How to start over after a MAJOR Divorce or Breakup | 5 Steps

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  • @Daydreameruk
    @Daydreameruk Рік тому +5

    I’m very proud of you, VERY. It wasn’t just a break up and divorce. It was a whole heap more. And you rebuilt yourself. Phenomenal. Can’t believe that was 3 years ago, then I watched at least 3-5 years before that split. Seems I’ve been watching you forever!!
    You keep being you, because you are amazing. 💐

  • @classicoc1917
    @classicoc1917 Рік тому +15

    Hey Ash, I really enjoyed your video today, I've been watching you 4+ years now, a 12 year marriage is a major chapter in your life, and going home for introspection, recovery, and dealing with C19 all at the same time are further added chapters in your life, you found love again in the UK and it ran it course, just another chapter in your life, now your in Spain, very cool, enjoy life to the fullest and be resilient and be strong!
    Love your spirit, laughter, and your ever present smile! Take care, OC 🤗🇺🇸

    • @dianebaker5243
      @dianebaker5243 Рік тому

      Agree 😊

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +2

      Thanks O.C. Haha you just wrote my book. haha AND have all my chapters don to a T. A true fan. :) Thanks so much for following along in all these chapters. I promise there are more to come. -Ash

  • @Fantabbydozy2608
    @Fantabbydozy2608 Рік тому +1

    I really admire your whole attitude. You’re the most resilient and positive person, even if you didn’t always feel like it. I’m always impressed with your outlook. You being a naturally joyful person really does come through the screen, you always make me smile!

  • @jayinla310
    @jayinla310 Рік тому +4

    I am really impressed with how you are moving on. You show no animosity toward your ex and that is the best way to heal and focus on building a new life.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому

      Thank you. I can not hold animosity. Life is too short and I really don't have time for it. :)

  • @JohnandCaraRetiredTravellers
    @JohnandCaraRetiredTravellers Рік тому +7

    Ashley you are an inspiration! We’ve been following you for I think it’s been over 7 years and we are so proud of you! We have many chapters in our lives hopefully we learn from the good and the bad, you are doing the hard healing work successfully!!
    Thanks for sharing this journey with us! ~Cara ❤

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +2

      Awe Cara I have loved having you bother here through the journey. :)
      -Ash

  • @pamelawatson2366
    @pamelawatson2366 Рік тому +2

    Oh Ashley I have been following you throughout all the ups and downs and you have been fantastic. Yes the stuffing was knocked out of you but you were always authentic and loving. You deserve a bright and fulfilling future. ❤❤

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 Рік тому +3

    Ashley you are ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL ... both inside and out ❤
    It's always been such a pleasure watching you. You truly are a gift and I'm so glad to have had the chance to witness your light come back.
    Thank you so much for sharing!

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +1

      That's so kind of you to say. Thank you so much. It means more than you know. -Ash

  • @SoxRoxBoston
    @SoxRoxBoston Рік тому +2

    On this channel you have been very open on what is going on with yourself. You have talked about the ups and downs of relationships, jobs, visa issues and other things. Through these you have shown strength and personal growth. I wish you nothing but the best 😊

  • @RobertRod818
    @RobertRod818 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, this video is just on time.
    I'm going through a separation just right now. I have been depressed for the last few months. I'm getting better, but at my worst my life didn't matter.
    Thank you again, your words of encouragement are so helpful.

  • @CC-gq7sx
    @CC-gq7sx Рік тому +3

    Great for this video to share what it can feel like on the other side after a divorce or breakup. Hearing the good and bad sides will be helpful who are contemplating separation, or find themselves involved in one. Appreciate the bravery to share your experience and thoughts. Nice having these videos once in awhile to view. Good luck moving forward!

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому

      Thank you C C. No one ever plans to go through those type of things but when they do happen its nice to know others understand and what helped.
      I like making content that can speak to peoples hearts. Thank you for also enjoying it. -Ash

  • @ynys_mon6928
    @ynys_mon6928 Рік тому

    Bless you Ash. Wishing you all the best for the future.

  • @Lee-bt2cy
    @Lee-bt2cy Рік тому +3

    I remember that video you made in Paris. When you'd kind of made your mind up about going to Barcelona & learning Spanish & I thought what a positive move, just to throw yourself into something of interest to build around. And to see you now talking about feeling happy, content & enjoying life again is a really good thing for me to hear, and a really good thing for you in regards finding your feet. You've come a long way. 🙂 I'm happy for you.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +1

      SO TRUE LEE! Its crazy how life can change so quickly. That video was only back in June and so much has happened between then and now. I am so grateful I have this opportunity to be here and it would not have been possible with out the experiences I have had. :) Its awesome!

    • @Lee-bt2cy
      @Lee-bt2cy Рік тому

      @@WingingItWithAsh waw. June. That's crazy. Seems like ages ago. Ha. That's not what I meant to say. Doesn't seem long ago, but then it kind of does in regards where it seemed like you were. That's what I meant. Anxiety.

  • @freeplace5243
    @freeplace5243 Рік тому +6

    When you go through what you have been through and like you come out better equipped to have successful life it is a big win, sometimes destiny pushes us into change to succeed. Sounds corny but I believe that. Ash, all the best!

  • @Priyasisland
    @Priyasisland Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing. Been watching you since you announced your break up and made your new channel. Keep going, and keep being positive as alway. Best of luck!

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому

      What a time to join in on my adventure. Thanks Priya! -Ash

  • @themissdior1235
    @themissdior1235 Рік тому

    Ash you have come so far and succeeded . Im so glad you are now happy within yourself. You are living best my friend:)

  • @junebelcourt-suhaka1434
    @junebelcourt-suhaka1434 Рік тому +1

    Great video, thanks for sharing! I have watched you on the Way Away and then Winging it With Ash! You are doing a great job and am enjoying everything you share😃

  • @lukeamsterdam
    @lukeamsterdam Рік тому +1

    fantastic ❤ you're so generous, resilient and an inspiration. and funny too. i always watch with a big smile on my face 😅

  • @michellelaw7394
    @michellelaw7394 Рік тому

    Dearest Ashley, you are so brave and love you positivity. Support you as always

  • @anapalmaprince2833
    @anapalmaprince2833 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this inspirational video Ash ✨I can't tell you how many times I've started over lol and every time I like the progress ive made and the new spot I land until the next start over session ( hope this makes sense). Keep on shining ✨😍✨🎉

  • @annewilliams8116
    @annewilliams8116 Рік тому

    You are an incredible person, so positive👍😊 All the best Ash

  • @andrewfitzgerald2327
    @andrewfitzgerald2327 Рік тому

    Don't look back Ashley look forward, there is nothing you can do about the past. Learn from things good or bad trust some but always look after yourself first. You are an intelligent young woman with the world at your feet.

  • @krystlynnemuscutt9552
    @krystlynnemuscutt9552 Рік тому

    We love you Ash and you have done so much and have been so strong!❤

  • @Mel.H_
    @Mel.H_ Рік тому +2

    Happy Saturday Ash! ❤🎉

  • @RCTrailblazr
    @RCTrailblazr Рік тому +1

    Great video!
    Thank you for sharing. Your advice is very appreciated:)encouraging.
    Take care.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +1

      GOOD! Encouraging was exactly what I was going for. -Ash

  • @AndyKing1963
    @AndyKing1963 Рік тому +1

    great advice Ash, many of the things you mentioned rang true for me. As ever, wishing you all the best

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +1

      Thanks so much! I hope it helps those who need to hear it. -Ash

  • @dianebaker5243
    @dianebaker5243 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing 👍 🥰

  • @renee2712
    @renee2712 Рік тому +1

    I admire you so much! I wish I was half as fearless as you. ❤

  • @DeanSinger
    @DeanSinger Рік тому +2

    the good chapters will come back - yes you've certainly gone through lot of 'downs' !

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +1

      Ups and Downs Dean. Despite the downs I have so so many ups. :) I have a whole UA-cam channel to prove it...PLUS MORE! -Ash

    • @DeanSinger
      @DeanSinger Рік тому

      @@WingingItWithAsh 2 good channels - what I'm saying is you have risen above the ashes(pun not meant) - why your parents called you Ashley - that bit a joke! No, you have brushed the bad times away very well !

  • @ajf9041
    @ajf9041 Рік тому

    Ash you are such an inspiration! You have been through a lot and yet you handle yourself so gracefully. ❤️ Starting over IS hard I’m no stranger! Look where you are now though, God has led you to exactly where you should be. Spain looks amazing and I love your videos of fun things you do there as a local! 💕

  • @cryptolife77
    @cryptolife77 Рік тому +1

    Fair play, for moving to spain and starting afresh, your beautiful, lovely personality so dont worry, you gonna find love again.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому

      haha Thank you. I really do hope so. Even though I have had heartbreaks in the past I truly desire to be in love again.

  • @TravelAdventureswithEricB
    @TravelAdventureswithEricB Рік тому

    Ash you are an amazing and strong person.

  • @gwynethglas-brown9171
    @gwynethglas-brown9171 Рік тому

    You come so far Ashley 💕travel always been your passion you could see that in all your older videos, have such a lovely Family that help you through 💕Hope your parents are doing well ?
    Are they going to be visiting you in Barcelona at some point 😊?.
    Hows your Spanish course going ? Have a Good Week 🥰

  • @superturka
    @superturka Рік тому +8

    My dear Ashly, this universe is not being fair to you..

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +10

      I would rather live a life where I take chances and grown than a life where I am stagnant and always do the same things. :) To me its worth it. -Ash

  • @tomassanesson902
    @tomassanesson902 Рік тому +1

    You are so awesome 👍❤❤❤

  • @lindalewis7295
    @lindalewis7295 Рік тому +1

    Love to know the financial side of your travels does youtube fund all your travels, or do you have to use savings ?

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому

      YES both. UA-cam has good months and bad months. I do side projects and I am currently looking for a remote position to help compensate.

  • @tonys1636
    @tonys1636 Рік тому +1

    Therapy? what's that, as someone well into their 70's only ever been told to get a grip and pull one's self together. Mental Health was never talked about let alone see a Therapist. Yes, my divorce was hard but became a lot less stressful once we both ditched the Lawyers, they were just interested in making money and causing stress and arguments as more paid hours for them. The Court was happy with both the settlement and the arrangements for the 4 under 16 still at home Children we had both agreed.

  • @rinku1160
    @rinku1160 Рік тому

    Many Assamese people (Assam) marriage in mother Kamakhya temple

  • @maxwelledisonsmum
    @maxwelledisonsmum Рік тому +1

    Where were you when I got divorced 20 years ago Ashley? I could’ve use this advice. 😜It’s all good now though.😊

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +1

      Hahah, Alive but with out so much wisdom lol I wonder what 17 year old ash would have told you. haha I had no idea what was ahead of me at that age.haha -Ash

  • @MrDavfit
    @MrDavfit Рік тому +1

    How anyone can go through life without a gym is beyond me ,but their easy to spot

  • @diegolisboadesouza8792
    @diegolisboadesouza8792 Рік тому

    Linda mais vídeos 💟💟💟💟

  • @chrisdc1689
    @chrisdc1689 Рік тому

    Ash you're a hawtie so I wouldn't worry or be sad about finding your dream mate soon.

  • @Rula2020
    @Rula2020 Рік тому

    Instead of thinking that you were married for 12 years, think of you had a friend for all this time that you spent it doing cool things together with. You still have the whole life ahead of you and that the true love is still ahead. Enjoy this carefee time before you have kids ;) then the real family life starts lol

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Рік тому +1

      it's not helpful to make assumptions about kids

    • @Rula2020
      @Rula2020 Рік тому

      @@jj-if6it well having kids is part of growing up and becoming an adult. I feel that is pretty good assumption when you start a family

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it Рік тому

      @@Rula2020 no my point is some people can't/won't start a family. So don't assume she will because she already feels the concerned about that

    • @Rula2020
      @Rula2020 Рік тому +1

      @@jj-if6it yeah I see what you are saying. I was just wish her the best from my point of view. But valid point, someone else could feel different about it

  • @brumsgrub8633
    @brumsgrub8633 Рік тому +1

    Why would you care that people know your divorced. Who cares what others think.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  Рік тому +1

      AGH its something I have been plagued with my who life. I try not to care but I still do. :)

  • @HoneymoonAlways
    @HoneymoonAlways Рік тому +1

    Wooow! 💜 though I am not divorced, I have gone through some big life changes in the past few years and I relate so much to many of the things you shared here! I think this video is gonna help a lot of people 🫶💜💜 - Michelle

  • @duanewhitacre5995
    @duanewhitacre5995 Рік тому +3

    ❤🙏💛🫂