“When you want your man to understand what you are saying come from your feminine energy. Masculine is direct and assertive. Feminine is soft and inviting. “
A feminine woman is a woman who shares/speaks with supportive loving care and is respectful. Expressing yourself with kindness & willing to allow the man to be the man. She speaks with confidence. and knows her lane. We are completely different than a man. You must speak with reasoning / not emotions. Our feelings are just feelings, feelings are not always the facts. A woman must have self-control over her emotions. What ever you do, do not speak masculine. feminine and masculine, not masculine and masculine .a man will not hear you if
Who is gonna watch this again and write down the scripts word-for-word? 🙋🏾♀️ Papa Blakes, this was a masterclass in female-male communication. Thank you! In a one-hour sermon, you’ve summed up a book and what I wish I had learned from female relatives throughout childhood. You preached, and I pray that I’m “good soil.” Thanks for reminding me of Queen Esther’s feminine demeanor.
My son taught me this lesson as a teen. I didn’t badger him as a rule. One time I was fussing emotionally about the state of his room. He said, "Mom, if you want me to clean my room just say that." I apologized and later thanked him. I try not to hurt. Our words can harm permanently.
Was looking for this comment. I was married to a narcissist and literally none of these methods made a difference to him. I did most if not all these, didn’t help. I’m still taking notes on these communication tools because they do work with a non-narc man.
Yes, but in the beginning you think you have a real man and you try to be in your femininity and next thing you know you realize its not you, theres an issue with him. @Camis.locjourney
Newly wed! This is a good one because I am currently learning how to speak to my husband in a way that he hears me and that keeps us from bumping heads. I didn’t realize that my language was disrespectful, I had to learn that. Once I realized it, now I can change it. I love my husband because he is a very strong man who loves me for me and he sees me. He’s willing to get in the paint with me for me to learn. He knows I’m willing but a bit stubborn. I want to talk to my husband with respect at all times so he definitely will see the changes in me. Respect your husband as unto the Lord.
Thank you so much for your wisdom.🙏 I am 68 years old and haven't known or understood much from the masculine perspective.. until now. From here on in, I will treat any man with respect and courtesy. I think perhaps women are in their masculine energy due to past experiences and fear. I certainly have exhibited confrontational energy in my relationships. Your videos are enlightening, straightforward and show the masculine energy in a beautiful light. I see men differently now, thanks to you! Sending you and your subs much light and love. ✨️💞🙏
Millions of Filipinos from the Philippines… all over the universe, following, Bishop, RC Blake’s’ true disciple leadership sacrificially, and serve generously with God’s legit knowledge, blessings, love, light, protection, power, and empowerment. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
She effectively communicated with her man and he heard her. Talking at vs. talking to your man in a way that he can hear you. The right heart, right place and right intention - he responds favorably.
The Holy Spirit has been laying on my heart-- of late-- the example of Esther, and how she presented her concern to the King(her husband). This is definitely an expansion to this holy-inspired concept about interpersonal communication. Yes, it is about timing, prayer and fasting as applicable, tone, setting, your appearance(yes, this is important), body language, facial expression, speak in spirit/truth; respect the boundaries----then the presentation. Yes, and this is why my "HAPPY SELF" is single. 😅🤣🤪😂
Thank you Pastor for addressing this topic. In short, both men and women need to relearn how to communicate with one another. Let's engage each other with love and respect, not this disdain and social media ideology.
Thank You, Thank You Thank You!! I'm a seasoned woman and I learned so much during this time. Please continue teaching us, we need more wisdom. God Bless You ❤
Just like when a man is only coming from a place of logic, he will lose his woman because he needs to be tapped into his emotions and he needs to respect hers even if it’s void of logic. It doesn’t matter that’s how she relates to the world and that’s what’s important.
This is crazily on time. Please always keep this on UA-cam. I’ve been looking for this for over 8 months. I couldn’t find this information anywhere. I love your channel you’re saving lives
Bishop you dropped priceless gems all through this message! A wise woman will receive this word and be in alignment, agreement & make necessary adjustments that can beneficial for the both of them. Thx for enlightening me even the more. Blessings to you & First Lady Blakes🥰
This is such a good word! Your messages are always on time Bishop. I’m constantly learning and growing from your teachings. This is so helpful and I will definitely be sharing.
Queen Esther is one of my favorite books. She prayed first!!! She then dolled herself up to let the King know what he was missing, hyped him.up and approached with food! Couldn't leave those caveats out!
@@a.f.wonsley8288 Be resilient, Beloved! Exchange that brokenness for utilizing the power you possess to never allow it to happen again; heal and be thankful (moving forward) for what you've learned. Love yourself.
When you disrespect a lady, it angers her. A lady wants respect as well. It is the same for both sexes. Respect goes both ways. A couple is to work for each other. There is a certain way that a gent is to speak to a lady as well. Ladies are strong as well, for I know many.
I feel like handling men and their egos is like dealing with children 😩 I hope they have things they can learn on their end too and it’s not always the woman having to confine. It can be exhausting. But this is an informative video.
It’s hard when we were taught not to ask for anything at all. Being single this long, the idea that I would ask a man to do the dishes and he actually does them is foreign to me.
Effective communication is awesome. Bishop Blake on point. Good word. The video before the effective communication lesson was great and the song is very pretty. Blessings to you and your better half.
Thank you Bishop Blakes. I am learning more and more about how to effectively communicate with men. Alot of women needs to hear this information. God bless you and Lisa from day to day. ❤❤❤
Thank you so much Bishop Blakes for sowing these valuable seeds into my spirit❤. Now this is good teaching for me on how to better communicate with my man in a better way!! Excellent Wisdom Amen!!!
That is wisdom to wait for the right time to communicate our feelings on a assertive way. Lord help us as women of faith to communicate with the right tone, at the right time.
1. Be feminine
2. Be respectful
3. Wait for the right time
Got married and have kids now thanks to you RC Blakes. Your teachings are GOLD! Met my husband at 38!!
That’s amazing. So happy for you.
Thanks for teaching me how to effectively communicate with my man.
This makes great sense.
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Congratulations!!! You give me hope to meet my future husband as I am 37! 😊
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“When you want your man to understand what you are saying come from your feminine energy. Masculine is direct and assertive. Feminine is soft and inviting. “
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A feminine woman is a woman who shares/speaks with supportive loving care and is respectful. Expressing yourself with kindness & willing to allow the man to be the man. She speaks with confidence. and knows her lane. We are completely different than a man.
You must speak with reasoning / not emotions. Our feelings are just feelings, feelings are not always the facts. A woman must have self-control over her emotions.
What ever you do, do not speak masculine.
feminine and masculine, not masculine and masculine .a man will not hear you if
How about the man gets in touch with his feelings too?
Who is gonna watch this again and write down the scripts word-for-word? 🙋🏾♀️ Papa Blakes, this was a masterclass in female-male communication. Thank you! In a one-hour sermon, you’ve summed up a book and what I wish I had learned from female relatives throughout childhood. You preached, and I pray that I’m “good soil.” Thanks for reminding me of Queen Esther’s feminine demeanor.
'A man protects his ego like a woman protects her virtue.'
May I help him to nurture and shield that ego.
That is a shirt... I'm going to make that shirt I got to that is perfectly
My son taught me this lesson as a teen. I didn’t badger him as a rule. One time I was fussing emotionally about the state of his room. He said, "Mom, if you want me to clean my room just say that." I apologized and later thanked him. I try not to hurt. Our words can harm permanently.
Talk to him without bringing him down and being very disrespectful to him
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Narcissists don’t care how they make you feel.
Was looking for this comment. I was married to a narcissist and literally none of these methods made a difference to him. I did most if not all these, didn’t help. I’m still taking notes on these communication tools because they do work with a non-narc man.
Very true but he is talking about real men here
Agreed.
Yes, but in the beginning you think you have a real man and you try to be in your femininity and next thing you know you realize its not you, theres an issue with him. @Camis.locjourney
Unless it's bad.
Newly wed! This is a good one because I am currently learning how to speak to my husband in a way that he hears me and that keeps us from bumping heads. I didn’t realize that my language was disrespectful, I had to learn that. Once I realized it, now I can change it. I love my husband because he is a very strong man who loves me for me and he sees me. He’s willing to get in the paint with me for me to learn. He knows I’m willing but a bit stubborn. I want to talk to my husband with respect at all times so he definitely will see the changes in me. Respect your husband as unto the Lord.
A loving wife should always remain kind. Pray for your stubbornness. Read Psalms for more guidance. 🙏
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Thank you so much for your wisdom.🙏 I am 68 years old and haven't known or understood much from the masculine perspective.. until now.
From here on in, I will treat any man with respect and courtesy.
I think perhaps women are in their masculine energy due to past experiences and fear. I certainly have exhibited confrontational energy in my relationships.
Your videos are enlightening, straightforward and show the masculine energy in a beautiful light. I see men differently now, thanks to you! Sending you and your subs much light and love. ✨️💞🙏
Millions of Filipinos from the Philippines… all over the universe, following, Bishop, RC Blake’s’ true disciple leadership sacrificially, and serve generously with God’s legit knowledge, blessings, love, light, protection, power, and empowerment. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I love that you point out that it's for Queen conscious men and women
Yes. Don't try this with a feminine man.
She effectively communicated with her man and he heard her. Talking at vs. talking to your man in a way that he can hear you. The right heart, right place and right intention - he responds favorably.
“She effectively communicated with her man and he heard her.”
What a great example Bishop. Straight to the point. Logic over emotion for best percentage that my man will hear me.
It is so relatable in regards to turning on the feminine switch.😊 RC, you are profound with these teachings.
The Holy Spirit has been laying on my heart-- of late-- the example of Esther, and how she presented her concern to the King(her husband). This is definitely an expansion to this holy-inspired concept about interpersonal communication. Yes, it is about timing, prayer and fasting as applicable, tone, setting, your appearance(yes, this is important), body language, facial expression, speak in spirit/truth; respect the boundaries----then the presentation. Yes, and this is why my "HAPPY SELF" is single. 😅🤣🤪😂
She EFFECTIVELY communicated with her man, and he HEARD HER!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The wisdom dropped during every father daughter talk is more valuable than words can express! Thank you Pastor!!
Lord I needed to hear this. Thank you so much for speaking on this topic
Thank you Pastor for addressing this topic. In short, both men and women need to relearn how to communicate with one another. Let's engage each other with love and respect, not this disdain and social media ideology.
Thank you sir for all the gems you dropped on this video
My husband works very hard 12 hr a day I don't even ask him about silly stuff like washing dishes I do it myself
What if you were sick
RC Blakes, Jr, excellent Orator, he moves my heart
She effectively communicated with her man, and he heard her. Thank You Pastor Blakes😊
This is a whole lot of wisdom right here!
Bishop! This is SUCH a good word! This will be on repeat for me 🙏🏿.
👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 Yes, Bishop! You are blessing us with nuggets! Golden!!! ❤❤
Thank You, Thank You Thank You!! I'm a seasoned woman and I learned so much during this time. Please continue teaching us, we need more wisdom. God Bless You ❤
Once AGAIN another on time rewarding message 👑🙌🏽🙏🏽 Prayers for patience & guidance with a new blossoming friendship I never saw coming my way 😊
She effectively communicated with her man🙏😍
Sending love from Virginia. I can't wait to attend an event. Sir, you've totally blessed me day 1. God put you in my youtube path!!!!!!! 🔥
Hi, watching from central Europe, very interesting as always! Thank you Bishop Blakes, blessings 🙌 🙏 ❤️
Just like when a man is only coming from a place of logic, he will lose his woman because he needs to be tapped into his emotions and he needs to respect hers even if it’s void of logic. It doesn’t matter that’s how she relates to the world and that’s what’s important.
So looking forward to this message of wisdom 🙌🏾
Another wonderful preaching 🙏 so completely blessed for you❤
Thank you for repeating when a man loves a woman, you DO NOT have to manipulate him. It is his pleasure to do x,y; z.
This is crazily on time. Please always keep this on UA-cam. I’ve been looking for this for over 8 months. I couldn’t find this information anywhere. I love your channel you’re saving lives
Bishop you dropped priceless gems all through this message! A wise woman will receive this word and be in alignment, agreement & make necessary adjustments that can beneficial for the both of them. Thx for enlightening me even the more. Blessings to you & First Lady Blakes🥰
These are Great jewels 💎
Thank you so much for sharing 🫶🏼
This is definitely wisdom ‼️
THIS MESSAGE ABSOLUTELY HAS BLESSED AND HELPED ME MOVING FORWARD! THANK YOU BISHOP ❤
This is 🌟GOLDEN!!🌟
SO many gems given!
Thankful for this information/your content & mission.
You have helped along my journey, MADE ME A BETTER PERSON. THANK YOU!!
Yayyy!!! I can’t wait for this 🙏🙏🙏
Thank u Pastor Blakes unr always on time....❤❤❤❤❤I just shared this message with my niece..Thank u again and God bless u and your family always 🙏🙏🙏
I loved the nuggets discussed. I have a better understanding now. Thank You!
Much needed. I'm going to keep this on repeat!!👍🏽👍🏽
Me too💯💯👍🏾👌🏾
This is such a good word! Your messages are always on time Bishop. I’m constantly learning and growing from your teachings. This is so helpful and I will definitely be sharing.
Thank u for this awesome message. I’m going to listen to it repeatedly! 👏🏼
She effectively communicated with her man and he heard her💜
Absolutely needed this advice
Good revelation and a awesome and profound teaching! God bless you!
THANK YOU SO MUCH PASTOR BLAKES FOR BEING SO STRAIGHTFORWARD WHILE USING A SENSE OF HUMOR WITH BIBLICAL BACK UP...😇❤😆
This teaching helps me a lot. Thank you, Mr. Blake
This is great teaching Bishop❤
Thank you Bishop this is valuable information.
Amen!! I love these teachings.
Thank you for a much needed message.
Agreed on the energy exchanges ❤
Queen Esther is one of my favorite books. She prayed first!!! She then dolled herself up to let the King know what he was missing, hyped him.up and approached with food! Couldn't leave those caveats out!
Needed, needed 🙏🏾
Thank you, Bishop, for your obedience! I literally prayed to hear from God on this topic, specifically a few days ago. 🙏🏽
My heart is broken I'm feeling the odds against me but I know God is not
I loveddd this!! Thank you
Thank you pastor. I’m learning to do things the healthy way and not fear being ridiculed
This is so good! Thank you, Bishop.
Strong words and very true. 😱
This was sooo so helpful and helped me realize even the spots I was messing up in, thank you!
Hello Bishop! This message is so timely because I've recently met my king..I want him to receive me purposely....
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Be resilient, Beloved! Exchange that brokenness for utilizing the power you possess to never allow it to happen again; heal and be thankful (moving forward) for what you've learned. Love yourself.
This is good!🙌🙌
When you disrespect a lady, it angers her. A lady wants respect as well. It is the same for both sexes. Respect goes both ways. A couple is to work for each other. There is a certain way that a gent is to speak to a lady as well. Ladies are strong as well, for I know many.
Thank you for this comment ❤ Woman feel disrespected when a man speaks to her in a disrespectful manner. Respect is earned.
I feel like handling men and their egos is like dealing with children 😩 I hope they have things they can learn on their end too and it’s not always the woman having to confine. It can be exhausting. But this is an informative video.
Reading the word of God softens the heart and asking God for wisdom. Men that are interested in their women don't need to be spoken to like children.
Exactly @@susanma3483
Thank you for the advice and wisdom.❤❤❤
It’s hard when we were taught not to ask for anything at all. Being single this long, the idea that I would ask a man to do the dishes and he actually does them is foreign to me.
Resentment is not foreign to any human so you better ask
Catching the replay!
So basically the way we ought to speak to people in the workplace also is very effective on the home front.
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Wow!!!! Incredibly useful 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Effective communication is awesome. Bishop Blake on point. Good word. The video before the effective communication lesson was great and the song is very pretty. Blessings to you and your better half.
Thank you Bishop Blakes. I am learning more and more about how to effectively communicate with men. Alot of women needs to hear this information. God bless you and Lisa from day to day. ❤❤❤
Oh my goodness this video! Beautiful😢
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Thank you Bishop Blakes and first Lady Lisa❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😊
This was really helpful. Thank you
Thank you Bishop. This was good.🙏🏽🌹
The masculine soul is sooth by the feminine voice!!!!
She effectively communicated with her man and he heard her.
Thank you so much Bishop Blakes for sowing these valuable seeds into my spirit❤. Now this is good teaching for me on how to better communicate with my man in a better way!! Excellent Wisdom Amen!!!
I'm thankful that all of this is so understandable to me. .. It's not hard.
Thank you so much.
Taught me so much how to better interact with my man.
Look at all this wisdom I'm giving y'all😂😂😂😂 i love R.C. Blakes videos
Thank Bishop very awesome massage, God Bless ❤❤
Effectively communicated with her man. Praise God. Amen
That is wisdom to wait for the right time to communicate our feelings on a assertive way. Lord help us as women of faith to communicate with the right tone, at the right time.
Thank you, Bishop, for teaching us.🙏❤️
Clearly you’re talking about a mature man who doesn’t see/view any conversation/issue that his mate brings up as a challenge to his masculinity.
Wisdom! ❤❤❤
I am struggling with communication and this is so helpful
Good message
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