When we are in an abusive situation, either verbally, emotionally, psychologically, physically continously, try to get away from that situation. After my divorce, i used to live with my parents for 13 years since my son was 8 years old and my daughter 2 years old . I lived with them for 13 years and most of the time, my Dad bragged about my 6 brothers who had PHD , masters degrees and never said anything good about his 5 girls. He said he could not brag about girls. Girls should be in the kitchen. This caused damage to my self image and my eslf esteem until now even they passed away. The bad feeling about myself prevent me from having a fulfilling life. In one of her video, sister Shivani held a cup of water and said that she could go on holding that cup until her arm got tired and succumbed or she could choose to put it down and rest, saving her arm. She said that cup of water represented our blame for the persons who hurt us. We blame them, we hold them responsible for our pain. If ever we let go of blame, of holding them responsible, which mean put down the cup on table, then we will be free from them, from pain, from low self esteem. This make sense to me. I have the power to choose to hold the cup for the rest of my life or leave it on the table and go on enjoying life without having to hold that cup wherever i go. What a relief.
@@samuelabraham8636 i forgive my parents now. Seing that life is hard, that all parents work hard to take care of their children ( like we all do), I feel grateful to my parents, understand their love for me and my brothers and sisters, understand their sacrifice. I no longer blame them. Love transform my heart. Thank you.
Yup...Kept healing others because of i don't have choice & trying to pay off responsibilities ...but now i have had learn my lesson..& learn that I have to heal myself to stand up on my own & am not a alone...My Supreme God is with me Always...Thank you...
Bella Patel i m so confusing ..when we have to use have had collectively ?? Actually i m learning eng . nowadays so i m facing this problem . can you please tell me ??????😐😐
I don't think anyone else could have unraveled the complicities of life as you did. I'm amazed at your wisdom and teachings. You are certainly blessed with a great talent. Please keep up the good work.
God bless sister Shivani,a true pillar of support, she is an authentic source of strength and wisdom. Listen to her soothing voice and her enthralling words they really will leave you feeling invigorated
Thank you Sister Shivani for your motivational speech and positive vibes. I am grateful for coming across your channel. It has been about 3 weeks now since I’ve started listening to your speeches. Since then, I have come a long way mentally. Om Shanti 🙏🏽
Om shanti baba om shanti sister God bless you you are a divine angel God has sent you specifically on the earth to make this world a better place to live in which you are doing so beautifully God bless you always
Your communication is peaks madam. I have listen so many motivational vedios. But your communication is excellent madam. The words and vocabulary. It is understand to everyone. You are gift to the society. I pray God that your goal should accomplished 🙏🙏
I am now beginning to understand myself, my behavior, as well as that of my husband's. I am now on the way to improvement and wellness of mind and emotions as well as my married Life. I am very grateful to Almighty God, for giving her Wisdom and for also leading me to her teachings. All Glory and Honor to Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior! Thanks also to You Sr. Shivani. You are a Gift to humanity.❤
Sister ...u r the only person in this universe to whom i want to meet...if i 'll hav choice btwn u n god...i am 100% sure..i will choose u....u r an angel...n i really really love u sister😊😊😘
WHEN YOU LOVE YOURSELF, THEIR GAME IS OVER😆. THIS IS SELF-LOVE MATTER. DIL APNA AUR PREET PARAAYI NAHI, DIL APNA AUR PREET BHI APNI😃😆. **DEBUT SONG OF MOHAMMAD RAFI IS ALSO OF THE SAME MEANING.. ie "DIL HAI KAABUME TO DILDAAR KI AISI TAISI"..😆😆. FILM: GAON KI GORI YEAR 1943🌷💙🙏❤.
YES, BY THE RIGHT WAY OF MY THINKING, I HAVE CHANGED THE OTHER PERSONS' MOOD, RADIATED HAPPINESS WHICH HAS RESULTED IN THE RIGHT WAY OF THINKING, FEELING HAPPINESS.
One mistake i did was let other person also change but no not required it requires one person to heal the relationship And that one person is me .iam dng it not for them but for myself .i cant leave i pain anger unhappiness. I want peace happines joy .i am gng to create that no matter what I went through so much negative thoughts now i dnt have other options to choose positive The only way to live life is think only positive. We can create miracle thank u so much didi .i bcm my best friend to my self forever. I love myself unconditionally. No matter what 😍😘😘😘😘
I would LOVE to create an "Easy Button" like the famous Staples office supply store but have Sr. Shivani's voice saying "Options?" 🥰🥰🥰😂 Could not hold more love in my heart for this amazing soul!
Didu.😚 Love you so much sweetest angel. You are my favourite angel.💐 God bless you. Beautiful session at Perth. Good morning angel.💐 OMSHANTI. V a blissful day. 🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷
Gurupoornima wishes to u di... U r my GURU everything ... Bless me.. "My warm hearted Respectfully namaskar to Ur FEET di💐😇🙏" Am trying to change me .. From Vry badly hurts n all emotions....
Om shanti to you sis. Thank you for sharing this video held at Perth. Very correct in saying that if someone hurts us, I have an option whether to feel hurt or to move. Thank you. Yes sis, at times when we get angry, often times we react saying, they said so abruptly that obviously we feel bad and get angry. Rightly said that we have an option to let go. Have a lovely evening ahead. Keep well always. God has already placed you near him. Tathastu🙏🏼👏💐🍁🌹😊🌟🌟
If these concepts were taught in school and at home, our children and world would be a much better place to live in until the golden age.
Not only the children and world, but you too.
Lopolol pool jolkp
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Priyanka Mahajan iiii
I iiii I iiiikiikiikikikkiikkikkikikikk
I love you sister Shivani, I want to be like you. I want to be a peacemaker and advocate of peace and happiness. you are such a blessing to humanity.
You can. She learns from the Brahma Kumaris and you can learn also❤
How can something be so simple yet so hidden ! Always enlightened to hear sister and gain perspective , lucky that I know a channel like this :)
This is what I also feel.... I really feel lucky that i got to know this channel 😇
When we are in an abusive situation, either verbally, emotionally, psychologically, physically continously, try to get away from that situation.
After my divorce, i used to live with my parents for 13 years since my son was 8 years old and my daughter 2 years old . I lived with them for 13 years and most of the time, my Dad bragged about my 6 brothers who had PHD , masters degrees and never said anything good about his 5 girls. He said he could not brag about girls. Girls should be in the kitchen.
This caused damage to my self image and my eslf esteem until now even they passed away. The bad feeling about myself prevent me from having a fulfilling life.
In one of her video, sister Shivani held a cup of water and said that she could go on holding that cup until her arm got tired and succumbed or she could choose to put it down and rest, saving her arm. She said that cup of water represented our blame for the persons who hurt us. We blame them, we hold them responsible for our pain.
If ever we let go of blame, of holding them responsible, which mean put down the cup on table, then we will be free from them, from pain, from low self esteem.
This make sense to me. I have the power to choose to hold the cup for the rest of my life or leave it on the table and go on enjoying life without having to hold that cup wherever i go. What a relief.
U said it affects you until now after your parents pass away, so u should drop ur cup
@@samuelabraham8636 i forgive my parents now. Seing that life is hard, that all parents work hard to take care of their children ( like we all do), I feel grateful to my parents, understand their love for me and my brothers and sisters, understand their sacrifice. I no longer blame them. Love transform my heart.
Thank you.
❤
Glory to almighty GOD! Thank you so much sister shivani om shanti!
Oh my word! I am now my best friend. So clearly we can show up for ourselves ❤
☺🙏My sanskar(nature) & english both are improving day by day😊
I will create only positive thoughts every day ( i created one )
Same here
Observance of Positive thoughts on daily n daily basis 👌and ever- thing shall become 💯👍👏. ❤🌹THX❤🌹
Yup...Kept healing others because of i don't have choice & trying to pay off responsibilities ...but now i have had learn my lesson..& learn that I have to heal myself to stand up on my own & am not a alone...My Supreme God is with me Always...Thank you...
Bella Patel i m so confusing ..when we have to use have had collectively ?? Actually i m learning eng . nowadays so i m facing this problem . can you please tell me ??????😐😐
Happiness is to ignore the wrong ideas of others and to see the truth and be happy.
After listening this topic I felt sister Shivani came and sat into my mind and speaking verbatim my thoughts. Feeling blessed 🙏
Excellent diet for the mind. Pragmatic spiritualism. AUM Shanti.
I have the power to make myself change my sanskars build myself
Work on myself ..
I heal myself I'm perfect healthy and peaceful
Om shantii
When people behave in different way then bless them and understand their conditions
Feelings are ours not outsiders
gratitude for your calm & clear teachings. As always you are a clear vessel for Spiritual wisdom.
What an emotional healer! Awesome! Thank you so much. I am listening from Uganda. Blessings
Hurt n pain in life is the nice thing which will always teach u a lesson to b positive n move ahead .
Yes only if you don't focus on hurt and pain but shift your focus on love and peace and positivity.
I don't think anyone else could have unraveled the complicities of life as you did. I'm amazed at your wisdom and teachings. You are certainly blessed with a great talent. Please keep up the good work.
God bless sister Shivani,a true pillar of support, she is an authentic source of strength and wisdom. Listen to her soothing voice and her enthralling words they really will leave you feeling invigorated
Thankyou🙏 thankyou🙏 thankyou🙏 universe for everything😌🙏
Another superb video, thank you! Now getting addicted to your talks! ❤ Om shanti. 🙏
This talk, in particular, has a VERY powerful and real message for me. Simple and accessible wisdom. 🙏🏼
Thanku Shivani Didi Love You 🥰🥰🥰 Pranaam Om Shanti 🥰🥰
I already have healed someone using the wisdom i learned from you sister. I am happier now than ever
Thank you Sister Shivani for your motivational speech and positive vibes.
I am grateful for coming across your channel. It has been about 3 weeks now since I’ve started listening to your speeches. Since then, I have come a long way mentally.
Om Shanti 🙏🏽
Thank You Sr Shivani, need this on repeat until it becomes ingrained 😊 As always, wonderful share 🙏
You are a great speaker . Everyones comments are so much true . God bless you always.
Sister Shivani your mouth speaks so strong words of wisdom,I send you Love, and to everybody who will read this too: Namasté.
Thank you di.. Listening to your voice after so many days. I feel so happy and energized. Thank you so much.. Lots of ❤️
Om shanti baba om shanti sister God bless you you are a divine angel God has sent you specifically on the earth to make this world a better place to live in which you are doing so beautifully God bless you always
Your communication is peaks madam. I have listen so many motivational vedios. But your communication is excellent madam. The words and vocabulary. It is understand to everyone. You are gift to the society. I pray God that your goal should accomplished 🙏🙏
Thank you sister. I started to change my life. Om Shanthi.
I am now beginning to understand myself, my behavior, as well as that of my husband's. I am now on the way to improvement and wellness of mind and emotions as well as my married Life. I am very grateful to Almighty God, for giving her Wisdom and for also leading me to her teachings. All Glory and Honor to Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior!
Thanks also to You Sr. Shivani.
You are a Gift to humanity.❤
Om shanti thank you Shivani sister ❤❤❤❤
Sister ...u r the only person in this universe to whom i want to meet...if i 'll hav choice btwn u n god...i am 100% sure..i will choose u....u r an angel...n i really really love u sister😊😊😘
Same here yaar
Thank you so much sister Shivani, I really needed this one. My happiness is my choice and people those who don't act right are unwell.😊
Wanting people to be our way , we are writing destiny of pain.
Every thought is option they are peaceful I'm peaceful calm smooth harmony I have no problem at all
Tq so much ma🙏🙏❤️❤️
Very grateful to u🙏🙏❤️❤️
You changed my thought and life. Thank you sister.
WHEN YOU LOVE YOURSELF, THEIR GAME IS OVER😆.
THIS IS SELF-LOVE MATTER.
DIL APNA AUR PREET PARAAYI NAHI, DIL APNA AUR PREET BHI APNI😃😆.
**DEBUT SONG OF MOHAMMAD RAFI IS ALSO OF THE SAME MEANING.. ie
"DIL HAI KAABUME TO DILDAAR KI AISI TAISI"..😆😆.
FILM: GAON KI GORI
YEAR 1943🌷💙🙏❤.
😂
Thank you sooooo much Baba's Angel 💕😇 Omshanti 😇🙏🏻🌹❤️
YES, BY THE RIGHT WAY OF MY THINKING, I HAVE CHANGED THE OTHER PERSONS' MOOD, RADIATED HAPPINESS WHICH HAS RESULTED IN THE RIGHT WAY OF THINKING, FEELING HAPPINESS.
Koti koti dandvat pranam param pujya didi 🙏🌹😊👌👍om shanti
Shared with many rude people one
Tx for teaching us right way of living
You are my angel! 💕
Wow I'm early today good morning to everyone and may God bless you all in Jesus name amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Lol Jesus
@@Alinshub aaaaaaaa
THANK YOU so MUCH FOR BEAUTIFUL and POSITIVE VIDEO....
BEAUTIFUL MORNING ANGEL MAM
OM SHANTHI OM
You safe my day!!! Thank you to the awakening video!!! You are an angel!
One mistake i did was let other person also change but no not required it requires one person to heal the relationship
And that one person is me .iam dng it not for them but for myself .i cant leave i pain anger unhappiness.
I want peace happines joy .i am gng to create that no matter what
I went through so much negative thoughts now i dnt have other options to choose positive
The only way to live life is think only positive.
We can create miracle thank u so much didi .i bcm my best friend to my self forever. I love myself unconditionally. No matter what 😍😘😘😘😘
Immenss yseful interactive session. Thanks sis very much . Om Shanti the divine soul.
Thank you so much angel Didi sister Shivani ji ❤️
Om shanti 🙏
Always feel blessed every time day after day
Hurt in life is a nice thing,which will always teach you to be positive and move ahead
OM SHANTHI SISTER, BEING SHANTHI, OM SHANTHI. THANKS SISTER.
Thank You Sister
Om Shanti 🙏😇
What a Precious knowledge!
Thankyou soo muchh respected Sister ...Om Shanti 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you for your life changing lectures.
There is so much peace and calmness in her voice..
Thank you for the upload the video b.k Savitha Garu
Thanks Di ,healing self is the biggest good karma v do to ourself.
The best path to live a happy life 👍👍
Thank you my Dear Sister. I got Clear clarification to my present state of mind as on today. I realized. Thank you baba 🙏💚
Honarble sister B k sivani nomoste everyday I see your UA-cam video om santi good awareness msg🤝🤝👍👍🙏🙏
I love your thoughts didi I respect you very very much thanks for the beautiful life thoughts created inside me.
Life changing lessons.🙏🙏 blessed to have such people with us.
I always thinking of your way.
I love to hear from you
People need not be my way. I am okay them being their way. I cannot expect people to be my way.
Om shanti
Thank you so much ....................
Shuprobhat, shivani bahen, om shanti, love you🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹😊
Shivani di...You're Excellent & Enlightened one!!! 🙏🙏🙏
I followed your every thought its given us motivation to me...💞💞
Om shanti 🙏😇😊😌😌😌😌😌
Thank you 😊 for reminding myself
Great message by Shivani didi as always simple yet so helpful 🙏
Big lesson taught akka. You
Are genius by heart 💕💕💕
Om Namah Shivaye ❤️
Thank you
Shukriya GRU ji
Very nice Vedio .if people follow your teachings ,the World is peaceful and Happy
I would LOVE to create an "Easy Button" like the famous Staples office supply store but have Sr. Shivani's voice saying "Options?" 🥰🥰🥰😂 Could not hold more love in my heart for this amazing soul!
Thanks a lot sister,I stay calm in difficult situation because of u
happy gurupurnima sister shivani🙏🌺
Thank you for your words of wisdom
Yes I have the feeling to think another way
Every thought is an option
Really Didi, thank you so much...
Om Shanti 😊
Didu.😚
Love you so much sweetest angel.
You are my favourite angel.💐
God bless you.
Beautiful session at Perth.
Good morning angel.💐
OMSHANTI.
V a blissful day.
🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷 🌷
*Meena kaserwal Is this session in Australia(perth)* ????
@@arshdeep011 actually I don't know Perth at Australia or in other country
Daily I'm listening your video u are really a spiritual guide I thanku sister
Gurupoornima wishes to u di...
U r my GURU everything ... Bless me..
"My warm hearted Respectfully namaskar to Ur FEET di💐😇🙏"
Am trying to change me .. From Vry badly hurts n all emotions....
Good afternoon sister , I am listening your calm talk. Bless Me.
Om Shanti 🙏🏻 🕉 🙏🏻 🕉
That means sister, At any situation we have to keep happy & insist mind think right way & keep happy to soul
Om Shanti Baba ji🙏
ATTA DEEPA BHAVA.
**YOU ARE LIGHT OF YOUR OWN DEEDS.
**BE FRIEND OF YOURSELF.
YOUR WORST ENEMY IS YOUR OWN UNGUARDED THOUGHT.
Om shanti to you sis. Thank you for sharing this video held at Perth. Very correct in saying that if someone hurts us, I have an option whether to feel hurt or to move. Thank you. Yes sis, at times when we get angry, often times we react saying, they said so abruptly that obviously we feel bad and get angry. Rightly said that we have an option to let go. Have a lovely evening ahead. Keep well always. God has already placed you near him. Tathastu🙏🏼👏💐🍁🌹😊🌟🌟
I have the power to change.when we aŕe changed then all world will changed.
Thank you so much sister shivani
Thank you sister for coming into my life🙏🙏
Thank you, great Spiritual mentor..
Thankyou Sister
So positivity and progressive mind
Bhargava Reddy always be positive mind