Drunken Naps & Sneaky White Claws - You Can Sit With Us Ep. 52
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
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This week Becky tells you the show that nobody should watch (but she is), and Ariel recounts a dramatic Facial experience.
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Maggie, Becky, and Ariel are your new best friends. In their weekly podcast they dive into female friendships, current events, and what's going on in their lives. Sit down with them, and enjoy!
PODCAST PRODUCER
Miles Bonsignore
PODCAST INTERN
Rainie Toll
I swear, every episode Rachel says something that just makes me love her more. So glad she became an active part of you can sit with us. I see you lady, and I fucking appreciate you
“Defund the fucking police” she is so clear and so calm when she asserts herself too. Love her
@@zerocraic3966 May I know why they have to defund the police?
@@bambam900 excellent question I don’t have a lot of information on the history of the topic myself. I just found it very nice how non agressively but assertively she phrased her opinion. My understanding is that a lot of people believe police department funds should be reallocated to other public efforts. Investing in preventative measures as opposed to reactive measures
I’ll be controversial and say I disagree with Rachel. Short excerpts are horrible. Don’t avoid topics or shy away from them. If you say something “that goes there” then go all the way. Defunding the police is a solution but there needs to be more context. Im frustrated by these short slogans that hold so much content but are tossed around like it’s a one size fits all. Defunding the police has more than one meaning. Discuss and communicate your opinion but stating“defund the police and get them off our street” is one of the most irresponsible phrases. I like this podcast. These ladies are smart and I respect Rachel. But I refuse to blindly take what someone says, like a popular slogan, and interpret it as the same values I hold.
There are 138 likes on this comment. 138 people are assuming they all know what Rachel is thinking and that they all agree with her view just by hearing her say “defund the police.” That’s unsettling.
@@Sunnylyndis I think calling it unsettling is a bit extreme. The reason I don’t know enough to explain the history of it is because I’m not American. This narrative and topic of tension should be well versed in the minds of their primary audience, meaning young Americans. I do not think they need to delve into it on this channel or podcast especially given the multiple Try Guys videos Eugene for example had put out a few months ago, and also trusting your audience to do their own research instead of feeding them a bias
"And then you can see the craziness in his eyes... "
So what you're saying is that the Full Throttle Fulmer is starting to awaken within him?
Ikr Ariel's impression of Wes after going on the slide sounded just like ned!
Rachel standing up for causes is becoming my new favorite thing about this podcast. She’s so powerful and strong and kick ass!
Yes, I'm all for the Rachel Rants!
I'm using the word Rant loosely as she doesn't spill nonsense, she has a lot of well thought and eloquent opinions.
yes! I resonate so hard
It sounds like Ariel's love language is giving gifts (same as mine!) You all should take the Love Language quiz for a segment! It would be super fun and interesting
Ok I’m just going to say it... "that’s fascinating" is Ariel’s catchphrase. I swear she says it every episode
And that's cute
i think it’s cute and it makes people feel happy and valid to tell their story
I usually say "I agree!" After her! Love it!
@@haileyshields4051 yes! It's part of her charm for me, she's so genuinely interested in what everyone is talking about.
@@andreamarie6501 exactly! she’s just so interested in what they’re saying and i admire that so much
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They also don’t take insurance. It’s such a scam imo. No one should be hit with a pay wall like that when seeking mental health care
So glad that someone is mentioning this!!! Even w/ the rebate it’s still asking me to give a down payment of 300$ CAD, for the whole month, which is A LOT to shill out out of one PAYCHECK (I get paid every 2 weeks where I live).
Ariel and Rachel being all criss cross applesauce on the couch really makes this feel like I’m sitting and chatting with my girlfriends.
I think it's time to have Rosanna Pansino on the podcast!
OMG YES!!!
Okay, but not talking about food. I want Rosanna not her business segment.
Yeah!
stuffed animals are so sweet for kids and they can totally be comforting, like I had these dog stuffed animals and I would have one face the door and one face the window, so I would feel safe at night when I was a kid.
The timing is so perfect, my plane is about to leave and now I don’t have to wonder what I’ll be watching on the flight 🤪
Have a good flight ☺️
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@@adyaarora862 thanks bestie 🥺 made it safe!
Happy belated 10 years Becky & Keith!!!! 🥳🎉💕
Rachel always looks so cute, this and that poofy sleeve, patterned babydoll dress are adorable 🥰
I wanna recommend The 100 as a show for Becky to watch. It's one of my faves. The first season, it's a little "teen drama", but the show get's progressively better and darker. Btw, for context: the show takes place 97 years after a nuclear apocalypse, in a space station where there's a resource crisis (like medicine and oxigen are running out), because of this the government of the place, decides to send 100 teenage delinquents (they are teenagers, because if you're over 18 and commit a crime you get killed, so they only have the kids) to earth to see if it was safe for the rest of the population to come down too and live again on earth. So yeah I love the show, but you can decide if you like it yourself.
Yesss I love that show I'd been watching it since season 1 (the last two seasons were trash in my opinion but it's still absolutely fantastic!)
The way becky says "is it jesus??" makes me laugh, i dont know why 😂
This is one of those podcasts where I legitimately dont have a favorite. They all bring attributes and awesome personalities to the table that makes me want to be each of them! Love you girls! ❤️
Obsessed with Becky’s shirt and jewelry
Same
Right! She looks amazing!!
Gotta find out where the shirt is from!
I'm just obsessed with Becky. She's so pretty.
🥺 I hate showing my arms so I hate sleeveless shirts!! Lol but I loveeee the white overalls my girl is wearing!
Ariel with a big tote bag full of things for others, that's so mom ❤️
This podcast makes my day "off" so much better ❤ I have 2 jobs and 2 children and this podcast is always the break I need in the week to have some chill out time. It doesn't even matter if I'm doing the dishes or any other jobs around the house. Just listening to you all chat is so nice. I feel so included!
Also, Dr Pimple Popper 💜
I LOVED Manifest and am begging Netflix to bring it back for more seasons!!
I would listen to a whole podcast of just Becky emphatically and intricately describing the entire plot of tv shows
me listening to Ariel bringing up bot flies and they don't know what it is: "YES ARIEL! YES QUEEN ARIEL TELL EM!! TELL EM WHAT A BOTFLY IS!!!!!! DO IT" XD
But also, EEEEWWWWW. All I could see was the pictures of people’s skin that experienced it.
I literally screamed when she said the egg part
Every episode I can’t help but think Rachel is the coolest person on the planet
I learned the 20 minute power nap during college because I was going to school full time and worked full time with literally only 1 hour and 30 minutes in between both all day. I read an article that said to drink coffee before taking your 20 minute nap and that’s enough time before you fall into a deep sleep and for the caffeine to start kicking in by the time you have to get up. Definitely recommend! I wouldn’t have been able to survive college without this trick 😂
Rachel not finishing shadow and bone it's heartbreaking. Best tv show I've seen this year!!!!
Omg Becky talking about Topo Chico MADE MY DAY. That is originally from where I live, Monterrey Mexico 🇲🇽 ⛰❤️❤️
It’s literally the only fizzy water I like! I can only imagine how good they are fresh off the line🤤
My grandma made a blankie for my cousin when he was born. He got so attached to that blankie that my grandmother has had to make him a new one every few years. We're adults now so he's not messing it up as much as he did when we were kids but he definitely still has blankie and I think his mom has all the remnants of all the old blankies
NEVER TAKE THE BLANKET lol as someone who was grossed out by their ex’s decomposing blanket, it is still too mean
And as someone who had a blankie until high school, my parents taking it just made me more determined to keep it, but I eventually gave it up and didn't need it on my own (but I still have it in a ziploc bag in a keepsakes bin because it was special to me.
My new work email sign off: “Love to you all, peace to the world, get vaccinated you fools. Byeeeee” 😂
Yes, when you create a tv show you have to make a “show Bible” (especially with non-procedural show) which maps out the majority of the arch’s and story trajectories. It won’t always be season specific as some people want to keep their show going for a long time. But some showrunners do have an idea of how many seasons they want.
This is the latest I've jumped on to see an episode of this specific podcast in a while but I am also having one of those mornings & am just glad to be here now - Love you ladies! Hope all the cutie booties have a great rest of their day whenever they're seeing this!!
WHEN BECKY WAS LIKE LET ME TELL YOU WHAT NOT TO WATCH, I IMMEDIATELY THOUGHT OF MANIFEST. AND 10 SECONDS LATER SHE SAID IT. I agree with everything Becky said 100% lol. I stopped after 3 episodes
Right?! I said MANIFEST and then she said it. 😯 I was like, did she hear me? Felt like Bastian from the Neverending Story. I unfortunately was not smart like you and did not stop watching. What's worse is that the first season was relatively ok compared to the following seasons. 😂 The writers should probably get an award for crafting a show that is able to become simultaneously more outrageous AND boring as it progresses.
I'm so glad she said not to bother and why. Manifest was also suggested to me to watch. Not going to now 😸
I felt Becky's disappointment when the fact that Netflix brought Manifest but refused to renew The Society. I too would never get over Netflix doing that.
Hi! Licensed California Esthetician here: yes, don't pop your pimples because it's not clean and more than not, you'll go too far and cause more issues. You are trained to do them in a safe and correct manner that won't make you scar/bleed but like any industry, there are good and bad so just make sure your esthetician is trained and clean! Also in California, you're not allowed to go past the epidermis so if you're finding extractions really painful, call them out! They may be making you bleed and that is NOT allowed.
Best part of tuesdaysssss ❤️
I am also a 24 year old woman who still sleeps with my blankie every night (his name is mickey) and at a certain point in my life all the adults were just so proud I still had it, no one wanted to take it from me. I'm so glad they didn't. I have photos with the blanket my first night nome from the hospital and I hope I take him to the grave with me!
Have these ladies watched Promising Young Woman? Bo brought me there bc he's in it and wow, it's so good! I'd love their commentary on it.
My messed up spongebob pillow from 20 years ago still comes with me on road trips, every vacation etc lol
A quick side note with kids have a "New York accent". My brother had one growing up and it was paired with some speech impediments. It turned out he had an excessive amount of ear wax that needed to be removed by a doctor. He couldn't hear himself speak the same way we would so it affected his pronunciation. The "accent" stopped following the wax removal.
"They would buy Manifest and not renew The Society?"
I feel her.
I'm Ariel and Rachel's age and just got this crazy out of the blue break-out on my face and it's such a bummer. I don't want my misery to have company but it is relieving to hear that this goes on with so many people. Adult acne normalization can only help! My two cents
My daughter is 26 and she carries hers everywhere, including her honeymoon.
I’ve gone through 2 blankies in my life. The last one, I have just managed to fold it and put it away. I don’t sleep with it anymore but just knowing it’s there is comfortable.
When Becky was setting up pop culture corner instantly thought of Manifest. @Becky they are making a movie to give us closure!
I used to be appalled by doctor pimple popper and my mom and sister were obsessed. Then I actually sat down and watched it with them and it was pretty fascinating and satisfying to watch
I used to do power naps because my niece would come over at before 7 am to drop off her son for me to babysit and I worked 2nd shift. Only problem, my great-nephew started following my nap schedule as a 1 or 2 month old, LOL. My niece would call me, "come pick your nephew up" since I had taught him to power nap.
If Ben Barnes comes on the podcast…..I’d actually die
Petition to get binbons on here
We love Rachel… why isn’t her photo in the intro 🥲 #justiceforrachel 😂
I love listening to Ariel talk about her kids. Its so sweet😢
Was getting soo sleepy with the nap talk but the pimple popping stuff woke me right up 😂😂
34 and still have my baby blanket. Brought it to the hospital with me last year when I had my baby. I told my husband his job was to make sure it was hidden whenever anybody came into thr room.
Ariel's story reminded me of when I went to get my hair done post quarantine (after I was vaccinated) and I booked it under "Jenny" who was my stylist for years, I go in... And it was a different Jenny. My Jenny left at some point. The new Jenny was SO rough on my poor scalp when she washed my hair I thought there would be blood. XD
It’s funny that they mentioned the blanket thing, because I still have my first ever “big girl blanket” when I was 4. I am now 22 and still have it on my bed. It’s so used up and discoloured that it just looks like a light grey blob.
But yeah. I call it my anxiety blanket. Whenever I am having a panic attack @ home I just wrap myself around in that blanket.
I had my bankie till 6th grade when I left it in a hotel bed too! So sad!
Omg I’m so sorry that happened!!
@@presidentofnothing thank you! It was 16 years ago, so I’ve healed, but I do miss that silly thing.
I'm so like Becky with watching pimples getting popped. XD This was a great episode ladies!
We had a 20 foot waterslide at our wedding and all the kids LOVED it!
Im like becky i love those videos idk why but is so satisfaying😂
28:48 is Jonathan reading Leo Tolstoy's War and Peace?????
They’re talking about naps while I’m ON MY WAY TO WORK 😩 I’m so sleepy now lol
24:45 IM SCREAMING BECAUSE I WAS JUST SINGING AT THE SAME PART😭💕😂
We need a book from you all!!!
I got sucked into Manifest too even though I didn't really enjoy it, Becky. It's been my dishwashing show, so my justification for finishing it is that my investment has been very low.
My boyfriend and I are SO fascinated by it even though we think it’s terrible 😅 we just have to know where the hell it’s going there’s a new twist every episode!
LOL YESSS ARIEL!!! i totally agree w her comment abt why we're told not to pop our pimples but ppl get facials and extractions 😂😭 so strange
I LOVE Dr Pimple Popper! Please have a collab!! Maybe Becky with the guys ahah
My family always says I’ll take my baby blanket on my honeymoon and at this rate I think they’re right
Love this pod! I'm with Becky. I hate messy plot writing on shows. If you make a show that has a puzzle to solve quit moving the puzzle! Haha PPL had the same issue
Omg I’m never this early I’m here for this!!!!
41:58 not Ariel speaking in the same inquisitive tone that Wes speaks, so cute 🤧
I was forced to get rid of some of my stuffed animals when I was entering high school, it crushed me, so many memories just...gone it felt like. I've grown out of them now, but it was rough at first.
I'm watching this and Netflix just release season 4 of manifest lol
I NEED Becky reviewing pretty little liars. PLEASE
Omg as soon as she said a botfly and they were like a what??? Hold on to your butts ladies it is horrifying lol stuff of nightmares
Watch The 100! You'll be obsessed!!
As a Cosmetologist I can say not all professionals are professional. Plus we need to take classes regularly to keep up on our Industry's Education
As someone who loves Manifest & has watched it since the beginning… Becky broke my heart here 💔
Me too!! I love Manifest
@@karajohnson8617 I need to know how it ends!!!
@@makaylamiller9235 so do I!!! Like what a terrible cliffhanger for it to end on! 😭
@@karajohnson8617 Why would they even do that if the were not already renewed?
@@makaylamiller9235 I wondered that too. Maybe they were overly confident that they’d get renewed.
Loving your outfits ladies 🥰🥰🥰
I really hate the ads and then the promo back to back but I watch kuz I love y’all 💜💖💜💖
No shame Rachel. Used to take 2-6 pm nap in high school. Every day. Wasn’t even drunk
I still have my pinky! I got one for both my kids. Blanket forever!
BTW, my sister lost her blanket the same way in hotel sheets 😱
I watched the try pod before this and Rainie needs to be the You Can Sit With Us podcast pixie!!!!!!!!
I love Becky's top so summery and stylish 💗
Becky’s make up is on pointtt. I love Becky
I always stop everything to watch . Love you guys so much
The way Becky looked so triggered during the facial explanation is a mood
I had a dog stuffed animal when I was little ( I still have her don’t worry lol ) and her name is Sophie bc it was the name of my BFF in preschool, and then when I was 14 we rescued a 3 year old dog and I wanted to name her Sophie, and I didn’t put it together until a few years after we rescued her.
depressed at 11:30 am having a white claw while they talk about white claws lol.
YES ARIEL I'VE ALWAYS WONDERED THE SAME THING!!!! (Re. popping at home vs. paying someone to do it!!)
Extractions are meant for black heads/ clogged pores. They’re not typically popping an inflamed swollen pimple, BUT they can. The reason they tell you not to is they don’t want you to touch it with dirty hands OR try popping it and it actually spreads further under the skin, making it worse.
Becky! I need to know if you’ve seen Atypical!! If not, I definitely recommend it :)
Becky knows where it’s at!!! Justice for The Society!!!!!
Can we add Rachel to the intro shes technically a try wife lol
I think they recently shot some new footage/photos with rachel to create an intro with 💛
I’m 31 and still bring my stuffed frog to bed next to my husband who gets too hot to snuggle lol. I’m also currently watching manifest while doing chores so I paused this! Ding ding ding
As an adult woman who became attached to a stuffed toy (during adulthood) I kinda feel attacked. Just make sure you regularly wash your stuffed toy/pillow/blanket/lovey and you’re golden.
Shoutout to Becky for the bunny education hehe they do wanna be free and flop around hehe (an unless issa anomaly) dont like being held/cuddled. But again some are fine w it and enjoy it! Just as a rule of thumb theyre a typical animal/pet that you should let come to you/bond w u and not assume they wanna cuddle even tho they do look and feel extremelyyyy cuddly 💓☺️
Don’t forget to drink coffee right before you take that nap so then you’ll be refreshed and caffeinated.
Rachel: you don't have to finish it.
The completionist in me: YES I DO!
LOL. I had an equally sweet and well meaning friend tell me the same thing about Cursed Child. I had bought it years ago and never gotten around to read it. I took it with me on our escape to Lake Tahoe last year and it was my goal to finish it. I was huffing and puffing, but I did it.
I really should have listened to my friend, and just let it go lol
I started the same show Becky was talking about. I’ve been a completionist my whole life too but I heard someone say the ending would make me feel like I wasted my time and I looked up the plot on Wikipedia and yeah. I don’t feel bad about stopping the show after episode 5 lol
@@zullycelissuazo7439 yay! At least one of us listened!
Everything Ariel said about her skin scared me. Nooooo! Be nice to your skin barrier ❤️
Professional extractions are supposed to be more hygienic, but also you CAN pay for a lot of things that aren't necessarily good for you....
I low-key wanna defend Manifest...but then I remember that I watched it during really bad autistic burnout, so I'm not even sure I remember it lol. And I'll say things like "I enjoyed watching it" and then remember that it haunted my dreams and that I don't care about any character besides Saanvi-- and even she annoys me sometimes! It's a fun concept and I really just really wanna hear the whole story in summary. The creator pitched a whole six-season arc; he knows what happened to the plane. I think he's trying to write a movie to finish the story, which I would watch. But I'd rather just hear the pitch he gave to NBC lol
Me crying Everytime Ariel gets interrupted 😭
I still have my blankee draped over the headboard of my bed. i swear this podcast makes me feel so seen.
Rachel is a total vibe ✨