icebreaker broke my will to live

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  • @QueenSiv
    @QueenSiv 11 місяців тому +379

    I’m in so much pain that modern romance novels are all just p*rn, this is actually so sad and not necessary for people to believe people have feelings for each other. Actual garbage books. We need better standards than this 😭

    • @wooogie672
      @wooogie672 11 місяців тому +62

      if they marketed it as just straight erotica rather than romance, i’d have less of an issue. my problem isn’t the smut (as a fanfic connoisseur), it’s the fact that it’s one of the ONLY selling points for these modern romance books. ROMANCE IS MORE THAN SEX!!!!

    • @QueenSiv
      @QueenSiv 11 місяців тому +21

      @@wooogie672 true, people need to be more honest these days. I’m not huge on erotica being so mainstream but if it is then they should at least label it properly so that I don’t end up in the middle of a f*ck fest every time I pick out a popular new novel

    • @plumsparkles945
      @plumsparkles945 9 місяців тому +3

      Yes!

    • @hennamontana222
      @hennamontana222 Місяць тому +1

      I’m thinking about abandoning most of the modern romance drama over this. I’m tired.

    • @IsabellaS81401
      @IsabellaS81401 Місяць тому +1

      Deadas$. I’m writing a romance novel and I might put ONE intimate scene. MAYBE. I’m focused more on their chemistry and getting to know each other. That’s why I kinda like Sarah Adams cause a lot of her stuff doesn’t have smut

  • @QueenSiv
    @QueenSiv 11 місяців тому +182

    I watched this first thing in the morning but I want to elaborate that romance novels are bad because no one writes character chemistry anymore. Only physical attraction. They’re like “is this romance?” Then write p*rn. No wonder so many of them depict unhealthy or abusive relationships, they have no concept of what relationships are

    • @wooogie672
      @wooogie672 11 місяців тому +7

      LITERALLY!!!!

    • @CursedCatTruffa
      @CursedCatTruffa 7 місяців тому +1

      If they wrote straight porn I would respect them

    • @floor8461
      @floor8461 6 місяців тому +4

      have you read 'the man for me' - marzy opal ? i think the book describes them as individuals soo well + their chemistry.

    • @QueenSiv
      @QueenSiv 6 місяців тому +3

      @@floor8461 no, but thanks for the recommendation!

  • @Flareontoast
    @Flareontoast 11 місяців тому +98

    Anastasia is just a name but I'll be damned if I don't think about 50 shades with that name all the time

  • @marianamauricio
    @marianamauricio 11 місяців тому +276

    i can imagine the tiktok girlies being obsessed with the fact that de didnt take advantage of her while she's drunk (as if that isnt literally the BARE MINIMUM)

    • @anopinionatedlaymanappears9052
      @anopinionatedlaymanappears9052 11 місяців тому +7

      Such a gentleman 😆😆😆

    • @sava-smth
      @sava-smth 10 місяців тому +11

      Right??? The bar is not just on, it's under the floor, I'm scared for these women

    • @chickennooget8051
      @chickennooget8051 5 місяців тому +8

      i remember seeing some tiktok where they were saying how cute he was when (and i think how) he asked for consent 💀

    • @BeanArmyLeader
      @BeanArmyLeader 2 місяці тому

      Omg what

    • @Ellie0287
      @Ellie0287 2 дні тому

      Is the standards in room with us

  • @asteriaaa16
    @asteriaaa16 11 місяців тому +72

    why does every modern romance book have the quality of a hallmark movie?

    • @Angel-s0ft
      @Angel-s0ft 6 місяців тому

      Or even worse, a 🌽hub video.

  • @fulgurixx
    @fulgurixx 9 місяців тому +53

    i started reading this book because figure skating is one of my Special Interests and let me tell you... the actual figure skating aspect of this book is so so so badly done. i'm only 30% through right now and i've been compiling a list of shit hannah grace got wrong as i've been reading, and it no longer fits in one (1) screenshot. i know a lot of ao3/tumblr fanfiction writers do a shit ton of research for their fics, so why can't this wattp⎯ formerly independently published author do the same? 😭

    • @Aetherisntemo
      @Aetherisntemo 6 місяців тому +6

      SAME WITH THE HOCKEY STUFF!!! My special interest was hockey when i started reading this and omg it’s insane 😭

  • @MegaChadAnakin
    @MegaChadAnakin 11 місяців тому +73

    i cant stop myself from being frustrated books written like wattpad fanfic get this popular

  • @marianamauricio
    @marianamauricio 11 місяців тому +63

    15:11 “i dont have a degree in english or anything. I just read and i rant you know? I’m just angry a lot” 🤣

  • @yeetskeet4776
    @yeetskeet4776 11 місяців тому +43

    I would definitely be more inclined to read traditional romance books if they weren’t all about toxicity and sex. I love romance in media and a good romance makes my heart warm and all that but romance books in general are always a miss so I’ve learned to just stay away from them. Most if not all are rehashed stories with slightly tweaked names and plot points. It makes me a little angry.

  • @marianamauricio
    @marianamauricio 11 місяців тому +78

    i felt a chill every time you said "my folds". can't even imagine what it's like to read it in context 🤢

    • @LilyEvans1996
      @LilyEvans1996 11 місяців тому +9

      I find that a lot of things and phrases are better in words than they are to say out loud hahaha

  • @roxannehuston6268
    @roxannehuston6268 11 місяців тому +37

    'Come to the party' he says, she replies 'no B', and then she shows up at the party later. 🤣 This feels so typical now in romance novels. It's so immature, which I guess is true for some college students. But when you're an athlete, the standard is so different because there are usually scholarships involved.

  • @kattodoggo3868
    @kattodoggo3868 6 місяців тому +15

    about the "sex smell" 😂 it's real. You can smell something was happening if its a tiny close space like a car xD

  • @bg213
    @bg213 10 місяців тому +22

    Yuri on Ice really made history when it aired.

  • @wooogie672
    @wooogie672 11 місяців тому +14

    14:28 i, too, watched yuuri on ice as it was airing. what a time, truly…..

  • @LilyEvans1996
    @LilyEvans1996 11 місяців тому +31

    I love when authors don’t show their face haha i love the mystery

  • @marianamauricio
    @marianamauricio 11 місяців тому +21

    the seratonin boost i get when i think about the yuri on ice opening song is UNMATCHED

  • @meowlo-the-mood-reader
    @meowlo-the-mood-reader 11 місяців тому +9

    lol "the hot stick thing" oh my god. so glad I never picked this one up. I've been so inundated with disappointing romance and this one might have killed me.

  • @idk-ri4qn
    @idk-ri4qn 11 місяців тому +18

    i think romance books shouldn't be this long. Like you can easly get bored

  • @QueenSiv
    @QueenSiv 11 місяців тому +10

    39:43 she says she’s ok with him being protective because he cares, and alludes to the fact that she wouldn’t be otherwise because some women think men are protective because they believe women to be weak and fragile, so they take it as an insult. Which is ridiculous and kind of telling on themselves that they’re insecure

  • @elonnabettini
    @elonnabettini 11 місяців тому +15

    I was so disappointed in this book. There are some books w no plot that i like a lot and enjoy for what they are but i absolutely could not stand either of these MCs especially the main girl and it just made this book feel WAY too long bc i just didn’t care abt anyone

    • @chickennooget8051
      @chickennooget8051 5 місяців тому +1

      EXACTLY !!! every single character is just the most insufferable person I have had the misfortune of getting to know

  • @livenitup862
    @livenitup862 2 місяці тому +4

    The thing is-romance movies are ROMANTIC. The sex is toned down& also unpopular opinion: it’s way easier to show explicit scenes on screen that are not cringy, than writing them. I also like RomComs but rarely read nice Romance.
    Da du ja auch deutsch bist, kann ich dir ein paar deutsche Autorinnen empfehlen: Lily Lucas, Ava Reed, Anabelle Stehl, Justine Pust sind Romance Autorinnen die ich tatsächlich gut finde. Du hast eine Beziehung, aber es ist kein purer Smut.

  • @aleksandrakudlinska2680
    @aleksandrakudlinska2680 11 місяців тому +8

    Sophie:Do you remember anything I just told you?
    Me:eeeeeh the scene with Cruel Summer?

  • @deja5477
    @deja5477 11 місяців тому +18

    The yuri on ice reference😂 obsession was real

  • @TheCgulledge
    @TheCgulledge 7 місяців тому +5

    When youi asked at the end if we remembered anything you told us and my mind was honestly totally blank and the only thing I could remember what the partner's name...

  • @spaceorc1397
    @spaceorc1397 10 днів тому

    "idk who farted on my pillow... Maybe my cat." Made me laugh so hard. You're really funny, Sophie. I always have a huge smile on my face when I'm listening to your videos.

  • @shadowmatrx
    @shadowmatrx Місяць тому

    You are right about the grammar..."In exchange for..." It is passive voice bc the subject "me" is being acted upon "given something." It sb something like "Yesterday I met w/...who gave me..."

  • @BeeN0987
    @BeeN0987 11 місяців тому +16

    lol i liked this book but i couldn’t tell you why, when I watch this i realise it has no plot. maybe it’s because i was heavily pregnant while reading and very emotional 😂

    • @honestlysophie
      @honestlysophie  11 місяців тому +9

      honestly thats valid 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @JordanS-ww4eu
      @JordanS-ww4eu 2 місяці тому

      @@honestlysophieyou’re very pretty I really like you and your smile

    • @BeanArmyLeader
      @BeanArmyLeader 2 місяці тому +2

      @@JordanS-ww4euyou're creepy

  • @lianajay04
    @lianajay04 11 місяців тому +7

    girl i'm still waiting for the day ice adolescence (that yoi movie) gets an update 😭 the website has said "announcement soon" for at least 6 years

  • @mrspreminger
    @mrspreminger 11 місяців тому +9

    Lmaooo i instantly knew you were talking about yuri on ice

  • @urusaiinu
    @urusaiinu 11 місяців тому +5

    I knew you were going to say Yuri on Ice.... My friend in high school was an ice skater and loved it.

  • @inkinfinity7051
    @inkinfinity7051 3 місяці тому +2

    you should read kasie west. she writes innocent teen romances with strong characters and without toxicity.

  • @lillieb2637
    @lillieb2637 29 днів тому

    Omg, Emily Henry is rly rly good at writing character chemistry. At least in my 18 yr old brain. And her books are easily always 5 stars for me 💜💜

  • @muss1386
    @muss1386 9 місяців тому +4

    You should give queer romance a chance! I found them to be more plot focused!

  • @tocaautumn6415
    @tocaautumn6415 Місяць тому +1

    I was 11 years old and thought it would be such a cute romance novel book but what the heck is p*rn 😢

  • @marianamauricio
    @marianamauricio 11 місяців тому +3

    yessss do bookmas!!!!!

  • @SlickGames2-gd5jw
    @SlickGames2-gd5jw Місяць тому +1

    imagine being an uber driver and some people are doing unholy carnal acts in the backseat

  • @marianamauricio
    @marianamauricio 11 місяців тому +6

    STILL WAITING FOR THE YOI MOVIE 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @kathaliabloodyrose5694
    @kathaliabloodyrose5694 11 місяців тому +2

    14:33 Oh i watched it when it was coming out to! There was supposed to be a movie was in works for years but it was droped this year for some reason which fucking sucks

  • @ari4311
    @ari4311 5 місяців тому +1

    eleanor and park is a romance novel that i really love if anyone is looking for a good one

  • @sorem6410
    @sorem6410 5 місяців тому +4

    Man Im just so tired, I would like to read something that doesnt have fucking sex!
    The books are being damaged with the hookup culture.

  • @HarvestStudios_38
    @HarvestStudios_38 6 місяців тому +3

    Deadass saw a middle schooler with this on school grounds

  • @paulinagabrys8874
    @paulinagabrys8874 Місяць тому

    Mam wrażenie że ta książka to p🌽rn wersja Go Figure, Youngblood i The Cutting Edge w jednym. I pozbawiona jakiegokolwiek aspektu sportowego innego niż współżycie intymne i napoje wyslokowe

  • @Tolkarius
    @Tolkarius 2 місяці тому +1

    This specific book had like no plot and the characters were so unlovable from start to end. Just to write a bit of P**n 😭

  • @juljul184
    @juljul184 11 місяців тому +17

    oh this book is so annoying. the whole figure skater/hockey player was sooo popular in slash fiction and it works so well in that context but when it's just straight people? boring as hell, i'm sorry straight people

    • @938oooo
      @938oooo 10 місяців тому +1

      You are just straight with us

    • @Angel-s0ft
      @Angel-s0ft 6 місяців тому +2

      It's boring when it's gay people too, the same thing every time 😢

    • @puppydogs68
      @puppydogs68 5 місяців тому

      I’m heteromantic ace (basically straight I suppose 💀) and I completely agree, shit’s boring asf and the way they turned it into literal p 🌽 is disgusting.

  • @skyeditzzz_
    @skyeditzzz_ 5 місяців тому +1

    Subscribed bc of the poster in the back straight away

  • @i_love_music-f2m
    @i_love_music-f2m 8 місяців тому +1

    Rom-coms >>> Romance books

  • @oolongtea4013
    @oolongtea4013 3 місяці тому

    i mean elena ferrante is an anonymous author. it's more common than you think lol. i don't see the problem with it. i understand it may contextualize the book for u, but some authors prefer their work to stand for itself.

    • @oolongtea4013
      @oolongtea4013 3 місяці тому

      also, while i didn't love the book, i also feel like this is a very nitpick-y video. like who cares if their names r Anastasia and Aaron that is such an arbitrary "rule."

  • @jo_helaci
    @jo_helaci 11 місяців тому +4

    I loooved Yuri on Ice 🥰😁😅

  • @sao-me1lt
    @sao-me1lt 3 місяці тому +1

    Icebreaker is trash but your lipstick is 🔥what shade/brand is that??

  • @meg3422
    @meg3422 Місяць тому

    The audiobook is MUCH better from what it sounds like vs readings it😂 besides the sex scenes of course the narrators make it a bit LESS cringy than reading a romance, for me anyways

  • @Angelinaisokay
    @Angelinaisokay 9 місяців тому +4

    Cat reveal???

  • @anopinionatedlaymanappears9052
    @anopinionatedlaymanappears9052 11 місяців тому +3

    Did you get more German?

  • @GigiofGigi
    @GigiofGigi 11 місяців тому +1

    Totally felt the cringe of Yuri on Ice Lmfaoo pork cutlet bowl!