I used to dislike myself until I discovered unconditional self worth
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- Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
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This was the exact video I needed , I had to listen twice and plan on coming back just to truly receive everything that was said. This was perfectly said.
Thank you for being here 🥰🥰🥰
I have gone trough this period in my life and I am only 22. I also realized that when you don't your worth you settle for low vibrational men that shouldn't even get a conversation with you.
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Wow I really needed to see this video years ago before I let my father put me down for being a short man (5'3) and not knowing how to fight or defend for myself 😭. After that day I lost my confidence, self esteem, self worth and most of all my self love, and regret it every single day of my life 😭. I'm a 41 year old man who has never been able to start my own life or go after my goals and dreams. The list just seems to go on and on. Lord please make a way for in your time.
You didn’t loose anything my dear, you can decide that and tell yourself a different strong! Your past is not your present chose to let go and forgive yourself! Tell yourself a new story about yourself!
@@IAMness222 thank you! I have tried for years and years but...😭
The mental contract analogy was so powerful! We give our love out to others so freely but have so many conditions when it comes to ourselves 🤍 It truly does affect every decision we make. Such an uplifting message to spread 🫶🏾
The internet is full of nothing, Alexis has something special. Talk about using your life to speak life into others. This conversation makes perfect sense to someone who has done the work or is in the process. Love 💕💕💕💕💕💕
this brought me to tears because it is has been a rollercoaster ride with how i been feeling in my self-worth/love journey. i am an empath and sometimes what people say i do take things personally and that something that frustrates me, but i know i have come such a long way and truly heal my inner child. this was such a powerful video and it was truly something i needed. the quote by maya angelou really got me and gave me chills.
Your videos are always on point and ON TIME! I really believe god uses us to be messengers to others and i truly thank you for this message because it was for me and many others ❤
This is everything 🤍 thank you for being here!
This really hit home. I have this issue with work. I keep going back the same work that makes me feel worthless because I believe that my work equates to who I am and I don't believe I am good enough for something more. Although it's like there is conflict because i keep leaving the jobs that make me feel worthless telling myself I'm worth more but then get too scared to do the thing I think is above me. I really need to work on separating my self image from what I 'do'.
Great video, love the meaningful content you provide!
I completely understand! Just remember there are no limits to what you are capable of doing . If it’s something you really want to do and you feel really passionate about than go for it and prove to yourself that you are capable of achieving what you want ! You deserve more just like anybody else in this world . If they can do it then so can you and let that be your inspiration
I was literally just thinking the same! The job I’m in now is depressing and just saw another posting for a different position in the same company I was about to apply but I had a pause like I gotta stop doing this to myself . Time we fine places where we are meant to shine and not just settle for something because of the money or we think this is all we can get. God has a plan he will put you somewhere where others would say you’re not qualified for but you’re supposed to be there just believe in your purpose ❤
This was Divinely Timed. I appreciate your examples you provided throughout the video.
Blessings and abundance
PK
I'm so happy you were able to take something away from this! Thank you for being here 🥰
This was so good girl! Thank you for sharing. I never thought about self esteem and self worth in a separate manner like that but I knew I wanted to get to a place where I'll always love myself regardless of what happens to me or outside of me. You are so right about most of the mental struggles relating back to our self worth. Happiness truly comes from within. Your inner world determines your life - good or bad! It is so freeing knowing that you can choose to love yourself regardless of anything and it doesn't have to depend on nothing! The conditions is where we really harm ourselves (accomplishments, how we look, what we have, what we've been through, mistakes , status etc.). I pray for unconditional self love for everyone.
Whew this right here? Was a word. I’m only 17 years old but this right here is everything to me, this is a word needed to be heard young to set that foundation for a great future. I thank you for this! ❤❤
I love you girl. I don’t know why the hell you don’t get more followers.
I actually came across your channel because I was triggered and needed to occupy my mind with something else and soooo glad I found your channel! I’m on my journey of healing from a toxic marriage, traumatic divorce that took 3 years, and burn out of my job as a nurse in the hospital and embarking on a new journey! But it’s scary and I am definitely working on building my confidence again. Thank you so much for posting these and I’m planning to binge watch now 😊
You will find your way!
This was me 4 years ago. I realized thst my self worth issues stemmed from my childhood back at school. Kids at school used to treat me differently. They would stay to themselves most of the time. and for some reason my younger self, internalized that as him being unworthy to be friends with them/anyone.
I hated myself so much, never wanted to show myself in public, never wanted people to see me either so would stay at home most of the time.
I still remember how he, my younger self felt.
And yes, your right. After dealing with this issue with persistent inner work, my perception of life, myself, situations, changed for the better and in turn made me happier and confident to explore more, do more, learn more...
Oh wow, this struck a chord I didn't expect it to.... Thanks a million for all this honest and gentle content!
This is a video worth revisiting multiple times. Thank you!
You don’t know how God just used you in my life right now..thank you Jesus..thank you Alexis
Thank you for the video. I think at times I have felt I was not worthy of other people's time. They say they don't have time to have a conversation with me... I took this personally.
I am not going to take it personally right now. I think that's a helpful response.
Amazing!!!!!!!! Please never delete I will watch this everyday. Thank you for sharing! Thank you for breaking it down so beautifully!
I remember watching this months ago. Glad I came back to re-watch. I feel more comfortably ready to receive this. Thank you!
I need you to make a podcast girl bc oooooo I’d eat that up
Being raised in an asian household my father forced me to achieve excellence in academics all the time & from a very early childhood i attached my self worth to my academical success.....now being in a top Unversity student till date I'm struggling with this cz whenever i Don't shine in my exams i feel terrible... I feel I'm not worthy of love,respect,people’s time i shouldn’t hold any opinion cz I'm not a bright student.... & all this feelings sucks 😭 I'm dealing with them for 23 years...I'm really fade up
Bt this video was really helpful ❤️❤️ lots of love for you from Bangladesh 🇧🇩 I'm feeling better
As cliche as it sounds. I needed this! Last couple days I have fallen back into my old mindset if not feeling worthy, from being trigged. Feeling completely swapped by it and really trying my tactics to bounce me back. THIS helped. Thank you x
I feel like I'm in this place where I need to look at my past and reevaluate myself worth. What at good book, or tools you used to help in your healing journey?? You have truly opened my eyes today to things I was not wanting to deal with, but I need a healthy life change. Thank you, Alexis, for this inspiring video
Thank you for sharing! Spending time with yourself without distraction is a HUGE one, like journaling, meditating, a long walk and just being with yourself 🤍
I know you weren’t asking me but I recommend the book “you are a badass” basic but so helpful for me🤎🤎
@@victoriaelisapeta Thank you for the title. I will definitely give it a read. I need resources
@@Alexissparks What additional books have you read to help you in you self worth journey.
@@letitiaboykin1973 what to say when you talk to yourself
Before I say anything more,
*I just have to say you are such a kind and shimmering soul that clearly brings a lot of light to those people around you. just watching your video, I saw a confident, fierce and empowered woman owning every part of herself and being proud of it.*
The media, I feel, has tricked everyone into believing that what we should desire in life is: to conform to society. That can look like a lot of things but for girls in-particular I see that as being skinny, popular, in some ways white-washed through our appearance, communication, behaviour etc. As a young person of colour ( I'm only a 14yr old girl 😅) I desired those things. So much to the point where I idolised it which led me down a long road of mental health problems that came very close to killing me. When I look back now, I see things for what they are, not their sugar-coatings. But I've really been trying to expose myself to woman who will empower me and make me a strong character and you are one of those key persons I've come across. I'm 100% subscribing ❤ Just thank you for being you unapologetically. I wish people like you had bigger followings and platforms to share your powerful and considerate messages xxx
You're a genius... you breakdown every word. You transitioning and you want us to do same even though it's not easy.... May everything you wish for come to pass 💕😘
I needed to hear this! I also had a discovery that my constant judgment of myself is coming from thinking I'm not enough for anyone/not worth it.
I'm gonna try to implement this in my life and hope I will someday know my worth!
I Love everything you said!
I low-key knew this in the back of my mind but hearing you say it hits different
This is exactly what I needed to hear! Wow thank you for sharing. Very beautiful content, you're very radiant and beautiful, stay encouraged. 🫶🏽💕
One of the most useful videos on UA-cam- well wishes that it reaches more people and we'll wishes to the creator - keep spreading the love ❤
It's illegal to look this gorgeous !!! I love you, keep doing what you do ❤
Out of all the lifestyle junk on this app this is such Gold! Thank you Alexis!
So i was basically watching another youtube video which i searched up n opened for sharing it with a friend n THIS video was in the recommendation
I'm already subscribed to this channel but i never got around this video and there is no way on earth to describe how i feel after watching this video
For 2 years now
I've searched up videos related to the term "feeling unworthy" and i saw almost every video related to the topic but the way this video spoke to me was something else
I'm so grateful for this video and all of your videos actually
Sending lots of good wishes to everyone reading 💙
I really needed this video. I’m going through a period of insecurity and I realised how much I dislike myself
OMMMG I SPEAK ABOUT THIS!!! literally dedicating my youtube to this!!!!
God's time is always best am at a point where I look down on myself because I feel less beautiful having an apple shaped body I get to feel am not worth of anything and just recently I broke up with my guy and it has made me even hate myself more isolate myself depression and all and just yesterday I woke up and told myself am beautiful the way I am and I deserve love respect and am worth and worthy or receiving good things in life. I have never seen you here on youtube but now I open youtube and you're the first I see on my timeline thank you God bless you
Thank you for this video it hit me hard because I’ve been battling with this for years
I’m gonna play this video an repeat because we as people don’t realize that we are not doing this to ourselves.
2 mins into the video I hit the subscribe button. This is amazing. I am definitely going to like, download & keep coming back to it. And yes, all this was decided in just 2 mins. Thank you so much.
Ok thank you first for explaining the differences between self esteem and self worth ❤
Alexis thank you for always having our backs, this came at the right time because Lord knows how we all here suffering in silent, the battle is so hard it feels like it's never gonna end! But it feels good to know im not alone in this so thank you once again ❤
This was a great video. I needed this, thank you.
Wow just what I needed this video brought me to tears
Facts and can I just say I loveeeeeee how straight to the point you were
i first came across this video back in november when it would alwayssss be in my "recommended to watch". i finally watched it in december. I finally understand why it was in my recommended. It was a sign from God. This is honestly the best video on self-worth on the internet. Alexis you explain and describe in detail what self-worth is so well! You explain how those with low self-worth (me) may interprets situations.i know this sounded cringe but This is the one video ive always needed. ive watched this multiple times and have made notes. I'm very sensitive and always take things personally. i have always let peoples' perception of me affect the way i view myself. This video made me start my journey to a healthier way of viewing myself. thank you so much Alexis you literally are a god-send!!
I had to listen to 2 and 3 SSEVERAL times. Thankyou for sharing this
Im so glad I found Your channel! You are beautiful inside out with excellent taste! Beautiful, smart Lady! 🥰
Just changed my number & I’m in a transition period in my life. Blocked everything out that wasn’t serving my purpose, currently looking into some new books/podcasts. Focusing on leveling up my finances & just living my life. I’m dedicating my life to my future self. Just turned 25. I’m feeling good about my future 💜🙏🏾
This is such an amazing video! My life & perspective has changed drastically for the better since I started listening to abraham hicks 3-4 years ago and you worded everything I learned so beautifully in the span of 20 minutes
Sis u got it and it takes work, it don't just come knocking on door..I 🙏🏾 that many are listening
Your content is so inspiring. You are a beautiful person with such an empowering soul. Thank you for sharing this.
This video is like therapy ❤
you really navigated through this rather confusing emotional terrain, beautifully. Thank you.
Subscribed.
These were great reminders and examples. Thank you for sharing. Two quotes I took away from this video are: "I do things for myself because I'm worth it." and Maya Angelou's quote about freedom. Your examples about how we have control within us and not outside factors and others' moods were good insights. I also liked how you said we don't go up to loved ones and say "How can you prove you are worthy to us today," so we shouldn't do that for ourselves.
Thank you for this!!! Oh it felt good. Like a breath of fresh air ❤🫶🏾
I didn't even finish the video to the end and I'm already inspired. I think this is so far the best video ever about self worth.Thank you.💓💞💕
Doing Gods work, you’re incredible i love this - my big sister sent it to me ❤
I'm a CoverGirl. Why?
Because I'm worth it.
Alexis. GIRL! Thank you because I've been feeling like: How? Why? My immediate family told me not to take certain things personal, and I agree - for the most part. However, I am deserving of completing a dream / goals, nice things, and not just cheap or hand-me-downs, every single time. I know exactly where my lack of self-worth started, and it ends with me. I believe in God's Word and what it says about me.
I’m so grateful for the day I came across your page 💛
Immediate subscribe. I will work hard on loving myself and deriving my worth internally and not externally. Thank you so much! ❤
Love your videos Thank You for helping me thru my healing journey
This video is for me. I've suffered from this for years and it's weird on the outside I look like I'm doing well but inside hell to the nah
You look rlly gorgeous in this white dress
Thank you so much!
I really needed this! Yes very very helpful!! I love how you break everything down and how your so relatable, knowing we all go through this in our own way. Such a blessing! Thank you!
I'm glad this was helpful! Thank you for the support 🤍
This video came at the perfect time. Thank you so much. I’m so glad I found your channel. You are truly a light.
Thank you for being practical and realistic in solving unworthiness.
Thank you for this video 🙏🏾🥹
This was such an inspiring video for me can’t wait for a video on self esteem!?
I wish I like this thousand times!
I love this. Over the past couple years, I realized is so many aspects of my life how I subconsciously didn’t feel worthy. Not taking the chance on things I know would better my life and that i CAN have if I go for, repeating relationships that should have only lasted 2 months if i’m honest and staying depleting my energy, self esteem and saying because deep down.. I didn’t feel worthy and believe I can have better. All of these points made over are things that I ultimately had to discover to truly feel emotionally and mentally free.
Really helpful! Instant subscribe, thanks for putting this out here ❤
This video is gold. Thank you ❤
Hey Alexis, this was a really insightful video, I'm really grateful I came across your channel. Could you please do a separate video of all the resources you used to do the inner work, I'd really appreciate that.
Can i just tell you that I have needed , NEEDED this talk. wow. i am in awe and going to process.
Thank you for sharing this. I definitely am feeling a way about my self-worth lately and struggling to to re-calibrate and move forward in a healthy way. Thank you!
Thank you for this video i definitely needed these words 🙏🏾
thank you sooo much for this video! it hit home in my heart, exactly where it needed to be. i always was upset how i kept going back to certain situations and wondering whats wrong with me but our self-worth is definitely filtered through everything else and now i feel like i found the missing key 🔑
Thank you!❤
Definitely something I want to cultivate.
This video should not be free! The amount of gems that were dropped... WHEW. I needed to hear everything you said! Thank you. 💕
This is such a refreshing video 🥺👏🏾thank you sis
You are one of the people that I came across that put the puzzle of my life all together beginning of this year, thank you so much, Alexis!
Girl this what a great video! 💡❤
thank you for this ❤
very helpful, thank you
I love you the big sister I’ve always needed. I appreciate you so much 😘🫶🏻
Alexis, you are a true inspiration! I'm so pleased I found your channel! Thank you for your enlightening content!
Hey @alexis let me start by giving you your flowers 💐 thank you for sharing your life with us and providing very useful advice I love this topic because like u said a lot of ppl r not talking about self sabotage and how to really really change your life for good vs just temporary. These types of videos r the best don’t get me wrong Alexis I love ALL your videos but these ones right here really really hit home for me so thank you 🙏🏾 god bless u babe
A timely message! Thank you.
Thank you so much sis❤
Let me listen and understand before i speak... its something im seeking to find
This is possible the best video I’ve seen of yours. I had to go get my notepad. Thank you and no ads girl you winning
Goodness! ✨ I definitely needed this!!! Thank you a million times! 💜
I love the way you think. I love this so much!!
You hit every point beautifully!
I truly enjoyed/needed this. Thank you! 🙏🏾
Very good information ☺️
So powerful def needed this thank you so much !!! ❤