Are Dad Bods a Turnoff? Plus: Hooking Up with Your Ex
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- Опубліковано 10 сер 2021
- Women aren’t the only ones who deal with some form of body shaming. We’re chatting all about dad bods. Plus, is it ever a good idea to hit up an ex for a hookup or should you leave the past in the past?
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I disagree with going back to an ex for sex just so you don't add another person to your body count. Usually, when you break up with people it's because you no longer want them in your life, because they're bad for you. Why would you go back and be intimate with that person?
I agree however I often believe sometimes the reason>s< to go back isn't singular and it may not relate to understanding what the regular person desires in closure.
Tamera was EVERYTHING. I love her so much.
I do too!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰
I totally agree with Jeanie. Stop blaming women because dudes have a perverted mindset. I met this dude and he told me that young girls shouldn't wear shorts or anything that shows thier legs. Why should girls and women have to dress a certain way to not give these perverts sick thoughts
People shouldn't wear a whore outfit & expect others not to notice. COME ON. Especially when people go to church shouldn't be dressed like that
@@Sunshine-is_here_to_stay let women be god🙄
@@Kaylakay777_ NO human being is God. That is BLASPHEMOUS.
If any of their husbands had abs they wouldn’t promote dad bods.. 😂
For real though, and the argument of choosing a nice dinner without rules over a ripped/chiseled guy doesn’t really hold its ground. Cuz I can maintain a diet that’s good enough, in combination with a good gymchedule, so that I can have a cheatday every now and then. And what about the selfesteem? Cuz im a lot more confident when im fit than in some times where I wasnt. So instead of all this “fat accepting” behavior, maybe prefer/promote whatever is healthiest, and thus makes you happier.
Tamera is my favorite!! Feel like we would be best friends if we ever met. Love her!
the real was in its prime with just these 4 :(
A sexist show where women do what they say is bad and support cheating was never good
@@bread9815 almost ur fifth comment trolling, ur either an incel or a sad 13 year old :)
@@Noname-bl5hk Red pill
P. S. Roasting me by saying I'm 13 doesn't work when I'm a smart happy 13 year old
@@Noname-bl5hk And how can it be my almost fifth comment
@@bread9815 funny thing is, I’m a life long conservative, but I still don’t get why women having a talk show and sharing different opinions than urself is so triggering to u
What I don't get about body count is..... nobody knows unless you told them
I don’t think it’s always because of what people know sometimes it’s just how you , yourself feel about it.
Loni is out here quoting the Bible like Madea, lol
I agree with Adrienne. If you two are single. And you want to fulfill your needs why not. You know eachother.
Tam has a young spirit😹😹
I love dad bods, but it can be irking b/c the 2 I was with were so insecure about it but I loved it.
I go to church as I am. Some people may not be able to afford clothes to go to church. It's not a fashion show. However yes dont wear a fish net body suit. And however If I want to wear Jean's then I will. I'm there to hear the word. This is why I love my church. Come as you are! My pastor wears his Jean's, and baseball cap. He reaches alot of the younger crowds. How can you be mad at that.
Amen! 💜🙌🏽❤ Great comment.
I'm with Adrian on the not adding to your list,just go back to an Ex if the breakup wasn't bad or if they're not toxic but also single & women are very capable of sleeping with a guy without forming feelings, but that should be discussed between the two where each other stand first. & definitely with Jenni on its not your fault for somebody else's mishaps preach Jenni..
I can get with a Dad Bod. It makes me feel comfortable that If I want to eat a rib eye steak with mack and cheese he'll be down with the grub too. When my sister was dating this guy a long time ago, he would go hook up with the mother of his children and he would literally give my sister this speech about how she needs to be understanding of that. He eventually broke up with her to go back with the children's mother. I personally don't care what you wear in church just as long as you are ready and open to the experience.
I would feel violated if someone gave me a rasperry 😂🙅🏽 Nooonoonoo.
I usually watched this to understand to society and state of women in your country.its quite better than other country
Talk to real people in society and be a part of it to understand it. Don't learn about sexism from a show that has an entirely female cast with no male perspective
This show is fantastic 😊.
That doesn’t make sense. What’s the difference in having sex with a new person vs and ex. That ex probably slept around since ending things with you so when you go back to them who knows what stds they may have.
It’s about the intimacy of having sex with someone, it’s a lot easier, more comfortable and less stressful to go back to someone u know and who knows ur body than someone else. Also the whole not being called a slut/ increasing ur body count
condomise for fcks sake
@@Noname-bl5hk it is not neccessarily less stressful. It causes uneccessary build up of past traumas or old feelings that don't need to be there. Why go back to the past? Move forward not backwards.
@@sunflowergirl9638 I’m pretty sure both of the ladies and myself meant in the case the breakup or past relationship didn’t end in a bad place, weren’t abusice or toxic, and it’s more so to get your rocks off with someone familiar
Love the way you read Bible loni love !!!
Are dad bods a turn off? Not if you want a long term marriage. You could dump your hubby after age 35 or 40 and trade him in for a 25 year old stud.
I hope 🤞 that the audience will be able to get some of that cocktail in the new season🍹🍸🥤
Your show is classy🥰
If you think about it, then you're practically marrying a person by sleeping with them. Can you imagine hooking up with someone without knowing your in a contract? You know, a contract that they will maintain their "body count" (what a gross term) at ALL COSTS thereby you are to always respond even post break up???
J on fire in that dress🥰 A getting creative with 🧻🧻🧻 L killing it with "life will kill you, you will get fattt!" And T "sucking the fat under Adams chin" Hilarious fun. Miss this panel and the vibe 😭
😂😂Remember when Alex and Lexi started hooking up again and she said it was like recycling (Grey's anatomy)
They went from Marcel to Garcelle lol
Adrienne answers so she won’t have a problem with others and so do I. Lord help me
my ex said he was no longer attracted to me which is why he stopped initiating sex. so no. i don’t agree with having sex with an ex.
THE DOOR IS CLOSED! Lol ok Nene & Porsha
With the relationship I say close the door. At church I feel just try not to be to revealing. 👍🏾❤❤❤
I guess "objectifying" is only a problem when it's done to women. Imagine the outrage if a TV show had a female staff member wear a bikini, or go topless, & serve drinks to an all-male panel. Hell, imagine the outrage if that all-male panel dared to ask if "mom bods" were a turnoff. Also, "Men are rarely body shamed." is so incredibly naive. I see comments all the time where people are talking $#!+ about how a guy looks
🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🙌🏻 YESSSS! SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Please everyone like this so it can be top comment
Take a chill man! It's not that serious. I'm pretty sure he consented to do it.
@@aAQEeprov I'd bet that he did consent, but that's not the point. Like I said, if the genders were reversed, society would be outraged. That show would be accused of making the woman feel pressured to do it (even if she was completely willing)
Well said, the hypocrisy is disgusting
Um have you not seen wildn out? Video games? There are naked and half dressed women all over. Sorry they flipped the script
Dad boss are in as a father I embrace my dad bod
The man was on SSRI’s and his wife made him wear spanks. She definitely was not enjoying the dad bod. Kind of happens when you have two people with borderline narcissistic tendencies.
I'm from Assam India.. Love you guys
This would be my dream job lol talking with the girls, a drink in hand... they are so cute
I agree with Jeannie and Tamera.
Our church motto is “Come As You Are”.. That’s the way it should be. You don’t have to know it all, clean it all in order for God to love you! He’s already forgiven our sins. With that being said, it doesn’t mean you come in half naked.
I agree with Loni. Don’t provoke especially, would you dress provocative in court? No! So then don’t do it in church.
I work in a court. You'd be surprised what people wear.
7:40 😂😂😂
Christians really did make a new religion based on what they want!
Matthew 5:17 (“Do not think that I have come to abolish Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.”).
Some say don't take what the Old Testament say some say whatever you want!
The Old Testament is part of your christian religion and your god told you what to wear . No surprise if after 100 year you will walk naked to churches. You are weird people, why you call yourself christians when you don't follow your religions commands.
Tamera😂😂🤣
She's the best the show ain't the same without her
My man has a dad Bod and it's. Turn on omfg .I dont like men have have alot of muscles I like a man with a lil belly
just bcoz you on a diet dont mean you can't sample the menu, no?
in church you have to put on something that doesn't show your body.
Loni that is sexual harassment marcel, can’t keep your hands to yourself like Selena Gomez 🤪😂
I really like this message about God. Its better to go smoking a cigarette dressed in work clothes than not going
I miss Tam
Now do a show if mom bods are a turn off.
Girl chaaaat
1st from Bihar india
yessssssssss why not
Tamera is a FREAK
I love Tamera she is my favorite
@ 9:15 that is not a scripture. Adrianne is wrong, No where in The Bible will you find that scripture that is a huge misconception and if you don’t believe me please research it, that being said she’s yes she’s wrong for saying that it’s a scripture however it’s technically true, you don’t or I should say you can’t fix yourself and than go to church that’s what Church for, it’s kinda like needing to go to The ER and saying we’ll let my body heal itself before I go.
Yes it’s god to judge not us!!
Tamera is stunning.
Marcel’s fine aassasasssassss
Loni is right
Owww Marcel was the stripper
Owk I got u
On this episode of The Real: Lies, skinny shaming and my favourite: watching other people drink and have fun while I have cringe spasms
U mad or something 😭
I'm sorry but Scott was never attractive to me physically or mentally. I don't see what she ever saw in him.
I love Loni
Will check out Timothy 2:9
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Crichton Nomber One Big History Dates Long Leong Loungs Am People Shut Downs
Millennials huh?! What about gen z?!
🤦🏻♀️ wow if we don’t read the same Old Testament how would we know all the prophecies about Christ Jesus? And there’s A LOT of information about The And End Times also not just Revelations and please read Second Timothy 3: 16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
8:29
Wait churches have a dress code?? I'm not religious but it seems rather odd that there is a dress code for a venue that is meant to be 100% inclusive judgement free. It's a church not high tea at the Shelbourne. Maybe that is just how Americans operate, I'm not too sure but a dress code seems rather excessive as well as unnecessary. Your outfit doesn't cause anyone to be led astray from a relationship, a cheater doesn't cheat because they liked your outfit.
My church doesn't. Come as you are. I wear Jean's and flip flops if I want. It's not a fashion show. I go to hear the word. Shame on them!
It’s about respect. You wouldn’t be butt naked in front of your father or grandfather because it’s disrespectful. That same respect but more so goes for God. And as for judgements no one should judge people aren’t in church because we are NOT perfect but we go to learn and to worship, understanding that we all have faults. And making someone else sin is not a thing but showing compassion to your brothers and sisters in Christ is. You wouldn’t drink in-front of an recovering addict because it’s just not compassionate. Same goes for dressing crazy in front of a man at church. If you love him you would not want to tempt him to doing or thinking things that aren’t Christ like. Now you certainly don’t have to abide by that way of thinking but that’s just how I see it. Have compassion and love for everyone. And encourage those to be more like Christ.
@@cinnamonw.650 Where do you show up “butt naked” in your life at all? That’s rather a outlandish remark or comparison to make. I’m simply asking if that’s how churches operate in the United States as I’m European not American. It’s rather intriguing from where I’m sitting because in Ireland we don’t take things all that literal. I guess we just have a more liberal way of thinking with regards to Catholicism and the terrors we as a nation faced under its control. If your man is led astray or tempted by what someone is wearing that’s his problem. Plus if people were to be more like Christ would they not be shirtless and wearing a tarpaulin sheet over their waist?
@@Yuki-qt7bj So you consider it a party? Interesting. In Ireland there isn’t any churches that enforce a dress code that’s why I was shocked that in the US some churches do. But then again the presence of the Catholic Church in Ireland has done nothing to earn the respect of our people to enforce a dress code.
@@Yuki-qt7bj Thank you this is really insightful. No where I am people don’t dress modestly unless they want to. Now we maintain respectful language whilst in a church religious or not. I’m not religious but I still remain quiet & respectful in a church with friends, I’ve never heard of dress codes being implemented but now I know if I’m ever in the US. So thank you
I’m shocked how little knowledge these 4 woman who claim to be Christians have about Gods Word? I truly pray with all my heart that God gives them all a strong desire to seek His Word and Who He is in Jesus Name amen 🙏🏻
11:25
Why are the dressing rules only applying to women? Men can dress anyway they please.
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Tam point of view are being missed.
I kinda wish there were 2 or more cohosts who were atheists
You shouldn't want other people to stubble... that is what the Holy Bible says!
I love tamara
All scripture is inspired by God, don't throw out anything lol
jeannie opening speeches are always so cringe
Dress modest please at the church , the Bible said dress as a modest .
👉You dont throw out the Holy Bible!!!
Dad bods are 🤢 gross. Nah I"m good. It's unhealthy
You’re unhealthy
Gen Z not millennials
Wow a shirtless guy bringing out drinks. Maybe we should teach women not to objectify men
What is chatten. On Veiw doing Yaa talking think out or something No No no making fun of someone wrong!?