Sara, I'm a former Trucker. 44 years of trucking is a lot of hands on real world "street smart" experiences. Anyone out traveling & sleeping in their vehicles is a potential target for a cacophony of unsavory characters. You must always be aware of your surroundings. A good dog such as a Boxer, a Pit or a German Shepherd is always an excellent early warning asset. Your safest bet is to never communicate with any intruders and leave the area immediately.
Once in Hawaii I was camping with my g-friend. We were in a tent in the late afternoon in a sleeping bad silently when she says: Hay, wait. There's someone outside the tent sneaking around. So I said just loud enough for him to hear: `Quick get the gun.' We had no gun but we saw his back running away real fast. We stayed there for about a wk. longer undisturbed.
@@garcdonald Sorry I meant to say where in Hawaii was that? LOL That area is a little sketchy as they say. That was smart quick-thinking saying get the gun! I camp on the east side of the North Shore called Malaikahana. There's a private Campground there and it is fairly safe. I lived in Hawaii for 20 years and have camped there all those years. I moved back to the mainland to take care of my parents. But now I plan to go back there to live. Unfortunately lot more homeless are out there. But it seems like this private Campground is the safest I have found on the island!
Thank you Edith! I completely agree, I removed myself from the scenario. At time time of his confrontation the fight or flight response kicks in. I had no desire to fight so all my actions were geared toward leaving. Humans are instinctual, & it's important to understand and meditate on how to respond to these scenarios.
@@judegallagher2355why not let someone live their life free and as they wish. Also why do we have to live in a world like this anyway. She should be anywhere as she well pleases and without worrying about safety. People like him should be reprimanded. Not people like her.
Buy a 50,000 candle-power handheld spotlight that plugs into a 12V socket. Someone hit in the face at night with that light will be almost totally but temporarily blinded for quite a while.
" Trust you're gut" right there, always trust you're instincts !!! I'm 55 yrs old and a Veteran and if I didn't always trust my gut, I would literally not be here now and I mean this. Thank you, stay safe out there y'all.
I'm sure you've taken more precautions now, and I don't know your situation, but I never EVER let people know I'm a solo female when I'm traveling, especially in parking lots or free campgrounds. I keep my windows covered, and I eat and take care of business other places and pull into where I'm staying after dark with a hood on, no lights, and go straight to bed. I recommend this for all solo female travelers.
That man was lying when he said he thought the girl he was looking for was in your van. A perp will make up all kinds of stories to make him seem like he has no ill intentions. Excellent for you to have the courage to share this incident, it will potentially thwart other attempted break ins.
A traveling companion like a dog is not just amazing having a friend BUT also a protector when you're walking alone in the valleys and when you're walking and exploring.
That is a clear advantage of traveling in a van, RV or SUV, as opposed to a trailer; you can drive off and not have to get out thus exposing yourself to danger.
even sleeping in the bed of a pick-up truck, as long as your whole body can slide between the window between the bed of the truck and the cab of the truck.
@@Royalsprincess1 Excellent point! I know, late to the party, but, you make a VERY good point. Once I arrived at a friends place in rural Oregon to late at night to wake them. So I jumped in the back of my trucks camper shell with raised bed and storage underneath to sleep. Just before dawn, I heard a screaming mountain lion, then sat up and watched it pull a full sized deer up the tree next to me. A short time later it marked everything around the tree. I tried to wait him(?) out, but it was not gong anywhere. Fortunately I had purchased the optional 3 panel slider window to the cab, and was able to wiggle through and leave. I also carry a super powerful 12v spot light for finding campsites after dark, but never thought of putting it in some ones face before, great idea! FYI, if you ever hear a mountain lion scream, you will NEVER forget it! Sara, please turn the sound up, I could barely hear you. Thank you for bringing attention to this very serious topic!
It’s so important that you shared this otherwise everyone has a warped view of just the glorious part of van life. Thank you so much as you’ll help others stay safe. Glad you listened to your intuition and left the situation. 💜
In my first week of mobile dwelling I've had this happen to me 3 times... In the middle of the night. All 3 times, my dog (shepard mix) was on point ready, willing and trying to destroy the "visitors".... Meanwhile my other dog (pitmix) kept me all snuggly and and warm in bed.. Of coarse she too would "go to work" if need be but so far she just gives a lil grawl... First time was scarry waking up to fierce attack barking, snarling and digging at window to get em... For the record, I'm a 51yr old male and this is not my first "mobile dwelling" adventure... But it is my first time with dogs :) So far, I highly recommend k9 road companions...
wow! i love how your k9’s have been such good company. i’m sorry you had to go through these experiences but i’m so thankful you had your fur babies 🐕🐶💛
@@_JustSyd_ get any protector breed as a baby puppy , rott , Pitt, boxer, German shepherd... They will naturally protect you / your family , no training needed really, it's just their way :) 🐕 if they're bonded to you they'll fight for you
Never camp in an empty parking lot. It takes seconds to break a window. Honey, please be more careful. Ashville has a big meth problem. As does most of the country. I traveled and camped for 19 years. Had like 2 bad experiences similar to this. Moving away is the best option.
Thank you Barbara - it saddens me to see the effects drugs has had on our world - i'm sure after your experience in traveling you've really learned a lot! Thank you for the message
@@milotorres6894 I think you greatly misunderstand the nature of addiction. Guys like this are not the norm, but the longer we keep proper treatment for it out of the reach of most Americans, then expect to see more and more. A lot of this has to do with Regan closing all the asylums in the 80's too, and the remnant's of the CIA's crack epidemic; not to mention their and other alphabet agencies complicit behavior with starting a war directly related to (among other things, obviously) acquiring and VERY violently guarding (not burning or anything ;))the world's largest collection of poppy fields. Wonder where all that goes - how it gets all the way up to Mexico so easily? Guess we'll never know! But yes, sure. This is the addicts' fault entirely. Let's just forget about all the countries that have adequate social programs and decriminalized drugs & have had their meth and heroin abuse drop to almost nothing for the first time in a long, long time. So stop it, that is not very love and light to be so cruelly judgmental. Very "low vibration" of you, Milo. Most addicts are suffering immensely, lost, and broken inside. A lot of this is a MENTAL HEALTH epidemic. Many have lived through childhoods of extreme abuse, rape, watching people die, being tortured by partners or caretakers who seemed trustworthy.. some were trafficked and forced into addiction by pimps or "boyfriends"/"girlfriends" etc. So please rethink your heartless stance before responding, if you do so at all. I don't wanna hear any bullshit where you try to justify such awful words. You're the selfish and ignorant one if you cannot, at the very least, sympathize with them. They are human beings worthy of healing and respect.
@@SaraDungo Sara there are Apps you can check with for campers in every state, some places are free stay with showers and Laundromats. Do not stay at parking lots omg
just happened to me last nite some homeless person banged on driver side window while i was sleeping yelling "hes inside theres blood everywhere!" i. didnt come to front and then he rode his bike away then i got in front seat started up and drove away. probably some drug addict. delusion
Next time if you don’t mind me giving advice. 😌I feel the best thing to do when anyone is approaching your vehicle /van besides the c(ops) shut all your lights off if they’re not already off and just grab your keys and safely drive away. Don’t say a word to them especially if they cannot see you just quietly pull off.
Absolutely correct. Don't engage with such people unless you have to. And keep a can of bear spray handy. It's only takes the right tool to break a window in a short second. Take care of yourself dear.
Guess that's where we're so different. I'm 66, a TEXAN & I would have RUN HIS A$$$$$ OVERRRRRRRRR!!!! Gals let's stick together..... Sorry but I'm sick of crazies being CRAZY.
I hope someone recognizes him and identifies him to the world. I especially hated the way he waved goodbye--smug in the knowledge that he had terrorized you.
I like the high-powered light option that others mentioned but also get a car alarm with a panic button and/or a CB with a loud PA speaker. If you start telling him to leave you alone over a loud PA it will get people's attention real quick especially at night.
One thing I learned from my conceal carry weapons permit class was ….. “you are in a 2 ton steel box. stay calm and GO! That box you are in is the safest place . Good job 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼
Yeah, this guy wasn't harmless. He scoped out the situation and then aggressively knocked like he was the police and had every right to do so. Wanted to get a look at you and then got angry when he saw that you were recording or taking a picture of him. He even acted all innocent and friendly as you drove away, like, nothing to see here. So glad you keep all your doors locked and didn't fall for the fake police knock or the fake story to try to get you to open a door. I live in a sticks and bricks and you best believe my doors are locked at all times. If someone knocks, I never open it unless I know them. Otherwise talking through the door is as far as they get and telling them to leave, not interested, don't have any or I'm calling the police, whatever to get them to leave. At least in a van you can drive away. Very good call on your part.
yes i noticed that too! his temperament totally changed as soon as he saw I was recording him. It was interesting that he was alert enough to even see that detail. Never trust a stranger even if they appear to be harmless - I'm definitely grateful for the fact that no one was harmed. Super important to add situational awareness to the balance of life - and thank you so much for your message
So glad you are OK. Might want to download sounds of a shotgun being cocked and play that the next time there's a creeper, that and scary dog bark, police siren and a man's voice.
ua-cam.com/video/tpfOhYRYv80/v-deo.html Seriously though, be safe out there. Have stayed in a van the entire pandemic and strangers (mostly pandhandlers) have knocked on my window as much as the police. It's not as fun and free as it seems sometimes and I don't see it getting more enjoyable with unemployment benefits and stuff ending.
Jeffrey Dahmer appeared to be a nice guy also. This creep could be a rapist or serial killer. Just because he acted innocent and stupid when she was leaving, doesn't mean e is not a dangerous criminal. You never know who is or isn't a criminal. People always say after they learn a so called innocent person commits a crime"I thought he was an innocent creep". A relative was almost killed by someone everyone thought was just a petty theft creep
This story needs to be told. And GIRLS even in your cars we do tend to sit in our cars put on make up., talk on phone etc just LOCK your doors! Best advice i have. Been given.
the only mistake i think you made was from the moment you heard the knock and realized it wasnt the cops you proceeded to have a conversation instead of immediately starting your van and peeling out.
Flight is best option to remove yourself from the threat. If your path is blocked always remember to dial 911 as soon as you feel threatened. When you park it's a good idea to write down you location, address, surrounding landmarks, and know compass headings to give accurate location to law enforcement. Plan ahead and be aware. Nice presentation.
If your path is blocked run the asshole over then call 911. Plan your work, work your plan. We have a right to have a quality life free of fear. And remember never fall for the oke doke
Great advice, also being well prepared now for future situations, may I suggest also, use your car key pad and push the emergency button, not only will it alert others, but may throw the person off guard momentarily so you have time to call 911, the flashing lights and noisy horn will certainly draw attention to person standing outside your van! Stay safe sweet one! May God protect you, and fulfill every promise and purpose in your life 💝
@@conniet8921 I mean, run him over if he become extremely dangerous and if he tried to stop the vehicle. this girl needs to also carry a real weapon and videos are very important for evidence 😅
This helps others by sharing their footage. Helps us all prepare better and to see what mistakes we maybe making. Thank you, so so sorry you encountered this. Be safe!! Thank you for sharing!! 💜🕯️
Thank you for your message. I'm glad this can help others stay aware and calm. I'm grateful it all worked out and nothing worse came of it. Thank you again 💛
No one with any sense and common decency approaches another's tent, camp ground, camper, etc. unless invited. He had bad intentions. He deserves to have a life changing experience very soon. Why do people ever question whether they should speak or show the truth? Whether it involves morons, meth heads, abusive law enforcement. Not exposing such things encourages them to continue. Learning from others, experience, is always helpful. This video will make others take safety and security seriously.
U're very right about lower vibration that predators can sense. I noticed that a lot. Also, u might wanna have ready anytime to play an audio sample of a fierce dog breed barking. Those outside would think it's a dog inside and get scared.
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yes certain peoples prey on fear. Women are incredibly fearful and show it outwardly in most dire situations.since they arent physically endowed like Males typically are they cant really defend themselves (unless they have a gun or weapon). Women should develop spiritually and intellectually. And overcoming fear or not showing fear. That fear is what predators who have a carnal mind like a carnivorous animal that preys on fear or panic. Or carry a weapon at all times if alone
Unfortunately, traveling only is risky especially for a female. Covering your windows at night and keeping your doors locked always! Glad you were able to safely drive away. FYI: never use a propane camp stove in an enclosed space because of carbon monoxide. Be safe! 💯
Such an important video to post! I know that this is almost a year old… But such an always relevant video!!! Especially for women, watching you go thru it makes it less scary for us if we ever face the same situation. Thank you. And yes, 100% you did the right thing by filming and leaving. Great video!❤
40yrs ago I was a lone woman camper... on a motorcycle. in most campsites family groups would invite me to pitch my tent near them & I felt safe. today I am contemplating van-life camping & your video just illustrates how vulnerable we can be. be smart, be safe. thanks for posting your experience.
I follow some youtube account about female solo van living, and they never talk about the dangers they encounter. I appreciate this video SO MUCH! Because even though I love the content other UA-camrs are uploading, sometimes I feel like they only show the "pretty" stuff, and that is not realistic at all.
I just wanted to say that this is over a year ago and that there are still people out there today saying people glamorize everything on the road and never talk about these kind of experiences. Everyone I know or know of pretty much talk about mostly everything, whether good, bad, or in between.
It's all about how you carry yourself and what you look like. I'm a man who is also a weight lifter. I was raised in the hood so I have street smarts. Nobody even dares to try to mess with me in all my years of car life. I've even slept in the worst areas of big cities with zero problems at all People who do these things look for easy licks. Meaning someone who looks small, weak, has no street smarts, aren't from the area, etc. This man probably saw her way before he did this. He made the choice that she would be the person because she would be the easiest target. I know it's way more dangerous being a woman but there are still more precautions she can do to minimize this happening. Never ever tell people you're alone, any conversation she has with any man anywhere she should mention she's there with her boyfriend. She shouldn't be overly nice to strangers because that would be a sign of weakness to them. If she goes to a place and gets a shady feeling she should go somewhere else. Van life isn't dangerous nor scary. You have a larger chance of someone trying to break into your home than what happened to her. Most people in this country are nice and don't want any trouble, don't let the internet and TV make you think the world is full of bad people. It's not like that out here
Always be mindful of your surroundings, especially when your sight seeing. Once my sister was followed home and woke up with a crow bar pulling out her window out. She grabbed the window handle and started screaming bloody murder. The dude fought for about a minute and got scared and jump back over the fence. I had her move in with me the next day. Now she is better protected, 2nd amendment believer
That was a thought that ran through my head watching this, what if that guy had a car and followed her. Not trying to alarm anyone but it's best to have your wits about you at all times. Maybe an idea to get a rear facing cam that you can keep an eye on whilst driving. Wild camping is getting more and more popular there are tons of videos out there that anyone can watch, where they recommend isolated camping spots to others, I'm not going to lie it often makes me nervous especially when it's a solo female. I follow an account who have recently had to change the way they blog their trips and change their routine because of a stalker. There are some sick, screwed up people out there.
I'm glad you put his face out there in the public someone knows that idiot and we have a place for him. I'm sure he will find it as uncomfortable as you felt.
Hugs back! Tysm - I do regret even speaking out to warn him to leave - I could’ve just not said anything, but at that point I was basically ready to roll
@@SaraDungo Good stuff, you didn't panic, most would/could. Kudos. Good post game analysis and beautiful mountains/clouds the next day. Dog, Superbright light/motion lights bolted outside, as some suggested, big can 'o' bear spray -which you have, and look into securing the windows extra if possible. Good vid and thanks for sharing. Be well and safe.
@@jessicadarby9199 tried to get in? Did you actually watch? He knocked on the window.... This is a damn soap opera with youtubers doing anything they can to get clicks, including making this man in the parking lot look like a much larger problem than he actually was.
Please put you some extra inside locks on your doors. We also have cow bells on our doors so if anyone messes with them at all the bells ring really loud. Get you some solar motion detector lights for the outside of your van. They just stick on or you can permanently attach. You can also get a night motion sirens. Put 1 of them on each side inside of your windshield. Even behind your curtains facing outside on each side. And traveling by yourself....Please get yourself your CWL (Consealed Weapons License...Permit in some areas) and a small pistol. You will most likely never use it but it is there. Our Camper Van is like a fortress when we go to bed at night and we are much older adults. We recently went to a local State Park near our home for a couple of nights....first night there we had a wondering man. I could hardly dose off when through the blinds came a bright light like a spotlight. He must have been shinning it as he was walking up. About that time the solar lights came on and our night camera with alarm went off. It woke up the people on each side of us and the gentleman next door ran out and tackled the guy. We found out he had been snooping around camp sights for a couple of nights. We had no cell service but I had a 2 way radio...called my daughter...she called the Park Ranger and the Police. His parents said they didn't know he had been going out after they went to bed. The guy on the other side called BS as he had seen them outside when he walked away from their camp sight and went to bed before the 20 yr old male could return. They did arrest him and threw his parents out of the Park. After the Ranger and Police left the people around us wanted to look at our alarm setup...solar motion lights especially. The 2nd night was a dream.
Newly Updated Safety Suggestions; I just happened to see your channel, and others similar channels recently, and I think that you, and others sharing their actual reality, and some have expressed some of the up, and down sides to van, RV, or vehicle living. I believe that it is very helpful, and beneficial to others who may be thinking about this type of living without actually thinking through, about the some of the realistic problems that could occur with vehicle or van living etc... People need to know what up sides there are, as well as some of the down sides of vehicle living. I believe this channel, and other channels have been informative to others, including myself. Although, I am NOT living in a vehicle or anything like this. I feel that you , and others UA-camrs sharing this with your viewers will be very helpful. I wish you ALL the Best with your traveling endeavors. I shared this with another traveler as I watched their UA-cam channel for the first time, as yours, and I shared with them this information that may be helpful to you as well to others. Therefore, I would also like to suggest a few Safety tips, and items that may help you, or others in your viewing audience. Although, you may have knowledge of this already, I am not sure, so I hope this will be helpful to you, others or someone. *Keep a Extra working cellphone with you or in your vehicle. You can purchase inexpensive phone with a very low monthly price between 25, 35, 45, dollars a month with unlimited data and text, and some have Nationwide coverage Do your research for the best fit for you Carry Several Extra portable phone chargers, and cables. Consider theses items: *Placing Mounted Dashboard camera (Front) and (rear) possibly. (Dashcameras) With (interior view options) Adjustable view angles for privacy if needed. *Mini portable power charging station. I have also seen outdoor portable solar powered power stations, that can be recharged from sunlight this may be very useful to have, to power your devices. *Invest in a Cellular signal booster for outdoor use, and camping situations to boost or amplify your cell signal and reception. Research to see what you prefer. *Very Inportant: Invest in a SOS distress electronic signal device, this a kind of device can send out a distress signal with your exact location. There are various types of these devices, and including signal that can be used when boating or camping situations. There is also the Satellite communication devices, that can provide SOS emergency signal and GPS, and provide satellite text messaging capabilities anywhere. *Some have emergency Strobe lights SOS signaling with location alerts, and location updates that can be sent to your family, and emergency first responders. Some can be synchronized with your smart watch or phone. You can check online, and on Amazon, research what SOS emergency GPS devices will be a good fit for you. *Mini portable vehicle battery jumper charger *vehicle battery jumper cables *Vehicle Jumper cables *Keep a Fire extinguisher handy Smoke, and Carbon monoxide detectors can be helpful... *Mounted Dashboard camera front and rear possibly. Exterior vehicle cameras Interior vehicle cameras *Flashlights or pluggin spotlights *Portable spotlights, and lanterns Keep a few whistles around with you, and in your vehicle possibly in your vehicle’s center console *A set of long range 2 way radios, walkie talkies, to communicate with others during trips, some have 100 mile radius keep for emergencies. Use your own discretion regarding the use of any weapons. Don’t forget to bring Bear Spray Pepper spray Where is allowed If you own a drone you can use it to survey your area for animals etc. However, Please Be Safe and Beware of your Surroundings. Stay Alert, and Be Safe even when stopping at Rest stops, Truck Stops, and conducting your various tasks. Keep in often contact with your family, friends etc. Although, I just noticed your UA-cam channel, and other similar channels. You seem Very Aware of your surroundings and Alert, and you may be aware of many of these suggestions, however, I Don’t know, so I just posted this anyway to help anyone who may benefit from these suggestions. Keep up with the latest Weather Updates, beware and prepare for unexpected Weather events and conditions. Keep your vehicle gas filled Don’t chance your Safety by running your vehicle fuel or gas too close to Empty. Fill it up anyway, it will save you alot of time, and headache later on. Remember to keep up on routine maintenance, check your tires for wear, keep up with your fluids for your vehicle, like oil levels, washer fluid, brake fluid, antifreeze. Remember Because you are on the road riding for sometimes very long distances, and long periods of time, I would suggest investing in 2 sets of tires, and a spare, the extra set to rotate. Check the mileage ratings on your tires they all very. Conduct visual inspections of your tires often, check for damage, wearing, air pressure, etc Keep a pressure gauge to check your tires pressure and a tire pump. Keep towing insurance to Be Safe if you ever need it. It Doesn’t cost much try to get National coverage if available, or where you will be traveling. Keep Extra financing, and savings for any unexpected issues, vehicle repairs, and overnight stays, in a emergency or if you need to rest indoors. Keep Enjoying Yourself, Keep Enjoying the outdoors, and Nature Just..Please continue to Be Positive, Safe, and Alert.. Wishing Success, Well-being and Happiness You All. God Bless You, and everyone Traveling, or living in their vehicles, Vans, RVs, etc. Please Be Safe... Peace and Wellbeing... Author Advocate for Humanity, Safety Advocate Jason Sandifer, Michigan 10/06/2022, 10/02/2022 10/08/2022, 10/13/2022
As much as this is a common tale among us vanlifers, it never fails to rattle every single one of us. I'm so sorry this happened, lady. Please stay safe along your journey.
Girl you're little speach about the energy you put off being a deterrent to dangerous situations is so true, you're one of the first people I've heard talk about that and I whole-heartedly agree. Stay alert and centered and you'll be able to diffuse and evade many potentially scary situations.
I felt the same way!! I only just started meditating a couple years ago and never had even considered doing it in unsafe or unsavory situations until a few months back when I was terrified for my life. I truly believe it saved me. Not just because of the love and light I was emitting (though I know that’s a huge part) but because I was able to remain calm. Good luck and many more blessings to you Sara!
Air horn and a good torch to blind the intruder gives you time to get away. Glad you are safe, you did the right things, pat yourself on the back girl.
Having been on the road with my family for 5 years I suggest to everyone to turn on permanently location sharing to someone you trust and check in often.
Just leaving and calling the cops was the smart thing to do. This was an unsettling experience for you. Using common sense is key to situations like this and you did the right thing. You always have to be cautious of crazy people out there wanting to harm you because they exist. God be with you to keep you safe from danger and harm!🙏🏻✝️🙏🏻
This breaks my heart, I’m sorry you had to live this experience and felt unsafe. It’s so easy as a man to take feeling safe for granted. You are brave and I hope this event doesn’t dampen your spirit! 🙏
I had several instances happen during my time of living out and about...the only good thing for me is I had my two dogs who were very protective...and was a huge game changer for me. Is it possible for you to have a dog to accompany you through your travels...its a huge game changer...maybe had that person heard a large dog barking he might think twice! Watching this did bring back my situations...but that's ok I'm healed and I think like you do as far as inner peace and tranquility...I'm also a believer in God ...to protect me in all my needs and he did just that. I wish you the best your young,positive and your a very smart young woman. I wish you the best..💗
glad that you are safe. i started van camping recently and i think having a gun for self protection would be a good idea. we live in a crazy world. be safe! cheers!
I’m so sorry you went through this and you were very brave filming that creep, it’s very traumatic to have gone through that. Don’t let him interfere with your life’s journey. You come across as a gentle soul and empath. Please enjoy your life and be safe.
He probably saw her outside the van earlier and noticed her clown sleeve and nose ring. A skanky guy is going to naturally be drawn to another skanky person. It is just truth.
I am sure you’re considering extra safety measures: better locks, alarm system with loud siren pepper spray, a gun, etc. Of course, we all hope that you would never have to use or rely on these safety measures, but it sure would ease your mind knowing you have the means to protect yourself.
@@SaraDungo I had written that early on in the video. After I listened to your very intelligent way of handling the situation, I’m sure you’ve taken appropriate measures. Best of luck on your channel!!!🙂
When I was younger, out grocery shopping with my mom, a man followed the two of us all the way home from Walmart. To our front door. Has since always been a fear, because sadly it happens so often.
Your brave! honestly I'm a man with muscles still scared being alone outdoors 😅 so many people out there doing errands for 💸 or just a sick adrenaline rush from disturbing peoples peace ☮️✌️ stay safe
Skip the recording and get a dog. I had a yellow lab (they shed awful) but one day a guy walked up my drive I was in my camper and I Had to pull her off I never thought my sweetie was a brave vicious dog. Dogs are good or a shot gun just cock it n they will be gone there is something universal about click click….
@@Gimo76 Please whoever is reading this, do NOT get a dog just for this reason. They are innocent animals that need years and years of love and attention and shouldn't exist only to guard you. Get a gun instead and leave the dog for someone who actually wants a companion.
@@jenniviiv you know sometimes people go the wrong direction. I have had plenty of dogs all which were my babies and treated like gold. I had a few that if you messed with me you wished you hadn’t but none ever bit anyone. It felt good to know someone had my back. So not to worry I must have shared it wrong so Un bunch your shorts and have a nice day.
That was terrifying! The knock alone gave me Insta chills! You did great by having your doors locked and being ready to bail at a moments notice! I love that you aren’t letting that experience keep you from your goals! You are delightful. So glad I found your channel!! XOXO 💋
The biggest scared I had once was when 2 guys pounded on my van door screaming and the flat my tire. They were going to do the same when I open the door with a gun. They ran and I took off on a very bad tire until I found an open place to park and call for emergency tire change service. It took the guy almost an hour to get to me.
NEVER sleep in an isolated area as a solo camper. There are rules to this van life for a reason. He could have taken out your tires and used a simple jammer to make sure you couldnt call anyone as he or he and friends worked their way into your van and you.
Nah. SHE'S GOT THIS. She is "staying centered" in her "safe space" as an "emotional multidimensional being" living in perfect oneness with the universal rainbow! 😂🎉
What a great message for other people. Really appreciate that. We all need to be reminded that we’re not as safe as we think we are. Also I would try to be putting a curtain on those double doors. And some kind of sunshade that can be taken down immediately in your front driving window. But great job great message thanks
I have bear spray! I’ve never had to use it but when you pull it out it’s intimidating and usually scared them off. More than a little regular pepper spray.
I know this was a long time ago but thank you for sharing your story. I wish more ppl would share their reflections about situations like this because they happen and it’s good to not leave them out. Thank you!
You handled the situation really well. Interesting that it was the camera that made him back off. It's the best weapon you've got because these people know there's nowhere to hide once their face hits social media.
I was just looking at rv and vans as I contemplate a nomadic life. Your video set my choice in stone not to get any kind of pull trailer. I need to be able to get in my drivers seat and go. Huge piece of valuable insight. Thank you for your willingness to share your experience so others can learn. Glad you are safe.
I saw a video where a lady used a ratchet strap thru her driver and passenger door handles so the doors couldn't be opened from the outside - a similar arrangement could be devised for side and rear doors as well. Still disturbing and frightening - but you'd have felt more secure knowing the doors can't be opened from the outside - well, unless they wanted to make a huge scene of busting out glass - nothings foolproof
I have done the van life, first you parked in the absolute wrong place...if you cannot find a place (often the state parks off seasons and there is a ranger on duty still....allows homeless people who have no place else to go or van life people particularily women ... to park safely as long as they come in after dark (if they don't lock the gates on the one I stayed at for quite a while the ranger was so cool and compassionate to allow people to stay and build fires and even joined in on his rounds at our campfires ... he was a high school teacher during the day and the ranger at night...but thanks to him we are were safe...but the other places are at a hospital... just don't live in the parking lot....the police station is a good safe place...Walmart if there are no weirdos there usually a bunch of motorhomes and their are always people looking out for each other...but never park in a dark empty parking lot... for one your van look like it is easy target for breaking into...thus the knock to see if anyone is inside. I had some scary things happen...really bad things.... out in the Yukon at a remote spot on the side of the road luckily left my german shepard in the truck...drunk indians tried to break in and I had my two small children and on my way to Alaska to bring them up in clean enviorment and I knew there were plenty of jobs and it was as I thought the best experience to have made that choice to leave San Francisco bay area and drive the 4,000 miles with $300 dollars in my pocket to make it ...thought they'd stop me at the Canadian border but damn they didn't...so it must be meant to be and I asked the kids well what shall we do ...they were just little guys but both yelled out with smiles "Keep going mom"... aw damn ... so I did... never looked back and had a wonderful life there and found a good job, a mentor who helped me find a place to live as winter was approaching and how blessed this lady was for my small single parent family..a new apartment for $50 a month on housing where other states there was years waiting list.....and I started a good job....and life was good and my kids as they graduated from high school got a college grant...I was glad I had the strength to even consider leaving everything behind...I had nothing to lose, my family wasn't supportive nor helping me and I just thought I could do better in a place less crowded for the jobs and all I had to do was make it on the small amount of gas money and hope to find gas stations all the way up the Alcan higway....which is another whole story...but please if you ladies are going to do van life alone find safe places...take a weapons course and carry a pistol...but never stay in a dark empty parking lot...find an all night market store if you can. I did my trip in 1974....and everyone thought I was irresponsible or nuts....they didn't when I was eventually able to buy a new house being built and even visited ... and my kids got to grow up in a pristine atmosphere and no crowed class rooms. Be bold but be safe!
This is the right thing to do, sharing this video is important, solo van life must be loved with safety as well as with love for travel. Your advice is spot on. I’m glad you were safe, and able to move through that frightening situation with calmness with full awareness. Glad you spoke up. Enjoy your travels.
I’m so glad you are ok Sara. Happy too that you are sharing this. It gives insight into what can happen unexpectedly. You handled it very wisely in just leaving before he could do more. Happy travels in the future 😊
A few of things you could do differently in the future. Have all your nightly, routine things and cooking completed prior to dark. Or cook and prepare for your night in a public well light area away from your overnight parking spot. Once you've parked in your overnight spot, put up blackout curtains, only use minimal lighting, relax quietly and don't exit your van after you have parked for the night. Unless, someone has been watching you from the time you parked, if you use blackout curtains no one knows for sure if there is anyone in your vehicle. Don't talk to anyone that knocks on your vehicle. They won't know if anyone is in the vehicle, until you start up the vehical and drive away. If you're not sure if it was law enforcement knocking or not, keep driving and call 911, they will be able to confirm it for you.
You could have called 911 immediately since you were in a city and asked if cops were nearby. If you had a gun I believe it would have been legal to brandish it since it appears not all your windows are covered and he can see you. I’ve heard Asheville has gone downhill in recent years. It’s a good thing you have a van and not a trailer. He was probably just a drunk or druggie. You are right that fear is to be avoided but the important thing that a good effective defense plan helps more than all the meditation in the world.
You did a good job of addressing a situation and highlighting how to respond to such matters. It was an opportunity I’m glad you followed through on. THANKYOU and happy trails.
I stayed in both those parking lots almost exactly a year ago! Your analysis of the situation was completely accurate. (Realizing how much of our language is language of violence - was first thinking "dead on", then "on target") Your key is your best defense and staying calm and grounded is so important! Great job! And nice job with the video - thank you for sharing this story.
You did everything right which got you out of what could have been a lot worse than what it was. Another idea is to write down an emergency plan of action that is clear to see (luckily your clarity is your list). Another thing you could do is to blast your horn. Bravo for your quick thinking and your doors being locked!
Thank you so much for your message! Yes I totally agree having a game plan for when things go wrong is definitely a necessity. I travel intuitively but do always have a direction in mind - understanding situational awareness is crucial for times like these - yes the horn is a good idea!
@Sara Dungo I thinking knowing you are always safe no matter how tricky things get helps too. If that makes sense. And all the lessons/experiences we have are perfect...even the darker ones.
@@SaraDungo I know a man who solo camps and he has a recording of a loud and big dog and when he's bothered at night, he just hits the button and that predator leaves. He lets the dog speak for him. ha.
I thank you for this vlog. So many young female van lifers travel alone in remote places, strip down to their bikinis, and bath in rivers abs ravines, and vlog the whole experience for the world to see, as if safety is not a care in the world. Thank you for being honest and real.
I'm not knocking any one living their dream but when you show way to much of your life you are exposing yourself to the world. There in one Van life female who films when she changes & showers. I don't think that is very bright of her. Yes live your dream but be very smart & cautious.The world is not a safe place.
Yes...couldn't agree more. Saw some of those videos so called" living off grid" as well. Revealing too much without caring about the consequences ..but I heard some videos were just hoax for content only.
I'm so glad you are safe. My God that must have been terrifying. I live rural in a tiny home and really scary "bad man" things happen so I understand how you feel. You may want to pick up one of those devices that you scan the outside of your van to check for any tracking devices that someone may have put on it. Also Apple has a free app that can detect if an Apple Air Tag has been placed on you or your vehicle. I check mine vehicles frequently. Thank you for sharing this video. Be very careful of people's rage. Especially the man rage against sweet women. It's rampant. It's always good to have situational awareness and to be educated and aware!! I learned the hard way.
Thank you so much Wendy for sharing your experience and also this information about the apple air tags! i will definitely look into this. i don’t like living in fear, i normally choose not to. but you’re right, situational awareness is key! 💖🌈✨
Stay safe and glad you brought this up on people who are wanting to try the van life. Don’t let one incident keep you from experiencing, sharing, and growing. Focus on things you can control. Don’t let creeps or vagrants with mental issues deter you from your passion. Let positive energy come back and reject negative energy.
These things happen, it may happen again. It's happened to many. It happens to men with families in their motorhomes. You reacted fine. Leaving quickly was a good idea. Don't allow it to traumatize you or it'll limit all the good experiences you are planning to have in your travels. You did good.
You did the right thing, always run rather than fight. It's just a one off, it will probably never happen again. And provided you always keep the doors locked you are safe .
This is why, as a motherly type, I really worry about girls traveling alone in vans and cars as well as hiking into the woods alone or with a poor beloved dog they’re exposing to a horrible fate along with themselves. There are too many psychos and violent criminals out there. They look for places where they can prey on victims and avoid detection. The drug addict in the city may not be as dangerous as the nice guy on the mountain. Always stay around good people who will stand with you if need be. And don’t even trust a cute young guy or couple if you don’t really know them. Park in the well lit up parking lots of quality hotels as close to the front door as you can get. And get tough with psychos, don’t be polite or converse with them, just tell him to back the fk up or you’ll open fire. And shout like a dude at him while you speed away. Never engage or allow them to get within striking range. I’ve had thousands of psychos (not an exaggeration but actual occasions) come after me in my long life, and I never felt afraid, they angered me and endangered themselves, and I was quick to let them know who the lion was, but in a very calm and subtle way. They got the message.
Keep your keys nearby and sound off your alarm. Others would hear it seeing you had people near you. I know it's hard to think of everything when you're in a panic state. I'm so glad you're safe.
Terrifying video and glad you are safe. As many have already said in the comments, best thing you could have done was to get out of there. Don't engage, don't waste time. As I'm sure you know, never assume you are not being watched. That said, it is so cool that you have undertaken this journey. Safe travels.
Great job relocating. It sucks when that other side disturbs your calm. These situations happen in all kinds of scenarios.. Hotel rooms.. Upscale houses in the burbs.. moto-hotels... cabanas on the beach...RV parks.. . you name it. The difference in these outcomes is ALWAYS determined by your action plan and commitment to your plan. Bless your travels and your path. Courageous intelligent women will save our species. Be Strong and of good courage. know your surroundings. Have a solid support network in all times of your life.
I have a clown mask and a large knife- when people are creeping around my van I just stare at them through the window. Works like a charm
🤡 haha! omgoshhh what a good tactic, would bring great humor to me in the situation also
That's a great idea! I might use that tip 😂
I friggin love that 🤩
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Love that!!!
Sara, I'm a former Trucker. 44 years of trucking is a lot of hands on real world "street smart" experiences. Anyone out traveling & sleeping in their vehicles is a potential target for a cacophony of unsavory characters. You must always be aware of your surroundings. A good dog such as a Boxer, a Pit or a German Shepherd is always an excellent early warning asset. Your safest bet is to never communicate with any intruders and leave the area immediately.
thank you Roger. i appreciate your wisdom and insight. staying aware is key
Yes. Get yourself an American bulldog. Love them.
Absolutely 💯
@@j.3779 pit bull or a boxer would be grat or a bull mastiff
@@leslieburleson391 yes. American bulldog is my fav though. Bigger than s pitty but smaller than a Mastiff. N like Bulldogs are.. Lazy. 🤣
Once in Hawaii I was camping with my g-friend. We were in a tent in the late afternoon in a sleeping bad silently when she says: Hay, wait. There's someone outside the tent sneaking around. So I said just loud enough for him to hear: `Quick get the gun.' We had no gun but we saw his back running away real fast. We stayed there for about a wk. longer undisturbed.
thank you for sharing - that’s a good tip - glad you were unharmed !
Where in Hawaii what's that?
@@hughbennett5342 A block south of Mokuleia Beach park on the west side. What's what? I don't understand your question.
@@garcdonald Sorry I meant to say where in Hawaii was that? LOL That area is a little sketchy as they say. That was smart quick-thinking saying get the gun! I camp on the east side of the North Shore called Malaikahana. There's a private Campground there and it is fairly safe. I lived in Hawaii for 20 years and have camped there all those years. I moved back to the mainland to take care of my parents. But now I plan to go back there to live. Unfortunately lot more homeless are out there. But it seems like this private Campground is the safest I have found on the island!
@@hughbennett5342 Hey Hugh, I used to roast coffee at the coffee gallery.🤭
Sara, DO NOT PLAY WITH THESE TYPES OF PEOPLE!!! I CANNOT STRESS STRONGLY ENOUGH. NO CONFRONTATIONS JUST LEAVE. LEAVE, LEAVE!!!
Thank you Edith! I completely agree, I removed myself from the scenario. At time time of his confrontation the fight or flight response kicks in. I had no desire to fight so all my actions were geared toward leaving. Humans are instinctual, & it's important to understand and meditate on how to respond to these scenarios.
?? How did she play?? She packed up and left!
why not sleep in truck stops like the rest of us ?
@@SaraDungo
is that safe?
@@judegallagher2355why not let someone live their life free and as they wish. Also why do we have to live in a world like this anyway. She should be anywhere as she well pleases and without worrying about safety. People like him should be reprimanded. Not people like her.
Buy a 50,000 candle-power handheld spotlight that plugs into a 12V socket. Someone hit in the face at night with that light will be almost totally but temporarily blinded for quite a while.
you nailed it, I have the Nite-Owl Lexan 1,000,000 CP 12V...perfect weapon, lmao
Thank you! Yes I was thinking of getting a super strong mag light but one that plugs into 12v is probably the most energy efficient :)
@@Ironic_Travels great recommendation!
Buy a damn gun fuk that spot light 😤 take care of your self
@@jamesmeehan only light I need with my gun Is a lazer lol
" Trust you're gut" right there, always trust you're instincts !!! I'm 55 yrs old and a Veteran and if I didn't always trust my gut, I would literally not be here now and I mean this. Thank you, stay safe out there y'all.
thank you Kevin, your reassurance is affirming - i'm happy you are here and ok! 🌅🍵
*your "you're means "you are"!❤
I'm sure you've taken more precautions now, and I don't know your situation, but I never EVER let people know I'm a solo female when I'm traveling, especially in parking lots or free campgrounds. I keep my windows covered, and I eat and take care of business other places and pull into where I'm staying after dark with a hood on, no lights, and go straight to bed. I recommend this for all solo female travelers.
Agree!
Yes, arrive late, leave early.
That man was lying when he said he thought the girl he was looking for was in your van. A perp will make up all kinds of stories to make him seem like he has no ill intentions. Excellent for you to have the courage to share this incident, it will potentially thwart other attempted break ins.
Yeah this reminds of another video where a woman sleeping in her van was women up by a man saying she had his dog.
He wasn't lying, she was the girl he was looking for!
Stay safe out there.xx
Get a dog,dogs hearing is 5 times more acute than a humans.
Even if he wasn’t lying what the duck was he planning to do the poor girl he was looking for . It wouldn’t be right even if she was her
A traveling companion like a dog is not just amazing having a friend BUT also a protector when you're walking alone in the valleys and when you're walking and exploring.
That is a clear advantage of traveling in a van, RV or SUV, as opposed to a trailer; you can drive off and not have to get out thus exposing yourself to danger.
I concur - it truly is a benefit to just hop right in the drivers seat
even sleeping in the bed of a pick-up truck, as long as your whole body can slide between the window between the bed of the truck and the cab of the truck.
@@SaraDungo I live in a trailer, it's not bad, then again, I travel with guns, and I'm a man. I hope someone tries to intrude inside 😅
@@Royalsprincess1 Excellent point! I know, late to the party, but, you make a VERY good point. Once I arrived at a friends place in rural Oregon to late at night to wake them. So I jumped in the back of my trucks camper shell with raised bed and storage underneath to sleep. Just before dawn, I heard a screaming mountain lion, then sat up and watched it pull a full sized deer up the tree next to me. A short time later it marked everything around the tree. I tried to wait him(?) out, but it was not gong anywhere. Fortunately I had purchased the optional 3 panel slider window to the cab, and was able to wiggle through and leave. I also carry a super powerful 12v spot light for finding campsites after dark, but never thought of putting it in some ones face before, great idea! FYI, if you ever hear a mountain lion scream, you will NEVER forget it! Sara, please turn the sound up, I could barely hear you. Thank you for bringing attention to this very serious topic!
great point
It’s so important that you shared this otherwise everyone has a warped view of just the glorious part of van life. Thank you so much as you’ll help others stay safe. Glad you listened to your intuition and left the situation. 💜
Thank you Heather for recognizing that. It is important to show both the shadows and the light side of things. I appreciate your message 🙏
@@SaraDungo be safe my daughters 32 Sarah with an h also an explorer , crazyiee world
@@SaraDungo yes it is .. Never know who you helped along your journey & you worked through the darkness yourself.
Nico💞
@@SaraDungo I hope your ok😢😢😢. I'm worried about you😢😢😢😢♥️🌹
In my first week of mobile dwelling I've had this happen to me 3 times... In the middle of the night. All 3 times, my dog (shepard mix) was on point ready, willing and trying to destroy the "visitors".... Meanwhile my other dog (pitmix) kept me all snuggly and and warm in bed.. Of coarse she too would "go to work" if need be but so far she just gives a lil grawl... First time was scarry waking up to fierce attack barking, snarling and digging at window to get em... For the record, I'm a 51yr old male and this is not my first "mobile dwelling" adventure... But it is my first time with dogs :) So far, I highly recommend k9 road companions...
wow! i love how your k9’s have been such good company. i’m sorry you had to go through these experiences but i’m so thankful you had your fur babies 🐕🐶💛
Yes German Sheppards are very very protective over their master and family!!
where were you parked those times?!
Do you know a good place to look for good pups that are trained for guarding and safety?
@@_JustSyd_ get any protector breed as a baby puppy , rott , Pitt, boxer, German shepherd... They will naturally protect you / your family , no training needed really, it's just their way :) 🐕 if they're bonded to you they'll fight for you
Never camp in an empty parking lot. It takes seconds to break a window. Honey, please be more careful. Ashville has a big meth problem. As does most of the country.
I traveled and camped for 19 years. Had like 2 bad experiences similar to this. Moving away is the best option.
Thank you Barbara - it saddens me to see the effects drugs has had on our world - i'm sure after your experience in traveling you've really learned a lot! Thank you for the message
Good advice , so sad a state this drug crap has played out with ignorant lost souls of selfish behavior ... 👍✌️💪🙏
@@milotorres6894 I think you greatly misunderstand the nature of addiction. Guys like this are not the norm, but the longer we keep proper treatment for it out of the reach of most Americans, then expect to see more and more.
A lot of this has to do with Regan closing all the asylums in the 80's too, and the remnant's of the CIA's crack epidemic; not to mention their and other alphabet agencies complicit behavior with starting a war directly related to (among other things, obviously) acquiring and VERY violently guarding (not burning or anything ;))the world's largest collection of poppy fields. Wonder where all that goes - how it gets all the way up to Mexico so easily? Guess we'll never know! But yes, sure. This is the addicts' fault entirely. Let's just forget about all the countries that have adequate social programs and decriminalized drugs & have had their meth and heroin abuse drop to almost nothing for the first time in a long, long time.
So stop it, that is not very love and light to be so cruelly judgmental. Very "low vibration" of you, Milo. Most addicts are suffering immensely, lost, and broken inside. A lot of this is a MENTAL HEALTH epidemic.
Many have lived through childhoods of extreme abuse, rape, watching people die, being tortured by partners or caretakers who seemed trustworthy.. some were trafficked and forced into addiction by pimps or "boyfriends"/"girlfriends" etc. So please rethink your heartless stance before responding, if you do so at all. I don't wanna hear any bullshit where you try to justify such awful words. You're the selfish and ignorant one if you cannot, at the very least, sympathize with them. They are human beings worthy of healing and respect.
@@SaraDungo Sara there are Apps you can check with for campers in every state, some places are free stay with showers and Laundromats. Do not stay at parking lots omg
just happened to me last nite some homeless person banged on driver side window while i was sleeping yelling "hes inside theres blood everywhere!" i. didnt come to front and then he rode his bike away then i got in front seat started up and drove away. probably some drug addict. delusion
Next time if you don’t mind me giving advice. 😌I feel the best thing to do when anyone is approaching your vehicle /van besides the c(ops) shut all your lights off if they’re not already off and just grab your keys and safely drive away. Don’t say a word to them especially if they cannot see you just quietly pull off.
Facts
Yes I sleep in my house with all light off because I know my place and not the intruder
That’s smart. This comment needs more likes lol
Absolutely correct. Don't engage with such people unless you have to. And keep a can of bear spray handy. It's only takes the right tool to break a window in a short second. Take care of yourself dear.
I agree 👍 And by not saying anything, you're not giving them the fact that you're a female.
You showed remarkable restraint... I was so hoping you'd just drive over him.
haha! omg i know right, i can't lie, it crossed my mind, he really made me angry, but i'm glad i just got out of there 🙂
Guess that's where we're so different. I'm 66, a TEXAN & I would have RUN HIS A$$$$$ OVERRRRRRRRR!!!! Gals let's stick together..... Sorry but I'm sick of crazies being CRAZY.
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It had to be tempting to at least make him THINK you would run him down 😂
I thought she would too LOL!
I hope someone recognizes him and identifies him to the world. I especially hated the way he waved goodbye--smug in the knowledge that he had terrorized you.
Nah it’s AVL he’s just one of many like him
Today, the town no longer exists😮
I like the high-powered light option that others mentioned but also get a car alarm with a panic button and/or a CB with a loud PA speaker. If you start telling him to leave you alone over a loud PA it will get people's attention real quick especially at night.
Ooo I love this idea
Outside motion sensor lights, cameras, alarm, & self defense weapon inside...even if it's just wasp spray.
Better yet, have several pre recorded men's voices saying generic stuff like they are going to come out beat the crap at him.
Good idea!!
Good ideas.
One thing I learned from my conceal carry weapons permit class was ….. “you are in a 2 ton steel box. stay calm and GO! That box you are in is the safest place . Good job 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼
amen. when you got wheels - use em
Yeah, this guy wasn't harmless. He scoped out the situation and then aggressively knocked like he was the police and had every right to do so. Wanted to get a look at you and then got angry when he saw that you were recording or taking a picture of him. He even acted all innocent and friendly as you drove away, like, nothing to see here. So glad you keep all your doors locked and didn't fall for the fake police knock or the fake story to try to get you to open a door. I live in a sticks and bricks and you best believe my doors are locked at all times. If someone knocks, I never open it unless I know them. Otherwise talking through the door is as far as they get and telling them to leave, not interested, don't have any or I'm calling the police, whatever to get them to leave. At least in a van you can drive away. Very good call on your part.
yes i noticed that too! his temperament totally changed as soon as he saw I was recording him. It was interesting that he was alert enough to even see that detail. Never trust a stranger even if they appear to be harmless - I'm definitely grateful for the fact that no one was harmed. Super important to add situational awareness to the balance of life - and thank you so much for your message
@@SaraDungo You're welcomed Sara. I also found your teaching on energy interesting. I absolutely believe in that.
So glad you are OK. Might want to download sounds of a shotgun being cocked and play that the next time there's a creeper, that and scary dog bark, police siren and a man's voice.
ua-cam.com/video/tpfOhYRYv80/v-deo.html Seriously though, be safe out there. Have stayed in a van the entire pandemic and strangers (mostly pandhandlers) have knocked on my window as much as the police. It's not as fun and free as it seems sometimes and I don't see it getting more enjoyable with unemployment benefits and stuff ending.
Jeffrey Dahmer appeared to be a nice guy also. This creep could be a rapist or serial killer. Just because he acted innocent and stupid when she was leaving, doesn't mean e is not a dangerous criminal. You never know who is or isn't a criminal. People always say after they learn a so called innocent person commits a crime"I thought he was an innocent creep". A relative was almost killed by someone everyone thought was just a petty theft creep
Wow, the scenery the next morning was breathtaking! As far as the confrontation, you did everything right. No need to rethink your response…spot on!
Thank you Neil. I appreciate your message. I’m glad it worked out and that there was a silver lining the next morning 🙂
This is why it is very important to have as companion a dog, to guard you while you are on the road
This story needs to be told. And GIRLS even in your cars we do tend to sit in our cars put on make up., talk on phone etc just LOCK your doors! Best advice i have. Been given.
You hit the nail on the head, it’s a dark spirit that takes over them for sure. It’s truly sad, you handled this perfectly
You can never reason with insanity. Best to not engage and leave ASAP. Great job!!!! 💕💐
the only mistake i think you made was from the moment you heard the knock and realized it wasnt the cops you proceeded to have a conversation instead of immediately starting your van and peeling out.
Thank you for posting. Most people glamorize van life.
just good to be aware of the shadows as well as the highlights
I completely agree.
Every single van YT channel has an attempted break in. ALL of them!!
Flight is best option to remove yourself from the threat. If your path is blocked always remember to dial 911 as soon as you feel threatened. When you park it's a good idea to write down you location, address, surrounding landmarks, and know compass headings to give accurate location to law enforcement. Plan ahead and be aware. Nice presentation.
If your path is blocked run the asshole over then call 911. Plan your work, work your plan. We have a right to have a quality life free of fear. And remember never fall for the oke doke
Great advice, also being well prepared now for future situations, may I suggest also, use your car key pad and push the emergency button, not only will it alert others, but may throw the person off guard momentarily so you have time to call 911, the flashing lights and noisy horn will certainly draw attention to person standing outside your van! Stay safe sweet one! May God protect you, and fulfill every promise and purpose in your life 💝
@@kimberlymoyer1232 if you can capture the attack and harassment before you ran him over, that will help.
@@persona5305 YES!! Hopefully you can capture the harrassment or attack BEFORE you run him down.😂
But I agree run him down if necessary.
@@conniet8921 I mean, run him over if he become extremely dangerous and if he tried to stop the vehicle. this girl needs to also carry a real weapon and videos are very important for evidence 😅
This helps others by sharing their footage. Helps us all prepare better and to see what mistakes we maybe making. Thank you, so so sorry you encountered this. Be safe!! Thank you for sharing!! 💜🕯️
Thank you for your message. I'm glad this can help others stay aware and calm. I'm grateful it all worked out and nothing worse came of it. Thank you again 💛
No one with any sense and common decency approaches another's tent, camp ground, camper, etc. unless invited. He had bad intentions. He deserves to have a life changing experience very soon.
Why do people ever question whether they should speak or show the truth? Whether it involves morons, meth heads, abusive law enforcement. Not exposing such things encourages them to continue. Learning from others, experience, is always helpful. This video will make others take safety and security seriously.
I wish it was safe to freely exist without fear of being harmed by others. Glad you are okay, that was super scary. ❤️
U're very right about lower vibration that predators can sense. I noticed that a lot. Also, u might wanna have ready anytime to play an audio sample of a fierce dog breed barking. Those outside would think it's a dog inside and get scared.
i love this tip, thank you! cheers! 🦄💖🌈
Great idea
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yes certain peoples prey on fear. Women are incredibly fearful and show it outwardly in most dire situations.since they arent physically endowed like Males typically are they cant really defend themselves (unless they have a gun or weapon). Women should develop spiritually and intellectually. And overcoming fear or not showing fear. That fear is what predators who have a carnal mind like a carnivorous animal that preys on fear or panic.
Or carry a weapon at all times if alone
Unfortunately, traveling only is risky especially for a female. Covering your windows at night and keeping your doors locked always! Glad you were able to safely drive away. FYI: never use a propane camp stove in an enclosed space because of carbon monoxide. Be safe! 💯
Glad you're posting this. People need to see the real parts of being a solo female traveller on the road.
Unfortunately it happens to men too.
Such an important video to post! I know that this is almost a year old… But such an always relevant video!!! Especially for women, watching you go thru it makes it less scary for us if we ever face the same situation. Thank you. And yes, 100% you did the right thing by filming and leaving. Great video!❤
thank you so much, i know i had doubts about sharing but i appreciate your response
awareness is 🔑 and sometimes we have to share what’s uncomfortable
@@SaraDungo I thought my comment would for sure be in the abyss of time!😂 Your response made my day!🥰❤️
40yrs ago I was a lone woman camper... on a motorcycle. in most campsites family groups would invite me to pitch my tent near them & I felt safe. today I am contemplating van-life camping & your video just illustrates how vulnerable we can be. be smart, be safe. thanks for posting your experience.
I follow some youtube account about female solo van living, and they never talk about the dangers they encounter. I appreciate this video SO MUCH! Because even though I love the content other UA-camrs are uploading, sometimes I feel like they only show the "pretty" stuff, and that is not realistic at all.
Alyssa Vanilla had a weirdo experience too.
I just wanted to say that this is over a year ago and that there are still people out there today saying people glamorize everything on the road and never talk about these kind of experiences. Everyone I know or know of pretty much talk about mostly everything, whether good, bad, or in between.
good to keep it real! life includes the full spectrum of vibes!
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It's all about how you carry yourself and what you look like. I'm a man who is also a weight lifter. I was raised in the hood so I have street smarts. Nobody even dares to try to mess with me in all my years of car life. I've even slept in the worst areas of big cities with zero problems at all
People who do these things look for easy licks. Meaning someone who looks small, weak, has no street smarts, aren't from the area, etc. This man probably saw her way before he did this. He made the choice that she would be the person because she would be the easiest target.
I know it's way more dangerous being a woman but there are still more precautions she can do to minimize this happening. Never ever tell people you're alone, any conversation she has with any man anywhere she should mention she's there with her boyfriend. She shouldn't be overly nice to strangers because that would be a sign of weakness to them. If she goes to a place and gets a shady feeling she should go somewhere else. Van life isn't dangerous nor scary. You have a larger chance of someone trying to break into your home than what happened to her. Most people in this country are nice and don't want any trouble, don't let the internet and TV make you think the world is full of bad people. It's not like that out here
@@nomaderic I think you misunderstood my comments, well unless you're just talking in general.
Always be mindful of your surroundings, especially when your sight seeing. Once my sister was followed home and woke up with a crow bar pulling out her window out. She grabbed the window handle and started screaming bloody murder. The dude fought for about a minute and got scared and jump back over the fence. I had her move in with me the next day. Now she is better protected, 2nd amendment believer
Amen to 2nd amendment.💪💪
That was a thought that ran through my head watching this, what if that guy had a car and followed her.
Not trying to alarm anyone but it's best to have your wits about you at all times. Maybe an idea to get a rear facing cam that you can keep an eye on whilst driving.
Wild camping is getting more and more popular there are tons of videos out there that anyone can watch, where they recommend isolated camping spots to others, I'm not going to lie it often makes me nervous especially when it's a solo female.
I follow an account who have recently had to change the way they blog their trips and change their routine because of a stalker. There are some sick, screwed up people out there.
I'm glad you put his face out there in the public someone knows that idiot and we have a place for him. I'm sure he will find it as uncomfortable as you felt.
ikr , who knows if he’ll ever come across this. but i alerted the authorities at least
Good job 👍🏻. Didn’t panic & just rolled out. You handled it like a pro❣️Safe travels. Hugs💓💓💓
Hugs back! Tysm - I do regret even speaking out to warn him to leave - I could’ve just not said anything, but at that point I was basically ready to roll
@@SaraDungo Good stuff, you didn't panic, most would/could. Kudos. Good post game analysis and beautiful mountains/clouds the next day. Dog, Superbright light/motion lights bolted outside, as some suggested, big can 'o' bear spray -which you have, and look into securing the windows extra if possible. Good vid and thanks for sharing. Be well and safe.
@@SaraDungo just asking where we're you when this creeper tried to get in?
@@jessicadarby9199 tried to get in? Did you actually watch? He knocked on the window.... This is a damn soap opera with youtubers doing anything they can to get clicks, including making this man in the parking lot look like a much larger problem than he actually was.
@@JyroOne easy for you to say.
Please put you some extra inside locks on your doors.
We also have cow bells on our doors so if anyone messes with them at all the bells ring really loud.
Get you some solar motion detector lights for the outside of your van. They just stick on or you can permanently attach.
You can also get a night motion sirens. Put 1 of them on each side inside of your windshield. Even behind your curtains facing outside on each side.
And traveling by yourself....Please get yourself your CWL (Consealed Weapons License...Permit in some areas) and a small pistol. You will most likely never use it but it is there.
Our Camper Van is like a fortress when we go to bed at night and we are much older adults.
We recently went to a local State Park near our home for a couple of nights....first night there we had a wondering man.
I could hardly dose off when through the blinds came a bright light like a spotlight.
He must have been shinning it as he was walking up.
About that time the solar lights came on and our night camera with alarm went off. It woke up the people on each side of us and the gentleman next door ran out and tackled the guy.
We found out he had been snooping around camp sights for a couple of nights.
We had no cell service but I had a 2 way radio...called my daughter...she called the Park Ranger and the Police.
His parents said they didn't know he had been going out after they went to bed.
The guy on the other side called BS as he had seen them outside when he walked away from their camp sight and went to bed before the 20 yr old male could return.
They did arrest him and threw his parents out of the Park.
After the Ranger and Police left the people around us wanted to look at our alarm setup...solar motion lights especially.
The 2nd night was a dream.
Newly Updated Safety Suggestions;
I just happened to see your channel, and others similar channels recently, and I think that you, and others sharing their actual reality, and some have expressed some of the up, and down sides to van, RV, or vehicle living.
I believe that it is very helpful, and beneficial to others who may be thinking about this type of living without actually thinking through, about the some of the realistic problems that could occur with vehicle or van living etc...
People need to know what up sides there are, as well as some of the down sides of vehicle living.
I believe this channel, and other channels have been informative to others, including myself.
Although, I am NOT living in a vehicle or anything like this.
I feel that you , and others UA-camrs sharing this with your viewers will be very helpful.
I wish you ALL the Best with your traveling endeavors.
I shared this with another traveler as I watched their UA-cam channel for the first time, as yours, and I shared with them this information that may be helpful to you as well to others.
Therefore, I would also like to suggest a few Safety tips, and items that may help you, or others in your viewing audience.
Although, you may have knowledge of this already,
I am not sure, so I hope this will be helpful to you, others or someone.
*Keep a Extra working cellphone with you or in your vehicle.
You can purchase inexpensive phone with a very low monthly price between 25, 35, 45, dollars a month with unlimited data and text, and some have Nationwide coverage
Do your research for the best fit for you
Carry Several Extra portable phone chargers, and cables.
Consider theses items:
*Placing Mounted Dashboard camera (Front) and (rear) possibly. (Dashcameras)
With (interior view options)
Adjustable view angles for privacy if needed.
*Mini portable power charging station.
I have also seen outdoor portable solar powered power stations, that can be recharged from sunlight this may be very useful to have, to power your devices.
*Invest in a Cellular signal booster for outdoor use, and camping situations to boost or amplify your cell signal and reception.
Research to see what you prefer.
*Very Inportant:
Invest in a SOS distress electronic signal device, this a kind of device can send out a distress signal with your exact location.
There are various types of these devices, and including signal that can be used when boating or camping situations.
There is also the Satellite communication devices, that can provide SOS emergency signal and GPS, and provide satellite text messaging capabilities anywhere.
*Some have emergency Strobe lights SOS signaling with location alerts, and location updates that can be sent to your family, and emergency first responders.
Some can be synchronized with your smart watch or phone.
You can check online, and on Amazon, research what SOS emergency GPS devices will be a good fit for you.
*Mini portable vehicle battery jumper charger
*vehicle battery jumper cables
*Vehicle Jumper cables
*Keep a Fire extinguisher handy
Smoke, and Carbon monoxide detectors can be helpful...
*Mounted Dashboard camera front and rear possibly.
Exterior vehicle cameras
Interior vehicle cameras
*Flashlights or pluggin spotlights
*Portable spotlights, and lanterns
Keep a few whistles around with you, and in your vehicle possibly in your vehicle’s center console
*A set of long range 2 way radios, walkie talkies, to communicate with others during trips, some have 100 mile radius keep for emergencies.
Use your own discretion regarding the use of any weapons.
Don’t forget to bring
Bear Spray
Pepper spray
Where is allowed
If you own a drone you can use it to survey your area for animals etc.
However, Please Be Safe and Beware of your Surroundings.
Stay Alert, and Be Safe even when stopping at Rest stops, Truck Stops, and conducting your various tasks.
Keep in often contact with your family, friends etc.
Although, I just noticed your UA-cam channel, and other similar channels.
You seem Very Aware of your surroundings and Alert, and you may be aware of many of these suggestions, however, I Don’t know, so I just posted this anyway to help anyone who may benefit from these suggestions.
Keep up with the latest Weather Updates, beware and prepare for unexpected Weather events and conditions.
Keep your vehicle gas filled
Don’t chance your Safety by running your vehicle fuel or gas too close to Empty.
Fill it up anyway, it will save you alot of time, and headache later on.
Remember to keep up on routine maintenance, check your tires for wear, keep up with your fluids for your vehicle, like oil levels, washer fluid, brake fluid, antifreeze.
Remember Because you are on the road riding for sometimes very long distances, and long periods of time, I would suggest investing in 2 sets of tires, and a spare, the extra set to rotate.
Check the mileage ratings on your tires they all very.
Conduct visual inspections of your tires often, check for damage, wearing, air pressure, etc
Keep a pressure gauge to check your tires pressure and a tire pump.
Keep towing insurance to Be Safe if you ever need it.
It Doesn’t cost much try to get National coverage if available, or where you will be traveling.
Keep Extra financing, and savings for any unexpected issues, vehicle repairs, and overnight stays, in a emergency or if you need to rest indoors.
Keep Enjoying Yourself,
Keep Enjoying the outdoors, and Nature
Just..Please continue to
Be Positive, Safe, and Alert..
Wishing Success, Well-being and Happiness You All.
God Bless You, and everyone
Traveling, or living in their vehicles, Vans, RVs, etc.
Please Be Safe...
Peace and Wellbeing...
Author Advocate for Humanity,
Safety Advocate
Jason Sandifer,
Michigan
10/06/2022,
10/02/2022
10/08/2022,
10/13/2022
This is the reason I prefer having a rig that I can drive away in. Can't imagine otherwise... glad you are safe.
Yes, I see some of these van setups and those that opt for more storage or different layout over being able to access cab from back is really naive.
As much as this is a common tale among us vanlifers, it never fails to rattle every single one of us. I'm so sorry this happened, lady. Please stay safe along your journey.
Girl you're little speach about the energy you put off being a deterrent to dangerous situations is so true, you're one of the first people I've heard talk about that and I whole-heartedly agree. Stay alert and centered and you'll be able to diffuse and evade many potentially scary situations.
thank you for resonating, it’s just important to be aware and understand life is all about energy!
hope you stay safe and cheers! 💛🪄
I felt the same way!! I only just started meditating a couple years ago and never had even considered doing it in unsafe or unsavory situations until a few months back when I was terrified for my life. I truly believe it saved me. Not just because of the love and light I was emitting (though I know that’s a huge part) but because I was able to remain calm. Good luck and many more blessings to you Sara!
*your *speech
Air horn and a good torch to blind the intruder gives you time to get away. Glad you are safe, you did the right things, pat yourself on the back girl.
Having been on the road with my family for 5 years I suggest to everyone to turn on permanently location sharing to someone you trust and check in often.
Great tip!
I’m sorry you had such a scary situation. Glad you’re ok.
Thank you, i’m grateful it all worked out !!💛
Just leaving and calling the cops was the smart thing to do. This was an unsettling experience for you. Using common sense is key to situations like this and you did the right thing. You always have to be cautious of crazy people out there wanting to harm you because they exist. God be with you to keep you safe from danger and harm!🙏🏻✝️🙏🏻
And for us.🙏
I'm part for you 💯 everyone else .Ivan hi
When someone does that DO NOT SPEAK WITH THEM JUST DRIVE AWAY.
Just call 911
Exactly
This breaks my heart, I’m sorry you had to live this experience and felt unsafe. It’s so easy as a man to take feeling safe for granted. You are brave and I hope this event doesn’t dampen your spirit! 🙏
thank you for your kind message. although i am 100% okay i know others who haven’t experienced similar situations might need to be aware. 🤗
You weren’t even alone. Several cars in the parking lot. That guy was really on something
i know right! there were other cars but not any RV's - so from now on I try and stay where other campers are around :)
@@SaraDungo if all else ever fails , the van is also a weapon. Of course thats a last resort. But you hptta stay safe and alive, no matter what.
@@DHRodriguez86 that’s what I would do lmao I’d be like “stand down boy or I’m making meth man pancakes tonight!!”
Love going to stay with a safe or there's real campers and I finally said yes to get a shotgun for self-defense
I had several instances happen during my time of living out and about...the only good thing for me is I had my two dogs who were very protective...and was a huge game changer for me. Is it possible for you to have a dog to accompany you through your travels...its a huge game changer...maybe had that person heard a large dog barking he might think twice! Watching this did bring back my situations...but that's ok I'm healed and I think like you do as far as inner peace and tranquility...I'm also a believer in God ...to protect me in all my needs and he did just that. I wish you the best your young,positive and your a very smart young woman. I wish you the best..💗
glad that you are safe. i started van camping recently and i think having a gun for self protection would be a good idea. we live in a crazy world. be safe! cheers!
Window coverings would have been discouraging before he knocked on your van. He could see that you were alone BTW.
You won the fight by leaving. Take care of yourself, smart girl. And I'm glad you shared because the "pinterest" way is not the only way to vanlife.
I’m so sorry you went through this and you were very brave filming that creep, it’s very traumatic to have gone through that. Don’t let him interfere with your life’s journey. You come across as a gentle soul and empath. Please enjoy your life and be safe.
He probably saw her outside the van earlier and noticed her clown sleeve and nose ring. A skanky guy is going to naturally be drawn to another skanky person. It is just truth.
@@Stayfocused1984 omg a nose ring.. whatever shall we do ?!
@@Stayfocused1984 Wow not you calling her a skank for having a piercing*gasp*
@@Stayfocused1984As they say, it takes one to know one. Oh, and if you didn’t detect it, I’m talking about you.
I am sure you’re considering extra safety measures: better locks, alarm system with loud siren pepper spray, a gun, etc. Of course, we all hope that you would never have to use or rely on these safety measures, but it sure would ease your mind knowing you have the means to protect yourself.
thank you! totally have a number of defense tactics installed in my plan of action now
@@SaraDungo I had written that early on in the video. After I listened to your very intelligent way of handling the situation, I’m sure you’ve taken appropriate measures. Best of luck on your channel!!!🙂
It's healthy to allow yourself to feel anger after the fact when you've been victimized. That dude was VILE.
thank you for that. feel it to heal it right!
@@SaraDungo
maybe he was just super hungry from the aroma of her cooking and wanted to turn on the light to see the food?
@@spotlight_is - Even if, he had no right to harass and scare her.
He was just drunk.. . Not that that is necessarily safe.
When I was younger, out grocery shopping with my mom, a man followed the two of us all the way home from Walmart. To our front door.
Has since always been a fear, because sadly it happens so often.
Your brave! honestly I'm a man with muscles still scared being alone outdoors 😅 so many people out there doing errands for 💸 or just a sick adrenaline rush from disturbing peoples peace ☮️✌️ stay safe
thank you for being so kind - stay safe also!!✨🍭🦄
Try to get a taped recording of a large dog barking and at the same time rock your van, that should be enough to deter intruders.
i love that idea! thank you so much 🤗
Skip the recording and get a dog. I had a yellow lab (they shed awful) but one day a guy walked up my drive I was in my camper and I Had to pull her off I never thought my sweetie was a brave vicious dog. Dogs are good or a shot gun just cock it n they will be gone there is something universal about click click….
yes and maybe with a guys voice and the sound of loading a shot gun!!
@@Gimo76 Please whoever is reading this, do NOT get a dog just for this reason. They are innocent animals that need years and years of love and attention and shouldn't exist only to guard you. Get a gun instead and leave the dog for someone who actually wants a companion.
@@jenniviiv you know sometimes people go the wrong direction. I have had plenty of dogs all which were my babies and treated like gold. I had a few that if you messed with me you wished you hadn’t but none ever bit anyone. It felt good to know someone had my back. So not to worry I must have shared it wrong so Un bunch your shorts and have a nice day.
That was terrifying! The knock alone gave me Insta chills! You did great by having your doors locked and being ready to bail at a moments notice! I love that you aren’t letting that experience keep you from your goals! You are delightful. So glad I found your channel!! XOXO 💋
The biggest scared I had once was when 2 guys pounded on my van door screaming and the flat my tire. They were going to do the same when I open the door with a gun. They ran and I took off on a very bad tire until I found an open place to park and call for emergency tire change service. It took the guy almost an hour to get to me.
man i’m sorry you had to go through that - thank you for sharing - i’m glad you’re ok! you did the right thing
@@SaraDungo be careful out there but enjoy it
NEVER sleep in an isolated area as a solo camper. There are rules to this van life for a reason. He could have taken out your tires and used a simple jammer to make sure you couldnt call anyone as he or he and friends worked their way into your van and you.
Nah. SHE'S GOT THIS. She is "staying centered" in her "safe space" as an "emotional multidimensional being" living in perfect oneness with the universal rainbow! 😂🎉
Dude was too drunk or high to think of all that.
You did the exact right thing. Only be aggressive when there's no choice. I am very happy you are safe. Keep on your journey & have fun😊
What a great message for other people. Really appreciate that. We all need to be reminded that we’re not as safe as we think we are. Also I would try to be putting a curtain on those double doors. And some kind of sunshade that can be taken down immediately in your front driving window. But great job great message thanks
thank you so much for your response 🌸🌈🌺 awareness is key 🔑
thank you for the tip also!
@@SaraDungo and keep a spare key, hidden, but accessible.
Thank you for sharing. So sorry this happened to you 🥺As females who want to try this life we need to see reality & how to deal with it.
Thank you for this honest posting. It will keep other vanlifers safer.
Thankyou for sharing this moment. i think you've taught me to check the homelessness rate, bar scene and crime rates of the areas I'm staying in.
Well done Sarah! all that matters is that You are alive and safe.
thank you so much. i'm so grateful everyone was unharmed and i appreciate your message!
So much smarter for travelers to be able to drive away rather than be stuck in a trailer. Happy you were smart to leave and stay safe.
just like you had your van, always park it so that you don't need to back out just in case you need to leave quickly and can see your way out clearer
yes i like backing into parking spots. def helps
I thought it would be safer backing in as well, but someone (if in vehicle) could just block you in by parking in front of you…so, what do you do.?
Think Wasp spray, bear spray and after that a gun. I worry about you pretty young girls out there alone. You have to be more stealth than most.
Thank you for the recommendation and I appreciate the message so so much
Good idea Linda
I got my cpl for this reason. Whenever I upgrade to a larger van, and actually travel, I'll stick to states that reciprocate with my states license.
I have bear spray! I’ve never had to use it but when you pull it out it’s intimidating and usually scared them off. More than a little regular pepper spray.
Stay strong❣️Appears you have good instincts for your safety ❤️ You did the smart thing and started your engines. 👍🏻
I know this was a long time ago but thank you for sharing your story. I wish more ppl would share their reflections about situations like this because they happen and it’s good to not leave them out. Thank you!
Thank you so much Ana! 💖🧘♀️✌🏼
Thank you for this video. Bravo for all things you did to keep yourself safe, before, during and after. Important to share.
You handled the situation really well. Interesting that it was the camera that made him back off. It's the best weapon you've got because these people know there's nowhere to hide once their face hits social media.
I was just looking at rv and vans as I contemplate a nomadic life. Your video set my choice in stone not to get any kind of pull trailer. I need to be able to get in my drivers seat and go. Huge piece of valuable insight. Thank you for your willingness to share your experience so others can learn. Glad you are safe.
I saw a video where a lady used a ratchet strap thru her driver and passenger door handles so the doors couldn't be opened from the outside - a similar arrangement could be devised for side and rear doors as well. Still disturbing and frightening - but you'd have felt more secure knowing the doors can't be opened from the outside - well, unless they wanted to make a huge scene of busting out glass - nothings foolproof
One woman threaded her seat belt thru the door handle then lock it in place...both front doors
I have done the van life, first you parked in the absolute wrong place...if you cannot find a place (often the state parks off seasons and there is a ranger on duty still....allows homeless people who have no place else to go or van life people particularily women ... to park safely as long as they come in after dark (if they don't lock the gates on the one I stayed at for quite a while the ranger was so cool and compassionate to allow people to stay and build fires and even joined in on his rounds at our campfires ... he was a high school teacher during the day and the ranger at night...but thanks to him we are were safe...but the other places are at a hospital... just don't live in the parking lot....the police station is a good safe place...Walmart if there are no weirdos there usually a bunch of motorhomes and their are always people looking out for each other...but never park in a dark empty parking lot... for one your van look like it is easy target for breaking into...thus the knock to see if anyone is inside. I had some scary things happen...really bad things.... out in the Yukon at a remote spot on the side of the road luckily left my german shepard in the truck...drunk indians tried to break in and I had my two small children and on my way to Alaska to bring them up in clean enviorment and I knew there were plenty of jobs and it was as I thought the best experience to have made that choice to leave San Francisco bay area and drive the 4,000 miles with $300 dollars in my pocket to make it ...thought they'd stop me at the Canadian border but damn they didn't...so it must be meant to be and I asked the kids well what shall we do ...they were just little guys but both yelled out with smiles "Keep going mom"... aw damn ... so I did... never looked back and had a wonderful life there and found a good job, a mentor who helped me find a place to live as winter was approaching and how blessed this lady was for my small single parent family..a new apartment for $50 a month on housing where other states there was years waiting list.....and I started a good job....and life was good and my kids as they graduated from high school got a college grant...I was glad I had the strength to even consider leaving everything behind...I had nothing to lose, my family wasn't supportive nor helping me and I just thought I could do better in a place less crowded for the jobs and all I had to do was make it on the small amount of gas money and hope to find gas stations all the way up the Alcan higway....which is another whole story...but please if you ladies are going to do van life alone find safe places...take a weapons course and carry a pistol...but never stay in a dark empty parking lot...find an all night market store if you can. I did my trip in 1974....and everyone thought I was irresponsible or nuts....they didn't when I was eventually able to buy a new house being built and even visited ... and my kids got to grow up in a pristine atmosphere and no crowed class rooms. Be bold but be safe!
great story!!!!!!!!!
Wow! That's awesome!
So scary! I got shortness of breath watching it. Glad you are safe.
This is the right thing to do, sharing this video is important, solo van life must be loved with safety as well as with love for travel. Your advice is spot on. I’m glad you were safe, and able to move through that frightening situation with calmness with full awareness. Glad you spoke up. Enjoy your travels.
I’m so glad you are ok Sara. Happy too that you are sharing this. It gives insight into what can happen unexpectedly. You handled it very wisely in just leaving before he could do more. Happy travels in the future 😊
A few of things you could do differently in the future.
Have all your nightly, routine things and cooking completed prior to dark. Or cook and prepare for your night in a public well light area away from your overnight parking spot. Once you've parked in your overnight spot, put up blackout curtains, only use minimal lighting, relax quietly and don't exit your van after you have parked for the night.
Unless, someone has been watching you from the time you parked, if you use blackout curtains no one knows for sure if there is anyone in your vehicle. Don't talk to anyone that knocks on your vehicle. They won't know if anyone is in the vehicle, until you start up the vehical and drive away.
If you're not sure if it was law enforcement knocking or not, keep driving and call 911, they will be able to confirm it for you.
Thank you for sharing! ⬆️ Important advice!!! 🫶
You could have called 911 immediately since you were in a city and asked if cops were nearby.
If you had a gun I believe it would have been legal to brandish it since it appears not all your windows are covered and he can see you.
I’ve heard Asheville has gone downhill in recent years.
It’s a good thing you have a van and not a trailer.
He was probably just a drunk or druggie.
You are right that fear is to be avoided but the important thing that a good effective defense plan helps more than all the meditation in the world.
You did a good job of addressing a situation and highlighting how to respond to such matters. It was an opportunity I’m glad you followed through on. THANKYOU and happy trails.
It’s great that you shared this life experience with us.✌🏽❤️
thanks for the comment. i can only hope it spreads awareness to stay clear minded and aware!
I stayed in both those parking lots almost exactly a year ago! Your analysis of the situation was completely accurate. (Realizing how much of our language is language of violence - was first thinking "dead on", then "on target") Your key is your best defense and staying calm and grounded is so important! Great job! And nice job with the video - thank you for sharing this story.
You did everything right which got you out of what could have been a lot worse than what it was. Another idea is to write down an emergency plan of action that is clear to see (luckily your clarity is your list). Another thing you could do is to blast your horn. Bravo for your quick thinking and your doors being locked!
Thank you so much for your message! Yes I totally agree having a game plan for when things go wrong is definitely a necessity. I travel intuitively but do always have a direction in mind - understanding situational awareness is crucial for times like these - yes the horn is a good idea!
@Sara Dungo I thinking knowing you are always safe no matter how tricky things get helps too. If that makes sense. And all the lessons/experiences we have are perfect...even the darker ones.
Also loudly phone the police.
Thanks for being honest & telling what happened to you! People, need to know solo living in a van, isn't all that wonderful at times!
100 not all that wonderful!
@@SaraDungo I know a man who solo camps and he has a recording of a loud and big dog and when he's bothered at night, he just hits the button and that predator leaves. He lets the dog speak for him. ha.
I thank you for this vlog. So many young female van lifers travel alone in remote places, strip down to their bikinis, and bath in rivers abs ravines, and vlog the whole experience for the world to see, as if safety is not a care in the world. Thank you for being honest and real.
I'm not knocking any one living their dream but when you show way to much of your life you are exposing yourself to the world. There in one Van life female who films when she changes & showers. I don't think that is very bright of her. Yes live your dream but be very smart & cautious.The world is not a safe place.
Yes...couldn't agree more. Saw some of those videos so called" living off grid" as well. Revealing too much without caring about the consequences ..but I heard some videos were just hoax for content only.
I'm so glad you are safe. My God that must have been terrifying.
I live rural in a tiny home and really scary "bad man" things happen so I understand how you feel.
You may want to pick up one of those devices that you scan the outside of your van to check for any tracking devices that someone may have put on it.
Also Apple has a free app that can detect if an Apple Air Tag has been placed on you or your vehicle. I check mine vehicles frequently.
Thank you for sharing this video. Be very careful of people's rage. Especially the man rage against sweet women. It's rampant.
It's always good to have situational awareness and to be educated and aware!! I learned the hard way.
Thank you so much Wendy for sharing your experience and also this information about the apple air tags!
i will definitely look into this. i don’t like living in fear, i normally choose not to. but you’re right, situational awareness is key! 💖🌈✨
Im glad I stumbled on your channel and subbed. I like how you give details to help others in that situation. The clown mask idea up top is great!
Thanks for the sub! It means a lot! & thanks for the tip as well 🙏🏼
Stay safe and glad you brought this up on people who are wanting to try the van life. Don’t let one incident keep you from experiencing, sharing, and growing. Focus on things you can control. Don’t let creeps or vagrants with mental issues deter you from your passion. Let positive energy come back and reject negative energy.
Thank you. I really do ya! Good to be aware that darkness exists & especially to know how to cope with it in order to remain of the light!!! ✨🤗
These things happen, it may happen again. It's happened to many. It happens to men with families in their motorhomes. You reacted fine. Leaving quickly was a good idea. Don't allow it to traumatize you or it'll limit all the good experiences you are planning to have in your travels. You did good.
You did the right thing, always run rather than fight. It's just a one off, it will probably never happen again. And provided you always keep the doors locked you are safe .
This is why, as a motherly type, I really worry about girls traveling alone in vans and cars as well as hiking into the woods alone or with a poor beloved dog they’re exposing to a horrible fate along with themselves. There are too many psychos and violent criminals out there. They look for places where they can prey on victims and avoid detection. The drug addict in the city may not be as dangerous as the nice guy on the mountain. Always stay around good people who will stand with you if need be. And don’t even trust a cute young guy or couple if you don’t really know them. Park in the well lit up parking lots of quality hotels as close to the front door as you can get. And get tough with psychos, don’t be polite or converse with them, just tell him to back the fk up or you’ll open fire. And shout like a dude at him while you speed away. Never engage or allow them to get within striking range. I’ve had thousands of psychos (not an exaggeration but actual occasions) come after me in my long life, and I never felt afraid, they angered me and endangered themselves, and I was quick to let them know who the lion was, but in a very calm and subtle way. They got the message.
Keep your keys nearby and sound off your alarm. Others would hear it seeing you had people near you. I know it's hard to think of everything when you're in a panic state. I'm so glad you're safe.
Terrifying video and glad you are safe. As many have already said in the comments, best thing you could have done was to get out of there. Don't engage, don't waste time. As I'm sure you know, never assume you are not being watched. That said, it is so cool that you have undertaken this journey. Safe travels.
thank you i appreciate your comment Ken 🌸
i agree, better to be non confrontational in these scenarios but also prepared to engage if need be. cheers!
Great job relocating. It sucks when that other side disturbs your calm. These situations happen in all kinds of scenarios.. Hotel rooms.. Upscale houses in the burbs.. moto-hotels... cabanas on the beach...RV parks.. . you name it. The difference in these outcomes is ALWAYS determined by your action plan and commitment to your plan. Bless your travels and your path. Courageous intelligent women will save our species. Be Strong and of good courage. know your surroundings. Have a solid support network in all times of your life.