That narc denial about how horrible they truly are and them never repenting for what they've done to innocent good people is what's going to do them in. God is true to His Word. We all reap what we sow. God will break them for them trying to break you.
If you have such issues with a certain person(s), have the integrity and strength to at least let them know what exactly it is that you're upset about. Otherwise, they may have no remote clue as to what it is that you feel that they did wrong. Plenty of folks out there never speak up, and waste time holding their breath thinking/hoping such people will show up and apologize and/or "repent" when they may have no idea what you're even upset with them for.
@@BAsed_AFro if you're speaking in reference to the narc trust they know exactly what they did. No need to discuss with the narc the disgusting filth they have committed against you. Just move on forever with God on your side and never look back. They're not worthy of your words. Get your closure from God not the narc.
@@fromhopelesstovictorious275 Your version of what "disgusting filth" looks like, may not at all be the same for other folks though. You ever consider that before?
@@BAsed_AFro but aren't you the same person that got tight on this very video's comment section about me telling people to not waste their words on narcs and move on? Confusion dear is not of God. Being double minded is not of God.
I don't think they even care about whether you are a good person or not... the only reason why it matters is because good people usually have weaker boundaries. The supply you provide is the only thing they need from you.
That's what Hario pointed out in the video too. When they look behind them on their path of life, they would see a trace of garbage with insects and what not, but they can't introspect, so they would never look. They Look for validation, to distract them, for example, because the truth is too painful. Cowards.
I agree with you! They may have a brief second of feeling remorse, but very quickly rewrite reality, that it’s your fault, you deserved it, etc You know, the narcissists creed
That is so true. God is patient and gives us all time to change, but when His patience runs out, His wrath is swift and destructive. Review Lott's wife and Sodom and Gomorrah. Judas realized what he done and couldn't handle the mental anguish. Thanks for the post as always brother
@@MiSSTiquE but it is personal because they hand selected you to be their victim. The devil sent them into your life in an attempt to destroy you. They pick and choose who they feel are good candidates to suck the life out of and bring down so yes it's very personal. But it's ok because God has consequences for the narc that are very personal and custom designed to fit the narc's deeds. Believe God.
What's been done to me is so treacherous and inhumane on so many levels... it's hard to wrap your mind around. Covert evil in a group has been unleashed upon my life
And wrap your mind around, that they all function the same. They are all the same. Its so crazy and Hario and friends talk about that too. Idk but we can at least sleep at night, I wouldn't know how they could and they can't, which was a topic before on this channel.
"First of all... They don't." 🤣 Hario always laying down the brutal truth! This is why I love this channel. Nothing like straight facts to help you accept & heal. A big thank you to Hario for always being here for us 🌹
Demons have no remorse, and will never live as the Godlike people we try to be. I waste no time these days thinking about what the demon did to me. My life now is to help others. Hario I thank you for taking up the cross in these days just as Jesus did in the first days. I'm at total BLACKOUT with that demon. The only way IT will me is when this is all over I'm going up and IT will fall pass me going to the pit of hell👺👿👹
You can’t change them to think like you or to think like God, you have to change you!!!!! To fit the narrative and that is Almighty God because nobody can question Him!!!!!!!! Excellent video Hario!!!!!!!!!
My dad has a saying “ do it my way and if you don’t like it you can fuck off “ I wish I’d walked away when I first heard it but I was only 8 years old 😂 . Everyday I try to be a little bit better but I know I’m full of hate and anger . The mental road is long and hard . Xxxx blessings to people who suffer with other narcs
Unless... You are the one that caught them cheating, exposed them publicly, and walked away forever once you ripped that mask off. Most dont do that with a narc. It hits them different
I Just Got Out Of A 10Year Relationship With A Female Covert Narcissist & Let Me Tell You..I Seen The Devil… I’ve Been To Hell & Back..More Than Once.. I Studied..I Researched..I Learned The Knowledge & Finally Found Out What I Was Dealing With & Just How Bad The Mental & Emotional Abuse Was That I “Allowed” In 6 Months After A Break Up.. She Was My 1st Real Relationship 2014-2024…18 To 28 Years Old.. She Had My 1st Child In 2021.. He Has My Whole Name He’s The Air I Breathe 🙏🏽 I Give Her Money For Jr EVERY Thursday.. She Knows I Wanted To Be Different Than How My Pops Was..🙏🏽😔 But I Thank God Everyday For Exposing The Truth To Me...I’m In College Now Studying To Get My Bachelor’s Degree In Psychology… 🙏🏽🎓💰
The coming back to ourselves, "happy space" is a crucial part and at some point we need to consider to ramp up our desperation, to get things really done, but for everything there is a time and place.
Everyone situation is different- I think they run across that one person whose different than the others- you provided something they never ever had Stability! Not to mention the other goodness you provided. All I can say and know is -“ they will look for you in others but will never find you”,
Hey Hario I was in a emotional coma with the Narc I was on a very bad moment of my life I was praying to God please healing me from this the anxiety, the emotional fog in my mind, the rumination it was very difficult to face it , first God then I find your channel 4 years ago that was the first channel . I'm so grateful for you that you always sharing with us this spiritual awakening. May God always blessing you for the eternity, respefully I appreciate you!🙏🤍
I have this image in mind of the golden trash bag on a pile of non transparent and one colored trash bags. Where the narcissist can think of themselves as the golden trash bag. Thanks you.
Thank you, this is something I really needed to hear. It’s a sad truth. I still wouldn’t wish this on anyone. My focus is totally on me now, moving forward, and taking my life back. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Great message! This really helped me. I have been stuck in a place of wondering, hoping they’ll understand that what they did to me wasn’t right and that I didn’t despite. I know I’ll never receive an apology from them and I have to learn to be ok with that. It’s tough though. I’m a good person with a pure heart. I don’t understand why or how this happened but it did. God knows about it and that’s all that matters. He will see me through this. I believe that. But still I struggle. Thanks for explaining in such a way that it makes more sense to me now. May God bless u sir and all who are in this thread because if you are here , mist likely you are suffering as well. May his help and heal us all. Everything happens for a reason ❤🙏🏽🥰
Wow! I do know he did wrong to others (he admitted that when he claimed he changed) I now know better..he never did...just changed manipulation tactics. I'm sure he doesn't blame himself, but me. It no longer matters. I feel better because I now have peace and out of that fog.
They saw you as a supply and yeah they know they messed up a good supply, but you as a good person they couldn't care less, it's not about you, it's about them.
All love all truth, ❤ I had to learn this very thing to move on. I learned to stop asking myself,,, for what, why, and anything else related. I just focused on letting go. I am getting my child tested DNA to make sure she is mine. In the meantime, I do not contact them at all. I stop giving her money for the child until we complete the DNA process. Naturally, she is procrastinating. Let go of your root problem my family. these ppl are shallow,heartless, and emotionally deprived. I can go on and on. I listen to this channel a lot. I go to sleep to this dude when I feel the need. Peace and love, fam.
Wow, Hario thanks for the message ..I accept what is,.Enjoying my life...let go of what was..My FAKE ILLUSION of the NARC)..Having Faith in what will be...LIFE AFTER THE NARC..Finding PEACE.. LOVE AND HAPPINESS...THANK YOU HARIO 🫶..
With mine, he knew he was going to do it and regretted it before he did it. When he did it he felt absolved because he’d been crying about it for months
So true,because my narcissist friend said if i was so bad then why was u went me,he love bomb me N so bad i kept trying 2 leave he cried everytime Begging me to stay
I was with mine 17yrs and she was constantly cheating and trying to upgrade on me. So I know I must of been something hard to beat and I don't even think she's over me now even tho been 4yr no contact
No they just make excuses as to why they tried so hard and how difficult it was for us to do what they wanted us to do. I was told I destroyed our situation-ship
Freedom from a narcissist is absolutely a WIN!!!
That narc denial about how horrible they truly are and them never repenting for what they've done to innocent good people is what's going to do them in. God is true to His Word. We all reap what we sow. God will break them for them trying to break you.
@@fromhopelesstovictorious275 Amen...let go and let God
Well said 🙌🙌🙌
If you have such issues with a certain person(s), have the integrity and strength to at least let them know what exactly it is that you're upset about.
Otherwise, they may have no remote clue as to what it is that you feel that they did wrong.
Plenty of folks out there never speak up, and waste time holding their breath thinking/hoping such people will show up and apologize and/or "repent" when they may have no idea what you're even upset with them for.
@@BAsed_AFro if you're speaking in reference to the narc trust they know exactly what they did. No need to discuss with the narc the disgusting filth they have committed against you. Just move on forever with God on your side and never look back. They're not worthy of your words. Get your closure from God not the narc.
@@fromhopelesstovictorious275 Your version of what "disgusting filth" looks like, may not at all be the same for other folks though.
You ever consider that before?
He didnt realized that he messed a good thing, until his new supply messed him over 10x worse. He tried to reach out but it was a hell no. 😂
Weak people get revenge, strong people forgive, and intelligent people ignore.
@@BAsed_AFro but aren't you the same person that got tight on this very video's comment section about me telling people to not waste their words on narcs and move on? Confusion dear is not of God. Being double minded is not of God.
I don't think they even care about whether you are a good person or not... the only reason why it matters is because good people usually have weaker boundaries.
The supply you provide is the only thing they need from you.
I don't think so. Because, those demons won't allow them to. They just move onto the next victim.
That's what Hario pointed out in the video too. When they look behind them on their path of life, they would see a trace of garbage with insects and what not, but they can't introspect, so they would never look. They Look for validation, to distract them, for example, because the truth is too painful. Cowards.
Lets hope
maybe so BUT GOD!
But most of the times is not easy for them to get victims
They don't care about anything or anybody but themselves
They don't care about them selves either!
If we can't hold them accountable, they won't hold themself accountable either. They have a reprobated mind.
I agree with you! They may have a brief second of feeling remorse, but very quickly rewrite reality, that it’s your fault, you deserved it, etc
You know, the narcissists creed
He would know. Because he's one himself. He was exposed last year.
That is so true. God is patient and gives us all time to change, but when His patience runs out, His wrath is swift and destructive. Review Lott's wife and Sodom and Gomorrah. Judas realized what he done and couldn't handle the mental anguish. Thanks for the post as always brother
I hope not. I want them to move on. And I want to move on.
He said from the beginning it's not personal and I accept that now. Please move on.
@@MiSSTiquE but it is personal because they hand selected you to be their victim. The devil sent them into your life in an attempt to destroy you. They pick and choose who they feel are good candidates to suck the life out of and bring down so yes it's very personal. But it's ok because God has consequences for the narc that are very personal and custom designed to fit the narc's deeds. Believe God.
What's been done to me is so treacherous and inhumane on so many levels... it's hard to wrap your mind around. Covert evil in a group has been unleashed upon my life
And wrap your mind around, that they all function the same. They are all the same. Its so crazy and Hario and friends talk about that too.
Idk but we can at least sleep at night, I wouldn't know how they could and they can't, which was a topic before on this channel.
I agree I had a covert narcissist demon too what I went through was inhumane you ain't never lied he put me through hell
"First of all... They don't." 🤣 Hario always laying down the brutal truth! This is why I love this channel. Nothing like straight facts to help you accept & heal. A big thank you to Hario for always being here for us 🌹
Your right..they really don't care..so we need to have that same energy when they try to come back..
Demons have no remorse, and will never live as the Godlike people we try to be. I waste no time these days thinking about what the demon did to me. My life now is to help others. Hario I thank you for taking up the cross in these days just as Jesus did in the first days. I'm at total BLACKOUT with that demon. The only way IT will me is when this is all over I'm going up and IT will fall pass me going to the pit of hell👺👿👹
The word cunning describe the narcissist
You can’t change them to think like you or to think like God, you have to change you!!!!! To fit the narrative and that is Almighty God because nobody can question Him!!!!!!!! Excellent video Hario!!!!!!!!!
My dad has a saying “ do it my way and if you don’t like it you can fuck off “ I wish I’d walked away when I first heard it but I was only 8 years old 😂 . Everyday I try to be a little bit better but I know I’m full of hate and anger . The mental road is long and hard . Xxxx blessings to people who suffer with other narcs
YOU MOVE ON LIVE LIFE BE HAPPY BE FREE LET KARMA DO ITS JOB
I bet they wish they could have done more bad Thanks 🙏🏽 Hario
Saving empaths one video at time ❤
@@valuvalbates9618 but God didn't allow them to.
Thanks very much you have been a great help😊
I just found your channel, great information 👍
Unless... You are the one that caught them cheating, exposed them publicly, and walked away forever once you ripped that mask off. Most dont do that with a narc. It hits them different
I am FREE
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@@sandrathomas448 Amen. God bless you.
Me too ❤
My brother, the answer to that is: Not likely. Don't hold your breath.
Thanks Hario for another helpful video!!! “Moving on gracefully💃🏽💃🏽on to my next chapter unbothered!
❤😂 straight up
I Just Got Out Of A 10Year Relationship
With A Female Covert Narcissist
& Let Me Tell You..I Seen The Devil…
I’ve Been To Hell & Back..More Than Once..
I Studied..I Researched..I Learned The Knowledge & Finally Found Out What I Was Dealing With & Just How Bad The Mental & Emotional Abuse Was That I “Allowed”
In 6 Months After A Break Up..
She Was My 1st Real Relationship
2014-2024…18 To 28 Years Old..
She Had My 1st Child In 2021..
He Has My Whole Name
He’s The Air I Breathe 🙏🏽
I Give Her Money For Jr EVERY Thursday..
She Knows I Wanted To Be Different Than How My Pops Was..🙏🏽😔
But I Thank God Everyday For Exposing The Truth To Me...I’m In College Now Studying To Get My Bachelor’s Degree In Psychology…
🙏🏽🎓💰
This is definitely a different way to see it Hario a brighter side! Thank you! Evil never wins but WE DO! Blessings!❤
The coming back to ourselves, "happy space" is a crucial part and at some point we need to consider to ramp up our desperation, to get things really done, but for everything there is a time and place.
Everyone situation is different- I think they run across that one person whose different than the others- you provided something they never ever had Stability! Not to mention the other goodness you provided. All I can say and know is -“ they will look for you in others but will never find you”,
Insane person like narcissist is does not have such abulity to have such reasoning.
Hey Hario I was in a emotional coma with the Narc I was on a very bad moment of my life I was praying to God please healing me from this the anxiety, the emotional fog in my mind, the rumination it was very difficult to face it , first God then I find your channel 4 years ago that was the first channel .
I'm so grateful for you that you always sharing with us this spiritual awakening.
May God always blessing you for the eternity, respefully I appreciate you!🙏🤍
There demonic people they feel nothing just move on to next victim ❤
She pushed me away only to blame for not being there 🙃
I have this image in mind of the golden trash bag on a pile of non transparent and one colored trash bags. Where the narcissist can think of themselves as the golden trash bag. Thanks you.
Always on point Hario❤️❤️❤️
I was in tears today because they don't care what they did,my family so hard 😂
Thank you Hario 🔥❤️
Great Video
Can I tackle my narcissists head on? I want it so badly
#WeWon 🙏🏽🏆
Thank you, this is something I really needed to hear. It’s a sad truth. I still wouldn’t wish this on anyone. My focus is totally on me now, moving forward, and taking my life back. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
It’s been a rough day today and I needed to hear this 🥺
Powerful Message Thanks Hario Its good to learn something new everyday
Great message! This really helped me. I have been stuck in a place of wondering, hoping they’ll understand that what they did to me wasn’t right and that I didn’t despite. I know I’ll never receive an apology from them and I have to learn to be ok with that. It’s tough though. I’m a good person with a pure heart. I don’t understand why or how this happened but it did. God knows about it and that’s all that matters. He will see me through this. I believe that. But still I struggle.
Thanks for explaining in such a way that it makes more sense to me now. May God bless u sir and all who are in this thread because if you are here , mist likely you are suffering as well. May his help and heal us all. Everything happens for a reason ❤🙏🏽🥰
Thank you for word of encouragement
Wow! I do know he did wrong to others (he admitted that when he claimed he changed) I now know better..he never did...just changed manipulation tactics. I'm sure he doesn't blame himself, but me. It no longer matters. I feel better because I now have peace and out of that fog.
We are not afraid to close our eyes 🧡
Hello Everyone
They saw you as a supply and yeah they know they messed up a good supply, but you as a good person they couldn't care less, it's not about you, it's about them.
All love all truth, ❤ I had to learn this very thing to move on. I learned to stop asking myself,,, for what, why, and anything else related. I just focused on letting go. I am getting my child tested DNA to make sure she is mine. In the meantime, I do not contact them at all. I stop giving her money for the child until we complete the DNA process. Naturally, she is procrastinating. Let go of your root problem my family. these ppl are shallow,heartless, and emotionally deprived. I can go on and on. I listen to this channel a lot. I go to sleep to this dude when I feel the need. Peace and love, fam.
Happy holiday to you Hario..Thanks so much for all you do & reminding us we're free not victims
Thank you so much! I needed to hear exactly what you said today! You are a healer! Thank you 🙏 🤍🔥
💕ya Hario! You’re awesome. 😊
Thank You Hario for ypur message. I definately needed to hear this message.
Yes that’s it ENTITLED!!!
That shirt is still going, Hario? lol LIFE!~
Wow, Hario thanks for the message ..I accept what is,.Enjoying my life...let go of what was..My FAKE ILLUSION of the NARC)..Having Faith in what will be...LIFE AFTER THE NARC..Finding PEACE.. LOVE AND HAPPINESS...THANK YOU HARIO 🫶..
I'm happy for you sis..I'm 95%..but I'm pushing 100% really soon🎉🎉
My X Narc just told me let's go out to eat. Forgive and forget he said😂😂
With mine, he knew he was going to do it and regretted it before he did it. When he did it he felt absolved because he’d been crying about it for months
Thanks Hario. Everything you send this video is on point. Thank you for this positive inspiration. Continued Blessings Champion! ❤️🙏
In The House 💪🏽
You are absolutely right!
Good Evening 🌆 Hario
OOOOO a surprise post!🥳🥳🥳 #byebyecrutbawl
So true,because my narcissist friend said if i was so bad then why was u went me,he love bomb me N so bad i kept trying 2 leave he cried everytime Begging me to stay
I was with mine 17yrs and she was constantly cheating and trying to upgrade on me. So I know I must of been something hard to beat and I don't even think she's over me now even tho been 4yr no contact
No
No they just make excuses as to why they tried so hard and how difficult it was for us to do what they wanted us to do. I was told I destroyed our situation-ship
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Hello
Idc