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The “almost as dark as you” is a shared experience for all brown and black kids in white spaces😂. We all just let a collective groan
The wayyyy I would get it from Asians sooo often. Basically any group the prides themselves in having lighter skin tones. Traumatizing
On god!! So fnk disrespectful n annoying
Adults too. I've heard this in every office and school I've worked in.
'You haven't grrr once' 💀
I almost spit out my chips at that. 😂😂😂
"Smells so bananery"😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
The funniest thing he has ever said, i had to take a lap around my apartment
I CAN'T with him😭😭🤣
FAM what the hell bananas oh my
Ok ok 😂
Wilddddddd! 🤣🤣🤣
"For someone who smells so bananery...!"
WHAT?! 😂😂😂😂
Now I can't unhear that! Lol!
@@kellystigger9318 See yeah! 🤣
Shoooot ..
“ I love that for you” is something I use pretty often, and I’ve always been sincere 😂 and now I’m just wondering if everyone else has thought I meant it as a backhanded compliment 😂
Same!!! But it just takes one mean girl to turn any phrase to shit lol
Right I feel like multiple of these are actual compliments it just depends on the situation it's used in
Problem with that is also, the nicer you say it, the more sarcastic it sounds🤣
James went crazy here he had the whole club crackin up the whole time
James has litteraly said "I love that for you" to Ellis multiple times on the pod bro 😂
0:29 Rem with the COMPLETE ick from the statement 😭
"You're so well spoken" definitely triggered me. Growing up, that's all I heard from Caucasian people in the US south. I was also considered an Oreo to my own people. Not using slang but using proper grammar and enunciation was considered negative. 🤦🏾♀️
SAME!! It was always the teachers! I used to hate that shit.
This is going on my list of "How to explain Crabs in a Barrel to my non black friends"
Same thing in South Africa when I go to visit family. Ironic thing is a lot of my family members who have never stepped out of South Africa are a LOT more articulate than me 🫠
I use to get that alot working at a call centre dealing with people in the US, they would be so shocked when I say I’m from South Africa. “Like wtf they teach us english here as well.” 🙄
I grew up in SA too, they used to say i had an American accent.
They forgot "Oh, you're one of the good ones". I'm still speechless about that...
You’re about to set off so many triggers within me 😂 The unmitigated gall…
4:21 bruhh Ellis' facial expressions 😭😭😭🤣🤣
😂😂 "How could they"
Yeah hahahH
Lil bro was shook.
James was cooking this episode 😂
If I had a dime for every time I've heard, "You look better without your glasses."! Problem is, I can't see without them.
I also wear glasses and I saw this comeback once: You also look better without my glasses on.
Thai is literally the reason I switched to contacts cuz atp I gotta change sum😂
So you don’t actually look at all without your glasses
@@Katja-xy5zt No, I can't. Everything is blurry. The only way I can see is if the print is 100x bigger.
My glasses serve as protection from accidentally giving my number to someone unattractive. I'd only wear contacts for the baddies. Average looking can humbly accept glasses
The high pitched “yeah” 😂😂
For someone who smells so bananary😂😂😂
“You look good today or you smell good today” 😭
That 'Today'
That bananery line had me cracking up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"You're fr a angel fallen from heaven" so y'all just casually calling people Satan now okay 😭
"For someone who smells so bananary" is the wildest comment this century 😭😭🤣
That line "for someone who smells so banana-ery" Has me smiling like the joker! That's a try Jay-Sus not me!!
You can come if you want. Like no I'm not going. You don't seem interested enough for effort😂😂😂
james says the most unpredictable thingd ever lol
I love how gassed James gets when Fuhad laughs hard at his jokes
I’m literally shaking after “for someone who looks so bananery” 😂
As a music producer, the 'music thing' hit me hard💀😂
James absolutely ripped this one 😂🤣
Yeah I’ve had that “I’m almost as dark as you” a lot too 🤦♂️ jarring 😂 I’m brown af so no Karen you aren’t even close 😂
Yup has that too, I just tell them at least mine don’t fade away and go about my day
What if... James comes up with same convo to Fuhad after Tenerife?
@@Caz8142 yo why do you sound so offended by that. Absolutely no person who would be willing to come up to you and say that means it in an offensive way. You find it offensive because you are deciding to take it that way.
I'm white - in Thailand a monk sat beside me on a train, held his arm next mine and pointed how I'm lighter than he is and proceeded to laugh. A monk, bro. Full outfit and everything.
Of course I saw him about an hour later playing on his phone. It's was a funny experience - also something funny to bring up when you talk about traveling
@@iliilliliiliilliliiliillil9137Yes, for YOU 🤣 you can’t be jarred about how other people feel, that’s YOUR experience. Come on chief this is not science hao. You typed a paragraph for what hhayi 🤣🤣🤣
When someone says, "You look better without makeup." What they mean is "your makeup application game is trash."
Some girls are really good at it and make it look natural. Others not so much. I mean, they don't necessarily look like clowns, but I hate that obvious makeup look. Like reds being too red, and the contrast with other lighter parts just isn't right.
People always say 1:59 that to me “I wish I had your confidence” or I get “I love how you can wear that style of clothes so confidently” lol
‘You look better without glasses’ like wow, I’m just trying to see
“I love that for you,” the funniest 😂
Abt 18yrs old I wore cheetah print suede leggings, chilling on the dance floor cuz another band was setting up, this girl tells me I could never wear those pants😭😭not picking up on the shade I said ofc u can….
Oh man the music thing, that one SENDS ME. I hate it when people belittle a hobby of mine.
You're so well spoken. Watch how I hold my utensils. It's crazy!😅
I was born and raised in the Netherlands, i am a muslim woman so i wear the headscarf. I work at a pharmacy, and when i help clients they literally sometimes say; your dutch is really good. Imlike: yea.. thank you.. i guess :)
I nearly choked while laughing during this vid!
daddy fuhad is definitely having a sugar crash in this ep🤣🤣
Ha! I had a guy I was dating who told me I had this doppelganger who worked at the pizza shop near his house. Of course I had to check it out. I met her and told her someone thought we looked alike, and I could see the resemblance (but she was years younger than me) and she says, "that's sweet". Aww way to break it to me😂. I could feel her thinking wtf..
You're smarter than you look. A genius even.
I know Ellis be BEET RED in the face from holding in his laughter.
😂😂😂
How 'bout....... "Wish you all the best"
So well spoken 😭😭😭😭felt that
My manager said that to me after returning from beach trip “look I’m almost as dark as you” 👀👀
I wouldn’t know whether I should laugh or feel disrespected 😂😂😂
James I’m literally living my school years with you.. also I got you’re so pretty for a black girl🤣🤣
I am loving these clips .. if I don’t want to watch the whole episode again I come here because you guys are funny as hell 😂lol 😂I love you guys
Oh no... I've been an "i love that for you" girl 😂
This episode is 1 of the funniest I've seen James been back to back
You look better in person … so my pictures are butters?
yes
8:42 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this yeah was too perfect
James was too good on this video😂😂😂😂
A 26yr old black guy told me i was the first black girl he had ever been with and sorry but i could not process what he said. It was too much pressure 😂
Heres another 😂
My sons dad said he got with a girl because she reminded him of me ... When i found out who it was 😩😤 i haven't spoken to him since, its been 3yrs 🤣🤣🤣 it was a whole insult even my mama was pissed 😂😂
Girl 🤣🤣
James went 3/3 on jokes in this clip🤣🤣🤣
There’s something about me that you know that I don’t 😂😂😂 when you in denial lmao
5:22 - listen to it. I fell off my chair LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
1:31 no when someone asks me do i think their partner is attractive. if don’t think so i always say “they are cute for u”
I don't think that last one was intended to be a compliment 🤣🤣🤣🤣
James nailed that passive aggressive “yea!” 😂
James really a comedian 😂😂
"You can come if you want" is literally my life lmao, whats so funny is they never asked me to go with them on their own, they only said "you can come if you want" if i asked them if i should come too. I always knew no one liked me in school ever and i never had friends, but i still wanted to go out sometimes so i went anyways. Even though i knew they dont like me.
Nah if they actually didn’t like you they wouldn’t have said that! They like you don’t worry!
Maybe they get the vibes that you don’t feel comfortable and it makes them feel awkward, so they want to extend the invite but not make you uncomfortable by doing so. Maybe have a smoke or drink before you go next time and enjoy being there. I’m sure you’re a ball of fun once you relax and come out of your shell. 😘❤️
James is a problem! 😂😅😂😅😂 & I freaking love it!!!
4:37, ffs Katherine. Whyyy? Thou are your name not worthy! 😂
I love this😂❤ thanks for the laugh
I LOVE these gents❤😂
Fuhads watch game tho 🔥🔥🔥
That dress is so cute but would look better on me...
That’s fight talk 😂😂
My side hurts so bad 🤣🤣🤣🤣
In South Africa its "You speak English so well "...... I swear I'd be holding back a hot backhand🤬
lol my friend from there can barely speak Afrikaans. 😂 He always speaks English.
bananery is wild hahahahahaah
now I'm rethinking every "compliment" I've gotten
Like I watched the pod already but the grrr spun me again 🤣🤣🤣🤣
James your mixed tho 🤣
The other day at work a girl said to me "oh you actually look pretty with your hair down"
“Look I’m almost as dark as yo-“
*unrolling whip*
6:27 my 6th grade teacher, was convinced i was nigerian, i called her out once cos she said ,”u speak so well ,u must be nigerian”… i was like bro have u heard nigerians speak, just say im dark and leave me tf alone😭😭
No, because the "I'm almost as dark as you" was out of HAND in school. One girl did it to her friend, and I visibly cringed and said ew no. Pissed her all the way off. I'm glad I could make the guy laugh, though.
Wish i had your confidence
Cool thankyou wish i had your bliss 😂
I went to a comedy show once and my brother was sat next to one wham geezer who turned his rotund self round and fully stared my bro out any time he laughed at a fat joke 😂😂😂😂
Everytime someone says you’re so well spoken, I tell them they’re not
"you got that mia"
I have seen a conversation happen where "you look better without makeup" was said to someone. And to be fair, it was true, but it was because the other person just didn't know how to properly do makeup.
10:43 when i first got my glasses at 15 my classmate told me that and i have never regretted not hitting someone like i have with him
bananery was brazy brudda. that shit was big brazy yo...
The "you look better without makeup" from me is literally a compliment. I dont care what anyone says. If i tell a girl she looks better without makeup all im saying is she has natural beauty and doesnt need any of them chemicals on her beautiful face... I understand how it can sound like an insult, but it is NOT.
It doesnt matter how you intended it to sound like it isn't an insult, it still is. What you feel about that backhanded compliment isn't the general perception and knowing that, and still telling women that, is knowingly letting them feel like they've been insulted regardless of what you think of it.
Because everything James said about that haircut is exactly how it feels to receive it. You're telling them all the time, care and effort they gave to put into their appearance was a waste.
And as a woman who's received this before and know other women who've received this before, collectively we all agree 'literally who asked?' every single time.
The only time a compliment of this nature is fine, is if you're compliment a woman that isn't already wearing make up and you want to make her feel beautiful in her natural skin, not when someone already went through effort to look a certain way.
@@Cajun_Seasoning that's on them then. Not on me. With all due respect that's just being insecure
Jaaaaamess😂😂😂 first bananery then grrr
8:42 just 😂😂😂
"ur house is surprisingly alot cleaner than I thought it was gonna be" I COULDN'T BELIEVE SHE SAID THIS RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE GIRL WHO LIVES IN SAID HOUSE 🤯🫣 My jaw hit the floor and the home owner smiled and loved it like a compliment. Who says that? Ppl weren't raised right.
BUT I SAY I LOVE THAT FOR YOU THINKING IT WAS A NICE THING BECAUSE I GENUINELY AM HAPPY FOR THEM AND LOVE TO SEE GOOD THINGS HAPPENING FOR GOOD PEOPLE😭
"I LOVE THAT FOR YOU" can be both good or bad.
I thought I was the only one that didn’t care for the “ I love that for you” saying. It gives mean girls vibes. Idk
BANANARY!
The coordination with the goodies 🫶🏽🤌🏾
"Have a nice life."
Bros we talking Dave Chappelle? The 🐐🐐🐐🐐
She saying your character and you don't act like ignorant 😂 I had 1 or 2 tell me that shit!
Great job to not have the camera go to Ellis after James said "banana'y"
I have always hated the skin comparison. I started making jabs saying I don't go in the sun to avoid wrinkles and suggest they find a better sunblock if they get baked that hard.
James yourself esteem was low back then to stay with a girl that said that to you. We love to see the growth
Remember guys, not all girls wear makeup for you. We wear it for us, for us to feel good and to be told we look better without is just useless info when we are dressed up.. Just say you look good. No one asked how I looked before I got ready.. Love you all keep making us laugh.
Why didn't you wanna show Ellis during the bananary joke 👀😂😂😂
I’ve had a LOT of people say “oh you speak English so well” just cause I’m from India and I had to go “yeah, colonised for 200 years, remember?” For it to feel just as awkward for them 😒