A Sanskaari Girl - Vanika Sangtani | Hindi Storytelling | Tape A Tale

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • 'Sanskaar' is a word we hear way too often growing up. Its used a tool to measure our character, personality, and even life partner. But what are these values? kya hota hai sanskaar? who picks them for us? who decides what's right and what's wrong?
    And what happens when a 'Sanskari girl' from Jaipur aka Vanika goes to a college in Bombay where everything contradicts her values? Will she fit in? Will anyone accept her?
    Listen to this story and find out what happens.
    Shot at August house cafe, Jaipur

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  • @TapeATale
    @TapeATale  3 роки тому +691

    Come watch Vanika perform live in DELHI:
    @t

  • @nou9162
    @nou9162 3 роки тому +2962

    fun fact: she didn't mean being sanskari is bad, it's good, but judging others just by their outline is bad.

    • @NehaSharma-sk6dz
      @NehaSharma-sk6dz 3 роки тому +11

      heyo! what's so funny in that?? I didn't get your point, what you tried to explain mentioning fun fact!!!

    • @nou9162
      @nou9162 3 роки тому +20

      @@NehaSharma-sk6dz I said fun fact, not funny fact.

    • @SomeOne_1409
      @SomeOne_1409 3 роки тому +3

      Only she knows what she meant.

    • @nou9162
      @nou9162 3 роки тому +12

      @@SomeOne_1409 i guess you don't understand the language then? Lol

    • @SomeOne_1409
      @SomeOne_1409 3 роки тому +3

      @@nou9162 Oh wow you wrote Lol at the end, really funny.👌

  • @nishagandhi859
    @nishagandhi859 3 роки тому +1880

    " If we want acceptance from others, it's very important to give acceptance to others" This line is heart touching...❤️❤️

    • @shubhammishra1998
      @shubhammishra1998 3 роки тому +11

      Plzzz sir & mam mujhe v support kariye mai kud se gana gata hu so plzzz support kariye mere gane suniye or like comments subscribe or share jrur kariye plzzz sir & mam 🤲🤲

    • @nishagandhi859
      @nishagandhi859 3 роки тому +1

      @saurabh singh Yes ...😊

    • @bhawanasalgotra6016
      @bhawanasalgotra6016 3 роки тому

      @@shubhammishra1998 😂😂

    • @bhawanasalgotra6016
      @bhawanasalgotra6016 3 роки тому

      @@shubhammishra1998 sure😂

    • @manavkumar1667
      @manavkumar1667 3 роки тому +1

      🥰🥰

  • @PriyuAbhi
    @PriyuAbhi 3 роки тому +485

    "Our Values are our own. They are our choices, they are not rules".
    HEART TOUCHING LINE❤️♥️

    • @shagunverma5974
      @shagunverma5974 3 роки тому +5

      Correct... I agree to u

    • @minisingh8557
      @minisingh8557 2 роки тому

      Correct ....I agree ✨😊
      Also liked very much these lines ! Outstanding !

    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому +2

      Sanskari hona gunah hain kya 🤣🤣🤣 apne Se Jada apne maa baap Se pyar Karna gunah hain kya 🤔🤔🤔apne culture proud Karna gunah hain kya 🤔🤔🤔

    • @Sassy004
      @Sassy004 Рік тому +2

      ​@@noconversionpage8466Inme se kuch bhi karna gunah nahi hai but apne thoughts or apni values dusro pe thopna gunah hai...if your thoughts are different from your parents, still they have no rights to force their beliefs and thoughts on you, parents samjha sakte hai but har thought kisi pe thopna is ridiculous...everyone have different life, personality, beliefs, values and thoughts...jab hath ki 5 ungliya barabar nhi ho sakti toh log kyu expect karte hai ki ekdum hamare jese socho or karo...it's extremely disturbing !!

  • @vanikasangtani1796
    @vanikasangtani1796 3 роки тому +5643

    Hello everyone! I hope you like this story! Do let me know what’s your takeaway from this one! Loads of love! ♥️♥️

    • @bhavyaamar9928
      @bhavyaamar9928 3 роки тому +33

      I really liked this one❤

    • @triptaarora4244
      @triptaarora4244 3 роки тому +28

      Vanika mam love you alot thanku for beautiful story please give a reply it's my dream to get reply from u 😘😘😘😘😘

    • @purnimashah5100
      @purnimashah5100 3 роки тому +13

      I like your every video ❤️🤩😍

    • @sanjolisingh6323
      @sanjolisingh6323 3 роки тому +18

      U r amazing.....u always come with a topic which actually relates to our real lives.....Nd U explain it with great approach.....I really appreciate u😊

    • @sujanpoudel9643
      @sujanpoudel9643 3 роки тому +14

      Dekh bura maat maan na tu kind hai caring hai par tujhse na saab ko negative vibes aati hai.

  • @anonymouspoetess5272
    @anonymouspoetess5272 3 роки тому +3496

    It is story of almost every middle class girls.. Feelings like my own story 😂😂

    • @PoonamGupta-jw8po
      @PoonamGupta-jw8po 3 роки тому +13

      Very trueee😂😅

    • @manishagurjar2081
      @manishagurjar2081 3 роки тому +10

      Same 😂

    • @deekshaminhas9994
      @deekshaminhas9994 3 роки тому +4

      Same 😇

    • @anonymouspoetess5272
      @anonymouspoetess5272 3 роки тому +25

      @@ay1377 bro u did not get what I wanted to say..It was not about financial status but about the mentality toword their daughters.
      .

    • @Miss_urvashii
      @Miss_urvashii 3 роки тому +14

      @@ay1377 life ke har moment ko enjoy karo ..q ki ye life hai jo kabhi ni aati ..bas chalti jati hai ..or hasna rona to laga rahta hai life me ...🤔 but maja to tab hai jab sad ho kar bhi face per smile rahe ..q. Ki sabse acha moment vahi hota hai jis moment ko aapne has kar jiya ho.. Or kisi ke bare me kya sochna ki vo kya hai rich hai ya poor hai ..q ki vo bhi insan hai or hm bhi insan hai usko bhi vahi mila hai jo hm sabko mila hai vahi day ,night ,time and everything ...so don't judge anyone ..and always keep smiling ....quantity matter ni karti quality matter karti hai ...🙂🙂

  • @jiamittal3220
    @jiamittal3220 3 роки тому +1770

    The content is relatable almost for every girl.

    • @sankudas7380
      @sankudas7380 3 роки тому +2

      Yess siso

    • @s-tube8376
      @s-tube8376 3 роки тому +13

      🖐️🖐️Freedom का मतलब आजकलके बच्चे पतानही क्या समझते है । नङ्गा होना , दारु पिना , etc etc यह freedom नहि है ।
      freedom का मतलब तो यह है कि दुसरे लोग तुम्हे जो भि कहे , judge करे या ना करे यिससे तुम्हे कोहि फरक नापडे यिसिको freedom कहागया है । अगर दुसरे लोग तुम्हे judge करे , अप्ने साथ सामिल ना करे और तुम रोने लगजाओ तो तुम कैसे free हो ? तुम तो उनके गुलाम होगय ना ? उनकी बजह से , उनकी judge करनेकी कारण से तुमको तक्लिब होति है यिसका मतलब तुम्हे खुस या दुखि करनेकि शक्ति तो उनके पास हुवा ना? तो तुम कैसे free हो सक्ते हो ? तुम तो उनके गुलाम होगय । तुम्हे रुलाना है या दुखी करना है या हसाना है यिसका control तो उनके हातमे होगया ना? तो तुम किस freedom कि बात कररही हो?
      याद रखो दारु पिना , अप्नि शरिरका अङ्ग प्रदर्शन करके दुनियाके सामने अच्छी महशुस करना अप्ने आपको object स्विकार करने जैसा है तुम दुसरोके गुलाम बनगय हो free नहि हो ।
      अगर दुसरे लोग तुम्हे जो भि कहे तुम्हे रत्तिभर भि फरक नहि पड्ता तो अब तुम अप्ने आपके मालिक हो अब तुम free हो यिसिको freedom कहागया है । अब तुम खुद निर्णय करपाओगी कि क्या करना मेरे लिय और दुसरोके हितके लिय भि सहि है और क्या करना गलत है । धन्यबाद ।🙏

    • @saritachettri1882
      @saritachettri1882 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah🥺

    • @Mksona555
      @Mksona555 3 роки тому

      HEY !!
      I JUST STARTED A FRANCHISED BASED BUSINESS AND IN MY AREA I EXPANDED IT FULLY BUT NOW IAM PLANNING TO EXPAND MY BUSINESS IN DIFFERENT-DI FFERENT AREA'S
      AND IAM SEARCHING FOR SOME BUSINESS PARTNERS .
      BCZ IAM PLANNING TO MAKE YOUTH SELF INDEPENDENT BY SMALL AGE✨😇

    • @Mksona555
      @Mksona555 3 роки тому

      @@sankudas7380 HEY !!
      I JUST STARTED A FRANCHISED BASED BUSINESS AND IN MY AREA I EXPANDED IT FULLY BUT NOW IAM PLANNING TO EXPAND MY BUSINESS IN DIFFERENT-DI FFERENT AREA'S
      AND IAM SEARCHING FOR SOME BUSINESS PARTNERS .
      BCZ IAM PLANNING TO MAKE YOUTH SELF INDEPENDENT BY SMALL AGE✨😇

  • @Basavaraja_NT
    @Basavaraja_NT 3 роки тому +1217

    ****Yes. She has faced the same issues like me***
    *Respect own personality*

  • @garimamangla6871
    @garimamangla6871 3 роки тому +484

    "choices are meant to be respected." I love this line.

    • @maharshi2491
      @maharshi2491 3 роки тому +12

      Accepted nahi ,
      Choices are meant to be respected .
      7:19

    • @marvamemon5187
      @marvamemon5187 3 роки тому +7

      @@maharshi2491 They Should Be Accepted And Respected Both Tho💯

    • @aartimaheshwari2013
      @aartimaheshwari2013 3 роки тому +2

      @@marvamemon5187 so true..

    • @AvantikaTales
      @AvantikaTales 3 роки тому +1

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    • @garimamangla6871
      @garimamangla6871 3 роки тому

      @@marvamemon5187 sorry, I corrected it. though, I thought the same.

  • @user-ws9ij7nq8t
    @user-ws9ij7nq8t 7 місяців тому +53

    Anyone in 2024 ??...❤

  • @monikabisht6549
    @monikabisht6549 3 роки тому +376

    Well said- "Choices are meant to be respected. Hamari ho yea kisi or ki"

    • @RajSingh21
      @RajSingh21 3 роки тому +2

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      Ap se request hay

    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому +1

      Whether it is wrong but it should be respected 😂😂🤣🤣 now people are demanding acception for everything 😂😂

    • @GirishKumar-ns8wl
      @GirishKumar-ns8wl Рік тому +1

      ​@no conversion page choice and marzi insaan sirf apne pe hi dal sakta hai and agar kohi apne liye kuch bhi decision lera hai that his/her choice so hmm

  • @ishika5550
    @ishika5550 3 роки тому +113

    "Our Values are our own. They are our choices, they are not rules". HEART TOUCHING LINE❤️♥️
    This problem faced by almost all the girls 💖

    • @Increasing90
      @Increasing90 3 роки тому

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    • @dilkebol
      @dilkebol Рік тому

      Very well expressed the difference of environments.

  • @nehanikunj3165
    @nehanikunj3165 3 роки тому +403

    It is story of almost middle class girls . I feel it 😔

    • @BeInGaGiRliSnOtThAtEaSyLifeofa
      @BeInGaGiRliSnOtThAtEaSyLifeofa 3 роки тому +3

      Yes
      But ladki middle class se ho ya phir nhi ho
      Hmari b apni kuch feelings hoti h aur hmesa hm hi q dusre k according khud ko change kre. .

    • @syedabdullah9980
      @syedabdullah9980 3 роки тому +2

      Hmm🙂,,
      Koyi bhi ladki buri nahi Hoti buri hoti hai unki baate aur kaam ♥️

    • @lolnotme2797
      @lolnotme2797 3 роки тому

      Yep 😞

    • @depth6566
      @depth6566 3 роки тому

      uh then you won't face it, if you are surrounded my middle class people. it's not middle class families that impose particular beliefs or maybe somehow succeeds into making you believe in a particular way.
      it sometimes does not happen with most of us. but this character problem is common. either ways maybe you're talking about how acceptance is not common in middle class girls

    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому

      Sanskari hona gunah hain kya 🤔🤔apne Se Jada apne maa baap Se pyar Karna gunah hain kya 🤔🤔apne culture proud Karna gunah hain kya 🤔🤔

  • @akankshaambasta9016
    @akankshaambasta9016 3 роки тому +699

    I'm belong to conservative family 🤚 raise up if u too
    Ur video is too osmmm

  • @smile.8577
    @smile.8577 3 роки тому +118

    Now I understand why I'm alone..😔😔

    • @pihusrivastava5319
      @pihusrivastava5319 3 роки тому

      ...ua-cam.com/users/shortsyVPXQZb-vrI?feature=share

    • @nadimnisharulislam203
      @nadimnisharulislam203 3 роки тому

      Lol

    • @minecraftop8078
      @minecraftop8078 3 роки тому

      So u too judged people for their looks and doesn't accept them... 🤔

    • @smile.8577
      @smile.8577 3 роки тому

      @@minecraftop8078 I don't mean it

    • @smile.8577
      @smile.8577 3 роки тому

      @@minecraftop8078 i don't think looks of a person matters at all ....

  • @Anamika8
    @Anamika8 3 роки тому +29

    I was also sidelined by my group and realizing the same that my values are my own, I am myself now a musician... Along with my job. No friends group, no drama. Life is ok with few friends, family and music.

  • @arushisharma9397
    @arushisharma9397 3 роки тому +285

    Oh mine! This girl!!! I feel like she always narrates my stories in her own way... They're so touching and relatable🥺❤

    • @RebelBk1
      @RebelBk1 3 роки тому +3

      hmm.

    • @penguin9437
      @penguin9437 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/rsMZVaDyzfs/v-deo.html❤️❤️

    • @arushisharma9397
      @arushisharma9397 3 роки тому +2

      @Himanshu Kumar
      Actually no. I feel sometimes being from a conservative family shuts down opportunities like following your own dreams. My family members too impose their wishes on me and their expectations are too high regardless of what I want to do in my life. She's not talking about westernization she's talking about mindset that people have. And that choices are meant to be respected.

    • @arushisharma9397
      @arushisharma9397 3 роки тому +4

      @Himanshu Kumar
      Exactly... So that is your choice na not to accept love from someone even if it was genuine. But different people have different choices. Many people need emotional care genuinely from people because their families is too reluctant to blend with their feelings and choices.

    • @arushisharma9397
      @arushisharma9397 3 роки тому

      @Himanshu Kumar yeah true

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    @TapeATale  3 роки тому +255

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    • @crashagearmy465
      @crashagearmy465 3 роки тому +2

      Hii Good evening I am interested in sharing my story with you

    • @sumanyadav-fm8gq
      @sumanyadav-fm8gq 3 роки тому +1

      Q

    • @sassygirl9862
      @sassygirl9862 3 роки тому +2

      Hi I want share my story

    • @s-tube8376
      @s-tube8376 3 роки тому +3

      🖐️🖐️Freedom का मतलब आजकलके बच्चे पतानही क्या समझते है । नङ्गा होना , दारु पिना , etc etc यह dreedom नहि है ।
      freedom का मतलब तो यह है कि दुसरे लोग तुम्हे जो भि कहे , judge करे या ना करे यिससे तुम्हे कोहि फरक नापडे यिसिको freedom कहागया है । अगर दुसरे लोग तुम्हे judge करे , अप्ने साथ सामिल ना करे और तुम रोने लगजाओ तो तुम कैसे free हो ? तुम तो उनके गुलाम होगय ना ? उनकी बजह से , उनकी judge करनेकी कारण से तुमको तक्लिब होति है यिसका मतलब तुम्हे खुस या दुखि करनेकि शक्ति तो उनके पास हुवा ना? तो तुम कैसे free हो सक्ते हो ? तुम तो उनके गुलाम होगय । तुम्हे रुलाना है या दुखी करना है या हसाना है यिसका control तो उनके हातमे होगया ना? तो तुम किस freedom कि बात कररही हो?
      याद रखो दारु पिना , अप्नि शरिरका अङ्ग प्रदर्शन करके दुनियाके सामने अच्छी महशुस करना अप्ने आपको object स्विकार करने जैसा है तुम दुसरोके गुलाम बनगय हो free नहि हो ।
      अगर दुसरे लोग तुम्हे जो भि कहे तुम्हे रत्तिभर भि फरक नहि पड्ता तो अब तुम अप्ने आपके मालिक हो अब तुम free हो यिसिको freedom कहागया है । अब तुम खुद निर्णय करपाओगी कि क्या करना मेरे लिय और दुसरोके हितके लिय भि सहि है और क्या करना गलत है । धन्यबाद ।🙏

    • @kshatriya_Dev
      @kshatriya_Dev 3 роки тому +1

      @@sassygirl9862 hello

  • @himanshigupta1901
    @himanshigupta1901 3 роки тому +16

    It was a kind of mirror for me...now I came to know why I always feel alone even in a crowded class room...... in the day 1of my class everybody was so friendly with me ...but as the days passes I start feeling alone....I began to avoid my school as much as possible...but now after few months I wil be in college a new starting....thanx a lot. For making such a content....these are the eye opening content...... marvellous content..😍😍😍😍

  • @randomstranger2122
    @randomstranger2122 3 роки тому +501

    I think every parent should watch this

  • @soumyamaity_2.0
    @soumyamaity_2.0 3 роки тому +135

    I think we should change our mind, it can change our everything......

  • @shashi6765
    @shashi6765 3 роки тому +93

    Finally there is someone who put it in words.... Lovely❤️

  • @samyakjain2193
    @samyakjain2193 3 роки тому +120

    She is just Different.!
    So nicely she crafts every single piece of memory, experience into a normal conversation.

    • @sR_k_
      @sR_k_ 3 роки тому +1

      Likhna psnd hai, likhte bhi hain mgr Jyade logo tk apni videos apne thoughts phicha nhi pate. onesided love story pe kuch likha hai
      Link pe click krke jrur dekhe 👇
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    • @AvantikaTales
      @AvantikaTales 3 роки тому

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  • @ps-pratimasharma5784
    @ps-pratimasharma5784 3 роки тому +670

    Parents should watch this
    We have wings to fly but
    The problem is feel like in jail🥺

    • @saloniupadhyay607
      @saloniupadhyay607 3 роки тому +10

      True yrr

    • @st-zk3mn
      @st-zk3mn 3 роки тому +5

      Exactly

    • @st-zk3mn
      @st-zk3mn 3 роки тому +28

      Burden of values, sanskar
      Feels like
      This bounded me tightly

    • @tradetalk650
      @tradetalk650 3 роки тому +19

      Woo to thik hai lekin ye samaj me kuchh darinde baithe hai jinke wajah se khud hi bachaw Krna hoga kuki we to kamine hai

    • @shreyamishra5981
      @shreyamishra5981 3 роки тому +34

      It's true yaar
      Even it is more for girls, we can't do the things which we want
      We can't go to parties, can't wear the dresses as we like
      And all this happen due to our SO CALLED SAMAJ KYA KAHEGA

  • @anusha3033
    @anusha3033 3 роки тому +73

    I am about to leave my country for higher studies and this sounds so much like my future😂

    • @rayuwu5152
      @rayuwu5152 2 роки тому +2

      bro you're so lucky

    • @basundhara7396
      @basundhara7396 2 роки тому +2

      Good luck..

    • @nandinisaxena1962
      @nandinisaxena1962 2 роки тому +1

      Hope you're doing well there:)

    • @anusha3033
      @anusha3033 2 роки тому +1

      @@nandinisaxena1962 honestly, not doing great, but the end result will be worth all the troubles i'm sure

  • @ritusah8572
    @ritusah8572 3 роки тому +322

    This felt so relatable. Here I get it, acceptance is the key!

    • @AawaraWriter
      @AawaraWriter 3 роки тому +1

      Please Support Me Sister
      कृपया सबस्क्राइब करके घंटी बजा दे ताकि आपका आशीर्वाद मुझ तक पहुचे
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      Please Support Me Sister

    • @routeofwander903
      @routeofwander903 3 роки тому +3

      Same here, i felt so relatable, i felt like she is telling my own story. She taught me a lot. ❤️

    • @neerajyarin
      @neerajyarin 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/QTX3fQKJrTo/v-deo.html

    • @kabitayanstory-telling4639
      @kabitayanstory-telling4639 3 роки тому

      Kya bat

    • @shubhammishra1998
      @shubhammishra1998 3 роки тому

      Plzzz sir & mam mujhe v support kariye mai kud se gana gata hu so plzzz support kariye mere gane suniye or like comments subscribe or share jrur kariye plzzz sir & mam 🤲🤲

  • @anshikasingh5015
    @anshikasingh5015 3 роки тому +54

    It takes a lot of guts to come up and recite the negative part of our life in front of so many people.. Hats off

  • @kalyanipawar6547
    @kalyanipawar6547 3 роки тому +73

    Today my mum sent me this video. And that was so surprising to me. I can't express how happy and proud I am of my mum. Thankyou so much for making this video and sharing your story ❤

  • @vyankateshsahu1567
    @vyankateshsahu1567 3 роки тому +86

    College culture is far different from school culture. It really make you to learn about your life. You not only to survive but also make yourself just to handle your life .If you are versatile then you can change but for those who actually knows values are our base of life it is very hard to change themselves.

  • @zalakchotai482
    @zalakchotai482 3 роки тому +175

    Yess girl.. Choices are meant to be respected, be they ours or someone else's

    • @AawaraWriter
      @AawaraWriter 3 роки тому

      Please Support Me Sister
      कृपया सबस्क्राइब करके घंटी बजा दे ताकि आपका आशीर्वाद मुझ तक पहुचे
      ua-cam.com/video/nKh_2f_5wXo/v-deo.html
      Please Support Me Sister

    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому

      Whether it is wrong but it should be respected 😂😂😂

  • @anushkaverma7558
    @anushkaverma7558 3 роки тому +37

    Just feel like someone telling my story . i always think why i have no friends .
    I have my family values but i should not judge other to fit in my criteria

  • @babakiradha3416
    @babakiradha3416 3 роки тому +103

    “We judge others by their actions, and ourselves by our instincts”.
    (Copied)

    • @wildlifephotography9177
      @wildlifephotography9177 3 роки тому

      Dost me b bahut achha poetry video banata hun plzz mujhe b support Karo & Press the bell I con🔔click Karo blue line pe➡#RANJITMEHER 💘

  • @kalpana706
    @kalpana706 3 роки тому +87

    On Point! This is called Growth! As long as we respect our choices and not judge others,we are good!

    • @Increasing90
      @Increasing90 3 роки тому

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    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому

      Whether it's wrong but it should be respected 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Gurnoor_550
    @Gurnoor_550 3 роки тому +13

    “They are our choices, not rules “ everyone should knot up this line

  • @aishwaryaseshan8923
    @aishwaryaseshan8923 3 роки тому +96

    Wow wow wow! Kudos to you! You have actually said true words at such a young age! Beautiful✨😍 I'm in awe truly! And actually it's not just about a sanskaari girl... It's about any sanskaari being! Wonderful✨😍

    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому

      Sanskari hona gunah hain kya 🤔🤔apne Se Jada apne maa baap Se pyar Karna gunah hain kya 🤔🤔apne culture proud Karna gunah hain kya 🤔🤔

    • @aishwaryaseshan8923
      @aishwaryaseshan8923 2 роки тому

      @@noconversionpage8466 bilkul nahi hai, kisne kaha gunah hai

    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому

      @@aishwaryaseshan8923 isse to yahi lagta hain hum to bohut bada gunah ker rahe fir 🤔🤔🤔

  • @theclichepoet778
    @theclichepoet778 3 роки тому +15

    Beautifully represented a very less talked about topic. I hope this story reaches every home in country so that we all can learn a great lesson from you. Good Job!

  • @nupur8751
    @nupur8751 3 роки тому +19

    This exactly happened with me. I was depressed at that time but know i feel good becoz Leaving alone is far better than surrounding ourself with negativity. We should always feel proud of ourself. At the end i was grateful becoz i was declared as topper of school.

  • @ravivishnoi1299
    @ravivishnoi1299 3 роки тому +63

    It was looking like that she is telling my story 😍
    Only one difference I accepted that and go ahead with that loneliness , didn't say anything 🥺

    • @sR_k_
      @sR_k_ 3 роки тому +1

      Likhna psnd hai, likhte bhi hain mgr videos pe bhut km views aate hain . onesided love story pe ku h likha hai
      Link pe click krke jrur dekhe 👇
      ua-cam.com/video/zzwGxFLpvaU/v-deo.html

    • @Swadheenta06
      @Swadheenta06 3 роки тому +1

      Be alone but don't be lonely. You are an accumulation of billions of neurons, the universe most creative being, having 86,400 seconds in a day. Do something magical with this. I understand it's easier said than done, but trust if you start adoring yourself, loving yourself madly, the your aura will overwhelm everyone around you. Be real you, filter k peeche wali duniya m kuch nhi rakha, apni worth samjho & do everything like a ritual.
      ☮️

  • @drishti4736
    @drishti4736 3 роки тому +11

    Lots of emotions together after watching this.. Just speechless..

  • @Ronin47700
    @Ronin47700 3 роки тому +258

    she is looking like a teenager

    • @koushalsoni443
      @koushalsoni443 3 роки тому +2

      Ghanta hacker 😂

    • @Ronin47700
      @Ronin47700 3 роки тому +5

      @@koushalsoni443 kyo kya hua 😂 mujhe phele yhi lga fir jab story age badhi fir pta chala ki ye collage student hai

    • @maryamjavaid8086
      @maryamjavaid8086 3 роки тому

      yes same

    • @SimranKaur-ds9gi
      @SimranKaur-ds9gi 3 роки тому +2

      @@Ronin47700 kuch logo ka baby face hota hai , don't judge , this is what she said

    • @Ronin47700
      @Ronin47700 3 роки тому +1

      @@SimranKaur-ds9gi isme bhi tum log ladne aa jao compliment tha

  • @anha2854
    @anha2854 3 роки тому +43

    I feel like she talking about my life *a very sanskari ladhki*😂

    • @sushantsh6448
      @sushantsh6448 3 роки тому

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  • @rishikachoudhary3478
    @rishikachoudhary3478 3 роки тому +13

    Our values,beliefs and opinions are our own and not somebody's else....
    Most hearttouching life❤

  • @gopaljeesharma2406
    @gopaljeesharma2406 3 роки тому +8

    Those lines about which everyone have a need to think,
    "If we want acceptance from others, it's equally important to give same to others"
    "Choices are meant to be respected, be they ours or of someone Else's".

  • @premsingg2344
    @premsingg2344 3 роки тому +55

    Don't be too conservative.. Make friends, go for parties, but always make sure that instead of working for your dreams, you are not indulging yourself in activities, which are just shit... ❤❤✌

    • @spa2933
      @spa2933 3 роки тому

      Nice thinking dude you are going right way....

    • @Increasing90
      @Increasing90 3 роки тому

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  • @vieweronly9876
    @vieweronly9876 3 роки тому +63

    That vanika is still alive here , its very tough thing when you are perfect daughter for your family but for this world you are a close mind girl.

    • @niharikab9557
      @niharikab9557 3 роки тому

      What... please elaborate?

    • @vieweronly9876
      @vieweronly9876 3 роки тому

      @@niharikab9557 i'm 23 and My thoughts are very similer to my parents , i judge ppl of my age as my parents do. Even my sisters doesn't like it , but i'm still the same. Cause , parents are proud of me.

    • @niharikab9557
      @niharikab9557 3 роки тому

      @@vieweronly9876 same bro same.....even my siblings don't accept my judgemental nature. I js want to know the meaning of 'close mind girl' u used?

    • @vieweronly9876
      @vieweronly9876 3 роки тому

      @@niharikab9557 I use it as an apposite word of ''Open minded'' I said that i think like an elder person who has set her mind about everything , and not ready to accept the changes ,not ready to take risks .I like an easy route where no mistakes are allowed which saves me from the tough situations , i'm ready to left every joy of life to live an easy life so that no one can put fingers on me & thats how i can live a life without stress ..thats how my mind works

  • @yourwellwisher8179
    @yourwellwisher8179 3 роки тому +376

    Le Bijyus:Are you targeting jee or neet 2022

  • @ankitajoshi1379
    @ankitajoshi1379 3 роки тому +14

    Woww..so real and true.....we girls born to think like that only
    U girl changed my all thought and thinking thanks 🙏❤️

  • @rishikachoudhary3478
    @rishikachoudhary3478 3 роки тому +26

    This content is relatable to every girl😞

  • @NeelamSingh-nd3qh
    @NeelamSingh-nd3qh 3 роки тому +91

    I am perfect daughter and a girl who made her parents feel proud but from school to college I have no friends literally because they say I am negative and they all shown me outways

    • @somakumari1224
      @somakumari1224 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/abFfLZ1gG1k/v-deo.html

    • @hrishikeshg7738
      @hrishikeshg7738 3 роки тому +1

      same is happening with me... Now i regret binding myself within these things...

    • @everythinghere777
      @everythinghere777 3 роки тому +8

      Making parents feel proud is the biggest success in life.
      No need of anyone else who take us negatively...

  • @acharyaabhipsa1234
    @acharyaabhipsa1234 3 роки тому +15

    Wow! So relatable! Awesome sis...
    A girl of my age says this at the point when i am here obsessed abt right n wrong after coming out of a wrong sequence of events🤦‍♀️

  • @simrankeshri915
    @simrankeshri915 3 роки тому +15

    Same here. This happens with me also but i will never-mind this Because I am a strong Girl

  • @adityashrivastava1591
    @adityashrivastava1591 3 роки тому +156

    Now i really understand that people r nt wrong they r ryt in there own way and everytime i judge them according to my beliefs. Now i understand that my beliefs should be limited to myself only nt to others they have their own values n beliefs

  • @kanchanassudani
    @kanchanassudani 3 роки тому +24

    Even I was also in the same situation and that line impressed me "If you want acceptance from others then accept others" lovely
    story

    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому

      Whether it's wrong but it should be respected 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @swarnimasingh5907
    @swarnimasingh5907 2 роки тому +3

    Chahe ldka ho ya ldki hmee sbse respectly baat krni chahiye jb hum aisi soch rkhenge to buree to hum hi huye na🤞

  • @chinmayparadkar2836
    @chinmayparadkar2836 3 роки тому +28

    Very well articulated... What a confidence in her presentation... Kudos to the girl 👏👏👏

  • @saritadhakad4535
    @saritadhakad4535 3 роки тому +8

    Amazing story, it was quite relatable
    Conclusion - stop judging others on the basis of your values and morals.

    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому

      Everyone gets judge for their actions 😄😄it's not new and this criticism is need of society

  • @thetechclub986
    @thetechclub986 3 роки тому +84

    Her expressions are so funny 😂😂 i was looking towards her face and was laughing while watching her face , she is just amazing #expression_queen 😂😂

  • @almostlife8610
    @almostlife8610 3 роки тому +12

    Yeaah our values are our own
    They are our choices,they are not rules...these lines touches ❤️
    Like if u agree

  • @kaursehajpreet2120
    @kaursehajpreet2120 3 роки тому +17

    Vanika are the best...❤ really so meaningful nd it touched me..🌸🌸💕💕

  • @jyotisharma-09
    @jyotisharma-09 3 роки тому +10

    Her voice and way of speaking is just fabulous 👏

  • @DiyaWadhwanaYoutuber
    @DiyaWadhwanaYoutuber 3 роки тому +41

    Only one word to deacribe 'supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!!' ❤✌💕 Vanika ma'am

    • @sR_k_
      @sR_k_ 3 роки тому +1

      Mai bhi likhtA hu. mam jitni achi to nhi mgr ak bari link pe click krke video jrur dekhiyega . syd aapko achi lge👇
      ua-cam.com/video/zzwGxFLpvaU/v-deo.html

  • @multipurposegamer2.0
    @multipurposegamer2.0 3 роки тому +31

    Truth is expressed in the form of this tale💗✌️

    • @sR_k_
      @sR_k_ 3 роки тому

      Mai bhi likhtA hu. mam jitni achi to nhi mgr ak bari link pe click krke video jrur dekhiyega . syd aapko achi lge👇
      ua-cam.com/video/zzwGxFLpvaU/v-deo.html

  • @Introvert107
    @Introvert107 2 роки тому +2

    I have no words to say..
    I'm speechless that how easily she explain the life of countless girls and boys life when they have to start their journey on their own.. Just want to say.. Perfect.. Perfect saying by her..👍🏻

  • @GulshanKumar-pf4mq
    @GulshanKumar-pf4mq 3 роки тому +15

    at the last in few seconds I got carried in in her emotions and felt the pain inside me😭😭 it's so emotinal....❤️

  • @shwetatambade5678
    @shwetatambade5678 3 роки тому +15

    Beautiful❤️ you spoke my heart✨
    We need more thoughts like these.

    • @wildlifephotography9177
      @wildlifephotography9177 3 роки тому

      Dost me b bahut achha poetry video banata hun plzz mujhe b support Karo & Press the bell I con🔔click Karo blue line pe➡#RANJITMEHER 💘

    • @noconversionpage8466
      @noconversionpage8466 2 роки тому

      Sanskari hona gunah hain kya 🤔🤔apne Se Jada pyar apne maa baap Se Karna gunah hain kya 🤔🤔🤔apne culture proud Karna gunah hain kya 🤔🤔🤔

  • @divyanshi8712
    @divyanshi8712 3 роки тому +16

    I am also feeling this same kind of ignorance by my classmates cause of the same thoughts she told😔😔😔😔😔

  • @pragyasharma.3690
    @pragyasharma.3690 3 роки тому +156

    She's a real gem literally,💙🌼

    • @AawaraWriter
      @AawaraWriter 3 роки тому +3

      Please Support Me Sister
      कृपया सबस्क्राइब करके घंटी बजा दे ताकि आपका आशीर्वाद मुझ तक पहुचे
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      Please Support Me Sister

  • @srijita3244
    @srijita3244 3 роки тому +5

    Vanika as usual another great tale More convinced , more speechless and more merier with the theme - wonderful !

  • @neetugupta933
    @neetugupta933 3 роки тому +2

    Very true... Hamare yahan bhi pachpan se yehi sab sikhaya jata hai.. lekin hostel me mere life ke 14yrs spend karke maine ye hi sikha.. dnt judge anyone in these basis.. aaj mere aise achhe friends hain jo drink or smoke to karte hain but they are good by heart. Thanx to my elder brother who helped me to learn these things in my college days😆

  • @alkasingh4603
    @alkasingh4603 3 роки тому +10

    i belong to the same conservative family and thanks for this vedio ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️loved it dill se respect hai boss

  • @somrritachowdhury1251
    @somrritachowdhury1251 3 роки тому +11

    This is so me... I just got to know the reason why people start ignoring me even after being them bestest friend. Because I try to implement my values on others. Need to apply this solution. Thanks for recommending me this.

  • @kuljeetkaur3674
    @kuljeetkaur3674 3 роки тому +11

    Amazing today I really teach a great life lessons from your story sis thanks you 🙏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @rajkumaripal1872
    @rajkumaripal1872 3 роки тому +58

    finally i got my answers , u mean alot to me ...."is 7 min ki vedio me life jine ki summary de di hai "

    • @Increasing90
      @Increasing90 3 роки тому

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      @Increasing90 3 роки тому

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  • @WriterByChoice
    @WriterByChoice 3 роки тому +13

    True!! Really appreciable piece!

  • @sureshpawar6609
    @sureshpawar6609 3 роки тому +19

    Oh my God she showed me mirror
    I feel myself in this video.

  • @nishak6963
    @nishak6963 3 роки тому +5

    It's damn good one yaar❤️..... really the parents need to see this , their "sanskar" and our "choices"...life is the run between these two!!!🙄😔

  • @amananandCM
    @amananandCM 3 роки тому +4

    This is the answer.
    I'll show this to every young brothers and sisters of mine to understand the difference between choices and rules. ❣️

    • @amananandCM
      @amananandCM 3 роки тому

      @@sR_k_ we have a Very small population who appreciate good writing. But yeah those little population who does understand also love deeply.

  • @ajithshekhawat3653
    @ajithshekhawat3653 2 роки тому +3

    we are binded with these rules and values by our families which I guess need to change. enjoyed this amazing performance 🤗the ending was just excellent - choices are not rules and choices needs to be respected 👏

  • @nailsmarble7654
    @nailsmarble7654 3 роки тому +27

    The one mentality which can destroy your Life is just _ log kya sochenge🙁
    .
    .
    Which every girl have to remove from her mind💖

  • @apurvaraj5591
    @apurvaraj5591 3 роки тому +47

    This is how I felt when I went to Kota bcs l was also a girl's school student😁

  • @abhishekkasat545
    @abhishekkasat545 3 роки тому +3

    Very nice life story coupled with nice learning. I can also relate this story with current life.
    It made my thoughts more precise.
    Thanks for this wonderful story.

  • @KuchBhiMehta
    @KuchBhiMehta 3 роки тому +720

    Oho

    • @maitri8413
      @maitri8413 3 роки тому +12

      KuchBhiMehta 🤩
      Damnnnnnnn I love your Comedy videos
      And
      Nappaaaaaaaa Valllaeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 👀

    • @vanikasangtani1796
      @vanikasangtani1796 3 роки тому +24

      Sir sir! ♥️♥️♥️

    • @neerajyarin
      @neerajyarin 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/QTX3fQKJrTo/v-deo.html

    • @mahimajaiswal4225
      @mahimajaiswal4225 3 роки тому

      Where are you these days?

    • @surbhijaiswal1307
      @surbhijaiswal1307 3 роки тому +2

      #KuchBhiMehta🤣😂😂

  • @bhagyashreesahoo3625
    @bhagyashreesahoo3625 3 роки тому +5

    Literally wowww... It's so true.. We can't judge someone according our beliefs or values.. well said🙏

  • @sheetalbansode6987
    @sheetalbansode6987 3 роки тому +48

    Parents ko samzna chahiye jamana kesa he ladki ne chunni odhli mtlb vo sanskari ,or short pehnee wali ladkiyo ko tameez ni esa kyu 🙄thank God mere ghr esi koi restrictions nhi he ❤️I love my parents 🥰

    • @43-hk87
      @43-hk87 3 роки тому

      Are you so lucky ki ap ke parents ese hain 😀

  • @kavitapahadiya6621
    @kavitapahadiya6621 3 роки тому +220

    Wow I think I should show this to my parents but himat kaha se lao😐😐🙄🙄

  • @naziasyed6187
    @naziasyed6187 3 роки тому +15

    I can relate to this so much , damn it’s just too good❤️😍you are amazing !

  • @vishwajitpatil6807
    @vishwajitpatil6807 2 роки тому +1

    Wow.. Last Lines Are Perfect.. Perfect.. Perfect !!!

  • @fatimaqureshi5796
    @fatimaqureshi5796 3 роки тому +57

    After 2 years of my college life I finally realized why everyone was sidelining me😅

    • @_r.ishi._4238
      @_r.ishi._4238 3 роки тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @roeditz11
      @roeditz11 3 роки тому +1

      Waiting for that kind hearted person😔
      Who support me from heart💔💔💔💔💔💔💔..

    • @samudranarayan2117
      @samudranarayan2117 3 роки тому

      Me too

  • @livelifegirl4048
    @livelifegirl4048 3 роки тому +6

    Our choices are our choices, they are not rules. No one is bound to follow them. I am glad that i do the same...i have my own choices, but i don't judge my friends, colleagues if they do a particular thing which i do not prefer for myself. Untill n unless any other person is not being harmed, no choice is bad❤️

  • @simranbalmiki8787
    @simranbalmiki8787 3 роки тому +10

    I salute this great girl thought ❤️

  • @mike240171
    @mike240171 3 роки тому +5

    This is simply awesome and inspiring. I like the learnings from this talk. simply too good.

  • @aumy7495
    @aumy7495 3 роки тому +5

    Vanika dii you're just amazing your stories are very relateable and agar ham Sahi aur galat hi sochenge toh jindagi Kaise jiyenge literally gave me goosebumps 😍😍

  • @factzzbuddy
    @factzzbuddy 3 роки тому +11

    Short dresses are not bad , no one should judge anyone by its dressing sense

    • @shirshampriyadarshi5816
      @shirshampriyadarshi5816 3 роки тому +1

      Yepp..there are all kinds of people here..
      And we all are free to reject and also get rejected..I mean that's how it ought to work..🙏🏻😌

  • @youdontwannaknow3150
    @youdontwannaknow3150 3 роки тому +5

    Just wowwww!!❤️❤️❤️this is the one of the biggest issues of today's society which breaks relationships and you illustrated that in an awesome wayy🔥🔥🔥

  • @punamchettri7398
    @punamchettri7398 3 роки тому +6

    I was thinking that I'm the only one who is going through this!
    This video really touched my heart

  • @quickstudy2401
    @quickstudy2401 3 роки тому +8

    Right. Dont judge a people by there dress or colour and money

  • @himanijhamar
    @himanijhamar 3 роки тому +25

    I like the the takeaway and gonna adopt it... Our values n spirituality are our own we can't overlapped on others n make judgements on others!

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      @AawaraWriter 3 роки тому +1

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  • @PankajLalwani
    @PankajLalwani 3 роки тому +5

    Relatable thanks to my real friends who realized me same feelings.. learn from everyone and choice is yours to give preference ❣

  • @thefadutom
    @thefadutom 3 роки тому

    Jo jo baat mam aapne kaha hai ...same vaise hi mere sath hota hai...mai bhi apne values apne rule kisi aur par thopta hu...jo ki aaj aapne mujhe achhe se samjha diya. Abb mai kisi ko koi bhi chij karne k liye rokunga nhi....sahi aur galat ka faisala nhi karunga..... thankyou mam... thankyou so much

  • @sourabh9985
    @sourabh9985 3 роки тому +6

    I am happy that my parents give me strong and real value not as fake value as her.🙏

    • @sourabh9985
      @sourabh9985 3 роки тому

      @Ishita Sharma well they do it just that i am not weak like u 😂😂