The Power of Boundaries: How to Take Control of Your Life
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
- If you don't say something about their addictive behavior, won't they think you approve? Should I tell them I know they've relapsed? Should I call her counselor and tell them what she's saying to me on the phone? These are just some of the recent boundary questions we've gotten from our members about their addicted loved ones. We'll be answering these boundary questions and lots more.
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I saw a counselor for two years. One day we discussed boundaries. I told her mind. Her response was that I had healthy internal boundaries but I wasn't enforcing them in my life. I felt like a doormat for many years. It's tough, the change over. People don't like not being able to make you jump. But, I feel so much more confident now.
Good boundaries, change your world.
Yes indeed!
My only issue with boundaries I set, they're known, but getting bullied, harassed, verbally & emotionally abused for not doing what is wanted.
Sometimes I just want to sleep and can't because of the annoyance of having a boundary crossed until I enable it to make them to leave me alone.
I learned so much from yesterdays online group! (I had to be at work at that time but watched the recording and learned from the other people in the group !
Thank you sooo much Amber and Campbell!!!
Thank you ladies
You are super helpful
I am FINALLY at the point where I can no longer allow my adult son (25) to live with me after rehab or after he gets asked to leave sober living etc because he has no where else to go. I finally realize it’s not my problem, even though he has mental health issues. In the past I’ve always thought I need to house him because of his mental health and suicidal thinking, and his limited income because he is on disability. His disease has progressed and now he is getting verbally abusive towards me by constantly talking of killing himself. I can’t take it any more. When he gets his rehab bed, and has some sober time I’ll make sure he knows I love him dearly but I can’t house him any more.
How to deal with our dysfunctional institutions, most professionals don't have the view taught here.
After watching your videos I realized I had been doing pretty much everything wrong. I have been watching and applying your methods and am in much more control of myself. My realionship with AH is much better. I have gotten out of the bad guy roll. Now instead if having a responsive drunk I now have a nice drunk. ?? How do I proceed?
After up and down hell for years, my middle son starting at 14 with I know a 2 year clean and another 2.6 year clean and all the 2 month rehab times clean and jail clean times about 7 months max .. Well, I decided and stuck with a jail/ rehab deal. At my home, when he moved back. So it actually took him just hitting me with a cell phone or his a lot in the head with bleeding until I got away and locked myself in a room and called 911. . POLICE TOOk him, ambulance came for me, and the CT didn't show any issues? I had a black eye. But he was jn jail and they called me lik months later and wanted to know what to do with him? I told them a 12 months rehab....2 don't work... away from me. He was clean for 3 yesrs until covid. Still he is never to live with me. . I ONLY TALK TO HIM IF HE IS IN JAIL OR A REHAB AND CLEAN.. BUT I honestly would tell him to just hit me again, please .. He didn't. THINKING NOW, HOW EMOTIONAL ABUSE TRUELY IS PROBABLY MORE HORRIBLE THAN physical as I type this.
Yes I wondered what is the 5 steps that u talk about
please do more kids with alcholic parent
What do I do as far as my husband spending our money on drugs .I feel helpless trying to not say to him don't do it .I can't stop him he always says will I be cross if he goes gets drugs like tonight. Yea he knows I will be but If I say yes then he just shitty with me.i would leave him to it and go out but he wld have then already spent that money and no money for me to even go out ,like even to drive somewhere to visit friends or family not necessarily spending lots of money.
If I already have the old membership, how do I upgrade to the new 3.0?
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@@PutTheShovelDown You guys are amazing. Thank you for the quick reply, and all the new stuff that I am loving.
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