Hi Tom. I am a medical student. Thank you for sharing your story and perspective on the health care you received. I will keep Andrea in mind always and try to learn from the emotional interactions you both did enjoy with doctors and times you wish you would have been treated differently. I am striving to be an empathetic and compassionate doctor; you and Andreas story will help me in the journey. I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.
NORML it seems it’s rare for an ER doctor to actually care about a patient’s pain. I have been sent to ER by my neurologist for migraines that have lasted 2 weeks, and the doctor, and even the nurse, has accused me of just drug seeking. I haven’t been to ER in a few years now, no matter how bad the migraine, and even if my neurologist has told me too. I’d rather suffer at home, and at least keep my dignity.
@@loriadams7724 I've always had pretty bad experiences in A&E (the British equivalent of the ER) so unfortunately this seems to be an international issue. I've always had great experiences with my consultant and specialists thankfully, but it's incredibly frustrating being told my pain isn't as bad as I know it is. it must be even worse having to pay for healthcare. Im sorry you're suffering, I hope it eases x
Me too, I used to watch them all the time then I got so sick and nearly died and I stopped. God spared me, for which I’m very grateful, but now I’m well enough and have returned to this channel and I’m so very sad. I’m so sorry for the family’s loss. I know she’s in heaven, but she’ll be so very missed. A beautiful lady and a beautiful family. God Bless.
I waited 2 years to watch this. I didn't know if I could until now. I used to fall asleep to her voice when my babies were little and I couldn't sleep. Her folding laundry and talking....it soothed me. She was a stranger but at the same time a close friend. She was so gentle and kind and funny. I haven't heard her voice since her death because it hurt so much, even now. Your strength and faith are beautiful. She would be so proud of you and the kids.
I just landed on some of Andrea’s videos in the last days and admired how organized she was. I clicked into the comments section and noticed several people commenting how she is with Jesus now and that struck me because she is so young and seemingly healthy in these videos that I saw and even mentioned subtly the possibility of having more kids in the future so I knew she was young enough and healthy enough to consider future pregnancies and hearing that she had passed away didn’t make sense to me. This sent me on a rabbit trail and I clicked onto your channel and scrolled down to the videos and quickly saw this one. I sat and listened to the entire story and I cried as soon as she needed to hear the doctor come back in and repeat to her again the news that she was dying and how she wanted to go home to see her kids. I couldn’t stop crying all the way through your video from that point on, as a mother of four myself. Andrea and your family and your UA-cam channel all are completely unfamiliar to me but this story just tears my heart apart and I can only imagine your kids going back and watching her videos just to see her face and hear her voice. Her video on Let’s Talk About Kindergarten she goes through her scrapbook of Asher in his kindergarten. My oldest is also named Asher and he is starting this curriculum this year and that’s the whole reason I landed here on Andrea’s videos and her story. Tom, and Mills family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that there is a gaping hole in each of your hearts that can never be filled. I pray tonight, even though this is apparently 4 years later, that your hearts will find healing and joy in Christ and that the memories of laughter and happiness with Andrea keep her alive in your hearts in the warmest and most comforting ways. God bless your family.
Jesus will restore everything in his divine perfect kingdom. You need to get a kjv bible. Death is defeated by love. For the true believers of 1 Corinthians 15 1 to 4. God bless you all.
On behalf of every spouse who has been there, we understand the frustration, the terror, and the numbness that fogs your memory in places. "Tommy" is making Andrea so proud that she chose him to be the daddy of her children.
I couldn't agree more. Your such a great dad. Recently due to a dentist screwing up pulling my tooth. I got an infection that lasted 3.5 months. Four rounds of antibiotics, the ER, etc. Never so sick. My youngest who is disabled had to come on the ambulance with me and stayed with me in the ER forever, freezing as their air was way too cold. My son's father would not watch him, would not bring me to the hospital. Many times I have and still do collect bottles and cans for medicine. My point is I was and am always so stressed out because all my son has is me. I'm a mommy to 8 all but 2 are grown. The ENT office thought I'd have to have a 4.5 hour surgery under general anesthesia due to this. I got so scared because I said I couldn't as I have no one to watch my son. I can only eat mostly a liquid diet now, which has caused me to loose too much weight which I cant affird to loose weight which caused my iron stores to be low and me anemic. Which caused me to faint and my little boy found me. Which again is scary. So you, Tom may think you can't do this or it's not how Andrea did it but give yourself a pat on your shoulder. Your kids have you. That is such a comforting feeling as a parent and for your children. My son and I have watched your channel for a long time. It warms our hearts, your doing good. I asked all my subscribers to pray and told them about your go fund ne and asked them to share it. Which eventhough I was so sick. Made me feel good that I could do something to help all of you. The just if my story is your giving your children the best gift knowing they can count on you. That your not collecting cans and bottles out of garbages for money. I know your in pain and I cry watching you get teary eyed, I say cry, it does not make you less of a man. God bless and Much Love.
Dear brother I have been a widow for 26 years my husband was killed in a plane crash my two daughters were 3 and 11 when he died If it wasnt for the strength The Lord Jesus gave me I wouldn't be here today when you think you simply cant make it one more day cry out to Him for help He will surely help ! I lost my brother Father and Mother in less than 3 months 2 years ago It still hurts so bad somedays but Gods infinite comfort is real ! Iam praying for you and the children everything will be alright stand back and see the mighty hand of God move !
My first thought was you don't need to explain to others what happened, it's not our business and people are nosey. My ending thought was, I appreciate you documenting this for your babies for when they are older and want to know what happened. I so love your family and my heart just breaks for you. Continually praying for you guys.
I think Tom is honoring his wife by sharing what happened to her because she shared her life with social sites because everyone would wonder what happened and where did she go? I can't get over how he held himself together so well while he told his story about what happened to her.
I worked Emergency and ICU for a few years. The hearing is the last to go of the senses. Even after someone's heart stops, they can still hear for four minutes, until brain death occurs. She could hear you. She knows she was surrounded by love.
She was such a wonderful Mama. I can't figure out how she found the time to do everything she did. She was so patient, creative, and kind. Rest in peace, sweet Andrea.
I love you dad. I know Andrea must have been shocked and scared. It happened so fast. There was really no time to process things. But in a way that’s a blessing. Our minds can be the most frightening when they are left the time to think. And unfortunately doctors have failed so many people on a daily basis that many people have given up on them. I’ve met so many people who’ve lost faith in doctors. People who were left to save themselves. But Andrea left a wonderful legacy and lived a wonderful life. She lived more in her time then most people ever will. Because she was a woman of action. I know she’s still with you and wants you to be happy and carry on her spirit in her children. ❤️
Andrea had the type of breast cancer that shows few symtoms and they seemed like such happy people and from hearing the story it seemed to happen so fast and while i am sorry for Tom and his children i think it is kind of a blessing that they didn't have to spend long periods of time waiting for her to pass away.
I lost a family member due to something VERY similar. Her placenta detached and it shuts down your organs. She was only 31. So sorry for your loss. Andrea was a wonderful mother, wife, and friend to all of us on UA-cam.
My father flatlined several times. He said it was unbelievably peaceful. Words could not describe what he was experiencing. He had others there to meet him. He felt something pulling him back. His grandmother who had passed so many years before him told him it was not his time. When he came back, he was a bit upset that he was here and not there. His purpose and mission were not realized until he was older. He told me, never be afraid of dying.
You did good by your wife! I was watching the California vacation video today from 2017 and where she said ‘I find him so sexy because no matter how tired he is he’s still driving and taking care of us. He always takes care of his family.’ She adored you Tom and I know you adored her also. I pray God continues to bring comfort to you and your kids. God Bless you!
All this time later I still cry when I see the hurt in your eyes, Tom. It's so apparent that she not only had a huge impact on all of us, but the greatest to you and your beautiful children. Please know that she is being remembered.
Tom I have been in your shoes it had been 9 years come November. The last thing my husband said to me was don’t forget my cloths thinking he was coming home, he died 24 hour later, It will be very hard but it does get better with time. Love and prayers for you and the family. Sandy Poole
This comment is long overdue. As difficult as I'm sure it was, it was very thoughtful and generous of you to make this video. I, for one, appreciate the the chronological description of events leading up to your dear wife's passing. I thoroughly enjoyed her videos and and am pleased to see through your more recent videos that your beautiful family is thriving despite of your tremendous loss. Kudos to you, Tom.
Like someone else had said, I too still watch Andrea’s old videos. It may have been two years but it isn’t the same. Andrea had such a kind and generous way about her. I miss her exuberance and her spunky spirit. R. I. P. Andrea, we love you.
Tom, you will never know me. My story is unimportant and I never even knew about Andrea's channel or your family. During the last week or so of Andrea's life, God started putting all kinds of channels in front of me and they were all desperate requests for prayer for your dear wife. I started praying for her and watching this sad tale unfold. All the while I had the sense she was headed home to heaven and that I should get to know you and the children. I believe I've been assigned as a prayer warrior for you all, so just wanted to let you know. I pray for your family every day....for all manner of needs. I pray for your heart, your devastated heart. Your trying to move forward caring for the kids while being lonely and while grieving. I can't say I understand; I have no words of wisdom to impart, but brother Tom, I'm here. I care about YOU and I'm praying for you. Please don't misunderstand my words. I only want you to understand that God cares about your needs as well as your children's and He has assigned people (I'm not going to egotistically think I'm the only one) to have your back in prayer. Stand in the Hand of God dear brother...You are loved!
Kim Marie Lesso What a sweet, caring Sister-In-Christ you are!!!!!!! I also believe The GOOD LORD sent you to these channels as a Prayer Warrior, as well! I never seen or heard of this channel, until right now, But, I wish I could have got to see this amazing woman. I will keep him and the children in my Prayers, as well as you, too!!!!!!! *GOD BLESS!!!!!!!* ♥️❤️♥️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am also praying for you and your family! I don’t know you, but I can see the hurt in your eyes and my heart breaks for you all. I know this is a hard thing to go through especially when you have children. I pray that you will find peace in this trying time in your life. I pray for your whole family and may God bless you !!!
Tom, it sounds like everything that could've been done for Andrea was done. Don't let comments from strangers make you question the decisions that you both made. You were there, they were not. God bless and keep you and the kids. ❤
Andrea was a very special woman and I’m glad she created her UA-cam channel because it let everyone see how kind hearted she was. I hope you and the kids will stay strong, close and keep some of her traditions going.
I'm so sorry about Andrea's death, I didn't know about it until today. I've been thinking about her lately even though I haven't watched her channel in awhile. I just looked this up because I wanted to tell her something... When I was watching her channel, I was also pregnant with a little girl and I watched her "girls room" episode. Andrea was inspirational to me about raising a large family in a loving, simple way. I wanted to be like her. During the video, she said one of her daughters name was Eden and I fell in love with that name. I now have a 2 1/2 year old named Eden, after her daughter, which also reminds me of the loving way Andrea mothered her children. I've been meaning to get this in writing to send her this message, but I didn't know about what happened to her. So, I wanted to let you know that your wife reached deep into the hearts of those she influenced for good. Prayers for you and your family. (Thank you Andrea. -Janet)
I had not watched the videos for a while so it was a shock when YT recommended this video. This is super sad. Please accept my deepest condolences. Many blessings to the family.
You did what you could, Tom. We don't always understand God's ways but we know that God is in control. God bless you and your family ❤ and thank you for keeping the channel going.
This is so heartbreaking Tom. I’m sure the heart of your home is badly missed. I’m thinking of your family everyday and always look forward to seeing your next video. Thank you for telling us the facts.
it took me 3 years to watch this.. when she passed it shook me to my core and I didn't even know her personally but her sweet gentle spirit and wonderful homeschool and mothering touched me so much. thank you for sharing about your beloved wife. I haven't watched your channel much since she passed, to be honest it just hurt too much. I pray your family is doing well.
Oh Tom, my heart breaks for you & the family. Andrea was so special, she will live on forever through you, her children & these videos. For years to come she will continue to teach countless people everything she has shown in her videos. She may be gone from earth but she will certainly NEVER be forgotten. People like her are so rare & I feel lucky to have “known” her. All my love...KD❤️
I lost my mom from cancer at 27 she was 62. That connection between mom and child is so strong even in death the bond is still there! Look into the Brca gene. My mom passed from Ovarian and I learned all about it. You did an amazing job with this video something like this is never easy...she is SO proud of you all!!
Thanks for this, Tom. It's my opinion that our death stories are just as important as birth and health recovery stories. It's important for us to talk about it, and I'm glad to see how healthy your family deals with death. I remember even before Andrea died she said you guys talk openly with your kids about death, and it's good to see her own death was no exception. Much love and further healing to you and the family.
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 May Andrea Mills Rest In Peace and in Heaven ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 🙏🌈✨ I’m 19 with no kids but I’ve been subscribed to this channel since I was 16. I loved Andrea and the rest of the fam so much. I always binged watched her videos. I remember in August I kept checking to see to see if any new videos were uploaded. And I started freaking out after weeks of waiting, I knew something was wrong 💔 my heart is still torn I miss her so much, I did cry after the first UA-cam update and I even made a Facebook just to get updates!! Thank you Andrea, Tom, and the rest of the Mills family for sharing these videos and letting me be apart of your life for the last 3 years (and many more I hope 🙏💕) In my young life I learned so much from Andrea and when I become a mother I will implement some of her ways. Fly High Andrea 👼🕊
I will be praying for you Tom. I lost my husband 8 years ago and I still remember his last days in vivid detail too and the small comforts of being able to say “ I love you” that last time....May God continue to comfort you. ❤️
I look at your eyes as they are so sad darlin’, I feel your heart’s pain...I want to reach through this screen and give you a long long hug. God Bless you Tom.
Tom, I am struck with how good a dad, husband and keeper of the faith you are. You and Andrea did your level best, in this most trying, shocking and unfathomable circumstance. We will never know, or have the capacity to know, the reasons things happen as they do on this earth. I know God is well pleased with you, His good and faithful servant. Though the road is not easy, you are shepherding your kids and re-working systems as needed. Thank you for sharing this information about the events of August.. It was a precious gift to us as I cannot imagine how painful it was for you to go back in memory to tell that story; it is greatly appreciated by all who love you, Andrea and your family. Godspeed, Paige
My heart just breaks for you, Tom. I know this was very difficult for you to do. I wish I could reach across the internet and give you a hug. Once breast cancer has metastasized, there is really nothing that can be done. I'm so glad that she got to see her children, they were everything to her. I'm praying for all of you. Please don't think that you need to show us that video footage. Those were very private moments, and perhaps should remain so.
You are a Brave Man to share the story of Andrea’s Graduation to Heaven. No matter what was done right or wrong or at incorrect times, or whatever may feel as “mistakes”. I’m a single Mother who raised 6 alone. I lost 9 infants. I lost my husband. I was alone, in a locality where no one knew me, so support was nil. Many mistakes were made, but in those “mistakes” one can see the benefit. After One slips into unconsciousness or a coma, they lose their hearing after they take their last breaths. Be Comforted knowing that Precious Andrea heard you, heard Your children.what a joy to leave this temporary body, hearing the voices of Your Children!
I stopped watching for awhile because I’ve been so busy and to come back to watching to find out she passed away is so heart breaking I loved seeing her videos especially during the winter was always my favorite and clothes shopping. I’m praying for your family and know her memory will live on with me forever.
Tom, I still have no words. I think of Andrea every single day. I think of you and the kids every day as well. You all feel like family to me although we have never met and I mourn Andrea's loss so deeply. It's clear by your online "family" that she was special to so many of us.
Sweet Andrea, oh how I prayed for a different outcome. I am so glad you are not suffering with that pain anymore though. I can't even imagine, breaks my heart to think of you in so much pain. You will forever be the standard of how a mother should be! Thank you for being you and teaching all of us.
it's crazy how all these doctors make people wait for so long in such a critical condition and wasting time when every minute matters. they should have done ultrasound of her abdomen (liver and gallbladder) asap instead of being focused on her blood pressure. (I worked as a nurse in Russia, that's where I am from, I guess here they use different protocols). I am so sorry for your loss, it's heartbreaking.. I wish Andrea took care of her health and had gotten checked earlier to prevent this disease, but I guess she started having symptoms when it was already too late, cause cancer doesn't really hurt at early stages .. RIP
Thank you for taking the time and talking this through with us, Tom. I think of Miss Andrea often and I miss her voice a lot. Love you Mills Family! ❤️🇵🇷
Tom thank you that would have been so hard for you to do ..... we don’t need to know all this but in the future the little kids will appreciate this vlog .... as time goes by we do forget the small details and this vlog will help you remember ... to give them an accurate account of her passing ...... you are doing a wonderful job with the children ... you have to take each day as it comes 💜
I haven’t watched in a while and I’m so saddened to hear she passed. Sending prayers for all of y’all. This is so sad and I can’t imagine the pain y’all went through. She will be missed dearly 🙏🏻❤️
God bless you Tom I cannot begin to imagine how difficult telling this story has been for you. I believe you have answered any questions we might have had. Thank you for letting us all know how it happened so darn quickly. I just can't believe how in less than a week her functions decreased. You and your family are in my prayers. I think you are an absolute wonderful dad. The kids really looked great last night game night. Hope Asher is feeling better today. And also hoping things went well with Knuckles. Thank you for keeping these videos going I absolutely love seeing your family.
Tom, you are so brave and so strong. You are selfless to give us this closure. I appreciate how painful this was to share. We are all still praying for your sweet family. You are amazing, you are loved.
I was thinking of Andrea today and I’m not sure why. I am not religious, I have no plans on having children, but I felt so drawn to Andrea. I watched her channel for a long time before her devastating loss and she has truly stuck with me. I hope you and your children are doing okay and I know you are all so strong. Keep the faith, you will see your darling Andrea and Cyrus again ❤️
Mind boggling how life takes us through twists and turns.Life is precious and short.At the age of 57 how I wish I had done things differently.Tom,you and Andrea and the children always manage to take me to a place of what I feel is truly how God intends for us to live and be.Feeling the sweet Holy Spirit In Andrea’s voice.The innocence in her beautiful eyes.The wisdom and strength in her every being.She is irreplaceable.I love her and I miss her.You do not have to do what you do.Sharing with us.Being transparent and reliving the pain.God bless you and the children and all who loved her.I feel like a Mother hen hovering around you all.I weep and wish I could erase it all.However,knowing God his his own plans for our lives,I pray on.Your eyes break me.I love you.And those children.We are family.We/I are here for you.If I we’re healthy enough believe me,I would be right there in Wyoming.But I will continue to do all I can,in Jesus name to be a blessing to you all.And a heartfelt thank you to each and every friend on here of yours who continue to send gifts and contribute to the gofundme account.The needs will not end so we must stay prayed up and be available for you.Continue to tell us what is needed.Hugs Tom,great big hugs from Illinois.🙏❣️
I’m so sorry for your loss. I looked up to Andrea for being such a perfect mom. I hope I’m half as good as she was. She will not be forgotten by any means. 💛 God has gained a wonderful angel, one day all her babies and you will be reunited. 💛
I'm sorry for the loss of your wife. It's such a big loss for your family and so personal. It's brave of you to share your story, and helpful to others who have experienced major losses.
Tom, thank you for sharing this difficult story with us. We share in your grief and heartache. Andrea in her short life left a lasting impression and blessed many lives with her videos, beautiful smile and lovely laughter. She will be missed.
I waited a day to say this, but I just want to acknowledge your son, Cyrus. We lost our precious little guy in 2016 at about the same gestation. It was so hard and I’m so very sorry that you both had to go through that in those last few days together. 😢💔
I’m so sorry to hear that this happened. What a heart breaking turn of events for your family. I first came across your videos looking for videos of small houses with lots of beds & found the video of your boy’s room. She was a tremendous blessing & I know she’s watching over y’all today!
Tom,you are such a wonderful husband and dad! This video has me in tears again about what your family has been through. I have watched you guys for years and think of you as UA-cam friends. What brings me comfort is knowing that Jesus has her and she is with him forever!!! I am so happy your beautiful kids have all of her videos as proof of what an incredible mom, wife and friend she was. God Bless The Mills family.
I never heard of Andrea or saw any of her videos before she passed - I have watched them all since - I wish I had known her - I wish I could have met her - she was someone I would want for a friend. I love the way she cherished her family and made them all feel special. She was a beautiful precious treasure and I'm sorry I never knew her.
Same exact thing with me except that I watched ONE video and the next day found out that she had passed away the week before....I was soooo SAD. I also wish I would have known her. She would have made an excellent friend. I STILL want to be a friend to her by watching her children grow up and giving them encouragement and love even if it is just on UA-cam. As long as Tom is vlogging I will NEVER stop watching! The children are a joy. If only Andrea was still here awaiting baby Cyrus' birth. 😞 MISS YOU ANDREA MILLS 💕💕💕💕💕
Thank you for sharing this. I know it is difficult for you. Perhaps your openness in sharing will be of help to someone else in the future. You are blessed to have those beautiful children. May God keep His hand of protection upon you.
I had no idea your lovely wife had passed.. I’ve been watching your families videos my entire pregnancy fallowing all of her very precise prenatal care, I’ve seen the births you’ve aired she was a huge comfort to me and your children are so well behaved and the house so full of love Im just beside myself for you. I know it’s been a few years but my most sincere condolences on this inconceivable loss to your family. ♥️🙏
Thank you, I really appreciate it, most of these kinds of comments have stopped and I miss them, so I was glad to see this one. She was amazing and I miss her so much.
God picked you to be Andrea's husband for a reason. Your a great husband and father Thomas. I feel so bad for Andrea. I think of her often and pray for her even though I didn't know her. She left a mark in my heart.
I agree with your breastfeeding theory..that it slowed things down. You are so strong and brave to share this with us. Thank you❤ I will forever miss seeing Andrea. There was just something about her that made her like no other..she was just pure beauty inside and out.
This scares me. Because I’m breastfeeding and having issues just like this. And the docs just keep saying I’m fine. And the VA won’t do anything because “breastfeeding is a condition”
This scares me. Because I’m breastfeeding and having issues just like this. And the docs just keep saying I’m fine. And the VA won’t do anything because “breastfeeding is a condition”
😢😢😢😢😢😢🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼. Oh Tom...... I’m sooooo heart broken for you ...... no words ...... only groaning in prayer for you . You have been through too much 😢😢😢😢😢🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you for sharing Tom. My heart breaks...the tears fall. I’m sure it’s not easy. You have been so open....more than we may even deserve. The love for your family that I have found in my heart is genuine. Bless all of you....and may each day bring a little less hurt....less...never gone.
My deepest sympathy. As a breast cancer survivor it is so shocking to hear what she went through. My husband died 5 years ago from liver failure broke my heart. I now have liver issues from taking a med to fight of the breast cancer. God bless you and all your family
Thankyou for telling us about Andrea's last few weeks, Tom, especially as it was so painful for you to do so. I lost my darling husband in March 2018, and went through a terrible time while it was happening, so I understand how talking about it can help to ease the grief for you. It's been 18 months for me, Tom, and I still grieve for my Bob, but please believe me that you will learn how to cope with that, too and, with your faith, it should help strengthen you in this journey you are all going through without Andrea there to guide and support you. I just wish I'd had the records of my Bob's life, the way that you have of Andrea, Tom - it will be a blessing for you, as it is for your children already, when you are ready to face it all properly :) God Bless to all of you, Tom :)
You was a great husband, Andrea loved you! Your a great dad. So sorry for your loss! I am keeping the family continually in my prayers & thoughts! ❤from Oklahoma!!
Thank you for your honesty with all of us. You did a magnificent job taking care of and loving your beautiful wife. No one could have done it better. Never doubt that.
Thank you so much for sharing. Andrea’s legacy lives on in you, your children, your home, this channel, and in everything person and thing she touches.❤️ so grateful for her beautiful spirit and life. You are doing awesome, we are praying for you and your family!🙏🏻
Oh my goodness you have been incredibly strong . The trauma of the whole ordeal is unimaginable . Be.proud of yourself . Sending love to you and your family ❤️
Oh my goodness I am so sorry for your loss. I had never watched your videos but this one showed up in my feed. I am now watching and crying my eyes out the video where she talked about her mother’s passing. Your family is very strong and I just wanted to let you know you have my heart and are in my thoughts and prayers for strength to get through this pain that will never end but will subside.
Hi Tom. I am a medical student. Thank you for sharing your story and perspective on the health care you received. I will keep Andrea in mind always and try to learn from the emotional interactions you both did enjoy with doctors and times you wish you would have been treated differently. I am striving to be an empathetic and compassionate doctor; you and Andreas story will help me in the journey. I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.
NORML it seems it’s rare for an ER doctor to actually care about a patient’s pain. I have been sent to ER by my neurologist for migraines that have lasted 2 weeks, and the doctor, and even the nurse, has accused me of just drug seeking. I haven’t been to ER in a few years now, no matter how bad the migraine, and even if my neurologist has told me too. I’d rather suffer at home, and at least keep my dignity.
@@loriadams7724 I've always had pretty bad experiences in A&E (the British equivalent of the ER) so unfortunately this seems to be an international issue. I've always had great experiences with my consultant and specialists thankfully, but it's incredibly frustrating being told my pain isn't as bad as I know it is. it must be even worse having to pay for healthcare. Im sorry you're suffering, I hope it eases x
Erin Young thank you for your kind reply!! I am doing well, and I pray you are too. 💜❤️
Kirsten thank you for listening, really hearing him Kirsten. I wish you all the best with your studies may you always have a kind loving heart ❤️
SOOO Sorry ! May God Comfort You All As a Mother Would Comfort A Child.
This is so crazy, I haven't watched the channel in a while, I didn't even know she died....
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ik i only have watched a few like three years ago!?
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I only found out because Jamerril mentioned her grief.
Me too, I used to watch them all the time then I got so sick and nearly died and I stopped. God spared me, for which I’m very grateful, but now I’m well enough and have returned to this channel and I’m so very sad. I’m so sorry for the family’s loss. I know she’s in heaven, but she’ll be so very missed. A beautiful lady and a beautiful family. God Bless.
I waited 2 years to watch this. I didn't know if I could until now. I used to fall asleep to her voice when my babies were little and I couldn't sleep. Her folding laundry and talking....it soothed me. She was a stranger but at the same time a close friend. She was so gentle and kind and funny. I haven't heard her voice since her death because it hurt so much, even now.
Your strength and faith are beautiful. She would be so proud of you and the kids.
Thanks for coming back to watch :)
I just landed on some of Andrea’s videos in the last days and admired how organized she was. I clicked into the comments section and noticed several people commenting how she is with Jesus now and that struck me because she is so young and seemingly healthy in these videos that I saw and even mentioned subtly the possibility of having more kids in the future so I knew she was young enough and healthy enough to consider future pregnancies and hearing that she had passed away didn’t make sense to me. This sent me on a rabbit trail and I clicked onto your channel and scrolled down to the videos and quickly saw this one. I sat and listened to the entire story and I cried as soon as she needed to hear the doctor come back in and repeat to her again the news that she was dying and how she wanted to go home to see her kids. I couldn’t stop crying all the way through your video from that point on, as a mother of four myself. Andrea and your family and your UA-cam channel all are completely unfamiliar to me but this story just tears my heart apart and I can only imagine your kids going back and watching her videos just to see her face and hear her voice. Her video on Let’s Talk About Kindergarten she goes through her scrapbook of Asher in his kindergarten. My oldest is also named Asher and he is starting this curriculum this year and that’s the whole reason I landed here on Andrea’s videos and her story. Tom, and Mills family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that there is a gaping hole in each of your hearts that can never be filled. I pray tonight, even though this is apparently 4 years later, that your hearts will find healing and joy in Christ and that the memories of laughter and happiness with Andrea keep her alive in your hearts in the warmest and most comforting ways. God bless your family.
Ugh... 2 years later, I still go to her videos for advice. She has such a sweet, innocent, beautiful soul. Miss you, lady.
I lost my first baby. She was stillborn. I can't imagine losing a child and then losing your soulmate. I'm praying for you. You are a strong man.
Jesus will restore everything in his divine perfect kingdom. You need to get a kjv bible. Death is defeated by love. For the true believers of 1 Corinthians 15 1 to 4. God bless you all.
RIP Andrea Mills, a very special woman indeed.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
On behalf of every spouse who has been there, we understand the frustration, the terror, and the numbness that fogs your memory in places. "Tommy" is making Andrea so proud that she chose him to be the daddy of her children.
Amen... RIP Andrea
I couldn't agree more. Your such a great dad. Recently due to a dentist screwing up pulling my tooth. I got an infection that lasted 3.5 months. Four rounds of antibiotics, the ER, etc. Never so sick. My youngest who is disabled had to come on the ambulance with me and stayed with me in the ER forever, freezing as their air was way too cold. My son's father would not watch him, would not bring me to the hospital. Many times I have and still do collect bottles and cans for medicine. My point is I was and am always so stressed out because all my son has is me. I'm a mommy to 8 all but 2 are grown. The ENT office thought I'd have to have a 4.5 hour surgery under general anesthesia due to this. I got so scared because I said I couldn't as I have no one to watch my son. I can only eat mostly a liquid diet now, which has caused me to loose too much weight which I cant affird to loose weight which caused my iron stores to be low and me anemic. Which caused me to faint and my little boy found me. Which again is scary. So you, Tom may think you can't do this or it's not how Andrea did it but give yourself a pat on your shoulder. Your kids have you. That is such a comforting feeling as a parent and for your children. My son and I have watched your channel for a long time. It warms our hearts, your doing good. I asked all my subscribers to pray and told them about your go fund ne and asked them to share it. Which eventhough I was so sick. Made me feel good that I could do something to help all of you. The just if my story is your giving your children the best gift knowing they can count on you. That your not collecting cans and bottles out of garbages for money. I know your in pain and I cry watching you get teary eyed, I say cry, it does not make you less of a man. God bless and Much Love.
Dear brother I have been a widow for 26 years my husband was killed in a plane crash my two daughters were 3 and 11 when he died If it wasnt for the strength The Lord Jesus gave me I wouldn't be here today when you think you simply cant make it one more day cry out to Him for help He will surely help ! I lost my brother Father and Mother in less than 3 months 2 years ago It still hurts so bad somedays but Gods infinite comfort is real ! Iam praying for you and the children everything will be alright stand back and see the mighty hand of God move !
Monica Kittleson so sorry that you have experienced such great loss, especially that close together, Monica🙏🏼
Oh man Monica. So much sorrow for one person. One day at a time with God's shoulder to lean on. God bless!
Just wanted to pop by and say I'm So sorry to hear about your losses x
I’m so sorry for your loss how great the pain I’m so sorry praying and thinking of you. You’ve stayed so strong they are so very proud of you
My first thought was you don't need to explain to others what happened, it's not our business and people are nosey. My ending thought was, I appreciate you documenting this for your babies for when they are older and want to know what happened. I so love your family and my heart just breaks for you. Continually praying for you guys.
I think Tom is honoring his wife by sharing what happened to her because she shared her life with social sites because everyone would wonder what happened and where did she go? I can't get over how he held himself together so well while he told his story about what happened to her.
This has to be the most heart wrenching story I’ve ever heard.
ikr he lost his wife and baby girl sooo sad.
This man held himself together to tell how he lost his wife.Iv only seen a few videos of before she passed away though they seemed pretty happy.
@@mollydelacy9007 baby boy
Me too
Oh the baby 2
I worked Emergency and ICU for a few years. The hearing is the last to go of the senses. Even after someone's heart stops, they can still hear for four minutes, until brain death occurs. She could hear you. She knows she was surrounded by love.
She was such a wonderful Mama. I can't figure out how she found the time to do everything she did. She was so patient, creative, and kind. Rest in peace, sweet Andrea.
I love you dad. I know Andrea must have been shocked and scared. It happened so fast. There was really no time to process things. But in a way that’s a blessing. Our minds can be the most frightening when they are left the time to think.
And unfortunately doctors have failed so many people on a daily basis that many people have given up on them. I’ve met so many people who’ve lost faith in doctors. People who were left to save themselves.
But Andrea left a wonderful legacy and lived a wonderful life. She lived more in her time then most people ever will. Because she was a woman of action.
I know she’s still with you and wants you to be happy and carry on her spirit in her children. ❤️
Hi Mileena!
Andrea had the type of breast cancer that shows few symtoms and they seemed like such happy people and from hearing the story it seemed to happen so fast and while i am sorry for Tom and his children i think it is kind of a blessing that they didn't have to spend long periods of time waiting for her to pass away.
Are you one of their kiddos? I'm confused why you called him dad, but then didn't refer to Andrea as mom
@@aflou7144 Tom is her dad. Andrea is not her mom. He was married and had Mileena before he met Andrea.
@@rachelday9585 oh neat! I didn't know that, thank you!
I lost a family member due to something VERY similar. Her placenta detached and it shuts down your organs. She was only 31. So sorry for your loss. Andrea was a wonderful mother, wife, and friend to all of us on UA-cam.
Andrea had metastatic breast cancer.
My father flatlined several times. He said it was unbelievably peaceful. Words could not describe what he was experiencing. He had others there to meet him. He felt something pulling him back. His grandmother who had passed so many years before him told him it was not his time. When he came back, he was a bit upset that he was here and not there. His purpose and mission were not realized until he was older. He told me, never be afraid of dying.
When you said Cyrus' name I was crying with you. I am so very sorry for your losses.
How far along was she when she gave birth?
I got chocked up also 💜❤
I'm sorry for your loss.
You did good by your wife! I was watching the California vacation video today from 2017 and where she said ‘I find him so sexy because no matter how tired he is he’s still driving and taking care of us. He always takes care of his family.’ She adored you Tom and I know you adored her also. I pray God continues to bring comfort to you and your kids. God Bless you!
All this time later I still cry when I see the hurt in your eyes, Tom. It's so apparent that she not only had a huge impact on all of us, but the greatest to you and your beautiful children. Please know that she is being remembered.
Cancer is horrible. It has no limits, it often gives little warning and it leaves a person's loved ones to deal with its mess. Love to everyone
Tom I have been in your shoes it had been 9 years come November. The last thing my husband said to me was don’t forget my cloths thinking he was coming home, he died 24 hour later, It will be very hard but it does get better with time. Love and prayers for you and the family. Sandy Poole
I can’t believe you can remember all those details. You were in shock, and probably still are. You are doing amazing. God bless you.
Ellen MC 🙏🏽That’s how you know it’s real and true
There are no words that could possibly help in any way, so just please know how sorry we are for your loss and that we love your entire family.
This comment is long overdue. As difficult as I'm sure it was, it was very thoughtful and generous of you to make this video. I, for one, appreciate the the chronological description of events leading up to your dear wife's passing. I thoroughly enjoyed her videos and and am pleased to see through your more recent videos that your beautiful family is thriving despite of your tremendous loss. Kudos to you, Tom.
Like someone else had said, I too still watch Andrea’s old videos. It may have been two years but it isn’t the same. Andrea had such a kind and generous way about her. I miss her exuberance and her spunky spirit. R. I. P. Andrea, we love you.
Tom, you will never know me. My story is unimportant and I never even knew about Andrea's channel or your family. During the last week or so of Andrea's life, God started putting all kinds of channels in front of me and they were all desperate requests for prayer for your dear wife. I started praying for her and watching this sad tale unfold. All the while I had the sense she was headed home to heaven and that I should get to know you and the children. I believe I've been assigned as a prayer warrior for you all, so just wanted to let you know. I pray for your family every day....for all manner of needs. I pray for your heart, your devastated heart. Your trying to move forward caring for the kids while being lonely and while grieving. I can't say I understand; I have no words of wisdom to impart, but brother Tom, I'm here. I care about YOU and I'm praying for you. Please don't misunderstand my words. I only want you to understand that God cares about your needs as well as your children's and He has assigned people (I'm not going to egotistically think I'm the only one) to have your back in prayer. Stand in the Hand of God dear brother...You are loved!
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Kim Marie Lesso wow. So obedient! This is the Body in action! holding fast the Head.
Kim Marie Lesso What a sweet, caring Sister-In-Christ you are!!!!!!! I also believe The GOOD LORD sent you to these channels as a Prayer Warrior, as well! I never seen or heard of this channel, until right now, But, I wish I could have got to see this amazing woman. I will keep him and the children in my Prayers, as well as you, too!!!!!!! *GOD BLESS!!!!!!!* ♥️❤️♥️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amen amen amen
I am also praying for you and your family! I don’t know you, but I can see the hurt in your eyes and my heart breaks for you all. I know this is a hard thing to go through especially when you have children. I pray that you will find peace in this trying time in your life. I pray for your whole family and may God bless you !!!
Tom, it sounds like everything that could've been done for Andrea was done. Don't let comments from strangers make you question the decisions that you both made. You were there, they were not. God bless and keep you and the kids. ❤
Andrea was a very special woman and I’m glad she created her UA-cam channel because it let everyone see how kind hearted she was. I hope you and the kids will stay strong, close and keep some of her traditions going.
She was so low keyed with her children!!
I'm so sorry about Andrea's death, I didn't know about it until today. I've been thinking about her lately even though I haven't watched her channel in awhile. I just looked this up because I wanted to tell her something... When I was watching her channel, I was also pregnant with a little girl and I watched her "girls room" episode. Andrea was inspirational to me about raising a large family in a loving, simple way. I wanted to be like her. During the video, she said one of her daughters name was Eden and I fell in love with that name. I now have a 2 1/2 year old named Eden, after her daughter, which also reminds me of the loving way Andrea mothered her children. I've been meaning to get this in writing to send her this message, but I didn't know about what happened to her. So, I wanted to let you know that your wife reached deep into the hearts of those she influenced for good. Prayers for you and your family.
(Thank you Andrea. -Janet)
I had not watched the videos for a while so it was a shock when YT recommended this video. This is super sad. Please accept my deepest condolences. Many blessings to the family.
Sad story Aaaahhhh. God be with you all. R. I. P. Xxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxx
You did what you could, Tom. We don't always understand God's ways but we know that God is in control. God bless you and your family ❤ and thank you for keeping the channel going.
may our loving Father give you peace...
This is so heartbreaking Tom. I’m sure the heart of your home is badly missed. I’m thinking of your family everyday and always look forward to seeing your next video. Thank you for telling us the facts.
it took me 3 years to watch this.. when she passed it shook me to my core and I didn't even know her personally but her sweet gentle spirit and wonderful homeschool and mothering touched me so much. thank you for sharing about your beloved wife. I haven't watched your channel much since she passed, to be honest it just hurt too much. I pray your family is doing well.
I am so so sorry for the loss of your wife and baby. I can't imagine your grief. I will pray for you all. :(
Oh Tom, my heart breaks for you & the family. Andrea was so special, she will live on forever through you, her children & these videos. For years to come she will continue to teach countless people everything she has shown in her videos. She may be gone from earth but she will certainly NEVER be forgotten. People like her are so rare & I feel lucky to have “known” her. All my love...KD❤️
I lost my mom from cancer at 27 she was 62. That connection between mom and child is so strong even in death the bond is still there! Look into the Brca gene. My mom passed from Ovarian and I learned all about it. You did an amazing job with this video something like this is never easy...she is SO proud of you all!!
Thanks for this, Tom. It's my opinion that our death stories are just as important as birth and health recovery stories. It's important for us to talk about it, and I'm glad to see how healthy your family deals with death. I remember even before Andrea died she said you guys talk openly with your kids about death, and it's good to see her own death was no exception. Much love and further healing to you and the family.
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 May Andrea Mills Rest In Peace and in Heaven ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
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I’m 19 with no kids but I’ve been subscribed to this channel since I was 16. I loved Andrea and the rest of the fam so much. I always binged watched her videos. I remember in August I kept checking to see to see if any new videos were uploaded. And I started freaking out after weeks of waiting, I knew something was wrong 💔 my heart is still torn I miss her so much, I did cry after the first UA-cam update and I even made a Facebook just to get updates!! Thank you Andrea, Tom, and the rest of the Mills family for sharing these videos and letting me be apart of your life for the last 3 years (and many more I hope 🙏💕) In my young life I learned so much from Andrea and when I become a mother I will implement some of her ways. Fly High Andrea 👼🕊
I just found her videos and was wondering why she hadn't posted anything new. I am so sorry for your loss. Lord bless her, you, and the kids.
Thanks so much! The content isn't quite yet what it was, but getting there as I learn to get a grip on this new life. Welcome aboard!
What a precious pic at the end. RIP Andrea.
She was such a precious woman.. i didnt know her in person obviously but you could just tell she was so sweet and just a kind soul....
Oh dear God give this family comfort.
I will be praying for you Tom. I lost my husband 8 years ago and I still remember his last days in vivid detail too and the small comforts of being able to say “ I love you” that last time....May God continue to comfort you. ❤️
I look at your eyes as they are so sad darlin’, I feel your heart’s pain...I want to reach through this screen and give you a long long hug. God Bless you Tom.
Tom, I am struck with how good a dad, husband and keeper of the faith you are. You and Andrea did your level best, in this most trying, shocking and unfathomable circumstance. We will never know, or have the capacity to know, the reasons things happen as they do on this earth. I know God is well pleased with you, His good and faithful servant. Though the road is not easy, you are shepherding your kids and re-working systems as needed. Thank you for sharing this information about the events of August.. It was a precious gift to us as I cannot imagine how painful it was for you to go back in memory to tell that story; it is greatly appreciated by all who love you, Andrea and your family. Godspeed, Paige
My heart just breaks for you, Tom. I know this was very difficult for you to do. I wish I could reach across the internet and give you a hug. Once breast cancer has metastasized, there is really nothing that can be done. I'm so glad that she got to see her children, they were everything to her. I'm praying for all of you. Please don't think that you need to show us that video footage. Those were very private moments, and perhaps should remain so.
Yes I do agree 100%
God bless you for being brave to walk everyone through this again.
You are a Brave Man to share the story of Andrea’s Graduation to Heaven. No matter what was done right or wrong or at incorrect times, or whatever may feel as “mistakes”. I’m a single Mother who raised 6 alone. I lost 9 infants. I lost my husband. I was alone, in a locality where no one knew me, so support was nil. Many mistakes were made, but in those “mistakes” one can see the benefit.
After One slips into unconsciousness or a coma, they lose their hearing after they take their last breaths. Be Comforted knowing that Precious Andrea heard you, heard Your children.what a joy to leave this temporary body, hearing the voices of Your Children!
I stopped watching for awhile because I’ve been so busy and to come back to watching to find out she passed away is so heart breaking I loved seeing her videos especially during the winter was always my favorite and clothes shopping. I’m praying for your family and know her memory will live on with me forever.
Same here 💔💔💔💔
Tom, I still have no words. I think of Andrea every single day. I think of you and the kids every day as well. You all feel like family to me although we have never met and I mourn Andrea's loss so deeply. It's clear by your online "family" that she was special to so many of us.
Thank you so much for sharing Andrea's story. Bless you, Tom!
I can only imagine how difficult this video was for you. Miss sweet Andrea so much! We continue to pray for your family.
I'm so sorry for your family's loss. She seemed like an amazing woman.
This was so hard to watch. May Father God continue to hold you and give you His strength. You will see her again!
Without a single doubt. God is faithful to death. Love never fails.
Even though you didn't have to make this, you did. Thank you. ❤
Sweet Andrea, oh how I prayed for a different outcome. I am so glad you are not suffering with that pain anymore though. I can't even imagine, breaks my heart to think of you in so much pain. You will forever be the standard of how a mother should be! Thank you for being you and teaching all of us.
I’m so sorry Tom. She was a wonderful lady. I wish I had known her but her videos have taught me so much about living and loving♥️
This came on my recommendations, I’m so sorry to hear that your wife passed away. She’s dancing with Jesus now 💛
жаннка американка are you another “dancing is sinful” person?🙄
it's crazy how all these doctors make people wait for so long in such a critical condition and wasting time when every minute matters. they should have done ultrasound of her abdomen (liver and gallbladder) asap instead of being focused on her blood pressure. (I worked as a nurse in Russia, that's where I am from, I guess here they use different protocols). I am so sorry for your loss, it's heartbreaking.. I wish Andrea took care of her health and had gotten checked earlier to prevent this disease, but I guess she started having symptoms when it was already too late, cause cancer doesn't really hurt at early stages .. RIP
Thank you for taking the time and talking this through with us, Tom. I think of Miss Andrea often and I miss her voice a lot. Love you Mills Family! ❤️🇵🇷
We miss Andrea so much, what a great lady she was, what a great angel is now, looking after you guys.
Tom thank you that would have been so hard for you to do ..... we don’t need to know all this but in the future the little kids will appreciate this vlog .... as time goes by we do forget the small details and this vlog will help you remember ... to give them an accurate account of her passing ...... you are doing a wonderful job with the children ... you have to take each day as it comes 💜
I haven’t watched in a while and I’m so saddened to hear she passed. Sending prayers for all of y’all. This is so sad and I can’t imagine the pain y’all went through. She will be missed dearly 🙏🏻❤️
I'm so so sorry for your loss of your wonderful wife and sweet little baby.
You're so brave and strong, such a heartbreaking video xx
Thank you for sharing such a painful story. You had a precious wife and the kids had an amazing mother!
ah Tom my heart goes out to you all. This took a lot of courage.
God bless you Tom I cannot begin to imagine how difficult telling this story has been for you. I believe you have answered any questions we might have had. Thank you for letting us all know how it happened so darn quickly. I just can't believe how in less than a week her functions decreased. You and your family are in my prayers. I think you are an absolute wonderful dad. The kids really looked great last night game night. Hope Asher is feeling better today. And also hoping things went well with Knuckles. Thank you for keeping these videos going I absolutely love seeing your family.
Tom, you are so brave and so strong. You are selfless to give us this closure. I appreciate how painful this was to share. We are all still praying for your sweet family. You are amazing, you are loved.
I was thinking of Andrea today and I’m not sure why. I am not religious, I have no plans on having children, but I felt so drawn to Andrea. I watched her channel for a long time before her devastating loss and she has truly stuck with me. I hope you and your children are doing okay and I know you are all so strong. Keep the faith, you will see your darling Andrea and Cyrus again ❤️
Mind boggling how life takes us through twists and turns.Life is precious and short.At the age of 57 how I wish I had done things differently.Tom,you and Andrea and the children always manage to take me to a place of what I feel is truly how God intends for us to live and be.Feeling the sweet Holy Spirit In Andrea’s voice.The innocence in her beautiful eyes.The wisdom and strength in her every being.She is irreplaceable.I love her and I miss her.You do not have to do what you do.Sharing with us.Being transparent and reliving the pain.God bless you and the children and all who loved her.I feel like a Mother hen hovering around you all.I weep and wish I could erase it all.However,knowing God his his own plans for our lives,I pray on.Your eyes break me.I love you.And those children.We are family.We/I are here for you.If I we’re healthy enough believe me,I would be right there in Wyoming.But I will continue to do all I can,in Jesus name to be a blessing to you all.And a heartfelt thank you to each and every friend on here of yours who continue to send gifts and contribute to the gofundme account.The needs will not end so we must stay prayed up and be available for you.Continue to tell us what is needed.Hugs Tom,great big hugs from Illinois.🙏❣️
Hugs from Illinois here too. Central Illinois! My heart still aches for them both :-(
Your beautiful note was like a prayer. I will pray for you also.
@LAURA MILTON Sweet message ❤ I am also from Illinois!
That was beautifully said!
She was a great mom. When we are in Christ, this is not our home. You will see her again in Glory!
Absolute truth. God bless you so much 🙏😊
Amen. 🙏
I’m so sorry for your loss. I looked up to Andrea for being such a perfect mom. I hope I’m half as good as she was. She will not be forgotten by any means. 💛 God has gained a wonderful angel, one day all her babies and you will be reunited. 💛
I'm sorry for the loss of your wife. It's such a big loss for your family and so personal. It's brave of you to share your story, and helpful to others who have experienced major losses.
So sorry for your loss. It must be very difficult. Thank you for sharing your pain and your memories. Praying for you all.
So unreal. My words can’t help, none of our words can. We are all just so so sorry.
It’s very rare that I’m at a loss of words 😔 god bless you and your children Tom. Such a beautiful soul she was.
Tom, thank you for sharing this difficult story with us. We share in your grief and heartache. Andrea in her short life left a lasting impression and blessed many lives with her videos, beautiful smile and lovely laughter. She will be missed.
I waited a day to say this, but I just want to acknowledge your son, Cyrus. We lost our precious little guy in 2016 at about the same gestation. It was so hard and I’m so very sorry that you both had to go through that in those last few days together. 😢💔
I’m so sorry to hear that this happened. What a heart breaking turn of events for your family.
I first came across your videos looking for videos of small houses with lots of beds & found the video of your boy’s room. She was a tremendous blessing & I know she’s watching over y’all today!
Tom,you are such a wonderful husband and dad! This video has me in tears again about what your family has been through. I have watched you guys for years and think of you as UA-cam friends. What brings me comfort is knowing that Jesus has her and she is with him forever!!! I am so happy your beautiful kids have all of her videos as proof of what an incredible mom, wife and friend she was. God Bless The Mills family.
I never heard of Andrea or saw any of her videos before she passed - I have watched them all since - I wish I had known her - I wish I could have met her - she was someone I would want for a friend. I love the way she cherished her family and made them all feel special. She was a beautiful precious treasure and I'm sorry I never knew her.
Same here ❤
Same exact thing with me except that I watched ONE video and the next day found out that she had passed away the week before....I was soooo SAD. I also wish I would have known her. She would have made an excellent friend. I STILL want to be a friend to her by watching her children grow up and giving them encouragement and love even if it is just on UA-cam. As long as Tom is vlogging I will NEVER stop watching! The children are a joy. If only Andrea was still here awaiting baby Cyrus' birth. 😞 MISS YOU ANDREA MILLS 💕💕💕💕💕
Thank you for sharing this. I know it is difficult for you. Perhaps your openness in sharing will be of help to someone else in the future. You are blessed to have those beautiful children. May God keep His hand of protection upon you.
I had no idea your lovely wife had passed.. I’ve been watching your families videos my entire pregnancy fallowing all of her very precise prenatal care, I’ve seen the births you’ve aired she was a huge comfort to me and your children are so well behaved and the house so full of love Im just beside myself for you. I know it’s been a few years but my most sincere condolences on this inconceivable loss to your family. ♥️🙏
Thank you, I really appreciate it, most of these kinds of comments have stopped and I miss them, so I was glad to see this one. She was amazing and I miss her so much.
God picked you to be Andrea's husband for a reason. Your a great husband and father Thomas. I feel so bad for Andrea. I think of her often and pray for her even though I didn't know her. She left a mark in my heart.
She is a believer of jesus. She has eternal life. Praise God forever. Hes restore everything in his divine perfect kingdom
I agree with your breastfeeding theory..that it slowed things down. You are so strong and brave to share this with us. Thank you❤ I will forever miss seeing Andrea. There was just something about her that made her like no other..she was just pure beauty inside and out.
That freaks me out because i am breastfeeding and been having health issues.
This scares me. Because I’m breastfeeding and having issues just like this. And the docs just keep saying I’m fine. And the VA won’t do anything because “breastfeeding is a condition”
This scares me. Because I’m breastfeeding and having issues just like this. And the docs just keep saying I’m fine. And the VA won’t do anything because “breastfeeding is a condition”
I have an autoimmune disease that was in remission during pregnancy and breastfeeding. Now that my toddler is weaned, it’s back with a vengeance.
😢😢😢😢😢😢🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼. Oh Tom...... I’m sooooo heart broken for you ...... no words ...... only groaning in prayer for you . You have been through too much 😢😢😢😢😢🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you for sharing Tom. My heart breaks...the tears fall. I’m sure it’s not easy. You have been so open....more than we may even deserve. The love for your family that I have found in my heart is genuine. Bless all of you....and may each day bring a little less hurt....less...never gone.
My deepest sympathy. As a breast cancer survivor it is so shocking to hear what she went through. My husband died 5 years ago from liver failure broke my heart. I now have liver issues from taking a med to fight of the breast cancer. God bless you and all your family
Thank you for sharing Tom. I was crying right along with you. If you ever need anything, just say so. ❤️
Thank you for sharing this incredibly difficult and intimate experience with all of us. I have no words strong enough to empathize with you.
Thankyou for telling us about Andrea's last few weeks, Tom, especially as it was so painful for you to do so.
I lost my darling husband in March 2018, and went through a terrible time while it was happening, so I understand how talking about it can help to ease the grief for you.
It's been 18 months for me, Tom, and I still grieve for my Bob, but please believe me that you will learn how to cope with that, too and, with your faith, it should help strengthen you in this journey you are all going through without Andrea there to guide and support you.
I just wish I'd had the records of my Bob's life, the way that you have of Andrea, Tom - it will be a blessing for you, as it is for your children already, when you are ready to face it all properly :)
God Bless to all of you, Tom :)
You was a great husband, Andrea loved you! Your a great dad. So sorry for your loss! I am keeping the family continually in my prayers & thoughts! ❤from Oklahoma!!
Thank you for your honesty with all of us. You did a magnificent job taking care of and loving your beautiful wife. No one could have done it better. Never doubt that.
My condolences. Just learning about this now.
She was beautiful Tom, and you and her made a beautiful family.....may her sweet memory be a blessing forever.........love yall
Thank you so much for sharing. Andrea’s legacy lives on in you, your children, your home, this channel, and in everything person and thing she touches.❤️ so grateful for her beautiful spirit and life. You are doing awesome, we are praying for you and your family!🙏🏻
LovedHappy hi Kaylyn! I just discovered this channel 😭
🙏🏻you are an amazing husband and father! Hugging you and your family with daily prayers.🙏🏻
Oh my goodness you have been incredibly strong . The trauma of the whole ordeal is unimaginable . Be.proud of yourself . Sending love to you and your family ❤️
Oh my goodness I am so sorry for your loss. I had never watched your videos but this one showed up in my feed. I am now watching and crying my eyes out the video where she talked about her mother’s passing. Your family is very strong and I just wanted to let you know you have my heart and are in my thoughts and prayers for strength to get through this pain that will never end but will subside.