I've been through so much bs in a short time last year. My relationships I was in really triggered me of where my trauma was coming from. I had enough of people ghosting me, they couldn't make time, inconsistent with communication, not working on the commitment, it was always one sided. It's not easy getting through day by day, because of growing up with the feeling of fear of abandonment from my parents, not being emotionally available for me. I was looking through what I couldn't get from my parents from other people. I just started my healing journey last year in October, so it's helped me open my eyes a lot more and see things clearly why they happened and what they mean. It's hard to even trust people nowadays. I hope I deserve to be with someone who won't hurt me, and who's willing to get through their trauma too, instead of projecting it. These type of videos help so much, on my time off during work. ♥
I'm glad my videos have been helpful for you and it's great you've learned so much about yourself in the process. You certainly deserve to be with someone who's going to be consistent and compassionate. Wish you the best of luck on your healing journey and hope my content continues to provide insight and clarity along the way :)
My ex was very stressed out on a constant basis because she is 5 grand in debt from tons of loans she’s had to take out to support herself and her son (pay rent, gas, etc). Everyone her stressors from money became too much she would always try to distance herself from me, tell me we should be together because she’s not stable, and would often try to break up or threaten to break up. It all makes much more sense now that she equates having money with having a sense of worthiness and how whenever I would try to give her affection she was unable to take much of it from me and would push me away. For such a long time I never realized it was that deep for her, but it makes sooooooo much more sense now! This has been the BIGGEST reason why we are apart right now. I wish she had told me this months ago. I could’ve prepared and learned more about this. This podcast was amazing! Thank you!
would be really good if you could make a video about how to heal from unhealthy attachment that's shortened! Edit: watching this long version is super helpful actually, did not realize how much of a role managing emotions around money played in my recent breakup
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I've been through so much bs in a short time last year. My relationships I was in really triggered me of where my trauma was coming from. I had enough of people ghosting me, they couldn't make time, inconsistent with communication, not working on the commitment, it was always one sided. It's not easy getting through day by day, because of growing up with the feeling of fear of abandonment from my parents, not being emotionally available for me. I was looking through what I couldn't get from my parents from other people. I just started my healing journey last year in October, so it's helped me open my eyes a lot more and see things clearly why they happened and what they mean. It's hard to even trust people nowadays. I hope I deserve to be with someone who won't hurt me, and who's willing to get through their trauma too, instead of projecting it.
These type of videos help so much, on my time off during work. ♥
I'm glad my videos have been helpful for you and it's great you've learned so much about yourself in the process. You certainly deserve to be with someone who's going to be consistent and compassionate. Wish you the best of luck on your healing journey and hope my content continues to provide insight and clarity along the way :)
My ex was very stressed out on a constant basis because she is 5 grand in debt from tons of loans she’s had to take out to support herself and her son (pay rent, gas, etc). Everyone her stressors from money became too much she would always try to distance herself from me, tell me we should be together because she’s not stable, and would often try to break up or threaten to break up. It all makes much more sense now that she equates having money with having a sense of worthiness and how whenever I would try to give her affection she was unable to take much of it from me and would push me away. For such a long time I never realized it was that deep for her, but it makes sooooooo much more sense now! This has been the BIGGEST reason why we are apart right now. I wish she had told me this months ago. I could’ve prepared and learned more about this.
This podcast was amazing! Thank you!
would be really good if you could make a video about how to heal from unhealthy attachment that's shortened!
Edit: watching this long version is super helpful actually, did not realize how much of a role managing emotions around money played in my recent breakup