Hedonic Adaptation | Why You'll Never Have Enough In Life

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  • @samrandomguy4864
    @samrandomguy4864 4 місяці тому +8

    "You are going to be okay, not because I told you so, but because 'okay' is where we'll all end up."

  • @dineshkundnani3903
    @dineshkundnani3903 Рік тому +27

    There is a Trick to prolong the Happier state - Conscious Gratitude. Its almost 2 yrs i bought my bike , but it seems quite new , coz many times i spend few seconds in Appreciation and Gratitude b4 starting my ride .
    And for Unhappy events , knowing about Hedonic Adaptation helps , knowing that howmuch ever these emotions seem Intense and Permanent , return to our Baseline is already Underway.

    • @rajeshjsl
      @rajeshjsl 7 місяців тому +2

      Good way to put the negative ones.

    • @sambhavkapoor26
      @sambhavkapoor26 2 місяці тому +2

      that is so true you should take this free course on happiness by yale called the science of wellbeing it mentions hedonic adaptations and gratitude is given as one of its solution(not a promotion or anything i just took this course and loved it)

  • @micahnewsome270
    @micahnewsome270 Рік тому +6

    i recently found the brazilian phrase tudo passa which translates to everything passes. i live by this because it is a firm reminder that when bad things happen they will eventually pass but also that when great things happen to enjoy them because they don’t last forever.

  • @BRM101
    @BRM101 2 роки тому +51

    Don’t chase happiness seek contentment 🙂

    • @flyingchimp12
      @flyingchimp12 2 роки тому

      That’s actually a great point

    • @NickYates0
      @NickYates0 Рік тому +7

      I’m not sure exactly how you interpret this but base off I what I think you are saying I’ll give my opinion. In short, I disagree. Contentment is the opposite is the opposite of happiness. While happiness is defined differently by everyone it’s hard to say what “happiness” truly is. I think you come closest to happiness by pursuing meaningful personal goals and becoming “better” than you were yesterday. It’s human nature to chase what you don’t have, build towards what you currently have not, and vision a better future. Seeing progress towards your ideal self/goals gives you a feeling of progress(some would say happiness) and accomplishment which if you continue this path I think your baseline happiness increases but if you don’t pursue a better version of yourself and/or future and are content with who you are today you sacrifice what could be which ultimately leads to regret.

  • @jryce
    @jryce Рік тому +18

    this is why they say "journey, not the destination" because the emotion at the destination (good or bad) returns us back to baseline. so how we feel with our experiences (appreciating that) is what matter most

  • @grainofsalt-r2v
    @grainofsalt-r2v 2 роки тому +22

    Happiness is fleeting, what I want is peace.

    • @BRM101
      @BRM101 2 роки тому +3

      And contentment 🙂

    • @grainofsalt-r2v
      @grainofsalt-r2v 2 роки тому +2

      @@BRM101 "contentment is a treasure that is never exhausted"

  • @slkjvlkfsvnlsdfhgdght5447
    @slkjvlkfsvnlsdfhgdght5447 Рік тому +4

    i agree with thw conclusion: basically, if it won't matter anyways, then don't stress out over the next big thing

  • @Krod4321
    @Krod4321 10 місяців тому +3

    There are some things that can raise your baseline. 1. Spending time with loved ones, humans or animals. 2. Progress in anything you choose, hobby, goal etc. 3. Gratitude count your blessings every hour on the hour. 4. Be present and when you can't question your interpretation of what's happening if it's negative replace with positive/grateful interpretation. 5. Be of service to others, find anyone less fortunate than you and help them in some way. These will definitely raise your baseline.

  • @ggghgf885
    @ggghgf885 2 роки тому +5

    That's so truee because money can bring you only momentary happiness which after some limited time it will vanish

  • @ImpeccableWizard
    @ImpeccableWizard Рік тому +1

    This is a thing that I figured out when I was 13. And that was perhaps 20 years ago or so. Sure, I did not know what to name it back then but it seems like it is the same thing

  • @Volonanostress
    @Volonanostress 2 роки тому +13

    Happiness is variable, momentary, meaning is forever

  • @thomass1891
    @thomass1891 9 днів тому

    I don’t know how I ended up here, but I achieved many things in life: became a millionaire in my early 20s, bought a nice house in the hills of LA, bought my dream car, dated some of the most beautiful women around, traveled to over 30 countries, helped my parents and siblings financially. And yet now I’m in my late 20s, I wake up in the morning feeling completely empty, nothing makes me happy or motivated.

  • @v.k.8739
    @v.k.8739 Рік тому

    at some point in life you will start half smiling to the strangers, knowing that their frowning is caused by not knowing what you know

  • @johntu7484
    @johntu7484 2 місяці тому

    I appreciate the idea of hedonic adaptation, I think it's often used as an excuse to justify complacency. The notion that we always return to a "baseline" of happiness can actually discourage people from pursuing bigger dreams or taking risks. Sure, adapting is part of life, but isn't it also about growth and change? If we accept that nothing can elevate our happiness in a lasting way, it feels like we’re just settling. Maybe instead of focusing on maintaining a happiness baseline, we should aim to redefine and continuously raise what that baseline can be through meaningful goals and experiences.

  • @nasserabdallah1353
    @nasserabdallah1353 6 місяців тому

    "لكي لا تأسوا علي ما فاتكم و لا تفرحوا بما أتاكم" سورة الحديد آية ٢٣

  • @arianamontgomery2139
    @arianamontgomery2139 6 місяців тому

    Some studies show that EXPERIENCES can influence the height and length of those curves more than MATERIAL ITEMS, which cause small quick passing bumps

  • @realdealholyfield-dx3bf
    @realdealholyfield-dx3bf 5 місяців тому

    "For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.
    And having food and raiment let us be there with content."

  • @Ahmed.Elkholy1
    @Ahmed.Elkholy1 2 роки тому +10

    Baseline of happiness called satisfaction

    • @dman7106
      @dman7106 2 роки тому

      I cant get no….🎵

    • @FactsCountdown
      @FactsCountdown Рік тому +2

      No it's called boredom and unsatisfactory nature

  • @pranavsharma3915
    @pranavsharma3915 Рік тому +1

    Great Explanation

  • @grainofsalt-r2v
    @grainofsalt-r2v 2 роки тому +12

    This is why "the pursuit of happiness" is foolish

  • @assarlannerborn9342
    @assarlannerborn9342 6 місяців тому

    in other words. if you experience a lot of fluctuations in mental state frequent but minor, sure you will experience more temporary happiness, but i find that the constant negatives utweights the the positives and its almost like your baseline has lowered.

  • @scottlennon9714
    @scottlennon9714 3 роки тому +5

    Once a lemon always a lemon

  • @buzztrucker
    @buzztrucker Рік тому +1

    Why try to pursue happiness when you can have JOY.

  • @squamish4244
    @squamish4244 5 місяців тому

    In the USA, the amount of space per household available to each person has _doubled_ in the past 50 years, while distant vacations and luxury spending have become much more common, even expected among the middle class and up. Spending on food as a percentage of the budget is about 3/f of what it was then, and luxury food item spending is common.
    Yet I hear a lot of talk about the declining standard of living in the USA, and the shrinking of the middle class. Relative to the past 20 years, yes. But not relative to the very high levels (compared to most of the rest of the world) of the 1990s and previously, and not relative to most of the rest of the world.

  • @matiasbogado9444
    @matiasbogado9444 Рік тому

    I love this, I so simply great video

  • @lelab360-tomphotography3
    @lelab360-tomphotography3 Рік тому +1

    Hmm, I find this very frustrating in a way, quite unfair: what can people with a “low baseline” do? Nothing, just accept that they’re more or less depressed / low mood all the time?

    • @Krod4321
      @Krod4321 10 місяців тому

      There are some things that can raise your baseline. 1. Spending time with loved ones, humans or animals. 2. Progress in anything you choose, hobby, goal etc. 3. Gratitude count your blessings every hour on the hour. 4. Be present and when you can't question your interpretation of what's happening if it's negative replace with positive/grateful interpretation. 5. Be of service to others, find anyone less fortunate than you and help them in some way. These will definitely raise your baseline.

    • @Danuxsy
      @Danuxsy 10 місяців тому

      Life is unfair

    • @Krod4321
      @Krod4321 10 місяців тому

      @@Danuxsy IT can be, but the good news is you will adapt to the unfairness.

  • @gastroacid1971
    @gastroacid1971 5 днів тому

    Why comparing yourself to people below you is always helpful.

  • @victorfranca85
    @victorfranca85 15 днів тому

    Were the tests done in Massachusetts?

  • @EmilyS2o2
    @EmilyS2o2 Рік тому +1

    literally why i quit every single job

  • @mentiquebakabila4254
    @mentiquebakabila4254 2 роки тому +1

    Doesn’t seem make much sense to me, there been things that made me feel much better and it lasted months - then it’s just stops working completely - even if I spend years not doing it and then return to it only to find out I don’t enjoy it nearly as much as I once did - and I gave it good several hours

    • @whateveridc6525
      @whateveridc6525 2 роки тому +3

      It is because you have to actively escape hedonic treadmill and it fluctuates overtime. Age, experience, circumstances, mindset evolve priorities and gratification overtime. What you perhaps enjoyed at 15 will not be as pleasurable at 60.

  • @HazzyFcrazy
    @HazzyFcrazy Рік тому +3

    The reason this doesn’t bother me is cause if you drop 1 million dollars on me right now I’m literally gonna live a vastly superior life than if I didn’t have it. EVEN if the time between the happy moments returns to neutral the superior number of happy moments trump the less than I’d have without the millions

    • @mattdeclas
      @mattdeclas Рік тому +1

      you can find that same happiness without needing something in particular that is holding you back from being happy

    • @HazzyFcrazy
      @HazzyFcrazy Рік тому

      @@mattdeclas how?

    • @Wolffanghurricane
      @Wolffanghurricane Рік тому

      @@mattdeclassounds like philosophical nonsense detached from practical reality

  • @Zach-nv4ul
    @Zach-nv4ul 6 місяців тому

    My baseline of happiness is my dog 😊

  • @kyther7926
    @kyther7926 2 роки тому

    this channel is amazing!

  • @alshimasalah1813
    @alshimasalah1813 3 роки тому

    Great 😃 topic

  • @leomega
    @leomega 7 місяців тому

    That’s why I move every 6 months

  • @slkjvlkfsvnlsdfhgdght5447
    @slkjvlkfsvnlsdfhgdght5447 Рік тому

    i don't know, i have to say that for me yhis adaptive effect isn't really that strong

  • @sherryxia8362
    @sherryxia8362 8 місяців тому

    But maybe if you keep having good things happen to you, you won't ever have to return to the baseline.

  • @kingzingo1784
    @kingzingo1784 Рік тому +1

    So then I could literally kill someone, go to prison for life, and still be just as happy if I were rich and famous?

    • @jryce
      @jryce Рік тому

      money is a superficial value, whereas killing someone is a profound destruction of your morality

  • @maillardsbearcat
    @maillardsbearcat 8 місяців тому

    So what do people do when after all their success they're still miserable? Lord it over others who are not as successful

  • @_XY_
    @_XY_ 2 роки тому

    👏👏

  • @arsitank6561
    @arsitank6561 2 роки тому +1

    Nothing is eternal

    • @FinalBoss429
      @FinalBoss429 2 роки тому +1

      The hereafter is though

    • @kingzingo1784
      @kingzingo1784 Рік тому

      ​@@FinalBoss429There is none

    • @Wolffanghurricane
      @Wolffanghurricane Рік тому

      @@kingzingo1784There is 😂 I'll never understand materialists trying to talk philosophically when you believe you're just a meat robot, afterall from a meat robot point of view don't you think humans could just be reprogrammed? Lmao

    • @Danuxsy
      @Danuxsy 10 місяців тому

      He is right, there is no hereafter and yes we can reprogram homo sapiens, it's known as CRISPR-cas9 @@Wolffanghurricane

  • @_XY_
    @_XY_ 2 роки тому

    Giacomo Leopardi

  • @_XY_
    @_XY_ 2 роки тому

    Elon musk too

  • @_XY_
    @_XY_ 2 роки тому +1

    Humans in a nutshell

  • @plantslove.4226
    @plantslove.4226 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you 💕 very helpful video.
    I pray for that;
    "May ALLAH ALMIGHTY Bestow With HIS ETERNAL BLESSINGS AMEEN SUMAAMEEN."
    💐💐💐💐🌿🌿🌿

  • @Feelmetal
    @Feelmetal 4 місяці тому

    tldr theres no point