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    How to start your transition 101! Some advice on binding, packing, and buying men's underwear.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 761

  • @Jammidodger
    @Jammidodger  5 років тому +1694

    Hope you enjoyed the video guys! Thumbs up if you want me to be your trans dad 😝

    • @VBArtPlace
      @VBArtPlace 5 років тому +36

      Trans Dad™

    • @vincentcole5706
      @vincentcole5706 5 років тому +26

      Jammidodger you already are my trans dad

    • @vaughendustries
      @vaughendustries 5 років тому +16

      TRANS DAD

    • @starbittenpixieboy
      @starbittenpixieboy 5 років тому +21

      I've adopted you as my trans dad. I am now your trans baby boy

    • @fezza999
      @fezza999 5 років тому +15

      I’ll be your trans son. 😂

  • @shirojoong
    @shirojoong 5 років тому +1050

    One day I was trying on an old shirt to see if it still fit me, it was a bit tight and I asked my mom “Does it look too tight?” And she said “Yes, and your chest looks flat” She meant it as a bad thing cause she doesn’t want me to “hide my chest” but I was happy cause that means my binder is working haha

  • @survivalgamerme131
    @survivalgamerme131 5 років тому +1861

    i just officially changed my name to liam and my gender to male. I’m so happy 😁

  • @VBArtPlace
    @VBArtPlace 5 років тому +2491

    Best Trans Dad™

    • @GNfae
      @GNfae 5 років тому +34

      V. B. Art send him a mug for Father’s Day

    • @VBArtPlace
      @VBArtPlace 5 років тому +26

      And I'm older than Jamie. But he is still the best
      Trans Dad™

    • @VBArtPlace
      @VBArtPlace 5 років тому +18

      @@GNfae I was thinking a tie with dinosaurs wearing 80s pop fashion gear, like slatted sunglasses, slap wrist bands, zoot suits, and punk mohawks.
      I wish he had a PO Box lol

    • @GNfae
      @GNfae 5 років тому +6

      V. B. Art what?! I didn’t know he didn’t!!!

    • @VBArtPlace
      @VBArtPlace 5 років тому +4

      @@GNfae I know! We need to accost him and Shaaba to get one!

  • @BreadDisposal
    @BreadDisposal 4 роки тому +464

    Me, a cis woman: ah yes a perfect video for me

    • @BreadDisposal
      @BreadDisposal 4 роки тому +4

      Brett Wagland yes..? But specifically I’m Cis

    • @supremeoverlord0
      @supremeoverlord0 3 роки тому +31

      @@BreadDisposal Haha, yeah, same. Although, I might be getting these things recommended to me because of searches where I'm essentially like "being a girl sucks." I've never gotten used to it, but I wouldn't want to be a guy, either. I'd rather be an formless amoeba-like blob. But yeah, other than general discontentment with my existence, I don't get anything like dysphoria. I just think being a fleshy human sucks.

    • @angel_wolfie8235
      @angel_wolfie8235 3 роки тому +2

      Yep

    • @cyansalvatore6011
      @cyansalvatore6011 3 роки тому +4

      @@supremeoverlord0 Then I present to you r/voidpunk.

    • @supremeoverlord0
      @supremeoverlord0 3 роки тому +10

      @@cyansalvatore6011 Haha, just looked it up. I've always joked I'm an alien. I like their style.

  • @Hh-sp3fh
    @Hh-sp3fh 5 років тому +1325

    *A S E L E C T I O N O F P E N I S E S* -jamie raines 2018

  • @kalakakku7749
    @kalakakku7749 5 років тому +506

    Just got my name legally changed this week. I am so happy it hurts!

  • @isacl5042
    @isacl5042 5 років тому +145

    Buying men's underwear was the easiest part of my transition because a couple of years before I realised I was transgender my mom bought me a pair of men's boxer briefs as a joke (idk why) and said that I at least could wear them at night. After wearing them a couple of times I started to really like them and asked my mum to buy another pair and since then I've only wore boxer briefs.

  • @noahgentili1433
    @noahgentili1433 5 років тому +410

    ah yes, binding. it helps me flatten my
    *t* *r* *e* *s* *t*

    • @noahgentili1433
      @noahgentili1433 3 роки тому +1

      @Cam Morrison w-what?

    • @youngbutretro4228
      @youngbutretro4228 3 роки тому +8

      @@noahgentili1433 this other guy is transphobic

    • @theagaram9581
      @theagaram9581 3 роки тому +5

      @Cam Morrison Excuse you, Cam! Sod off!

    • @Hebi_1412
      @Hebi_1412 3 роки тому +3

      Cam Morrison
      Some people would rather have them flat.

    • @nekothecat8418
      @nekothecat8418 3 роки тому +5

      @Cam Morrison not everyone want breasts, they could be trans males or just dont want them, you can't force someone to something they dont want to do.

  • @spooks4421
    @spooks4421 5 років тому +127

    Me @ Jammi: "Dada?"
    Jammi: "BOY DO I LOOK LIKE-?!?!"

    • @elias.3219
      @elias.3219 4 роки тому +3

      Ik what you mean but his name is spelt Jamie he’s talked about this in a video that his UA-cam name isn’t how you spell his actual name.

  • @Dr3Mc3Ninja
    @Dr3Mc3Ninja 5 років тому +170

    *Thank you.*
    Far too many people neglect to mention how *not* to bind.
    I totally understand the desperation behind binding, but it is not worth permanently damaging your body in the pursuit of a streamlined chest.

  • @samthedystopianrat1945
    @samthedystopianrat1945 5 років тому +519

    Thanks Jamie. This really does help since I mean, I'm a 12 year old at an all girls Catholic school and when I leave I need to be prepared. This means a lot, so thanks.

    • @JO3YSworld
      @JO3YSworld 5 років тому +25

      Sadistic Goat stay strong my friend!

    • @tanalicia1057
      @tanalicia1057 5 років тому +7

      All the best !

    • @cyrrender
      @cyrrender 5 років тому +18

      You probably won’t need all this advice when you grow older. Trans at 12? Eh, unlikely. You do you, but don’t make choices you’ll regret later on. I had a similar case when I was a little around your age. You’re probably just very tomboyish, or going through puberty, which means lots of changes in mind and body. You might feel out of the box now, or believe you’re, uh, trans or any other gender the Internet provides, but give it a few years, you’ll look back and be surprised at how much you’ve changed, or cringe at your past beliefs and/or watch history...
      Consider coming back here when you’re older, when your brain is more stable, or something of the sort. In any case, good luck. :P

    • @amypatterson9073
      @amypatterson9073 5 років тому +91

      @@cyrrender Just because this happened with you doesn't mean that this applies to everyone. Even if you don't believe they are trans at least be respectful and keep your opinion to yourself. Many trans people know from a young age but even if they are a trender or just confused it's doesn't mean you have the right to be rude to a child you dont know over the internet

    • @cyrrender
      @cyrrender 5 років тому +16

      Amy Patterson Now now, where did I disrespect them or be rude? I was just advising them. Children shouldn’t exactly be on the Internet nonetheless, but I guess it’s normal to be now. People younger than 14 tend to be easily influenced by things on the net, and they themselves start believing in things that aren’t really...
      Alright, I feel like if I go on it’ll lead to misunderstandings. I meant no harm, I was just giving advice. Adolescence is a period of tremendous change, after all, and constant change, that is.

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon 5 років тому +158

    I have to add, I'm overweight FTM, and since you can't see my "package" anyways, I choose not to pack, I have enough "down there" to make it look like I have a package anyways. Slim trans have different issues than "fluffy" FTM's, and I actually had to go find my "niche" in the online community for "hefty FTM's" and have found lots of support if there's anyone out there who needs any sort of that support (By no means am I trying to offend you or any slimmer individuals, but there's a whole other set of issues being overweight with surgeries, prosthetics, binders and such.) HUGS to you Jammie, and thank you for this video!!

    • @ghostpandatwin2054
      @ghostpandatwin2054 5 років тому +31

      This may sound stupid but it's so reassuring to see that there are other "fluffy" FTM's like me

    • @pmbluemoon
      @pmbluemoon 5 років тому +18

      @@ghostpandatwin2054 We're a bit harder to find, but LOTS of support, extra care tips, and places to find larger sized stuff to help with transition :) I like any fluffy/hefty channels as well to gather some extra resources and info.

    • @reggiepollock4669
      @reggiepollock4669 5 років тому +22

      This might not be the time but
      A hefty ftm
      A
      *heFTM*
      _HEFT - EE - EM_

    • @pmbluemoon
      @pmbluemoon 5 років тому +7

      @@reggiepollock4669 I like heFTM :)

    • @ewenconquet6842
      @ewenconquet6842 5 років тому +9

      Also : you probably wont be able to find gc2b bimders in your size (at least I dont) but underworks has a larger selection of sizes. Oh, and long briefs (like the "im an old brit dude" underwear") often are better for larger people cause they dont cling to the thigh at all and often come in larger sizes (i got charles wilson ones from amazon, 6 for like 15€ and that's cheap af for the quality) !
      Also you may want to get a longer binder because tri tops binders tend to roll up the chest when you've got a bigger stomach, so it's going to hide better + it also hides the hips a bit !!

  • @yvonaamariaa
    @yvonaamariaa 3 роки тому +13

    OK this might sound weird but I'm a 67 year old straight Gramma and I came upon Jaime and his transition vids a couple of months ago. It is April 2021 now. I've got to say, I love this man!! He is so much more confident than in his first vids. I haven't watched every one but enough to know way more about the trans community ( I don't know if I said that right???) than I knew before watching him and his journey. He is a real man with real feelings and is now in his authentic skin. luv him!!

  • @jujubeebles5079
    @jujubeebles5079 5 років тому +593

    My only problem with boxers is that I'm constantly running out of them. So when my dad says "why do you need another couple pairs, I just bought you some" I have to explain that it's because satans sacrificial waterfall comes at the worst times and likes to ruin them.

    • @cardinnairn6345
      @cardinnairn6345 5 років тому +102

      Elijah Mortensan hey, if you get to them intime and rinse them with cold water, it works really well.

    • @kainovember
      @kainovember 5 років тому +46

      I wear tampons and also (sadly) just wear girl's underwear during that week.

    • @allowmetointervene
      @allowmetointervene 5 років тому +63

      Hey! Some advice is wear pad-holding or underwear you're not afraid to get messy, then put some boxers on top of that!

    • @reverb6494
      @reverb6494 5 років тому +27

      Wearing black boxers would reduce stains if that’s your problem. (Thats probably obvious and if you already do that then why does it still cause you problems?)

    • @Arthur-yf9yv
      @Arthur-yf9yv 5 років тому +11

      I've only got 3 pairs and I'm scared to ask for more tbh. I've done a bleed in two of them but they're ok.

  • @basslut1948
    @basslut1948 4 роки тому +49

    I’m a transgender male and I went to the store to buy boxers and felt kinda awkward buying them. When I tried them on they felt so weird. They’re tight around my thighs since I have big thighs and hips, which really suck for me since I want to be seen as male. But I do feel really confident and happy in my boxers and I love it

    • @mywither7878
      @mywither7878 2 роки тому +14

      Ok, amab here, I have very big thighs and hips, have had comments on having "a fat ass", and still seem like a cis guy in spite of it all. I haven't started any HRT or the like, so you're probably being more conscious about it than you need to, my friend.
      Don't get in your own head too much, stay safe, and live your life how you want.

  • @Arthur-yf9yv
    @Arthur-yf9yv 5 років тому +239

    Me: * winces *
    Friend: what's wrong?
    Me: I got boxers and they ride up and they're literally in me.
    Friend: * backs away slowly *

    • @whatthefrank5941
      @whatthefrank5941 5 років тому +19

      Same i'm wearing boxers and I get wedgies every single day

    • @theagaram9581
      @theagaram9581 3 роки тому +11

      How does one prevent that? I get wedgies with womens underwear too...

    • @Arthur-yf9yv
      @Arthur-yf9yv 3 роки тому +36

      @@theagaram9581 idk prayer? Lmao me and my huge ass haven't figured that out yet...

    • @sam-the_royal
      @sam-the_royal 3 роки тому +3

      @@Arthur-yf9yv 😂😂😂😂

    • @Nik-ny9ue
      @Nik-ny9ue 3 роки тому +2

      @@theagaram9581 Briefs. Just briefs

  • @toastmcbreadbin6956
    @toastmcbreadbin6956 5 років тому +295

    let's be honest, jamie is the trans dad to all of us

  • @weirdgenes9820
    @weirdgenes9820 4 роки тому +38

    Dear jamie, im not sure if im transgender but i wanted to know more about it so i looked it up. I saw your videos and they really helped me understand the different aspects of everything and im so thankful. You have made me feel more comfortable with the fact that i may be transgender and may not be. Im only 13 and still trying to learn about it and how i can be more supportive in the community even if im turn out not transgender. Thank you so much jamie, i love you, and everything youv done and im proud of you for who you are.

    • @_kismet_
      @_kismet_ Рік тому +4

      I'm really sorry for asking but can I ask how you're doing know? I'm in a fucked up state in my life because I think I'm trans, but I'm really scared I'm just an influenced teen because of the transphobes. If you don't want to answer you don't need to.

  • @rodentia1474
    @rodentia1474 3 роки тому +35

    When I first had to start wearing bras I was confused for a second because “they don’t even flatten anything what’s the point?” And Then I remembered 😂

  • @user-tw8bh5bn1m
    @user-tw8bh5bn1m 4 роки тому +49

    It’s official that I’m trans as of yesterday! Changed my name to what I would be if I was born male. This helps so much!!

  • @bunnymeeks6490
    @bunnymeeks6490 5 років тому +91

    I came out to my school today, well more of one person who wi change my info to my perfered name Owen, but I think you helped me do it a bit. If I hadn't done it, I bet it would have never happened. I normally get really nervous talking about my sexuailty or gender so I'm surprised that I came out. But I'm glad.

    • @alexanderfelixmathewson9533
      @alexanderfelixmathewson9533 5 років тому +3

      congrats! i hope you have intelligent classmates/friends

    • @bunnymeeks6490
      @bunnymeeks6490 5 років тому +6

      @@alexanderfelixmathewson9533Only some are. Most were confused when my teacher said Owen so he had to say my dead name which I was ok with because I knew it would take time. He then said he was sorry after class which I said it was fine. But most of my classmates aren't that open and know what transgender means so I kinda have to explain it. But its better then being misgendered I suppose.

    • @alexanderfelixmathewson9533
      @alexanderfelixmathewson9533 5 років тому +4

      @@bunnymeeks6490 thats good, also your teacher seems nice, my would call jesus on me and call me satans spawn

    • @bunnymeeks6490
      @bunnymeeks6490 5 років тому +2

      @@alexanderfelixmathewson9533 oh I am Satan's child so meh. Hope good things happen for you too

    • @alexanderfelixmathewson9533
      @alexanderfelixmathewson9533 5 років тому +2

      @@bunnymeeks6490 i mean same but whtvr, and thanks!

  • @raviosolaire
    @raviosolaire 3 роки тому +19

    baby trans here(nonbinary trans masc)! my friend bought my first binder for me, and my mama bought me boxers! my mama is buying me another binder soon, and I'm really happy.
    I still get misgendered and deadnamed by other people sometimes, by my mom corrects them, and it's not very often.
    my hair is nice and short, and I feel like I look masculine.

  • @emmaw944
    @emmaw944 2 роки тому +11

    I have to say gc2b are so helpful, my child needed a binder, if you contact them and send measurements they will advice what's best, and so safer. They were so happy with it and it fit them well.
    As a side note we resurched this together and they don't wear it on pe days!

    • @joojimaikeru
      @joojimaikeru 2 роки тому +3

      you are such a good mother/father/parent ^^ i might ask my mom to get me a binder from gc2b
      hope all works well!

  • @kristophjj17
    @kristophjj17 5 років тому +51

    I'm the W O R S T at remembering to take my binder off after 8 hours

  • @enbyishimaru
    @enbyishimaru 5 років тому +494

    If you're our trans dad, is Shaaba our mom??

    • @suzannepaxton6087
      @suzannepaxton6087 4 роки тому +40

      I'm okay with them being my parents.

    • @suzannepaxton6087
      @suzannepaxton6087 4 роки тому +33

      @@standup2982 drag is an art form & trans is everyday life.

    • @suzannepaxton6087
      @suzannepaxton6087 4 роки тому +38

      @@standup2982 if you want to educate yourself about transgender individuals and gender dysphoria please read a DSM, you can find copies at your local medical library or you can download a eBook for your kindle, if you continue to have doubts about transgender individuals being real please forward your questions to the head of the American Psychiatric Association. Bless your heart and you have a Happy Thanksgiving!

    • @suzannepaxton6087
      @suzannepaxton6087 4 роки тому +8

      Educated* 🤣

    • @En1gm4t1c
      @En1gm4t1c 4 роки тому +16

      @@standup2982 Did you really just say you were "education?" you don't sound very educated to me.

  • @gabimitran7565
    @gabimitran7565 5 років тому +514

    Last time i was this early i was cis

  • @obscure_munnerz6917
    @obscure_munnerz6917 4 роки тому +30

    so i go to an all-girls school and i wear boxer briefs under my uniform skirt and that really helps, so i definitely recommend that lmao

  • @Andrew_Young
    @Andrew_Young 5 років тому +153

    really digging your short beard!

    • @ivyrose5153
      @ivyrose5153 4 роки тому +7

      Andrew Young I thought this said bread and I was so confused how we went from underwear to baking hahah

    • @aciddrinker2194
      @aciddrinker2194 4 роки тому +2

      @@ivyrose5153 same tho.

    • @LordofTheNight88
      @LordofTheNight88 3 роки тому +1

      @@aciddrinker2194 you evolved to a half mustache....i'm proud son

    • @username_773
      @username_773 2 роки тому

      @@ivyrose5153 same i was confused as hell lol

  • @olivergullikson2080
    @olivergullikson2080 5 років тому +29

    Hello! Fellow trans guy here. Just adding to the binder safety stuff, I was told by my social worker that after taking off the binder, you should lean over an cough super hard. Idk the science, but apparently it reduces some of the safety dangers

    • @galaxychill9578
      @galaxychill9578 3 роки тому

      arch your back or hunch over ?

    • @mywither7878
      @mywither7878 2 роки тому +6

      @@galaxychill9578 Being only an engineering student, I have a limited base of body mechanics, but here's my thoughts.
      probably tummy inward, going more towards pike rather than hollow position, like an old man hunching over.
      My reasoning: doing so makes it easier for your diaphram to push the air out with a full cough rather than a stifled one when leaning back and this is a prosition coughing usually puts one in anyways.
      Now, for my theory behind the cough itself : I'm gonna guess one coughs to loosen up any locked muscles to then open up freely once again when you breath in.

  • @starbittenpixieboy
    @starbittenpixieboy 5 років тому +520

    I'm a baby trans I guess...
    *_DAD?!_*

  • @bookwermofthefandoms
    @bookwermofthefandoms 5 років тому +16

    3:40 you know what, I'm so glad i have my headphones on right now.
    What a Perfect line

  • @justcallmejayd
    @justcallmejayd 5 років тому +17

    I’ve been super gender dysphoric recently and watching your videos help me a lot ❤️

  • @ALLTHEDRUGSFORCREATIVITY
    @ALLTHEDRUGSFORCREATIVITY 4 роки тому +7

    My mum is the only one in my family who knows I'm Genderfluid and I'm one of 6 so it's hard. Although my brother was trans so my mum understands fully. A week ago now I asked her for a binder and she did it super descritly! She's so supportive and amazing! :)
    Shoutout to my mum for raising 6 kids all on her own unemployed and having to deal with 2 of them not being cis!

    • @youngbutretro4228
      @youngbutretro4228 3 роки тому

      @Cam Morrison you are the only one here that is cursed

  • @somedude172
    @somedude172 5 років тому +14

    Packer hack: if you have an extra small mr. limpy, you can stick it in a sock and pin the sock to the waistband of your underwear. I usually cut out a hole for the actual shaft part to stick out so i can adjust it better, and i cut off the heel so its easier to pin. It works really well for me, and I havent heard of anyone else doing it, so just thought i'd share lol

    • @TheOhhlookamonkey
      @TheOhhlookamonkey 5 років тому

      Very awesome "dick" hack, your ingenuity is impressive, great tip

  • @Ray1624
    @Ray1624 4 роки тому +8

    I shouldn't be laughing, but I just pictured a packer doing the inchworm down a pair of skinny jeans 😂
    Love ya man

  • @elijahslayton2614
    @elijahslayton2614 5 років тому +391

    Honey, you can be my Trans Dad any day!

  • @mrjon4884
    @mrjon4884 5 років тому +26

    Jamie! Before I thank you for this amazing video I wanna drop this:
    You look really good!
    Look at this fine looking, handsome, charming man!! Go you!!
    Now: I'm so glad you make videos like this!
    I JUST came out to my therapist after having been out to my friends and partner for waaaaay longer.

  • @minghaolee9512
    @minghaolee9512 5 років тому +6

    I came out 3 years ago and haven't started my physical transition due to finance 🙄🙄 so tips always help me cope 💓💓

  • @vaughendustries
    @vaughendustries 5 років тому +19

    I get my binders from Shapeshifters, they sell them in a lot of fun designs for Binders, and their binders are slip on.

  • @SavageMinnow
    @SavageMinnow 4 роки тому +29

    I’m glad young guys who are trans have a “trans dad” like u 🤘

  • @HAdams-bw4bq
    @HAdams-bw4bq 5 років тому +39

    Good evening everyone who is reading this, I hope you all are having a good day!

  • @lewisB03
    @lewisB03 5 років тому +37

    Hello you are soooooooo cool and have helped me and I keep asking my mum for a binder but she is scared but won't let me explain to her. What could I do I have been feeling okay but my chest is the worst. Thanks 😁😁👍🏻😘😘

    • @ssuperspidy5387
      @ssuperspidy5387 5 років тому +9

      Tell her it’s the safest way and it’s going to help you so much

  • @GNfae
    @GNfae 5 років тому +26

    Yooo I just heard that you don’t have a PO Box for fanmail!! What?! I need to send you some Fathers Day gifts!!!

  • @theozubek912
    @theozubek912 5 років тому +24

    I love this video, Thank you for making it Jamie!💕✨

  • @piercedsiren
    @piercedsiren 5 років тому +131

    *dudududududududu*
    *it's .. TRANS DAD !*

  • @jacksonohno
    @jacksonohno 5 років тому +3

    i’m getting my gc2b binder soon and I’m very excited

  • @oliveriscoolerthanu7834
    @oliveriscoolerthanu7834 2 роки тому +19

    just remember guys, if youre having trouble being sure if youre trans, remember that being trans isnt about wanting to be masculine/feminine, think to yourself, say, it youre ftm, do i want to be a man or do i just like being masculine? its important to ask yourself this question because a lot of people get the two confused

  • @thisisepic3052
    @thisisepic3052 3 роки тому +3

    AAAAH YOU FEEL LIKE A PARENT GETTING ME READY FOR THE REAL WORLD 😭😭😭😭

  • @alecwilliams1992
    @alecwilliams1992 5 років тому +122

    I am claiming you as my trans father 😂❤️

  • @charleston1789
    @charleston1789 5 років тому +3

    Jamie, just.... you're so freakin awesome. Thank you 💙 we are so lucky to have you.

  • @it5ybitsy35
    @it5ybitsy35 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks so much for sharing your experiences and your tips. I've just started my social transition and all of this is super helpful. I can't thank you enough.

  • @kristinreynolds577
    @kristinreynolds577 5 років тому

    Great video!! It’s very helpful for so many different people who are looking for different things! Have a great day!! Love from America!

  • @etfs1fan603
    @etfs1fan603 3 роки тому

    i’m sick atm and can’t do anything except watch things, play games or message people and i’ve been binge watching you, you always make me happy and this also help a lot.

  • @alexanderryan7615
    @alexanderryan7615 5 років тому +4

    I just got my packer today! I got the Masho Packer and just about to start T! Amazing vid!

  • @OK-hi5ym
    @OK-hi5ym 5 років тому +2

    I just watched one your older videos and just the change in how you hold yourself and talk it’s amazing to see how just comfortable and confident you are in your own skin now. From baby trans to transdad

  • @polarisktut
    @polarisktut Рік тому

    I’m 19 and figuring things out. Your videos are so amazing and helpful, thank you so much

  • @cancermooncrone5810
    @cancermooncrone5810 3 роки тому +1

    Cis mom here. I love your videos and courage to educate the world. You are a class act even in your underwear lol. Thanks for teaches us.

  • @d-meth
    @d-meth 4 роки тому +4

    Tomboyx underwear is great.
    Looks like male undies but fit the female form.
    I had a hard time getting well fitting boxer shorts but managed; j.crew used to make great ones, GAP also has some (but sold as PJ bottoms).
    My beef with the men's undies is that the waistband ends up way too high on my stomach. Or the crotch part hangs halfway to my knees =/
    Although now they make those "gay undies" (those micro briefs first showed up in gay stores, about 10 years ago tops) so you can go with those. Even companies like fruit of the loom make "low waistline" boxerbriefs now.
    "Back in the days" there were less options 🤷‍♀️

  • @aciddrinker2194
    @aciddrinker2194 4 роки тому +9

    You are my DaAd, You're my dad! boogie boogie boogie boogie

  • @leovlogs7950
    @leovlogs7950 2 роки тому

    im actually getting my first binder! its coming on Sunday im so excited!

    • @leovlogs7950
      @leovlogs7950 2 роки тому

      @@joojimaikeru yeah it has im so happy!

  • @charleynickson6543
    @charleynickson6543 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much, this is so helpful, I have just come out and this helped so much ❤️

    • @user-kl5oh9ew1u
      @user-kl5oh9ew1u 3 роки тому +1

      i'm proud of you bro : ) remember there will always ppl who try to put us down but don't let them! you are worth so much my dude

  • @frogspawn4302
    @frogspawn4302 5 років тому +1

    I am really digging your hair . its looking really good man

  • @jbach1738
    @jbach1738 4 роки тому

    Thanks so much for this video. I recently had my hysterectomy, and I have been researching online to celebrate with some new underwear that I won't be throwing away soon. I think I'll check out underwear expert. Thanks so much.

  • @lifenothingbutasong
    @lifenothingbutasong 5 років тому

    I misheard lucky dip... had to go back to listen again 😂 Love your videos Jaime.

  • @wolfman75
    @wolfman75 5 років тому

    Thank You for sharing!!! Much Love

  • @Slytherin88
    @Slytherin88 3 роки тому +2

    Hey, just wanted to say I recently started watching your videos and although it's all very confusing to me, I think you're awesome! Your videos are honest and obviously made from a place of love and respect. You're to the point, no punches pulled and I think you're an inspiration. Not only to other trans people but to anyone who might be going through any kind of judgement or prejudice from others who don't understand them. I'm just some random gay girl, I know absolutely nothing about trans people! But I just wanted to say, I respect your honesty and your willingness to share your experience with others and to try to educate them about this stuff. It's important and you're doing a great job so keep up the good work dude! :D

  • @ethanp2889
    @ethanp2889 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for making this on my birthday my dude

  • @alx8716
    @alx8716 5 років тому +1

    awesome video!

  • @gnarls4480
    @gnarls4480 4 роки тому

    I'm a bb trans... honestly cant WAIT to get a binder..... also, love these videos. They help a fait amount.

  • @alphabeticalorder168
    @alphabeticalorder168 5 років тому +1

    I came out last week and I’m leaving my all girls school soon to go to a coed college and I’m buzzin’ 😁

  • @aimeelouise4352
    @aimeelouise4352 5 років тому

    Wow your hair looks fantastic

  • @sludgeparty
    @sludgeparty 5 років тому +209

    it's a little stupid how ridiculously gender affirming buying the "right" underwear is 😂

    • @lostforever773
      @lostforever773 5 років тому +20

      Not only that, it can be more comfortable, even as a cis woman
      And of course, non binary and transgender people might/personally feel more comfortable, I agree

    • @windcrystal1349
      @windcrystal1349 3 роки тому +5

      @@lostforever773 A lot of (almost all) NB considering themself as trans. You dont have to separate NB people and trans people...

    • @lostforever773
      @lostforever773 3 роки тому +9

      @@windcrystal1349 not almost all, no
      One might be an umbrella term, but still

    • @lostforever773
      @lostforever773 3 роки тому +1

      @@windcrystal1349 so yeah,they are still different enough that I'm separating them the way I did

    • @windcrystal1349
      @windcrystal1349 3 роки тому +2

      @@lostforever773 a trans person is a person who disagree with the gender of his born. Every NB I know are considerating themselves as trans. Just one of them dont, but it's cause his parents asked to put the ''x'' gender on his paper, because he has XXY chroms, so he is cis NB, but if he didn't have the ''x'' gender, he would be trans. Anyways, I know that some dont, but I dont see in what a trans men and a trans NB are different... And please, less rude when you talk to someone ! I'm a person, I have feelings, I'm not a shit, so stop talking to me like if I was one, thanks you.

  • @butteredlampshade
    @butteredlampshade 3 роки тому +1

    My binder is coming in 2 months! I'm really excited for when it comes through the mail! (Don't worry Ill try and not go over 8 hours and I'll try and take several day breaks)

    • @user-kl5oh9ew1u
      @user-kl5oh9ew1u 3 роки тому +1

      my binder is coming in in 2 months too! aah im gonna cry- im happy for youuu bro

    • @butteredlampshade
      @butteredlampshade 3 роки тому

      @@user-kl5oh9ew1u aaaah im so happy for you too!

  • @ignis1594
    @ignis1594 4 роки тому +1

    Yeah gc2b is wonderful

  • @valerienpops7176
    @valerienpops7176 5 років тому

    You are incredible and delightful!

  • @laradilley5572
    @laradilley5572 5 років тому +4

    Cheap and cheerful 😂
    From watching another UA-cam channel, Being British: Joel and Lia, I learned that the word pants in the UK means what we call underwear in the US. I had not known that before. We use the word pants to mean like trousers.

    • @laradilley5572
      @laradilley5572 5 років тому

      Tony Mvr Are you in the Facebook group?

    • @ezekiel5537
      @ezekiel5537 5 років тому

      In Canada we say gitch to mean (men's) underwear 😂

  • @snailofkale
    @snailofkale 4 роки тому +5

    Here we see a father trans caring for the young. Nature is amazing.

    • @snailofkale
      @snailofkale 4 роки тому +3

      First of all, it's a joke. Secondly, it's not bodily destruction. It's a highly controlled transition between genders. And thirdly, I'm not even trans?

  • @valerienpops7176
    @valerienpops7176 5 років тому +1

    Thank You Jamie for all your advice and sense of humor you are just wonderful!

  • @Werewolf_Prince
    @Werewolf_Prince 3 роки тому

    Honestly, I would love to get underwear for Christmas!

  • @sammerz2073
    @sammerz2073 3 роки тому

    Thank You, amazing king

  • @kole5254
    @kole5254 5 років тому

    He looks really good in this vid

  • @alecjones2360
    @alecjones2360 5 років тому +12

    Thanks Dad !

  • @freddy9585
    @freddy9585 3 роки тому

    I have been talking with therapists now about top surgery and I'm exited

    • @joojimaikeru
      @joojimaikeru 2 роки тому

      i hope you get what you are looking for !

  • @bunnyday1473
    @bunnyday1473 2 роки тому +1

    This video was posted ages ago but it's super helpful as I've worked with trans people at work (retail, shopping) and these sorts of things are important to know as it can help me to make things more comfortable for them by understanding.

    • @Rachel-fi4sc
      @Rachel-fi4sc 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you. Thank you so much for putting in this much effort.
      The worst transphobia I have ever experienced was from a shop assistant. Thank you for going out of your way to make sure others don't have to deal with situations like that. Your kindness and understanding will mean the world to your customers.

    • @bunnyday1473
      @bunnyday1473 2 роки тому +1

      @@Rachel-fi4sc I'll continue to do my best, everyone deserves respect and understanding no matter where they are and I want to try and make sure that always happenes no matter where I work. I had one experience where I was helping a person who was mid-transition while they were in my fittingroom and I felt horrible as other employees in our store want to "get a look at them". I kept my girls busy keeping those other associates at bay but I wished I could have done more. I never saw that person again and I'm sure it's because of that incident, I'll always feel so horrible about it.
      I hope you never have a bad experience ever again and always feel safe and happy no matter where you go ❤

    • @Rachel-fi4sc
      @Rachel-fi4sc 2 роки тому +1

      ​@@bunnyday1473 That sounds like an awful, awkward situation! Thank you for doing something to keep that person safe.
      Hindsight is always 20/20, and it's much easier to come up with ideas when separate from the stressful incident, but if something like that ever happens again, would a threat of calling store security on the associates work? Because, that sort of behaviour is 110% not on, and there might be a good legal case for them a) acting inappropriately toward / perving on a customer, and b) misusing their privilege as employees to do so.

    • @bunnyday1473
      @bunnyday1473 2 роки тому +1

      @@Rachel-fi4sc honestly, it's something I would consider, sometimes you've just got to do something a bit more drastic when people don't listen and respect others. It's sad but it is what it is. Thanks for talking with me about this, I've always felt bad about what happened and wanted to learn so I can do better in the future and this has really helped, I hope I can do my best when it's needed 💚

    • @Rachel-fi4sc
      @Rachel-fi4sc 2 роки тому +1

      @@bunnyday1473 Thank you for protecting that person as much as you could. Thank you for educating yourself to better protect others in the future.
      Having been on the receiving end of people like those unfortunate associates, I know how much it means to have people like you around.

  • @blue_jay31
    @blue_jay31 3 роки тому +2

    You have been so brave,thanks for tilling your story! All the best ?

  • @outmodedtiger
    @outmodedtiger 5 років тому +92

    I'm trans but no matter what I do I can't to pass as male in public because I have naturally massive hips and there's nothing I can do about it.

    • @RoundSeal
      @RoundSeal 5 років тому +19

      Me too, it's terrible. It makes trying to find underwear/trousers that fit an absolute nightmare. (Waist size fits, but it'll never get over the hips....or fits around the hips but it's so loose at the waist you can fit a battleship down your pants. sigh)

    • @Dr3Mc3Ninja
      @Dr3Mc3Ninja 5 років тому +30

      Would gaining muscle in your top half help balance it out at all? Or at least make your hips less obvious?

    • @bobduncan9187
      @bobduncan9187 5 років тому +8

      I find large shirts and sweatshirts help hide curves

    • @5hundredsixty8
      @5hundredsixty8 5 років тому +38

      pro tip: in order to conceal a fleshy bulk, you actually wanna have the garment fit that area well, and then add more clothing bulk to the neighboring narrower body area!!! basically, its counterintuitive to add extra bulk to a zone you wish to de-bulk, so instead widen out your narrower zones to make your wide zones appear less wide by comparison! example: get pants that fit you perfectly at the waist to thigh zone with a straight/wide leg. also, upper body bulk is your friend!! tops and jackets with extra detailing on the shoulder area will add visual mass to that area and draw the eyes upwards (if you do that and add visual interest to the footwear department it can help make ya look taller too apparently)!

    • @alexanderfelixmathewson9533
      @alexanderfelixmathewson9533 5 років тому +5

      @@5hundredsixty8 i can confirm that this works

  • @jaymesmcqueen2013
    @jaymesmcqueen2013 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @itsarubiks
    @itsarubiks 2 роки тому +4

    I got my first binder today from a thrift store aimed at the transgender community ( they have a 1st binder free program), I'm non-binary and I'd be lying if I told you I didn't start bawling when I saw myself in it.

  • @Subjected_To_Furs
    @Subjected_To_Furs Рік тому

    Thanks dad this really helped :)

  • @malingreaney-stasiak2837
    @malingreaney-stasiak2837 2 роки тому

    I got my friend his first binder for Christmas in 2021

  • @jeffreysegal2065
    @jeffreysegal2065 5 років тому +1

    I enjoyed the underwear fashion show. As a cis male, i tend to have not enough in back and too much in front for most underwear, tho I have pretty good luck with pouch-front trunks. You should discuss the challenge of different proportions and finding clothes to fit.

  • @ilorarakib6342
    @ilorarakib6342 5 років тому

    Best dad ever

  • @kokichikomaeda1678
    @kokichikomaeda1678 5 років тому +140

    My trans dad is better than my actual dad?😂

    • @urboisammy8816
      @urboisammy8816 5 років тому +1

      SaMe??!

    • @youngbutretro4228
      @youngbutretro4228 3 роки тому +3

      @Cam Morrison Jamie was born in the wrong body. He wasnt the gender he was assigned at birth. Biological sex and gender are two seperate things. Why is it so hard for boomers to understand that?

    • @youngbutretro4228
      @youngbutretro4228 3 роки тому +1

      @Cam Morrison *bisexual man

  • @mirandadewey9998
    @mirandadewey9998 5 років тому

    My boyfriend used briefs for packing but his new favorite is boxer jock from under armour. He likes his a little snug so things dont shift around on their own. He recently got a new multipurpose packer and started using a harness. Binding sucks especially for those with large chest. Wish the USA would wise up and make it so he could get at least top surgery. No way we can afford it on our own.

  • @markleon411
    @markleon411 5 років тому

    Great video. It would have been interesting to see you with a packer in each underwear style.

  • @itsmr.stealyogirl27
    @itsmr.stealyogirl27 2 роки тому +1

    Since I'm unable to get boxers, I get female boy shorts, which can basically work as boxers but the female version. And since I'm relatively small, I have ones in a girl's large and others in a women's small. The women's small look more like boxers since they fit longer on me and have the gap like boxers do. I also still have my cycle, so the smaller ones work better for that since they fit more like girls' underpants

  • @jaypegleg
    @jaypegleg 5 років тому

    Oh hey Ash Hardell did a collab with the Underwear Expert!!

  • @MistyRainfallSprout06
    @MistyRainfallSprout06 3 роки тому +1

    This video had to be in my recommendations after wearing my binder for 7 hours straight without taking a break 😂 (btw it's my first time wearing a binder)

  • @thiccpicc3255
    @thiccpicc3255 5 років тому

    Those are adorable as heck! I want to get them for my husband now too cute :). Thank you for these videos you help so many trans men