Her mom is sick in so many ways. She craves the attention & money that her daughter gets. I didn’t feel bad for Eugenia at first, but imagine being completely manipulated & isolated by your own narcissistic mother, no matter the risk to you. I get why people say she knows what she’s doing. But sometimes people don’t realize exactly how harmful & malicious their statements & actions are when being manipulated. She can’t be at full cognitive capacity when she is that malnourished. Even let’s say the mom isn’t that horrible, even if her mom doesn’t support but doesn’t object, she is still enabling her illness. Eugenia may never recover, but the whole situation is horrible.
You got that right? She’s definitely not at full cognitive ability she’s been emaciated since she was a child and her mom is partially responsible and a big part.
People saying about a person with ED "they know what they are doing" are literally just describing the illness. It's intentional starvation/dangerous caloric deficit. They may as well pull out a bullhorn and yell "I have no empathy and blame ill people for being ill! How dare they!" If they are angry about her having an online following filled with ED fetishists, consider too that seeking validation "that you are that skinny, that you are that sick" is also l i t e r a l l y part of the illness. I reiterate, it's so much easier to say to someone "well if you stopped being sick you'd stop being sick, you're just choosing it at this point". "Stop being depressed then you won't be depressed." "Just stop being anxious then you won't be anxious." I also know that water is wet, but how do you dry off when you are drowning in the ocean?
Im just a retired nurse and I've seen people in the nursing home who refuse to eat and look better than Eugenia. I want the best for her, but I feel it's too late, at this point, refeeding her could kill her . Wishing her the best and so much love.
Working with hospice patients, totally agree.. I’ve seen people who have hardly eaten hardly anything in weeks (sometimes months) and they were still in better condition than Eugenia.
@@akemifoxx2115 I know it wasn’t me you asked but she’s been starving for so long. Her body would not expect food, it would likely throw off all sorts of vitamin levels and her heart could give out because of arrhythmias you can develop from it. Her heart is likely already extremely weak from starvation, so so much shock to her system and changes can cause refeeding syndrome. If you want to look it up, that can explain it way better than I can here lol.
Can you explain about the danger of trying to refeed her? I know some about eating disorders but I never knew refeeding was dangerous at a certain point.
It’s not like she just became thin one day either, I think she’s been tiny since day, one and gradually gotten more skeletal. I think that’s partly why she still around because it’s so sustainable for her, not that it will keep going that way.
As sad/bad as this might sound I really do think she's now beyond help. How she's still able to walk around or even stand is mind boggling to me. She is literally just skin and bones now, not a gram of fat on her. We have seen celebrities with the same ED to not make it.
The people I knew that ended up surviving and staying in recovery never got that thin but they did live the rest of their lives with things like heart damage. She could hypothetically survive with intensive treatment but like my friends still end up with permanent damage.
@alexacarrillo4339 I mean it could be possible but sadly I do think she's kinda beyond help. Sadly once you get to a certain point the amount of damage that's caused internally can be too much. Just got to look at the likes of Karen Carpenter or that influencer who wasn't that bad and in recovery but her body couldn't handle the damage from the excessive weight loss. Its just so sad because I remember watching the video from 4yrs ago and altho she still looked tiny she actually looked healthy and now she's just a skeleton that can talk 😞 Well done to your friends who have managed to beat such a horrible illness and I hope they are living full life
She has said she doesn’t want or need help, and ya she is too far gone with her ED. Thing is, she also knows exactly what she’s doing, and it’s all about getting this very kind of attention. She basically sold her health for the money and attention. Any kind of attention is still attention. She’s had opportunities to get help but it’s obvious she didn’t put her all into it. At this point others have done more to try and get her help than she has done herself. Honestly people need to stop giving her all this attention, it’s the ONLY thing she feeds off of. It comes down to, you can’t help someone if they won’t help themselves. She needs to be deplatformed so she doesn’t keep up her nonsense and basically killing herself in front of all of YT.
@@petsmart1000 it is sad that the people I know who have gotten treatment have done things like max out credit cards and all sorts of things so they can stay here on earth with their families. I cashed in my savings bonds from college that were intended to be rolled over into retirement but EC has the money for treatment and doesn’t think she is anything but healthy. She does know what she is doing with the body checking etc but I strongly suspects she thinks she can live this way forever with no ill consequences.
Her mom probably wanted to be skinny, but she's a bigger woman so she's taking it out on her daughter. That is so sad. I hope she gets charged with neglecting her daughters health like this.
@@taylors445yes!! I've been saying this too. Everyone talks about her mom but her dad is just as bad! He turned a blind eye to it all. Sure he's away working all the time but he's definitely just been avoiding getting involved atleast from the outside looking in thats what it seems like
Its very sad how an almost 30 yrs old adult is stuck in a 15 yrs old goth girl mindset.. It sucks how a mother can film her daughter slowly dying infront of her eyes and do nothing
That’s the last of her worries, some goth people are adults, that doesn’t matter and that life style doesn’t have an age limit 😑, she was far deeper issues than what you’re saying
As a mother, I cannot fathom watching my daughter existing (barely) like this. I also could never imagine going onto social media and telling everyone that she’s totally fine and just a skinny Minnie. Like what Deb? If she wanted to, she could petition to have her declared legally mentally incompetent and Deb could force her into treatment, even if just to prolong her life just a little bit. She seems to enjoy this too. I can’t fucking deal with Deb. It’s awful.
@@elkdwvn I think her mom is so controlling and manipulative that Eugenia was under so much pressure in so many ways that she developed her eating disorder. Pair that with social media, attention, money, etc… Eugenia probably wanted control over what she could control because Deb probably controlled and definitely still controls most of her life. And she’s making money off of her disorder, which seems to appease Deb. She seems completely unconcerned that her daughter is on deaths door. 😞
@@FabiolaRVela Some adults prefer to be childish but also can be a responsive adult when the time comes...or as people say they are called a child at heart and having fun. Dont know why people critisize adults for being them and having fun in their own way..... nothing wrong with it and I do agree she has bigger issues than just that.
Her mother is an evil person... like what the actual fuck?! Either she is mentally very VERY ill or she is just the devil in person. How can you support the death of youre own daughter.
They need to fucking call an ambulance for her and not let her out of the hospital until she's stable. Enough is enough. She looked sickly forever now.
At some point, you have to realize that you can’t save someone who doesn’t wanna be saved. She’s been given help, people have reached out, and she still chooses to live like this. It’s sad
This👏. I have a friend ( off topic+ she’s a nice person) bro. She has the victim mentality. She would make up problems. Like if I’m talking to a girl. She would start telling everyone oh how lonely she was and how mean was I. Also she would go to other places during our Both had free period together and when one day I went to talk to my friend , she sat in the group of her twin sisters friends and started talking about how I ignore her all the time. Besides. I moved out for studies I’m 16 rn so I’m homesick all the time. She lives with her nice family and say she can understand better. As she misses her grandparents. GURRRRL. IM MISSING MY FKN HOME THE PEOPLE I GREW UP WITH. THE PEOPLE WITH WHOM I SHOULD BE LIVING RN. But anyways I’m done with hs almost. Will go back take a break and block everyone from this school.
It's true that it absolutely requires a will to thrive in the person you're seeking to save. If their mentality is so broken/hurt as to have just collapsed with no will to build a future, no one can force them, it's impossible. If she was 5150'd into a psychiatric ward permanently, it's possible she'd survive a few more decades, or maybe the depression of losing her freedom would actually finish her off. At a juncture like this, there's no clear path for anyone around her, it's just clear that she is the one with the final power over what manner her life continues, or doesn't.
The reason we expect family members to "force" them into treatment is because at this level of disorder the brain is *literally* starved and unable to function properly. She can't choose to help herself because her brain is actually incapable of seeing the problem. Involuntary treatment may seem harsh but it's necessary at this point as she cannot view the situation rationally and her family has the responsibility of doing what's best for her. They have actively chosen not to do so, essentially condemning her to death.
Sadly you cant help someone that doesnt want to be helped. ECs cousin tried but ECs mother manipulated ec into thinking that the cousin was a bad person.
It's hard to leave abusive situations for maaaannnnyyyy reasons. Even if someone in a very similar situation found it easy to leave, that doesn't mean it's easy for her. It's really really hard usually to escape abusive relationships and/or living situations.
@@alexia3552 ive heard ECs parents were filthy rich even before her yt career so she could escaped and she did escaped but alas she got manipulated by her mother.
‼️🆘️ THE REAL TRUTH: Eugenia is a HOSTAGE FOR PROFIT. Her mom, DEBBIE COONEY is running this show now. She turns all help and police away because DEBBIE IS BANKING OFF OF EXPLIOTING her daughter. ANYONE WHO CAN HOLD DEBBIE ACCOYNTABLE will save a life. . call adult protective services because theres proof On Camera her mom is mentally, emotionally abusing her to keep her dependent and under control to make a fortune.EUGINIA ISNT ALOWED to have friends, a car, a job, a doctor, therapists, vacation,school, a boyfriend , no privacy- DEBBIE WONT LET HER LEAVE she has Munchhausens Syndrome (shown in the movie The Sixth Sense: the mother who kept her daughter poisoned and thrived off all the sympathy and attention- Even enjoying it at the funeral. In real life : Gypsy Rose Lee KILLED her mom to escape- now she doesn't need a wheelchair or Anything. ITS HER MOTHER WHOS ENABLING THIS. SHE CALLS CONCERNED FANS " HATERS , TROLLS, AND JEALOUS" . she repeatedly tells Eugenia she's Fine, and Eugenia has NO ONE TO HELP HER GET AWAY. HER MOM IS KEEPING A FORTUNE- DONT LET HER GET AWAY WITH MURDER, EUGENIA IS BEING KILLED. She Has never given diet tips, Told anyone to count calories, Endorsed being thin as "better", recommended excersize, throwing up, SHE DOESN'T TELL ANYONE TO DO ANYTHING UNHEALTHY. She's trapped and dying for help. PLEASE LOOK AND THINK ABOUT IT- viewers called the police on Euginia , her mom turned them away because EUGENIA IS THE VICTIM. DEBBIE SHOULD BE ARRESTED FOR ABUSE. NO ONE CAN DENY THESE ARE ALL FACTS. PLEASE PROVE ME WRONG. And save this girl from being EXPLIOTED and KILLED for views.
Same. She disgusts me now. Not because of the way she looks I'm not body shaming, but because of her intentions and lack of concern for what she's glorifying.
The fact that her mom just sat there for all those years and has done nothing. Even went as far as to try and sue the person who got her daughter help, it’s just beyond me. I know for a fact if that was my child I would make sure she got help and love and support from me. I could never just watch my child slowly become nothing but a skeleton. It’s disgusting that she has done that and it has cause her daughter to be they way she is.
I struggle to believe that the mom isn't on the receiving end of Eugenia's paychecks, it's a tale as old as showbusiness the story of a parent using their child as slave labor. Maybe I'm completely wrong and there's a whole backstory I don't know, but it's like hearing hoofbeats and guessing horses, not zebras. And if that's the daily life Eugenia's living, that makes her attachment to any fleeting positive words from an online following as strong as a drowning person's grip on their last lifeline. Even if they're mistaken and they're pulling themselves further down into the water, that desperation is not to be negotiated with when you feel like you're starving for air.
Well not quite, this is considered as self harm, plus she is somehow promoting or influencing this look onto young people. I absolutely think she should be banned
Former ED patient here, my guess is that she’s soaking up all of the attention that’s focused on her weight/health, it means she’s succeeding and probably trying even harder bc the attention and discussion is never enough, you have to keep topping it. She’s also making more $$ with more focus on her.
@@user-uy8wo5yp7k I very much understand it. And it is sad. I don’t think you’ve seen any of my other comments on this video or you’d know I’ve had an eating disorder for over 15 years. As a mother though, too, I can’t imagine just sitting back like Deb, defending Eugenia saying she’s fine. If my daughter was doing what Eugenia is, you can count on me to be going in front of the judge to get her declared mentally incompetent and take over her ability to make decisions for herself until she got better and she’d be put in treatment. She might be angry at me for it, but she’d be alive. Does Deb want Eugenia to die? Like honestly, how can she just sit there and do nothing? Eugenia clearly is not mentally competent and is in no condition to be making decisions for herself as it’s obvious that her decisions are going to put her into the grave sooner rather than later.
As much as we on the internet find this appalling and can't-look-away, oh-god-won't-someone-do-something, you're absolutely right that videos like this are just profiting off her illness and feeding it at the same time. I am in no way saying that those making videos about Eugenia have that intention, that's just the net result. The only meaningful conversations and choices about her health that can be made are by Eugenia herself and the people closest to her. It's uncomfortable to realize we don't have control in this situation of any kind, no matter how much we blame her for "choosing" this sickness or no matter how much good info we put out about ED, how much we sympathize, how much we lecture, how much we love, how much we hate, we can't control her. It's very uncomfortable to feel out of control. But we are.
To me it's painful to see her this its not okay to use your mental illness to keep success on social media, It's so concerning to know someone could think of such. I hope she gets help because this is no laughing matter she's so sick.
This whole situation makes me angry. How can a parent encourage their child (now adult child) to starve to death, keeping them under lock and key? (How is Debbie gonna stuff her face when Eugenia dies and the meal ticket is gone forever?)
@j.artiste8596 I didn't know they came from money. It's still disturbing. If the family encouraged recovery and this was still the result, this situation would look completely different.
I don’t feel bad anymore , she’s old enough to know what she’s doing . If anything I’m furious at her for influencing other young girls . She’s going to pass any day now , a skeleton can’t survive that long . And I’ve reported her account 50 thousand times and social media platforms do nothing it’s disgusting. Even though on their report page they have a disclaimer they don’t allow ED content and it’s beyond beyond obvious she has an ED. The cops who are friendly with her especially the one should be ashamed by himself saying “well she told us she’s ok and she likes chicken sandwiches “ are you serious ??? What kind of cop are you ? You should be trying to save her life not holding her hand while she slowly un Alives herself ..
She looks 20’yrs old from when she got out of rehab vs present day. This disease is killing her in so many ways! I pray she goes peacefully is all I can say at this point.
Unfortunately and sadly people with the severity of disorder that Eugenia has has such a low rehabilitation rate. She’ll more than likely succumb to her disorder and die.
She knows what she’s doing. She does not want to get better. She sees this as her succeeding. Everyone is worried, the starving is paying off, everyone is talking about how small she is, how tiny she is, how skeletal she looks. She loves it. That’s why she continues to show off her body, checking herself in the camera. She is negatively influencing young women. I’m glad when my ED started, I didn’t know who she was. Young women idolize her and want to look like her. This whole thing is sickening and it’s wild that we’re all here for the ride because she’s refusing to leave social media.
This is so accurate. I mean she can’t even film herself without staring into the camera the entire time. She was vlogging herself learning to drive and it was horrible trying to watch her sneak as many glances at herself as possible while barely looking at the road. Sadly I think we’ll all be a witness to her last moments because she’s constantly on Tiktok live. She’s at serious risk for a medical emergency and with how her mom encourages and exploits her, I don’t see her recovering any time soon 😕
@@taylors445 Exactly. It’s sad but honestly, she’s gotta be completely suffering. I don’t want her to pass, but I almost feel like it would be a relief for her. And a lesson to her fans on what can really happen when you engage in those behaviors. Hopefully, her death won’t be in vain entirely.
Her ED is negatively influencing HER first. Everything you just described are the symptoms of ED. It's like saying someone got kidney disease specifically to hurt other people. Some illnesses have collateral fallout, like influenza. It's no less sad to see people around affected by the ill person, they matter dearly, just as does the ill person in question. If we want to help cure the cultural drivers of EDs in young women, attacking _this specific very psychologically sick young woman_ as the means to achieve that end is not only going to be ineffective, it's directly cruel and is sacrificing as a scapegoat one of the very people you purport to care about.
She really should be kicked off all platforms. She isn't okay. And at this point she's feeding off the attention. She really needs help. I hate seeing her like this especially after she came back looking better
I think its disgusting how she hasn't been banned before now. So many young girls are influenced by her. I get she needs help with her mental health issues but everyone who watches her stuff is just feeding her illness. I personally have never watched (aided) her UA-cam career but she's even creeping into peoples feeds who have never followed her. Her mother should be ashamed of herself.
She's not banned on any platform. She gets "temp bans" on tik tok but never last long. Literally maybe a couple hrs or a day! 😱 Then back as usual. No one cares to do anything, including her local police. They went on record stating EC is fine. They've known her over a decade. AND to top it off apparently they watch her videos and if EC puts "a certain object" in vid that means she is in trouble. Sure Jan. I'm sure the police are on top of watching her on SM daily?! Smfh.
When I tried to skip meals, my dad would notice and would threaten to take away stuff I loved. Like my tablet or computer privileges. Eugenia's mom could do the same thing, but at this point, if she actually cared, she would have an open and HONEST conversation with her and get her the help she needs. Also, yes, I know Eugenia's like in her late 20s or early 30s, but she was living by herself at one point with her brother as a roommate. She could leave if she wanted to. She's scared because her mom is controlling her. Food is her only control, but her mom doesn't care. They both need help.
That’s not how you stop an illness, especially one this bad. You don’t punish that kind of behavior because that kind of behavior is already a punishment in its own. And to punish her for not eating would just turn the anorexia into hidden bulimia. Way too many things go wrong with negative reinforcement. She doesn’t need her mom to take away her twitch, she’s 30 years old. She needs her mom to simply acknowledge her illness and help her get treatment. She needs positive reinforcement. And she needs independence.
@alexisvanauken2434 you make valid points but did you just skip over where I said "at this point" referring to the fact that negative reinforcement would probably only work in the beginning of trying to skip meals like my situation. I literally said at this point that she needs to have an open and honest conversation with her, and they BOTH need help
She NEVER admitted to having an ED…that’s the issue. If you watch the Shane Dawson video they tip toe around the topic and even her own return video she said she “wasn’t taking care of herself.” She does, however, say that she got screwed by her former friends for the 5150 and says that she didn’t even need to go. I am honestly surprised she is still alive.
No need to be rude about the mother's weight, and it's actually pretty wild to directly fuel the fires of ED mentality by yet again associating body size with morality and worth ON A VIDEO about how we hope Eugenia can survive ED. You want to help her and people like her survive ED? Please do not do that.
we all know it's her mother doing this for clout she's been doing this for years brainwashing her and saying how the world is fat but I really hope she gets better soon
As someone recovering from ED, my family watched me waste away.. nobody could help me until I looked in the mirror as saw how disgustingly sick I looked and wanted to change.. it’s a very difficult illness to treat and her social media is her income and she’s making money off dying.. if I was her I wouldn’t see much reason to change.. if everyone would have left her alone and stop giving her a paycheck off her illness she may have had a chance..
Just started watching but wanted to add that Eugenia was NEVER a voice for ED awareness, she's never admitted to it. All she's ever done is body checking.
Agreed! And in the Shane documentary, she BARELY admitted she had a problem, the only thing she admitted to was being hospitalized due to her friends' concerns. She mainly just implied she wasn't eating enough/wasn't taking care of her body and never outright said she was battling an ED. @@WixenWooFromWhoville
Her mother is a terrible person and something tells me she might be religious and this plays into why she acts like there's nothing wrong with her daughter. Reason i say this is because i've seen parents like this before who are completely out of touch with reality when something clearly bad is going on and they refuse to do anything about it because of their religion and belief that everything will be okay with their faith in god.
@2:05 Eugenia didn’t open up abt her ED until after her 5150 rehab when she did that docu-series with Shane. Before then, she was doing the same thing with saying she was okay and nothing was wrong with her health or completely ignoring the comments all together. Her recovery only lasted a couple months before people realized she had relapsed. Edit: @6:19 The only reason her Kingdom Hearts Kairi Cosplay vid got 8m views was because it was the last vid she uploaded before she was sent to rehab. NOWHERE in the video does she claim to be “going away for a while” nor does she mention ANYTHING in relation to her health. After abt 3wks people started speculating if she was in rehab and started leaving positive/hopeful responses. 6mos later she makes her return in July of 2019.
it’s sad cause people want her to be better but she clearly doesn’t WANT to be better even tho she NEEDS to. but people need to remember she was promoting anorexia on tumblr years ago…she knows she has an issue, and still promoted it in a glamorized light. this girl is beyond help as sad as it is to say that.
I honestly do feel like she's beyond help. The best anyone can do for her is report her youtube and social media. It sounds bad, but she always plays the fake nice victim any time anyone says something to try and help her. I can't watch her hurt herself and harm any impressionable people who watch her.
I’m so worried about this girl. I have an ED myself and it’s hard to imagine getting to such a bad place. I hope she gets better and gets away from her mom but I unfortunately don’t see that happening
I also hope she gets better and I hope you do too! You sound like your aware you have a issue and that's great! You need to find some help that will help you properly so you don't get too far. You deserve the best in life and a Ed isn't the best at all! I'm rooting for you, you beautiful human✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️
I am someone with a parasitic and controlling mother like this.....i won't go into the years of mental abuse, her covering up everything, gaslighting me and others to believe she wasn't the one doing anyhing wrong...but seeing Eugenia's mother triggered soooo much anger and pain for Eugenia.... Now it makes sense that this is partially Stockholms Syndrome!! This is why she can't get help! That woman grows FATTER and RICHER every day in her daughter's face to torment her, not just us. The police and courts sadly need to get involved....because there is blatant abuse happening here.😥 I really hope there is a way for intervention to occur, because if Eugenia succumbs to this, guess who is going to be on tv and writing books, soaking all the attention??? MOM...vile evil woman...
Looking at her tiktok, her legs are still turning purple and her eyes are still turning yellow. I’m guessing her brain is also suffering due to the lack of healing
Can't heal if her body is not getting the needed nutrients to help her body function properly, her organs are slowly suffering from dehydration, and lack of blood flow. She doesn't even drink water...
WOW, she's lost all her muscle now as well as any fat. The BIG problem with this is that your heart is also a muscle. I also noticed she now sounds like an old lady... without the strength to push enough air when she speaks. She was put on a 5150 a few years ago. Not sure why nobody is doing anything NOW... when she is worse than ever! 🥺
It literally pains me to see this Eugenia Cooney is slowly dying Infront if us and it's terrifying to watch and i honestly can't, I those comments on her videos saying she looks great or amazing are actually incouraging her to become even worse . Hope she gets better soon 💞💗🖤😭
Even people who has never been her fan (like me) are worried and praying for her... I dont want this girl to die. She is too young, she has so many years ahead to fix whatever she is going through. And yet... she is surrounded by enablers. I dont get why someone can be ok with her current state. Especially her mother!!!!! If something happens to Eugenia, she'll face some dire consecuences.... I just.........
The craziest part was the day she was with Jacqueline, there was a swat team and tons of cops that showed up at her house in ct( source; live near and also still in the paper) they blocked off the entire road and thought there was a dangerous kidnapping/ hostage situation.... so I think Deb probably called 911 and was freaking out convincing them a real hostage or kidnapping situation was going on at the house and then left house before cops showed up unnecessary wasting time, resources and scaring people.
Her mom depends on Eugenia having an ED so she can depend on her. It's for control. I saw a video where her mom said "she's fine I took her to doctors she's fine" her mom has Munchausen's and it's killing her daughter
I've been watching her vids since the start. Now I more check up on her, but honestly at this point she's sold her soul to the devil. How to is she still alive with so much energy??
Tbh I don't feel bad for her. We told her she needs help but she wants to use a her ed for fame and clout like- We are trying to help you, it's not safe to be like this SMH :/
I check every day on Tik Tok to see if she's still alive because her circulation issues have increased. It's sad that she sees and blocks all the comments from fans wishing for her to get treatment, but as many people have mentioned the lost hope makes it feel like she doesn't have much longer. She also tends to do Tik Tok live battles and thousands of people feed into the delusion and give her money, the image she has painted is not good for the ED, recovering community , and or even minors.
I literally have to turn away every time there's a body shot. Like, I can't even look. This is scary and I'm afraid she's going to die in front of us. I don't understand why people get brainwashed into thinking that she's fine. No she's not fine. Enabling this type of disorder is essentially the same thing to me as someone cutting themselves to feel something and people normalizing g and supporting that. For me there's not that much of a difference
@@shiivaxx3065 I think she struggled with actually saying the words but she admits right in the beginning of the Katie’s video (I shared the link here) that she knew she had a problem, talks about her weight and not wanting to trigger people with the number and how she had decided with her mom to go to a treatment center to get help. I believe in the Shane Dawson. Idea she comes out and says the words. I’m not sure if you caught the very long live with Jeffrey and EG tonight or not but he talked very clearly about how she’s staying with him for a while and the plan is to help her. It sounded legit and heartfelt and he said that she had opened up to him a lot on the first day she got there about her problem, I feel like if anyone can get her to see the light it is him. Let’s see what happens I hope she chooses life.
Mental illness is horrible. I know everyone has their own story but my family member was anorexic and had body dysmorphia . They went ten years looking at the mirror and the reflection was a very sick, overweight horrible person. She may not see she has an issue. Of course she knows she’s thin but mental illness always wins unless treated :(
This is Deja-Vue for me! Reminds me of the most beautiful and talented voice of a kind person: Karen Carpenter. HOWEVER, so much more is known about this 'situation'. (as I am thoughtful of my wording here). WHY? Is this continuing?
Everyone needs to hit the "do not recommended " button. But, I'm glad influencers are making videos, especially ones pointing out her mom's actions. She's probably going to die on a livestream and make platforms lots of money. I wonder if they allow it for someone in the dark web. It's scary to think about how it will effect the children watching her. That's who I truly worry about.
She knows what she is doing. And there is nothing anyone can say or do about it. She made her choice, so it's best to not give her any attention on every social media. Just ignore her. She doesn't want anyone sympathy from us. It's sad but that is what she wanted.
She was made to be put into recovery a while back and seemed to be getting better. Then she hopped back on social media and went back to her old ways. She is now FAR from recovery. If she even lasts a couple more years it’ll seriously be a miracle. She is not well
Instagram deleted my account because I LIKED a comment that said something like “she needs to be removed from social media” ….. wtf? Said I violated community guidelines right after I liked the comment
No offense Anna much love but seriously a friendship is stronger than a mom? I'm not surprised she's sticking with her mom. Friends come and go. When she dies UA-cam should get a big lawsuit for not shutting this down and letting this get to this point. People enjoy watching people fall apart. A really sick world.
I am surprised that TikTok bans comments that have the words "stupid" and "dumb" while they have Eugenia's profile proudly on her tiktok page promoting an eating disorder. I agree that she needs to be banned from social media so that she can change her ways and eating habits.
Its still not eugenia that want’s all of that. But her mom, and still her mother who is using her daughter for money. Its the mother who knows the reactions eugenia gets its the mother who wont let her daughter go anywhere by herself? There locks on the front door? And backdoors in their House and its not normal ones.. it sad that this brainwashed woman is the one getting the blame, hate, when its the mum? The mum even made her strip in a boutique to try on Clothes.. and what Does the mum say to all of this? That her daughter is fine?!. Eugenia has Been neglected, and her mum has made her think she looks normal while slowly dying.
I have that eating disorder and it’s just disgusting that people are using a SEVERE disorder to get famous. It makes me so sad because people like me want to get better:(
I know this may sound bad to say, but I'm surprised that she's still alive. With her mindset being stuck and her habits being the exact same for all these years. It's a miracle that she's still even here. I honestly don't know what can help her because I feel like her going into healthy eating habits could send her body into some sort of shock due to her not being used to it. I'm so worried about her and i'm wishing her the best.
The mother I am quite sure has life insurance on Eugenia, that's why she doesn't care ... especially after her friend tried to help her, boom she blew up. Sad.
Nikki Graham passed away and was trying to get better. This girl really had better watch herself because when it comes time to eat her body won’t be able to cope with the food intake necessary.
@@morbidbrat she’s been anorexic since she was a teen and if you did your research it’s actually her mum encouraging her to be like this. Without her mums influence she’d literally get better.
The saddest part of all of this is that Eugenia is SUCH a sweet , soft girl. I used to watch her ALL the time. As someone who REALLY is naturally thin it used to be refreshing to see someone with my body type be healthy and happy. I’m just so disappointed. She could’ve been a beacon for others struggling , if only she was just honest with herself and her community . I don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors , but it’s something sick and dark. And she’s still making millions. I just don’t understand why social platforms haven’t taken a hard stand against this. We’re literally watching her die everyday.
I feel like her mom should have a restraining order put against her or be jailed for causing harm to her own child. She has the power to help & chooses not too. It’s disturbing to see this whole situation play out & be completely helpless to stop it. Her mother is sick, whether it’s a legit condition or her own sick preference, there should be something someone can do.
Any amount of recovery inspiration she has provided to others (which is very little) has been massively trumped at this point by her adamant denial and gaslighting of those trying to help her. Yes, she did admit that she had issues eating (after being forced into rehab when she didn't want to go) but after that singular interview in which she admitted it she then turned around and said she only did that bc she had a script written out for her by her lawyer and she didn't agree with anything she said in the interview. Yes, she deserves recovery and life but she has never been any kind of advocate for recovery in any sense of the word.
ABSOLUTELY agree. we all just want her to get well, tho. none of us want to wake up one of these days soon and find out she succumbed to her illness. everyone just wants to see her be accountable to herself for once : fuck the rest of us. she needs to do it for HERSELF.
Back when she was way better, I used to watch her because I liked her voice. But I never noticed that until like years later. I just hope she gets better
i feel so concerned for her i hope she gets better i also used 2 have an ed an ik how hard it is 2 recover but shes rlly like super skinny so i rlly hope she gets help.
I hate to say this but it’s time we realize it might be too late to help her this time. It’s worse When she has a mother who encourages and supports her being like this. Her mother doesn’t care that she’s encouraging her child to slowly k*ll herself.
Welp, her body her problem. People around her tried to help her and she still declined each and everyone of them. Just let her fade away. She'll get forgotten just like everyone else and the world will move on without her.
Her mom is sick in so many ways. She craves the attention & money that her daughter gets. I didn’t feel bad for Eugenia at first, but imagine being completely manipulated & isolated by your own narcissistic mother, no matter the risk to you. I get why people say she knows what she’s doing. But sometimes people don’t realize exactly how harmful & malicious their statements & actions are when being manipulated. She can’t be at full cognitive capacity when she is that malnourished. Even let’s say the mom isn’t that horrible, even if her mom doesn’t support but doesn’t object, she is still enabling her illness. Eugenia may never recover, but the whole situation is horrible.
You got that right? She’s definitely not at full cognitive ability she’s been emaciated since she was a child and her mom is partially responsible and a big part.
the Munchausen by proxy is strong in that one
Mom is a narcissistic bitch. Zero empathy. My kom I a narcissistic bitch and I've been in hospital several times. Mother never visited
She's admitted she's in heart failure but it isn't a big deal afor her
People saying about a person with ED "they know what they are doing" are literally just describing the illness. It's intentional starvation/dangerous caloric deficit. They may as well pull out a bullhorn and yell "I have no empathy and blame ill people for being ill! How dare they!"
If they are angry about her having an online following filled with ED fetishists, consider too that seeking validation "that you are that skinny, that you are that sick" is also l i t e r a l l y part of the illness. I reiterate, it's so much easier to say to someone "well if you stopped being sick you'd stop being sick, you're just choosing it at this point". "Stop being depressed then you won't be depressed." "Just stop being anxious then you won't be anxious." I also know that water is wet, but how do you dry off when you are drowning in the ocean?
Im just a retired nurse and I've seen people in the nursing home who refuse to eat and look better than Eugenia. I want the best for her, but I feel it's too late, at this point, refeeding her could kill her . Wishing her the best and so much love.
Working with hospice patients, totally agree..
I’ve seen people who have hardly eaten hardly anything in weeks (sometimes months) and they were still in better condition than Eugenia.
Wow! Can you explain why refeeding her could kill her?? I'm really curious
@@akemifoxx2115 I know it wasn’t me you asked but she’s been starving for so long. Her body would not expect food, it would likely throw off all sorts of vitamin levels and her heart could give out because of arrhythmias you can develop from it. Her heart is likely already extremely weak from starvation, so so much shock to her system and changes can cause refeeding syndrome. If you want to look it up, that can explain it way better than I can here lol.
Can you explain about the danger of trying to refeed her? I know some about eating disorders but I never knew refeeding was dangerous at a certain point.
It’s not like she just became thin one day either, I think she’s been tiny since day, one and gradually gotten more skeletal. I think that’s partly why she still around because it’s so sustainable for her, not that it will keep going that way.
As sad/bad as this might sound I really do think she's now beyond help. How she's still able to walk around or even stand is mind boggling to me. She is literally just skin and bones now, not a gram of fat on her. We have seen celebrities with the same ED to not make it.
The people I knew that ended up surviving and staying in recovery never got that thin but they did live the rest of their lives with things like heart damage. She could hypothetically survive with intensive treatment but like my friends still end up with permanent damage.
@alexacarrillo4339 I mean it could be possible but sadly I do think she's kinda beyond help. Sadly once you get to a certain point the amount of damage that's caused internally can be too much. Just got to look at the likes of Karen Carpenter or that influencer who wasn't that bad and in recovery but her body couldn't handle the damage from the excessive weight loss. Its just so sad because I remember watching the video from 4yrs ago and altho she still looked tiny she actually looked healthy and now she's just a skeleton that can talk 😞 Well done to your friends who have managed to beat such a horrible illness and I hope they are living full life
She has said she doesn’t want or need help, and ya she is too far gone with her ED. Thing is, she also knows exactly what she’s doing, and it’s all about getting this very kind of attention. She basically sold her health for the money and attention. Any kind of attention is still attention. She’s had opportunities to get help but it’s obvious she didn’t put her all into it. At this point others have done more to try and get her help than she has done herself. Honestly people need to stop giving her all this attention, it’s the ONLY thing she feeds off of. It comes down to, you can’t help someone if they won’t help themselves. She needs to be deplatformed so she doesn’t keep up her nonsense and basically killing herself in front of all of YT.
@@petsmart1000👍🎯
@@petsmart1000 it is sad that the people I know who have gotten treatment have done things like max out credit cards and all sorts of things so they can stay here on earth with their families. I cashed in my savings bonds from college that were intended to be rolled over into retirement but EC has the money for treatment and doesn’t think she is anything but healthy. She does know what she is doing with the body checking etc but I strongly suspects she thinks she can live this way forever with no ill consequences.
I can't get past Eugenia "Coney". Idk why that bugged me so bad. Ok but seriously this video needed to be made.
It’s weird because she pronounces it coney and then cooney hahah the back to coney
And the vocal fryyy
@@Boxofcare666 So annoying tbh but I like her videos.
@@CinemaRealms That's exactly what triggered me! I was so relieved and then... Coney.😡🤣🙄
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Now I see why her dad, left her mom.. She's so toxic, and manipulative. For her to constantly still infantalize her, and this is so controlling.
Her mom probably wanted to be skinny, but she's a bigger woman so she's taking it out on her daughter. That is so sad. I hope she gets charged with neglecting her daughters health like this.
Her parents are still together. He’s just as responsible in my opinion for letting his daughter be fully controlled by the mom
@@taylors445yes!! I've been saying this too. Everyone talks about her mom but her dad is just as bad! He turned a blind eye to it all. Sure he's away working all the time but he's definitely just been avoiding getting involved atleast from the outside looking in thats what it seems like
horrifying. I wish eugenia would snap out of it and realize what's going on.
Her dad ain’t no saint either. He’s a piece of shit for abandoning Eugenea like this & leaving her to the wolves that is her mother
Its very sad how an almost 30 yrs old adult is stuck in a 15 yrs old goth girl mindset..
It sucks how a mother can film her daughter slowly dying infront of her eyes and do nothing
That’s the last of her worries, some goth people are adults, that doesn’t matter and that life style doesn’t have an age limit 😑, she was far deeper issues than what you’re saying
As a mother, I cannot fathom watching my daughter existing (barely) like this. I also could never imagine going onto social media and telling everyone that she’s totally fine and just a skinny Minnie. Like what Deb?
If she wanted to, she could petition to have her declared legally mentally incompetent and Deb could force her into treatment, even if just to prolong her life just a little bit. She seems to enjoy this too.
I can’t fucking deal with Deb. It’s awful.
I think it's cuz her mom didn't let her experience childhood.
@@elkdwvn I think her mom is so controlling and manipulative that Eugenia was under so much pressure in so many ways that she developed her eating disorder. Pair that with social media, attention, money, etc…
Eugenia probably wanted control over what she could control because Deb probably controlled and definitely still controls most of her life. And she’s making money off of her disorder, which seems to appease Deb. She seems completely unconcerned that her daughter is on deaths door. 😞
@@FabiolaRVela Some adults prefer to be childish but also can be a responsive adult when the time comes...or as people say they are called a child at heart and having fun. Dont know why people critisize adults for being them and having fun in their own way..... nothing wrong with it and I do agree she has bigger issues than just that.
It’s sad how complete strangers like us seem to show more concern than her own mother
Right? So messed up
Her mother is an evil person... like what the actual fuck?! Either she is mentally very VERY ill or she is just the devil in person. How can you support the death of youre own daughter.
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her mum just enjoys the money
They need to fucking call an ambulance for her and not let her out of the hospital until she's stable. Enough is enough. She looked sickly forever now.
At some point, you have to realize that you can’t save someone who doesn’t wanna be saved. She’s been given help, people have reached out, and she still chooses to live like this. It’s sad
This👏. I have a friend ( off topic+ she’s a nice person) bro. She has the victim mentality. She would make up problems. Like if I’m talking to a girl. She would start telling everyone oh how lonely she was and how mean was I. Also she would go to other places during our Both had free period together and when one day I went to talk to my friend , she sat in the group of her twin sisters friends and started talking about how I ignore her all the time.
Besides. I moved out for studies I’m 16 rn so I’m homesick all the time. She lives with her nice family and say she can understand better. As she misses her grandparents. GURRRRL. IM MISSING MY FKN HOME THE PEOPLE I GREW UP WITH. THE PEOPLE WITH WHOM I SHOULD BE LIVING RN. But anyways I’m done with hs almost. Will go back take a break and block everyone from this school.
It's true that it absolutely requires a will to thrive in the person you're seeking to save. If their mentality is so broken/hurt as to have just collapsed with no will to build a future, no one can force them, it's impossible. If she was 5150'd into a psychiatric ward permanently, it's possible she'd survive a few more decades, or maybe the depression of losing her freedom would actually finish her off. At a juncture like this, there's no clear path for anyone around her, it's just clear that she is the one with the final power over what manner her life continues, or doesn't.
Exactly !
The reason we expect family members to "force" them into treatment is because at this level of disorder the brain is *literally* starved and unable to function properly. She can't choose to help herself because her brain is actually incapable of seeing the problem. Involuntary treatment may seem harsh but it's necessary at this point as she cannot view the situation rationally and her family has the responsibility of doing what's best for her. They have actively chosen not to do so, essentially condemning her to death.
It's actually sad she knows her mom is the villain but continues to still live with her
Sadly you cant help someone that doesnt want to be helped. ECs cousin tried but ECs mother manipulated ec into thinking that the cousin was a bad person.
Trauma bond
It's hard to leave abusive situations for maaaannnnyyyy reasons. Even if someone in a very similar situation found it easy to leave, that doesn't mean it's easy for her. It's really really hard usually to escape abusive relationships and/or living situations.
@@alexia3552 ive heard ECs parents were filthy rich even before her yt career so she could escaped and she did escaped but alas she got manipulated by her mother.
I stopped feeling sorry for her years ago.
‼️🆘️ THE REAL TRUTH: Eugenia is a HOSTAGE FOR PROFIT. Her mom, DEBBIE COONEY is running this show now. She turns all help and police away because DEBBIE IS BANKING OFF OF EXPLIOTING her daughter. ANYONE WHO CAN HOLD DEBBIE ACCOYNTABLE will save a life. . call adult protective services because theres proof On Camera her mom is mentally, emotionally abusing her to keep her dependent and under control to make a fortune.EUGINIA ISNT ALOWED to have friends, a car, a job, a doctor, therapists, vacation,school, a boyfriend , no privacy- DEBBIE WONT LET HER LEAVE she has Munchhausens Syndrome (shown in the movie The Sixth Sense: the mother who kept her daughter poisoned and thrived off all the sympathy and attention- Even enjoying it at the funeral. In real life : Gypsy Rose Lee KILLED her mom to escape- now she doesn't need a wheelchair or Anything. ITS HER MOTHER WHOS ENABLING THIS. SHE CALLS CONCERNED FANS " HATERS , TROLLS, AND JEALOUS" . she repeatedly tells Eugenia she's Fine, and Eugenia has NO ONE TO HELP HER GET AWAY. HER MOM IS KEEPING A FORTUNE- DONT LET HER GET AWAY WITH MURDER, EUGENIA IS BEING KILLED. She Has never given diet tips, Told anyone to count calories, Endorsed being thin as "better", recommended excersize, throwing up, SHE DOESN'T TELL ANYONE TO DO ANYTHING UNHEALTHY. She's trapped and dying for help. PLEASE LOOK AND THINK ABOUT IT- viewers called the police on Euginia , her mom turned them away because EUGENIA IS THE VICTIM. DEBBIE SHOULD BE ARRESTED FOR ABUSE.
NO ONE CAN DENY THESE ARE ALL FACTS. PLEASE PROVE ME WRONG.
And save this girl from being EXPLIOTED and KILLED for views.
Same. She disgusts me now. Not because of the way she looks I'm not body shaming, but because of her intentions and lack of concern for what she's glorifying.
Same here. It's sick
The fact that her mom just sat there for all those years and has done nothing. Even went as far as to try and sue the person who got her daughter help, it’s just beyond me. I know for a fact if that was my child I would make sure she got help and love and support from me. I could never just watch my child slowly become nothing but a skeleton. It’s disgusting that she has done that and it has cause her daughter to be they way she is.
It will all come out in the end.
The media need to do an expose on her mother…not when Eugenia has passed, but now
I struggle to believe that the mom isn't on the receiving end of Eugenia's paychecks, it's a tale as old as showbusiness the story of a parent using their child as slave labor. Maybe I'm completely wrong and there's a whole backstory I don't know, but it's like hearing hoofbeats and guessing horses, not zebras. And if that's the daily life Eugenia's living, that makes her attachment to any fleeting positive words from an online following as strong as a drowning person's grip on their last lifeline. Even if they're mistaken and they're pulling themselves further down into the water, that desperation is not to be negotiated with when you feel like you're starving for air.
@@alexia3552 Exactly, follow the money...
She didn't try to sue her she tried to charge her with kidnapping. Anna got that part wrong
Idk how she’s not banned from the internet by now
Money
UA-cam makes money
If she gets banned then they would also have to ban mukbangers
Because it would come across as banning someone for having a mental illness and that’s not cool.
Well not quite, this is considered as self harm, plus she is somehow promoting or influencing this look onto young people.
I absolutely think she should be banned
Former ED patient here, my guess is that she’s soaking up all of the attention that’s focused on her weight/health, it means she’s succeeding and probably trying even harder bc the attention and discussion is never enough, you have to keep topping it.
She’s also making more $$ with more focus on her.
Yep she loves it. Big time.
@@user-uy8wo5yp7k I very much understand it. And it is sad. I don’t think you’ve seen any of my other comments on this video or you’d know I’ve had an eating disorder for over 15 years. As a mother though, too, I can’t imagine just sitting back like Deb, defending Eugenia saying she’s fine. If my daughter was doing what Eugenia is, you can count on me to be going in front of the judge to get her declared mentally incompetent and take over her ability to make decisions for herself until she got better and she’d be put in treatment. She might be angry at me for it, but she’d be alive. Does Deb want Eugenia to die? Like honestly, how can she just sit there and do nothing? Eugenia clearly is not mentally competent and is in no condition to be making decisions for herself as it’s obvious that her decisions are going to put her into the grave sooner rather than later.
As much as we on the internet find this appalling and can't-look-away, oh-god-won't-someone-do-something, you're absolutely right that videos like this are just profiting off her illness and feeding it at the same time. I am in no way saying that those making videos about Eugenia have that intention, that's just the net result. The only meaningful conversations and choices about her health that can be made are by Eugenia herself and the people closest to her. It's uncomfortable to realize we don't have control in this situation of any kind, no matter how much we blame her for "choosing" this sickness or no matter how much good info we put out about ED, how much we sympathize, how much we lecture, how much we love, how much we hate, we can't control her. It's very uncomfortable to feel out of control. But we are.
@@alexia3552 wonderfully said
To me it's painful to see her this its not okay to use your mental illness to keep success on social media, It's so concerning to know someone could think of such. I hope she gets help because this is no laughing matter she's so sick.
Exactly.
Is scary......
She was normal.... now is scary...
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This whole situation makes me angry. How can a parent encourage their child (now adult child) to starve to death, keeping them under lock and key? (How is Debbie gonna stuff her face when Eugenia dies and the meal ticket is gone forever?)
They were rich before Eugenia. She can have a huge insurance payout when Eugenia dies and she can keep her youtube up and keep earning from it.
@j.artiste8596 I didn't know they came from money. It's still disturbing. If the family encouraged recovery and this was still the result, this situation would look completely different.
They have millions of dollars Dens not going to starve way after her daughter is gone
@ville__troll
It's going to take her passing on a live for there to be any reform for these platforms.
She's a commodity right now.
I don’t feel bad anymore , she’s old enough to know what she’s doing . If anything I’m furious at her for influencing other young girls . She’s going to pass any day now , a skeleton can’t survive that long . And I’ve reported her account 50 thousand times and social media platforms do nothing it’s disgusting. Even though on their report page they have a disclaimer they don’t allow ED content and it’s beyond beyond obvious she has an ED. The cops who are friendly with her especially the one should be ashamed by himself saying “well she told us she’s ok and she likes chicken sandwiches “ are you serious ??? What kind of cop are you ? You should be trying to save her life not holding her hand while she slowly un Alives herself ..
She looks 20’yrs old from when she got out of rehab vs present day. This disease is killing her in so many ways! I pray she goes peacefully is all I can say at this point.
I hope she'll get better.. This is just sad to see her like this. She's suffering behind the screen. She needs help this is very very bad and scary.
Unfortunately and sadly people with the severity of disorder that Eugenia has has such a low rehabilitation rate. She’ll more than likely succumb to her disorder and die.
She knows what she’s doing. She does not want to get better. She sees this as her succeeding. Everyone is worried, the starving is paying off, everyone is talking about how small she is, how tiny she is, how skeletal she looks. She loves it. That’s why she continues to show off her body, checking herself in the camera. She is negatively influencing young women. I’m glad when my ED started, I didn’t know who she was. Young women idolize her and want to look like her.
This whole thing is sickening and it’s wild that we’re all here for the ride because she’s refusing to leave social media.
This is so accurate. I mean she can’t even film herself without staring into the camera the entire time. She was vlogging herself learning to drive and it was horrible trying to watch her sneak as many glances at herself as possible while barely looking at the road. Sadly I think we’ll all be a witness to her last moments because she’s constantly on Tiktok live. She’s at serious risk for a medical emergency and with how her mom encourages and exploits her, I don’t see her recovering any time soon 😕
@@taylors445 Exactly. It’s sad but honestly, she’s gotta be completely suffering. I don’t want her to pass, but I almost feel like it would be a relief for her. And a lesson to her fans on what can really happen when you engage in those behaviors. Hopefully, her death won’t be in vain entirely.
Her ED is negatively influencing HER first. Everything you just described are the symptoms of ED. It's like saying someone got kidney disease specifically to hurt other people. Some illnesses have collateral fallout, like influenza. It's no less sad to see people around affected by the ill person, they matter dearly, just as does the ill person in question. If we want to help cure the cultural drivers of EDs in young women, attacking _this specific very psychologically sick young woman_ as the means to achieve that end is not only going to be ineffective, it's directly cruel and is sacrificing as a scapegoat one of the very people you purport to care about.
I don’t understand at all. Why would anyone want to look like Jack Skellington?
It really hurts me to see her like this😥😞
No matter what she does I hope she gonna be ok❤
Hopefully she'll get better soon. It's so bad to see her go through like this
Anna inspires me.. My parents said if i get 60K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally
Begging.
Even though she supports ped0philes? Okay.
@@namantherockstar LMFAOO BEG SOME MORE BABY 👅👅
@@namantherockstaryour so close i hope for the best
I am honestly surprised she is still with us.
I had to block her i can’t watch someone destroy themselves like that
It's crazy watching her being this small. I've been watching her since 2012 and this is the worst she's ever been.
Same, I started watching here in 2014 and never thought she would get this bad.
It’s sad that she hasn’t recovered after all these years…
I mean it’s what she wants , so?
Why are we supposed to care about someone who can’t or won’t accept help? It’s been like this for like a decade.
I care that kids see this and think "Oh, I can become rich too by not eating"
She really should be kicked off all platforms. She isn't okay. And at this point she's feeding off the attention. She really needs help. I hate seeing her like this especially after she came back looking better
I think its disgusting how she hasn't been banned before now. So many young girls are influenced by her. I get she needs help with her mental health issues but everyone who watches her stuff is just feeding her illness. I personally have never watched (aided) her UA-cam career but she's even creeping into peoples feeds who have never followed her. Her mother should be ashamed of herself.
She's not banned on any platform. She gets "temp bans" on tik tok but never last long. Literally maybe a couple hrs or a day! 😱 Then back as usual. No one cares to do anything, including her local police. They went on record stating EC is fine. They've known her over a decade. AND to top it off apparently they watch her videos and if EC puts "a certain object" in vid that means she is in trouble. Sure Jan. I'm sure the police are on top of watching her on SM daily?! Smfh.
When I tried to skip meals, my dad would notice and would threaten to take away stuff I loved. Like my tablet or computer privileges. Eugenia's mom could do the same thing, but at this point, if she actually cared, she would have an open and HONEST conversation with her and get her the help she needs. Also, yes, I know Eugenia's like in her late 20s or early 30s, but she was living by herself at one point with her brother as a roommate. She could leave if she wanted to. She's scared because her mom is controlling her. Food is her only control, but her mom doesn't care. They both need help.
That’s not how you stop an illness, especially one this bad. You don’t punish that kind of behavior because that kind of behavior is already a punishment in its own. And to punish her for not eating would just turn the anorexia into hidden bulimia. Way too many things go wrong with negative reinforcement. She doesn’t need her mom to take away her twitch, she’s 30 years old. She needs her mom to simply acknowledge her illness and help her get treatment. She needs positive reinforcement. And she needs independence.
@alexisvanauken2434 you make valid points but did you just skip over where I said "at this point" referring to the fact that negative reinforcement would probably only work in the beginning of trying to skip meals like my situation. I literally said at this point that she needs to have an open and honest conversation with her, and they BOTH need help
Eugenia's mom make the stepmother from Cinderella and the the evil queen from Snow White look like better moms
She NEVER admitted to having an ED…that’s the issue. If you watch the Shane Dawson video they tip toe around the topic and even her own return video she said she “wasn’t taking care of herself.” She does, however, say that she got screwed by her former friends for the 5150 and says that she didn’t even need to go. I am honestly surprised she is still alive.
She did admit to having an ED in the Shane Dawson video. She said “I was dealing with an eating disorder”.
her mum needs to be put in prison. I dont understand how she can be the size of a cow and watch her own daughter die away.
Even the dogs over weight
fr@@susandavey2361
No need to be rude about the mother's weight, and it's actually pretty wild to directly fuel the fires of ED mentality by yet again associating body size with morality and worth ON A VIDEO about how we hope Eugenia can survive ED. You want to help her and people like her survive ED? Please do not do that.
Munchausen by proxy mother! She's profiting financially and emotionally off her daughter's illness! Nothing can change my mind on this.😢
we all know it's her mother doing this for clout she's been doing this for years brainwashing her and saying how the world is fat but I really hope she gets better soon
As someone recovering from ED, my family watched me waste away.. nobody could help me until I looked in the mirror as saw how disgustingly sick I looked and wanted to change.. it’s a very difficult illness to treat and her social media is her income and she’s making money off dying.. if I was her I wouldn’t see much reason to change.. if everyone would have left her alone and stop giving her a paycheck off her illness she may have had a chance..
Just started watching but wanted to add that Eugenia was NEVER a voice for ED awareness, she's never admitted to it. All she's ever done is body checking.
I was looking for this comment!! The most she ever said about it was in that Shane doc. She has always said she's fine
Agreed! And in the Shane documentary, she BARELY admitted she had a problem, the only thing she admitted to was being hospitalized due to her friends' concerns. She mainly just implied she wasn't eating enough/wasn't taking care of her body and never outright said she was battling an ED. @@WixenWooFromWhoville
After getting out of rehab she did admit she struggled with an ED-but, of course, that was a few years ago, and now she's back to square one.
Her mother is a terrible person and something tells me she might be religious and this plays into why she acts like there's nothing wrong with her daughter. Reason i say this is because i've seen parents like this before who are completely out of touch with reality when something clearly bad is going on and they refuse to do anything about it because of their religion and belief that everything will be okay with their faith in god.
Best thing to do is boycott, no comments. Don't engage in any of her social media. She is dying, and social media is to blame.
@2:05 Eugenia didn’t open up abt her ED until after her 5150 rehab when she did that docu-series with Shane. Before then, she was doing the same thing with saying she was okay and nothing was wrong with her health or completely ignoring the comments all together. Her recovery only lasted a couple months before people realized she had relapsed.
Edit: @6:19 The only reason her Kingdom Hearts Kairi Cosplay vid got 8m views was because it was the last vid she uploaded before she was sent to rehab. NOWHERE in the video does she claim to be “going away for a while” nor does she mention ANYTHING in relation to her health. After abt 3wks people started speculating if she was in rehab and started leaving positive/hopeful responses. 6mos later she makes her return in July of 2019.
it’s sad cause people want her to be better but she clearly doesn’t WANT to be better even tho she NEEDS to. but people need to remember she was promoting anorexia on tumblr years ago…she knows she has an issue, and still promoted it in a glamorized light. this girl is beyond help as sad as it is to say that.
That’s awful idk that
I honestly do feel like she's beyond help. The best anyone can do for her is report her youtube and social media. It sounds bad, but she always plays the fake nice victim any time anyone says something to try and help her. I can't watch her hurt herself and harm any impressionable people who watch her.
I’m so worried about this girl. I have an ED myself and it’s hard to imagine getting to such a bad place. I hope she gets better and gets away from her mom but I unfortunately don’t see that happening
I also hope she gets better and I hope you do too! You sound like your aware you have a issue and that's great! You need to find some help that will help you properly so you don't get too far. You deserve the best in life and a Ed isn't the best at all! I'm rooting for you, you beautiful human✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️
She’s at the age and weight where the next pound she loses will stop her heart :/
I am someone with a parasitic and controlling mother like this.....i won't go into the years of mental abuse, her covering up everything, gaslighting me and others to believe she wasn't the one doing anyhing wrong...but seeing Eugenia's mother triggered soooo much anger and pain for Eugenia....
Now it makes sense that this is partially Stockholms Syndrome!! This is why she can't get help! That woman grows FATTER and RICHER every day in her daughter's face to torment her, not just us. The police and courts sadly need to get involved....because there is blatant abuse happening here.😥 I really hope there is a way for intervention to occur, because if Eugenia succumbs to this, guess who is going to be on tv and writing books, soaking all the attention??? MOM...vile evil woman...
Looking at her tiktok, her legs are still turning purple and her eyes are still turning yellow. I’m guessing her brain is also suffering due to the lack of healing
Can't heal if her body is not getting the needed nutrients to help her body function properly, her organs are slowly suffering from dehydration, and lack of blood flow. She doesn't even drink water...
WOW, she's lost all her muscle now as well as any fat. The BIG problem with this is that your heart is also a muscle.
I also noticed she now sounds like an old lady... without the strength to push enough air when she speaks.
She was put on a 5150 a few years ago. Not sure why nobody is doing anything NOW... when she is worse than ever! 🥺
She will either end up in ER, or go oof while streaming. Just overall sad, her mom is heavily responsible for not getting her child help.
People are trying to help her but she doesn't want help and gets paid by fetish people to do live streams. So sad. She does know what she's doing.
It literally pains me to see this Eugenia Cooney is slowly dying Infront if us and it's terrifying to watch and i honestly can't, I those comments on her videos saying she looks great or amazing are actually incouraging her to become even worse . Hope she gets better soon 💞💗🖤😭
Even people who has never been her fan (like me) are worried and praying for her... I dont want this girl to die. She is too young, she has so many years ahead to fix whatever she is going through. And yet... she is surrounded by enablers. I dont get why someone can be ok with her current state. Especially her mother!!!!! If something happens to Eugenia, she'll face some dire consecuences.... I just.........
The craziest part was the day she was with Jacqueline, there was a swat team and tons of cops that showed up at her house in ct( source; live near and also still in the paper) they blocked off the entire road and thought there was a dangerous kidnapping/ hostage situation.... so I think Deb probably called 911 and was freaking out convincing them a real hostage or kidnapping situation was going on at the house and then left house before cops showed up unnecessary wasting time, resources and scaring people.
She will stream for 7-8 hours without a toilet break or a sip of water 😢
Her mom depends on Eugenia having an ED so she can depend on her. It's for control. I saw a video where her mom said "she's fine I took her to doctors she's fine" her mom has Munchausen's and it's killing her daughter
I've been watching her vids since the start. Now I more check up on her, but honestly at this point she's sold her soul to the devil. How to is she still alive with so much energy??
Tbh I don't feel bad for her. We told her she needs help but she wants to use a her ed for fame and clout like- We are trying to help you, it's not safe to be like this SMH :/
I feel if we all just ignore her unfollow her not even comment her name she’ll just flop and hopefully quit social media
I check every day on Tik Tok to see if she's still alive because her circulation issues have increased. It's sad that she sees and blocks all the comments from fans wishing for her to get treatment, but as many people have mentioned the lost hope makes it feel like she doesn't have much longer. She also tends to do Tik Tok live battles and thousands of people feed into the delusion and give her money, the image she has painted is not good for the ED, recovering community , and or even minors.
that mom needs to be arrested
It is so concerning that we , complete strangers have more concern for Eugenia than her own mother , how sick this world is and can be .
we dont gaf shes clearly acting like this for clout and doesn't appreciate our worries, why should we help a person- i mean ADULT who acts like that?
Ikr
she’s mainly being bullied on the internet rather than getting actual concern. you will not be able to bully someone into recovery.
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I literally have to turn away every time there's a body shot. Like, I can't even look. This is scary and I'm afraid she's going to die in front of us. I don't understand why people get brainwashed into thinking that she's fine. No she's not fine. Enabling this type of disorder is essentially the same thing to me as someone cutting themselves to feel something and people normalizing g and supporting that. For me there's not that much of a difference
I hate the fact she films herself dying in camera, its her mom and her fault! Thx for talking about this Anna!
She didn’t really open up about her ED…..iirc she never directly talked about it or admitted her struggles.
She did… in videos with Shane Dawson and Katie the therapist.
@@VioletHeyoka I don’t remember her explicitly saying she was suffering with anorexia.
@@shiivaxx3065 I think she struggled with actually saying the words but she admits right in the beginning of the Katie’s video (I shared the link here) that she knew she had a problem, talks about her weight and not wanting to trigger people with the number and how she had decided with her mom to go to a treatment center to get help. I believe in the Shane Dawson. Idea she comes out and says the words. I’m not sure if you caught the very long live with Jeffrey and EG tonight or not but he talked very clearly about how she’s staying with him for a while and the plan is to help her. It sounded legit and heartfelt and he said that she had opened up to him a lot on the first day she got there about her problem, I feel like if anyone can get her to see the light it is him. Let’s see what happens I hope she chooses life.
I am so scared for this women. I wish her the best. And I hope she gets the help she needs. May god be with her
Mental illness is horrible. I know everyone has their own story but my family member was anorexic and had body dysmorphia . They went ten years looking at the mirror and the reflection was a very sick, overweight horrible person. She may not see she has an issue. Of course she knows she’s thin but mental illness always wins unless treated :(
This is Deja-Vue for me! Reminds me of the most beautiful and talented voice of a kind person: Karen Carpenter.
HOWEVER, so much more is known about this 'situation'. (as I am thoughtful of my wording here).
WHY? Is this continuing?
She’s so wealthy and so sheltered. Such a sad life. I hope she gets better but I doubt it.
Everyone needs to hit the "do not recommended " button. But, I'm glad influencers are making videos, especially ones pointing out her mom's actions. She's probably going to die on a livestream and make platforms lots of money. I wonder if they allow it for someone in the dark web. It's scary to think about how it will effect the children watching her. That's who I truly worry about.
She knows what she is doing. And there is nothing anyone can say or do about it. She made her choice, so it's best to not give her any attention on every social media. Just ignore her. She doesn't want anyone sympathy from us. It's sad but that is what she wanted.
She was made to be put into recovery a while back and seemed to be getting better. Then she hopped back on social media and went back to her old ways. She is now FAR from recovery. If she even lasts a couple more years it’ll seriously be a miracle. She is not well
I really am worried for her
She’s not on Twitch. She is now live streaming on Tik Tok daily and currently at Jeffrey Stars house. You couldn’t make it up!
My body feels weird like it hurts when I look at her 😭
that's a really nasty thing to say-
Rehab maybe good but returning to toxic environments appears to have a drastic relaps consequences.
OMG! she use to be so fricken beautiful😢
UA-cam has been letting her die in front of you for your entertainment
Instagram deleted my account because I LIKED a comment that said something like “she needs to be removed from social media” ….. wtf? Said I violated community guidelines right after I liked the comment
No offense Anna much love but seriously a friendship is stronger than a mom? I'm not surprised she's sticking with her mom. Friends come and go. When she dies UA-cam should get a big lawsuit for not shutting this down and letting this get to this point. People enjoy watching people fall apart. A really sick world.
I am surprised that TikTok bans comments that have the words "stupid" and "dumb" while they have Eugenia's profile proudly on her tiktok page promoting an eating disorder. I agree that she needs to be banned from social media so that she can change her ways and eating habits.
Its still not eugenia that want’s all of that.
But her mom, and still her mother who is using her daughter for money.
Its the mother who knows the reactions eugenia gets its the mother who wont let her daughter go anywhere by herself? There locks on the front door? And backdoors in their House and its not normal ones.. it sad that this brainwashed woman is the one getting the blame, hate, when its the mum? The mum even made her strip in a boutique to try on Clothes.. and what Does the mum say to all of this? That her daughter is fine?!.
Eugenia has Been neglected, and her mum has made her think she looks normal while slowly dying.
It hurts my heart to see this poor woman. I really hope she gets the help she needs.
I have that eating disorder and it’s just disgusting that people are using a SEVERE disorder to get famous. It makes me so sad because people like me want to get better:(
Good for you, sometimes the ed voice is stronger than your desire to recover.
Keep fighting and please get well soon 🎉🎉❤
I know this may sound bad to say, but I'm surprised that she's still alive. With her mindset being stuck and her habits being the exact same for all these years. It's a miracle that she's still even here. I honestly don't know what can help her because I feel like her going into healthy eating habits could send her body into some sort of shock due to her not being used to it. I'm so worried about her and i'm wishing her the best.
We’re all surprised she’s alive. She needs to get back into treatment
can't hear mother get in trouble? even though Eugenia is an adult, she needs someone to help her right now and her mother is literally killing her.
The mother I am quite sure has life insurance on Eugenia, that's why she doesn't care ... especially after her friend tried to help her, boom she blew up. Sad.
Nikki Graham passed away and was trying to get better. This girl really had better watch herself because when it comes time to eat her body won’t be able to cope with the food intake necessary.
Someone need to arrest her mum. And an investigation needs to be done.
Why her mum? Eugenia is in her 30's she is responsible for herself
@@morbidbrat she’s been anorexic since she was a teen and if you did your research it’s actually her mum encouraging her to be like this. Without her mums influence she’d literally get better.
The saddest part of all of this is that Eugenia is SUCH a sweet , soft girl. I used to watch her ALL the time. As someone who REALLY is naturally thin it used to be refreshing to see someone with my body type be healthy and happy.
I’m just so disappointed.
She could’ve been a beacon for others struggling , if only she was just honest with herself and her community .
I don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors , but it’s something sick and dark. And she’s still making millions. I just don’t understand why social platforms haven’t taken a hard stand against this.
We’re literally watching her die everyday.
Her going to Jeffree’s ranch is her bucket list and he knows it. I fear this woman doesn’t have much time left.
I feel like her mom should have a restraining order put against her or be jailed for causing harm to her own child. She has the power to help & chooses not too. It’s disturbing to see this whole situation play out & be completely helpless to stop it. Her mother is sick, whether it’s a legit condition or her own sick preference, there should be something someone can do.
Any amount of recovery inspiration she has provided to others (which is very little) has been massively trumped at this point by her adamant denial and gaslighting of those trying to help her. Yes, she did admit that she had issues eating (after being forced into rehab when she didn't want to go) but after that singular interview in which she admitted it she then turned around and said she only did that bc she had a script written out for her by her lawyer and she didn't agree with anything she said in the interview. Yes, she deserves recovery and life but she has never been any kind of advocate for recovery in any sense of the word.
ABSOLUTELY agree.
we all just want her to get well, tho. none of us want to wake up one of these days soon and find out she succumbed to her illness.
everyone just wants to see her be accountable to herself for once : fuck the rest of us. she needs to do it for HERSELF.
It’s hard for me to even look at her.
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@@ih4artsza I'm sorry.
I hope she going to be okay we love her! ❤
She is not going to be OK
I have never seen someone so starved and still alive, let alone functioning! It’s insane!
Back when she was way better, I used to watch her because I liked her voice. But I never noticed that until like years later. I just hope she gets better
i feel so concerned for her i hope she gets better i also used 2 have an ed an ik how hard it is 2 recover but shes rlly like super skinny so i rlly hope she gets help.
I hate to say this but it’s time we realize it might be too late to help her this time. It’s worse When she has a mother who encourages and supports her being like this. Her mother doesn’t care that she’s encouraging her child to slowly k*ll herself.
Welp, her body her problem. People around her tried to help her and she still declined each and everyone of them. Just let her fade away. She'll get forgotten just like everyone else and the world will move on without her.
I can stomach most things, especially if it’s just in discussion, but I can’t watch this.
eugenia is a beautiful woman instead of youtube she should recover again and start modelling she has potential