STATE OF MIND with MAURICE BENARD: BEN MARTINEZ

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  • Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
  • Ben Martinez, a retired police officer who lives with bipolar, opens up like you may have never seen before. You will learn about bipolar, defunding the police, what it feels like to shoot somebody, and what it feels like to live with the aftermath of that.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 129

  • @Pfhoney50
    @Pfhoney50 Рік тому +30

    Nice to see a person who isn’t a celebrity. It shows how down to earth you really are. Love you Maurice !!😊

    • @ms_monterroso
      @ms_monterroso Рік тому +4

      I've often asked him to have a non-celebrities on the show.

    • @Pfhoney50
      @Pfhoney50 Рік тому +2

      @@ms_monterroso 👍.. he listens😊

    • @MBStateOfMind
      @MBStateOfMind  Рік тому +3

      Thank you

  • @sf78310
    @sf78310 Рік тому +25

    Powerful interview! Loved the strength of Ben, your guest!
    So MANY Police Officers are strong and everyday heroes.
    God Bless you Ben!

  • @tammydurand3644
    @tammydurand3644 Рік тому +11

    Your show and book help a lot of people! I recently saw you in Graceland and told you about how I was glad your book came out during Covid. Im a nurse in the Operating Room and when covid hit the Anxiety of the unknown going to work everyday was real. I purchased your book and watched state of mind. So helpful Thank you for all you do to help people

  • @mariebaumler9025
    @mariebaumler9025 Рік тому +14

    An incredible episode!!! Mr. Martinez has such strength!! Such a deep conversation. Just great. Wow. And thank you for your service.🙏

  • @nancydunston1215
    @nancydunston1215 Рік тому +9

    A fantastic interview, Maurice! I can relate personally to Bi-Polar. I am 65 and still have not be properly diagnosed with the so many other mental health issues, especially panic and anxiety disorders. May God bless you for opening up about your own personal experiences 🙏 And your quests always fit in so well.
    Thank you so much, Maurice. You are a wonderful man and you have helped me tremendously.

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 Рік тому +8

    Yes! 💃🏻 Thank you Maurice for switching it up with a non-actor, a Hero! My brother is bi-polar and I have learned a lot from you. 🙏🏼❤️⭐️✨

  • @nadiad1678
    @nadiad1678 Рік тому +3

    I love state of mind and love you Maurice Bernard I have watched you since 92 when you started gh

  • @nycalgal
    @nycalgal Рік тому +5

    One of your best. Love that Ben is a regular guy. Love the men and women in Blue.💙

  • @nancysnyder8993
    @nancysnyder8993 Рік тому +10

    Thank you, Maurice, for all that you do.
    I so look forward to your State of Mind broadcasts; so very helpful. I appreciate the diversity of the people that you interview. With each episode I’m learning how to better cope with pitfalls of my own mental health. I’m also learning to forgive my mother who was so dysfunctional with her bipolar episodes.
    Each one of your guests are so inspiring as you also are. Again, Thank You and God Bless.

  • @purple_bboop5392
    @purple_bboop5392 Рік тому +5

    I am just in awe that these Sunday interviews take away my anxiety and depression for the day. I always look forward to Sunday. It’s remarkable the variety of people you have on. And everything they have been through, including Ben, and including you, Maurice. You will never know how much SOM means to me.Thanks so much for being you. ❤️❤️👏🏼👍🏼

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 Рік тому +3

    I agree with Ben, defunding the police is the most INSANE thing I’ve ever heard in all my years! The world 🌎 would be done.
    People please support our professional good hard working police officers. We need them as we need to put God first in our lives. Blessings to all. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🇺🇸

  • @MargieDalton
    @MargieDalton Рік тому +10

    Thank you Ben for sharing your story 🙏 thank God you did. Suicidal seems easy way out for me. Have to think what happens to my familia. Gun jammed on purpose to save you. God has given you Maurice Benard to spread the word. We all of us are not really alone.

  • @lauraharbert3146
    @lauraharbert3146 Рік тому

    I was a police officer. I have CPTSD and an anxiety disorder. This has been a very hard and yet comforting episode. Thank you for sharing your story. It takes a tremendous amount of courage.

  • @donnan8648
    @donnan8648 Рік тому +1

    I've lost friends to the question,
    "What could you not un-see?" -due to line of work or a PTSD issue.
    Ben you are very brave and THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE!

  • @Grtfulrow
    @Grtfulrow Рік тому

    I was taken back by this interview. I really learned so very much about my husband's time in Cuba that I didn't know.
    But more about all my family in law enforcement. Now I have more understanding about their day to day struggle with their mental health.
    Maurice, thank YOU for what you do 💕

  • @slprescott
    @slprescott Рік тому

    Best episode of State of Mind. Sure, I love seeing the GH actors, but Ben Martinez was so genuine and vulnerable. Great job, Maurice.

  • @manveengill5150
    @manveengill5150 Рік тому +4

    Another great interview loved it

  • @markspell
    @markspell Рік тому +3

    I've really enjoyed this State of Mind :)

  • @volcharger
    @volcharger Рік тому

    Thank you Ben for your honesty and willingness to share with us. You are a brave man and I hate you had to experience all that. I am so thankful you are still with us and the help you can provide others that need to survive the darkness. Thank you for all of your years of service and now a different service. You truly are a hero whether it feels that way or not.
    This touched me Maurice. I watched you on GH since you started but this is something else altogether. You are a great man for doing all this and have found an important calling. Thank you.. we are all in this together bud

  • @nohateforlife9497
    @nohateforlife9497 Рік тому +4

    Hi everyone! ❤

  • @kopsie6379
    @kopsie6379 Рік тому

    Thank you for bringing this every day hero on your show/podcast. THANK YOU MAURICE! We MUST take care of our LEOs mental health needs.

  • @lauriepennington9129
    @lauriepennington9129 Рік тому +1

    Praise the Lord he is still here! Great interview hope it helps others.

  • @mayanprincessa
    @mayanprincessa Рік тому +3

    I have little to no faith in our police but Ben does seem like a good person. Love u Maurice! ❤️

  • @rebeccakesner9840
    @rebeccakesner9840 Рік тому +4

    This Is One Of The Best Episodes I Love The Fact That He's Just A Regular Guy It's Good That You Are Open To Having Different Types Of People With Different Opinions It Makes Things Interesting Thanks Maurice For All You Do It's Definitely Made A Difference In My Life God Bless You And Your Family Stay Safe See You On GH

  • @anekamckenzie9504
    @anekamckenzie9504 Рік тому +1

    Indeed, this was a nice change talking to someone who's not a celebrity. A reminder not that we needed one that whether famous or not we are all human & often go through the same struggles. Many people I think though do ask for help whether their cry for it is directly or indirectly but they may not have the support system some of us have. Other than going to a therapist, all of us can keep an eye open & a shoulder to lean on from time to time for those around us who don't have a solid support group of family or friends who they can turn to for understanding & help. Every little bit counts & can help make all the difference.

  • @joanparker2443
    @joanparker2443 Рік тому +1

    Maurice can't wait for state of mind. I look forward to sunday.Thank you much.

  • @nancydunston1215
    @nancydunston1215 Рік тому +2

    Very intense interview!!!
    Love you Maurice, so very helpful!

  • @rmf6160
    @rmf6160 Рік тому

    Thank you to Ben for sharing his story!

  • @elizabethjrich4415
    @elizabethjrich4415 Рік тому +1

    Maurice you do amazing work with channel. I shared this to Facebook, people need to hear this story. God bless both of you. 🙏❤️💙🙏

    • @nicolamclain7465
      @nicolamclain7465 Рік тому

      Hello Elizabeth how’re you doing and your family hope they’re all doing great

  • @ileanacarbajal658
    @ileanacarbajal658 Рік тому +4

    Howdy Maurice and y'all State of Mind fans!♡😁👋👋👋

    • @rebeccakesner9840
      @rebeccakesner9840 Рік тому

      Love State Of Mind Look Forward To It Every Week God Bless You

  • @thelmajohnson2955
    @thelmajohnson2955 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Maurice your State of Mine interview will help a lot of people who stigmatize mental health issues👍🏽

  • @nancymcdowell7482
    @nancymcdowell7482 Рік тому +1

    Perfect Ben. You’ve helped a lot of people. Please know that. You are appreciated. 🌹

    • @nicolamclain7465
      @nicolamclain7465 Рік тому +1

      Hi Nancy how’re you doing

    • @nancymcdowell7482
      @nancymcdowell7482 Рік тому +1

      @@nicolamclain7465 Doing well

    • @nicolamclain7465
      @nicolamclain7465 Рік тому

      Where’re you from ?

    • @nicolamclain7465
      @nicolamclain7465 Рік тому

      @@nancymcdowell7482 it’s nice to hear from you . I reside here in Virginia. It’s a beautiful weather today

    • @nicolamclain7465
      @nicolamclain7465 Рік тому

      @@nancymcdowell7482 Hello Nancy how’re you doing . Good morning to you and your family

  • @GrannieLee
    @GrannieLee Рік тому

    Fascinating....raw and real!! This will help more folks than anyone can know.

  • @valerierosenberg8747
    @valerierosenberg8747 Рік тому +1

    Wow it was the best one yet thank you

  • @karynlein1543
    @karynlein1543 Рік тому

    This was very, very inspiring; To view a non-actor and hear his experience, strength and hope helps so much. Ty Maurice! 👍

  • @maryjuntunen6425
    @maryjuntunen6425 Рік тому

    Bravo to you and Ben!
    I hope there will be more officers who will share their stories.
    We back the Blue 💙

  • @laurahine2703
    @laurahine2703 Рік тому +2

    Maurice great chat! What a hero & to be 50 years old to finally get diagnosed wow ! Love GH 30 years & still watching! My therapy along with SOM ! Thank you so much! You have saved me! I'm 💔 since my daughter passed 3months ago ..Freddy always trying to get me....Love ya! 😍

    • @MBStateOfMind
      @MBStateOfMind  Рік тому +1

      You are stronger than you know

    • @laurahine2703
      @laurahine2703 Рік тому

      @@MBStateOfMind Thank you Maurice! God bless you & all you do for everyone! Love ya 🥰

  • @ms_monterroso
    @ms_monterroso Рік тому +1

    I was diagnosed at 49 as well. I turned 50 that year, actually today is my birthday.
    I think I've lived with it my whole life without knowing.
    For a couple of decades I've (my family & friends) noticed how it got grew worse and worse.
    Was finally diagnosed when I was 49 and have had to learn to live with it. It's been difficult but, slowly I've coped, do the best I can and take it one day at all time.
    Theee most important thing I do is take my medicine every single day. Don't miss a therapy session and remember that I will have good and bad days.

  • @marysnellgrove6695
    @marysnellgrove6695 Рік тому +1

    God Bless all our first responders

  • @michellesolazzo7828
    @michellesolazzo7828 Рік тому +1

    Very powerful an sad that it took him so long to get help happy sunday moe!!!!

  • @susanayer2603
    @susanayer2603 Рік тому +2

    I can’t wait for the state of mine I’ve been watching you for a little while now it’s very interesting what you have to say

  • @grandmaeeskitchenandcrafts
    @grandmaeeskitchenandcrafts Рік тому

    You are an incredible actor, I really love watching GS. It's been my show since I was 4 years old and watching it with my mom while she ironed our clothes ❣️

  • @robins1526
    @robins1526 Рік тому +1

    Listening to you and others that have bipolar, what you were feeling, has helped me come to terms with my fathers death at age 61. He never wanted to talk about it and even after being diagnosed, he didn’t really seem like he truly believed that’s what he had….but it was. He also wasn’t diagnosed until he was 59

  • @myopinion4108
    @myopinion4108 Рік тому +2

    Just started watching now. Loving it already. Diagnosed at FIFTY!! I can’t imagine finding out now what mental illness I have! I’ve known since I was young. 🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @Pfhoney50
    @Pfhoney50 Рік тому +2

    Great inteview

  • @kimmock2892
    @kimmock2892 Рік тому +1

    Wow! This episode was awesome! God bless you, Ben Martinez, and thank you for being a good police officer!

  • @ldennehy2720
    @ldennehy2720 Рік тому +2

    God Bless him, I salute you for All you do...

  • @EbonyCoulter6723
    @EbonyCoulter6723 Рік тому +2

    Great guess Maurice and happy sunday keep up the good work

  • @tammyhoffman12
    @tammyhoffman12 Рік тому +1

    So awesome! Spreading the word all over! Thanks for talking n sharing Ben! I hope you feel better for actually Talking out loud about it all! Can help so many police officers and more! ❤

  • @rosepeddle4940
    @rosepeddle4940 Рік тому +1

    So enjoyed watching this. Maurice you are the greatest. Thank you for bringing him on.🥰♥️🥰♥️

  • @barbarabartek4963
    @barbarabartek4963 Рік тому

    My husband was diagnosed with bi polar recently and it’s been a hard road. He is taking meds for it but doesn’t seem to help him his anxiety is through the roof right now. Seeing a therapist but it’s so hard for him you said the anxiety was the worst part and his is too. I pray he can get it at the very least calmed down. I am listening to all your state of minds just so I can understand what he’s going through. Got 2 books I’m reading but it’s just hard i hate seeing him so anxious.

  • @mariapantzinis
    @mariapantzinis Рік тому +1

    Great interview! One of the best Maurice. Thank you Ben for your service.

  • @rebeccarodriguez2581
    @rebeccarodriguez2581 Рік тому +1

    Wow! Ben is so inspiring. I appreciate his candor. This will help a lot of people. Thank you!

  • @bleuskye8124
    @bleuskye8124 Рік тому +1

    Buspar gave me some extremely painful headaches. It was prescribed for depression .

  • @khandravanholten2514
    @khandravanholten2514 Рік тому +1

    Great interview Maurice.

  • @kelliemccormick3703
    @kelliemccormick3703 Рік тому

    Fantastic show thank you Mr Martinez for telling your story God bless you both

  • @kariebushey8741
    @kariebushey8741 Рік тому +1

    Maurice I have been following you for a bit, I am so glad I found you. I don't have mental illness, fingers crossed, but my family does. I've had 2 of my siblings die at the age of 28, seperate times. Drugs, alcohol and other things
    It's sad, I believe my sister was bipolar, but I don't know. I get conflicting info. I am older, so I wasn't involved as much. Thank you for your channel.

  • @reneed326
    @reneed326 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Ben and Maurice. Great job 👍

  • @nannettebateau9914
    @nannettebateau9914 Рік тому

    Excellent!! More needs to be talked about. Never let the bad guys win even if it is enteral

  • @pats7276
    @pats7276 Рік тому +2

    Hi Maurice 👋 I had to share this on Facebook. It rang true in so many ways for me. I hope this reaches those it is meant to reach and explains to those like myself. Maybe Ben may be able to help more if he speaks more. Bless you both and keep on keeping on. 🙏 💞

  • @patriciaszini2048
    @patriciaszini2048 Рік тому +1

    God is with you both!

  • @aprilmiller5121
    @aprilmiller5121 Рік тому +2

    This is one of the best state of mind that I have seen so far. I would love to know how Ben handled his bipolar was it medication? Or did he just go through it. I know that he was in a mental institution just like you were but how did he deal with his bipolar? It would be great to have them on again.

    • @MBStateOfMind
      @MBStateOfMind  Рік тому +1

      You’re right absolutely

    • @teresavega7675
      @teresavega7675 Рік тому

      I agree with you April! I was waiting for Ben to talk about how he coped with the diagnosis of Bi-polar. MEDS? Part 2 Maurice?

  • @dinaspangler685
    @dinaspangler685 Рік тому

    This was an awesome episode.

  • @bleuskye8124
    @bleuskye8124 Рік тому +2

    I get such a kick when you talk about not being sure if you graduated High School. 😂....This definitely was a great episode

  • @airforcemax
    @airforcemax Рік тому +2

    9:50 am Pacific Standard Time on Sunday, 6 November 2022!*

  • @donnamadiagan7402
    @donnamadiagan7402 Рік тому +1

    Good work Maurice

  • @annettecaamano3536
    @annettecaamano3536 Рік тому

    Maurice, another interview well done.

  • @laurenpundmann9111
    @laurenpundmann9111 Рік тому +1

    Wow that was a powerful interview this helps people out there that there not along getting help is not weak your saving your life. I have depression myself and it's hard. You matter ♥️

  • @roseprouty2413
    @roseprouty2413 Рік тому

    Thank You! ❤️

  • @lisaschulz1868
    @lisaschulz1868 Рік тому

    My husband was a law enforcement officer for over 30 years, he finally retired after all the “defund the police “ campaign started.

  • @wolfgangproductions7402
    @wolfgangproductions7402 Рік тому

    Loved seeing your son on GH today ❤

  • @susiebarger2040
    @susiebarger2040 Рік тому +1

    Long time gh fan/ sonny just running across this ,I do laundry at a nursing home and I love listening, my husband is bi-polar very informative, entertaining and seeing ur real side is awesome, just wanted to give u a shout ,hopefully u read ur comments if so my name is susie from Kentucky maybe u shout back at me ,.. .fingers crossed ...lol ,. Keep this up its nice to see someone I'm a fan of ,to see you are real normal people as well 😉 ty!!!!!

  • @margep2842M
    @margep2842M Рік тому +1

    Loved this!

  • @tashatopalakis2035
    @tashatopalakis2035 Рік тому +2

    🙏💙🙏

  • @katethayer4633
    @katethayer4633 Рік тому +2

    YES! No more defunding the police. I agree that there are some bad apples, but I also think that the media plays a part in portraying them in a way that causes the public to have the wrong impression of police in general. Respect!! 👮🏼‍♂️👮🏻

  • @4Dotzopp
    @4Dotzopp Рік тому +1

    Thank you Ben!!!!
    Alaska Dottie

  • @miriamlopez9925
    @miriamlopez9925 Рік тому

    Love you Sunny 😎

  • @tracydarby9091
    @tracydarby9091 Рік тому +1

    Kansas City Police Department is THE ONLY CITY IN THE COUNTRY controlled by the State Legislature!!! It's NOT fair that a state with majority rural counties & a Super Majority Republican Legislature are making decisions for the 2nd largest city in the state! These rural Legislators have NO clue what a metropolitan large city needs! THIS NEEDS TO BE RETURNED TO LOCAL CONTROL. You want to know why the crime is high in Kansas City - because the Mayor & City Council is overruled every single time they try to bring crime down!!!

  • @TihetrisWeathersby
    @TihetrisWeathersby Рік тому +1

    When are you gonna get Nicholas Chavez on the show Maurice?

  • @nancymcdowell7482
    @nancymcdowell7482 Рік тому +1

    ❤️

  • @martaanderson3797
    @martaanderson3797 Рік тому

    Fantastic interview. Definitely hope you are able to get help for more officers. Today's world is so frightening for all. We need their help and we need then in a good state of mind. They are appreciated by majority and deserve the best. Please help them

  • @catherinemalizia9290
    @catherinemalizia9290 Рік тому +2

    Very intelligent guest I learned many things listening to Ben. Great interview Maurice as always. REMEMBER BACK THE BLUE. Congrats Maurice❤.

  • @dko528
    @dko528 Рік тому +2

    I susbscribed!

    • @MBStateOfMind
      @MBStateOfMind  Рік тому +1

      Thank you

    • @nicolamclain7465
      @nicolamclain7465 Рік тому

      Hello Deb how’re you doing

    • @dko528
      @dko528 Рік тому +1

      @@nicolamclain7465 I’m blessed! And you?

    • @nicolamclain7465
      @nicolamclain7465 Рік тому

      @@dko528 nice to hear from you and I hope you’re having a wonderful day over there . Please may I know where you’re from ?

    • @nicolamclain7465
      @nicolamclain7465 Рік тому

      @@dko528 Hello Deb how’re you doing today and Good morning to you and your family

  • @ranaedownard-wooden857
    @ranaedownard-wooden857 Рік тому +1

    I've been with my husband 43yrs & he was a Phoenix (Arizona) Police Officer for 26yrs but he had to take a Medical Retirement in 2000. Its been hard watching this defund the police & the Covid shot then so many getting let go because they choose not to take the shot. Now we are seeing officers in situations they don't have the ability to deal with like my husband did. It breaks our hearts seeing them getting shot at when they drive down a street or pull up to a call. My sister-in-law wasn't diagnosed until she was in her 30's & her folks had died. She has now married & has such a better life. Life was full of ups & downs for her. I have a 2nd Cousin who is like my daughter who is Bipolar but she was diagnosed when she was a teen. It has been like a light when on & calmed her life down. She is now married with 3 kids. Your letting people know its ok to get this diagnose from their doctor explains so much & helps the family understand.

  • @4Dotzopp
    @4Dotzopp Рік тому +1

    I didn’t take the gun but I did take the pills 💊. My husband took me to the hospital 🏥. I woke up in physc ward.😢
    Alaska Dottie