Hi everyone, there is an error on topic #6 it says shoes instead of grades. Please ignore, sorry about that :/❤️ Also, if you guys have any more advice videos you want me to do comment them!! I love helping you guys out & being the sister you never had 🥺
Thanks for advice. Only thing for me is im not allowed to wear makeup but i can wear mascara. I have light eyebrows too… well ill just do what you said in the part where people just mess with me. Thanjs!
@@phoenixdelrey4757 well the thing is this year I’m actually going in full days, last year I went in one month in the beginning did virtual most of the year and from March to June I went it but only 2-3 times a week so it was kinda crazy since things were complicated and we were dealing with COVID problems and stuff
Not trying to hate or anything but I honestly would not listen to everything this girl says cause literally none of the like stuff is gonna help really like i mean like the shower everyday thing yeah but like it doesn’t matter just be you and you will be better off than listening to this vid. Just my opinion tho hope you have an amazing7 th grade year
@@poorvi1138 what does being a guy have to do with anything? guys care about grades just as much as girls. no need to bring gender into it. also, colleges are slowly stopping looking at grades, they really are stopping to care.
Im going into 6th grade and k dont want to mess it up because i only have one first year of middle school and i want to do the best i can. This advise really helped
Whatever you do if you get a girls number don't share no personal Information or secrets or send personal photos, because who i thought was my closes friend grabbed all this information I've said and used it against me to make people think I'm weird. For 7th grade I'm scared my anxiety is over this roof
Ty I’m going into 6th grade in mid August and my whole family is worried for that because 6th grade is the grade where kids stop acting nice and become different so tysm
I'm going into 8th and something that helped me is paying attention and leaving the toxicity out of my life and just trying to find what is best for me, I hope your 6th grade year goes well
One of my stupidest decision in middle schools from 6th to the first semester of 8th grade is focusing on being a class clown. I felt so lonely and it did not make me happy, people only use me for entertainment and tease me around but never for friendship.
Topic #1 Mindset 1:04 Topic #2 Sports + extracurriculars 3:03 Topic #3 Friends 3:42 Topic #4 Clothing 5:00 Topic #5 Shoes 6:55 Topic #6 Grades (idk why it says shoes) 7:47 Topic #7 Drama 9:23 Topic #8 Makeup 11:17 I always put these on any back to school video so I can remember lol
Thank you so much. These tips will help me when I Go to middle school, especially friends my friends are not the for the rest of the year best but some of them are and I hope I make new besties!
Thank you for the advice on 8th grade this really helps! I had a very bad year in the 7th grade mostly because I never listened when people would tell me “never get involved in drama” and that’s just what I did. 😅 As a result I had really toxic friends so I had to drop the entire friend group. I ended the year with only one true friend which could be worse but it’s fine with me. I have been watching many of these videos so that I can have a clean fresh 8th grade year and enjoy it and definitely not repeat the mistakes i made before.
@@Adah-cr1nz hey how was your experience? im going into 8th grade next year and ngl 6th grade was absolutely horrible, fake friends, being manipulated, and overall i was just really insecure 7th grade was better, dropped most friends now i only have 1 friend i actually adore but shes kinda clingy to me and also someone else, but im getting more attention from boys which i got absolutely 0 plays last year
Hi I’m going into 7th grade and this video helped me a lot. You have no idea how many hours I’ve spent watching vids like this. I’m so grateful I found this video cause it’s the best one I’ve watched so far
This is the best video for tips I have ever seen, in the first part we’re you said be yourself you made me feel so good bc no one ever really explains why it’s best to be yourself, you just got a new follower:)
"Even the place that you live right now, that might be temporary" I'm watching this because i'm moving to a completely different school and house. I'm going to admit, I am not the best looking and I am horrible at making new friends. I hope this helps me because this year I'm going to really try to change for the better and new
Girl just fake it till you make it literally and if you can’t find something to do that most people are not at your age I picked up the gym and reading and I got up and ran at 5am before school for a while find something that’s sets you apart in a good way and shows that your better in a way. Just try not to make yourself out to be cocky and you will be respected
i feel like this sounds dismissive but this was me too and it really helped me to remember that pretty much everyone else has low self esteem too at your/our age and you're never alone in your feelings including this one
I know this was 8 months ago, but this was rlly helpful, and I’m struggling with middle school, some with grades, but mostly with the school itself, all these were very relatable and u fixed the problems, thank you❤️
So I decided to add to this advice to start off in my opinion the best way to avoid drama is to be so kind to everyone that you cause nothing and nobody dislikes you. Don’t try and be in the popular groups just let yourself be happy with the people you know and mesh with. It’s better to be a friend to everyone then chasing certain people. Also if your kind it will make you happy and fill out your personality in a good way. Also people will see you as a positive influence and make kinder choices. Middle school is a very selfish time everyone is trying to figure themselves out and they won’t be as kind. But if you are you can make them feel better and make real friends and hope to make a change. Personally I give out gum and candy and in general try to be nice and polite. I hold doors and others now like that people and teachers/employees will like you and you could get it on your record. people are shallow and will care about appearance not personality. So just make sure you have proper hygiene other than that don’t really worry about style cause honestly the people that care about you will like you for who you are. Another suggestion for finding friends is finding people with similar interests because the could help you in later careers like with music I have friends who are also into music and I could start a band with them or something. Also find friends with positive influences and be a positive influence. Don’t do things that you think are bad ideas that could get you in trouble. Take opportunities that could look good on your record. And in general be kind. And I’m a dude and in terms of relationships, focus on school and don’t worry about them. Most people have a crush on the same 3 people anyway and it’s shallow love so it’s not worth it. I personally care about personality but most don’t. And it might be more advantageous to wait for later to avoid shallow love. And to make sure nothing bad happens and when your older your more responsible and people care about you more. Also you will avoid more drama when your in a better mental place. But my primary advice is be kind to everyone, include everyone, be yourself, focus on school and opportunities, don’t make dumb decisions that could make it hard for you to succeed. Sorry it was long. This video is also very great advice though.
🚨Even in middle school, mental health is important🚨 I had a friend that had to repeat 7th grade. She was super depressed and had drug and alcohol problems. She was also suicidal(but she never actually killed herself). This is just a reminder that u need to cut out toxicity, but remember to always be nice
Coming from another highschooler, the three most important things that will get you through 90% of middle school are -Be friends with the people you aspire to be. (If you aspire to be popular, or have every guy in the grade drooling, or edgy, you will not be liked, and you will not be happy) -If it doesn't make you happy don't do it, this includes hanging out with people. (Except schoolwork, do that, living in a box is cold in the winter) -If you think you need help get help. You have a right to speak up about how you're doing mentally and/or how you're being treated. You'll only regret it in the future if you avoid getting help. Also friends aren't help, they're support, it's a very big difference. - I lied there's 4 things. Absolutely nobody can tell you what you need to do or not do in middle school because nobody is you. Be true to yourself a fck anyone who tries to tell you that what you believe is wrong. You read this, but that doesn't mean you have to listen to me. You are the expert on you. Good luck, friend. It'll be one of the hardest things you'll ever do, but you'll come out on the other side a new person. For the better or worse, that's up to you.
I went through the 6th grade online and had 3 weeks of real school with 2 periods and from 7-1 pm. I feel like it isn’t fair for me to be thrown into the 7th grade with little to no knowledge of how middle school works with the teachers expecting me to work it out .-.
My first day of school is tmrw I’m so nervous but ill update (update) it was good but none of my classes are with friends :( im more excited that I manifested rain 😅
TYSMMM, i'll go to 6th grade soon on a new school (unfortunately it was uniforms and strict dress code), im rlly scared bc almost no friends are coming w/ me.This helped me a lot, and im searching for a glow up, not physically(i mean a little bit cuz my skin is needing help rn), but mentally.Im rlly scared of drama in middle school and you helped me a LOT with just this video.In my elementary i had kind of a trauma or 2 but im fine(oh as in trauma its not exactly trauma) and that just makes me just feel scared of the drama following me and stuff. P.s:If i remember ill update idc if nobody answers this
Oh! My first day of middle school is tomorrow. If your daughter has started school, I hope she’s doing well! If she hasn’t, I wish her all the best!! 😁
Update: My first day of school was awesome! Passing periods terrified me bc I couldn't fit everything into my laptop bag thingy and I was carrying my flute that couldn't fit my locker the whole day so it was kinda hard to manage stuff. :)
i’m going into 7th and the thing about grades is so true like i’m currently on track to be taking pre algebra and algebra 1 in 7th then geometry in 8th
soo i really needed this because the whole year of sixth grade i did online, so i barely even have an idea of what middle school is like. i had a friend one year older than me and she barely told me anything, i would ask her and she basically would ignore me for some reason. and to add to not knowing much about it, i moved across the country (texas to new york) right after sixth grade was over, so i won’t even know anybody when i start school in a little less than a month.sorry 4 the long comment, anyway, thanks lol.
I found out I had 7 periods for my middle school, and I'm going in like this August, I think or October, so Hopefully I can survive, I just hope there will be no drama like this year
Ty so much for the tips and bringing it out on yt to share I’m glad I clicked on this video because I’m entering 6th and I also saw the other video 😁 I love ur room 😌
TY SO MUUCCHHHHHHH im going to 7th grade in person and i just needed this because i had online school for 6th grade so i didnt know much about actually going in person and this help soooooo much!!!!! >w
Hey! I love this video. Most of the information is great! Allthough, if someone is bullying you and creating drama, you shouldn't just say, "Ok," or ignore them because usually they will keep saying things about you. There is a book called, "How to manage your social power in middle school." Personally, I think that really helps if u have problems with drama and other stuff. Other than that, I loved the video!
Thx so much I’m going to 6th grade in the fall this is going to help! It’s not that far away! I’m excited but nervous but thanks to your video i feel much more better
For the higher classes, check what your state and county does for that in your schools, because there was nothing about higher classes when I was in middle school.
I thought you were gonna be some random high school girl talking about makeup and dresses to wear to school but then you started to say very true things like how people try to change you and the changes you will naturally experience. Liked and subbed.
Ayo hi! Imma be in 7th grade in a few days and im super nervous bc I was online all last year and everyone is already used to middle school and im just kinda left behind. Plus im having real bad self esteem and social anxiety go brrrr!!!! Ty for the tips bestie
So far, I'm liking the advice you're giving. There's a book for people who have not learned self love yet so there'll be a link on a book sample at the very end. Trust me, I'm not one to steal information. I am not experienced with hacking of some sort or something, so don't think I coded the link. The purpose of the link is to send you a sample of a book that talked about middle school life. Don't worry, it's not the whole book. Someone lovely sent me the link so I could read a good story or sample or self love and/or the words "Comparison is the thief of joy" As someone who's almost done with middle school... There something I'd like to say to this part: 2:17 So this is for people who are trying to change who they are to something they aren't only to fit in I'm not sure if any of you heard the quote "Comparison is the thief of joy" But if not, I'll explain. If so and you probably don't know what the quote means, then I'll still explain. So let's say you have a friend who has better grades than you, made an A on his, her, or their test and you got an B on yours. Before finding out the friends grade, you'd feel good or okay about it. So you'll see your friends grade and then you may think oh- _"My grade is no better, their A is like a rocket going into space, it has a point... Meanwhile my B has curved and one straight line. It points no where, no stars or space. My friend is better than me, I should've done better. I'm not as good as they are..."_ Or if your friend had a better drawing skill and then you start to think _"Damnit, I wish I was as amazing as he, she or they are at art. I wanna be able to create a masterpiece but I can't, they're already a master at art, I don't think I can get anywhere with this crap..."_ Like okay.. Stop comparing yourself to others. Comparing yourself to others who you think or "know" are better than you won't make you any happier. You never know if the person you compare yourself to has their own problems. You may think they have a perfect like just because they: • Look good • Dress good • Act good • Have good grades and stuff But sometimes, you never know if this person cries their self to sleep. You never know if they went through the same thing you did, trying to be something they aren't. You never really know a person's background, not everyone has a perfect life inside. I often compare myself to people who don't have scars on their face or acne or have a good body shape because I know I'm no perfect. Because of this, I exercise at the gym. Also because I'm not active everyday, so I start hitting the gym, that way I can be slim and nice looking. I'm a weird, funny, goofy and artistic person in school. But I also have social anxiety. When I'm at school, I look at people and I see how extrovert they are and I sometimes wish I were like that. Hmm... Think about it this way, Your favorite fruit is an apple and you have a nice red, shiny, juicy apple in front of you and you're about to eat it. But as soon as you raise your hand to get the apple, someone else takes it and then you get upset because someone took it. That person took that joy of eating a nice red apple and now you're upset. Don't let that stop you though, you can always go and find another nice apple. Next time may be better, this time it's sweeter and juicier and pure red. Just because things don't go well the first time doesn't mean it won't go well the second. On my first day of 6th grade, I was afraid of not being able to make friends. I was bullied for my acne and size along the 6th grade school year. It was only one bully though. But I guess I got offended by some others... I started comparing myself to the bully like "she's cool... I'll try to change myself to be as cool as she is" So I add jewelry to myself and some other accessories because I was always too plain and simple, no accessories. So I changed that part about me, I noticed she started to talk to me a little, like one time she showed me a video of two kids kissing each other, like any other cool kid would do. Now I think those "cool kids" would only hang out with you for your looks and personality. So it's better to be yourself. My personality is what makes me me. It's a part of my identity. Today, I don't act like someone I'm not. I'm not a follower, as I am my own leader. You have to love yourself for who you are and not for who you're not. I like art, I'm devoted, I'm quirky, I'm easy to talk to, I'm goofy, funny, sometimes stupid. I'm just a plain girl. Fun. Those traits about me are part of my identity and my identity is what people most recognize me as. Again, don't be something you're not and be something you know you should be and are to be. Be yourself. Show your inner fun and cool self. If you think kids in your school are cooler, then just know that nothing's more cooler than who you are deep down inside and not who you are trying to be. And don't compare yourself, you'll make yourself unhappy for that. If you want to look good, you always have to be positive and yourself. Don't be negative. Trust me, the more you love yourself for who you are, the better you'll look. If someone bullies you, don't walk out on them or don't hesitate on saying something because that'll only show your weakness. You could actually say something back with your words. I can't exactly help with standing up to bullies as it had been a while since I've been bullied and I never exactly learned to stand up to them for myself. But even bullies words shouldn't affect me. If they call you ugly, then just think to yourself "Not as ugly as the words you've given to me. I'm beautiful inside, and that's what makes me beautiful outside too." Again, Don't be negative. Don't compare yourself to others... Here's a much better and weirder explanation of how to deal with bumpy situations in middle school: www.overdrive.com/media/2412697/surviving-middle-school
I've already been in middle school for like a year (I'm going into 6th) and I barely knew like anything to do and also made a terrible impression 😍 but this does help a lot
When u said that u would be like our big sister I got sad because I am the big sister of 3 sisters and every time I need an advice from someone I cant ask nobody only my friends cause my little siblings don’t know anything and my parents r busy with work all the time so I always wished to have a big sister 🙁
Hi everyone, there is an error on topic #6 it says shoes instead of grades. Please ignore, sorry about that :/❤️ Also, if you guys have any more advice videos you want me to do comment them!! I love helping you guys out & being the sister you never had 🥺
Wow a lot of people are commenting on this video today
Oh it was because it was posted yest
Can you do how to survive high school?
Thanks for advice. Only thing for me is im not allowed to wear makeup but i can wear mascara. I have light eyebrows too… well ill just do what you said in the part where people just mess with me. Thanjs!
Lol that's what i was about to comment about
“people find themselves and lose themselves “
dang, that cut in deep-
Exactly 💯
Tysm for the advice, im going into 7th grade and that’s where things are prob gonna open up more for me.
Yea same
Same
well haven’t you already gone into 6th grade? so you know what middle school is like?
@@phoenixdelrey4757 well the thing is this year I’m actually going in full days, last year I went in one month in the beginning did virtual most of the year and from March to June I went it but only 2-3 times a week so it was kinda crazy since things were complicated and we were dealing with COVID problems and stuff
@@enhlouv4745 omg thats actually why im watching this video lol, same thing happened to me except i was online the WHOLE year
This rlly helped me since six grade nothing rlly happened on since we weren’t really in school.
YESS 100 percent
Yup
Not trying to hate or anything but I honestly would not listen to everything this girl says cause literally none of the like stuff is gonna help really like i mean like the shower everyday thing yeah but like it doesn’t matter just be you and you will be better off than listening to this vid. Just my opinion tho hope you have an amazing7 th grade year
@@Summer4evr yeah I agree
@@poorvi1138 what does being a guy have to do with anything? guys care about grades just as much as girls. no need to bring gender into it. also, colleges are slowly stopping looking at grades, they really are stopping to care.
Im going into 6th grade and k dont want to mess it up because i only have one first year of middle school and i want to do the best i can. This advise really helped
@Elianna.gymnast the country matters ngl
Whatever you do if you get a girls number don't share no personal Information or secrets or send personal photos, because who i thought was my closes friend grabbed all this information I've said and used it against me to make people think I'm weird. For 7th grade I'm scared my anxiety is over this roof
6th grade was SOOO hard for me@Elianna.gymnast
Good luck in 7th this year!
Ty I’m going into 6th grade in mid August and my whole family is worried for that because 6th grade is the grade where kids stop acting nice and become different so tysm
Tip stay out of the drama I’m leaving sixth
I'm going into 8th and something that helped me is paying attention and leaving the toxicity out of my life and just trying to find what is best for me, I hope your 6th grade year goes well
@@emilydeleon3555 thx 😄
Wait same!
avoid the drama and big friend groups
“Be yourself”
Me who has 200+ other personality’s：🤯🤯🤯
What anime is your pfp from?
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idk even know whatis my personality 😭
same💯💯💯😭😭😭
Me who has an identity crisis going on 💀
One of my stupidest decision in middle schools from 6th to the first semester of 8th grade is focusing on being a class clown. I felt so lonely and it did not make me happy, people only use me for entertainment and tease me around but never for friendship.
that’s deep
Topic #1 Mindset 1:04
Topic #2 Sports + extracurriculars 3:03
Topic #3 Friends 3:42
Topic #4 Clothing 5:00
Topic #5 Shoes 6:55
Topic #6 Grades (idk why it says shoes) 7:47
Topic #7 Drama 9:23
Topic #8 Makeup 11:17
I always put these on any back to school video so I can remember lol
Guys I just noticed the pinned comment about topic #6 lol 🫣
Thank you so much. These tips will help me when I Go to middle school, especially friends my friends are not the for the rest of the year best but some of them are and I hope I make new besties!
Omgggg im going to middle school this year aswell
Same
Thank you for the advice on 8th grade this really helps! I had a very bad year in the 7th grade mostly because I never listened when people would tell me “never get involved in drama” and that’s just what I did. 😅 As a result I had really toxic friends so I had to drop the entire friend group. I ended the year with only one true friend which could be worse but it’s fine with me. I have been watching many of these videos so that I can have a clean fresh 8th grade year and enjoy it and definitely not repeat the mistakes i made before.
literally, SAME!!
@@Adah-cr1nz hey how was your experience? im going into 8th grade next year and ngl 6th grade was absolutely horrible, fake friends, being manipulated, and overall i was just really insecure 7th grade was better, dropped most friends now i only have 1 friend i actually adore but shes kinda clingy to me and also someone else, but im getting more attention from boys which i got absolutely 0 plays last year
going into 8th grade in a public school for the first time in 6 years thank you for these!!
Hi I’m going into 7th grade and this video helped me a lot. You have no idea how many hours I’ve spent watching vids like this. I’m so grateful I found this video cause it’s the best one I’ve watched so far
same I'm nervous
My anxiety is over the roof. Because I look different, as a grow up. I'm scared af...
YOU ARE SUCH A LIFE SAVER AND AMAZING AT GIVING ADVISEEEEEEEE HI BIG NEW SIS
HEYY
This is the best video for tips I have ever seen, in the first part we’re you said be yourself you made me feel so good bc no one ever really explains why it’s best to be yourself, you just got a new follower:)
I'm going into 8th grade, this helped alot thank you.
Hey, i’m going into 8th grade. Did these tips help? I’m very nervous
"Even the place that you live right now, that might be temporary"
I'm watching this because i'm moving to a completely different school and house. I'm going to admit, I am not the best looking and I am horrible at making new friends. I hope this helps me because this year I'm going to really try to change for the better and new
I'm going into 7th grade and i have low self esteem but i'm getting more & more better , this really helped me so thank you.
Girl just fake it till you make it literally and if you can’t find something to do that most people are not at your age
I picked up the gym and reading and I got up and ran at 5am before school for a while find something that’s sets you apart in a good way and shows that your better in a way. Just try not to make yourself out to be cocky and you will be respected
me too!
i feel like this sounds dismissive but this was me too and it really helped me to remember that pretty much everyone else has low self esteem too at your/our age and you're never alone in your feelings including this one
I know this was 8 months ago, but this was rlly helpful, and I’m struggling with middle school, some with grades, but mostly with the school itself, all these were very relatable and u fixed the problems, thank you❤️
So I decided to add to this advice to start off in my opinion the best way to avoid drama is to be so kind to everyone that you cause nothing and nobody dislikes you. Don’t try and be in the popular groups just let yourself be happy with the people you know and mesh with. It’s better to be a friend to everyone then chasing certain people. Also if your kind it will make you happy and fill out your personality in a good way. Also people will see you as a positive influence and make kinder choices. Middle school is a very selfish time everyone is trying to figure themselves out and they won’t be as kind. But if you are you can make them feel better and make real friends and hope to make a change. Personally I give out gum and candy and in general try to be nice and polite. I hold doors and others now like that people and teachers/employees will like you and you could get it on your record. people are shallow and will care about appearance not personality. So just make sure you have proper hygiene other than that don’t really worry about style cause honestly the people that care about you will like you for who you are. Another suggestion for finding friends is finding people with similar interests because the could help you in later careers like with music I have friends who are also into music and I could start a band with them or something. Also find friends with positive influences and be a positive influence. Don’t do things that you think are bad ideas that could get you in trouble. Take opportunities that could look good on your record. And in general be kind. And I’m a dude and in terms of relationships, focus on school and don’t worry about them. Most people have a crush on the same 3 people anyway and it’s shallow love so it’s not worth it. I personally care about personality but most don’t. And it might be more advantageous to wait for later to avoid shallow love. And to make sure nothing bad happens and when your older your more responsible and people care about you more. Also you will avoid more drama when your in a better mental place. But my primary advice is be kind to everyone, include everyone, be yourself, focus on school and opportunities, don’t make dumb decisions that could make it hard for you to succeed. Sorry it was long. This video is also very great advice though.
I would like to add that although you should be kind to people, you shouldn't let them use you.
Ye I have had that problem in the past. Your right.
best middle school advice I’ve ever heard. thank you :)
Oh em geeeee tyyyyy im going into middle school this year I’m literally so excited
Same!
Same
Das cool!! Good luckkkkk!!! XDDD
@@SCP_TXTSY thanks 😊
@@blxssomplaysx ofcccccc!!!! X3
Topic 5: shoes
So grades are really important..”
Omggg tyyy I am going in middle school in 4 days! Ahhhh life saver
This helped so much!!im going into middle school and this saved me thank you!!❤️❤️
🚨Even in middle school, mental health is important🚨
I had a friend that had to repeat 7th grade. She was super depressed and had drug and alcohol problems. She was also suicidal(but she never actually killed herself). This is just a reminder that u need to cut out toxicity, but remember to always be nice
UGH THIS VIDEO IS VERY HELPFUL SO MUCH BETTER THEN THE OTHERS
Great message :)
HOLY MOLY, HEYY!!
Omg hiiii
Guys I’m going into 7th grade and I watched all of these types of videos and this one is the best one It actually applies to Middle School
Don’t worry your not going to get bullied just have fun
I’m so excited. I’m starting 7th grade in August.
Coming from another highschooler, the three most important things that will get you through 90% of middle school are
-Be friends with the people you aspire to be. (If you aspire to be popular, or have every guy in the grade drooling, or edgy, you will not be liked, and you will not be happy)
-If it doesn't make you happy don't do it, this includes hanging out with people. (Except schoolwork, do that, living in a box is cold in the winter)
-If you think you need help get help. You have a right to speak up about how you're doing mentally and/or how you're being treated. You'll only regret it in the future if you avoid getting help. Also friends aren't help, they're support, it's a very big difference.
- I lied there's 4 things. Absolutely nobody can tell you what you need to do or not do in middle school because nobody is you. Be true to yourself a fck anyone who tries to tell you that what you believe is wrong. You read this, but that doesn't mean you have to listen to me. You are the expert on you.
Good luck, friend. It'll be one of the hardest things you'll ever do, but you'll come out on the other side a new person. For the better or worse, that's up to you.
I watched your original video and I’m glad u made a second part it made me feel much better about knowing what is gonna happen
Wow, you’ve matured so much
Who’s going into 7th grade 2024? 👇🏻
Yaaaassss
@@Starz_ANG3L twinzies!
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Me!
6:51 reminder.. not everyone and everything has to be an aesthetic! Just wear what’s comfortable.
Tysm I’m am a 5th grade going into 6th and this was so helpful
2024 girly right here! Going to 6th so thanks!
For me 6th is still elementary. So I already did 6th. But good luck!
Omg tysm I’m going into 7th grade and this helped so much!!
I went through the 6th grade online and had 3 weeks of real school with 2 periods and from 7-1 pm. I feel like it isn’t fair for me to be thrown into the 7th grade with little to no knowledge of how middle school works with the teachers expecting me to work it out .-.
YES I FEEL THE SAME
YES SAME BESTIE I WAS ONLINE FOR THE ENTIRE 6TH GRADE YEAR
My first day of school is tmrw I’m so nervous but ill update (update) it was good but none of my classes are with friends :( im more excited that I manifested rain 😅
@@zyy_amaya aww, I hope it goes well! I just finished the first day of school a few hours ago!
@@Ms.GoddessAJ how was it?
TYSMMM, i'll go to 6th grade soon on a new school (unfortunately it was uniforms and strict dress code), im rlly scared bc almost no friends are coming w/ me.This helped me a lot, and im searching for a glow up, not physically(i mean a little bit cuz my skin is needing help rn), but mentally.Im rlly scared of drama in middle school and you helped me a LOT with just this video.In my elementary i had kind of a trauma or 2 but im fine(oh as in trauma its not exactly trauma) and that just makes me just feel scared of the drama following me and stuff.
P.s:If i remember ill update idc if nobody answers this
My daughter is staring middle school and this was very helpful to her.
Oh! My first day of middle school is tomorrow. If your daughter has started school, I hope she’s doing well! If she hasn’t, I wish her all the best!! 😁
Hi! I know it’s been over a year but this was sooooo helpful my first day of middle school is TOMORROW!!
Update: My first day of school was awesome! Passing periods terrified me bc I couldn't fit everything into my laptop bag thingy and I was carrying my flute that couldn't fit my locker the whole day so it was kinda hard to manage stuff. :)
Nice!!💗
🌸Thank you !! I am going to 8th grade next year and this is some great advice And it really helped! Great video🌸 🥺😖💕
Thank you means a lot
This is helpful ty! Going into 7th grade on august, im sooo excited! 😮❤😊
Same!
Thank youuu also your so prettyyy 😭
Thank you so much I was worried and over thinking about middle school and then you popped up in my recommendations!
OMG TYSM! I saw the first vid and that helped a lot! Now I can be prepared when I start middle school 😎
Thank you im new to 5th grade and this is a lifesaver!
You mean 6th
@@haileywoo9385 no, where I am middle school is 5th
@@Tweek_tweak914 ohhh ok
Okay, I just watched the old one and this one and they are both really helpful :)
I’m never watching any other channels about stuff like this because your making easy for me to understand
Ty new big sister :)
Whatever grade your in I’m guessing going to 6th , just focus on your self focus in school get good grades and hang around the right crowd
i’m going into 7th and the thing about grades is so true like i’m currently on track to be taking pre algebra and algebra 1 in 7th then geometry in 8th
Thank you so much for this video I just started middle school and it’s very confusing and I get lost a lot. This really helped thanks!
TYSM!! I am going into 6th grade and my birthday is on the FIRST DAY and that is a little nerve racking so this has helped me SO MUCH.TYTYTYTY!!
tysmm
OMG the quote you said was to beautiful!😄
soo i really needed this because the whole year of sixth grade i did online, so i barely even have an idea of what middle school is like. i had a friend one year older than me and she barely told me anything, i would ask her and she basically would ignore me for some reason. and to add to not knowing much about it, i moved across the country (texas to new york) right after sixth grade was over, so i won’t even know anybody when i start school in a little less than a month.sorry 4 the long comment, anyway, thanks lol.
Thank you so much for the advice, I’m going into middle school tomorrow and this really helped
Watching a bunch of these videos because school starts tomorrow. This really helps so thanks! Now wish me luck for tomorrow lol🚶♀️
Join a lot of clubs and sports even if your not good at them I made a lot of friends by being in clubs and met a lot of people !
After this video, it’s gonna be a welcome today, But a welcome back later ❤❤! Loved it.
thank you for the minecraft building tips ! 😁
I found out I had 7 periods for my middle school, and I'm going in like this August, I think or October, so Hopefully I can survive, I just hope there will be no drama like this year
Ur like the big sister I never had omg ty
“if you like taking showers in the morning, i’m to tired for that.”
me with curly hair: *heh right*
Where my wavy hair people 🏃🏃
@@koi.the.fish. HEREEE
@@hey-yn8yl 🤩💅
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This is really helpful because i have been online for 6th and 7th and i am thinking for going to 8th next year! Thank you!
yess tysm for this, i’m going into eighth grade so this really helped
Ty so much for the tips and bringing it out on yt to share I’m glad I clicked on this video because I’m entering 6th and I also saw the other video 😁 I love ur room 😌
TY SO MUUCCHHHHHHH im going to 7th grade in person and i just needed this because i had online school for 6th grade so i didnt know much about actually going in person and this help soooooo much!!!!! >w
K kcckc sameee
Thank you for this device is gonna be my first day of middle school
Wow she just gave us the “talk”.
Hey! I love this video. Most of the information is great! Allthough, if someone is bullying you and creating drama, you shouldn't just say, "Ok," or ignore them because usually they will keep saying things about you. There is a book called, "How to manage your social power in middle school." Personally, I think that really helps if u have problems with drama and other stuff. Other than that, I loved the video!
Thx so much I’m going to 6th grade in the fall this is going to help! It’s not that far away! I’m excited but nervous but thanks to your video i feel much more better
SAMEEE I'm soooo scared but also really excited!
@@phoebe3638 bro same do u have TikTok maybe we can talk abt middle school there if u want?!☺️
Thank you so much. I'm about to enter 6th grade. I'm extremely nervous and excited! 😅
thanks! this really helped alot since im going to be in middle school this year :)
Same
same
I’m going to 7th 🥲😖
is your experience good or bad?
@@hanna.elizabeth I hate the people there sm, but the teachers can be really nice to.
Thanks so much I’m going to grade seven and it’s in person
needed this 2 years ago WTFF
For the higher classes, check what your state and county does for that in your schools, because there was nothing about higher classes when I was in middle school.
Tysm again! 100% life saver!
OMG I am about to go into middle school and this helped so much
Thanks I’m going into my last grade of middle school so this really helped!
ily for this
TYY I NEEDED THIS IM GOING INTO 5TH GRADE
I thought you were gonna be some random high school girl talking about makeup and dresses to wear to school but then you started to say very true things like how people try to change you and the changes you will naturally experience. Liked and subbed.
Ayo hi! Imma be in 7th grade in a few days and im super nervous bc I was online all last year and everyone is already used to middle school and im just kinda left behind. Plus im having real bad self esteem and social anxiety go brrrr!!!!
Ty for the tips bestie
Same + I like Tommy
So far, I'm liking the advice you're giving.
There's a book for people who have not learned self love yet so there'll be a link on a book sample at the very end.
Trust me,
I'm not one to steal information. I am not experienced with hacking of some sort or something, so don't think I coded the link. The purpose of the link is to send you a sample of a book that talked about middle school life. Don't worry, it's not the whole book. Someone lovely sent me the link so I could read a good story or sample or self love and/or the words
"Comparison is the thief of joy"
As someone who's almost done with middle school...
There something I'd like to say to this part:
2:17
So this is for people who are trying to change who they are to something they aren't
only to fit in
I'm not sure if any of you heard the quote
"Comparison is the thief of joy"
But if not, I'll explain. If so and you probably don't know what the quote means, then I'll still explain.
So let's say you have a friend who has better grades than you, made an A on his, her, or their test and you got an B on yours.
Before finding out the friends grade, you'd feel good or okay about it.
So you'll see your friends grade and then you may think oh-
_"My grade is no better, their A is like a rocket going into space, it has a point... Meanwhile my B has curved and one straight line. It points no where, no stars or space. My friend is better than me, I should've done better. I'm not as good as they are..."_
Or if your friend had a better drawing skill and then you start to think
_"Damnit, I wish I was as amazing as he, she or they are at art. I wanna be able to create a masterpiece but I can't, they're already a master at art, I don't think I can get anywhere with this crap..."_
Like okay.. Stop comparing yourself to others. Comparing yourself to others who you think or "know" are better than you won't make you any happier.
You never know if the person you compare yourself to has their own problems. You may think they have a perfect like just because they:
• Look good
• Dress good
• Act good
• Have good grades and stuff
But sometimes, you never know if this person cries their self to sleep. You never know if they went through the same thing you did, trying to be something they aren't. You never really know a person's background, not everyone has a perfect life inside.
I often compare myself to people who don't have scars on their face or acne or have a good body shape because I know I'm no perfect. Because of this, I exercise at the gym. Also because I'm not active everyday, so I start hitting the gym, that way I can be slim and nice looking.
I'm a weird, funny, goofy and artistic person in school.
But I also have social anxiety.
When I'm at school, I look at people and I see how extrovert they are and I sometimes wish I were like that.
Hmm... Think about it this way,
Your favorite fruit is an apple and you have a nice red, shiny, juicy apple in front of you and you're about to eat it. But as soon as you raise your hand to get the apple, someone else takes it and then you get upset because someone took it. That person took that joy of eating a nice red apple and now you're upset.
Don't let that stop you though, you can always go and find another nice apple. Next time may be better, this time it's sweeter and juicier and pure red.
Just because things don't go well the first time doesn't mean it won't go well the second.
On my first day of 6th grade, I was afraid of not being able to make friends. I was bullied for my acne and size along the 6th grade school year. It was only one bully though. But I guess I got offended by some others...
I started comparing myself to the bully like
"she's cool... I'll try to change myself to be as cool as she is"
So I add jewelry to myself and some other accessories because I was always too plain and simple, no accessories. So I changed that part about me, I noticed she started to talk to me a little, like one time she showed me a video of two kids kissing each other, like any other cool kid would do.
Now I think those "cool kids" would only hang out with you for your looks and personality. So it's better to be yourself.
My personality is what makes me me. It's a part of my identity.
Today, I don't act like someone I'm not. I'm not a follower, as I am my own leader. You have to love yourself for who you are and not for who you're not.
I like art, I'm devoted, I'm quirky, I'm easy to talk to, I'm goofy, funny, sometimes stupid. I'm just a plain girl. Fun. Those traits about me are part of my identity and my identity is what people most recognize me as.
Again, don't be something you're not and be something you know you should be and are to be. Be yourself. Show your inner fun and cool self.
If you think kids in your school are cooler, then just know that nothing's more cooler than who you are deep down inside and not who you are trying to be. And don't compare yourself, you'll make yourself unhappy for that.
If you want to look good, you always have to be positive and yourself. Don't be negative. Trust me, the more you love yourself for who you are, the better you'll look.
If someone bullies you, don't walk out on them or don't hesitate on saying something because that'll only show your weakness. You could actually say something back with your words. I can't exactly help with standing up to bullies as it had been a while since I've been bullied and I never exactly learned to stand up to them for myself.
But even bullies words shouldn't affect me. If they call you ugly, then just think to yourself
"Not as ugly as the words you've given to me. I'm beautiful inside, and that's what makes me beautiful outside too."
Again, Don't be negative.
Don't compare yourself to others...
Here's a much better and weirder explanation of how to deal with bumpy situations in middle school:
www.overdrive.com/media/2412697/surviving-middle-school
tysm for this video bc like now i have like an idea about middle school and what to do, if you can pls make more advice videos
I've already been in middle school for like a year (I'm going into 6th) and I barely knew like anything to do and also made a terrible impression 😍 but this does help a lot
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Tysm! I’m going into 6th grade (my first year of middle school) soon! 💅♥︎😊
Me too!
Oml same :D
I’m a homeschooler going into pubic, thank you so much!
Ty so much for this video 😭I start 6 grade on monday
how’d it go?
@@what-li2sr went good 👍🏾
Hi! I really loved this video! I came from your original video and I think that your new opinions and points are great!
I love your eyes!!
I am really scared about going to 7th grade but these tips helped me a lot and I will try my best!
As someone who isn't American, this is very interesting :)
When u said that u would be like our big sister I got sad because I am the big sister of 3 sisters and every time I need an advice from someone I cant ask nobody only my friends cause my little siblings don’t know anything and my parents r busy with work all the time so I always wished to have a big sister 🙁
I always wished to have a younger sibling lol
your really pretty
TYSM, im going into middle school in a week so I’m terrified😭
Im going to middle school in 1 month bc i live in Germany btw dont be scared
I’m going in to middle school soon… I’m super scared😭
STOPP I REMEMBER WATCHING THIS IN 6TH GRADE LMFAO
for the thrift stores, idk if any of yall have a beau monde in ur area but they have got some cute clothes!