them cortisol levels will skyrocket , best believe premature wrinkles excess body fat loss of sleep bald spots age spots dark eye bags mood swings the list goes on and on lol
@@marywilson2537 Yes he did! He is now with the New supply, which was actually not "New" by the time I found out he had been with her 3 years along with three others. I am now Narc free and he has added to his collection of supplies!
Thank u so much .I am newly separated knowing my ex got 25 yrs old daughter to her intl hooker supply.it’s a 27 yrs of agony in the life of a narsissist gambler husband.it’s an Awakening video of yours.now I know what to do.thank u so much.
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Good video. Another advice Ladies and Gentlemen. Even if you have healed, it's important to keep watching the videos. It is a reminder to keep your guard up.
I got rid of the narc...by constantly accusing him of other women...calling him out on his shit....made him so mad he left my house and vowed to never talk to or come back in my space! Making him think that he discarded me.....I don't care about the new supply....I appreciate whomever wants the trash!
So true….after years of emotional torture, I finally realised I am NOT the problem. Once I realised that, I began to heal and now he can’t access me. I see his panic and restlessness- all tactics to reel me in again. But it ain’t working anymore. 🙏🏽 Knowledge and self awareness is POWER. I have nerve felt so confident and empowered in all of my adult life.
You are absolutely right I don't care how nice you are to the narcissist I don't care what you do trying to please them or help them They never change They're hateful ungrateful and evil At one time I thought I would die I was being spiritually attacked I could never understand what was going on in my life because I had never been through anything like this thank you so much Your videos are awesome I am always grateful to see one of your videos on my timeline God bless you
I swear right before the narcissist discarded me she literally told me you will never make it without me you can't survive without me. Jokes on the narcissist because I'm actually doing much better without you. 🤣🤣🤣
I changed my phone number, moved out of state, and blocked that fool on every social media outlet😂🤣. That’s why it fell apart even faster with his new supply, bc he had to take that foolishness over there😉😂.
Yep my ex narc is hoovering me , she’s texting me and sleeping with the guy she discarded me for .. he thinks he’s won the lottery ( she’s stunning) .. I thought I won the lottery as well what I got was a one way ticket to hell
I'm so glad he is "so happy and in love" with his new supply. Hes leaving me alone. Im moving on. I've met a nice guy who is willing to take things slow. Hes complete opposite of what im used to.
He wanted to triangulate me with the new supply and I wasn’t having it. I wished him good luck and blocked him from everything. She knew about me and she knew that we have kids so whatever she gets she is definitely deserving of it.
I believe mines told his mom about the new supply so she can tell me . He told me a few days ago that I only show him love whenever he’s dating someone new during our separation . He can only wish this time
Yes these women be knowing u exist they don't care they want to win the prize to only get destroyed 8n the process behind the narc, I didnt feel sorry for no chic that entertained him, he give red flags all the time
@@keshapowell632 I don’t feel bad for these women. When I got with mine he was “single” so I wasn’t stealing him from anyone. I don’t entertain anyone in a relationship. There is a saying “any relationship built on another woman’s tears won’t stand” God will never bless that relationship.
Same situation. The new supply has a kid too. 🤔. He’s hardly a father to our kid, but ok sis, you got it. Oh, and you don’t have to worry about me....but maybe the 5 other women he slept with at your job. Your side chick spot is open sis. Boop😎
Omg girl going thru the same thing I had to block n delete him n will not look bad I feel for my son but who needs a father like that he doesn’t just hurt me but he was inconsistent n showed no love to my child anyway
@@cassandraelliott84 I have a child by my Narcissist and our son is 1year old.. I haven't spoken to him since January over the phone, many threats and talking about even to burn my house down, last thing he's doing now was posting me and my son pictures along with my Grandmother and Grandson that's not his Grandson, he posting my family all online I don't even vibe with him like that, he knows that will piss me off, get my attention to say something text something, now I give it up... people will see as Thanksgiving and Christmas passes no current pictures of my son will be on his page, for visitation rights he'll have to take me to court, just because we have a child together dosen't mean I have to put up with his mess in life, his issues, or be so weak to go give my son to him, or let him visit.. that's a wolf in sheep clothing, he wish he could squeeze his way into living at my house, have to watch for them men they be looking for a 2nd momma, don't let having a child by a person make your life miserable, men have that baby by you and just think they have the Golden Ticket For Life..
Yeah, they go to the new supply and tell them that YOU ARE THE ONE calling them, stalking them! They love the drama and euphoria they get from it. SHUT IT DOWN!
Yup! My ex narc is doing that now! And his new supply thinks she’s won a prize, by getting territorial and message me “he chose ME!” Blocked blocked and blocked!
Sarah Ford sit back and wait she too will get ate up piece by piece by the narc!! After the lovebombing the narc usually gets bored and starts the mind games and devaluation. Soon she will be wishing she was in your place lol
Yes. Remember everyone involved is being triangulated. It’s just a game to them. The only way to win the game is to cut it off cold and stop playing. If someone else wants to keep playing, let them. Byeeeee!!!
If the new supply is naive and unaware (and truly new like I was) I feel for her. But if it’s one of his back burner or reused supply ;like the ones in the harem closet who were side chicks knowing I was in a committed relationship (at least on my end) and called themselves my “friends”, well I hope Karma is delivered . I don’t say a word, and I’ve stopped obsessing about what he’s doing and with whom. He doesn’t get my energy anymore- especially if he’s not in my world. And Gods got my back. I don’t have to do a thing but get on with my life and heal!
Exactly ! I don’t understand how the back burner chics don’t mind sharing ? To me that’s nasty . To me those Bitches are as narcissist as the abuser . It’s like they both enjoy having a victim . It’s sick !
Facts ! Cause it took us good people empaths time to realize we were with these Parasites! You know they know it’s our light that gave them life !!!! This fool I was with even said that but twisted it as they always do but I know what I made his life a real heaven when I arrived but when I realized I was being cheated on, lied to and abused over and over I dumped him went NO contact for life !
@@lisarodriguez7866 It’s horrible and I feel like I have lost myself. But just knowing that one person in the world took a moment to reply gives me hope that I can do this. I thank you.
@@sherylhands2368 you have to do what's best for you and your peace of mind . DON'T DO IT . May God bless you to live your best life you owe it to yourself.
He took all of his frustrations about me dumping him out on the new supply, she couldn’t believe how he changed into a monster overnight. She said that he tried to recreate our 18 year relationship and he got so angry and abusive when he realised she wasn’t playing ball. Life without him is amazing, no more anxiety, he will suffer forever and I will heal. Thanks Hario, you have helped me on my journey ❤️
Yes I know this happening to supply he got my brother told me get far away stay away can't be trusted. Who tells person you belong to me I'm your man you my woman he covert but still no
This man put me and my kid out with NOTHINGGGG , At 9 months pregnant. I take my butt to work everyday! And just a few weeks later I got accepted to move into an apartment. Thank you God!!!!!! He thought he ended my life!!! No it's just beginning
Once I blocked my ex narc And healed by way of God’s mighty word and rebuilt myself and I am growing in leaps and bounds with the help of God Almighty I haven’t once even thought about who the narcissist is now with at all because it’s not my concern I could care less because I’m so far removed from that devilish situation that my eyes are only looking forward
K Farr thank you so much and in fact God‘s word has been the best thing to ever fully make me aware of narcissism and the devilish influences that drive these people to distruction and I’ve been putting out videos teaching others how to heal with God‘s word and it’s been an amazing journey… Thank you again for Sharing with me
I broke up with this narcissist for one month now and I feel wonderful!! Never met one b4 and I know what to look at for in the future! They are possessed and have demons and that’s the main reason why we clashed all the time. Im better without the baggage of lies and misery. Praise God 💙👼🏼🙏🏽
The thing is a narc is unhappy inside and want everyone be unhappy as he is.. So will do everything to make it happen, act to put you down. There are a few moments that will change his mood..(into good) Material things, money, sex, good news, validation from new women but it doesn't last long. Most of the time he is unhappy and everybody around him need to feel like this
They hate being ignored and block They hate when you close the door behind them They hate when you laugh and they have no clue why They hate sleeping alone They need to be praised and catered too Your there slave They hate when you happy enjoying your free time with/o them leaving your best life
“Mr telephone man” made me lol 😂 New supply got what she wanted, she knew exactly what she was doing. I used to read comments where people said don’t be jealous of new supply and I would think I wish I was there. Now I am there 100%. It’s not even taken that long and I was with this guy for 12 years. For those who think there not there yet, hang in there, It will come. Zero desire to communicate with him anymore. I forgot what peace was like . Much love all 🙏
@@rootsmama1 🙂👍 my ex used to show me pics of the woman he worked with through fb, he acted like it was a normal thing to do but looking back I realise he was trying to make me jealous. I must admit there were a few I felt a little threatened by but the person he ended up with I remember saying to myself “ok there nothing to worry about there” 😄 Yes he ended up with a woman from his work and got her pregnant. I suspected he was messing about with a woman from work but it was not who I thought it would be. I can’t remember exactly what she looked like but just remembered not being bothered by her at all.
@@rootsmama1I was not a jealous person and would not think like that in a healthy relationship. He purposely tried very hard to make me jealous by doing certain things that now looking back I realise were not normal and very toxic
I tried for 15 years to turn my ex boyfriend who was diagnosed with NPD around. It was not possible. The best thing I ever did was go no contact and turn MY life around! I now have peace, serenity, money, joy and happiness! What he does is his problem, not mine. I no longer care if he's sober or drunk, alive or dead, happy or miserable. I am so focused on God and myself that he doesn't matter!!!!
Every time you get back with them it gets worse. They will never put an effort to improve themselves or their relationships. I lost 8 years back and fourth. Took almost losing my freedom to be free.
These narcissistic people are disgusting. Dont let them in your house not even for 1 night. Let them be homeless, don't lend them no money don't give them anything!! Let them suffer!! They don't deserve any sympathy
Yeah. Mine has about 20. Not even kidding. It’s disgusting. Lives w his fiancé, too. Never knew he was engaged and he lied about where he lived. Even lied about his name.
You can never change them. And yes they loved every second of destroying you. And... they are relentless at coming after you for more supply. Narcs are a sorry piece of work.
After 6yrs with him I never felt so confused depressed stressed so much my immune system was shutting down I was almost dead but God I prayed so much for God to help me and he did ! He gave me the strength to walk away it's been a year and I'm still struggling to recover from the trauma but I'm getting better and getting my life back and God is so good I've changed my whole life for the better I wrote a book that was just published 2020 nov called Secret pain it was therapy thank God I dont look like what I went through.
I don’t think you realize how much your helping me heal bro. Felt like crying this morning but we ain’t soft we strong over here no matter what they put us through instead I’m working out listening to this video
This is so hard to listen to. 9 years I put up with SOOOO much and now I’m being discarded. Funny thing is I knew about narcissist and watch several videos but my love for her blinded me to it.. yep she got me.. so hard to hear some of those videos now.
Yes, he ain’t lying about that. Leave them in their misery lol because the narc needs both positive and negative supplies. I refuse to be any type of supply especially negative supply. Giving me all the negative and taking all positive to someone else. If anything we’re helping the new supply wake a lot sooner lol
Unlike the new supply continue to forgive them for you it's been confirmed they're habitual about hurting you so you don't have to ever trust them again,I said them because there are those that collusion with the narcissist,supply, there's a difference between forgiving and trusting period!
I'm smiling because the last thing i text him was a trash can and told him that i don't keep trash around. Don't text me or ever call me ever again. Now he's on my face book page. I just don't respond to him.
"after all they have done to you,... They wanna end it on good terms..." 😂😂😂... This is 100% TRUE. Those narcs r really crazy yess... Joke of the day!!!!
@@teresaadams3912 WOW u said BREATHING again I use to feel like I was choking while living with the Narc, this person would tell me I was a Narc called me delusional, got mad when I didn't want to stay in his hospital rm when his quote unquote high school friend wanted to visit him, lol, that same friend was in his phone the next week displaying her nude breast. She was his side supply, this man smeared me with his neughbors, friends and anyone that wanted to listen to drama. I never felt so foolish helping this narc regain his health back, taking off work making sure he made it to clinic appts, cooking his meals before I go to work, coming back home after work cooking his dinner. I should've known better when he smeared his child's mom, my naive butt felt so sorry for him for all the lies he said she did to him, later finding out from the mouth of his own grown child that he lived the same life growing up with this narc around hia mom. That narc was slowly killing me until I shut him down and stop allowing him to puppet me. Why didn't I listen when he told me women only stay with him 6 months. 10 yrs of being naive, it's been 5 months away from the narc and YES I'm finally able to breath again and had to realize while shopping for myself I didn't have to nervvously look at my phone making sure he wasn't calling me for something. I truthfully had to reintroduce myself to me again. I'm free and have never been exposed to a creature like that narc.
REMINDER TO MYSELF: Narcissists' use of sob stories is motivated by their dependence on me feeling sorry for them in order for them to abuse me (5:54).
This is super helpful! I don’t know why we would keep in touch with them at all after the heinous crimes they committed against our mental health! Very very good points here!
Crazy how I would pray for me and this person to just be on better terms because we have a daughter together. I would pray and cry out to God just to give us the best outcome because I didn’t want to do courts and he was being so mean and disrespectful due to his new girlfriend being around. Every time I would pray soon as I was done he would send something disrespectful. I’m mean literally. It was like the devil would hear the prayers and send him a message to be that way. It has been crazy since I left him a year ago. I felt like I was in the great big fog and slowly things started to clear up. I could barely tell who I was dealing with out in the world. I did t trust anybody. I didn’t trust myself. I have been slowly picking up the pieces of my life and putting them back together. I’m praying 2021 is a much better year.
I been there too . Every time I prayed and asked GOD to show me if this was the girls for me he did . When I say every time I prayed under the tree in my yard he answered me ASAP no she isn’t . It’s like she would do something that would put a dent in the relationship every single time wow . But I got over her behind thanks be to GOD . You know what they say be careful what you pray for .
I grew up with no mother no father I was a gang banger, I ran the streets and I sold drugs I had a kid at 16. It was when I had my first kid that I had to grow up now I own a business, I own my own house, and I have my three vehicles and a hell of a nest egg set aside. What's crazy is I didn't get my house until after my narcissist left and thanks to a settlement I was able to buy a house
My heart goes out to the new supply. We stay in the fantasy bond because we live on a false hope that they will change. I can't convince the new supply because they are enamored by the bombing...so I must remove myself and let the natural order run its course. Its mind blowing how I am made "the crazy one"....as I watch the true crazies, like a movie screen in front of me.
It's only a matter of time until he comes sniffing back around and starts hoovering. Be glad he's out of your life. I have a son with one and he discarded BOTH of us. Told me to leave him alone, I was dead to him. 6 months later he's hoovering, telling me he misses our child, blah blah blah. They never go away.
@@BluMustangNY Same here. The narc husband's discard was so brutal and cruel. Told me and every one that he had stopped loving me for a while and that he finds me repulsive. 2 years post discard, he is hoovering like crazy, pretending to love and miss me. Yuck. He can pretend all he wants with the new supply, his family and friends but I know exactly what he is.
The "new supply" will defend them until all the love bombing gifts becomes junk mail!! And then they will see that they are not any better off then all the others the Narc has destroyed...... But I'm sure by then the Narc will have found a whole new target for supply. Just be glad it's not you smh
Everything you said in this video is 100%. I divorced a narc of 8 years. THEE instant I left the courtroom I changed BOTH of my numbers. Changed my job location, I even moved! I bumped into him at the gas station and he asked me for my new address and sex..I said what about ur new woman?? He said dont worry about that!!! I walked away laughing...they never change........
11 years with a narcissist. Went no contact 2 years ago, he just married his new supply this week. I'm finally FREE! She knows what she's getting into, so....good luck to them both. Blessings
The narc I have been dealing with has lasted 12 years now. It is finally coming to an end and it took one moment. As all narcs do, this narc kept failing the agreement we had not to bring the new supply to our home and start drama, and my signing the lease was contingent on that. Since the narc failed twice in our agreement , this time I had the idea to make the narc swear to God, to keep the promise and agreement ,and signed a 6 months lease.( narc claims to be highly spiritual and even councils people for a living.) Barely 2 weeks later to no surprise , narc broke the agreement. When I confronted it , it went into complete narcissistic rage . It took me involving the most high, to finally get rid of the bewitchment and remove the veil from my eyes and have gone completely grey rock until I discard this devil completely. Never ever trust a narc and never ever give them a second chance. No sympathy for the devil. Hario thank you for sharing this journey with us and I am convinced this is your calling BROTHER.. CHEERS to all the Empath family who is fighting these demons. stay strong God has got you. Reach out to our divine Father daily. PEACE1
Its amazing that I realized that his fraud actually put me in the winner's zone. Never look a gift horse in the mouth! He thought and he tried it but the last laugh is life!
He was laughing in court thinking he was hurting me now who's laughing his new supply got a 3rd party and is an undercover s*x worker (narcissist) he found out in court lost business/money/home and have to pay 3 child support plus alimony and have a new baby with another s*x worker and moved in with her and possibly will be homeless soon...
I got the "Thinking of you" and "Happy Thanksgiving" hoover text last Wednesday night. I have had her blocked on my phone and Facebook since May, but apparently the block only lasted for 90 days and you have to re block them again. Anyway, I ignored the text as though she was still blocked! Normally I would answer a text from an ex and wish her the same. In this case her being a full blown narcissist...I had to ignore! Four and a half years with this person who broke up with me over and over again over nothing and retrieved me back so many times I had to cut her off completely! The narcs feel like they own you and discard you and retrieve you back whenever they please. In the meantime they find new supply like she has, but still want to keep you fresh on the shelf for later. DO NOT GIVE THE NARC ANY KIND OF FUEL......BLOCK and IGNORE!!!!
This what happened that dry deceiving text about having blessed holiday love you hell no you not fooling me. He hated discard him not thinking about him you right had hard life to my mom liked me less than siblings to I’m strongest smartest one . She is narc now see why she did me like that trying make weak dependent crippled God healed me then here comes narc years later
Same here about the Thanksgiving hoover...but the blocks with Tmobile that you do via the company last as long as you enter them on the site or over the phone (by calling customer service). I have had my child's sperm donor blocked since 2012. You can block up to 10 numbers on each cell phone. The hoover that I received was from a narc I broke up with in 2015. He is married now. Smh. I never blocked him via Tmobile. That's how he got through.
I did this, it really worked. She just left me, as soon she saw me strong she hoovered me in just to kill me off, I felt sick, cut her off completely.. Now she's struggling and people see through her. Cut them off!
I am noticing these videos many months later… but happy I did. It’s made me realize that I am not alone is how deep she cut me. Never again will I trust another person enough to invest that much of myself in someone.
In a way, I FEEL, that you are still letting the narcissist win. It's not about trusting again. It about not misplacing trust. Me, myself, I'm ready to love again--no holds barred. This time not ignoring red flags and reciprocity. We have to be equally matched in the give and take department. But I deserve love. I deserve someone that I can trust, someone who can be trusted. I refuse to allow him to cheat me out it. You deserve it too! But what sane person will give their all, while you protect yourself at every turn? Seems like a recipe for disaster, miserableness, and being alone.
Oh he will never be allowed back and they can keep sleeping around lol. I am looking for someone who is into the arts who can match my backbone and intellect.
He brought in triangulation against me with the new supply. I kicked him to the curb, told him to walk away from me & never contact me again. That was 2.5 weeks ago. Good luck to both of them.
Bro, I heard that let’s be friends, let’s take it slow, let’s get to know each other better. I have heard it all. I have dealt with a betrayal. I have dealt with my ex gaslighting me, after I confronted her about her giving me chlamydia. I have experienced it all. All I can tell you all is, don’t ignore the signs. Go with what your heart is saying. If your heart is aching, run like hell, and never look back.
Me too. Together for 25 years since we were 14 yrs old. He left me for his best friends wife. Her & I were friends back in high school. I was crying on her shoulder thinking he was having an affair and it was her the entire time. She whispered lies & hate in his ear and he was lovebombing her in front of my eyes.
@@cliftonryder4618 thank you.Clifton. It's been so hard dealing with all the hurt & emotions. I'm scared to death to date, have no desire to. I feel like I'm broken and won't ever find real love.
This is deep, and hilarious at the same time. I've been through all of this, and I'm healing everyday. Trust me, when you start laughing out loud listening to this brotha, you are on your way!!!!
Finally divorced the narc last week!! Go no contact and if you can please get a lawyer. If they have anything to say they can tell your lawyer. Be strong and try not to talk to his family and friends because they keep tabs on you and may tell you what the narcissist is doing.
You can't turn them around. It's impossible. Thank you. I needed to hear this today. Every time I let him get near me I have to go through all of the pain again. The mindgames are endless, cold and cruel. They don't come around because they love us. They co.e around to give us a heaping helping of pain so they can walk away feeling like the winner. They truly are monsters.
I discarded 10 weeks ago. I won.. I have no desire to communicate with the person. I am not open to the craziness. I would rather be me and not be manipulated. This person has no significance in my life. I know who the new and old supply.are. Empowered now. No contact no matter what.... I am a different person now. No more toxic people. You are great. I learned now from videos. They will not turn into good people. They have to manipulate the new supply.
This is very comforting, because I notice they added there ex back on FB since I blocked them, they always claimed they made the relationship so turbulent, and they could never be with them again.
Deep inside , I know that he will realize that his “ gold bird “ flyed away . Never more he will find a woman with values like me . He will suffer so bad when he find out that all the woman’s are just sucking his money and betrayaling him . They will not wait for him with love taking care of him , the house and the kids . Eagles fly with eagles . Bitch hang out with bitches . Period . Amazing video ! On the point !
@@1010QUEEN7 They loose gold , we earned freedom! We have cure, they don’t . Be happy to be free from the devil in desguise . God is good all the time 🙏
I’m 6 days no contact. Day 2 the new supply sent me a DM. Day 3 the new supply left a comment on a 2 year old public post that I had; I didn’t respond to either attempt at reaching me. Yesterday, the narc reached out to my sister via text asking if I was ok and that he really loves me....lies. Here’s to healing!!
My ex narc just got engaged Thanksgiving. The next day while with her ; he calls to say I love you. I am sorry. The new supply heard him talking to me . She got mad. This fool / ex. Of mine keeps calling. He is Crazy! I am doing Better without him. We have been broken up for a year. We were together 11 years. He cheated on me with the new supply. He will not Break my Spirit and Moving on. Yes ; Hario he is destroyed. Destroyed because I am A Great. Woman!
I won I won back my own respect my own self . If you not happy the still don’t expect gratitude . Wake up and smell the coffee . Let go and walk thru the door of deserved respect so you can see how much love and value you can give yourself instead of crying for a lost because is not a lost for me. I found. Not lost ! Love yourself. Do you , be you. You are not a competición. I know I am worth i deserve love and not hurt !
I decided to say my last words to that Sexual Narcissist! It’s been a cruel year. “ To you I’m a game, To me it’s feelings. And any feelings I had for you, are GONE!” SILENT. NO CONTACT. I feel goooooood.
This is dead on. I forwarded all calls to voicemail. This fool had the audacity to say “you left me when I needed you the most” 🙄 take your problems to the next victim!!!
I got discarded this 🌅 morning I'm so blessed I was tired sad weary 😩 stressed now I'm so free 🆓 feeling better than ever like a weight lifted off my shoulders he was jealous of my looks jobs ND personality confidence Lord I'm blessed I'm done ✅ grey rock no contact 🔥♀️♎🎉🥳🎯
Wow wow wow!! Again Wow! Yes that is exactly what they do. You can tell if they're struggling with trying to land a new victim. Coming home frustrated, pushing buttons to get a reaction, trying to get in your bed. Their phone more busy, head shaking, eyes rolling. Just being used as a dumping ground, so they can get back out there and smile and be so nice to the new ones. Now that he's moved out, she is his only dump station, the new supply probably really misses us 😂
Yep the ex narc is hoovering me already after only 5 months She’s texting me while he’s probably sleeping beside her ( he was me ) He thinks he’s won the lottery, ....she’s gorgeous I thought I’d won the lottery but what I got was a on way ticket to hell . No loyalty or honour whatsoever
Thank You Brother! I'm healing just fine! 50 yrs old and I finally run into something not someone bc that's giving them to much credit that tried her best to crush everything about me. Now if you knew me; you wouldn't believe not one of the lies that was told. I gave her every dam thing I possibly could and still got my good old heart snapped like a twig! They are evil people who needs help on a bad way! I don't sympathize with them on no level bc they are who they are at the end of day! I pray these kinds of videos reach the unknowing! Oh but fuck the new supply; laugh now go crazy later
Yessir tried to destroy me and my character... it was crazy... the loneliest I have ever been in my life was with her... never wanted to spend time with me... or anything
The only thing lonelier than not being w the narc? Is being WITH the narc!!!!!!! They don’t have no x 4 a real relationship. It’s all about them and their 20 supplies. Cheers to no longer worrying where ur narc is at or up to. Cheers on ur new life!
You explained everything about them better than any psychologists. Narcissist all around the world act exactly the same, because they are deeply mentally ill. Thank you
You truly spoke the truth. I was married to a narcissist until Yah opened my eyes and showed me that I should stop following my husband. He has done everything possible to break me down, but Yah says not so. Yah told me “He is my vendicator, he shall repay”. This helped me to let go and let Yah. We have to listen to Yah. He will lead and guide you from that narcistic demon that’s trying to destroy you. People know, if you have been targeted by a narcissist you have a higher calling. Head that calling and get away. They are not worth it.
I was close to accepting a phone call from this crazy individual. Your video found me at the right time after all when the student is ready the teacher will appear. I’m able to fix me!
The last time we texted he told me he was already sleeping w other ppl. I blocked his number. And it will be one month no contact 😢… while I here so so depressed pls GOD heal me. He was a predator too, he SA me while I was passed out drunk and recorded himself touching me, and for some sick reason I still love him. I feel so messed up in the head 😢 I obviously don’t want a man like that but he tricked me into loving him, no he is happy sleeping around. I will never contact him, I’ve kept his number blocked 😢😢😢 I thankfully have 0 social media, so he will never get the pleasure of seeing me sad or my life.
Its funny how when u put God first your eyes began to open..
Thanks be to God! 🙏🏄🌅
🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽‼️
100%
Thank you God! I am so blessed by this peace. 🙏🏼❤
U better believe it Amen ....
The new supply, asked for it! Good luck Honey! You gonna get sick and old real fast! 😉
Lol! 😂
them cortisol levels will skyrocket , best believe premature wrinkles excess body fat loss of sleep bald spots age spots dark eye bags mood swings the list goes on and on lol
Miss Kay he’s going to suck the life right out of you...you’re nothing but feed.
@@marywilson2537 Yes he did! He is now with the New supply, which was actually not "New" by the time I found out he had been with her 3 years along with three others. I am now Narc free and he has added to his collection of supplies!
Miss Kay I’m happy for you!
Being with a narcissist is like slowly drowning in quick sand. Their demons.
The terms "demon" and "evil" come up so much in these conversations! There is definitely something to that!
They're
@@stasiacollins8285 its the truth I know the one I married is full of demons a liar and a minion in satan army
Thank u so much .I am newly separated knowing my ex got 25 yrs old daughter to her intl hooker supply.it’s a 27 yrs of agony in the life of a narsissist gambler husband.it’s an
Awakening video of yours.now I know what to do.thank u so much.
Right ! The older they get, the worse they will be. And the uglier they look.
Those MONSTER can never be fixed. SILENCE is the key. Guys Runnnnn never look back cut them completely out of your life forever.
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I’ll believe only the report of the lord ,The God that I serve ,makes the blind see ,and the deaf to hear ,he cleanses the leopard and sooo much more ,Pray without ceasing
Your So Right
This is what I had to do even with our son i will tell my son he can look for him when he’s older but I can’t
It's so hard to walk away
Good video. Another advice Ladies and Gentlemen. Even if you have healed, it's important to keep watching the videos. It is a reminder to keep your guard up.
Absolutely!!
I concur 🍀
Period!!!!
Yes!
Absolutely !!!
I got rid of the narc...by constantly accusing him of other women...calling him out on his shit....made him so mad he left my house and vowed to never talk to or come back in my space! Making him think that he discarded me.....I don't care about the new supply....I appreciate whomever wants the trash!
I left my narc with a whole house. I wanted nothing. I started all over. Freedom is a Blessing.
Me too!
@@evonehamlin007 Me 3 😁
I left the state & CHANGED my number forget BLOCKING. 😅🤣😂 Deactivated all social media 💯
I walked away from our home too. Just wanted away from his evil.
The Best Way Is to Pay Them No Attention💝
Yep! 🌅
Right...💯💯
Yes AMEN
That's gold
So true….after years of emotional torture, I finally realised I am NOT the problem. Once I realised that, I began to heal and now he can’t access me. I see his panic and restlessness- all tactics to reel me in again. But it ain’t working anymore. 🙏🏽
Knowledge and self awareness is POWER. I have nerve felt so confident and empowered in all of my adult life.
You are absolutely right I don't care how nice you are to the narcissist I don't care what you do trying to please them or help them They never change They're hateful ungrateful and evil At one time I thought I would die I was being spiritually attacked I could never understand what was going on in my life because I had never been through anything like this thank you so much Your videos are awesome I am always grateful to see one of your videos on my timeline God bless you
Oh my god. I need someone to talk to and im reading your story. Can you please call me. Please don't think im crazy. Shannon 2192299545
Spiritually attacked? You mean like demonically attacked? I went through that. Sleep paralysis is real.
@Super Hero yes. My number is 2192299545
@@shannonhodges5583 anytime u want to talk call me I'm going thru the same thing just call me at 2523700582
You are so right it was nothing I could do to please him. I broke my back for him and it wasnt enough.
My ex narc has a new supply again. I'm like well, let's see how long this one stays around. Lol 😆
If a Narcissistic move forward fast and get married will that marriage last long or end as fast it moved
You know the answer not long have new victim you mean
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@@angeliquechronicles3579 yes new supply
All that shit shouldn't matter people. Do yaw get it?
I swear right before the narcissist discarded me she literally told me you will never make it without me you can't survive without me. Jokes on the narcissist because I'm actually doing much better without you. 🤣🤣🤣
I changed my phone number, moved out of state, and blocked that fool on every social media outlet😂🤣. That’s why it fell apart even faster with his new supply, bc he had to take that foolishness over there😉😂.
😛🤣🤣🤣💕✔️
Well done. Way to go. You have to move, change your everything. Zero contact. They are vile to the core.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@lenahbrighton5472 🎯🎯🎯
😂it feels so goodt. Two places I’m not going with anyone, back and forth. 😊❤ Goodbye 👋 like he NEVA seen it before! 😊
He is already cheating on his new supply. Lol
They are narcissists too they both have not one but 2 3rd parties...
They start it with 10 contenders at all times
That's good for her
Yep my ex narc is hoovering me , she’s texting me and sleeping with the guy she discarded me for .. he thinks he’s won the lottery ( she’s stunning) .. I thought I won the lottery as well what I got was a one way ticket to hell
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm so glad he is "so happy and in love" with his new supply. Hes leaving me alone. Im moving on. I've met a nice guy who is willing to take things slow. Hes complete opposite of what im used to.
You go girl! 🌅
Yass *cheers* to you !!!
Right same here...💯💯
I'm happy he has someone too.
Good luck to you
He wanted to triangulate me with the new supply and I wasn’t having it. I wished him good luck and blocked him from everything. She knew about me and she knew that we have kids so whatever she gets she is definitely deserving of it.
I believe mines told his mom about the new supply so she can tell me . He told me a few days ago that I only show him love whenever he’s dating someone new during our separation . He can only wish this time
Yes these women be knowing u exist they don't care they want to win the prize to only get destroyed 8n the process behind the narc, I didnt feel sorry for no chic that entertained him, he give red flags all the time
@@keshapowell632 I don’t feel bad for these women. When I got with mine he was “single” so I wasn’t stealing him from anyone. I don’t entertain anyone in a relationship. There is a saying “any relationship built on another woman’s tears won’t stand” God will never bless that relationship.
Same situation. The new supply has a kid too. 🤔. He’s hardly a father to our kid, but ok sis, you got it. Oh, and you don’t have to worry about me....but maybe the 5 other women he slept with at your job. Your side chick spot is open sis. Boop😎
Omg girl going thru the same thing I had to block n delete him n will not look bad I feel for my son but who needs a father like that he doesn’t just hurt me but he was inconsistent n showed no love to my child anyway
He’s been trying all week to get me to respond, it’s been 4 months I refuse to go back
Say it again
Yup my ex have been doing the samething if i ain't have a child by him i would of been of block him what an headache they are
No contact for 3.6 years...
@@cassandraelliott84 I have a child by my Narcissist and our son is 1year old.. I haven't spoken to him since January over the phone, many threats and talking about even to burn my house down, last thing he's doing now was posting me and my son pictures along with my Grandmother and Grandson that's not his Grandson, he posting my family all online I don't even vibe with him like that, he knows that will piss me off, get my attention to say something text something, now I give it up... people will see as Thanksgiving and Christmas passes no current pictures of my son will be on his page, for visitation rights he'll have to take me to court, just because we have a child together dosen't mean I have to put up with his mess in life, his issues, or be so weak to go give my son to him, or let him visit.. that's a wolf in sheep clothing, he wish he could squeeze his way into living at my house, have to watch for them men they be looking for a 2nd momma, don't let having a child by a person make your life miserable, men have that baby by you and just think they have the Golden Ticket For Life..
Stay on it you’re stronger than they think .
Yeah, they go to the new supply and tell them that YOU ARE THE ONE calling them, stalking them! They love the drama and euphoria they get from it. SHUT IT DOWN!
dont feed the animals lol
Yup! My ex narc is doing that now! And his new supply thinks she’s won a prize, by getting territorial and message me “he chose ME!” Blocked blocked and blocked!
Sarah Ford sit back and wait she too will get ate up piece by piece by the narc!! After the lovebombing the narc usually gets bored and starts the mind games and devaluation. Soon she will be wishing she was in your place lol
@@PRETTYGIRLSWAGG918 🤣🤣😂😂
Yes. Remember everyone involved is being triangulated. It’s just a game to them. The only way to win the game is to cut it off cold and stop playing. If someone else wants to keep playing, let them. Byeeeee!!!
If the new supply is naive and unaware (and truly new like I was) I feel for her. But if it’s one of his back burner or reused supply ;like the ones in the harem closet who were side chicks knowing I was in a committed relationship (at least on my end) and called themselves my “friends”, well I hope Karma is delivered . I don’t say a word, and I’ve stopped obsessing about what he’s doing and with whom. He doesn’t get my energy anymore- especially if he’s not in my world. And Gods got my back. I don’t have to do a thing but get on with my life and heal!
Exactly ! I don’t understand how the back burner chics don’t mind sharing ? To me that’s nasty . To me those Bitches are as narcissist as the abuser . It’s like they both enjoy having a victim . It’s sick !
Thank you. I was brand new and completely unaware. Woah. What a terrifying 5 year nightmare. No contact for 7 months. I escaped
Facts ! Cause it took us good people empaths time to realize we were with these Parasites! You know they know it’s our light that gave them life !!!! This fool I was with even said that but twisted it as they always do but I know what I made his life a real heaven when I arrived but when I realized I was being cheated on, lied to and abused over and over I dumped him went NO contact for life !
So beautifully said ❤
No you cannot turn them around. Im with him for 40yrs. They only get worse
Fay. I’m with mine 30 years and what you say is truth. I wish we could talk and am curious to know if you are as messed up inside yourself as I am.
Thank you because his church wants me to reconcile with him. No
@@jamimangham8529 It's 32yrs. for me and yes they just get worse. Smh!
@@lisarodriguez7866 It’s horrible and I feel like I have lost myself. But just knowing that one person in the world took a moment to reply gives me hope that I can do this. I thank you.
@@sherylhands2368 you have to do what's best for you and your peace of mind . DON'T DO IT . May God bless you to live your best life you owe it to yourself.
A FREAKING MONSTER.....IS WHAT THEY ARE..
MONSTERS.....PERIOD!!!!
He took all of his frustrations about me dumping him out on the new supply, she couldn’t believe how he changed into a monster overnight. She said that he tried to recreate our 18 year relationship and he got so angry and abusive when he realised she wasn’t playing ball. Life without him is amazing, no more anxiety, he will suffer forever and I will heal.
Thanks Hario, you have helped me on my journey ❤️
Me too 💙
Yes I know this happening to supply he got my brother told me get far away stay away can't be trusted.
Who tells person you belong to me I'm your man you my woman he covert but still no
🥠 HEALING is Coming.
They are monsters for sure!!! My life without my ex narc is wonderful too! Let’s all be strong!!
Me too
This man put me and my kid out with NOTHINGGGG , At 9 months pregnant. I take my butt to work everyday! And just a few weeks later I got accepted to move into an apartment. Thank you God!!!!!! He thought he ended my life!!! No it's just beginning
Once I blocked my ex narc And healed by way of God’s mighty word and rebuilt myself and I am growing in leaps and bounds with the help of God Almighty I haven’t once even thought about who the narcissist is now with at all because it’s not my concern I could care less because I’m so far removed from that devilish situation that my eyes are only looking forward
All positive, great book to read. May you continue to be blessed 💝👍💐🙏
K Farr thank you so much and in fact God‘s word has been the best thing to ever fully make me aware of narcissism and the devilish influences that drive these people to distruction and I’ve been putting out videos teaching others how to heal with God‘s word and it’s been an amazing journey… Thank you again for Sharing with me
Phill Rry amen to that Phil and I think this will Bless you a lot!!
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Go Girl. Me too. Eyes on God . 🌸 🙏 🔥
Phill Rry Thank you so much Phil that means a lot to me!!🥰🙏💕🌼🌺
Him and the new supply are feeding off each other's dysfunction meanwhile I'm just sitting back observing, growing and living my best life..boy bye !
SILENCE IS THE BEST, WHEN YOU KNOW BETTER YOU DO BETTER AMEN WE GOT THIS FAM
I broke up with this narcissist for one month now and I feel wonderful!! Never met one b4 and I know what to look at for in the future! They are possessed and have demons and that’s the main reason why we clashed all the time. Im better without the baggage of lies and misery.
Praise God 💙👼🏼🙏🏽
The thing is a narc is unhappy inside and want everyone be unhappy as he is.. So will do everything to make it happen, act to put you down. There are a few moments that will change his mood..(into good) Material things, money, sex, good news, validation from new women but it doesn't last long. Most of the time he is unhappy and everybody around him need to feel like this
This is true! So sad.
So boring, broken record same old thing everyday. YUCK I'm glad he is gone.
This is so true about the things that temporarily make the narc "happy"
@@Steve_D1974 smh
@@pamelabeaton7834 i know you are
They hate being ignored and block
They hate when you close the door behind them
They hate when you laugh and they have no clue why
They hate sleeping alone
They need to be praised and catered too
Your there slave
They hate when you happy enjoying your free time with/o them leaving your best life
U R on the money honey, TRUE. no contact, blocked for life.. Thank God for taking me out, the shine will shine again.
“Mr telephone man” made me lol 😂
New supply got what she wanted, she knew exactly what she was doing. I used to read comments where people said don’t be jealous of new supply and I would think I wish I was there.
Now I am there 100%. It’s not even taken that long and I was with this guy for 12 years.
For those who think there not there yet, hang in there, It will come.
Zero desire to communicate with him anymore.
I forgot what peace was like .
Much love all 🙏
I'm there too,once you are done with them, you feel lke you were stupid thinking of these demons
When I finally saw the new supply I was shocked. She looks like a strong faced man and he looks awful now. They can have each other!
@@rootsmama1 🙂👍 my ex used to show me pics of the woman he worked with through fb, he acted like it was a normal thing to do but looking back I realise he was trying to make me jealous. I must admit there were a few I felt a little threatened by but the person he ended up with I remember saying to myself “ok there nothing to worry about there” 😄
Yes he ended up with a woman from his work and got her pregnant. I suspected he was messing about with a woman from work but it was not who I thought it would be.
I can’t remember exactly what she looked like but just remembered not being bothered by her at all.
@@rootsmama1I was not a jealous person and would not think like that in a healthy relationship. He purposely tried very hard to make me jealous by doing certain things that now looking back I realise were not normal and very toxic
Karma is real!🌅
I tried for 15 years to turn my ex boyfriend who was diagnosed with NPD around. It was not possible.
The best thing I ever did was go no contact and turn MY life around!
I now have peace, serenity, money, joy and happiness!
What he does is his problem, not mine.
I no longer care if he's sober or drunk, alive or dead, happy or miserable.
I am so focused on God and myself that he doesn't matter!!!!
Every time you get back with them it gets worse. They will never put an effort to improve themselves or their relationships. I lost 8 years back and fourth. Took almost losing my freedom to be free.
I lost 12
That's my biggest fear messing my life up for demons trash 🗑️🗑️
These narcissistic people are disgusting. Dont let them in your house not even for 1 night. Let them be homeless, don't lend them no money don't give them anything!! Let them suffer!! They don't deserve any sympathy
Truth that was most miserable fake situationship once you see you never had relationship
Ain’t that the truth!!! Exactly how I feel !
💯💯
Omg!!! That’s so true!!!
Word!
So true lots of people have had terrible childhoods and it didn't turn them into devils
Some narcissist have more then one girlfriend/ boy friend, so even if you stop talking to them they always have a couple of back ups..
Yeah. Mine has about 20. Not even kidding. It’s disgusting. Lives w his fiancé, too. Never knew he was engaged and he lied about where he lived. Even lied about his name.
My ex does. And she loves to brag to me bout it. Crazy narc hoe.
You can never change them. And yes they loved every second of destroying you. And... they are relentless at coming after you for more supply. Narcs are a sorry piece of work.
After 6yrs with him I never felt so confused depressed stressed so much my immune system was shutting down I was almost dead but God I prayed so much for God to help me and he did ! He gave me the strength to walk away it's been a year and I'm still struggling to recover from the trauma but I'm getting better and getting my life back and God is so good I've changed my whole life for the better I wrote a book that was just published 2020 nov called Secret pain it was therapy thank God I dont look like what I went through.
I don’t think you realize how much your helping me heal bro. Felt like crying this morning but we ain’t soft we strong over here no matter what they put us through instead I’m working out listening to this video
EXACTLY!!! We are entitled to have good and bad days BUT we are strong and we WIN
You can do it! Keep praying for healing. Everyday you cut them off it gets better. 7 months no contact i still have nightmares. Now you know better.
Don't worry everything will be different now...just keep listening to Hario and be nice...God is on our side! 🙏💙🌅
Me too 💪🏾
This is so hard to listen to. 9 years I put up with SOOOO much and now I’m being discarded. Funny thing is I knew about narcissist and watch several videos but my love for her blinded me to it.. yep she got me.. so hard to hear some of those videos now.
He thought i would fail !!!
Yea ...when u walk away..and find ur self..it kills them in side they can't take our light
But he was wrong he didn't realize how strong you were! 🙏💙🌅
You will WIN.🔖🥇🏆🏅
@@rileysmiley9585 Yes AMEN 🕯️🙏🕯️🙏
God bless all of us survivors!!!
Tania M,You got a lovely smile 😊
Amen!
You have to stop communicating with that thing. LOL. Best line EVER!
They aren't human.....more like Satan's children little devils.
🤣
That line had me in stitchezzz too.🤣😂
Sometimes I feel sorry for the new supply. She will soon find out what she's dealing with.
It took me awhile but I cut my narcissist off cold turkey no communication either way new phone number new address life is great thanks a bunch💕
I'm working on the doing the same thing I'm waiting on information about my new home 🏡🙏
Yes, he ain’t lying about that. Leave them in their misery lol because the narc needs both positive and negative supplies. I refuse to be any type of supply especially negative supply. Giving me all the negative and taking all positive to someone else. If anything we’re helping the new supply wake a lot sooner lol
Unlike the new supply continue to forgive them for you it's been confirmed they're habitual about hurting you so you don't have to ever trust them again,I said them because there are those that collusion with the narcissist,supply, there's a difference between forgiving and trusting period!
Yep when I stopped returning his text it really made him sad, I'm the one that got away...Thanks be to God! 🙏
I was negative . Kept crying to him about what he did abs even begged him to come back. Now I want nothing to do with him .
You can't turn them into a nice person.
I'm smiling because the last thing i text him was a trash can and told him that i don't keep trash around. Don't text me or ever call me ever again. Now he's on my face book page. I just don't respond to him.
Only god can turn them around and even with that I have never seen it.
"after all they have done to you,... They wanna end it on good terms..." 😂😂😂... This is 100% TRUE. Those narcs r really crazy yess... Joke of the day!!!!
I feel like I can breathe again .I am no longer depressed! Thank you for this support
@@teresaadams3912 WOW u said BREATHING again I use to feel like I was choking while living with the Narc, this person would tell me I was a Narc called me delusional, got mad when I didn't want to stay in his hospital rm when his quote unquote high school friend wanted to visit him, lol, that same friend was in his phone the next week displaying her nude breast. She was his side supply, this man smeared me with his neughbors, friends and anyone that wanted to listen to drama. I never felt so foolish helping this narc regain his health back, taking off work making sure he made it to clinic appts, cooking his meals before I go to work, coming back home after work cooking his dinner. I should've known better when he smeared his child's mom, my naive butt felt so sorry for him for all the lies he said she did to him, later finding out from the mouth of his own grown child that he lived the same life growing up with this narc around hia mom. That narc was slowly killing me until I shut him down and stop allowing him to puppet me. Why didn't I listen when he told me women only stay with him 6 months. 10 yrs of being naive, it's been 5 months away from the narc and YES I'm finally able to breath again and had to realize while shopping for myself I didn't have to nervvously look at my phone making sure he wasn't calling me for something. I truthfully had to reintroduce myself to me again. I'm free and have never been exposed to a creature like that narc.
REMINDER TO MYSELF: Narcissists' use of sob stories is motivated by their dependence on me feeling sorry for them in order for them to abuse me (5:54).
This is super helpful! I don’t know why we would keep in touch with them at all after the heinous crimes they committed against our mental health! Very very good points here!
THEY ARE NOT FIXABLE !!!! 🙅🏾♀️
Crazy how I would pray for me and this person to just be on better terms because we have a daughter together. I would pray and cry out to God just to give us the best outcome because I didn’t want to do courts and he was being so mean and disrespectful due to his new girlfriend being around. Every time I would pray soon as I was done he would send something disrespectful. I’m mean literally. It was like the devil would hear the prayers and send him a message to be that way. It has been crazy since I left him a year ago. I felt like I was in the great big fog and slowly things started to clear up. I could barely tell who I was dealing with out in the world. I did t trust anybody. I didn’t trust myself. I have been slowly picking up the pieces of my life and putting them back together. I’m praying 2021 is a much better year.
It will be better... I find that praying on your knees makes things happen a little faster.!🙏
U believe n it will be
You're gonna b be great! 2021 is gonna be your BEST year year!♥️
I been there too . Every time I prayed and asked GOD to show me if this was the girls for me he did . When I say every time I prayed under the tree in my yard he answered me ASAP no she isn’t . It’s like she would do something that would put a dent in the relationship every single time wow . But I got over her behind thanks be to GOD . You know what they say be careful what you pray for .
It will be
The ‘New Supply’ is nine out of ten times unaware that they themselves are even supply to begin (or end with).
I grew up with no mother no father I was a gang banger, I ran the streets and I sold drugs I had a kid at 16. It was when I had my first kid that I had to grow up now I own a business, I own my own house, and I have my three vehicles and a hell of a nest egg set aside. What's crazy is I didn't get my house until after my narcissist left and thanks to a settlement I was able to buy a house
Are you saying that after narc is out of our lives , abundance follows us ? Thank you.
My heart goes out to the new supply. We stay in the fantasy bond because we live on a false hope that they will change. I can't convince the new supply because they are enamored by the bombing...so I must remove myself and let the natural order run its course. Its mind blowing how I am made "the crazy one"....as I watch the true crazies, like a movie screen in front of me.
New supply will defend them
It's only a matter of time until he comes sniffing back around and starts hoovering. Be glad he's out of your life. I have a son with one and he discarded BOTH of us. Told me to leave him alone, I was dead to him. 6 months later he's hoovering, telling me he misses our child, blah blah blah. They never go away.
@@BluMustangNY Same here. The narc husband's discard was so brutal and cruel. Told me and every one that he had stopped loving me for a while and that he finds me repulsive. 2 years post discard, he is hoovering like crazy, pretending to love and miss me. Yuck. He can pretend all he wants with the new supply, his family and friends but I know exactly what he is.
I SO RELATE. Thank you for sharing that .
The "new supply" will defend them until all the love bombing gifts becomes junk mail!! And then they will see that they are not any better off then all the others the Narc has destroyed...... But I'm sure by then the Narc will have found a whole new target for supply. Just be glad it's not you smh
You cannot change those vampires, you have to give them the SILENT TREATMENT! If you were born with the silent trait, you are a winner!
The narcissist self-destructs on their own. No need for you to waste your energy on them.
The worst destruction one can cause to oneself is by selling ones soul to the devil!!
Everything you said in this video is 100%. I divorced a narc of 8 years. THEE instant I left the courtroom I changed BOTH of my numbers. Changed my job location, I even moved! I bumped into him at the gas station and he asked me for my new address and sex..I said what about ur new woman?? He said dont worry about that!!! I walked away laughing...they never change........
It's like in the movie The Color Purple when Selie told Shug, He beat me cause I ain't you, these are horrible people.
Oh damn. You're right. Just like this.
Ouch! I felt that.
11 years with a narcissist. Went no contact 2 years ago, he just married his new supply this week. I'm finally FREE! She knows what she's getting into, so....good luck to them both.
Blessings
Jewel Mathewson,You deserve better
Are they still together?
The narc I have been dealing with has lasted 12 years now. It is finally coming to an end and it took one moment. As all narcs do, this narc kept failing the agreement we had not to bring the new supply to our home and start drama, and my signing the lease was contingent on that. Since the narc failed twice in our agreement , this time I had the idea to make the narc swear to God, to keep the promise and agreement ,and signed a 6 months lease.( narc claims to be highly spiritual and even councils people for a living.) Barely 2 weeks later to no surprise , narc broke the agreement. When I confronted it , it went into complete narcissistic rage . It took me involving the most high, to finally get rid of the bewitchment and remove the veil from my eyes and have gone completely grey rock until I discard this devil completely. Never ever trust a narc and never ever give them a second chance. No sympathy for the devil. Hario thank you for sharing this journey with us and I am convinced this is your calling BROTHER.. CHEERS to all the Empath family who is fighting these demons. stay strong God has got you. Reach out to our divine Father daily. PEACE1
Its amazing that I realized that his fraud actually put me in the winner's zone. Never look a gift horse in the mouth! He thought and he tried it but the last laugh is life!
He was laughing in court thinking he was hurting me now who's laughing his new supply got a 3rd party and is an undercover s*x worker (narcissist) he found out in court lost business/money/home and have to pay 3 child support plus alimony and have a new baby with another s*x worker and moved in with her and possibly will be homeless soon...
I got the "Thinking of you" and "Happy Thanksgiving" hoover text last Wednesday night. I have had her blocked on my phone and Facebook since May, but apparently the block only lasted for 90 days and you have to re block them again. Anyway, I ignored the text as though she was still blocked! Normally I would answer a text from an ex and wish her the same. In this case her being a full blown narcissist...I had to ignore! Four and a half years with this person who broke up with me over and over again over nothing and retrieved me back so many times I had to cut her off completely! The narcs feel like they own you and discard you and retrieve you back whenever they please. In the meantime they find new supply like she has, but still want to keep you fresh on the shelf for later.
DO NOT GIVE THE NARC ANY KIND OF FUEL......BLOCK and IGNORE!!!!
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This what happened that dry deceiving text about having blessed holiday love you hell no you not fooling me.
He hated discard him not thinking about him you right had hard life to my mom liked me less than siblings to I’m strongest smartest one .
She is narc now see why she did me like that trying make weak dependent crippled God healed me then here comes narc years later
Same here about the Thanksgiving hoover...but the blocks with Tmobile that you do via the company last as long as you enter them on the site or over the phone (by calling customer service). I have had my child's sperm donor blocked since 2012. You can block up to 10 numbers on each cell phone. The hoover that I received was from a narc I broke up with in 2015. He is married now. Smh. I never blocked him via Tmobile. That's how he got through.
@@KellieAlston how you make sure that narc won't contact me again have tmobile
Same situation
I did this, it really worked. She just left me, as soon she saw me strong she hoovered me in just to kill me off, I felt sick, cut her off completely.. Now she's struggling and people see through her. Cut them off!
I am noticing these videos many months later… but happy I did. It’s made me realize that I am not alone is how deep she cut me.
Never again will I trust another person enough to invest that much of myself in someone.
In a way, I FEEL, that you are still letting the narcissist win. It's not about trusting again. It about not misplacing trust. Me, myself, I'm ready to love again--no holds barred. This time not ignoring red flags and reciprocity. We have to be equally matched in the give and take department. But I deserve love. I deserve someone that I can trust, someone who can be trusted. I refuse to allow him to cheat me out it. You deserve it too! But what sane person will give their all, while you protect yourself at every turn? Seems like a recipe for disaster, miserableness, and being alone.
Oh he will never be allowed back and they can keep sleeping around lol. I am looking for someone who is into the arts who can match my backbone and intellect.
He brought in triangulation against me with the new supply. I kicked him to the curb, told him to walk away from me & never contact me again. That was 2.5 weeks ago. Good luck to both of them.
Bro, I heard that let’s be friends, let’s take it slow, let’s get to know each other better. I have heard it all. I have dealt with a betrayal. I have dealt with my ex gaslighting me, after I confronted her about her giving me chlamydia. I have experienced it all. All I can tell you all is, don’t ignore the signs. Go with what your heart is saying. If your heart is aching, run like hell, and never look back.
For those 22 years i carried that marriage all those years and just up and discarded me.it really made me hate living .
I feel you, I went through that for 29 yrs. afraid to be in a relationship now
Me too. Then I came out of it. My ex wife will never share the same oxygen from the same place ever again.
Me too. Together for 25 years since we were 14 yrs old. He left me for his best friends wife. Her & I were friends back in high school. I was crying on her shoulder thinking he was having an affair and it was her the entire time. She whispered lies & hate in his ear and he was lovebombing her in front of my eyes.
@@pisces_chick2511 I am so sorry that happened to you. That is so unfair.
@@cliftonryder4618 thank you.Clifton. It's been so hard dealing with all the hurt & emotions. I'm scared to death to date, have no desire to. I feel like I'm broken and won't ever find real love.
This is deep, and hilarious at the same time. I've been through all of this, and I'm healing everyday. Trust me, when you start laughing out loud listening to this brotha, you are on your way!!!!
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Totally 💯
Im going to be going through a divorce and need to be prepared.
Please check out Rebecca Zung videos she’s good she’s a attorney 👍
Same with me..married to him for 40yrs. Finally going to leave
Finally divorced the narc last week!! Go no contact and if you can please get a lawyer. If they have anything to say they can tell your lawyer. Be strong and try not to talk to his family and friends because they keep tabs on you and may tell you what the narcissist is doing.
Don't worry we are praying for you everyone here cares about you! 🙏
Hugs and kisses from above 🙏
It's crazy how one person can alter your entire life #NarcFREELiving 😎
I'm forever grateful to TMH for providing a way of escape. 🙌🙏🙌 HalleluYah 🙏
You can't turn them around. It's impossible.
Thank you. I needed to hear this today. Every time I let him get near me I have to go through all of the pain again. The mindgames are endless, cold and cruel. They don't come around because they love us. They co.e around to give us a heaping helping of pain so they can walk away feeling like the winner. They truly are monsters.
I discarded 10 weeks ago. I won.. I have no desire to communicate with the person. I am not open to the craziness. I would rather be me and not be manipulated. This person has no significance in my life. I know who the new and old supply.are. Empowered now. No contact no matter what.... I am a different person now. No more toxic people. You are great. I learned now from videos. They will not turn into good people. They have to manipulate the new supply.
This is very comforting, because I notice they added there ex back on FB since I blocked them, they always claimed they made the relationship so turbulent, and they could never be with them again.
Same here & now they are back together
Deep inside , I know that he will realize that his “ gold bird “ flyed away . Never more he will find a woman with values like me .
He will suffer so bad when he find out that all the woman’s are just sucking his money and betrayaling him . They will not wait for him with love taking care of him , the house and the kids .
Eagles fly with eagles .
Bitch hang out with bitches . Period .
Amazing video ! On the point !
Exactly! 👏🏻
CHECK MATE
The one I married never had 2 nickels to rub together he had all gutter supply who goes around sleeping with anything
@@1010QUEEN7 They loose gold , we earned freedom! We have cure, they don’t . Be happy to be free from the devil in desguise . God is good all the time 🙏
I’m 6 days no contact. Day 2 the new supply sent me a DM. Day 3 the new supply left a comment on a 2 year old public post that I had; I didn’t respond to either attempt at reaching me. Yesterday, the narc reached out to my sister via text asking if I was ok and that he really loves me....lies. Here’s to healing!!
My ex narc just got engaged Thanksgiving. The next day while with her ; he calls to say I love you. I am sorry. The new supply heard him talking to me . She got mad. This fool / ex. Of mine keeps calling. He is Crazy! I am doing Better without him. We have been broken up for a year. We were together 11 years. He cheated on me with the new supply. He will not Break my Spirit and Moving on. Yes ; Hario he is destroyed. Destroyed because I am A Great. Woman!
I love how strong you are about this. It’s helping me tremendously. I have to listen to your vids every day for strength.♥️👍
Me too
Me too ❤
I won I won back my own respect my own self . If you not happy the still don’t expect gratitude . Wake up and smell the coffee . Let go and walk thru the door of deserved respect so you can see how much love and value you can give yourself instead of crying for a lost because is not a lost for me. I found. Not lost ! Love yourself. Do you , be you. You are not a competición. I know I am worth i deserve love and not hurt !
Howdy❣️
The Narcissist is on,y happy when you cry.
Cry in front of him. Make his day.
Teresa Boze,You look gorgeous 🌷,Hope you are not with a narcissist!
My best video on this topic, i had to subscribe , you know what you talking about, thanks for helping us heal and come to realisation.
I cut the monster off
For real I'm still here by the grace of GOD.im never going back to that toxic mess
I decided to say my last words to that Sexual Narcissist! It’s been a cruel year. “ To you I’m a game, To me it’s feelings. And any feelings I had for you, are GONE!” SILENT. NO CONTACT. I feel goooooood.
This is dead on. I forwarded all calls to voicemail. This fool had the audacity to say “you left me when I needed you the most” 🙄 take your problems to the next victim!!!
I got discarded this 🌅 morning I'm so blessed I was tired sad weary 😩 stressed now I'm so free 🆓 feeling better than ever like a weight lifted off my shoulders he was jealous of my looks jobs ND personality confidence Lord I'm blessed I'm done ✅ grey rock no contact 🔥♀️♎🎉🥳🎯
Wow wow wow!! Again Wow! Yes that is exactly what they do. You can tell if they're struggling with trying to land a new victim. Coming home frustrated, pushing buttons to get a reaction, trying to get in your bed. Their phone more busy, head shaking, eyes rolling. Just being used as a dumping ground, so they can get back out there and smile and be so nice to the new ones. Now that he's moved out, she is his only dump station, the new supply probably really misses us 😂
Yep the ex narc is hoovering me already after only 5 months
She’s texting me while he’s probably sleeping beside her ( he was me )
He thinks he’s won the lottery, ....she’s gorgeous
I thought I’d won the lottery but what I got was a on way ticket to hell .
No loyalty or honour whatsoever
Thank You Brother! I'm healing just fine! 50 yrs old and I finally run into something not someone bc that's giving them to much credit that tried her best to crush everything about me. Now if you knew me; you wouldn't believe not one of the lies that was told. I gave her every dam thing I possibly could and still got my good old heart snapped like a twig! They are evil people who needs help on a bad way! I don't sympathize with them on no level bc they are who they are at the end of day! I pray these kinds of videos reach the unknowing! Oh but fuck the new supply; laugh now go crazy later
Yessir tried to destroy me and my character... it was crazy... the loneliest I have ever been in my life was with her... never wanted to spend time with me... or anything
That's okay you still won you're the one that got away!
The only thing lonelier than not being w the narc? Is being WITH the narc!!!!!!! They don’t have no x 4 a real relationship. It’s all about them and their 20 supplies. Cheers to no longer worrying where ur narc is at or up to. Cheers on ur new life!
Same here man i feel you
@@louc3135 🎯
BAD KARMA WILL FIND THEM, FOR ALL THE underhanded shit they do to Good people!
His 65 and I'm 70.we been together for 20 years.im still healing with the manipulate etc.
Good morning And happy Sunday everyone.
You explained everything about them better than any psychologists. Narcissist all around the world act exactly the same, because they are deeply mentally ill. Thank you
You truly spoke the truth. I was married to a narcissist until Yah opened my eyes and showed me that I should stop following my husband. He has done everything possible to break me down, but Yah says not so. Yah told me “He is my vendicator, he shall repay”. This helped me to let go and let Yah. We have to listen to Yah. He will lead and guide you from that narcistic demon that’s trying to destroy you. People know, if you have been targeted by a narcissist you have a higher calling. Head that calling and get away. They are not worth it.
The interesting thing is they LOVE doing the supply over when they don't even know it. Look for the smirk!
I was close to accepting a phone call from this crazy individual. Your video found me at the right time after all when the student is ready the teacher will appear. I’m able to fix me!
Good for you. Much love 🙏💚✌️
Amen
Yep!
The last time we texted he told me he was already sleeping w other ppl. I blocked his number. And it will be one month no contact 😢… while I here so so depressed pls GOD heal me. He was a predator too, he SA me while I was passed out drunk and recorded himself touching me, and for some sick reason I still love him. I feel so messed up in the head 😢 I obviously don’t want a man like that but he tricked me into loving him, no he is happy sleeping around. I will never contact him, I’ve kept his number blocked 😢😢😢 I thankfully have 0 social media, so he will never get the pleasure of seeing me sad or my life.