are many respectful people online and IRL too so y'all are so appreciated, wish everyone were like you ❤️❤️
Considering that I got hit on multiple times as a teenager from multiple men and I absolutely hate revealing clothes, I'd say that some will hit on you no matter what. Creeps will be creeps regardless.
I’ve had this happen to me at work and when I was out in general. Men old enough to be my dad would ask me personal questions if I was married or had a boyfriend. This one instance they got so persistent I had to lie that I had a boyfriend just to get them to back off. He wouldn’t have left me alone otherwise and it’s a shame there are men who think just because we’re there they can treat us however they want.
I feel u girl once me and my coworker took a taxi to go back home and the old man driving was being so creepy i felt so uncomfortable and told him to drop me off, it was still 30minutes away from where i live. he told me no he would prefer to drop the other guy first so we could come back together alone and he would drop me off at my door. There was no way I’m letting him know where i live so i lied saying my bf is waiting for me inside the mall he dropped me off and wouldn’t drive away until he saw me get in
Drivers do this all the time. Uber drivers, cab drivers. I remember reading somewhere that if you're single, lie. That some men will stop if they think you're with a man (but not if you just say you're uncomfortable), so that's what I do. But 90% of the time if I have to use a service like that, I get those questions. And a coworker of mine actually got stalked by her uber driver. Since he had her address, he started showing up outside her house. She had to file a police report.
ALSO the fact that in a lot of cultures girls get married at A VERY YOUNG AGE IS INSANE, i knew ppl from my class who were part of my culture, they were 14 and engaged.... Im 18 and my AUNT IS WORRIED THAT MY UTERUS WILL FADE AWAY IF I DONT GET MARRIED SOON 💀💀💀💀💀
One of my friends told me that when she was going on a walk with her sister, she saw a old man following them. She walked a bit faster when she saw their house and they got inside on time. She told me that she heard the man groan after they locked the door
Nah, the first story, that man definitely saw her...but he knew she turned around and could see him now. He knew she was in view making a new direction. He knew it was awkward he showed up in same direction and to play it off he wasn't following her and stalled. Then he saw her, heard her about to leave then left with her at a distance but at his disappointment he had saw her with someone and just walked off cause missed his potential opportunity. Also, love your videos so much. You're so likable and funny! 😁
Being followed is so fucking scary. I was being followed and i had to take a random cab just to get away from him. Second time it was on metro and i had to legit call my dad to pick me up at the station. Their creepy stares. We literally want to rub our skin off after getting home to feel somewhat better
When I was 16, I was at The bus stop. This man (around 50) cat-called me and kept asking very personal and weird questions… I saw a store at The end of The street so I ran over there as fast as I could…. The man starter running too but he was too drunk, i went into The store and told the cashier. The kind lady told me I could hide in the storage room and she’d get me when every old man was out of the store. She gave me het lunch and comforted me. I’m so grateful ❤
I hated when I had to run the store I worked at on my own, when I was in my early 20s. I'd get so many creeps coming in that I had to have the shopping centre security on speed dial! I had a code with them too - I'd say the lights aren't working on the second floor, could you take a look. They knew that meant creep, so they'd just hang around and look menacing 😅. It usually cleared the guy out fairy fast! I did sometimes get followed when I left work, but I always managed to lose them in another store etc, then double back and take another route. It was really scary when that happened!!
as a mother of 4 kids I can confirm the mini humans that tried to microwave a pot because I wasn't specific enough that I didn't mean only metal forks are absolutely not mature.
Lol that dude has such a fragile ego, as soon as he gets caught being creepy he calls her a hore for dressing like she wants and blames it on her? Poor excuse of a man.
Listen as a minor (14) I am genuinely scared about these type of dudes , like seriously. That is horrifying that they go for as young as 9 year olds. Honestly watch out girls / young women. And thank you to all the older brothers / fathers and just like random guys who stick up for girls who get caught up in this situation. 7:37 no way he just said that 😟 THATS FUCKING DISGUSTING LIKE SERIOUSLY ESPECIALLY FROM A OLD GUY 🫤
No, if you search it up Its true, I live in Hungary Ok but help me out with this, I can legally do the nasty when Im 14,but can't have license or get tattoos, ect. How does that make sense😂 The age consent in Europe: In Austria, Bulgaria, Estonia,Germany, Italy and Portugal (+Hungary) the age consent is 14 In Czech Republic, Denmark, Greece, Croatia, Poland, Romania, Sweden, Slovakia, Slovenia Its 15 Belgium, USA, Finland, Latvia, Lithuania, Luxembourg and Spain 16 In Cyprus 17 Malta,Ireland 18
“the age of consent in hungary is 14” hungarian here, and while that is true i don’t think anyone actually does that at 14 cause, yknow, it’s weird. and yeah, as a 14 year old we’re NOT mature and horny 😟 plus if there was a deranged ass old man with a 14 year old we ain’t gone take that shit lightly
Another hungarian here and eh, some people do it. Mostly teenage girls who think theyre mature enough to date adult men (they mostly date 18-19 year olds tho, so its not that bad)
@luciferia.1313 i don't mean actual old people, they mostly just date teens/young adults like 19-20 year olds. no kid would dare to even look at 30+ year olds
I'm not hungarian, but i do speak the language and i know people from Hungary. Sadly, one of those people used to be my best friend who dated a 22 year old, when she was only 13. It was honestly disgusting, just hearing the things they would say to each other. And when i voiced my concerns about her relationship, her excuse was that boys her age are just too immature, and that she's almost 14 so it's fine. I cut ties with her after that.
Hi @Layze - since you read every comment, I want you to know it's been kind of a hard day & your video popped up & made me smile. I needed that. Thank you!! 💌 Peace & Love from Oklahoma 💌
I love that Layze did a video on this. He makes me laugh so hard, even though this is actually a serious topic. I can’t even keep track of how many times creepy things have happened to me.
I'm a woman and late to this video but i'll share my two stories. So story 1: (this happened YESTERDAY. I am underage AND i have a girlfriend. keep that in mind.) I was in my Mom's car eating food while she shopped in GoodWill. I finished my food and god bored so I took the keys unlocked the car and started walking across the street to the entrance door. At the same time I opened my door this 30 yr old looking guy opened HIS car door and he started walking quick behind me. He got really close and kept looking at my butt...So I got uncomfortable and walked faster. He was at this point 3 inches behind me...I could hear his freaking breathing. I walk around the store looking for my mom. It was in a public place so he walks off somewhere else in the store...watching me. so I find my Mom and say "Mom." he immediately turns around and leaves. Yet he's by the door entrance standing there. I start panicking so I stay in the store with my mom. We leave and I see his car driving off...I got freaked out and when I got service I immediately texted my gf for comfort. story 2: (this story was at my old city. and I almost got kidnapped. TW for this story: Sexual a$$ault.) I was walking home from the grocery store and I was walking slowly because my leg hurt. I hear a loud motor/motorcycle and I' m like whatever ok. So I keep walking. (My house was up on a hill btw.) I see the motorcycle drive up next to this stop sign across the street from me. He looked really sketchy. army pants, army boots, sleeveless stained shirt and messy hair. I got freaked out so I kept walking up the hill. I step off the side walk and my intuition is like "GIRL WE FINNA GONNA DIE BITCH RUN" im thinking "why am I so panicky." and I turn my head and he's staring at me. When I turn my head back to start walking again I hear the motor again and he drives at full speed his arm hanging out and driving towards me. I panic. I run. I run so fast up that damn hill. when my mom swung the door open and pulled me inside he drove off quick. We called the police and apparently he has been looked for for a few months (7 i think) for sexual a$$ault and attempted kidnapping of young girls. They finally caught him. Thank god. I figured out he had been STALKING ME for MONTHS. im just happy he's gone now. If my girlfriend is reading this, I know we're long distance but thank you for always being there for me. Through my trauma. and the incident yesterday. I'm always here for you. And I love you. ❤
The f*cking audacity that grown ass men have to simply not leave you alone in bright daylight in the middle of a supermarket aisle even tho you’ve repeatedly told them that no, you do not want to be friends with then, no, you won’t give them your number, and the f*cking balls that some other shop patrons must be lacking for them to literally be there in a group, standing 3 metres away from you, make uncomfortable eye contact, but not help out I love people!
Lol the guy in the library was barely even creepy COMPARED to the others. The guy in the WalMart is going to end up murdering a woman, for sure. He was scary.
I’ve had creepy old men start talking to me because they thought I was a minor (I’m not I just look twelve because I had puberty early). They’ve literally tried having conversations with me and talked about we should normalize minors with old men. One even tried “complimenting” me by saying I looked cute and he didn’t care what my mom thought. That’s how young this MF thought I looked. 🤢💀
I’m 19 I just moved to college by myself, I’m from a sweet small town and never had to deal with this stuff until I moved :( it’s so scary and I’m really small I feel like I’m still a kid it’s so sad that I don’t feel safe without a man I trust. I literally can’t go off of campus alone. Guys have no idea the privilege of being independent and safe
Are you okay? Did it get easier? I’m almost done with high school and plan on moving to college alone so I’m scared of experiencing stuff like this. Especially since I’ve had rly bad experiences with grown men like that. How did you get past the fear? Did you have anyone help you or did you have to yourself
I remember when one of my friends was 12, she was recording herself and her friend, just vlogging themselves going shopping and being silly KIDS. You can hear and see someone in the video drive by on the road and slow down, just to whistle at them and catcall them. TWELVE YEAR OLDS. This man sounded very old, it was disgusting to watch. You could even see their facial expressions in the video, you can see how surprised and confused they look, and they even start whispering to each other like "What was that about? Did we just get catcalled?". Absolutely disgusting.
I've already met 2 that did more than “look” and I was so traumatised. I was a nervous person who couldn’t stand up for myself but I did my best to stop them.
Greetings from Hungary, where it's so cultural to be a mom about 11-14 olds to be moms as well . Not everywhere, usually undereducated areas but teen pregnancies rate are just too high. Not to mention childp*rn on the computers of political persons ..
ITS SO ANNOYING WHEN THEY TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU BEING AT WORK BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU HAVE TO BE NICE TO THEM AND THEY ABUSE THAT FACT. I’ve been filmed and photographed whilst just trying to do my job.
@Fred.Carpenter What the hell?! 😐 You’re that cr33py p3rverted old man in that podcast who was talking about the age consent . You’re gross Fred! I saw your other comment and you just.. You need to be locked up like right now.
im 21 but i get told alot that i look about 16 and typically i get followed around stores alot luckily however according to me mom i have a glare that can kill so i seem unapproachable however its still quite a uncomfortable experience
Ugh. My first abusive b/f I was living with. There were so many creepy dudes when I was 19. Reminds me of this...I worked at Wawa (kinda like a 7Eleven). His coworker would harass me. He would harass and embarrass me in front of dozens of people. By the way...that place was about 40 mins from me.
I'm 14, so my grandma said this dude was looking at me. I clearly didn't know since I was on my phone too busy having a discord chat with some friends. he was like 20 or some shit. literally shakes me up ever since my grandma told me.
A few weeks before (I’m 17) I was at a party, hosted by one of my closest friends and some friends of mine were there too. Some of them got really drunk, so did a male „friend“ of mine. During the party, he grabbed my butt multiple times, was laying on top of me and kissed me. I didn’t say anything because I was so scared and shocked, but it really traumatized me to the point, where I broke down crying in class, days later. A teacher spoke to me and I talked to my parents/friends and everyone was luckily supportive. Also I found out, he sexually harassed two other girls. I talked to him, but he told me he couldn’t „remember“ anything and told me, he would drink less. A day later at a party, he was completely drunk again. But he kept distance from me and my friend said, she would never invite him again. I really hope, things like this will stop… And to anyone who‘s experienced something similar: I hope you’ll be able to heal and it‘s NEVER your fault!!
As a girl whose first job was in retail, the harassment from old men was a constant thing. At least once a week an older man would say something or act weird/disgusting towards me. I was a minor too.
As a female, I'm quite terrified of encountering creepy guys. 😰 I usually try to go places with friends or family to stay safer. And if I have to go somewhere alone, I make sure to tell someone where I am.
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As a girl I’m paranoid everywhere I go, I never leave by myself due to the fear of creeps following me cause you have no idea what they are planning to do, physically hate being a girl and wish men would fuck of
Creepy old men need calling out. sometimes they think its innocent. While behind a counter I once had a grown ass 60 year man reach quickly across to try to grab my hands "as he thought i was cold". He acted like well he did it for his little grand daughters...wtf i was 25. I moved before i even consciously realised, back against the wall. I made him put his money on the counter after and slid his change back across. i had to worry about being robbed and creeps. Who tf tries to grab someone across a counter for innocent reasons. He acted so offended but i didnt give in and forgive
when I was 15 I was with my friend (she was 18) to get her groomsmen fitted for her wedding… I turned around and I caught a 40 year old man WITH HIS KIDS sneaking a photo of my behind… and how I knew he was is bc his flash went off!! I didn’t do anything and regret it…. ALWAYS SAY SOMETHING 😭
I remember when at Walmart, my mom needed to grab something so I was left with the cart and a old man was standing with me (he worked there). Moments my mom left, he immediately started walking up to me, amd stopped inches in front of me. He was originally on the other side of the cart, and I was clearly backing up. I actually had to press myself up against a wall just to get any amount of space between us. He was saying something but I didn't respond, luckily he backed off after I didn't respond and my mom came back. We immediately left after that, I didn't tell my mom since I was just so scared and uncomfortable by the situation. I was trying not to cry in front of my mom while in the car, I don't know why the f the guy thought it was a good idea to come over to me to try and start a conversation. He easily could've tried it from where he was originally standing.
It's so funky how the dude said 14 yr old r mature bc they're horny. Like THATS EVEN WORSE! Yk how impulsive u r when ur horny? That shit is soo dangerous
EW! Horny people are SO impulsive. I had a HORNY 14yr or 15yr text me on snapchat and I lied about my age saying I was 18 and they after I said no MUTIPLE times they said "I'm literally so horny you don't get it." And sometimes I think about that interaction and feel really bad for him as it's been awhile, he probably regrets it. I also feel bad for him as I said I was 18! He literally put himself in DANGER because he was horny. I feel so bad for that guy. Although being horny shouldn't be excused for harrasing people, I CAN'T imagine how many times he's put himself in DANGER because he was horny and persistent. I think about that a lot and it just makes my stomach fall, I hope he regrets it and is safer in the future..
doordash driver in his 50s-60s took a pic of me 😭😭😭😭 it shook me to my core. it came out of nowhere and i'm woman in my 30s who's dealt with plenty of harassment. but the idea of some creep having a pic of me 😭😭😭 saddens me so much i was at work at that time and yes, i reported him to door dash
This is why I always encourage any one who’s a bystander in moments like these to bring that energy of “Do you know this guy? Is he bothering you? Do you need me to do something about this?” That creeps and perverts really don’t like to be around lmao! And when you stride up Trans Masc to someone getting harassed just because they decided to present more femme (aka feeling pretty but getting called “A cheap whore” like in the video) dude’s boners tend to retreat once they realize they done goofed and are about to get knocked tf out 😂 But seriously, see something say something is real if you’re a bystander, and if you show your harasser that you’re going to fight back and let everyone know what’s going down, they tend to back down. I am so proud of and applaud all the people in the video that called out their harassers while also gaining evidence of the harassment!!
I am 15 and once I went to the salon with my younger brother for his hair cut , I was waiting outside and I noticed 3 grown man around 25-30 clicking my pictures which made me so uncomfortable that now I don't like to go out and even if I go I cover myself totally 😔
About the first video; it wasn't her brother. It was on news, that just a random guy that she asked to walk her home. I remember one time I was sitting on the bus with my Mom and a dude take a picture of my face, with the sound on. I was fourteen.
I remember last year when I was in the 6th grade (I’m in 7th now) my principal would say to me and my friends “u guys are my favorites” with a grin on his face. Then in the 5th grade he came up behind me and touched me without permission. he rlly creeps me out 😭
Working as a waitress part time I was getting hit on and harassed by guys all the time. I was also approached and hit on whenever I was alone at cafes or bus stops, and I was a minor back then. I always wore baggy clothes and at one point I just started saying I had a boyfriend even if I didn't because there was a bigger chance they would leave me alone. I don't know if it's just the people here or I look like I'm asking for it, but you get used to it.
I'm only sixteen and I already had 4 encounters of men being creepy to me... The first 3 of them were all by the same guy, that lives in my neighborhood in Germany. The last one was in Italy. 1. A dude around 25-35 asked me when I was 11 in a bus after my name and tells my that I'm pretty and asked if I had a boyfriend. Luckily I had to get out at the next stop. 2. The same Dude asked me when I was 14 and swinging on a swing If he can "play with me", smiling like the creep he is. I said no and ignored him and after a while he left me alone 3. Again the same dude, another year later, I was fifteen. This time I was'nt alone. I was eating ice cream with two female friends. He first asked for directions, trying to start a conversation. Then he called us pretty and asked again for numbers. When we refused he again left us alone, but continued to look weird into our direction, so me and my friends quickly left. 4. This was in Italy, I was sixteen and the guy was really old (80 I would guess) It was already dark and we were alone on a bus. He was sitting infront of me. I saw what was on his phone... It was absolutely disgusting and unreal p*rn... He notices me and turns around, smiles and turns around his phone, so I can see it better. I pretended to go out at the next station, but in reality got into the seat right at the front next to the driver... Luckily nothing to extreme, but still, I will never forget these creepy smiles.
I'm 12 and the other day I was walking to the bus stop(it's super close to my house) and this car drove past one time veryyyyyy slowly. I didn't think it was that bad at first but then they did it like three more times. So I started running at top speed to the stop where other people are. After I made it and lots of kids were around in case anything happened, the same car drove past again. I swear I almost had a panic attack it was terrifying. Now i always feel that someone is watching me when I go to the bus stop and I usually run there.
When I was 22 I had just started my current job. An old man (I’m guessing 70-80) came in my office to pay his bill and immediately started being a mega creep and hitting on me (like making comments about how attracted he was to me, that I was the prettiest girl he has seen working there, comments about my body, my hair, eyes. Things like that). Since I work alone, I didn’t have any coworkers around to save me from this weirdo, so I had to just do my best to put up with it and get what he needed done as quickly as possible to get him out. At one point he commented on the fact that he had never seen me there before and asked if I was new, to which I said yes, and he asked if it was my summer job (this happened during the summer obv). It’s my full time job so I told him that and his face changed to kinda confused looking, and asked how old I was. I told him I was 22. Right after I told him that, his face changed to a scowl like he was mad/irritated with me, and literally said “oh… I thought you were 16 or 17” and his tone for the rest of the transaction changed from him being a creep and hitting on me and say gross sexual things to me, to being really short and rude with me. Like I was the asshole for “deceiving” him about my age and was disappointed he wasn’t in fact getting to hit on an underage girl… that whole interaction made my skin crawl. Every time he had to interact with me for any business related things from then on out he was a complete asshole to me too, like he held a grudge against me for being over 18 🙄
Hey guys! I'm a 15 year old girl who has been harassed by two different boys my age, a girl my age and a GROWN ASS ADULT MALE WHO ASKED HOW MUCH I PAID FOR A BBL I NEVER HAD!!!! HELP! Not all men are bad but this world is FULL of creeps. Men and Women!
This is why I dress like a male and act like one when Im in public. My mom is always asking me why I wear baggy clothes and always shaming me for wearing my hair in cornrows. She says I look like a guy. That's what I'm going for, its for my safety.
This is a legit thing, I’m a teenage girl who regularly goes to the gym with my dad. However, I have noticed a lot of old men grin at me or look at me up and down. 😭🙄😡
I am a pretty young girl and just yesterday at the train station I was waiting outside the Men's room for my dad. A man walked over to me, instantly giving me a bad gut feeling. He said hi, and I said hi back to be polite while being fully ready to club this man with my tote bag full of books and a water bottle. He was holding a cigarette and held it out towards me and asked if I wanted to smoke. I declined, and the man began moving away from me and thankfully my dad came out right at that moment. I asked him if we could board the train right away because I didn't feel safe in the station anymore. I had a lingering uneasy feeling for a little while after that and it took a bit to shake off. He might have been trying to be nice to me since I look older than I am but the way he talked and walked were red flags, I don't think he was fully there, possibly high or drunk, I don't know, but it was scary. Just the fear from that must be nothing compared to how these women felt. It's sad that we live in a world like this.
These creeps are so scary as a girl, they just come up to you and start harassing you. The youngest I've ever had someone be creepy to me was when I was FIVE!! FIVE!! And some guy was being a creep. Now I'm Fifteen and they still are so freaky-
@Fred.Carpenter And Men should be held accountable for their actions. Gender is no excuse for disgusting behavior, real men don't hide behind such weak excuses.
That old dude in the bus was so relatable. Public transport is literally old perverts’ hunting ground. Got harassed so many times, and it has nothing to do with countries and cultures. These asshats are everywhere.
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These creeps are my worst nightmare
Same
Honestly just terrifying
Fr
Same honestly they terrify me and the fact that I was SA by a creep like that and he's my grandmother's husband (second one not my grandfather fortunately ) and I have a lot of trauma from that and unfortunately it was recent too and now i have a lot more fear of dudes especially old dudes more than I had before , I also had a creep looking at me very creepy on the bus stop and after that in the bus while I was going home from my other grandparents and I when I walk on the street not really wearing anything much revealing dudes and a lot of old ones won't stop looking at me it's honestly so scary I'm always scared of someone following me or smth bad happening to me because of them and the law in my country is literally awful and corrupt and its on the abusers side and if they get caught they don't even get 10 years it's literally less than that and a lot of women gets murdered here because they decided so set boundaries and cut off the creeps but they get murdered by the same creeps and nothing is done about it or getting SA-d publicly too by creeps (there was even a case where a weirdo decided to walk around a park basically naked with his thing outside around girls and even pregnant women like it's so creepy it wasn't in my town but there's a lot of these here too and I'm genuinely terrified to go outside alone when it's dark )
@@Butterflyonlife I hope your okay, that must have been pretty traumatising
I grew up in a pedo state, so being harassed was an everyday thing. Especially when I was a young teen (12-15). One time I wore shorts (not even revealing) and I was walking with my bf and that entire day older guys would drive by honking and cat calling, I was 15 and it made me completely uncomfortable. I would get mistaken as my dad's girlfriend literally while I was with my dad, so he stopped wanting to go in public with me.
Because of all the attention and creeps I would rarely leave my house, to this day, I still don't, unless I'm wearing really baggy clothes or with my husband, unfortunately, even then it doesn't stop them, sometimes they will hit on me literally in front of my husband.
Like recently, when I went out with my inlaws to a bar for the first time, I thought I would be okay with them, instead a group of guys came onto me the whole night, it didn't matter that I told them I was married, or that I was with family, they cornered us at the door when we were leaving and had my inlaws not physically put themselves between the guys and me I can only imagine what they would have done. I was just trying to have a fun night and hang out with my family. Instead, I went home and cried my eyes out to my husband.
Florida?
@@joltjolt5060 WA
@@joltjolt5060either that or alabama where boundaries dont exist
@@yujinpark8660 Florida's worse.
@@yujinpark8660dont forget about texas
To anyone that needs to hear it. No you're not mature for your age, please stay away from people who say that to you. They are predators and you don't want to associated with them
Or maybe you *are* mature for your age--but you do NOT have to go older to find a mature partner! After how many creepy guys my dad's age hit on me throughout my entire teens and twenties (and once recently, ugh), I gave a younger guy a shot (27) and he's my best friend and partner now. Numbers are no guarantee of maturity in either direction.
It's way more important to find someone who treats you right and respects and cherishes you than anything else. Find someone who feels like your EQUAL! They shouldn't be fetishizing your age (again, either direction!), they should be seeing you as a person, and being *extra respectful* if you are younger, only being convinced by seeing compatibility over time.
My mom says that 💀
correct.....
Completely agree, most people that say they're mature for their age 100% aren't, they say this to appeal to older people whether they do it purposefully or not its usually just to sound cool and older but it could be something just like that that can become so dangerous
@@Therealburntmilksame 😭
Now, that's one smart 9 year old girl. However, it's absolutely heartbreaking to see that old creeps don't have any mercy even towards little girls.
Yup! Glad she tricked him and got away!❤
I’m so happy that she’s ok though
Yeah but there are also little boys who are told they are being too girly
@Rad_Pie yea but this is about predators, not about people being unfair to how other people act. Both is bad but it isn't on the same level
That a good sign of good parenting
When I had my first job at 14 I got so many grown men that came in to the store and made me feel uncomfortable, just them giving me weird smiles. But one time some like 80 year old man came in and followed me around, he even went so much as to grab me by the shoulders and tell me how pretty I am.
omg
Oh god, I’m so sorry this happened to you.. I experienced something similar like this, for example grown-ass men staring at my legs, coming too close to me, hitting on me (I was 14 at the time, just like you) and stuff.. I hope this stops, cuz it‘s creepy and disgusting.
Also it can affect your mental health, so I hope you feel better with this, cuz it‘s traumatizing.
Ew! Whar happened after that?
@soaa_stay9932 I am very sorry that you had to experience that, stay safe
I’m sorry this happened to you
Good ol WalMart. Ugh that dudes gross. He took those photos to use later and then talked to her like that...I can bet he leaves behind a LONG trail of abuse.
I would have whooped his ass 😡
Ya it's really the worst. Im 30 and have the voice of a toddler and I was in line one day and this creep said I had the cutest little girl voice. Then followed up with "Have you ever thought about doing phone work?" Before I could fully process what he'd said the guy behind me was like wtf did you just say to her?! It was just creepy and 🤮
@@crystanick2697that’s disgusting 🤢. I have a little girl who’s about to start preschool and makes me scared because her voice is tiny, so disturbing
@@crystanick2697 OMG??? hon thats so ick. but like I get it I've always had a tiny voice like I absolutely hate mine but after getting hit on so much (as a minor) I've just been lowering my voice an octive or two. It's easyish for me just bc I used to do a lot of musical stuff (and some singing too) but just to break it down I just knida sound like I'm a bit tired then again having sleepy eyes doesn't help frfr, I'm very expressive though so it doesn't worry me that people think im bored of them. Also ID BE IN SHOCK TOO OH MY LORD IS THAT CREEPY.. stay safe and I hope that creep is in jail because like just imagine what he thinks or does in his own privacy. ICK. 🤮😷
@@crystanick2697 AINT NO WAY. omfg I hope your okay now that is actually terrible I’m so sorry that happened to you 😭😭 smhh I hope that hoe gets jailtime honestly.
I legit got hit on at 5 yrs old. "You're so cute I almost don't want to wait"
My mom yelled at the man and HIS WIFE noticed what happened.
You were FIVE and a MARRIED GROWN man said that you…Where did we go wrong in this world?
wtf 😰
Nah wtf good job to your mom
a similar thing happened to me but at like 9 and I was alone , I was so scared fr I hope you're alright and not traumatized by it
WTF
I literally got asked at my job by a male customer once if i had an onlyfans. And if not, i should get one. I felt so violated.💀
Nasty ahh dude
nah jit trippin....
Oh god... Well I hope you're okay..
Oh my gosh he’s so disgusting for that
eww, hell nah
I wish all those "Not All Men" people would understand that their statement is still as compatible with "Yes All Women." No one halfway sane has said "All Men." "Yes All Women" is women trying to tell everyone else that we *all* face this kind of harassment! It doesn't have to be all men. The point is for *good* guys to realize, "oh damn, some of us are habitual predators!"
People like this do NOT care how any woman feels. They will keep pushing and harassing women until other men slap them down. Women are commodities to these sickos.
Not all men comes from habitual predators feeling guilty
Like, yeah, we all know not all men do this, but it’s ENOUGH men. Too many men.
I think they take it personally because deep down they know they have a lot of misogyny to unpack and thdy don't wanna do it so they live in denial
So many people say "All men" all the fucking time, I'd understand at some point why they would say "Not all men", because it's literally such a SMALL percentage of men that do this, but people still want to generalize. Yes, men do this. Yes, women do this too. People do care about how women feel until they start the "All men", that's where they draw the line.
@@aerialwar646”they care until-“ so no they don’t
“The majority of girls who get harassed are 20+” Oh you couldn’t be more wrong. The average age is younger than 18. In their early teenager years actually. So 12-15
im pretty sure he meant that the girls in the video were mostly 20+
Fr tho youngest I was when I got hit on was 7. SEVEN???? LIKE SOME PL JUST HAVE NO CHILL.
Yup.
At 12 I was nearly kidnapped, it’s been years and I still remember everything about it, the same man stalked me for nearly 6 months. My family moved out of state to get me away from him. Worst experience ever.
i'm a girl and when i was 14 out with my friend who was also 14 we were at the dollar store buying snacks and the cashier was a 60+ year old man who kept asking my friend if he could rub her shoulders for her and asking if she was single 😬
i felt horrible for her and she brushed it off like it was a common occurrence for her
also on another time we were hanging out and eating frozen yogurt an old man walked up and asked if he could feed it to her
absolutely disgusting
I've been harassed by guys before (luckily they were my age) but it was nothing compared to what happened to my sister. She told me when she was 14 she was in a field trip to go to the mall and a random middle aged guy comes up to her and starts asking her for sex, like he straight up told her what he wanted which I guess is better than trying to decieve her but still. She managed to get away from him luckily. But I'm wondering where were the teachers at? Like, not only was she a minor, she's autistic (I'm autistic too but she was in a special education program) and they just left her alone, we're lucky that dude wasn't trying to kidnap her or something.
The public school system is a complete joke.
That's beyond scary 😲
I'm in my fifties and not good looking yet I get married men hitting on me and it's gross. I feel like they think I would be desperate cuz I'm not hot or young. It's truly upsetting. Like how dare my ugly old ass turn them down! True . Weird too.
I have similar experiences. No matter your current age, weight, etc. someone will harass you, and it's NEVER flattering.
@@nineteenfortyeight I feel gross when it happens. Thanks for the comment. Hope you have a great Holliday season and a happy and prosperous new year.
You can be a lesbian and they will still try....men just don't take no for an answer nowadays.
@@SpiderLegs666 nowadays? you think they did in the past??
@mvrchhh well, no..unfortunately it's always been a problem. Not trying to start an argument over that. Lol It just seems like they are a lot more comfortable being very open about being creeps again..and I'm not sure if it's worse than ever now, or if it just feels like it. But I hear all sorts of horror stories from my loved ones that rly make me sit back and ask why..why does this have to happen to people? It's so much pain and trauma and for what? Who does it serve in the end? Nobody gets anything good out of the interaction, but it still happens. I just will never understand.
Im a woman and I actually have been photographed by another woman when I was like 12-14. Yea. On the bus. I wasn't wearing anything special but she pulled out her camera and starting taking pictures of me with the flash on. Idk.
WITH THE FLASH ON??? DID SHE HAVE NO SHAME?????
@@Hearts4Chl033 I assume she forgot/didnt notice cause she took quite a few even when I was staring right at her. Zero shame indeed
This is proof that anybody can be a creep and it's so unfair and sad.
I remember being in a mall bathroom, and there was a mirror right next to the exit. Across from the exit there was a couch where a woman in her 50s was sitting in a red shirt and black pants. I remember getting a weird vibe from her, and I saw her watch me walk to the exit. She was clearly staring at my back area, tracking me as I walked. I wasn’t even wearing anything revealing (black baggy jumpsuit and red shirt) I knew she was watching me, but to this day I have no idea why.
@@user-AAAA978 Yep! Still creeps me out thinking about it!
I've been feeling this way for so long...I actually developed agoraphobia to a degree. I have a hard time leaving my house unless I really have to...I am VERY co-dependent on my husband due to past traumas with s.a. He met me as an exotic dancer and I got abused a lot in that field of work, unfortunately. And nobody cares about protecting sex workers..I wish the world wasn't so fuckin scary. I just make sure to take notice whenever anybody is uncomfortable in public and try to help them get away from the creeper. My husband had to do that recently to help a couple of teenage girls at the Wawa gas station...some old creepy guy was making disgusting comments at them, so my husband pretended like he needed directions and asked them how to get somewhere. They thanked him afterwards. I am just glad to see there are good people our there.
I hope you are okay and that it'll get better
I don't get why none of those girls in this situations don't do anything. I'm sry there's no way to put this nicely and I bet it sounds so much more insensitive in writing but call the cops maybe? I'm not blaming them if something happens to them, but it almost seems like they don't want to give it a try to call the cops
@@edayavuz1667calling the cops is likely to make an aggressor angrier and more aggressive. There’s a saying that goes “men are afraid women will humiliate them, women are afraid men will k*ll them.” and it rings true in every interaction. Also, a lot of times cops can’t/won’t do anything because there’s not enough definitive proof of stalking/harassment. Cops unfortunately only tend to do something after a woman has been physically harmed, and even then women are ignored and told they’re overreacting, told they were asking for it.
@@Lara-rm3gs I don't know why you leave the house then. I'm sry it's hard to talk about smth like this through writing but maybe you should just stay home then? You have no safety measures whatsoever. No police, most women prob don't have a gun and even if it might be considered extensive self defense if you actually shoot. Are you rly trusting in your pepper spray? I mean sure calling the police won't be easy either but that's rly the one thing that could realistically help and the fact that it doesn't is not related to the aggressor it's literally the polices fault. Don't let yourself get cornered by the aggressor and police. Either protest for the police to change or honestly don't leave the house imo. I know it sounds harsh but that's just true and that's what it's come to
What do you mean nobody protects "sex" workers? Women shouldn't be exploiting themselves for money in the first place. But then again nobody deserves to be in such a position. As women WE have to do better with taking care of ourselves be it physically or mentally. This is a serious matter, instead of teaching yourself on how to do makeup, teach yourself how to fight, instead of wanting to be a princess with alot of privledge, be someone who's a warrior with alot of knowledge.
I was 12 in the 7th grade when another student who, keep in mind, was around the same age (12-13), decided it was a great day to touch an area he wasn’t supposed to from behind. I was so uncomfortable. I ended up having a panic attack in the bathroom and came to class and was zoned out. It wasn’t the first time I’d experienced something like that. I was 12. It’s not always the older men and women you need to be scared of, but even people your own age or younger.
Oh something similarly to this happened to me too! A few weeks ago a guy my age (17) kissed me without my consent, laid on top of me and grabbed my butt too at a party. Just like you said, sadly anyone can do this to you.. I hope you were able to heal and I’m so sorry you went through this :(
@@soaa_stay9932are you okay? 😕
@@LuluPupu-eq3mu yeah :) I’ve talked to my friends, parents and a teacher. I even talked to the guy who did this to me (he said he couldn’t remember anything and couldn’t look me in the eyes) and I said I needed distance and now he ignores me! :) I feel a lot better now and thanks for asking!
@@soaa_stay9932 no problem! Im happy that youre okay 💕
@@soaa_stay9932im so sorry it happened to me to but then a guy around 30 i was 12 kissed my when I didn’t want to we got him a life sentence in jail
I was underage. Like 9-10 years old, sat in a public bus, the bus was passing by red district where sex workers works. A man(old) came up second deck and sat with me. Our thighs touched each other. It’s obvious it’s s3xual harassment. It’s just he dosent move when there’s an empty space nearby. My mum asked me to leave but I was terrified as hecc. She was sitting behind, holding my baby brother, afraid too. He only left when I left. I never took that bus again unless I was older but shyt still gave me trauma.
I don't upstand how it's S.a can you rephrase it because do you mean 'he touched our thighs'.
Thighs touching is S.A? I don't think so.
Thighs touching Ona bus isn’t anywhere near SA
@@_StrayKidsForever_ sorry, it was sexual harassment(wrong word), because he kept touching my thighs as i was moving inside(near the window).
@@jollygirl94 oh. That’s wrong
I once had a middle-aged man approach me when I was on the bus on my way to work. He started out by boarding the lower section of the bus but once he saw me he deliberately came to the upper deck and sat straight across from me, then proceeded to egg me on with deeply personal questions about my love life even going as far to say to hit him up when I broke up with my ‘boyfriend’ (I told him I was 16 btw even though I was in my 20s - I can easily be mistaken as a high schooler). Needless to say I was shaken so much that I had to tell my manager about the interaction when I got in for the day because I was so afraid that he was going to follow me to work (I was wearing my work’s uniform on the bus and it was evident where I was going)
Me and my husband got in a argument, I jumped out the car at a red light, and took off, as I’m walking, some man in a truck was following me, as I was walking ignoring him, he turned his car around, and pulled trying to corner me in, I see my husband, I run right into the car. I couldn’t really talk, I’m never doing that again.
Also your husband is not Alright.
@@susannehuber3996 How? The hell did he even do lmao?
@@susannehuber3996I mean she chose to jump out the car?
Who the hell jumps out of a car and walks
@@Jasminexrosexoxo me!! 💁🏻♀️
When I was in the early years of my marriage- maybe 27 or 28 years old- I was at this private club we belonged to with my husband and a male friend of ours. I’d gone up to the bar, which was only a few feet from our table, to get a drink. Now, I’ve never thought I was attractive, but the wife of my husband’s coworker thought I looked like Barbie, so take that as you want (sadly, I don’t look like Barbie at 50, I look like a 50 year old Barbie 😂) Anyway, while I’m waiting, this guy comes up to me. He’s in his late 50s/early 60s, short, beer gut, hair sticking out at all weird angles and looking like he hasn’t washed it in a year or more just like the rest of himself. He smiles at me to show me that Sponge Bob has more teeth than he does and what he had left were rotting out. He asked, “Is that your boyfriend over there?” Dear god, this literally filthy old man was hitting on me… Luckily I’m a smart ass. Since I was with my husband and our friend and they both had different hair colors, I looked over at our table and said, “Who… the blonde?!” in a tone that made it sound like “you SERIOUSLY think I’d be with him” before plainly replying “No…” I’m telling you, this guy’s face lit up like Christmas, like he actually thought he had a shot. Then I smiled sweetly at him and said, “He’s my husband…” You never saw anyone look so terrified as he backed away, apologizing profusely, nearly tripping over himself in the process. I’m sure he never did anything so stupid again and either stuck with women his own age in his own league or bathed first before he tried hitting on a woman again 😂
Repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.Jesus died for your sins so that you may be saved.
@@Miranda-bh5bhWHAT??? WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH THIS?????
@@swirlsinthemoon1788shhhh, Miranda’s just having another episode
The smart a$$ part sounds like u have a big ego idk if u didn't mean it like that but yea
How do you not have a million followers yet?? You’re so fucking funny!!
My thoughts exactly! How can we further promote him and help him gain MORE!
IKR
sadly alot of commentary utubers dont have very many subs =( (usually they uave a few thousands) but yeah lazye def deserves wayy more than he has
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Im glad people are agreeing the age of consent in Hungary is very weird- im myself from Hungary and even if im 16 i dont get "horny and frisky (whatever that means)" towards old men as soon as i turned 14 like wtf thats just so hecking weird what is wrong with people these days? Sexualising young girls much? I dont wanna live in this kind of world bro ._.
In Germany the age of consent is also 14. Furthermore, I've heard that apparently over there you're allowed to shag animals as long as you don't physically hurt them in the act
I just assume the aoc at 14 means that minors can consent with only minors.
@@Robohead-z6z no it means that minors can consent to have sex with adults. It's very common all over Europe
@@karolinabradovaoh… I mean America ain’t better since some states aoc is 15 and some is 16, but 14??.. 🫢
@@coconuttwaterrr it's very messed up
Aww thanks Layze, love how you understand that plight of women today...I'm 44 and have a 20 year old daughter, and I worry about her every damn day for this exact reason!! I went thru a lot of these sick kind of situations growing up, seemed like there was always a creepy dude lurking around, just making me uncomfortable. No wonder I grew up to be a but case with anxiety lol but seriously Layze, I'm sure we all agree that just you noticing that this is a problem and calling it out- you're the best and much appreciated!! Your sense of humor ain't bad either😄merry xmas everyone,stay safe out there!!!❄🤶🎅🦌🌲🍻☃️🍾❤
2:21 As a girl who works in customer service, this pretty much sums up the things we encounter on a day-to-day basis
but like….her work attire is BEYOND inappropriate…. i dont wanna be that person bc ik your outfit is not an invitation but sis almost flashed him☠️…
@@violent_violet9I also don’t wanna be that person but I thought the same exact thing
😢like wise . I did it for a while and this is exactly how men can be🤦🏻♀️ girl was pretty not going to lie but one slip her nip would have shown 😮
@@violent_violet9 It Is Nowhere Near Inappropriate. You’re Being Judgmental For No Reason.
Her clothes are irrelevant! Stop blaming the victims of harassment
Ugh :( my heart goes out to everyone who experienced/experiences this. Guys, gals, etc. I've been sadly experiencing this since I was 16, working in fast food. You'd be surprised how many guys come in for what oughta be a burger and ask for dates/phone numbers. Every day. Happens in phone customer service too!. And not to mention the THIRST of guys in online video games! 🤮😭 IK there are many respectful people online and IRL too so y'all are so appreciated, wish everyone were like you ❤️❤️
Considering that I got hit on multiple times as a teenager from multiple men and I absolutely hate revealing clothes, I'd say that some will hit on you no matter what. Creeps will be creeps regardless.
I’ve had this happen to me at work and when I was out in general. Men old enough to be my dad would ask me personal questions if I was married or had a boyfriend. This one instance they got so persistent I had to lie that I had a boyfriend just to get them to back off. He wouldn’t have left me alone otherwise and it’s a shame there are men who think just because we’re there they can treat us however they want.
I feel u girl once me and my coworker took a taxi to go back home and the old man driving was being so creepy i felt so uncomfortable and told him to drop me off, it was still 30minutes away from where i live. he told me no he would prefer to drop the other guy first so we could come back together alone and he would drop me off at my door. There was no way I’m letting him know where i live so i lied saying my bf is waiting for me inside the mall he dropped me off and wouldn’t drive away until he saw me get in
Drivers do this all the time. Uber drivers, cab drivers. I remember reading somewhere that if you're single, lie. That some men will stop if they think you're with a man (but not if you just say you're uncomfortable), so that's what I do. But 90% of the time if I have to use a service like that, I get those questions. And a coworker of mine actually got stalked by her uber driver. Since he had her address, he started showing up outside her house. She had to file a police report.
ALSO the fact that in a lot of cultures girls get married at A VERY YOUNG AGE IS INSANE, i knew ppl from my class who were part of my culture, they were 14 and engaged.... Im 18 and my AUNT IS WORRIED THAT MY UTERUS WILL FADE AWAY IF I DONT GET MARRIED SOON 💀💀💀💀💀
I'm 35 - I was written off as a spinster cat lady years ago. 😂😂😂
turns out the law is the ONLY thing preventing most men from attacking little girls
your uterus will fade? that's not how it works
HELP FADE AWAY?!
your aunt is one of the stupidest people on this planet, that is NOT how that works 😭
7:29 As a Hungarian girl in her late teens, this hurts me.
Stay safe 😢 this hurts me seeing people act like this
Im a hungarian too im in my teen years rn and same. (Jó magyarokat látni layze videója alatt :0)
I’m also Hungarian. But not only Hungary has this, also other countries in Eastern Europe,…
As I remember correctly the first video happened in Russia and the girl was so smart that she dumped that creepy man, thankfully the story end well
Yeah, I’m in Russia right now (I don’t live there, just visiting my grandparents) and shit like that can happen a lot
@@AutumnKatto not more frequent than in other countries, and I’m saying this as Russian
@@crazynicesonya Yeah I know, but I mean like where my grandparents are
I use the scream and freak out meltdown maneuver.
Imagine getting caught being a creep and then calling HER cheap and a wh@re. Meanwhile he’s probably a married man
I actually remember being a child and going to the library I sat next to a guy just like this it was so creepy
One of my friends told me that when she was going on a walk with her sister, she saw a old man following them. She walked a bit faster when she saw their house and they got inside on time. She told me that she heard the man groan after they locked the door
Nah, the first story, that man definitely saw her...but he knew she turned around and could see him now. He knew she was in view making a new direction. He knew it was awkward he showed up in same direction and to play it off he wasn't following her and stalled. Then he saw her, heard her about to leave then left with her at a distance but at his disappointment he had saw her with someone and just walked off cause missed his potential opportunity.
Also, love your videos so much. You're so likable and funny! 😁
Being followed is so fucking scary. I was being followed and i had to take a random cab just to get away from him. Second time it was on metro and i had to legit call my dad to pick me up at the station. Their creepy stares. We literally want to rub our skin off after getting home to feel somewhat better
I’m so sorry! I hope your okay now.
We girls/woman will always have to be extra careful ❤
And we have to take care of each other.
@@susannehuber3996 yus
@@susannehuber3996 100% agreed
@@susannehuber3996depends what women it is and if she's a bad person or not
When I was 16, I was at The bus stop. This man (around 50) cat-called me and kept asking very personal and weird questions… I saw a store at The end of The street so I ran over there as fast as I could…. The man starter running too but he was too drunk, i went into The store and told the cashier. The kind lady told me I could hide in the storage room and she’d get me when every old man was out of the store. She gave me het lunch and comforted me. I’m so grateful ❤
this is triggering so much trauma in me wtf why are they like this????
I hated when I had to run the store I worked at on my own, when I was in my early 20s. I'd get so many creeps coming in that I had to have the shopping centre security on speed dial! I had a code with them too - I'd say the lights aren't working on the second floor, could you take a look. They knew that meant creep, so they'd just hang around and look menacing 😅. It usually cleared the guy out fairy fast!
I did sometimes get followed when I left work, but I always managed to lose them in another store etc, then double back and take another route. It was really scary when that happened!!
layze, i bestow upon you the badge of respect for defending a shit ton of innocent women today. good man 🍷🗿
as a mother of 4 kids I can confirm the mini humans that tried to microwave a pot because I wasn't specific enough that I didn't mean only metal forks are absolutely not mature.
Lol that dude has such a fragile ego, as soon as he gets caught being creepy he calls her a hore for dressing like she wants and blames it on her? Poor excuse of a man.
Facts he looks like an idiot
It's the fact that they have to degrade women to make up for the damage to their ego. Disgusting
Listen as a minor (14) I am genuinely scared about these type of dudes , like seriously. That is horrifying that they go for as young as 9 year olds. Honestly watch out girls / young women. And thank you to all the older brothers / fathers and just like random guys who stick up for girls who get caught up in this situation.
7:37 no way he just said that 😟 THATS FUCKING DISGUSTING LIKE SERIOUSLY ESPECIALLY FROM A OLD GUY 🫤
No, if you search it up Its true, I live in Hungary
Ok but help me out with this, I can legally do the nasty when Im 14,but can't have license or get tattoos, ect.
How does that make sense😂
The age consent in Europe:
In Austria, Bulgaria, Estonia,Germany, Italy and Portugal (+Hungary) the age consent is 14
In Czech Republic, Denmark, Greece, Croatia, Poland, Romania, Sweden, Slovakia, Slovenia Its 15
Belgium, USA, Finland, Latvia, Lithuania, Luxembourg and Spain 16
In Cyprus 17
Malta,Ireland 18
Sorry, I stopped the video to see if any commented on it, I thought you were talking about the age consent😂😂
“the age of consent in hungary is 14”
hungarian here, and while that is true i don’t think anyone actually does that at 14 cause, yknow, it’s weird. and yeah, as a 14 year old we’re NOT mature and horny 😟 plus if there was a deranged ass old man with a 14 year old we ain’t gone take that shit lightly
Another hungarian here and eh, some people do it. Mostly teenage girls who think theyre mature enough to date adult men (they mostly date 18-19 year olds tho, so its not that bad)
@luciferia.1313 i don't mean actual old people, they mostly just date teens/young adults like 19-20 year olds. no kid would dare to even look at 30+ year olds
Depends like if ur with someone the same age, my cousin is 15 and did it w her bf already (Protection was used and we're hungarian)
I'm not hungarian, but i do speak the language and i know people from Hungary. Sadly, one of those people used to be my best friend who dated a 22 year old, when she was only 13. It was honestly disgusting, just hearing the things they would say to each other. And when i voiced my concerns about her relationship, her excuse was that boys her age are just too immature, and that she's almost 14 so it's fine. I cut ties with her after that.
Hi @Layze - since you read every comment, I want you to know it's been kind of a hard day & your video popped up & made me smile. I needed that. Thank you!!
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I love that Layze did a video on this. He makes me laugh so hard, even though this is actually a serious topic. I can’t even keep track of how many times creepy things have happened to me.
I'm a woman and late to this video but i'll share my two stories.
So story 1: (this happened YESTERDAY. I am underage AND i have a girlfriend. keep that in mind.)
I was in my Mom's car eating food while she shopped in GoodWill. I finished my food and god bored so I took the keys unlocked the car and started walking across the street to the entrance door. At the same time I opened my door this 30 yr old looking guy opened HIS car door and he started walking quick behind me. He got really close and kept looking at my butt...So I got uncomfortable and walked faster. He was at this point 3 inches behind me...I could hear his freaking breathing. I walk around the store looking for my mom. It was in a public place so he walks off somewhere else in the store...watching me. so I find my Mom and say "Mom." he immediately turns around and leaves. Yet he's by the door entrance standing there. I start panicking so I stay in the store with my mom. We leave and I see his car driving off...I got freaked out and when I got service I immediately texted my gf for comfort.
story 2: (this story was at my old city. and I almost got kidnapped. TW for this story: Sexual a$$ault.)
I was walking home from the grocery store and I was walking slowly because my leg hurt. I hear a loud motor/motorcycle and I' m like whatever ok. So I keep walking. (My house was up on a hill btw.) I see the motorcycle drive up next to this stop sign across the street from me. He looked really sketchy. army pants, army boots, sleeveless stained shirt and messy hair. I got freaked out so I kept walking up the hill. I step off the side walk and my intuition is like "GIRL WE FINNA GONNA DIE BITCH RUN" im thinking "why am I so panicky." and I turn my head and he's staring at me. When I turn my head back to start walking again I hear the motor again and he drives at full speed his arm hanging out and driving towards me. I panic. I run. I run so fast up that damn hill. when my mom swung the door open and pulled me inside he drove off quick. We called the police and apparently he has been looked for for a few months (7 i think) for sexual a$$ault and attempted kidnapping of young girls. They finally caught him. Thank god.
I figured out he had been STALKING ME for MONTHS. im just happy he's gone now.
If my girlfriend is reading this, I know we're long distance but thank you for always being there for me. Through my trauma. and the incident yesterday. I'm always here for you. And I love you. ❤
Holy shit I hope you're okay- stay safe please!!❤
The f*cking audacity that grown ass men have to simply not leave you alone in bright daylight in the middle of a supermarket aisle even tho you’ve repeatedly told them that no, you do not want to be friends with then, no, you won’t give them your number, and the f*cking balls that some other shop patrons must be lacking for them to literally be there in a group, standing 3 metres away from you, make uncomfortable eye contact, but not help out
I love people!
Fr so annoying ugh
You never know how scary it is until you experience it.
Lol the guy in the library was barely even creepy COMPARED to the others. The guy in the WalMart is going to end up murdering a woman, for sure. He was scary.
Real, the library dude was just a horny old guy compared to the dude at Walmart
I’ve had creepy old men start talking to me because they thought I was a minor (I’m not I just look twelve because I had puberty early). They’ve literally tried having conversations with me and talked about we should normalize minors with old men. One even tried “complimenting” me by saying I looked cute and he didn’t care what my mom thought. That’s how young this MF thought I looked. 🤢💀
Omg that's so sad...
I hope your ok now (this is so fucking sad)
but even tho ur were a minor, that would still be creepy, i hope ur alright, i cant imagine to what u went through
The way he’s taking photos of nude girls on a flip phone 💀💀and smiles after 💀💀
💀💀💀💀💀
I’m 19 I just moved to college by myself, I’m from a sweet small town and never had to deal with this stuff until I moved :( it’s so scary and I’m really small I feel like I’m still a kid it’s so sad that I don’t feel safe without a man I trust. I literally can’t go off of campus alone. Guys have no idea the privilege of being independent and safe
Are you okay? Did it get easier? I’m almost done with high school and plan on moving to college alone so I’m scared of experiencing stuff like this. Especially since I’ve had rly bad experiences with grown men like that. How did you get past the fear? Did you have anyone help you or did you have to yourself
I remember when one of my friends was 12, she was recording herself and her friend, just vlogging themselves going shopping and being silly KIDS. You can hear and see someone in the video drive by on the road and slow down, just to whistle at them and catcall them. TWELVE YEAR OLDS. This man sounded very old, it was disgusting to watch. You could even see their facial expressions in the video, you can see how surprised and confused they look, and they even start whispering to each other like "What was that about? Did we just get catcalled?". Absolutely disgusting.
I've already met 2 that did more than “look” and I was so traumatised. I was a nervous person who couldn’t stand up for myself but I did my best to stop them.
Greetings from Hungary, where it's so cultural to be a mom about 11-14 olds to be moms as well . Not everywhere, usually undereducated areas but teen pregnancies rate are just too high. Not to mention childp*rn on the computers of political persons ..
NAH RAISE THE AGE OF CONSENT NOW PLS 😭🙏
I ACCIDENTALLY SAID LOWER, OMG
@@終一と創what.
@@stillanewsiesgirl I MEANT RAISE IT
@@stillanewsiesgirl IM A MINOR, 13 to be exact
@@stillanewsiesgirl forgive me bro 😭🙏 I was tired
ITS SO ANNOYING WHEN THEY TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU BEING AT WORK BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU HAVE TO BE NICE TO THEM AND THEY ABUSE THAT FACT. I’ve been filmed and photographed whilst just trying to do my job.
@Fred.Carpenter What the hell?! 😐 You’re that cr33py p3rverted old man in that podcast who was talking about the age consent . You’re gross Fred! I saw your other comment and you just.. You need to be locked up like right now.
im 21 but i get told alot that i look about 16 and typically i get followed around stores alot luckily however according to me mom i have a glare that can kill so i seem unapproachable however its still quite a uncomfortable experience
Ugh. My first abusive b/f I was living with. There were so many creepy dudes when I was 19. Reminds me of this...I worked at Wawa (kinda like a 7Eleven). His coworker would harass me. He would harass and embarrass me in front of dozens of people.
By the way...that place was about 40 mins from me.
I love your videos, only time I laugh 😂 i swear your thought process is scarily similar to mine!
thank you so much for the superthanks,its a dream come true to find people with the same thought process as me 😂
"I wanna mow your lawn for free." Whilst he presses his pickle against the door. I dont think he was talking about the front yard......😂
Thank you Layze for reacting to these kind of videos!
I'm 14, so my grandma said this dude was looking at me. I clearly didn't know since I was on my phone too busy having a discord chat with some friends. he was like 20 or some shit. literally shakes me up ever since my grandma told me.
A few weeks before (I’m 17) I was at a party, hosted by one of my closest friends and some friends of mine were there too. Some of them got really drunk, so did a male „friend“ of mine. During the party, he grabbed my butt multiple times, was laying on top of me and kissed me. I didn’t say anything because I was so scared and shocked, but it really traumatized me to the point, where I broke down crying in class, days later. A teacher spoke to me and I talked to my parents/friends and everyone was luckily supportive. Also I found out, he sexually harassed two other girls. I talked to him, but he told me he couldn’t „remember“ anything and told me, he would drink less. A day later at a party, he was completely drunk again. But he kept distance from me and my friend said, she would never invite him again.
I really hope, things like this will stop… And to anyone who‘s experienced something similar: I hope you’ll be able to heal and it‘s NEVER your fault!!
As a girl whose first job was in retail, the harassment from old men was a constant thing. At least once a week an older man would say something or act weird/disgusting towards me. I was a minor too.
For someone who’s cousin was diagnosed with ADHD, dyslexia and dysgraphia this is just nasty and I hope nobody is doing this anymore
As a female, I'm quite terrified of encountering creepy guys. 😰 I usually try to go places with friends or family to stay safer. And if I have to go somewhere alone, I make sure to tell someone where I am.
How does Layze only have 50k followers? People are sleeping on Layze! Is it because he isn’t in any drama? SMH! We love Layze over here! The Hubby even likes his videos & he doesn’t watch You Tube much!
As a girl I’m paranoid everywhere I go, I never leave by myself due to the fear of creeps following me cause you have no idea what they are planning to do, physically hate being a girl and wish men would fuck of
Creepy old men need calling out. sometimes they think its innocent. While behind a counter I once had a grown ass 60 year man reach quickly across to try to grab my hands "as he thought i was cold". He acted like well he did it for his little grand daughters...wtf i was 25. I moved before i even consciously realised, back against the wall. I made him put his money on the counter after and slid his change back across. i had to worry about being robbed and creeps. Who tf tries to grab someone across a counter for innocent reasons. He acted so offended but i didnt give in and forgive
when I was 15 I was with my friend (she was 18) to get her groomsmen fitted for her wedding… I turned around and I caught a 40 year old man WITH HIS KIDS sneaking a photo of my behind… and how I knew he was is bc his flash went off!! I didn’t do anything and regret it…. ALWAYS SAY SOMETHING 😭
I remember when at Walmart, my mom needed to grab something so I was left with the cart and a old man was standing with me (he worked there). Moments my mom left, he immediately started walking up to me, amd stopped inches in front of me. He was originally on the other side of the cart, and I was clearly backing up. I actually had to press myself up against a wall just to get any amount of space between us.
He was saying something but I didn't respond, luckily he backed off after I didn't respond and my mom came back. We immediately left after that, I didn't tell my mom since I was just so scared and uncomfortable by the situation. I was trying not to cry in front of my mom while in the car, I don't know why the f the guy thought it was a good idea to come over to me to try and start a conversation. He easily could've tried it from where he was originally standing.
It's so funky how the dude said 14 yr old r mature bc they're horny. Like THATS EVEN WORSE! Yk how impulsive u r when ur horny? That shit is soo dangerous
EW! Horny people are SO impulsive. I had a HORNY 14yr or 15yr text me on snapchat and I lied about my age saying I was 18 and they after I said no MUTIPLE times they said "I'm literally so horny you don't get it." And sometimes I think about that interaction and feel really bad for him as it's been awhile, he probably regrets it. I also feel bad for him as I said I was 18! He literally put himself in DANGER because he was horny. I feel so bad for that guy. Although being horny shouldn't be excused for harrasing people, I CAN'T imagine how many times he's put himself in DANGER because he was horny and persistent. I think about that a lot and it just makes my stomach fall, I hope he regrets it and is safer in the future..
My mom is Hungarian so hearing my favorite UA-camr is talking about hungry is very surprising to me
doordash driver in his 50s-60s took a pic of me 😭😭😭😭 it shook me to my core. it came out of nowhere and i'm woman in my 30s who's dealt with plenty of harassment. but the idea of some creep having a pic of me 😭😭😭 saddens me so much
i was at work at that time and yes, i reported him to door dash
This is why I always encourage any one who’s a bystander in moments like these to bring that energy of “Do you know this guy? Is he bothering you? Do you need me to do something about this?” That creeps and perverts really don’t like to be around lmao!
And when you stride up Trans Masc to someone getting harassed just because they decided to present more femme (aka feeling pretty but getting called “A cheap whore” like in the video) dude’s boners tend to retreat once they realize they done goofed and are about to get knocked tf out 😂
But seriously, see something say something is real if you’re a bystander, and if you show your harasser that you’re going to fight back and let everyone know what’s going down, they tend to back down. I am so proud of and applaud all the people in the video that called out their harassers while also gaining evidence of the harassment!!
I am 15 and once I went to the salon with my younger brother for his hair cut , I was waiting outside and I noticed 3 grown man around 25-30 clicking my pictures which made me so uncomfortable that now I don't like to go out and even if I go I cover myself totally 😔
Kinda scared the age of consent in my home country is 11, I'm crying for thos young girls
WTF WHERE THE HELL DO YOU LIVE? that needs to be changed. It needs to be at LEAST 16, minimum
OH SHIT ITS NIGERIA-
As a Nigerian, it just shows how disgusting the leaders and some citizens are.
Dam there is some countrys with no consent age im literally crying because a 4 year old Can get yk😭
About the first video; it wasn't her brother. It was on news, that just a random guy that she asked to walk her home.
I remember one time I was sitting on the bus with my Mom and a dude take a picture of my face, with the sound on. I was fourteen.
Predator : "age is just a number"
Pervert : "girls are just a person"
Me : "and jail is just a place"
The only time I’ve ever been hit on was when I was a preteen by creepy old men
I remember last year when I was in the 6th grade (I’m in 7th now) my principal would say to me and my friends “u guys are my favorites” with a grin on his face. Then in the 5th grade he came up behind me and touched me without permission. he rlly creeps me out 😭
GIRL THATS ILLEGAL TELL SOMEONE 😭😭😭
The fact that he's a principal which means he's around kids a lot is just scary
I had a gym teacher that called girls sexy… no he wasn’t fired. Thank god that Covid cut my seventh grade year short…
NAURRRR TELL SOMEONEEE!!! 😭😭😭
@@MetryTwintails IM STILL RLLY SCARED😭🥲
Working as a waitress part time I was getting hit on and harassed by guys all the time. I was also approached and hit on whenever I was alone at cafes or bus stops, and I was a minor back then. I always wore baggy clothes and at one point I just started saying I had a boyfriend even if I didn't because there was a bigger chance they would leave me alone. I don't know if it's just the people here or I look like I'm asking for it, but you get used to it.
That first guy was looking for an opportunity to kidnap her.
I'm only sixteen and I already had 4 encounters of men being creepy to me... The first 3 of them were all by the same guy, that lives in my neighborhood in Germany. The last one was in Italy.
1. A dude around 25-35 asked me when I was 11 in a bus after my name and tells my that I'm pretty and asked if I had a boyfriend. Luckily I had to get out at the next stop.
2. The same Dude asked me when I was 14 and swinging on a swing If he can "play with me", smiling like the creep he is. I said no and ignored him and after a while he left me alone
3. Again the same dude, another year later, I was fifteen. This time I was'nt alone. I was eating ice cream with two female friends. He first asked for directions, trying to start a conversation. Then he called us pretty and asked again for numbers. When we refused he again left us alone, but continued to look weird into our direction, so me and my friends quickly left.
4. This was in Italy, I was sixteen and the guy was really old (80 I would guess) It was already dark and we were alone on a bus. He was sitting infront of me. I saw what was on his phone... It was absolutely disgusting and unreal p*rn... He notices me and turns around, smiles and turns around his phone, so I can see it better. I pretended to go out at the next station, but in reality got into the seat right at the front next to the driver...
Luckily nothing to extreme, but still, I will never forget these creepy smiles.
I'm 12 and the other day I was walking to the bus stop(it's super close to my house) and this car drove past one time veryyyyyy slowly. I didn't think it was that bad at first but then they did it like three more times. So I started running at top speed to the stop where other people are. After I made it and lots of kids were around in case anything happened, the same car drove past again. I swear I almost had a panic attack it was terrifying. Now i always feel that someone is watching me when I go to the bus stop and I usually run there.
When I was 22 I had just started my current job. An old man (I’m guessing 70-80) came in my office to pay his bill and immediately started being a mega creep and hitting on me (like making comments about how attracted he was to me, that I was the prettiest girl he has seen working there, comments about my body, my hair, eyes. Things like that). Since I work alone, I didn’t have any coworkers around to save me from this weirdo, so I had to just do my best to put up with it and get what he needed done as quickly as possible to get him out. At one point he commented on the fact that he had never seen me there before and asked if I was new, to which I said yes, and he asked if it was my summer job (this happened during the summer obv). It’s my full time job so I told him that and his face changed to kinda confused looking, and asked how old I was. I told him I was 22. Right after I told him that, his face changed to a scowl like he was mad/irritated with me, and literally said “oh… I thought you were 16 or 17” and his tone for the rest of the transaction changed from him being a creep and hitting on me and say gross sexual things to me, to being really short and rude with me. Like I was the asshole for “deceiving” him about my age and was disappointed he wasn’t in fact getting to hit on an underage girl… that whole interaction made my skin crawl. Every time he had to interact with me for any business related things from then on out he was a complete asshole to me too, like he held a grudge against me for being over 18 🙄
“It’s Friday free mows”
“But it’s Wednesday”💀😭😭😭😭
"...Doesn't matter! 😀"
Hey guys! I'm a 15 year old girl who has been harassed by two different boys my age, a girl my age and a GROWN ASS ADULT MALE WHO ASKED HOW MUCH I PAID FOR A BBL I NEVER HAD!!!! HELP! Not all men are bad but this world is FULL of creeps. Men and Women!
Ain't no way he asked if you had a BBL 😭 I'm pretty sure you gotta be an adult to get plastic surgery anyways
How dumb is he 💀
This is why I dress like a male and act like one when Im in public. My mom is always asking me why I wear baggy clothes and always shaming me for wearing my hair in cornrows. She says I look like a guy. That's what I'm going for, its for my safety.
9:17 I WAS SOO SATISFIED WHEN SHE SAID THAT
EXACTLY SHE ATE
she was savage✨
I remember a little old man gave me kissy faces on bus once. I was a teenager at time. Freaked me out.
This is a legit thing, I’m a teenage girl who regularly goes to the gym with my dad. However, I have noticed a lot of old men grin at me or look at me up and down. 😭🙄😡
What’s with the emojis 😭😭
@@S3YKOCH4N my emotions 😭
I am a pretty young girl and just yesterday at the train station I was waiting outside the Men's room for my dad. A man walked over to me, instantly giving me a bad gut feeling. He said hi, and I said hi back to be polite while being fully ready to club this man with my tote bag full of books and a water bottle. He was holding a cigarette and held it out towards me and asked if I wanted to smoke. I declined, and the man began moving away from me and thankfully my dad came out right at that moment. I asked him if we could board the train right away because I didn't feel safe in the station anymore. I had a lingering uneasy feeling for a little while after that and it took a bit to shake off. He might have been trying to be nice to me since I look older than I am but the way he talked and walked were red flags, I don't think he was fully there, possibly high or drunk, I don't know, but it was scary. Just the fear from that must be nothing compared to how these women felt. It's sad that we live in a world like this.
im crying rn, humans are really something
Boothill pfp spotted
Humans really are something tho
The lack of respect some men have these days
These creeps are so scary as a girl, they just come up to you and start harassing you. The youngest I've ever had someone be creepy to me was when I was FIVE!! FIVE!! And some guy was being a creep. Now I'm Fifteen and they still are so freaky-
@Fred.Carpenter And Men should be held accountable for their actions. Gender is no excuse for disgusting behavior, real men don't hide behind such weak excuses.
That old dude in the bus was so relatable. Public transport is literally old perverts’ hunting ground. Got harassed so many times, and it has nothing to do with countries and cultures. These asshats are everywhere.
As a women, thank you for making this video I have had so many creepy interactions with men. It should never be normalised some men literally scare me